first impression as people we are very aware of how important oppresses first
aware of how important oppresses first
aware of how important oppresses first impression is teenagers like me
impression is teenagers like me
impression is teenagers like me especially know how crucial external
especially know how crucial external
especially know how crucial external appearances are and we put excessive
appearances are and we put excessive
appearances are and we put excessive effort and taking care of our lights but
effort and taking care of our lights but
effort and taking care of our lights but I guess that’s just part of human nature
I guess that’s just part of human nature
I guess that’s just part of human nature so back to the discussion first
so back to the discussion first
so back to the discussion first impression according to research our
impression according to research our
impression according to research our brains amygdala evaluates our appearance
brains amygdala evaluates our appearance
brains amygdala evaluates our appearance if valleys are her friends toward a
if valleys are her friends toward a
if valleys are her friends toward a person with sentence of a second by
person with sentence of a second by
person with sentence of a second by number one appearance number two voice
number one appearance number two voice
number one appearance number two voice and the MER 3 fiction I had a series
and the MER 3 fiction I had a series
and the MER 3 fiction I had a series complex over number two my voice not
complex over number two my voice not
complex over number two my voice not that I was confident over appearance or
that I was confident over appearance or
that I was confident over appearance or diction either but I used to hate my
diction either but I used to hate my
diction either but I used to hate my voice so much because I thought people
voice so much because I thought people
voice so much because I thought people would judge me on the instant they heard
would judge me on the instant they heard
would judge me on the instant they heard it I’ve temporally made some foolish
it I’ve temporally made some foolish
it I’ve temporally made some foolish efforts to hide my voice from other
efforts to hide my voice from other
efforts to hide my voice from other people like trying to avoid phone
people like trying to avoid phone
people like trying to avoid phone conversations I used to reach up
conversations I used to reach up
conversations I used to reach up people’s phone calls concerned that my
people’s phone calls concerned that my
people’s phone calls concerned that my voice would sound stupid over the
voice would sound stupid over the
voice would sound stupid over the speaker the idea that they were Presta
speaker the idea that they were Presta
speaker the idea that they were Presta falls onto the ear and listen to my
falls onto the ear and listen to my
falls onto the ear and listen to my creepy voice mimic range how crazy is
creepy voice mimic range how crazy is
creepy voice mimic range how crazy is that
that
that so here’s another one I really hate
so here’s another one I really hate
so here’s another one I really hate arguing my weird voice so back then when
arguing my weird voice so back then when
arguing my weird voice so back then when I knew that I would get into an argument
I knew that I would get into an argument
I knew that I would get into an argument I would just simply avoid conflict by
I would just simply avoid conflict by
I would just simply avoid conflict by passively are going to others instead of
passively are going to others instead of
passively are going to others instead of expressing my own opinion I didn’t
expressing my own opinion I didn’t
expressing my own opinion I didn’t believe that I could persuade anyone
believe that I could persuade anyone
believe that I could persuade anyone anyways because I was too self-conscious
anyways because I was too self-conscious
anyways because I was too self-conscious of my voice but then one day I was hit
of my voice but then one day I was hit
of my voice but then one day I was hit by a fast Santa realization so I have a
by a fast Santa realization so I have a
by a fast Santa realization so I have a older brother who lives in Seoul and he
older brother who lives in Seoul and he
older brother who lives in Seoul and he often visits us and they go for a spin
often visits us and they go for a spin
often visits us and they go for a spin one on one particular day he built this
one on one particular day he built this
one on one particular day he built this new digital camera and started filming
new digital camera and started filming
new digital camera and started filming me without warning I don’t know his
me without warning I don’t know his
me without warning I don’t know his camera record videos so I
camera record videos so I
camera record videos so I pay much attention to him actually I
pay much attention to him actually I
pay much attention to him actually I never do so I was just being myself
never do so I was just being myself
never do so I was just being myself cleaning my dog trying to have some
cleaning my dog trying to have some
cleaning my dog trying to have some human conversations with the hairy
human conversations with the hairy
human conversations with the hairy creature but then a life-changing moment
creature but then a life-changing moment
creature but then a life-changing moment occurred when my broader pressed play
occurred when my broader pressed play
occurred when my broader pressed play button there’s a panel with a speakers I
button there’s a panel with a speakers I
button there’s a panel with a speakers I heard an unfamiliar beautiful voice of a
heard an unfamiliar beautiful voice of a
heard an unfamiliar beautiful voice of a change room being silly put her little
change room being silly put her little
change room being silly put her little dog ladies and gentlemen I want to ask
dog ladies and gentlemen I want to ask
dog ladies and gentlemen I want to ask you a question ladies and gentlemen I
you a question ladies and gentlemen I
you a question ladies and gentlemen I like to ask Yasha so this is me saying
like to ask Yasha so this is me saying
like to ask Yasha so this is me saying the purpose fine exactly the same does
the purpose fine exactly the same does
the purpose fine exactly the same does this sound like my voice of course it
this sound like my voice of course it
this sound like my voice of course it does why wouldn’t it but not to me it
does why wouldn’t it but not to me it
does why wouldn’t it but not to me it doesn’t
doesn’t
doesn’t I’ve researched this phenomenon as I
I’ve researched this phenomenon as I
I’ve researched this phenomenon as I speak here if you like some vibrations
speak here if you like some vibrations
speak here if you like some vibrations in your throat to your mouth enter your
in your throat to your mouth enter your
in your throat to your mouth enter your eardrums this leads you to hear a lower
eardrums this leads you to hear a lower
eardrums this leads you to hear a lower deeper sound than your actual voice as a
deeper sound than your actual voice as a
deeper sound than your actual voice as a result many people think that their
result many people think that their
result many people think that their record voice sounds weird perhaps even
record voice sounds weird perhaps even
record voice sounds weird perhaps even embarrassing that they never want to
embarrassing that they never want to
embarrassing that they never want to hear again but in my case it was the
hear again but in my case it was the
hear again but in my case it was the complete opposite the voice that I hated
complete opposite the voice that I hated
complete opposite the voice that I hated so much that manly deep unattractive
so much that manly deep unattractive
so much that manly deep unattractive voice sounds just fine drew my brother’s
voice sounds just fine drew my brother’s
voice sounds just fine drew my brother’s camera since that day I’ve become very
camera since that day I’ve become very
camera since that day I’ve become very confident with my voice and started
confident with my voice and started
confident with my voice and started speaking comfortably in front of anyone
speaking comfortably in front of anyone
speaking comfortably in front of anyone I make phone calls sink her okay and
I make phone calls sink her okay and
I make phone calls sink her okay and sometimes engage myself and hit at the
sometimes engage myself and hit at the
sometimes engage myself and hit at the base which I never winning so now the
base which I never winning so now the
base which I never winning so now the question is am I completely satisfied
question is am I completely satisfied
question is am I completely satisfied with myself my answer is still unknown
with myself my answer is still unknown
with myself my answer is still unknown but any teacher I do have other physical
but any teacher I do have other physical
but any teacher I do have other physical complexes that I have imagined today my
complexes that I have imagined today my
complexes that I have imagined today my voice was merely one
voice was merely one
voice was merely one but now I know how to be positive over
but now I know how to be positive over
but now I know how to be positive over my deficiencies I know how to love them
my deficiencies I know how to love them
my deficiencies I know how to love them and I know how to be proud of them I
and I know how to be proud of them I
and I know how to be proud of them I will never again think that others would
will never again think that others would
will never again think that others would judge me and define who I am with my
judge me and define who I am with my
judge me and define who I am with my flaws because I now know that from
flaws because I now know that from
flaws because I now know that from another angle I am the one judging
another angle I am the one judging
another angle I am the one judging myself this is who I am and what I am it
myself this is who I am and what I am it
myself this is who I am and what I am it doesn’t really matter how I’m shaped as
doesn’t really matter how I’m shaped as
doesn’t really matter how I’m shaped as long as I loves myself thank you
long as I loves myself thank you
long as I loves myself thank you [Applause]
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