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our computers and our digital devices

our computers and our digital devices are as mainstream as any other appliance

are as mainstream as any other appliance

are as mainstream as any other appliance we have in our homes we depend on them

we have in our homes we depend on them

we have in our homes we depend on them just as we depend on our dishwasher our

just as we depend on our dishwasher our

just as we depend on our dishwasher our microwave ovens and our washing machines

microwave ovens and our washing machines

microwave ovens and our washing machines each year we become more and more

each year we become more and more

each year we become more and more dependent on these devices and these

dependent on these devices and these

dependent on these devices and these devices have enhanced our lives in many

devices have enhanced our lives in many

devices have enhanced our lives in many ways

ways

ways the many advances it has given us for me

the many advances it has given us for me

the many advances it has given us for me I have no sense of direction so the GPS

I have no sense of direction so the GPS

I have no sense of direction so the GPS is really a wonderful advancement in my

is really a wonderful advancement in my

is really a wonderful advancement in my life for you maybe you get to work at

life for you maybe you get to work at

life for you maybe you get to work at home because you can bring your devices

home because you can bring your devices

home because you can bring your devices at home and you get to spend more time

at home and you get to spend more time

at home and you get to spend more time with your family some people enjoy

with your family some people enjoy

with your family some people enjoy connecting with their family and friends

connecting with their family and friends

connecting with their family and friends all over the place there are many many

all over the place there are many many

all over the place there are many many positives to technology however there

positives to technology however there

positives to technology however there are many pitfalls and negatives to

are many pitfalls and negatives to

are many pitfalls and negatives to technology and the time is now to really

technology and the time is now to really

technology and the time is now to really evaluate technologies place in our life

evaluate technologies place in our life

evaluate technologies place in our life before we lose the things that we value

before we lose the things that we value

before we lose the things that we value most human emotional connection before

most human emotional connection before

most human emotional connection before technology we would gather around a

technology we would gather around a

technology we would gather around a table and we would converse and share

table and we would converse and share

table and we would converse and share stories and share memories and maybe

stories and share memories and maybe

stories and share memories and maybe even argue but we were connecting

even argue but we were connecting

even argue but we were connecting emotionally today we go to a restaurant

emotionally today we go to a restaurant

emotionally today we go to a restaurant or even in our home and these devices

or even in our home and these devices

or even in our home and these devices are apparent we see an entire table of

are apparent we see an entire table of

are apparent we see an entire table of families or friends gathered around

families or friends gathered around

families or friends gathered around looking down at their devices there is a

looking down at their devices there is a

looking down at their devices there is a time and a place for technology but it

time and a place for technology but it

time and a place for technology but it isn’t everywhere human connection is

isn’t everywhere human connection is

isn’t everywhere human connection is important we’re here to support each

important we’re here to support each

important we’re here to support each other we’re here because we all are part

other we’re here because we all are part

other we’re here because we all are part of something bigger and when we

of something bigger and when we

of something bigger and when we disconnect and allow our devices to

disconnect and allow our devices to

disconnect and allow our devices to continue to do this at a rate we are

continue to do this at a rate we are

continue to do this at a rate we are losing something very valuable when we

losing something very valuable when we

losing something very valuable when we think about positive reform it is

think about positive reform it is

think about positive reform it is possible I’m here to tell you that it is

possible I’m here to tell you that it is

possible I’m here to tell you that it is quite possible as an educator and a

quite possible as an educator and a

quite possible as an educator and a parent I have spent the last four years

parent I have spent the last four years

parent I have spent the last four years educating students from second grade all

educating students from second grade all

educating students from second grade all the way through college and talk to them

