Press "Enter" to skip to content

Finding Your Own Champion | Shikha Uberoi | TEDxBandra


champion that’s a word that I grew up

champion that’s a word that I grew up with my dad would come home from the

with my dad would come home from the

with my dad would come home from the office and I’d charge you know running

office and I’d charge you know running

office and I’d charge you know running into him being a tiny tot play a game

into him being a tiny tot play a game

into him being a tiny tot play a game called hips with him he would lift me up

called hips with him he would lift me up

called hips with him he would lift me up settle me down take me by the shoulders

settle me down take me by the shoulders

settle me down take me by the shoulders and say champion I didn’t really know

and say champion I didn’t really know

and say champion I didn’t really know what the definition of champion was and

what the definition of champion was and

what the definition of champion was and what he was getting at but I felt a

what he was getting at but I felt a

what he was getting at but I felt a sense of pride I said I felt a sense of

sense of pride I said I felt a sense of

sense of pride I said I felt a sense of empowerment and a limitless ability when

empowerment and a limitless ability when

empowerment and a limitless ability when he used that word with me I went on and

he used that word with me I went on and

he used that word with me I went on and my entire family went on to pursue

my entire family went on to pursue

my entire family went on to pursue professional tennis

professional tennis

professional tennis I grew up between Mumbai India and

I grew up between Mumbai India and

I grew up between Mumbai India and Princeton New Jersey and then we did the

Princeton New Jersey and then we did the

Princeton New Jersey and then we did the big plunge and went for those tennis

big plunge and went for those tennis

big plunge and went for those tennis academies in Florida splitting our

academies in Florida splitting our

academies in Florida splitting our family between two different homes five

family between two different homes five

family between two different homes five girls two parents two different homes

girls two parents two different homes

girls two parents two different homes the family committed just making sure

the family committed just making sure

the family committed just making sure that my younger sister Nia and I

that my younger sister Nia and I

that my younger sister Nia and I succeeded in playing world-class

succeeded in playing world-class

succeeded in playing world-class professional tennis so naturally I

professional tennis so naturally I

professional tennis so naturally I thought champion meant champion and

thought champion meant champion and

thought champion meant champion and tennis therefore I could equated my

tennis therefore I could equated my

tennis therefore I could equated my success with tennis and that I had to

success with tennis and that I had to

success with tennis and that I had to win a Grand Slam and that I had to be

win a Grand Slam and that I had to be

win a Grand Slam and that I had to be number one in the world to fulfill the

number one in the world to fulfill the

number one in the world to fulfill the definition my father lovingly called me

definition my father lovingly called me

definition my father lovingly called me champion through a lot of downs and ups

champion through a lot of downs and ups

champion through a lot of downs and ups and downs again I tried I sincerely

and downs again I tried I sincerely

and downs again I tried I sincerely tried I got to top 100 in the world I

tried I got to top 100 in the world I

tried I got to top 100 in the world I won us a silver medal at Asian Games in

won us a silver medal at Asian Games in

won us a silver medal at Asian Games in 2006 and then started to slow down

2006 and then started to slow down

2006 and then started to slow down things weren’t feeling right I didn’t

things weren’t feeling right I didn’t

things weren’t feeling right I didn’t necessarily have that burning desire to

necessarily have that burning desire to

necessarily have that burning desire to want to win anymore

want to win anymore

want to win anymore chasing a fuzzy yellow tennis ball got

chasing a fuzzy yellow tennis ball got

chasing a fuzzy yellow tennis ball got very redundant

very redundant

very redundant playing the same girls over and over

playing the same girls over and over

playing the same girls over and over again in various glamorous locations

again in various glamorous locations

again in various glamorous locations actually got boring from the outside it

actually got boring from the outside it

actually got boring from the outside it might seem beautiful and might seem

might seem beautiful and might seem

might seem beautiful and might seem really romantic big lights big stadiums

really romantic big lights big stadiums

really romantic big lights big stadiums a celebrity lifestyle but it does get

a celebrity lifestyle but it does get

a celebrity lifestyle but it does get redundant and for someone like me who

redundant and for someone like me who

redundant and for someone like me who felt that I wasn’t a part of the larger

felt that I wasn’t a part of the larger

felt that I wasn’t a part of the larger conversation who wasn’t a part of the

conversation who wasn’t a part of the

conversation who wasn’t a part of the world on some level and really had a lot

world on some level and really had a lot

world on some level and really had a lot more to give I started to find out that

more to give I started to find out that

more to give I started to find out that that definition of champion was no

that definition of champion was no

that definition of champion was no longer mine and mind you it wasn’t easy

longer mine and mind you it wasn’t easy

longer mine and mind you it wasn’t easy you know we did the big shift the whole

you know we did the big shift the whole

you know we did the big shift the whole family got involved and now for me to

family got involved and now for me to

family got involved and now for me to betray this whole mission and vision

betray this whole mission and vision

betray this whole mission and vision took a long time for me to really own

took a long time for me to really own

took a long time for me to really own and I believe it was on one of my

and I believe it was on one of my

and I believe it was on one of my comeback matches and hot El Paso

comeback matches and hot El Paso

comeback matches and hot El Paso like 140 degree weather in a small ITF

like 140 degree weather in a small ITF

like 140 degree weather in a small ITF tournament that goes parallel to

tournament that goes parallel to

tournament that goes parallel to Wimbledon which I was just playing two

Wimbledon which I was just playing two

Wimbledon which I was just playing two years before but I had to make a

years before but I had to make a

years before but I had to make a comeback because I lost my ranking

comeback because I lost my ranking

comeback because I lost my ranking starting all over again and extremely

starting all over again and extremely

starting all over again and extremely bored on the court bored angry

bored on the court bored angry

bored on the court bored angry frustrated and in those backhand down

frustrated and in those backhand down

frustrated and in those backhand down the lines and they didn’t give me that

the lines and they didn’t give me that

the lines and they didn’t give me that pleasure that they used to I realized it

pleasure that they used to I realized it

pleasure that they used to I realized it was time to change it was time to

was time to change it was time to

was time to change it was time to transition as painful as it was going to

transition as painful as it was going to

transition as painful as it was going to be I had to move on I did my freshman

be I had to move on I did my freshman

be I had to move on I did my freshman year at Princeton University in 2000

year at Princeton University in 2000

year at Princeton University in 2000 2001 then took a decade off to pursue

2001 then took a decade off to pursue

2001 then took a decade off to pursue professional tennis and had to make the

professional tennis and had to make the

professional tennis and had to make the difficult decision that it was time to

difficult decision that it was time to

difficult decision that it was time to go back

go back

go back lucky for me I already knew what I

lucky for me I already knew what I

lucky for me I already knew what I wanted to do because there was another

wanted to do because there was another

wanted to do because there was another passion that was burning inside and

passion that was burning inside and

passion that was burning inside and keeping me up at night and waking me up

keeping me up at night and waking me up

keeping me up at night and waking me up in the morning early to journal my ideas

in the morning early to journal my ideas

in the morning early to journal my ideas wanting to create purposeful programming

