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I meant giaggi when I was about 10 years

I meant giaggi when I was about 10 years old he was your average kid who liked

old he was your average kid who liked

old he was your average kid who liked comics and playing video games

comics and playing video games

comics and playing video games but despite we’re the same age and like

but despite we’re the same age and like

but despite we’re the same age and like the same things we’re very different

the same things we’re very different

the same things we’re very different from each other while I was the chubby

from each other while I was the chubby

from each other while I was the chubby ten-year-old who liked playing video

ten-year-old who liked playing video

ten-year-old who liked playing video games and my bit greatest worry was not

games and my bit greatest worry was not

games and my bit greatest worry was not getting dessert at the end of dinner he

getting dessert at the end of dinner he

getting dessert at the end of dinner he was a quiet kid whose demeanor was

was a quiet kid whose demeanor was

was a quiet kid whose demeanor was dogged by the experiences of his life

dogged by the experiences of his life

dogged by the experiences of his life but most importantly he lost both his

but most importantly he lost both his

but most importantly he lost both his arms during an earthquake in Sichuan it

arms during an earthquake in Sichuan it

arms during an earthquake in Sichuan it was on May 12 2008 when an 8.5 magnitude

was on May 12 2008 when an 8.5 magnitude

was on May 12 2008 when an 8.5 magnitude earthquake struck the heart of switch

earthquake struck the heart of switch

earthquake struck the heart of switch one I remember sitting in class 800

one I remember sitting in class 800

one I remember sitting in class 800 miles away from the epicenter of the

miles away from the epicenter of the

miles away from the epicenter of the earthquake smelling up feeling a small

earthquake smelling up feeling a small

earthquake smelling up feeling a small vibration in the classroom little Dino

vibration in the classroom little Dino

vibration in the classroom little Dino later when I found out that like Jia

later when I found out that like Jia

later when I found out that like Jia drear my friend to be there were

drear my friend to be there were

drear my friend to be there were thousands of other victims that were

thousands of other victims that were

thousands of other victims that were incapacitated but by the rubble waiting

incapacitated but by the rubble waiting

incapacitated but by the rubble waiting for the rescuers to reach them meeting

for the rescuers to reach them meeting

for the rescuers to reach them meeting him for the first time was a shock for

him for the first time was a shock for

him for the first time was a shock for the both of us but it was through my

the both of us but it was through my

the both of us but it was through my trips to his hometown and his trips of

trips to his hometown and his trips of

trips to his hometown and his trips of mine where we realized we really had a

mine where we realized we really had a

mine where we realized we really had a lot of difference in the way we live and

lot of difference in the way we live and

lot of difference in the way we live and the different tasks in life we had well

the different tasks in life we had well

the different tasks in life we had well he taught me how he ate without his two

he taught me how he ate without his two

he taught me how he ate without his two arms and how he used his prosthesis I

arms and how he used his prosthesis I

arms and how he used his prosthesis I showed him my prized Pokemon collection

showed him my prized Pokemon collection

showed him my prized Pokemon collection in my bedroom but despite his handicap

in my bedroom but despite his handicap

in my bedroom but despite his handicap he was really seen with his prosthesis

he was really seen with his prosthesis

he was really seen with his prosthesis because when I later found out that it

because when I later found out that it

because when I later found out that it was really heavy and cumbersome but

was really heavy and cumbersome but

was really heavy and cumbersome but during one night when I was having

during one night when I was having

during one night when I was having dinner with was with him and his family

dinner with was with him and his family

dinner with was with him and his family and one of his donors I saw him wearing

and one of his donors I saw him wearing

and one of his donors I saw him wearing his prosthesis and he was slowly working

his prosthesis and he was slowly working

his prosthesis and he was slowly working his way through his dinner

his way through his dinner

his way through his dinner you know sometimes spelling a bit of

you know sometimes spelling a bit of

