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Facing Fears- TEDxNorwichED Junior | Matt Bagley, Mille Honour, Fred Bate | TEDxNorwichED


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fear of course is only a false

fear of course is only a false expectation appearing real and we

expectation appearing real and we

expectation appearing real and we believe that you should challenge that

believe that you should challenge that

believe that you should challenge that expectation wherever you can to see if

expectation wherever you can to see if

expectation wherever you can to see if it’s true so what we did working with

it’s true so what we did working with

it’s true so what we did working with our amazing creative partner doddle was

our amazing creative partner doddle was

our amazing creative partner doddle was we went out into schools and we designed

we went out into schools and we designed

we went out into schools and we designed a program that would for students to

a program that would for students to

a program that would for students to face their number one fear the fear that

face their number one fear the fear that

face their number one fear the fear that they avoid like the plague namely public

they avoid like the plague namely public

they avoid like the plague namely public speaking by the way the number two fear

speaking by the way the number two fear

speaking by the way the number two fear that they avoid like the plague is not

that they avoid like the plague is not

that they avoid like the plague is not avoiding plagues which goes some way to

avoiding plagues which goes some way to

avoiding plagues which goes some way to explain all the colds that I get but

explain all the colds that I get but

explain all the colds that I get but what we asked them to do was do we ask

what we asked them to do was do we ask

what we asked them to do was do we ask them to face their fears and and take on

them to face their fears and and take on

them to face their fears and and take on board public speaking so what we did was

board public speaking so what we did was

board public speaking so what we did was we worked with 225 students and 10

we worked with 225 students and 10

we worked with 225 students and 10 schools over the last six weeks and we

schools over the last six weeks and we

schools over the last six weeks and we asked those schools to pick students who

asked those schools to pick students who

asked those schools to pick students who actively would avoid something like this

actively would avoid something like this

actively would avoid something like this the kind of students that would never

the kind of students that would never

the kind of students that would never put themselves up for anything that had

put themselves up for anything that had

put themselves up for anything that had any risk in it but even more than that

any risk in it but even more than that

any risk in it but even more than that certainly would avoid public speaking

certainly would avoid public speaking

certainly would avoid public speaking and because we really wanted them to

and because we really wanted them to

and because we really wanted them to face their fears we really really put

face their fears we really really put

face their fears we really really put them through it we really put them

them through it we really put them

them through it we really put them through it and we did that for two

through it and we did that for two

through it and we did that for two really good reasons firstly we want to

really good reasons firstly we want to

really good reasons firstly we want to show them that they know more than they

show them that they know more than they

show them that they know more than they think they know and they can do more

think they know and they can do more

think they know and they can do more than they think they can do and secondly

than they think they can do and secondly

than they think they can do and secondly we wanted to show them that just because

we wanted to show them that just because

we wanted to show them that just because something is difficult there is no

something is difficult there is no

something is difficult there is no reason to avoid it in fact you don’t

reason to avoid it in fact you don’t

reason to avoid it in fact you don’t have to be good at something to give it

have to be good at something to give it

have to be good at something to give it a try but you do have to try it to be

a try but you do have to try it to be

a try but you do have to try it to be good at it and after 11 years of

good at it and after 11 years of

good at it and after 11 years of genuinely being a lot luckier than we

genuinely being a lot luckier than we

genuinely being a lot luckier than we are having worked with over a quarter of

are having worked with over a quarter of

are having worked with over a quarter of a million of students I can tell you one