wanting to create purposeful programming

wanting to create purposeful programming that catalyze change in a hurting world

that catalyze change in a hurting world

that catalyze change in a hurting world in a world where Millennials were

in a world where Millennials were

in a world where Millennials were feeling passionate but a little bit lost

feeling passionate but a little bit lost

feeling passionate but a little bit lost under

under

under where they were supposed to go and how

where they were supposed to go and how

where they were supposed to go and how they were supposed to achieve this cheat

they were supposed to achieve this cheat

they were supposed to achieve this cheat excuse me this change that we need I

excuse me this change that we need I

excuse me this change that we need I told my younger sister Nia who was also

told my younger sister Nia who was also

told my younger sister Nia who was also on the tour with me at that time and

on the tour with me at that time and

on the tour with me at that time and went back and was already in college as

went back and was already in college as

went back and was already in college as she decided to retire from the tour and

she decided to retire from the tour and

she decided to retire from the tour and I said Nia I want to create and really

I said Nia I want to create and really

I said Nia I want to create and really change the world through the medium of

change the world through the medium of

change the world through the medium of television and digital formats and I

television and digital formats and I

television and digital formats and I don’t mind hosting one or two of them

don’t mind hosting one or two of them

don’t mind hosting one or two of them either so she’s a tall you want to be

either so she’s a tall you want to be

either so she’s a tall you want to be like the Oprah of India I said sure

like the Oprah of India I said sure

like the Oprah of India I said sure she’s okay she could Edie you’re going

she’s okay she could Edie you’re going

she’s okay she could Edie you’re going to be Oprah Chopra let’s do this so I

to be Oprah Chopra let’s do this so I

to be Oprah Chopra let’s do this so I decided to go back to college and going

decided to go back to college and going

decided to go back to college and going back as a 27 year old was not exactly

back as a 27 year old was not exactly

back as a 27 year old was not exactly easy when my classmates were about 17

easy when my classmates were about 17

easy when my classmates were about 17 and 18 and it was extra tough when my

and 18 and it was extra tough when my

and 18 and it was extra tough when my sophomore year they called me chica dee

sophomore year they called me chica dee

sophomore year they called me chica dee dee then my junior year they were

dee then my junior year they were

dee then my junior year they were calling me Chacon auntie and then by

calling me Chacon auntie and then by

calling me Chacon auntie and then by senior year I became da dee I don’t know

senior year I became da dee I don’t know

senior year I became da dee I don’t know how I aged that fast but they were

how I aged that fast but they were

how I aged that fast but they were always teasing me but during my three

always teasing me but during my three

always teasing me but during my three years the second part of my career at

years the second part of my career at

years the second part of my career at Princeton I explored everything I didn’t

Princeton I explored everything I didn’t

Princeton I explored everything I didn’t have to take six classes I only had to

have to take six classes I only had to

have to take six classes I only had to take three or four but I did I didn’t

take three or four but I did I didn’t

take three or four but I did I didn’t have to run for president I didn’t have

have to run for president I didn’t have

have to run for president I didn’t have to start clubs and really stretch my

to start clubs and really stretch my

to start clubs and really stretch my mind and go beyond knowing the world

mind and go beyond knowing the world

mind and go beyond knowing the world that I knew with these blinders in this

that I knew with these blinders in this

that I knew with these blinders in this myopic view of what I was supposed to be

myopic view of what I was supposed to be

myopic view of what I was supposed to be as a tennis player and on that Princeton

