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[Music]

[Music] hello everyone like you already know my

hello everyone like you already know my

hello everyone like you already know my name is Gil mantas which you don’t know

name is Gil mantas which you don’t know

name is Gil mantas which you don’t know about me

about me

about me when I was four or five years old I had

when I was four or five years old I had

when I was four or five years old I had a drowning experience I was learning how

a drowning experience I was learning how

a drowning experience I was learning how to swim in a lake and I had to swim

to swim in a lake and I had to swim

to swim in a lake and I had to swim along a low pier to make maybe one meter

along a low pier to make maybe one meter

along a low pier to make maybe one meter meter and a half there was a windsurfing

meter and a half there was a windsurfing

meter and a half there was a windsurfing board in front of me and I just had to

board in front of me and I just had to

board in front of me and I just had to make this short distance yet I went

make this short distance yet I went

make this short distance yet I went straight down to the bottom to this day

straight down to the bottom to this day

straight down to the bottom to this day I remember going underwater some weeds

I remember going underwater some weeds

I remember going underwater some weeds around me small fish swimming by

around me small fish swimming by

around me small fish swimming by windsurfing board ahead also Sun glare

windsurfing board ahead also Sun glare

windsurfing board ahead also Sun glare someone jumping after me and pulling me

someone jumping after me and pulling me

someone jumping after me and pulling me out it wasn’t really dangerous or

out it wasn’t really dangerous or

out it wasn’t really dangerous or anything it happened within a few

anything it happened within a few

anything it happened within a few seconds I didn’t lose consciousness I

seconds I didn’t lose consciousness I

seconds I didn’t lose consciousness I didn’t drink too much water yet it was

didn’t drink too much water yet it was

didn’t drink too much water yet it was quite terrifying to realize how quickly

quite terrifying to realize how quickly

quite terrifying to realize how quickly things can change in the water how

things can change in the water how

things can change in the water how quickly you can lose control and lose

quickly you can lose control and lose

quickly you can lose control and lose your ground if anybody told me back then

your ground if anybody told me back then

your ground if anybody told me back then that I would spend most of my life in

that I would spend most of my life in

that I would spend most of my life in and around the water I would have never

and around the water I would have never

and around the water I would have never believed it yet this is the first

believed it yet this is the first

believed it yet this is the first picture of me surfing just a couple

picture of me surfing just a couple

picture of me surfing just a couple years later in the early 90s nobody

years later in the early 90s nobody

years later in the early 90s nobody believed that their surfing in Lithuania

believed that their surfing in Lithuania

believed that their surfing in Lithuania or in the Baltic Sea you can imagine

or in the Baltic Sea you can imagine

or in the Baltic Sea you can imagine literally just regained independency and

literally just regained independency and

literally just regained independency and Western culture was still quite alien to

