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El Secreto de tu imagen Personal | Magali Montes | TEDxMoreliaSalon


hi how are you ready to continue

with the experience of becks stronger

because I do not hear that with encouragement from you

c’s and well then let’s talk in this

moment of personal image and if you

I tell an anecdote and casually

matches your experience and the

sign hours

it turns out that one day he awakens sas and

you have a laziness to get up and the

bed is warm and says its moment

more but it turns out that you have to leave

then you put a sock of 1 a

another sock a shoe of 1 a

shoe of another

I swear that happened to a real friend

you wear the first shirt that

you find that it turns out that it is the one that does not

you like it, you do not comb your hair and leave with desire

that no one sees you leaves walking and

suddenly you find someone and he tells you

that for your baby is fatal

it may be that another day you get up and

feel that it is a wonderful day

find the first combination of the

you put and nickel you would have thought all the

month because it’s perfect

you manage sales walking step

sure and when they look at you they tell you

wow how good you look if you have casually

lived any of these experiences is

because you have already had the experience of

personal image

today I want to invite you so that

concept that has changed the image

staff almost always see it as a

synonymous of looking nice see seguel and

actually the personal image is more

great is your best strategy

communication is one that allows

establish links with people

relate to you and therefore allows you

reach your goals

but when we talk about the image

staff and change this concept

we have to understand then how it

way the personal goal has three

Elements external image the image

internal and the image ideal image

external

is the one that has more weight because it is what

that others perceive appearance

Physics your clothes the way you

you wear the clothes that forgive

the accessories that you use your hair

it is as it is given more weight can

spend all the money in the world

changing your personal image only

the external part thinking that the others

you will accept pasta is fulfilling

with some stereotypes but it turns out

that the external image has a

weakness has to overcome the test

of time and that is why it is as fragile as

a shell

You may want to upload your photo to

face the goals in the photoshop you give a

hand so they have more handsome or the

best plant is an excellent program

those that you lose 50 percent of weight

body or maybe you can find

a self and a good angle so that you

face is stylized and when the time and you

they know in person they say it does not look like

that’s why this is where strength is

for this sentence what is important is what

inside the internal image and the image

ideal the ideal image is built in your

mind since you’re little is that

I want to be like him I want to see him

like him and the internal image is the

image that you have of yourself

what do you think of yourself what is your

identity

these three elements are constantly

movement

just as you are subject to a

external environment where as I said

a while ago it could be the stereotypes

besides the stereotypes it is a

environment a cultural context where

a parameter of the

beauty that maybe you want

cover but it does not correspond for its

genetics and your bone structure

anatomical

however you want to cover it and in

that movement is also subject to

the pressure of the internal image and the

ideal image that can also be the

answer that you have to everything

you are living in the environment

these images that are constantly

movement like you

it may be that one day you do not feel good

and when you do not feel good it ‘s a day

you do not want to open your eyes you do not want

get out of bed because you feel

fatal really fatal and when

you look inside you all dusty

there is a chaos that you want to find and not

can

however you know that you have to leave

forward but as if when

you try to find yourself it’s like looking at your

image in front of a broken mirror all your

images made bits and they do not

you find shape at that time is

when you have to keep quiet and

wait but I also want to tell you

that there is not a single person in all the

planet and in all periods that do not

I have experienced one day several days

months or even some years of days

cloudy

the causes can be many

Unfortunately, it can be a disease

that can be chronic and you have to

go adapting to live with her

it might be a circumstance in

the one you ‘ve already lived bull and can

be psychological moral physical or by

Internet

the osce of considers that mexico is the

first country in number of victims of

bullying 18 million people

the main teenage group but is

the bullying

Maybe it’s discrimination because of its color

of skin for your beliefs because of its gender

The complaints received were

thousand 493 in the year of 2014 of the

which the main one was for the

physical appearance at best not you

like your body in layers because you have

idea that you have to comply with what

tell you that’s the beauty whom you

like your body

You begin to attack yourself and

begins in some disorders of

feeding with

or anorexia bulimia vigorexia

when it is subjected to these disorders

of food what you have to do

is to think if you really have to

meet that stereotype

It is estimated that there are 20 thousand more cases each

year of young people living disorders

feeding

when you are at that time on that day

cloudy

you have to think what is the secret of

your personal image because it’s the one that

allows you to achieve your goals

if someone arrives and tells you loyal ana no

Get ahead

hear how I’m going to do it if I feel

really fatal will be better the others

he does not notice it because he sometimes saves