as a tennis player and on that Princeton

as a tennis player and on that Princeton campus and everything it gave me and

campus and everything it gave me and

campus and everything it gave me and everything I gave back to it I became a

everything I gave back to it I became a

everything I gave back to it I became a champion more so there than on a tennis

champion more so there than on a tennis

champion more so there than on a tennis court I wrote my thesis on Satyamev

court I wrote my thesis on Satyamev

court I wrote my thesis on Satyamev Jayate day I made six short documentary

Jayate day I made six short documentary

Jayate day I made six short documentary films as well on unsung heroes and made

films as well on unsung heroes and made

films as well on unsung heroes and made the show that originally was called

the show that originally was called

the show that originally was called world heroes and the India launch was

world heroes and the India launch was

world heroes and the India launch was called gone Banega hero which then

called gone Banega hero which then

called gone Banega hero which then turned into the real deal the real deal

turned into the real deal the real deal

turned into the real deal the real deal for me was one of the most defining

for me was one of the most defining

for me was one of the most defining moments of fulfillment that I’ve ever

moments of fulfillment that I’ve ever

moments of fulfillment that I’ve ever felt in my life it was a show on social

felt in my life it was a show on social

felt in my life it was a show on social entrepreneurs one of who you’ll be

entrepreneurs one of who you’ll be

entrepreneurs one of who you’ll be hearing from later today

hearing from later today

hearing from later today start on the show as well and it was

start on the show as well and it was

start on the show as well and it was about finding them featuring them and

about finding them featuring them and

about finding them featuring them and funding them but more importantly I was

funding them but more importantly I was

funding them but more importantly I was able to enable them I was enabled I was

able to enable them I was enabled I was

able to enable them I was enabled I was able to enable an ecosystem that was so

able to enable an ecosystem that was so

able to enable an ecosystem that was so powerful and so meaningful and so needed

powerful and so meaningful and so needed

powerful and so meaningful and so needed it was everything I wanted to do and be

it was everything I wanted to do and be

it was everything I wanted to do and be side by side with that an opportunity to

side by side with that an opportunity to

side by side with that an opportunity to co-found a tech startup and mind you I

co-found a tech startup and mind you I

co-found a tech startup and mind you I didn’t do very well in technology

didn’t do very well in technology

didn’t do very well in technology classes at Princeton but the point was

classes at Princeton but the point was

classes at Princeton but the point was that I believed that I could do

that I believed that I could do

that I believed that I could do everything and anything I wanted to be

everything and anything I wanted to be

everything and anything I wanted to be and do and I started to understand what

and do and I started to understand what

and do and I started to understand what my father when we played hips together

my father when we played hips together

my father when we played hips together and we did all these fun games together

and we did all these fun games together

and we did all these fun games together he was talking about champion right he

he was talking about champion right he

he was talking about champion right he wasn’t necessarily talking about tennis

wasn’t necessarily talking about tennis

wasn’t necessarily talking about tennis he was talking about empowering telling

he was talking about empowering telling

he was talking about empowering telling me Shikha you can do and be anything you

me Shikha you can do and be anything you

me Shikha you can do and be anything you want to be luckily as Ajith was saying

want to be luckily as Ajith was saying

want to be luckily as Ajith was saying earlier I was born into the parent

earlier I was born into the parent

earlier I was born into the parent lottery so being able to transition from

lottery so being able to transition from

lottery so being able to transition from professional tennis to Princeton

professional tennis to Princeton

professional tennis to Princeton University to making TV shows and now

University to making TV shows and now

University to making TV shows and now co-founding a tech startup called Indy