Western culture was still quite alien to

Western culture was still quite alien to us

us

us we didn’t have even the right equipment

we didn’t have even the right equipment

we didn’t have even the right equipment I was riding a windsurfing board just

I was riding a windsurfing board just

I was riding a windsurfing board just without the sail I remember coming back

without the sail I remember coming back

without the sail I remember coming back to school after after the summer and

to school after after the summer and

to school after after the summer and writing an essay how I served during the

writing an essay how I served during the

writing an essay how I served during the summer nobody believed it even the

summer nobody believed it even the

summer nobody believed it even the teacher was laughing at me luckily I had

teacher was laughing at me luckily I had

teacher was laughing at me luckily I had the picture to prove them wrong so I

the picture to prove them wrong so I

the picture to prove them wrong so I didn’t get a bad grade

didn’t get a bad grade

didn’t get a bad grade however this addiction to catch another

however this addiction to catch another

however this addiction to catch another wave has literally shaped me as a person

wave has literally shaped me as a person

wave has literally shaped me as a person I kept coming back for more and I still

I kept coming back for more and I still

I kept coming back for more and I still am I might even say that surfing gave me

am I might even say that surfing gave me

am I might even say that surfing gave me a reason to be better at anything I do

a reason to be better at anything I do

a reason to be better at anything I do now before I continue I’d like to ask

now before I continue I’d like to ask

now before I continue I’d like to ask you a question how many of you before

you a question how many of you before

you a question how many of you before entering here today so that there is no

entering here today so that there is no

entering here today so that there is no surfing in Lithuania just raise your

surfing in Lithuania just raise your

surfing in Lithuania just raise your hands

hands

hands just a few well we can continue in the

just a few well we can continue in the

just a few well we can continue in the bar then all right so I’ll take it that

bar then all right so I’ll take it that

bar then all right so I’ll take it that the work we did over the last 10 years

the work we did over the last 10 years

the work we did over the last 10 years paid off but today I’m surfing the waves

paid off but today I’m surfing the waves

paid off but today I’m surfing the waves all over the world I’m the founder

all over the world I’m the founder

all over the world I’m the founder president of Lithuania and surfing

president of Lithuania and surfing

president of Lithuania and surfing Association

Association

Association I’m also an organizer of surf camp

I’m also an organizer of surf camp

I’m also an organizer of surf camp festival surf camp was instrumental to

festival surf camp was instrumental to

festival surf camp was instrumental to bring in surfing to masses in Lithuania

bring in surfing to masses in Lithuania

bring in surfing to masses in Lithuania ten years ago mainstream opinion was

ten years ago mainstream opinion was

ten years ago mainstream opinion was pretty clear there is no surfing in the

pretty clear there is no surfing in the

pretty clear there is no surfing in the suena there are no waves even our

suena there are no waves even our

suena there are no waves even our friends that used Arthur boards like

friends that used Arthur boards like

friends that used Arthur boards like skateboard snowboards wind and kite surf

skateboard snowboards wind and kite surf

skateboard snowboards wind and kite surf and so on even they didn’t believe that

and so on even they didn’t believe that

and so on even they didn’t believe that the waves are good enough for surfing so

the waves are good enough for surfing so

the waves are good enough for surfing so we decided that it’s pointless to fight

we decided that it’s pointless to fight

we decided that it’s pointless to fight this opinion and argue about it let’s

this opinion and argue about it let’s

this opinion and argue about it let’s invite them for a surf camp a couple

invite them for a surf camp a couple

invite them for a surf camp a couple buddies my cousin and I we shaved seven

buddies my cousin and I we shaved seven

buddies my cousin and I we shaved seven boards and invited 50 friends to try

boards and invited 50 friends to try

boards and invited 50 friends to try surfing that’s how it all started with

surfing that’s how it all started with

surfing that’s how it all started with 50 friends at the beach surfing during

50 friends at the beach surfing during

50 friends at the beach surfing during the day listening to music over night

the day listening to music over night

the day listening to music over night and watching surf movies at the beach 10

and watching surf movies at the beach 10

and watching surf movies at the beach 10 years later two thousand people gathered

years later two thousand people gathered

years later two thousand people gathered in brayla this August and we had 480

in brayla this August and we had 480

in brayla this August and we had 480 people trying surfing for the first time

people trying surfing for the first time

people trying surfing for the first time in their life actually surf camp was

in their life actually surf camp was

in their life actually surf camp was growing so fast that we had to scale it

growing so fast that we had to scale it

growing so fast that we had to scale it back after year 6 because we weren’t

back after year 6 because we weren’t

back after year 6 because we weren’t ready to accommodate so many people and

ready to accommodate so many people and

ready to accommodate so many people and the whole idea was that surf camp is an

the whole idea was that surf camp is an

the whole idea was that surf camp is an event which is free of charge and we

event which is free of charge and we

event which is free of charge and we teach anyone who wants to catch a wave

teach anyone who wants to catch a wave

teach anyone who wants to catch a wave and to be safe around the water however

and to be safe around the water however

and to be safe around the water however thanks to surf camp surfing is not so

thanks to surf camp surfing is not so

thanks to surf camp surfing is not so uncommon in the Swaney anymore we have

uncommon in the Swaney anymore we have

uncommon in the Swaney anymore we have surf schools opening up here and there

surf schools opening up here and there

surf schools opening up here and there we have surf shops local news are

we have surf shops local news are

we have surf shops local news are covering our national championships and

covering our national championships and

covering our national championships and local shapers are even producing

local shapers are even producing

local shapers are even producing Lithuanian surfboards suddenly more and

Lithuanian surfboards suddenly more and

Lithuanian surfboards suddenly more and more Lithuanians are travelling the

more Lithuanians are travelling the

more Lithuanians are travelling the world to surf in Spain Portugal Morocco

world to surf in Spain Portugal Morocco

world to surf in Spain Portugal Morocco Latin America and East Asia and part of

Latin America and East Asia and part of

Latin America and East Asia and part of the reason for that the biggest part of

the reason for that the biggest part of

the reason for that the biggest part of the reason

the reason

the reason that is surfing itself it’s very hard to

that is surfing itself it’s very hard to

that is surfing itself it’s very hard to describe the feeling the sensation you

describe the feeling the sensation you

describe the feeling the sensation you feel when you ride the wave yet this

feel when you ride the wave yet this

feel when you ride the wave yet this ever-changing body of water moving wall

ever-changing body of water moving wall

ever-changing body of water moving wall of water provides exceptional joy

of water provides exceptional joy

of water provides exceptional joy surfing is one of the has one of the

surfing is one of the has one of the

surfing is one of the has one of the slowest learning curve it’s very hard

slowest learning curve it’s very hard

slowest learning curve it’s very hard physically yet it’s the same difficult

physically yet it’s the same difficult

physically yet it’s the same difficult mentally because you need to learn how

mentally because you need to learn how

mentally because you need to learn how to read the waves you need to understand

to read the waves you need to understand

to read the waves you need to understand where the wave is gonna break what is it