the way through college and talk to them

the way through college and talk to them about

about

about their social media use about technology

their social media use about technology

their social media use about technology in the life in their lives whether it’s

in the life in their lives whether it’s

in the life in their lives whether it’s the positive and the negatives we need

the positive and the negatives we need

the positive and the negatives we need to address the positives and our

to address the positives and our

to address the positives and our children desperately need our help

children desperately need our help

children desperately need our help we are the first generation of parents

we are the first generation of parents

we are the first generation of parents raising children in the technological

raising children in the technological

raising children in the technological era we will prepare them for what was

era we will prepare them for what was

era we will prepare them for what was ahead not because we didn’t care we

ahead not because we didn’t care we

ahead not because we didn’t care we didn’t know technology has been in our

didn’t know technology has been in our

didn’t know technology has been in our life for 20-plus years now we now know

life for 20-plus years now we now know

life for 20-plus years now we now know we now know that our devices can’t be

we now know that our devices can’t be

we now know that our devices can’t be everywhere we now know that there is a

everywhere we now know that there is a

everywhere we now know that there is a time and a place for it we need to start

time and a place for it we need to start

time and a place for it we need to start with guidelines and strategies each time

with guidelines and strategies each time

with guidelines and strategies each time I go to a school and speak to students

I go to a school and speak to students

I go to a school and speak to students there is a line of students waiting to

there is a line of students waiting to

there is a line of students waiting to talk to me begging me for information

talk to me begging me for information

talk to me begging me for information what do I do if someone sends me a

what do I do if someone sends me a

what do I do if someone sends me a picture that’s inappropriate if I’m on

picture that’s inappropriate if I’m on

picture that’s inappropriate if I’m on snapchat and my mother says no what do I

snapchat and my mother says no what do I

snapchat and my mother says no what do I do they need our help the time is now

do they need our help the time is now

do they need our help the time is now for positive reform and we need to start

for positive reform and we need to start

for positive reform and we need to start with the screen itself the screen is an

with the screen itself the screen is an

with the screen itself the screen is an emotional disconnect part of life is

emotional disconnect part of life is

emotional disconnect part of life is getting our feelings hurt that is a

getting our feelings hurt that is a

getting our feelings hurt that is a reality when we were younger people

reality when we were younger people

reality when we were younger people would say mean things to us and we might

would say mean things to us and we might

would say mean things to us and we might would say them back but the problem is

would say them back but the problem is

would say them back but the problem is we as human beings use body language to

we as human beings use body language to

we as human beings use body language to guide us our children don’t have that if

guide us our children don’t have that if

guide us our children don’t have that if someone said something mean to me or I

someone said something mean to me or I

someone said something mean to me or I said something mean to someone and when

said something mean to someone and when

said something mean to someone and when I was younger I saw a tilt of a head a

I was younger I saw a tilt of a head a

I was younger I saw a tilt of a head a shrug of a shoulder and I got a knot in

shrug of a shoulder and I got a knot in

shrug of a shoulder and I got a knot in my stomach I had a natural consequence

my stomach I had a natural consequence

my stomach I had a natural consequence to what I was doing that my words had

to what I was doing that my words had

to what I was doing that my words had power that gut that intuition was

power that gut that intuition was

power that gut that intuition was teaching me something it doesn’t feel

teaching me something it doesn’t feel

teaching me something it doesn’t feel good to hurt someone the problem is the

good to hurt someone the problem is the

good to hurt someone the problem is the screen went up and our children’s

screen went up and our children’s

screen went up and our children’s empathetic skills went way down it isn’t

empathetic skills went way down it isn’t

empathetic skills went way down it isn’t a generation of children who need to

a generation of children who need to

a generation of children who need to strengthen their empathetic skills

strengthen their empathetic skills

strengthen their empathetic skills because everything we’ve taught them

because everything we’ve taught them

because everything we’ve taught them offline be kind be respectful think

offline be kind be respectful think

offline be kind be respectful think about what you’re saying before you act

about what you’re saying before you act

about what you’re saying before you act all of those things for some reason they

all of those things for some reason they

all of those things for some reason they are not transferring once they get

are not transferring once they get

are not transferring once they get behind

behind

behind that keyboard this is where we need to

that keyboard this is where we need to

that keyboard this is where we need to start we need to teach them when they

start we need to teach them when they

start we need to teach them when they give it we give them a device you see

give it we give them a device you see

