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Everything is a joke | Abhineet Mishra | TEDxTheNorthCapUniversity


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[Applause] I’m extremely glad and nervous at the

I’m extremely glad and nervous at the

I’m extremely glad and nervous at the same time to talk to you guys about my

same time to talk to you guys about my

same time to talk to you guys about my ideas right I’m barely 30 years old I’m

ideas right I’m barely 30 years old I’m

ideas right I’m barely 30 years old I’m not so sure if I can inspire you guys

not so sure if I can inspire you guys

not so sure if I can inspire you guys what I can do is share a few stories

what I can do is share a few stories

what I can do is share a few stories write a few stories of my life from the

write a few stories of my life from the

write a few stories of my life from the common denominators that connect all of

common denominators that connect all of

common denominators that connect all of us right a families our successes or

us right a families our successes or

us right a families our successes or failures and see if there’s anything

failures and see if there’s anything

failures and see if there’s anything inspirational that you can draw out of

inspirational that you can draw out of

inspirational that you can draw out of it with the inspiration is a fairly

it with the inspiration is a fairly

it with the inspiration is a fairly heavy word okay so uh as the host

heavy word okay so uh as the host

heavy word okay so uh as the host rightly said I’m an HR manager by the

rightly said I’m an HR manager by the

rightly said I’m an HR manager by the day and a stand-up comedian by the night

day and a stand-up comedian by the night

day and a stand-up comedian by the night HR management is my profession I want to

HR management is my profession I want to

HR management is my profession I want to believe the stand-up comedy is also my

believe the stand-up comedy is also my

believe the stand-up comedy is also my profession very few people would

profession very few people would

profession very few people would actually take stand-up comedy as a

actually take stand-up comedy as a

actually take stand-up comedy as a profession or believe that it’s a

profession or believe that it’s a

profession or believe that it’s a profession till the time they saw the

profession till the time they saw the

profession till the time they saw the American election when we realized that

American election when we realized that

American election when we realized that the president of a certain country

the president of a certain country

the president of a certain country you’re the world’s largest democracy can

you’re the world’s largest democracy can

you’re the world’s largest democracy can actually be a stand-up comedian no

actually be a stand-up comedian no

actually be a stand-up comedian no seriously I’m not going to advocate you

seriously I’m not going to advocate you

seriously I’m not going to advocate you guys to be on tinder but in case you are

guys to be on tinder but in case you are

guys to be on tinder but in case you are on tinder president Trump is available

on tinder president Trump is available

on tinder president Trump is available and he’ll right swipe anything remotely

and he’ll right swipe anything remotely

and he’ll right swipe anything remotely female but that’s not what I want to

female but that’s not what I want to

female but that’s not what I want to speak to you guys about right as what he

speak to you guys about right as what he

speak to you guys about right as what he correctly said I need to speak to you

correctly said I need to speak to you

correctly said I need to speak to you guys about why I feel everything’s a

guys about why I feel everything’s a

guys about why I feel everything’s a joke okay and I say everything is a joke

joke okay and I say everything is a joke

joke okay and I say everything is a joke because hindsight is a beautiful lens to