where the wave is gonna break what is it

where the wave is gonna break what is it gonna do next and so on

gonna do next and so on

gonna do next and so on that’s why surfing is a unique sport

that’s why surfing is a unique sport

that’s why surfing is a unique sport because it doesn’t have any

because it doesn’t have any

because it doesn’t have any premeditation you can’t have a general

premeditation you can’t have a general

premeditation you can’t have a general idea or a plan what you want to do yet

idea or a plan what you want to do yet

idea or a plan what you want to do yet it all comes down to the wave that the

it all comes down to the wave that the

it all comes down to the wave that the ocean will provide you with no two waves

ocean will provide you with no two waves

ocean will provide you with no two waves are the same some might be very similar

are the same some might be very similar

are the same some might be very similar but most are really different and that’s

but most are really different and that’s

but most are really different and that’s why you can’t plan ahead you just have

why you can’t plan ahead you just have

why you can’t plan ahead you just have to be present some scientists believe

to be present some scientists believe

to be present some scientists believe that this concentration required and

that this concentration required and

that this concentration required and being present helps to treat some mental

being present helps to treat some mental

being present helps to treat some mental conditions like depression and

conditions like depression and

conditions like depression and post-traumatic stress disorder in

post-traumatic stress disorder in

post-traumatic stress disorder in Britain National British Health Service

Britain National British Health Service

Britain National British Health Service even provides funding for surf treatment

even provides funding for surf treatment

even provides funding for surf treatment camps so people who suffer from these

camps so people who suffer from these

camps so people who suffer from these conditions might get some help last year

conditions might get some help last year

conditions might get some help last year we held the first surf camp for kids

we held the first surf camp for kids

we held the first surf camp for kids with autism spectrum disorder here in

with autism spectrum disorder here in

with autism spectrum disorder here in Lithuania we follow the international

Lithuania we follow the international

Lithuania we follow the international experience and the results were simply

experience and the results were simply

experience and the results were simply amazing in the beginning everyone had

amazing in the beginning everyone had

amazing in the beginning everyone had their doubts some said the water is too

their doubts some said the water is too

their doubts some said the water is too cold others said kids don’t know how to

cold others said kids don’t know how to

cold others said kids don’t know how to swim others said something else the

swim others said something else the

swim others said something else the usual stuff but when the first kid

usual stuff but when the first kid

usual stuff but when the first kid caught a wave the emotions the smile in

caught a wave the emotions the smile in

caught a wave the emotions the smile in his face was simply priceless I don’t

his face was simply priceless I don’t

his face was simply priceless I don’t remember ever seeing so much positive

remember ever seeing so much positive

remember ever seeing so much positive energy in the air and then everybody

energy in the air and then everybody

energy in the air and then everybody wanted to do that we had a hard time to

wanted to do that we had a hard time to

wanted to do that we had a hard time to bring them out of the water they were

bring them out of the water they were

bring them out of the water they were all late for lunch all of this all of

all late for lunch all of this all of

all late for lunch all of this all of these experiences weren’t possible if I

these experiences weren’t possible if I

these experiences weren’t possible if I didn’t try surfing 25 years ago but

didn’t try surfing 25 years ago but

didn’t try surfing 25 years ago but people say that is the journey that

people say that is the journey that

people say that is the journey that matters not the destination and

matters not the destination and

matters not the destination and I think that everything that happens in

I think that everything that happens in

I think that everything that happens in between the waves in between riding the

between the waves in between riding the

between the waves in between riding the wave is just as important the tiring

wave is just as important the tiring

wave is just as important the tiring travels across the world the waiting in

travels across the world the waiting in

travels across the world the waiting in the airport or in the surfing spot

the airport or in the surfing spot

the airport or in the surfing spot waiting for the swell to show up fatigue

waiting for the swell to show up fatigue

waiting for the swell to show up fatigue excitement all of that adds up each wave

excitement all of that adds up each wave

excitement all of that adds up each wave has a story what did it take for you to

has a story what did it take for you to

has a story what did it take for you to get there and to catch it what did you

get there and to catch it what did you

get there and to catch it what did you have to overcome what did you have to

have to overcome what did you have to

have to overcome what did you have to sacrifice what coincidence and steered

sacrifice what coincidence and steered

sacrifice what coincidence and steered you towards it every wave is an

you towards it every wave is an

you towards it every wave is an adventure and one of those adventures

adventure and one of those adventures

adventure and one of those adventures happened four years ago in Morocco we

happened four years ago in Morocco we

happened four years ago in Morocco we were on a surf trip with a couple of

were on a surf trip with a couple of

were on a surf trip with a couple of friends and this particular spot we were

friends and this particular spot we were

friends and this particular spot we were surfing in had a big rip currents in it

surfing in had a big rip currents in it

surfing in had a big rip currents in it what is a rip current a rip current is a

what is a rip current a rip current is a

what is a rip current a rip current is a water stream that goes straight out to

water stream that goes straight out to

water stream that goes straight out to the ocean

the ocean

the ocean if you imagine waves breaking at the

if you imagine waves breaking at the

if you imagine waves breaking at the beach you could realize quickly that the

beach you could realize quickly that the

beach you could realize quickly that the waves won’t the waters not going to

waves won’t the waters not going to

waves won’t the waters not going to climb uphill it has to come back to the

climb uphill it has to come back to the

climb uphill it has to come back to the ocean so usually the water finds a

ocean so usually the water finds a

ocean so usually the water finds a channel and go straight back to the

channel and go straight back to the

channel and go straight back to the ocean this particular place this

ocean this particular place this

ocean this particular place this particular rip current was as wide as

particular rip current was as wide as

particular rip current was as wide as the stage I’m standing on right now and

the stage I’m standing on right now and

the stage I’m standing on right now and moving as fast as seven kilometers an

moving as fast as seven kilometers an

moving as fast as seven kilometers an hour which is a regular walking pace

hour which is a regular walking pace

hour which is a regular walking pace so you can imagine that’s quite a lot of

so you can imagine that’s quite a lot of

so you can imagine that’s quite a lot of water moving around so on a pretty big

water moving around so on a pretty big

water moving around so on a pretty big day my buddy Marius and me we paddled

day my buddy Marius and me we paddled

day my buddy Marius and me we paddled out and at the end of the channel we

out and at the end of the channel we

out and at the end of the channel we heard a cry for help so high steam our

heard a cry for help so high steam our

heard a cry for help so high steam our he still remembers the story so there

he still remembers the story so there

he still remembers the story so there was a guy the body boarder without fins

was a guy the body boarder without fins

was a guy the body boarder without fins floating around doesn’t seem too bad

floating around doesn’t seem too bad

floating around doesn’t seem too bad well he was half a kilometre out the sea

well he was half a kilometre out the sea

well he was half a kilometre out the sea so we tried to even some pointers some

so we tried to even some pointers some

so we tried to even some pointers some advice what to do where to go how to

advice what to do where to go how to

advice what to do where to go how to come in safely to the shore but we

come in safely to the shore but we

come in safely to the shore but we quickly came to realize that he’s not

quickly came to realize that he’s not

quickly came to realize that he’s not gonna make it on his own so much for

gonna make it on his own so much for

gonna make it on his own so much for surfing big waves we had to help the

surfing big waves we had to help the

surfing big waves we had to help the poor fella

poor fella

poor fella if it wasn’t for us nobody knows how it

if it wasn’t for us nobody knows how it

if it wasn’t for us nobody knows how it had how would he have ended because

had how would he have ended because

had how would he have ended because there was nobody else in the water and

there was nobody else in the water and

there was nobody else in the water and you couldn’t see him from the from the

you couldn’t see him from the from the

you couldn’t see him from the from the beach so me and me and Marius we took

beach so me and me and Marius we took

beach so me and me and Marius we took turns by dragging the guy while he was

turns by dragging the guy while he was

turns by dragging the guy while he was holding on our feet and what do you do

holding on our feet and what do you do

holding on our feet and what do you do when you’re in the rip current there’s

when you’re in the rip current there’s

when you’re in the rip current there’s it’s pointless to paddled against the

it’s pointless to paddled against the

it’s pointless to paddled against the stream because it will wear you down and

stream because it will wear you down and

stream because it will wear you down and get the better of you the only way to

get the better of you the only way to

get the better of you the only way to escape the stream is to go perpendicular

escape the stream is to go perpendicular

escape the stream is to go perpendicular to the stream far enough so it doesn’t

to the stream far enough so it doesn’t

to the stream far enough so it doesn’t affect you anymore and only then you can

affect you anymore and only then you can

affect you anymore and only then you can come back to the shore on one side we

come back to the shore on one side we

come back to the shore on one side we had a rocky point on the other side

had a rocky point on the other side

had a rocky point on the other side there was three kilometers of sandy

there was three kilometers of sandy

there was three kilometers of sandy beach it was clear that we’re gonna go

beach it was clear that we’re gonna go

beach it was clear that we’re gonna go to the south for at least a kilometer so

to the south for at least a kilometer so

to the south for at least a kilometer so we far enough from the current and then

we far enough from the current and then

we far enough from the current and then we can come back to safety when we reach

we can come back to safety when we reach

we can come back to safety when we reach the beach break we didn’t want to

the beach break we didn’t want to

the beach break we didn’t want to endanger ourselves and stop for a minute

endanger ourselves and stop for a minute

endanger ourselves and stop for a minute to explain to the guy how we’re gonna

to explain to the guy how we’re gonna

to explain to the guy how we’re gonna proceed next having two boards board

proceed next having two boards board

proceed next having two boards board leashes a clueless beach goer with us

leashes a clueless beach goer with us

leashes a clueless beach goer with us meant danger once the real threat

meant danger once the real threat

meant danger once the real threat presents itself you couldn’t really

presents itself you couldn’t really

presents itself you couldn’t really expect what he was going to do and we

expect what he was going to do and we

expect what he was going to do and we didn’t really want to entangle ourselves

didn’t really want to entangle ourselves

didn’t really want to entangle ourselves with him this proved to be a crucial

with him this proved to be a crucial

with him this proved to be a crucial mistake because the feeder current took

mistake because the feeder current took

mistake because the feeder current took us back another half a kilometer in

us back another half a kilometer in

us back another half a kilometer in three minutes so we had to start over

three minutes so we had to start over

three minutes so we had to start over again half way back after some time a

again half way back after some time a

again half way back after some time a local school owner paddled out on a big

local school owner paddled out on a big

local school owner paddled out on a big board on a longboard so it was easier

board on a longboard so it was easier

board on a longboard so it was easier for him to help us and it was more

for him to help us and it was more

for him to help us and it was more efficient to drag the pool fella in and

efficient to drag the pool fella in and

efficient to drag the pool fella in and according to my GPS watch it took us one

according to my GPS watch it took us one

according to my GPS watch it took us one hour and three kilometres of paddling

hour and three kilometres of paddling

hour and three kilometres of paddling until we finally got him to safety he

until we finally got him to safety he

until we finally got him to safety he was in shock perhaps hypothermic and

was in shock perhaps hypothermic and

was in shock perhaps hypothermic and medics took medics took over once on the

medics took medics took over once on the

medics took medics took over once on the beach if this whole experience taught me

beach if this whole experience taught me

beach if this whole experience taught me one thing you have to be aware if you’re

one thing you have to be aware if you’re

one thing you have to be aware if you’re around the water you have to be present

around the water you have to be present

around the water you have to be present you have to be aware you have to know

you have to be aware you have to know

you have to be aware you have to know what’s happening this lost concentration

what’s happening this lost concentration

what’s happening this lost concentration for a couple of minutes

for a couple of minutes

for a couple of minutes did cost us another

did cost us another

did cost us another 20 minutes of paddling in other cases in

20 minutes of paddling in other cases in

20 minutes of paddling in other cases in other instances the cost might be much

other instances the cost might be much

other instances the cost might be much higher but then let’s step out of the

higher but then let’s step out of the

higher but then let’s step out of the water how a where are we in our everyday

water how a where are we in our everyday

water how a where are we in our everyday life how many of you felt that sometimes

life how many of you felt that sometimes

life how many of you felt that sometimes the life is carrying you like a current

the life is carrying you like a current

the life is carrying you like a current like you’re not controlling your

like you’re not controlling your

like you’re not controlling your everyday life you go to work you hate

everyday life you go to work you hate

everyday life you go to work you hate because everybody does you took a

because everybody does you took a

because everybody does you took a mortgage on your house or apartment

mortgage on your house or apartment

mortgage on your house or apartment because everybody does you do things you

because everybody does you do things you

because everybody does you do things you have to but not the things you want to

it’s pointless to fight the stream and

it’s pointless to fight the stream and if you want to go somewhere you’ll have

if you want to go somewhere you’ll have

if you want to go somewhere you’ll have to find the way around so if you stop

to find the way around so if you stop

to find the way around so if you stop and look around and define what is

and look around and define what is

and look around and define what is happening to you only then you can

happening to you only then you can

happening to you only then you can understand where you are worried being

understand where you are worried being

understand where you are worried being taken only then you can determine your

taken only then you can determine your

taken only then you can determine your next goal where you want to go define

next goal where you want to go define

next goal where you want to go define the obstacles and find the way around

the obstacles and find the way around

the obstacles and find the way around and if we reflect on my childhood

and if we reflect on my childhood

and if we reflect on my childhood experience I drowned

experience I drowned

experience I drowned not because I didn’t know how to swim

not because I didn’t know how to swim

not because I didn’t know how to swim everybody in this auditorium knows how

everybody in this auditorium knows how

everybody in this auditorium knows how to swim or at least how to float in the

to swim or at least how to float in the

to swim or at least how to float in the water that’s in our body we can float I

water that’s in our body we can float I

water that’s in our body we can float I drowned because I didn’t even try so

drowned because I didn’t even try so

drowned because I didn’t even try so that’s what people do when they lose

that’s what people do when they lose

that’s what people do when they lose ground they try to reach for the bottom

ground they try to reach for the bottom

ground they try to reach for the bottom and usually they reach the bottom but

and usually they reach the bottom but

and usually they reach the bottom but not in the way they want to so my tip

not in the way they want to so my tip

not in the way they want to so my tip for all of you if you suddenly lose your

for all of you if you suddenly lose your

for all of you if you suddenly lose your ground and start drowning just stick

ground and start drowning just stick

ground and start drowning just stick your head up and swim to safety thank

your head up and swim to safety thank

your head up and swim to safety thank you

you

you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

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