[Music]
I come from a family where my parents
they always taught us a word that
to succeed in life you have to
take charge of your passion and that
passion will take you to where you
want
well they say out there that you dedicate yourself to your
passion and never again
you will work in your life these words
they were so strong in my family that
really I tried to search and
find my passion to measure
to dedicate myself to that in life from very
small I was very restless and have a
strong character
therefore I remember when
We are my colleagues and I first
of high school organizing our
first party without the dads for
we were amazing to have that
first party without the company of
our parents
good we organized the party we were in
the house of a companion and the hormones
to give everything because at that age because
and without the parents the truth is that it is a
fabulous experience
we started to drink a lot of soda
chips to talk they put the music
we were all very acclimated
dancing talking but in that he puts the
Dim lights lower music music
romantic and that’s where you feel
the hormone is at that moment that you turn
to see the child that the girl painting
you love the search to dance that
ballad and we were all really
comfortable with the situation in that one
my friend, I see that he runs away and
he reached it and said what happened and she
you say you know that they just grabbed me
pomp
that for me was how is it possible
then I remember that I returned to the
party where everyone was dancing
I turned on the light I told them to turn off the
music I got on a chair at that age
and I told them how it is possible that we
let’s be here if our parents
women having confidence in
you and you have broken that code
of trust therefore if any of
my friends or my friends go back to
say that it was touched by some of
we are leaving the party
at that time I not only realized
that he had a voice to express if not
I could help someone to
better at that time needed me
Help me
that’s where I discovered midon and
midón that I have always said it since
very small is that I wanted to be a doctor
and not medical for material resources
that will study medicine because
Believe it or not
Sometimes this profession we take for
the for the economic questioning
but I did not see this profession as
a way to help continue
helping all those people who
I needed it
therefore I devoted myself totally to
this profession is a very profession
difficult that you have to devote a lot
time I tell my classmates and
They want their children not to leave so much
leandro put them to medicines so
you devote so much time you dedicate everything
your effort because you are learning to
return health to another human being and
I said this is my great passion as I
I’m going to live in another city in the city
from Mexico
I know my child’s dad got me pregnant
and I have my dear boy then there
I discovered it was not my passion
medicine
really in that moment that my
baby
I knew my great passion if you
can appreciate in the photograph in the
first picture I’m graduating
I’m really proud of medicine but
in the second photograph I have a
smile that I think all the
women who are mothers know that
smile
later
country change my baby had a
week who was my partner in that
Moment is not Mexican and Brazilian
we went to live in brazil and so
It was not only to face a
new experience that was to be a mother but
away from my home away from my country of
my habits of my language to be me
in Brazil I realize that I had to
face all these challenges alone and this
it was not only in the aspect as always
they prepare us academically that they say
one plus one equals 2
when you are a mother do not apply these
formulas all those fears
all those shortcomings of another woman who
could be near me tell me no
what shelters it is so much because they do not need
so many blankets
if you see them that I now have to be
hunger has to be the poop or has
something do not scare me I faced all
those fears or the memory that I had a
teacher that she meduca goes in my house
about the Portuguese language and she
he said that to practice this language and
have a good situation
I needed to read a magazine that is
world famous but above all in
brazil that is called bella the magazine
bella brings out the best articles from the
week at the local level at the country level but
also at international level
I started reading about the beautiful magazine
but there was an article that called me
very much attention and for which I
I think I spent more time studying it and
this article spoke like women
in management positions in the best
Brazilian companies were listed
leave this post that had great
economic compensation to return to
their homes to educate their children
these women in large positions had
realized that it was that they could not leave
to her baby in her house and she go back to
that level of work
for me it was a state of choc because in
that moment that I was inside
of my son in caring for him
I was thinking every moment how
they had prepared me professionally
to be out there helping and I
I was dedicated to my baby
at that time I read this article I
many things come to mind
later I will understand by
what did that article say about things
who was speaking we went back to Mexico
there I find another situation
totally different that is entrance to
labor market open my office
again here in Ciudad Juarez
start promoting me start
look for how to contribute to my family
because at that time we needed to
that economic contribution for the family and
then it’s when I remember that
article having to leave my son
to care for other people for me
be able to go out to work
I remembered how it was difficult and how
manifested this article what
we face women sentimentally
having to leave our little self
it made me many questions and
He said
I’m really going to be aware of
my work and the education of my
small something happened that we think that
it was not going to happen here in our country
and that really invited us all
Mexicans since we had seen it very
up close in the united states where
it happened that little children or young people
they were armed to the schools and they killed
your classmates here in our beloved
and neighboring and northern city of Monterrey
