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El martillo volador | Jennifer Dahlgren | TEDxMarDelPlata


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In his school

Lupita seemed to be a girl like

any other had no

problem with his teachers and he liked

do the same as your friends together and

they go to the movies Juan in the plaza listened

music they drew they sang and they danced

all day

so it was growing from the garden of

infants until they arrived at school

primary school was always smiling

lupita but with the passage of time

despite these similarities with their

lupita friends began to realize

that she was different

sport is a part school

parallel education and has been part of

my life from 5 years and since the

first contact was teaching me and

accompanying my family as a girl

move all the time and every time we

we moved was to change the country and

culture and language and of friends and my

brothers and I were very young like

to maintain friendships

international especially

considering that it did not exist yet

internet so whenever we get to

a new place

my parents obviously do not sign up

a school but they also signed up

in a sports club at school we

It cost a lot to interact with the others

guys encourage us to talk in class

understand what the class was saying

but not like that in sports

in sports the language is the rules

of the game and if you can not play and you

You can start unwrapping has

shared moments and start forging

new friendships

the sport was always our best

tool to make friends

later in my adolescence the

sport again helped me overcome

difficult times and this time the way

of bullying

when I was 13 years old

my family moved to the united states of

back to Argentina and I found

a group of guys who knew each other

from 3 years

I was very different it was much more

great that the others

the kids made fun of me because I did not

he spoke almost no Spanish and I

they said machona because I liked to do

sport and play football

they also started to make me feel

the difference that I have my build

median physique the back with a ruler

they told me gorden machona drew in

the blackboard a two-door slope and

entrenched and above or the time of

violence pretty extreme tension to

set fire a shoe and if he had it

put all this because the big one does not

because she was a bad friend or bad partner

just very big is not a

late when the aggressions were

too strong to support

the lupitas came to his house crying

when your mom on the plane

the strong hug asked him what

I had passed

mom why is it so bad to be

different

who said that it is bad little daughter sometimes

it’s complicated to be different but for

nothing bad is sometimes different

Become a person

extraordinary extraordinary and how

could mom achieve that path not

You will have to discover yourself my heaven

The worst thing about bullying is that we started

believe the things they say about us

take our worst insecurity and the

boost

I believed everything they said about me and

for many many years or ten my body

I also think that the most dangerous thing about

that the bullying comes is that it generates

a lot of loneliness and shame and guilt to

today I find it hard to talk about it but

at that time I could not do it

I just suffered it and I survived them

It was the most difficult time of my

life but it was also when I started

makes the hammer throw and there

on the running track

I found a space where the

guys accepted me for everything I am

where my physical frame was my

advantage and my love for the sport was

something to be admired or flattered

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despite highlighting and I started to cure

first he did it through sport is

more many years later it can

do as a woman

they say that what does not kill you strengthens you

but sometimes the things that happen to us

they leave those wounds very marked, not what

we can play alone or in a short time

I will always be grateful to my

parents who instilled in me the importance

of sport from a very young age and

then when he chose a career in the

who supported one hundred percent and if well

the environment is almost as important as

the path that we choose this path has

been challenging and in difficult times

but I would choose it one and a thousand times more

thanks to the sport I learned that nothing

given that what costs the most is what

that it’s better and that the effort and the

Danzoo sacrifice bear fruit

I learned that we are all different that

I can never let myself be defined by another and

that the real big

the book to the other one does not crush it I learned

to love my curves and respect the

woman that I see in the mirror and that never

we do not have to go down the tacos to

that the other feels level of sport

the sport does not leave much more than a

result a win a medal a

trophy does not leave experiences and

opportunities travel friendships and

unforgettable moments

we only have to know how to choose a

I walk next to him thanks to his

phenomenal performance they hung him a

medal in the neck

It was the first he received in his life

he ran back home with his prize

in his hand and came in crying like when

I had returned from school sad

this time the tears were happiness

mom I did exclaimed lupita that exists

my heaven asked his mother while

I hugged him strong too excited

I will become different in

extraordinary and how did my daughter

with a flying hammer and the city my

new friends

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