because hindsight is a beautiful lens to

because hindsight is a beautiful lens to look at things that have occurred in

look at things that have occurred in

look at things that have occurred in your life and when I look back at all

your life and when I look back at all

your life and when I look back at all the tragedies that all the issues that I

the tragedies that all the issues that I

the tragedies that all the issues that I see in my life right I see that there’s

see in my life right I see that there’s

see in my life right I see that there’s a great big great connect of humor there

a great big great connect of humor there

a great big great connect of humor there I’ll share a few stories with you guys

I’ll share a few stories with you guys

I’ll share a few stories with you guys right so yes I was fairly nervous as I

right so yes I was fairly nervous as I

right so yes I was fairly nervous as I mentioned would be a TEDx speaker and

mentioned would be a TEDx speaker and

mentioned would be a TEDx speaker and therefore I decided to look at some

therefore I decided to look at some

therefore I decided to look at some inspirational TED Talks right so I

inspirational TED Talks right so I

inspirational TED Talks right so I googled and I thought Shah Rukh Khan had

googled and I thought Shah Rukh Khan had

googled and I thought Shah Rukh Khan had delivered a brilliant talk recently

delivered a brilliant talk recently

delivered a brilliant talk recently right and one of the keynotes there was

right and one of the keynotes there was

right and one of the keynotes there was he said he’s a peddler of dreams so I

he said he’s a peddler of dreams so I

he said he’s a peddler of dreams so I wanted to listen to the talk I went to

wanted to listen to the talk I went to

wanted to listen to the talk I went to Google and I typed peddler off and the

Google and I typed peddler off and the

Google and I typed peddler off and the computer just hung thirty minutes later

computer just hung thirty minutes later

computer just hung thirty minutes later I got 36 emails in my inbox from

I got 36 emails in my inbox from

I got 36 emails in my inbox from students in Punjab

students in Punjab

students in Punjab saying are you a peddler it’s really not

saying are you a peddler it’s really not

saying are you a peddler it’s really not that far than the great greatest of

that far than the great greatest of

that far than the great greatest of starts for my preparation for this TEDx

starts for my preparation for this TEDx

starts for my preparation for this TEDx talk but yes I have managed to to be

talk but yes I have managed to to be

talk but yes I have managed to to be here and one of the most interesting

here and one of the most interesting

here and one of the most interesting things of entering Haryana was uh was

things of entering Haryana was uh was

things of entering Haryana was uh was realizing that my phone conked off yes

realizing that my phone conked off yes

realizing that my phone conked off yes Siddhi

Siddhi

Siddhi how many of you guys use Apple phones

how many of you guys use Apple phones

how many of you guys use Apple phones here greats a rich bunch of people Siri

here greats a rich bunch of people Siri

here greats a rich bunch of people Siri stop speaking so I call the papal right

stop speaking so I call the papal right

stop speaking so I call the papal right and I said search CD is not speaking

and I said search CD is not speaking

and I said search CD is not speaking they asked me what place is this I said

they asked me what place is this I said

they asked me what place is this I said Haryana they said a CD in the female

Haryana they said a CD in the female

Haryana they said a CD in the female voice or the male voice I said female

voice or the male voice I said female

voice or the male voice I said female voice I asked is this a technical glitch

voice I asked is this a technical glitch

voice I asked is this a technical glitch they said no sir this is a cultural

they said no sir this is a cultural

they said no sir this is a cultural glitch terrible man but yes I am from

glitch terrible man but yes I am from

glitch terrible man but yes I am from the North East

the North East

the North East I am from Shillong this really really

I am from Shillong this really really

I am from Shillong this really really pristine beautiful place and a lot a lot

pristine beautiful place and a lot a lot

pristine beautiful place and a lot a lot of the stories that I shared with you

of the stories that I shared with you

of the stories that I shared with you guys today

guys today

guys today come from that place yeah my first piece

come from that place yeah my first piece

come from that place yeah my first piece that I want to address is how I realized

that I want to address is how I realized

that I want to address is how I realized that gender stereotypes are a myth

that gender stereotypes are a myth

that gender stereotypes are a myth through a really funny incident that

through a really funny incident that

through a really funny incident that took place in my life my dad’s in the

took place in my life my dad’s in the

took place in my life my dad’s in the police okay and I’ve built that context

police okay and I’ve built that context

police okay and I’ve built that context a little data but this is a little story

a little data but this is a little story

a little data but this is a little story ok Shillong is a beautiful place and I

ok Shillong is a beautiful place and I

ok Shillong is a beautiful place and I have evidence to believe that because my

have evidence to believe that because my

have evidence to believe that because my mom and I decided to have three children