give it we give them a device you see this screen this is an emotional

this screen this is an emotional

this screen this is an emotional disconnect there are real people on the

disconnect there are real people on the

disconnect there are real people on the other side of that screen who have very

other side of that screen who have very

other side of that screen who have very big contact lists who have many friends

big contact lists who have many friends

big contact lists who have many friends and followers so imagine something

and followers so imagine something

and followers so imagine something publicly embarrassing said about you and

publicly embarrassing said about you and

publicly embarrassing said about you and everyone in this new room knew about it

everyone in this new room knew about it

everyone in this new room knew about it because you’re 200 friends post it

because you’re 200 friends post it

because you’re 200 friends post it you’re 300 friends posted it this is

you’re 300 friends posted it this is

you’re 300 friends posted it this is what our children are dealing with and

what our children are dealing with and

what our children are dealing with and now they’re going into their school

now they’re going into their school

now they’re going into their school knowing their whole entire school knows

knowing their whole entire school knows

knowing their whole entire school knows something publicly embarrassing about

something publicly embarrassing about

something publicly embarrassing about them I’m a grown woman with a halfway

them I’m a grown woman with a halfway

them I’m a grown woman with a halfway decent self-esteem that would be hard

decent self-esteem that would be hard

decent self-esteem that would be hard for me these are kids trying to find

for me these are kids trying to find

for me these are kids trying to find their way technology is making it very

their way technology is making it very

their way technology is making it very hard for them it’s like a minefield we

hard for them it’s like a minefield we

hard for them it’s like a minefield we need to teach them about the emotional

need to teach them about the emotional

need to teach them about the emotional disconnect we need to teach them to

disconnect we need to teach them to

disconnect we need to teach them to think every time you put something out

think every time you put something out

think every time you put something out there you need to say how would this

there you need to say how would this

there you need to say how would this make me feel that’s going to strengthen

make me feel that’s going to strengthen

make me feel that’s going to strengthen their empathetic skills we need to teach

their empathetic skills we need to teach

their empathetic skills we need to teach them that it’s not okay that you post

them that it’s not okay that you post

them that it’s not okay that you post whatever you want without any regard we

whatever you want without any regard we

whatever you want without any regard we need to teach them that it’s not okay to

need to teach them that it’s not okay to

need to teach them that it’s not okay to take a picture of video of someone

take a picture of video of someone

take a picture of video of someone without their permission and post it we

without their permission and post it we

without their permission and post it we also need to teach them about anonymous

also need to teach them about anonymous

also need to teach them about anonymous sites kids go down and play xbox their

sites kids go down and play xbox their

sites kids go down and play xbox their friends aren’t available and they play

friends aren’t available and they play

friends aren’t available and they play with anyone complete strangers in our

with anyone complete strangers in our

with anyone complete strangers in our day we always got the note that there

day we always got the note that there

day we always got the note that there was someone in our neighborhood I don’t

was someone in our neighborhood I don’t

was someone in our neighborhood I don’t know why it was always a white van but

know why it was always a white van but

know why it was always a white van but it was always a white van now that’s not

it was always a white van now that’s not

it was always a white van now that’s not the problem they’re in our homes on our

the problem they’re in our homes on our

the problem they’re in our homes on our computers it is dangerous our children

computers it is dangerous our children

computers it is dangerous our children I’m talking from second grade all the

I’m talking from second grade all the

I’m talking from second grade all the way up think it is normal and

way up think it is normal and

way up think it is normal and appropriate to talk to strangers online

appropriate to talk to strangers online

appropriate to talk to strangers online we all read the newspaper children have

we all read the newspaper children have

we all read the newspaper children have been murdered children have been

been murdered children have been

been murdered children have been sexually abused many things have

sexually abused many things have

sexually abused many things have happened because they think it’s normal

happened because they think it’s normal

happened because they think it’s normal to engage in conversations with people

to engage in conversations with people

to engage in conversations with people they don’t know it’s not okay and we

they don’t know it’s not okay and we

they don’t know it’s not okay and we need to get that really really strong in

need to get that really really strong in

need to get that really really strong in their heads that’s a social norm so not

their heads that’s a social norm so not

their heads that’s a social norm so not only do we need to give them guidelines

only do we need to give them guidelines

only do we need to give them guidelines and strategies and

and strategies and

and strategies and rulz we also need to give them tools and

rulz we also need to give them tools and

rulz we also need to give them tools and the tools we give them are you you might