a million of students I can tell you one

a million of students I can tell you one thing that is more important than

thing that is more important than

thing that is more important than anything else I say here today this has

anything else I say here today this has

anything else I say here today this has been the best thing we’ve ever ever done

been the best thing we’ve ever ever done

been the best thing we’ve ever ever done and it’s been the best thing we’ve ever

and it’s been the best thing we’ve ever

and it’s been the best thing we’ve ever ever done for one reason the kids the

ever done for one reason the kids the

ever done for one reason the kids the kids have shown us resilience beyond

kids have shown us resilience beyond

kids have shown us resilience beyond reproach and courage beyond compare they

reproach and courage beyond compare they

reproach and courage beyond compare they have shown us that they are not afraid

have shown us that they are not afraid

have shown us that they are not afraid they’re certainly not afraid to approach

they’re certainly not afraid to approach

they’re certainly not afraid to approach their fears and they’re certainly not

their fears and they’re certainly not

their fears and they’re certainly not try to try new things the only thing

try to try new things the only thing

try to try new things the only thing they are afraid of is trying things

they are afraid of is trying things

they are afraid of is trying things on their own so once we got them to a

on their own so once we got them to a

on their own so once we got them to a place where we can help them understand

place where we can help them understand

place where we can help them understand that their inbuilt biological

that their inbuilt biological

that their inbuilt biological imperatives to protect themselves

imperatives to protect themselves

imperatives to protect themselves actually made public speaking harder not

actually made public speaking harder not

actually made public speaking harder not easier it was genuinely like a weight

easier it was genuinely like a weight

easier it was genuinely like a weight was lifted even the most under confident

was lifted even the most under confident

was lifted even the most under confident children were able to be ready to take

children were able to be ready to take

children were able to be ready to take on the world to prove that point here

on the world to prove that point here

on the world to prove that point here this afternoon we’ve got two of our Ted

this afternoon we’ve got two of our Ted

this afternoon we’ve got two of our Ted junior winners with us and they in a

junior winners with us and they in a

junior winners with us and they in a moment they’re going to current here and

moment they’re going to current here and

moment they’re going to current here and they’re going to take the stage and

they’re going to take the stage and

they’re going to take the stage and they’re going to do a TED talk and

they’re going to do a TED talk and

they’re going to do a TED talk and become some of the world’s youngest ever

become some of the world’s youngest ever

become some of the world’s youngest ever Ted talkers which in and of itself is a

Ted talkers which in and of itself is a

Ted talkers which in and of itself is a fairly daunting prospect and even more

fairly daunting prospect and even more

fairly daunting prospect and even more than that they’re only going to have

than that they’re only going to have

than that they’re only going to have three minutes in which to make their

three minutes in which to make their

three minutes in which to make their point each and here’s the thing even

point each and here’s the thing even

point each and here’s the thing even someone like me can sort of eventually

someone like me can sort of eventually

someone like me can sort of eventually almost make a point in about 11 minutes

almost make a point in about 11 minutes

almost make a point in about 11 minutes trying to say something that is worth

trying to say something that is worth

trying to say something that is worth hearing in three minutes take something

hearing in three minutes take something

hearing in three minutes take something else altogether

else altogether

else altogether now the two students that we’ve chosen

now the two students that we’ve chosen

now the two students that we’ve chosen this afternoon are not naturally gifted

this afternoon are not naturally gifted

this afternoon are not naturally gifted public speakers we chose them for one

public speakers we chose them for one

public speakers we chose them for one reason and one reason alone and nights

reason and one reason alone and nights

reason and one reason alone and nights that they took the biggest step outside

that they took the biggest step outside

that they took the biggest step outside of their comfort zone to make their

of their comfort zone to make their

of their comfort zone to make their comfort zone bigger because we reward

comfort zone bigger because we reward

comfort zone bigger because we reward effort never Talent so what we’ve got

effort never Talent so what we’ve got

effort never Talent so what we’ve got this afternoon is Millie from fete foot

this afternoon is Millie from fete foot

this afternoon is Millie from fete foot Academy and Fred from Wayland Academy

Academy and Fred from Wayland Academy

Academy and Fred from Wayland Academy Millie is going to talk to you about

Millie is going to talk to you about

Millie is going to talk to you about inspiring her generation and Fred from

inspiring her generation and Fred from

inspiring her generation and Fred from Wayland Academy he’s going to talk to

Wayland Academy he’s going to talk to

Wayland Academy he’s going to talk to you about inspiring our generation but I

you about inspiring our generation but I

you about inspiring our generation but I would like you to think that you would

would like you to think that you would

would like you to think that you would agree that whatever they say and however

agree that whatever they say and however

agree that whatever they say and however they say it they’re already incredibly

they say it they’re already incredibly

they say it they’re already incredibly inspiring just for getting up here today

inspiring just for getting up here today

inspiring just for getting up here today because it’s only a few steps to come up