mom and I decided to have three children

mom and I decided to have three children so naturally this place is got to have

so naturally this place is got to have

so naturally this place is got to have something romantic about it

something romantic about it

something romantic about it I like the coy laughter there

I like the coy laughter there

I like the coy laughter there everybody’s got the joke but they are

everybody’s got the joke but they are

everybody’s got the joke but they are fairly shadow to do to understand or

fairly shadow to do to understand or

fairly shadow to do to understand or express it out but yes so we were

express it out but yes so we were

express it out but yes so we were sitting in this in a little quarter of

sitting in this in a little quarter of

sitting in this in a little quarter of my dad’s in the police as I mentioned

my dad’s in the police as I mentioned

my dad’s in the police as I mentioned and it’s a beautiful place okay

and it’s a beautiful place okay

and it’s a beautiful place okay beautiful pine trees are all around the

beautiful pine trees are all around the

beautiful pine trees are all around the only problem in that place is that it is

only problem in that place is that it is

only problem in that place is that it is infested by bats yeah and the fear of

infested by bats yeah and the fear of

infested by bats yeah and the fear of bats is called 0-2 phobia and I am a big

bats is called 0-2 phobia and I am a big

bats is called 0-2 phobia and I am a big big patient of 0-2 phobia so we’re

big patient of 0-2 phobia so we’re

big patient of 0-2 phobia so we’re sitting in a room right on cold wintry

sitting in a room right on cold wintry

sitting in a room right on cold wintry night and a bat entered the house the

night and a bat entered the house the

night and a bat entered the house the three children naturally would get

three children naturally would get

three children naturally would get trepidation and scared right and I

trepidation and scared right and I

trepidation and scared right and I looked up to my dad

looked up to my dad

looked up to my dad hoping that he is gonna be the protector

hoping that he is gonna be the protector

hoping that he is gonna be the protector because he’s in the police right he’s

because he’s in the police right he’s

because he’s in the police right he’s gonna protect us from the bats but I

gonna protect us from the bats but I

gonna protect us from the bats but I couldn’t find my dad because he is the

couldn’t find my dad because he is the

couldn’t find my dad because he is the first one to run to the other room

first one to run to the other room

first one to run to the other room and now I had a choice okay as a son of

and now I had a choice okay as a son of

and now I had a choice okay as a son of my mother who either defend my mother

my mother who either defend my mother

my mother who either defend my mother against his back or make this really

against his back or make this really

against his back or make this really cowardly decision to run out of that

cowardly decision to run out of that

cowardly decision to run out of that room I’m a brave son but also practical

room I’m a brave son but also practical

room I’m a brave son but also practical one so I ran to the other room along

one so I ran to the other room along

one so I ran to the other room along with my sister and my brother and we

with my sister and my brother and we

with my sister and my brother and we left our mother in that one room thirty

left our mother in that one room thirty

left our mother in that one room thirty minutes later my mother emerged from

minutes later my mother emerged from

minutes later my mother emerged from that room like Khaleesi from the game of

that room like Khaleesi from the game of

that room like Khaleesi from the game of Thrones

Thrones

Thrones with a bat in her hand and I looked up

with a bat in her hand and I looked up

with a bat in her hand and I looked up at my dad and said you are the police

at my dad and said you are the police

at my dad and said you are the police you were supposed with the predictor of

you were supposed with the predictor of

you were supposed with the predictor of the realms right

the realms right

the realms right I just realized India serotype is such a

I just realized India serotype is such a

I just realized India serotype is such a myth right

myth right

myth right if only society had not stopped women

if only society had not stopped women

if only society had not stopped women outside right from expressing their

outside right from expressing their

outside right from expressing their capability by putting in those obstacles

capability by putting in those obstacles

capability by putting in those obstacles I realize they’ll be too far more

I realize they’ll be too far more

I realize they’ll be too far more calluses than we have in our modern

calluses than we have in our modern

calluses than we have in our modern society you guys agree with that yes I

can’t be rude to my dad as I said dad’s

can’t be rude to my dad as I said dad’s in the police raid the other pieces we

in the police raid the other pieces we

in the police raid the other pieces we often associate a lot of stereotypes

often associate a lot of stereotypes

often associate a lot of stereotypes also with the kind of roles that we play

also with the kind of roles that we play

also with the kind of roles that we play right my dad was posted on this

right my dad was posted on this

right my dad was posted on this beautiful you know border town of Bor

beautiful you know border town of Bor

beautiful you know border town of Bor surah on the Indo Bangladesh border now

surah on the Indo Bangladesh border now

surah on the Indo Bangladesh border now when you go to that place you realize

when you go to that place you realize

when you go to that place you realize that you have Bangladesh telephone

that you have Bangladesh telephone

that you have Bangladesh telephone network connections on your phone so

network connections on your phone so

network connections on your phone so it’s just not illegal migration of

it’s just not illegal migration of

it’s just not illegal migration of people it’s also illegal illegal

people it’s also illegal illegal

people it’s also illegal illegal migration of the network there so my dad

migration of the network there so my dad

migration of the network there so my dad once was sitting at a at a nice food

once was sitting at a at a nice food

once was sitting at a at a nice food joint I was having food and he saw

joint I was having food and he saw

joint I was having food and he saw scuffle of two people and intervene

scuffle of two people and intervene

scuffle of two people and intervene little did he realize that he would

little did he realize that he would

little did he realize that he would actually realize that a punch landed on

actually realize that a punch landed on

actually realize that a punch landed on his face yeah and as a police man he had

his face yeah and as a police man he had

his face yeah and as a police man he had to take authority right so he decided to