the tools we give them are you you might

the tools we give them are you you might be hearing a lot about this word

be hearing a lot about this word

be hearing a lot about this word mindfulness I am 100% behind this

mindfulness I am 100% behind this

mindfulness I am 100% behind this mindfulness movement again we socialized

mindfulness movement again we socialized

mindfulness movement again we socialized in our streets and face-to-face and by

in our streets and face-to-face and by

in our streets and face-to-face and by doing that we learned many many

doing that we learned many many

doing that we learned many many wonderful coping skills wonderful we

wonderful coping skills wonderful we

wonderful coping skills wonderful we learn resilience we new learned how to

learn resilience we new learned how to

learn resilience we new learned how to stick up for ourselves we learned that

stick up for ourselves we learned that

stick up for ourselves we learned that our feelings got hurt and we bounced

our feelings got hurt and we bounced

our feelings got hurt and we bounced back our children did not grow up this

back our children did not grow up this

back our children did not grow up this way our children grew up very structured

way our children grew up very structured

way our children grew up very structured so they don’t have the coping skills we

so they don’t have the coping skills we

so they don’t have the coping skills we have and we need to give them to them so

have and we need to give them to them so

have and we need to give them to them so imagine a time when you use your

imagine a time when you use your

imagine a time when you use your computer all the time you’re playing

computer all the time you’re playing

computer all the time you’re playing with your friends and something’s

with your friends and something’s

with your friends and something’s buzzing in your pocket it’s constant

buzzing in your pocket it’s constant

buzzing in your pocket it’s constant distraction it’s constant multitasking

distraction it’s constant multitasking

distraction it’s constant multitasking as an educator I learned that

as an educator I learned that

as an educator I learned that multitasking was not good no where did I

multitasking was not good no where did I

multitasking was not good no where did I learn it was good give kids a lot of

learn it was good give kids a lot of

learn it was good give kids a lot of things it will help them pay attention

things it will help them pay attention

things it will help them pay attention does it work what I learned was the

does it work what I learned was the

does it work what I learned was the number one predictor of success is

number one predictor of success is

number one predictor of success is someone’s ability to focus and follow

someone’s ability to focus and follow

someone’s ability to focus and follow through and our children are distracted

through and our children are distracted

through and our children are distracted constantly even when they have friends

constantly even when they have friends

constantly even when they have friends at their house at their house they’re

at their house at their house they’re

at their house at their house they’re sitting right next to each other with

sitting right next to each other with

sitting right next to each other with their devices so we need what

their devices so we need what

their devices so we need what mindfulness is too overly give you an

mindfulness is too overly give you an

mindfulness is too overly give you an oversimplification of what mindfulness

oversimplification of what mindfulness

oversimplification of what mindfulness is it’s the ability to be in the present

is it’s the ability to be in the present

is it’s the ability to be in the present moment fully with your mind and all of

moment fully with your mind and all of

moment fully with your mind and all of your senses so now you’re all listening

your senses so now you’re all listening

