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Eu aceito… eu ofereço… uma utopia do possível | Isabela Silveira | TEDxRioVermelho


Hi, I just came in after the storm in

forest is not anything

It’s an honor to be here good afternoon.

to speak of the accepted I offer so much

presently virtually to

so many people

but the offer is accepted or is a group

of internet or facebook that has

how focus the host very

empowerment and empowerment

women of various realities

speaking it seems that a non graceza

It hurts but I swear the description

lives up to the greatness of this thing I

stop and I do not say stop by chance it ‘s because

this group was born from the heart of

inside an isabella that was

disorganized

Say anything you want to

talk about a person who has lost

of his own personal path I had

spent a very long and

I was losing myself m desencontrando and only

I realized how deep this had been

when you decide to clean up my

house literally had things

stacked up to the ceiling old mobile paper

thing that will make an accumulation and then I

I was already reorganizing myself and walking

leaving the organization of a day

for the other was leaving there

that moment of re-arranging where I

I lived until I discovered that I was

pregnant with a girl

so the need to open space

physical and emotional for that child

that was coming and I still did not even know

who already loved so much if it became urgent

I went there is growing belly full of

hormone open a box to start

set things up

I would cry there I would pick up a pile of

paper tried to organize a lock and in a

I blocked my room and I felt

failed to be in that situation.

have allowed me to get there

What woman already felt like this?

overwhelmed alone

the feeling of failure was very very

bad but I had already

I really deserved help.

even when I spoke and was punished

of this idea that I went ahead of

facebook opened in box for 33 women and

said look at this situation open my

heart speaks of pregnancy was like me

feel and ask for help for them to do

a cleaning a cleaning help me

take back my house and make room for

daughter who was coming and they came together

in double the whole afternoon spent

just an hour joining the power with lid

Tell me which one

and it was there reorganizing the house things

going to a place, we’re talking a lot

on the feminine and all absolutely

all that I had in my house

talked about the difficulties of asking for

help she was there with me

this in my head was in May of the year

spent in July for the belly already in

mouth bubbling hormones I looked

to my house and I saw everything organized that

thinking how that experience deserved

be shared with other women

I talked to a friend Ana Fernanda.

I told her she gives me the idea she met us.

created I accepted I offer we left for

take care of our things when

I returned already had hundreds of

the other day thousands in less than one

week had five thousand participants

exchanging interacting long women

of several parts not only savior but

from brazil and from other places in the world

proof that I’ve connected with a

need that is already in everyone’s

people be more generous and handle more

so much sympathy with us

while with the other but how

it works the group is simple you go there and

I accept and can be help for

do a time cleaning a text a

object for home does not matter since

be connected with your real

needs and your real desires as well

today it does not stand I offer and the sky is

the limit can also be a book one

information to help someone as long as

within its reals

possibilities because it is not the place of

no sacrifice is the place of people were

Welcome so I accept comes before

do offer as women stand

there is so much need for

rules to work is not just who only

has four women only sitrans is not

exchange of any kind allowed

barter money nothing can not

external disclosures of disclosure of

no nature and no content

must be shared from outside is for

a place for us to talk about people and

women talk talk interact and

are fully engaged in that group and

that’s why we need a

very firm and very attentive moderation

for us to deal with these

intimacy without going over so in the

homogenization and for this they stay here

my thanks for the moderators

that make it all work thousand that abby

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ax you’ve had with us

besides Ana Fernanda these women

they are all the time dealing with the

things starting in box and proposing

an almost pedagogical form even this

new to be in the world because the internet

makes a lot of feelings lift that

sometimes they are not the noblest ones

the rectors brought that aggressiveness

and there we are taking a path

respect for listening and delicacy that is

difficult for them to ask for the rules

be more rigid but I believe

We are fully aware that we are

the exercise of sharing a

community but loving and women

they bring incredible examples and believe

that it works there like the woman

than the other side of the Atlantic when

came to visit her mother here in the bay

realized that you were very

alone with her example and she asked me to

I accept someone who will be with you

for my mother and she received a wave

of love so big she needs to do

a table to organize the visits that

her mother receives one that will make a

cake the other went to watch

movie to another person chat or snag

another one that put I accept someone

to hold a fair and prepare a dinner

For me because I’m coming back from the river.

January after my divorce with my

children and wanted to offer a

worthy for someone went and she dined at

family with this woman that she does not

knew to start life here one

another who offered help to the newly

more sunbathing who needed help

there in routine with baby

I get emotional every day like

now because there are dozens that

familiar examples of people who

believe in this new possibility is

in the world

I could be filling seven days and seven

here with examples of women who

would not even know if the group did not

there is but it exists not only exists

how do you have daughter groups and sister groups?

scattered throughout pernambuco maranhão

interior of the bay

belgium ireland argentina demonstrating

that this perception of women

together to help each other

It’s around and we get to a point.

very important because only women

the simple answer is that I eat a woman

I felt more empowered more at ease

to share this with people who

have demands more or less close to

me but nothing prevents men from having

type group I accepted offers me too

I think this is different but this is what

less important

and if men open themselves without knowing the

possibility of dealing and in a

more generous with their own

frailties and the weaknesses of

others

they were already part of this wave of

to rethink the collective more gently

more affectionate and this wave is growing

growing

I think she can take the world by

This is what I’m here for today because I

I think this idea was to be

may appear to be intended to

of impossible rose but if you are always

that isabella la from a year ago

pregnant

crying in front of the

computer she would be here today

talking about the I accepted I offer her

I say it was a utopia but what

looks like a real utopia of concrete

a utopia of the impossible that is

happening now thanks to several

people connected

because that’s how I always say there in the group

together we are infinite

we look good

[Applause]

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