many secrets but inside you do not

can get ahead

then there is only one way left

build t

this rebuild is to keep

silence, wait for the pieces

that are inside you take it in its place

and in order to rebuild you have to

grab your dreams of what they are

your motivations but look carefully

I tell you your motivations not those of

nobody else, not mom’s and dad’s

neither the uncle nor the day nor the

neighbor the girlfriend nobody yours because

Sometimes it seems that we are walking the

lifetime

sweeping the dreams of others the

we keep in a bag and then if

someone told us that that dream did

happy we also take them from the air

we keep in the bag and we are loading

a bag of dreams that are not

yours that happens when you do it

the dreams are returned with their owners

and you stay empty then they have

that be yours

it does not matter if they are the ones that demand you

matter if they are small or are large

they are yours and truly believe me the simple

fulfillment of one of your goals

even if it’s tiny it has such an impact

great in your inner image that you

projects so also in the

moments where you have to

rebuild

I invite you to observe what surrounds you

observe for example nature are

photographs take them on a walk

who had an afternoon thinking about this

chat with you and I noticed that the

nature is teaching you and in this

case the trees do not matter if they are

old or are young under what

condition is sprouted

sprouts have even been mutilated

next I want to show you a

stone that I like a lot is the agate

sure you already know the agate is a

stone that is formed by a process

violent

the volcanic eruptions are forming

the rocks and over time they start to

filter minerals through the

surface of the rock and begin to

form each of these layers I said with

the time then it was circumference

that you once in the life story of the

stone and has a singular beauty

no stone looks like another is the same

that the cutting of the trees have a

life story just like the same cat

that I invite you to read with me the

next Vietnamese poem

you know we’re going to wage a war

let’s see what they thought a

two three

we fill the crater with the pumps and

new

we sow I do not hear them game

we sing and the last one stronger is

declares exact expiration since you said it

never in life is declared defeated

you do not have to give up

never happen what happens

builds and builds every day

you have to build you have to

learn how you want from the middle

society’s environment and this

reconstructions to be built not

it has only happened with people

it has also happened with the people

as we saw with vietnam his position

of life after a war and here

I want to tell you about this community of

Naya in Colombia

it’s a wooded area they had avoided

generation after generation

one day in 2001 between a group with

weapons and a massacre

the survivors decided to create a

new organization and they changed their place

of life and they looked for another space where

they began to rebuild

The interesting thing is that the latest

generations had not wanted the

customs of the original people nor their

language but when they found the new

where they were going to live

The first thing they decided was to put a

blooming earth name

see what beautiful words and two

words about which they built

a whole community

currently naya is being studied

as one of the best cases of

reconstruction

if this happens with a few words in a

village that happens inside you when

study the internal

when you are on these cloudy days

what do you say to yourself what words

are the ones that you repeat constantly

to be placed in a position of

victim or culprit is to say if I

I had to pass poor of me all

they are against me

or on the contrary what you say that I

I deserve I am to blame for everything

it happens to me you are becoming your

own enemy are the two sides of the

same currency

do not do it try to have dialogue

kind to you every day speaks to you

pretty and with this one he talks about pretty

I do not want you to do is to

see them in the mirror every day tell

how handsome today there is no one so

smart like me because then

I would be in the wrong position

you are losing the feet of the earth

what you have to do is know that in

diversity lies wealth and

added and beauty

I want to show you

the photographs of a young Turkish man who

decided to give up his job so

fulfill your dream take pictures all

the world and has been dedicated to travel and in

these cultures that you have found decide

make an experiment take the picture

thanks to the people a before and another

after telling them the word beautiful

I’m just going to show you two

I want you to see the before and after

to tell you beautiful doctors in the

first and second light the

smile immediately the brightness in those

eyes to the greater body opening a

student from chicago did repeat the

same experience and he did it with his

classmates

the same result shine in the eyes and

a smile and in an instant all the

interior image was projected on the

body therefore you are invited to borrow

attention to your own dreams

remember your own dreams what

wants is from you

Do not let anyone else say like

it must be

it’s like you are you internal dialogue

how do you talk like that are you going to

know the true secret of the

personal image and you’re going to return the

protagonist of your life and I assure you that

one day when you open your eyes to breathe

deeply and you will fill your body

of life and that life is going to notice was going to

leave through each of your pores

and if you look at the mirror image it would be

a solid where your external image of

ideal image and your internal image are a

alone because at that moment you have

convinced that the wealth of the

diversity you are unique and unrepeatable

thank you very much

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