you know sometimes spelling a bit of sauce or porridge on his lap

sauce or porridge on his lap

sauce or porridge on his lap and one of the donors asked him a

and one of the donors asked him a

and one of the donors asked him a question in English and she said how’s

question in English and she said how’s

question in English and she said how’s your prosthesis holding up and as you

your prosthesis holding up and as you

your prosthesis holding up and as you know that jaja didn’t speak English so

know that jaja didn’t speak English so

know that jaja didn’t speak English so she he stared at her blankly and amid

she he stared at her blankly and amid

she he stared at her blankly and amid that silence I heard from someone on the

that silence I heard from someone on the

that silence I heard from someone on the table that the prosthesis is holding up

table that the prosthesis is holding up

table that the prosthesis is holding up pretty well we’re hoping to get a new

pretty well we’re hoping to get a new

pretty well we’re hoping to get a new one next year so Joshy wouldn’t have an

one next year so Joshy wouldn’t have an

one next year so Joshy wouldn’t have an easier time prior to meetings a Jew

easier time prior to meetings a Jew

easier time prior to meetings a Jew I knew suffering from a distance

I knew suffering from a distance

I knew suffering from a distance sheltered by my privilege and life was

sheltered by my privilege and life was

sheltered by my privilege and life was never the same for him after the

never the same for him after the

never the same for him after the earthquake and makes problems that they

earthquake and makes problems that they

earthquake and makes problems that they never expected popped up after the

never expected popped up after the

never expected popped up after the earthquake and they had to rely on the

earthquake and they had to rely on the

earthquake and they had to rely on the donors money in order to sustain the

donors money in order to sustain the

donors money in order to sustain the future judges future however

something that I realized is judge’

something that I realized is judge’ didn’t really have a choice because he

didn’t really have a choice because he

didn’t really have a choice because he had to in order to get these funds he

had to in order to get these funds he

had to in order to get these funds he had to show demonstrates the donors that

had to show demonstrates the donors that

had to show demonstrates the donors that the way he’s using their money is

the way he’s using their money is

the way he’s using their money is manifested in useful means where the

manifested in useful means where the

manifested in useful means where the donors could see nine years later

donors could see nine years later

donors could see nine years later traveling halfway across the world for

traveling halfway across the world for

traveling halfway across the world for boarding school in the States and going

boarding school in the States and going

boarding school in the States and going to my first medical service trip in

to my first medical service trip in

to my first medical service trip in Haiti after Hurricane Matthew I was

Haiti after Hurricane Matthew I was

Haiti after Hurricane Matthew I was transformed and transported in a

transformed and transported in a

transformed and transported in a different different world and different

different different world and different

different different world and different place and as I was driving around

place and as I was driving around

place and as I was driving around port-au-prince after delivering supplies

port-au-prince after delivering supplies

port-au-prince after delivering supplies to a prison in nearby port-au-prince we

to a prison in nearby port-au-prince we

to a prison in nearby port-au-prince we stopped by at a local supermarket for

stopped by at a local supermarket for

stopped by at a local supermarket for lunch and in sand in the supermarket

lunch and in sand in the supermarket

lunch and in sand in the supermarket there was a great pretty tall wall

there was a great pretty tall wall

there was a great pretty tall wall surrounding the supermarket and inside

surrounding the supermarket and inside

surrounding the supermarket and inside that supermarket there was rows of cars

that supermarket there was rows of cars

that supermarket there was rows of cars such as Land Rovers BMWs and Ford’s that

such as Land Rovers BMWs and Ford’s that

such as Land Rovers BMWs and Ford’s that each reflected the harsh glare of the

each reflected the harsh glare of the

each reflected the harsh glare of the sunlight and stepping inside I was

sunlight and stepping inside I was

sunlight and stepping inside I was transported in it into a different realm

transported in it into a different realm

transported in it into a different realm and there were rows and rows of consumer