your senses so now you’re all listening to me you’re engaged you’re mindfully

to me you’re engaged you’re mindfully

to me you’re engaged you’re mindfully listening to what I’m saying

listening to what I’m saying

listening to what I’m saying if your mind’s wandering and you sing

if your mind’s wandering and you sing

if your mind’s wandering and you sing right after this have to go to CVS have

right after this have to go to CVS have

right after this have to go to CVS have to make that doctor appointment my kids

to make that doctor appointment my kids

to make that doctor appointment my kids my kids game is at this time your mind

my kids game is at this time your mind

my kids game is at this time your mind is wandering

is wandering

is wandering you’re not mindfully engaged well we can

you’re not mindfully engaged well we can

you’re not mindfully engaged well we can train you to do that we can give you

train you to do that we can give you

train you to do that we can give you that skill so our children aren’t the

that skill so our children aren’t the

that skill so our children aren’t the table of kids with their devices so our

table of kids with their devices so our

table of kids with their devices so our children go to parties and enjoy the

children go to parties and enjoy the

children go to parties and enjoy the event for what it is we’ve all gone to

event for what it is we’ve all gone to

event for what it is we’ve all gone to parties I’ve gone to graduation parties

parties I’ve gone to graduation parties

parties I’ve gone to graduation parties with teens we’re a three to four hour

with teens we’re a three to four hour

with teens we’re a three to four hour party

party

party no one is engaging with

no one is engaging with

no one is engaging with their selfie selfie selfie post a pillow

their selfie selfie selfie post a pillow

their selfie selfie selfie post a pillow a video it and let me post it wait I

a video it and let me post it wait I

a video it and let me post it wait I don’t like that let me do it again

don’t like that let me do it again

don’t like that let me do it again three hours go by that’s an anti mindful

three hours go by that’s an anti mindful

three hours go by that’s an anti mindful behavior I want my children to be there

behavior I want my children to be there

behavior I want my children to be there and engage and guess what the party is

and engage and guess what the party is

and engage and guess what the party is not about you the party is about someone

not about you the party is about someone

not about you the party is about someone else and learning to be happy for

else and learning to be happy for

else and learning to be happy for someone else and celebrating someone

someone else and celebrating someone

someone else and celebrating someone else’s milestones is a good thing so our

else’s milestones is a good thing so our

else’s milestones is a good thing so our children are learning to be narcissistic

children are learning to be narcissistic

children are learning to be narcissistic voyeuristic that multitasking is good

voyeuristic that multitasking is good

voyeuristic that multitasking is good that overvaluing their peers feedback to

that overvaluing their peers feedback to

that overvaluing their peers feedback to such an unhealthy level because of that

such an unhealthy level because of that

such an unhealthy level because of that like button that they make decisions

like button that they make decisions

like button that they make decisions based on everyone else’s approval now

based on everyone else’s approval now

based on everyone else’s approval now that’s normal for a team but not to this

that’s normal for a team but not to this

that’s normal for a team but not to this level not this level that they do

level not this level that they do

level not this level that they do everything for a like it’s peer pressure

everything for a like it’s peer pressure

everything for a like it’s peer pressure in their pocket we can do better we have