because it’s only a few steps to come up

because it’s only a few steps to come up here on this stage but it is a long long

here on this stage but it is a long long

here on this stage but it is a long long way from where they started ladies and

way from where they started ladies and

way from where they started ladies and gentlemen it gives me nothing but

gentlemen it gives me nothing but

gentlemen it gives me nothing but pleasure to introduce you to my friends

pleasure to introduce you to my friends

pleasure to introduce you to my friends Millie and Fred thank you

there’s only a few weeks ago that I was

there’s only a few weeks ago that I was just a normal high school student bring

just a normal high school student bring

just a normal high school student bring invisible to most never doing anything

invisible to most never doing anything

invisible to most never doing anything to attract attention all of a sudden

to attract attention all of a sudden

to attract attention all of a sudden being picked by Matt to do a TED talk in

being picked by Matt to do a TED talk in

being picked by Matt to do a TED talk in front of a huge audience with my video

front of a huge audience with my video

front of a huge audience with my video being placed on YouTube for potentially

being placed on YouTube for potentially

being placed on YouTube for potentially thousands of people to see it was crazy

thousands of people to see it was crazy

thousands of people to see it was crazy I’m a nervous person so when I was asked

I’m a nervous person so when I was asked

I’m a nervous person so when I was asked to do this talk I care about – Matt and

to do this talk I care about – Matt and

to do this talk I care about – Matt and I shook his hand I was like yeah yeah

I shook his hand I was like yeah yeah

I shook his hand I was like yeah yeah this is a great idea we’re gonna do it

this is a great idea we’re gonna do it

this is a great idea we’re gonna do it I’ll do it in my head I was like no too

I’ll do it in my head I was like no too

I’ll do it in my head I was like no too scary not doing that but I’m here now

scary not doing that but I’m here now

scary not doing that but I’m here now I’m a very nervous person which I’ve

I’m a very nervous person which I’ve

I’m a very nervous person which I’ve just said so I’m trying my best not to

just said so I’m trying my best not to

just said so I’m trying my best not to show it right now I’m like absolutely

show it right now I’m like absolutely

show it right now I’m like absolutely terrified but to begin with ask myself a

terrified but to begin with ask myself a

terrified but to begin with ask myself a question what do I do now I’d seen the

question what do I do now I’d seen the

question what do I do now I’d seen the other stalkers do this so many times and

other stalkers do this so many times and

other stalkers do this so many times and I thought to myself how would they do it

I thought to myself how would they do it

I thought to myself how would they do it I’m guessing there write scripts and

I’m guessing there write scripts and

I’m guessing there write scripts and they rehearse over and over and over

they rehearse over and over and over

they rehearse over and over and over again and they make notes and they just

again and they make notes and they just

again and they make notes and they just continue to keep doing it and practice

continue to keep doing it and practice

continue to keep doing it and practice and practice and practice and that’s

and practice and practice and that’s

and practice and practice and that’s exactly what I did I did it the way that

exactly what I did I did it the way that

exactly what I did I did it the way that I thought that they would do it here’s

I thought that they would do it here’s

I thought that they would do it here’s the thing that wasn’t really working for

the thing that wasn’t really working for

the thing that wasn’t really working for me I was panicking because I couldn’t

me I was panicking because I couldn’t

me I was panicking because I couldn’t say everything in the right order I was

say everything in the right order I was

say everything in the right order I was panicking because I messed up words and

panicking because I messed up words and

panicking because I messed up words and I didn’t get things right and I was a

I didn’t get things right and I was a

I didn’t get things right and I was a mess so I stopped and I thought to

mess so I stopped and I thought to

mess so I stopped and I thought to myself how would I do this i sat with

myself how would I do this i sat with

myself how would I do this i sat with Matt and I sat with my family got a good

Matt and I sat with my family got a good

Matt and I sat with my family got a good talk about and we dismissed the scripts

talk about and we dismissed the scripts

talk about and we dismissed the scripts we dismissed the notes and I just

we dismissed the notes and I just

we dismissed the notes and I just improvised I made things up as I went

improvised I made things up as I went

improvised I made things up as I went along and it was beginning to seem more

along and it was beginning to seem more

along and it was beginning to seem more like the way that I would do it I was

like the way that I would do it I was

like the way that I would do it I was making key notes just few words here and

making key notes just few words here and

making key notes just few words here and there that I know that I’d be able to

there that I know that I’d be able to

there that I know that I’d be able to remember and the rest I would just say

remember and the rest I would just say

remember and the rest I would just say as I went along it was working I was

as I went along it was working I was

as I went along it was working I was enjoying myself I was having fun which

enjoying myself I was having fun which

enjoying myself I was having fun which is what this whole thing should be about

is what this whole thing should be about

is what this whole thing should be about having fun having a great time I wasn’t

having fun having a great time I wasn’t

having fun having a great time I wasn’t doing that before and now I’m having a

doing that before and now I’m having a

doing that before and now I’m having a great time over the course these few

great time over the course these few

great time over the course these few weeks I’ve learned something very

weeks I’ve learned something very

weeks I’ve learned something very important firstly don’t change to suit

important firstly don’t change to suit

important firstly don’t change to suit anyone as long as you’re enjoying what

anyone as long as you’re enjoying what

anyone as long as you’re enjoying what you’re saying

you’re saying

you’re saying pretty much everybody’s gonna enjoy

pretty much everybody’s gonna enjoy

pretty much everybody’s gonna enjoy hearing it secondly your reputation

hearing it secondly your reputation

hearing it secondly your reputation isn’t important if you mess up a word or

isn’t important if you mess up a word or

isn’t important if you mess up a word or two it’s not really gonna matter because

two it’s not really gonna matter because

two it’s not really gonna matter because the fear of getting something wrong is

the fear of getting something wrong is

the fear of getting something wrong is far worse than actually getting

far worse than actually getting

far worse than actually getting something wrong trying something new

something wrong trying something new

something wrong trying something new means that you stand to gain so much

means that you stand to gain so much

means that you stand to gain so much more than you stand to lose and finally

more than you stand to lose and finally

more than you stand to lose and finally be yourself because being yourself means

be yourself because being yourself means

be yourself because being yourself means you can’t get it wrong if you embarrass

you can’t get it wrong if you embarrass

you can’t get it wrong if you embarrass yourself or you make a mistake or you

yourself or you make a mistake or you

yourself or you make a mistake or you look silly it’s fine don’t worry about

look silly it’s fine don’t worry about

look silly it’s fine don’t worry about it you’re having fun and that is the

it you’re having fun and that is the

it you’re having fun and that is the main thing as long as you’re enjoying

main thing as long as you’re enjoying

main thing as long as you’re enjoying yourself

yourself

yourself enjoying what you’re doing and having a

enjoying what you’re doing and having a

enjoying what you’re doing and having a great time being the best that you can

great time being the best that you can

great time being the best that you can be

be

be who cares what anyone else thinks thank

who cares what anyone else thinks thank

who cares what anyone else thinks thank you

you

you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] thanks guys get-off seen everyone as a