and there were rows and rows of consumer

and there were rows and rows of consumer goods that towered over me you could

goods that towered over me you could

goods that towered over me you could find haagen-dazs ice cream Hot Pockets

find haagen-dazs ice cream Hot Pockets

find haagen-dazs ice cream Hot Pockets Arnold Palmer I would even argue that

Arnold Palmer I would even argue that

Arnold Palmer I would even argue that the the supermarket there was had

the the supermarket there was had

the the supermarket there was had products that were even more diverse

products that were even more diverse

products that were even more diverse than some stores in the states but

than some stores in the states but

than some stores in the states but outside beyond that wall there was there

outside beyond that wall there was there

outside beyond that wall there was there were children drinking unfiltered water

were children drinking unfiltered water

were children drinking unfiltered water off of well and that slight infuriated

off of well and that slight infuriated

off of well and that slight infuriated me and was the impetus for me to go and

me and was the impetus for me to go and

me and was the impetus for me to go and try my best to provide the most I can

try my best to provide the most I can

try my best to provide the most I can while I was in Haiti and here you could

while I was in Haiti and here you could

while I was in Haiti and here you could see the the supermarket that was there

see the the supermarket that was there

see the the supermarket that was there and then the children they were outside

and then the children they were outside

and then the children they were outside I’m drinking unfiltered water from the

I’m drinking unfiltered water from the

I’m drinking unfiltered water from the well but nevertheless with my passion

well but nevertheless with my passion

well but nevertheless with my passion the reality was still there

the reality was still there

the reality was still there we lacked basic medications and for

we lacked basic medications and for

we lacked basic medications and for blood pressure and diabetes and diseases

blood pressure and diabetes and diseases

blood pressure and diabetes and diseases that were often curable in the first

that were often curable in the first

that were often curable in the first world countries were now incurable

world countries were now incurable

world countries were now incurable because of our lack of resources

because of our lack of resources

because of our lack of resources later that day when I visited an

later that day when I visited an

later that day when I visited an orphanage to provide medical check-ups

orphanage to provide medical check-ups

orphanage to provide medical check-ups to the orphans there I met a group of

to the orphans there I met a group of

to the orphans there I met a group of teenagers who were just like me either

teenagers who were just like me either

teenagers who were just like me either eager to help and make a difference in

eager to help and make a difference in

eager to help and make a difference in this world and before the teenagers left

this world and before the teenagers left

this world and before the teenagers left they gave these keepsake bracelets to

they gave these keepsake bracelets to

they gave these keepsake bracelets to the kids there and later that day when I

the kids there and later that day when I

the kids there and later that day when I found out when I came back to provide

found out when I came back to provide

found out when I came back to provide more medical check-ups I saw that the

more medical check-ups I saw that the

more medical check-ups I saw that the the orphans weren’t wearing those

the orphans weren’t wearing those

the orphans weren’t wearing those keepsake bracelets the teens gave them

keepsake bracelets the teens gave them

keepsake bracelets the teens gave them when they left to me a young romantic

when they left to me a young romantic

when they left to me a young romantic whose dreams were always to help the

whose dreams were always to help the

whose dreams were always to help the underprivileged it was it seemed as it

underprivileged it was it seemed as it

underprivileged it was it seemed as it was all a facade for the teens to come

was all a facade for the teens to come

was all a facade for the teens to come help and play with the orphans my dreams

help and play with the orphans my dreams

help and play with the orphans my dreams of helping others became disillusioned

of helping others became disillusioned

of helping others became disillusioned as I realized that most of what we did

as I realized that most of what we did

as I realized that most of what we did was kind of useless having no lasting

was kind of useless having no lasting

was kind of useless having no lasting impact on the children I asked myself

impact on the children I asked myself

impact on the children I asked myself was i contributing to part of the

was i contributing to part of the

was i contributing to part of the culture that was coming in and

culture that was coming in and

culture that was coming in and exploiting the underprivileged but

exploiting the underprivileged but

exploiting the underprivileged but looking back I realized that like gee

looking back I realized that like gee

looking back I realized that like gee Adger they had no other choice in order

Adger they had no other choice in order

Adger they had no other choice in order to sustain themselves for and provide

to sustain themselves for and provide

to sustain themselves for and provide themselves with food water and shelter

themselves with food water and shelter

themselves with food water and shelter and it was only interacting and living

and it was only interacting and living

and it was only interacting and living with the local Haitians when I realized

with the local Haitians when I realized

with the local Haitians when I realized the true needs of Haiti the Haitians

the true needs of Haiti the Haitians

the true needs of Haiti the Haitians need jobs

need jobs

need jobs the orphans need an education and the

the orphans need an education and the

the orphans need an education and the elderly need adequate health care

elderly need adequate health care

elderly need adequate health care instead of blindly helping I realized

instead of blindly helping I realized

instead of blindly helping I realized that we first need to understand the

that we first need to understand the

that we first need to understand the true needs of Haitians before we could

true needs of Haitians before we could

true needs of Haitians before we could provide adequate support for the

provide adequate support for the

provide adequate support for the recovery and growth what also emerged

recovery and growth what also emerged

recovery and growth what also emerged from these interactions were lessons of

from these interactions were lessons of

from these interactions were lessons of art and faith and generosity

art and faith and generosity

art and faith and generosity at a church service I saw those who had

at a church service I saw those who had

at a church service I saw those who had served the the day before coming with

served the the day before coming with

served the the day before coming with their best attire singing songs of

their best attire singing songs of

their best attire singing songs of praise and worship

praise and worship

praise and worship despite their dire health problems

before I left for Haiti a mentor told me

before I left for Haiti a mentor told me do good well and I never really

do good well and I never really

do good well and I never really understood what he meant by doing good

understood what he meant by doing good

understood what he meant by doing good well until I actually went went forth to

well until I actually went went forth to

well until I actually went went forth to experience the what it means to do good

experience the what it means to do good

experience the what it means to do good well because while we can always provide

well because while we can always provide

well because while we can always provide blind help towards those who are less

blind help towards those who are less

blind help towards those who are less privileged than us sometimes all these

privileged than us sometimes all these

privileged than us sometimes all these people need is someone to talk to them

people need is someone to talk to them

people need is someone to talk to them and understand their struggles and truly

and understand their struggles and truly

and understand their struggles and truly share their experiences with them thank

share their experiences with them thank

share their experiences with them thank you

you

you [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

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