co-founding a tech startup called Indy

co-founding a tech startup called Indy comm has been I would say significantly

comm has been I would say significantly

comm has been I would say significantly easier for me than it is for someone

easier for me than it is for someone

easier for me than it is for someone maybe coming from India unincorporated I

maybe coming from India unincorporated I

maybe coming from India unincorporated I get asked a lot how did you transition

get asked a lot how did you transition

get asked a lot how did you transition from tennis to entrepreneurship and I

from tennis to entrepreneurship and I

from tennis to entrepreneurship and I don’t think it’s quite as big a leap as

don’t think it’s quite as big a leap as

don’t think it’s quite as big a leap as people might think it is the values a

people might think it is the values a

people might think it is the values a professional tennis player takes on from

professional tennis player takes on from

professional tennis player takes on from hard work and resilience and persistence

hard work and resilience and persistence

hard work and resilience and persistence and a lot of losing a lot of innovation

and a lot of losing a lot of innovation

and a lot of losing a lot of innovation on the ground quickly moving and

on the ground quickly moving and

on the ground quickly moving and hustling being the product and the CEO

hustling being the product and the CEO

hustling being the product and the CEO of your very own company which is you

of your very own company which is you

of your very own company which is you and the team around you your coaches

and the team around you your coaches

and the team around you your coaches your nutritionists and what not really

your nutritionists and what not really

your nutritionists and what not really our micro examples of what an enterprise

our micro examples of what an enterprise

our micro examples of what an enterprise looks today for me to be able to

looks today for me to be able to

looks today for me to be able to confidently apply decades of being a

confidently apply decades of being a

confidently apply decades of being a professional tennis player and an

professional tennis player and an

professional tennis player and an aspiring professional tennis player into

aspiring professional tennis player into

aspiring professional tennis player into Indicom has actually been a little bit

Indicom has actually been a little bit

Indicom has actually been a little bit of a seamless transition

of a seamless transition

of a seamless transition I think to wrap up it’s important that I

I think to wrap up it’s important that I

I think to wrap up it’s important that I express that not everybody as Emily WAP

express that not everybody as Emily WAP

express that not everybody as Emily WAP Nick says she’s a multi potential ID and

Nick says she’s a multi potential ID and

Nick says she’s a multi potential ID and she somebody I learned from on a TED

she somebody I learned from on a TED

she somebody I learned from on a TED talk I didn’t realize there was such a

talk I didn’t realize there was such a

talk I didn’t realize there was such a thing but I like to call myself a

thing but I like to call myself a

thing but I like to call myself a multipotentialite because I’m able to do

multipotentialite because I’m able to do

multipotentialite because I’m able to do various things and express myself to

various things and express myself to

various things and express myself to fulfill my entire personhood knowing

fulfill my entire personhood knowing

fulfill my entire personhood knowing full well that I’m more than just a

full well that I’m more than just a

full well that I’m more than just a tennis player despite it being 25 years

tennis player despite it being 25 years

tennis player despite it being 25 years of my life if I can leave you with one

of my life if I can leave you with one

of my life if I can leave you with one message it’s about defining your own

message it’s about defining your own

message it’s about defining your own champion being a champion is about

champion being a champion is about

champion being a champion is about defining who you are with the passions

defining who you are with the passions

defining who you are with the passions and limitless expressions of yourselves

and limitless expressions of yourselves

and limitless expressions of yourselves create your own champion in you be

create your own champion in you be

create your own champion in you be yourself and victory to you thank you

yourself and victory to you thank you

yourself and victory to you thank you [Applause]

”

Be First to Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *