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Fidarsi ciecamente | Daniele Cassioli | TEDxCastelfrancoVeneto


[Music]

[Music]

Good evening I have to make a request and

ask the blond people of the

auditorium of the hall to raise please

the hand no I always forget that I am

blind from birth and with the hand not

it works very well so I ask the

people

more to my three to say I’m moro 123

very well

I’ll talk to you about trust and think about it tonight

that cool I already trusted you

you could make fun of it

but you did not do it this way

I thank

he could have hidden you maybe behind it

the chair take refuge instead you have

repaid repaid my trust is one

person when he does not see you must for

force to entrust others

we aspire as aspiration

all the people who do not see

autonomy and capacity

to be self-sufficient to be

autonomous also the technologies of which

we have seen an excerpt until now

they help us support us and the problem

but it is that sooner or later in the arc of

day

within a year in the space of one

month a person who does not see must

trust people for those who do not see

challenge yourself to a beautiful turning key

to feel good to get better starting

from the trivial things to trust a person

that advises you how to dress trust you

of a person who tells you the deadline

of the hamburger you have in the fridge to trust

of a person who accompanies you maybe

by the hand and it makes you explain yourself as one

road as a situation you are

living and this is nice because me

I realized that it is very difficult to

trusting people is one thing instead

that I personally must always do

always always always

when I’m in situations too

quiet with friends with mine

acquaintances with everyone are brought

precisely to trust me say that I for

profession I trust all of them blindly

people or many people who

meeting, however, trust is not alone

this trust allowed me to

do things that otherwise I would not do

think try to imagine when

go maybe those of you are in the snow

when you go skiing in the snow and

you are at the top of a mountain

so close to a track ready for

leave but you can not see anything is there

we must truly rely blindly

who is driving us and I think that if not

if I had not learned to do it

I could not do will not be able to ski

so trust is not just one thing

that I’m forced to do for the

daily life but it is also an instrument

that really allows me to do

things you will not have access to

himself in water skiing

the jump when I jump from the tram col

trampoline or a person who me

accompanies up to the ramp at 55 60

kilometers per hour and tells me when

skip if this is not to trust

blindly I really challenge anyone to

explain the concept of trust

really deep even in the

climbing when I tried

climb already for those who see when

one climbs you have a person that you

Keeping the rope makes you safe and then

we trust others for us when we are

cling to a wall to something we have

below a person who tells us to put

the hand here put your hand there and then

even there we really trust who

we have around

and then I thought of why I often do them

people do not trust we are used to

we are everyday too

forced to give confidence it is difficult to

give people confidence because maybe

a person we have to delegate something or

have someone do something in place

our and it’s done

tremendously hard despite giving

trust in added value for us but

it’s also a bit of a boost for

the others

yet we trust every day

when we lose a cab when we take

a bus when we see a plane there

we trust people who do not even

we know and we can not trust it either

we make it much harder to trust us

maybe a colleague a friend of one

relative and this is extraordinary too

at the supermarket we go to buy a

food we trust a series of

people who brought it there who has it

packed kg has cooked anyway who

he has produced it for us we are finishing up

of all these people and we do

it’s hard to trust another, it’s gone

of an exterior that maybe instead

we also know well

yet give confidence and empowerment for

who receives it we think for example to

children a beautiful way for

empower a child and to do

yes, maybe you stop making a tantrum

and let’s say that you listen to us and yes

is responsible and precisely that of

give him child confidence when the

privilege of having our trust the

he defends him with all his strength and

you try with purely trying to behave

truly and focuses everyone concentrates

efforts to avoid disappointing us

to avoid disregarding ours

trust then trust is not

just something that helps us

because it makes life easier for us

example to me it does every day but one

something that empowers others when it is

done sincerely when we give confidence

sincere other people and others

people are much more responsible

they are much more sympathetic in sympathy

with us and with what we are

asking for what we are asking

their

and then now that we have learned

albeit in a short time to entrust us with the

others try to trust us too

themselves

so many times we struggle to trust

we make ourselves conditioned we do

we make ourselves influence from the outside

instead I really invite you to

reflect on this thing and I’ll tell you

a little anecdote that happened to me

because when I decided to do the

physiotherapist I went in

a university and they advised me

I asked, I said I would have said

I wanted to do physiotherapy and the person

who accepted my request matt

howard physiotherapy for those who do not

see for those who do not have the sight is

complicated because you have to be careful with

movement of the patients you must have

of the video exams in short, if you want fi

psychology but physiotherapy

forget it today I decided to

trust me of who I am

of my awareness and then o

knock another door in which to

which I found a positive answer

I was really welcomed and I am

then became road making a

physiotherapist, however, think about how much

it could have changed my life

if I had trusted that if I were not

trust me if I were not if

Daniel had not spoken with the other

part of daniele and they said

each other

I trust I trust each other

I trust you for what you believe I will not have

never a counter-test does not know or will not know

never if this kind of change

that would have been the psychologist

to be clear, it would have been better

worse what can I say that not

it would have been what at that time

I wanted it my life would have been

completely different and so it is

beautiful to think that trust us

allows us to express ourselves expressing that

that we are

allows to express the people to whom

we give trust allows that yes

they express that they express themselves without

the fear perhaps of the judgment or of the

prejudice because when you trust

you feel stronger

you feel much stronger and you feel

projected towards what you want to do

you are not afraid of what you should not

do or can not and should not happen

and at the same time trust us

same is the fulfillment if

we want deeper and wider than

what is trust because we are

putting our own in ourselves

trust and therefore we will be oriented towards

what we want more than driven away

from what we do not want from what

we deny from what we reject and I

I had to do it professionally

because trust has in my life

represented and represents e

It will certainly be a pillar

important aware of the fact that

sincere trust therefore works

really trust people

so that they can enrich ours

life and our existence works

then I hope to be able, in short, to be able to

leave this this thought that me

is very dear to you is suspended

let’s say a life without seeing for

realize it and share it with you

up on how much on how through the

trust you can observe people

because so many times especially in the

schools when I go to talk about those

children who are those who do not

scruples in asking questions and me

they ask but you who do not see the face of

your mother, you who do not see the face of the gods

your parents do not know how it’s made

face like a person made this thing

you do not miss it does not generate you pain and

so I tell them how I say now

that trusting a person is a way

to see her deeply trust

in another person trusting

others

it’s a great way to see them with

other eyes that are probably the

eyes of the heart

[Applause]

[Applause]

no I want to make gianni mansi say

then

here I did well to trust why

you’re still here nobody left

and since I want to trust the last one

time

at least for now, I invite you

you did it to stand up

hug the person you are close to

and say nothing else from today I will trust

more than myself and others

thank you so much I will trust more than me

himself and others

[Applause]

in conclusion

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