to take authority right so he decided to

to take authority right so he decided to take the two of them and put them in the

take the two of them and put them in the

take the two of them and put them in the locker for the evening next day my dad

locker for the evening next day my dad

locker for the evening next day my dad was all over the papers

was all over the papers

was all over the papers apparently had nabbed one of the most

apparently had nabbed one of the most

apparently had nabbed one of the most wanted militants of that area I was

wanted militants of that area I was

wanted militants of that area I was proud my dad was scared and my mother

proud my dad was scared and my mother

proud my dad was scared and my mother was irrational so my dad came home my

was irrational so my dad came home my

was irrational so my dad came home my mom gave him the best piece of her mind

mom gave him the best piece of her mind

mom gave him the best piece of her mind right I thought that was an act of

right I thought that was an act of

right I thought that was an act of bravery I will extremely proud of my dad

bravery I will extremely proud of my dad

bravery I will extremely proud of my dad they said that they’re going to reward

they said that they’re going to reward

they said that they’re going to reward my dad with some handsome compensation

my dad with some handsome compensation

my dad with some handsome compensation after three and a half month my dad got

after three and a half month my dad got

after three and a half month my dad got some money that time you did not have

some money that time you did not have

some money that time you did not have patreon and you didn’t have a

patreon and you didn’t have a

patreon and you didn’t have a counter-current transfers but I’ve got

counter-current transfers but I’ve got

counter-current transfers but I’ve got 52 rupees to nab a militant and put the

52 rupees to nab a militant and put the

52 rupees to nab a militant and put the lives of 5 people at risk my dad and mom

lives of 5 people at risk my dad and mom

lives of 5 people at risk my dad and mom never speak about that incident

never speak about that incident

never speak about that incident strangely I’m recording that in a TEDx

strangely I’m recording that in a TEDx

strangely I’m recording that in a TEDx video today

my career also has been a lot about

my career also has been a lot about these little changes right I started as

these little changes right I started as

these little changes right I started as a journalist I am an HR manager and an

a journalist I am an HR manager and an

a journalist I am an HR manager and an aspiring comedian today I must confess

aspiring comedian today I must confess

aspiring comedian today I must confess to you guys okay that not one profession

to you guys okay that not one profession

to you guys okay that not one profession has made me feel happy yet and yet all

has made me feel happy yet and yet all

has made me feel happy yet and yet all professions in totality make me happy if

professions in totality make me happy if

professions in totality make me happy if you believe that one profession okay

you believe that one profession okay

you believe that one profession okay it’s going to make you feel happy and

it’s going to make you feel happy and

it’s going to make you feel happy and satisfied then either you’re under

satisfied then either you’re under

satisfied then either you’re under estimating your ambitions or you’re

estimating your ambitions or you’re

estimating your ambitions or you’re overestimating the ability of that job

overestimating the ability of that job

overestimating the ability of that job to make you happy yeah I started as a

to make you happy yeah I started as a

to make you happy yeah I started as a journalist I made some brilliant

journalist I made some brilliant

journalist I made some brilliant mistakes in my life and worried now in

mistakes in my life and worried now in

mistakes in my life and worried now in hindsight can I look back at them and

hindsight can I look back at them and

hindsight can I look back at them and realize that everything there brings a

realize that everything there brings a

realize that everything there brings a certain level of humor right I was a sub

certain level of humor right I was a sub

certain level of humor right I was a sub editor at the Indian Express this

editor at the Indian Express this

editor at the Indian Express this incident didn’t take place at the Indian

incident didn’t take place at the Indian

incident didn’t take place at the Indian Express let me just put that put that

Express let me just put that put that

Express let me just put that put that disclaimer out Chandigarh is a beautiful

disclaimer out Chandigarh is a beautiful

disclaimer out Chandigarh is a beautiful place right one of these the finance

place right one of these the finance

place right one of these the finance ministers of that say it’s a Union

ministers of that say it’s a Union

ministers of that say it’s a Union Territory one of the finance ministers

Territory one of the finance ministers

Territory one of the finance ministers had once said that no ads need to be put

had once said that no ads need to be put

had once said that no ads need to be put in public places I was a young rookie

in public places I was a young rookie

in public places I was a young rookie editor on the desk and I put up this

editor on the desk and I put up this

editor on the desk and I put up this beautiful headline which says no ads in

beautiful headline which says no ads in

beautiful headline which says no ads in public places says Chandigarh finance

public places says Chandigarh finance

public places says Chandigarh finance minister it is a beautiful headline

minister it is a beautiful headline

minister it is a beautiful headline communicated a lot except the word

communicated a lot except the word

communicated a lot except the word public who went without the L I thought

public who went without the L I thought

public who went without the L I thought I’d lose my job

I’d lose my job

I’d lose my job next day the PE of that minister

next day the PE of that minister

next day the PE of that minister responded saying who puts ads on those

responded saying who puts ads on those

responded saying who puts ads on those places

places

places I thought that is the end of my career

I thought that is the end of my career

I thought that is the end of my career and I thought that’s the worst mistake I

and I thought that’s the worst mistake I

and I thought that’s the worst mistake I could ever make give me three months

could ever make give me three months

could ever make give me three months three months down the line there was a

three months down the line there was a

three months down the line there was a simple innocuous headline it says police

simple innocuous headline it says police

simple innocuous headline it says police busts a gang of thieves

busts a gang of thieves

busts a gang of thieves I hate autocorrect and I have no idea

I hate autocorrect and I have no idea

I hate autocorrect and I have no idea why did autocorrect gang the last G

why did autocorrect gang the last G

why did autocorrect gang the last G turned into D these are real incidents I

turned into D these are real incidents I

turned into D these are real incidents I know you guys find it funny but my job

know you guys find it funny but my job

know you guys find it funny but my job was on the line

was on the line

was on the line the last of the lot okay of my extremely

the last of the lot okay of my extremely

the last of the lot okay of my extremely meritorious journalistic career was a

meritorious journalistic career was a

meritorious journalistic career was a cricket match in which India beat

cricket match in which India beat

cricket match in which India beat England I put a lovely headline which

England I put a lovely headline which

England I put a lovely headline which said India thumps England unfortunately

said India thumps England unfortunately

said India thumps England unfortunately autocorrect did not read the T they call

autocorrect did not read the T they call

autocorrect did not read the T they call it the Sepoy mutiny of 2008 which is

it the Sepoy mutiny of 2008 which is

it the Sepoy mutiny of 2008 which is scary

scary

scary the point I’m trying to convey to you

the point I’m trying to convey to you

the point I’m trying to convey to you guys as you guys will make mistakes okay

guys as you guys will make mistakes okay

guys as you guys will make mistakes okay and you’ll realize the humor of it and

and you’ll realize the humor of it and

and you’ll realize the humor of it and the joke element of it only in hindsight

the joke element of it only in hindsight

the joke element of it only in hindsight so don’t get too nervous about making

so don’t get too nervous about making

so don’t get too nervous about making mistakes right in life I’m not the only

mistakes right in life I’m not the only

mistakes right in life I’m not the only one making mistakes here right my mom

one making mistakes here right my mom

one making mistakes here right my mom back in Shillong was diagnosed with this

back in Shillong was diagnosed with this

back in Shillong was diagnosed with this illness called tuberculosis okay and the

illness called tuberculosis okay and the

illness called tuberculosis okay and the doctors started treating her

doctors started treating her

doctors started treating her five years down the line they said that

five years down the line they said that

five years down the line they said that she’s got multi drug-resistant

she’s got multi drug-resistant

she’s got multi drug-resistant tuberculosis which is pubic losses that

tuberculosis which is pubic losses that

tuberculosis which is pubic losses that can’t be cured with drugs so which she

can’t be cured with drugs so which she

can’t be cured with drugs so which she stopped eating the medicines because

stopped eating the medicines because

stopped eating the medicines because they were not helping her now she’s

they were not helping her now she’s

they were not helping her now she’s moved with me to Bombay recently she was

moved with me to Bombay recently she was

moved with me to Bombay recently she was unwell we did a full body checkup

unwell we did a full body checkup

unwell we did a full body checkup the doctors in Bombay said she never had

the doctors in Bombay said she never had

the doctors in Bombay said she never had tuberculosis

tuberculosis

tuberculosis don’t feel too bad about it my mom

don’t feel too bad about it my mom

don’t feel too bad about it my mom seemed extremely thrilled now that’s a

seemed extremely thrilled now that’s a

seemed extremely thrilled now that’s a mistake that the doctor made in

mistake that the doctor made in

mistake that the doctor made in hindsight I’m sure he tried but some

hindsight I’m sure he tried but some

hindsight I’m sure he tried but some elements in some professions aren’t to

elements in some professions aren’t to

elements in some professions aren’t to the ones that where you can try now my

the ones that where you can try now my

the ones that where you can try now my mom is being treated for the side

mom is being treated for the side

mom is being treated for the side complications of the of the illness

complications of the of the illness

complications of the of the illness she’s got this model glance in her body

she’s got this model glance in her body

she’s got this model glance in her body recently she cheated a scan of a body an

recently she cheated a scan of a body an

recently she cheated a scan of a body an entire x-ray machine was anti x-ray was

entire x-ray machine was anti x-ray was

entire x-ray machine was anti x-ray was glittering right pretty much like the

glittering right pretty much like the

glittering right pretty much like the NASA picture of India during Diwali

NASA picture of India during Diwali

NASA picture of India during Diwali except at the NASA picture is fake and

except at the NASA picture is fake and

except at the NASA picture is fake and this one’s real

this one’s real

this one’s real another mom suddenly believes he’s got

another mom suddenly believes he’s got

another mom suddenly believes he’s got this mentality that memory Nia Valley

this mentality that memory Nia Valley

this mentality that memory Nia Valley home and this is the mentality that’s

home and this is the mentality that’s

home and this is the mentality that’s mentality she’s been having the last

mentality she’s been having the last

mentality she’s been having the last five years right I see a lot of you know

five years right I see a lot of you know

five years right I see a lot of you know fun and humor in it because there’s a

fun and humor in it because there’s a

fun and humor in it because there’s a doctor comes up and says madam your cure

doctor comes up and says madam your cure

doctor comes up and says madam your cure today the discharge he like doctors our

today the discharge he like doctors our

today the discharge he like doctors our memory value she can’t change the script

memory value she can’t change the script

memory value she can’t change the script for some reason

for some reason

for some reason but I think she’ll be able to now she

but I think she’ll be able to now she

but I think she’ll be able to now she when she looks back the last time yes

when she looks back the last time yes

when she looks back the last time yes she realizes that humor alone okay is

she realizes that humor alone okay is

she realizes that humor alone okay is helping a child over some of these

helping a child over some of these

helping a child over some of these issues that that that that she talks

issues that that that that she talks

issues that that that that she talks about I stand near miss Yuga is a not so

about I stand near miss Yuga is a not so

about I stand near miss Yuga is a not so sure about what my role really is and

sure about what my role really is and

sure about what my role really is and it’s my role really to make you guys

it’s my role really to make you guys

it’s my role really to make you guys laugh here what is my role here to share

laugh here what is my role here to share

laugh here what is my role here to share some of the stories of my own life and

some of the stories of my own life and

some of the stories of my own life and see how much of that brings in that

see how much of that brings in that

see how much of that brings in that element of humor I’ve shared a few

element of humor I’ve shared a few

element of humor I’ve shared a few stories from my own person life I also

stories from my own person life I also

stories from my own person life I also mentioned to you guys that I am not so

mentioned to you guys that I am not so

mentioned to you guys that I am not so sure about whether any career okay it’s

sure about whether any career okay it’s

sure about whether any career okay it’s going to satisfy me at the moment I am

going to satisfy me at the moment I am

going to satisfy me at the moment I am an aspiring stand-up comedian as I

an aspiring stand-up comedian as I

an aspiring stand-up comedian as I mentioned and I’m sure you bright minds

mentioned and I’m sure you bright minds

mentioned and I’m sure you bright minds have brilliant career as ahead of you

have brilliant career as ahead of you

have brilliant career as ahead of you guys remember what I said at the very

guys remember what I said at the very

guys remember what I said at the very start of this talk the hindsight is a

start of this talk the hindsight is a

start of this talk the hindsight is a beautiful lens to reflect on okay it’s

beautiful lens to reflect on okay it’s

beautiful lens to reflect on okay it’s only in hindsight that you can sit back

only in hindsight that you can sit back

only in hindsight that you can sit back and enjoy some of the experiences you

and enjoy some of the experiences you

and enjoy some of the experiences you guys have shared okay some of the

guys have shared okay some of the

guys have shared okay some of the mistakes you guys are made don’t make

mistakes you guys are made don’t make

mistakes you guys are made don’t make those mistakes okay don’t be like I need

those mistakes okay don’t be like I need

those mistakes okay don’t be like I need to make these mistakes today otherwise

to make these mistakes today otherwise

to make these mistakes today otherwise where will humor come from five years

where will humor come from five years

where will humor come from five years later don’t do that

later don’t do that

later don’t do that right but the bottom line is ensure that

right but the bottom line is ensure that

right but the bottom line is ensure that you guys make your mistakes but know

you guys make your mistakes but know

you guys make your mistakes but know that none of those mistakes are

that none of those mistakes are

that none of those mistakes are catastrophe enough there is a joke a

catastrophe enough there is a joke a

catastrophe enough there is a joke a running joke at every point in time and

running joke at every point in time and

running joke at every point in time and if you address that I think you guys are

if you address that I think you guys are

if you address that I think you guys are going to be in safe good hands I’ll

going to be in safe good hands I’ll

going to be in safe good hands I’ll leave you guys with this last one

leave you guys with this last one

leave you guys with this last one thought of mine right now they’ll be

thought of mine right now they’ll be

thought of mine right now they’ll be points in your life where you’ll feel

points in your life where you’ll feel

points in your life where you’ll feel that not everything that you do is

that not everything that you do is

that not everything that you do is running in parallel with your dreams

running in parallel with your dreams

running in parallel with your dreams switch the gear a little right and look

switch the gear a little right and look

switch the gear a little right and look back at all that you’ve done mistakes

back at all that you’ve done mistakes

back at all that you’ve done mistakes successes failures etc and you can look

successes failures etc and you can look

successes failures etc and you can look back at your failures with a sense of

back at your failures with a sense of

back at your failures with a sense of enjoyment

enjoyment

enjoyment I think the successes will give you far

I think the successes will give you far

I think the successes will give you far more greater happiness the one last

more greater happiness the one last

more greater happiness the one last piece I obviously want to leave you guys

piece I obviously want to leave you guys

piece I obviously want to leave you guys with

with

with the fact that I see this beautiful law

the fact that I see this beautiful law

the fact that I see this beautiful law split-off men and women here and I’m

split-off men and women here and I’m

split-off men and women here and I’m just so very happy because uh that’s an

just so very happy because uh that’s an

just so very happy because uh that’s an issue that’s very very close to my heart

issue that’s very very close to my heart

issue that’s very very close to my heart I’ve always believed that men and women

I’ve always believed that men and women

I’ve always believed that men and women run the hundred meter race except that

run the hundred meter race except that

run the hundred meter race except that men run the hundred meter sprint while

men run the hundred meter sprint while

men run the hundred meter sprint while women run the hundred meter hurdles and

women run the hundred meter hurdles and

women run the hundred meter hurdles and for the women out there I want you guys

for the women out there I want you guys

for the women out there I want you guys to know that in terms of capability

to know that in terms of capability

to know that in terms of capability there is no debate you guys are right up

there is no debate you guys are right up

there is no debate you guys are right up there Society just believes that you are

there Society just believes that you are

there Society just believes that you are far more capable than men which is why

far more capable than men which is why

far more capable than men which is why we want to make every little challenge a

we want to make every little challenge a

we want to make every little challenge a Roady challenge for you guys yeah but I

Roady challenge for you guys yeah but I

Roady challenge for you guys yeah but I have faith that you guys will emerge

have faith that you guys will emerge

have faith that you guys will emerge from all these challenges yeah that’s a

from all these challenges yeah that’s a

from all these challenges yeah that’s a little bit about me a little bit about

little bit about me a little bit about

little bit about me a little bit about what I wanted to share thank you so much

what I wanted to share thank you so much

what I wanted to share thank you so much for being a very very patient audience I

for being a very very patient audience I

for being a very very patient audience I had a brilliant will be well my name is

had a brilliant will be well my name is

had a brilliant will be well my name is ebony misra

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