it happened that was a moment that we
marked all Mexicans because
we saw how in social networks it
It spread a story where a
little one killed his teacher and one of
his companions
at that time we all wanted
find an answer
we all asked ourselves the secretariat
of public education
he is not aware of them
government of monterrey that does not have
some implement to help us that
is happening with the parents of that
child because they let their child
I was armed
we really did not know where
find the answer for that
situation
another school did an operation where
he said let’s do a drill for
try to find that answer that
So we are looking for and what they
they did was request the backpack of the
students put them in the center of the
court after calling parents and
tell them to take their children’s backpack
only 30 percent got
pick up your children’s backpack
we are talking about that 70 percent
he did not know what backpack his children
they took to their school
much less what contained within
she does not sow this as parents in
where we realize that both
we know our children and I get myself
the questioning
it will be that as parents we are
creating or educating through the
genders
perhaps we tell our
sons
you are strong you are male no
show your emotions because their
weak and our daughters we are
saying daughter do not show how strong
it may be because that’s going to prove that
can be strong and women are
weak we are delicate
that brought us so many
questions that I see the role of the
woman so important in them because I
I say if we had our
children
nine months inside our bodies
we listen to the rhythm of their hearts
we feel his movements
we felt like they were growing and
our emotions and they grow together
with them because we have lost the
ability to see them in the eyes of speaking
with them to tell them what’s going on
in your life you are being mistreated in the
school
is being victim of bullying is
being a victim of some sexual harassment
they are raping they are mistreating you
we mothers have lost that
important communication with them
technology has helped us a lot but
He has also given us one more step
back regarding what we have to
do educationally within our
families
how many have not grasped our
cell phone while the children are with
the tablets and get to solve things
at the table where the table before
our houses was dedicated to know us
as a family
how many do not we put photographs in
social networks where we are happy and in
When the photography is over, we do not
we turn to see I think it is also
important to return a word within
of our family and it’s talking about the
spiritual life
to me that I love to study about
medicine and about medical advances is
has seen and proven that those
sick people who have a spiritual life
strong better diseases
that those who do not have it because they
we are so afraid of this issue that we
prevents talk of spirituality to
our children we do not know if this
spirituality
if this teaching towards a supreme being
someday he’s going to save you from some
event or someday is going
to stop performing some act every
time our society is creating
new protection associations
protection of animals protection
women protection against violence
against children protection in
our houses who do not have the bars
up to the ceiling and it’s more we have double
safe double lattice would be necessary
have all these devices all these
protections if it’s from our home
we teach love our neighbor if he is
our home we taught the values
basic that everything must be
human that are not difficult
try to be at your job at your school
in your empathic home that is going to
help you get in the shoes of the
another and understand your situation
try to bring love solidarity
trust and communication that
will help to grow better beings
humans
If you as a woman are alone, no
be scared, do not worry, do not think
you are to solve everything
lean your parents lean your friends
of your sisters and if you have a partner
lean on your partner do not do that
our children grow up without a father
we have countless jokes where
we see on May 10 filled the festival
of mothers and sometimes we forget the day
of the father we do not grow up with those children
thinking that only the role of the woman is
important also the role of man is
necessary for our society we have
so different energies and ways of
to think that if we go down we grow
together
we have to stop fighting, we have to stop
of talking about feminism machismo and there are
that speak like human beings
I tell you woman live today if you are
inside house taking care of your children lives
all enjoy them you’re going to make
those children grow up in a full society
of love and justice and if you as a mother
you’re working, do not blame yourself, get to
your house and if you already slept hug them and
I kiss them and asleep
sure they will remember that kiss
I’m going to read you a poem by James Rach
that says I will not stay small anymore
to enjoy my mom enjoy my childhood
fresh fast faster than
do you think you do not realize
I will not always get up at night
crying because I want to be by your side or
just for you or dad to give me
a hug
a hug from those who take my
Fears sometimes when we walk together
my little feet get tired of walking and
I ask you to carry me I know that you
You are also tired but enjoy
have me like this I will soon grow up and not
I will need more of your arms
other times I will fall asleep in the
ride of the car and I will lean on your
shoulder asleep while you take me home
it’s one of the moments when I feel
more connected with you sleeping in your
arms soon I will grow up mom and I no longer
you will have to see or clean my dirty face
full of chocolate ice cream
that both makes you laugh sometimes
I cry because I’m angry why I do not
you give what I want to have patience I’m
learning to have my own character
guide me with me do not yell at me
hit for it remember that sometimes your
kisses are magical they fix everything not
I will stay small forever mom
but I assure you that when I grow up you
I will continue wanting to go to frank
end with a phrase from the doctor to gray
which says educates a woman that educate us to
a whole country
thank you very much
[Applause]
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