in their pocket we can do better we have

in their pocket we can do better we have to give them the tools and mindfulness

to give them the tools and mindfulness

to give them the tools and mindfulness is a wonderful I started my mindfulness

is a wonderful I started my mindfulness

is a wonderful I started my mindfulness practice about four years ago and I can

practice about four years ago and I can

practice about four years ago and I can tell you it is fulfilling life when you

tell you it is fulfilling life when you

tell you it is fulfilling life when you learn to be present engaged in here and

learn to be present engaged in here and

learn to be present engaged in here and now it’s fulfilling and our children I’m

now it’s fulfilling and our children I’m

now it’s fulfilling and our children I’m afraid are being fulfilled with

afraid are being fulfilled with

afraid are being fulfilled with artificial things they look at people’s

artificial things they look at people’s

artificial things they look at people’s post and they compare their lives to

post and they compare their lives to

post and they compare their lives to someone’s fabulous day

someone’s fabulous day

someone’s fabulous day no one’s posting all the bad things no

no one’s posting all the bad things no

no one’s posting all the bad things no one’s saying oh my parents might get

one’s saying oh my parents might get

one’s saying oh my parents might get divorced or I just failed my geometry

divorced or I just failed my geometry

divorced or I just failed my geometry test or they’re all posting the really

test or they’re all posting the really

test or they’re all posting the really great things and really putting a full

great things and really putting a full

great things and really putting a full sense of themselves up there that’s not

sense of themselves up there that’s not

sense of themselves up there that’s not healthy socially and emotionally this is

healthy socially and emotionally this is

healthy socially and emotionally this is getting what in the way of our

getting what in the way of our

getting what in the way of our children’s development and we need to

children’s development and we need to

children’s development and we need to act now we know what it’s good for it’s

act now we know what it’s good for it’s

act now we know what it’s good for it’s great that you can look up your research

great that you can look up your research

great that you can look up your research paper at no problem it’s not okay that

paper at no problem it’s not okay that

paper at no problem it’s not okay that people walk down the street like this

people walk down the street like this

people walk down the street like this and everybody should part away like it’s

and everybody should part away like it’s

and everybody should part away like it’s the Red Sea this is just a news story

the Red Sea this is just a news story

the Red Sea this is just a news story that someone was walking into an

that someone was walking into an

that someone was walking into an elevator on their phone and there was a

elevator on their phone and there was a

elevator on their phone and there was a sign they were repairing the elevator

sign they were repairing the elevator

sign they were repairing the elevator and they walked in it was only two feet

and they walked in it was only two feet

and they walked in it was only two feet and they were fine but

and they were fine but

and they were fine but this is what’s happening and we all

this is what’s happening and we all

this is what’s happening and we all laugh because like oh that’s funny

laugh because like oh that’s funny

laugh because like oh that’s funny that’s funny I know the other side I

that’s funny I know the other side I

that’s funny I know the other side I have good relationships I connect with

have good relationships I connect with

have good relationships I connect with people I know how to do that because of

people I know how to do that because of

people I know how to do that because of my life experience

my life experience

my life experience what kind of marriages are they going to

what kind of marriages are they going to

what kind of marriages are they going to have what kind of friendships are they

have what kind of friendships are they

have what kind of friendships are they going to have when you can’t connect

going to have when you can’t connect

going to have when you can’t connect emotionally with each other we have to

emotionally with each other we have to

emotionally with each other we have to find its place

find its place

find its place I’m not saying technology’s bad but we

I’m not saying technology’s bad but we

I’m not saying technology’s bad but we really need to give them the skills they

really need to give them the skills they

really need to give them the skills they they need to build a healthier way of

they need to build a healthier way of

they need to build a healthier way of living and find its place the technology

living and find its place the technology

living and find its place the technology companies have a place in this as well

companies have a place in this as well

companies have a place in this as well we have Apple Google Facebook snapchat

we have Apple Google Facebook snapchat

we have Apple Google Facebook snapchat Instagram all of them they’re all giving

Instagram all of them they’re all giving

Instagram all of them they’re all giving our devices wouldn’t it be nice if we

our devices wouldn’t it be nice if we

our devices wouldn’t it be nice if we walked into an Apple Store and the first

walked into an Apple Store and the first

walked into an Apple Store and the first question they asked us was oh how old is

question they asked us was oh how old is

question they asked us was oh how old is the person you’re buying this device for