thanks guys get-off seen everyone as a

thanks guys get-off seen everyone as a fifteen-year-old in today’s current

fifteen-year-old in today’s current

fifteen-year-old in today’s current political climate it seems to me that

political climate it seems to me that

political climate it seems to me that often the opinions of many people my age

often the opinions of many people my age

often the opinions of many people my age are unheard underappreciated we aren’t

are unheard underappreciated we aren’t

are unheard underappreciated we aren’t important for the people in power to

important for the people in power to

important for the people in power to listen to because at the end of the day

listen to because at the end of the day

listen to because at the end of the day we don’t affect their chance of getting

we don’t affect their chance of getting

we don’t affect their chance of getting into power and sadly because of this it

into power and sadly because of this it

into power and sadly because of this it leads many people my age to go off

leads many people my age to go off

leads many people my age to go off politics perhaps forever a good example

politics perhaps forever a good example

politics perhaps forever a good example of this is the environment we all when

of this is the environment we all when

of this is the environment we all when our environment improves everyone

our environment improves everyone

our environment improves everyone because ultimately is going to be me and

because ultimately is going to be me and

because ultimately is going to be me and my generation which has to pick up the

my generation which has to pick up the

my generation which has to pick up the pieces if humanity continues along its

pieces if humanity continues along its

pieces if humanity continues along its destructive path it is on and yet we now

destructive path it is on and yet we now

destructive path it is on and yet we now have a major world leader who denies

have a major world leader who denies

have a major world leader who denies climate change it’s even a thing and

climate change it’s even a thing and

climate change it’s even a thing and it’s this generational split that I’m

it’s this generational split that I’m

it’s this generational split that I’m talking about on the one hand you have

talking about on the one hand you have

talking about on the one hand you have the older generation who are in control

the older generation who are in control

the older generation who are in control and actually if the power to change the

and actually if the power to change the

and actually if the power to change the way our world works and on the other

way our world works and on the other

way our world works and on the other hand you have the younger generation who

hand you have the younger generation who

hand you have the younger generation who have the vision that we need and sadly

have the vision that we need and sadly

have the vision that we need and sadly these who just do not seem to work

these who just do not seem to work

these who just do not seem to work together there is a stereotype that

together there is a stereotype that

together there is a stereotype that young people are lazy now we just spend

young people are lazy now we just spend

young people are lazy now we just spend our days mindlessly tapping on our

our days mindlessly tapping on our

our days mindlessly tapping on our phones this is completely false some of

phones this is completely false some of

phones this is completely false some of the biggest political movements in the

the biggest political movements in the

the biggest political movements in the past few years have happened online

past few years have happened online

past few years have happened online every day thousands of petitions

every day thousands of petitions

every day thousands of petitions circulate through Twitter some of them

circulate through Twitter some of them

circulate through Twitter some of them getting more than a million signatures

getting more than a million signatures

getting more than a million signatures forcing debates at Parliament itself

forcing debates at Parliament itself

forcing debates at Parliament itself protests are organized online an example

protests are organized online an example

protests are organized online an example that comes to mind is the international

that comes to mind is the international

that comes to mind is the international Woman’s March which inspired millions of

Woman’s March which inspired millions of

Woman’s March which inspired millions of people from all around the world from

people from all around the world from

people from all around the world from every community to take to the streets

every community to take to the streets

every community to take to the streets every day there are uncountable number

every day there are uncountable number

every day there are uncountable number of debates that happen online my

of debates that happen online my

of debates that happen online my generation is in a unique position a

generation is in a unique position a

generation is in a unique position a position that no that generation has

position that no that generation has

position that no that generation has ever experienced before our position is

ever experienced before our position is

ever experienced before our position is so unique just because we are so well

so unique just because we are so well

so unique just because we are so well informed if we want to we can look up

informed if we want to we can look up

informed if we want to we can look up any information online at school we’re

any information online at school we’re

any information online at school we’re taught about current political affairs

taught about current political affairs

taught about current political affairs and when at home we research these

and when at home we research these

and when at home we research these further broadening our own knowledge and

further broadening our own knowledge and

further broadening our own knowledge and then we debate these with others form

then we debate these with others form

then we debate these with others form own opinions in the process my

own opinions in the process my

own opinions in the process my generation has been given a global

generation has been given a global

generation has been given a global education that not only spans the

education that not only spans the

education that not only spans the classrooms but also spans the world

classrooms but also spans the world

classrooms but also spans the world giving us global ambitions and global

giving us global ambitions and global

giving us global ambitions and global desires but sadly this is still not

desires but sadly this is still not

desires but sadly this is still not enough our country is still drowning in

enough our country is still drowning in

enough our country is still drowning in debt and most importantly of all our

debt and most importantly of all our

debt and most importantly of all our planet is still in a crisis and the

planet is still in a crisis and the

planet is still in a crisis and the solution I believe in many ways is the

solution I believe in many ways is the

solution I believe in many ways is the older generation that needs to be

older generation that needs to be

older generation that needs to be inspired inspired to listen to the young

inspired inspired to listen to the young

inspired inspired to listen to the young inspire to be willing to take on new

inspire to be willing to take on new

inspire to be willing to take on new ideas and most importantly of all

ideas and most importantly of all

ideas and most importantly of all inspired to save our planet while we

inspired to save our planet while we

inspired to save our planet while we still have one to live in thank you all

still have one to live in thank you all

still have one to live in thank you all very much for listening

very much for listening

very much for listening [Applause]

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