the person you’re buying this device for

the person you’re buying this device for oh they’re 12 oh we offer these courses

oh they’re 12 oh we offer these courses

oh they’re 12 oh we offer these courses for the parents to learn how to set the

for the parents to learn how to set the

for the parents to learn how to set the settings and blocks

settings and blocks

settings and blocks that’s age-appropriate and we also offer

that’s age-appropriate and we also offer

that’s age-appropriate and we also offer a course for the children to beware of

a course for the children to beware of

a course for the children to beware of the pitfalls and use it with good intent

the pitfalls and use it with good intent

the pitfalls and use it with good intent that that would be great they have a

that that would be great they have a

that that would be great they have a responsibility we all have a

responsibility we all have a

responsibility we all have a responsibility in making some positive

responsibility in making some positive

responsibility in making some positive reform parents schools and the tech

reform parents schools and the tech

reform parents schools and the tech companies we all can do this if we just

companies we all can do this if we just

companies we all can do this if we just any little time you see someone doing it

any little time you see someone doing it

any little time you see someone doing it in an inappropriate way make awareness

in an inappropriate way make awareness

in an inappropriate way make awareness the other day I was just grocery

the other day I was just grocery

the other day I was just grocery shopping and I was packing my my food

shopping and I was packing my my food

shopping and I was packing my my food and the teeny I’m getting s he was like

and the teeny I’m getting s he was like

and the teeny I’m getting s he was like 19 or 20 he was ringing the register and

19 or 20 he was ringing the register and

19 or 20 he was ringing the register and all of a sudden there was so much food

all of a sudden there was so much food

all of a sudden there was so much food and I’m like oh my gosh it’s going so

and I’m like oh my gosh it’s going so

and I’m like oh my gosh it’s going so fast and I’m looking and he is scrolling

fast and I’m looking and he is scrolling

fast and I’m looking and he is scrolling through social media well I’m doing his

through social media well I’m doing his

through social media well I’m doing his job

job

job that we can do better so I of course

that we can do better so I of course

that we can do better so I of course politely said I’m sorry but you know

politely said I’m sorry but you know

politely said I’m sorry but you know this is your job you really shouldn’t be

this is your job you really shouldn’t be

this is your job you really shouldn’t be on your phone while you’re working

on your phone while you’re working

on your phone while you’re working that’s a poor work ethic these are

that’s a poor work ethic these are

that’s a poor work ethic these are things that are going to be affected if

things that are going to be affected if

things that are going to be affected if we don’t take a look it’s important and

we don’t take a look it’s important and

we don’t take a look it’s important and we want the best for our children we

we want the best for our children we

we want the best for our children we have to teach them what applies offline

have to teach them what applies offline

have to teach them what applies offline up

up

up eyes online be kind we all have a

eyes online be kind we all have a

eyes online be kind we all have a responsibility and I ask each of you to

responsibility and I ask each of you to

responsibility and I ask each of you to please take a look at what you’re

please take a look at what you’re

please take a look at what you’re modeling

modeling

modeling take a look at how you can find a better

take a look at how you can find a better

take a look at how you can find a better balance and be part of the solution of

balance and be part of the solution of

balance and be part of the solution of the misuse of social media by giving

the misuse of social media by giving

the misuse of social media by giving guidelines and strategies by giving them

guidelines and strategies by giving them

guidelines and strategies by giving them tools and being an advocate for your

tools and being an advocate for your

tools and being an advocate for your children because schools are trying to

children because schools are trying to

children because schools are trying to figure this out too

figure this out too

figure this out too some schools I go to it’s bring your own

some schools I go to it’s bring your own

some schools I go to it’s bring your own technology that’s there that’s what

technology that’s there that’s what

technology that’s there that’s what their policy is some schools give them

their policy is some schools give them

their policy is some schools give them iPads or school iPads find out be active

iPads or school iPads find out be active

iPads or school iPads find out be active be engaged and fun okay my kid download

be engaged and fun okay my kid download

be engaged and fun okay my kid download games because that’s what happened with

games because that’s what happened with

games because that’s what happened with my own child I didn’t know the only way

my own child I didn’t know the only way

my own child I didn’t know the only way they didn’t but I knew this is because

they didn’t but I knew this is because

they didn’t but I knew this is because they had my Apple ID so they could they

they had my Apple ID so they could they

they had my Apple ID so they could they could download it but these are the

could download it but these are the

could download it but these are the conversations we have we can’t put our

conversations we have we can’t put our

conversations we have we can’t put our hands up and say well I don’t know how

hands up and say well I don’t know how

hands up and say well I don’t know how to work technology well I don’t know how

to work technology well I don’t know how

to work technology well I don’t know how to work believe me I am NOT computer

to work believe me I am NOT computer

to work believe me I am NOT computer savvy that’s the joke of all of this but

savvy that’s the joke of all of this but

savvy that’s the joke of all of this but I have to give my children guidelines

I have to give my children guidelines

I have to give my children guidelines and strategies I do have to care about a

and strategies I do have to care about a

and strategies I do have to care about a society of what we’re promoting and what

society of what we’re promoting and what

society of what we’re promoting and what we’re what the outcome of this is going

we’re what the outcome of this is going

we’re what the outcome of this is going to be because what I’m talking about

to be because what I’m talking about

to be because what I’m talking about today in a very short amount of time is

today in a very short amount of time is

today in a very short amount of time is just scratching the surface of what

just scratching the surface of what

just scratching the surface of what technology is bringing if we don’t bring

technology is bringing if we don’t bring

technology is bringing if we don’t bring awareness and mindfully think okay where

awareness and mindfully think okay where

awareness and mindfully think okay where is it good where is it not so I ask each

is it good where is it not so I ask each

is it good where is it not so I ask each of you to please be part of the solution

of you to please be part of the solution

of you to please be part of the solution and help however you can thank

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