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Don’t have a culture ? Build your own! | Alice Torres | TEDxYouth@IIL


as a child’s culture events one thing to

as a child’s culture events one thing to be the traditions customs and values of

be the traditions customs and values of

be the traditions customs and values of a place and its people to be cultural

a place and its people to be cultural

a place and its people to be cultural runs alongside with geographical

runs alongside with geographical

runs alongside with geographical differences the only differentiating

differences the only differentiating

differences the only differentiating factor between two places culture was

factor between two places culture was

factor between two places culture was the religion the language to cuisine the

the religion the language to cuisine the

the religion the language to cuisine the movies songs the life and soul of the

movies songs the life and soul of the

movies songs the life and soul of the place and of its people

place and of its people

place and of its people and it still is but I don’t think it’s

and it still is but I don’t think it’s

and it still is but I don’t think it’s the only definition anymore as I grew up

the only definition anymore as I grew up

the only definition anymore as I grew up and had the opportunities to travel and

and had the opportunities to travel and

and had the opportunities to travel and discover the places my understanding of

discover the places my understanding of

discover the places my understanding of the world started to broaden and deepen

the world started to broaden and deepen

the world started to broaden and deepen I associated the history I learned the

I associated the history I learned the

I associated the history I learned the spice I saw the people I’d met with my

spice I saw the people I’d met with my

spice I saw the people I’d met with my own memories of each place I saw the

own memories of each place I saw the

own memories of each place I saw the world through my own lens as everyone

world through my own lens as everyone

world through my own lens as everyone does my name is Alice bonus thanks Beth

does my name is Alice bonus thanks Beth

does my name is Alice bonus thanks Beth and as you may have gathered today I’m

and as you may have gathered today I’m

and as you may have gathered today I’m here to talk to you about culture but

here to talk to you about culture but

here to talk to you about culture but first I’d like to bring to light this

first I’d like to bring to light this

first I’d like to bring to light this question my mother was born and raised

question my mother was born and raised

question my mother was born and raised in France my father was born into juris

in France my father was born into juris

in France my father was born into juris brainís between its capital Tegucigalpa

brainís between its capital Tegucigalpa

brainís between its capital Tegucigalpa and here in Geneva Switzerland

and here in Geneva Switzerland

and here in Geneva Switzerland I was born in France raised in seven

I was born in France raised in seven

I was born in France raised in seven different countries on four different

different countries on four different

different countries on four different continents now with that information

continents now with that information

continents now with that information what do you think my culture is do I

what do you think my culture is do I

what do you think my culture is do I adhere to a French culture because

adhere to a French culture because

adhere to a French culture because that’s where I go on I read holiday am I

that’s where I go on I read holiday am I

that’s where I go on I read holiday am I only latina because some Europeans think

only latina because some Europeans think

only latina because some Europeans think I’m just

I’m just

I’m just all year round my perk Korean because

all year round my perk Korean because

all year round my perk Korean because even though I’ve never been in there for

even though I’ve never been in there for

even though I’ve never been in there for three years with my closest friends was

three years with my closest friends was

three years with my closest friends was South Korean and be sure to on shows

South Korean and be sure to on shows

South Korean and be sure to on shows every day for and my split because I

every day for and my split because I

every day for and my split because I spent the last four years here and I

spent the last four years here and I

spent the last four years here and I feel somewhat at Hope which I’ll come

feel somewhat at Hope which I’ll come

feel somewhat at Hope which I’ll come back to in a moment

back to in a moment

back to in a moment we received by births one for several

we received by births one for several

we received by births one for several nationalities but our culture is not

nationalities but our culture is not

nationalities but our culture is not necessarily summed up just by

necessarily summed up just by

necessarily summed up just by nationality in fact as a Franco Honduran

nationality in fact as a Franco Honduran

nationality in fact as a Franco Honduran and you know particularly identify with

and you know particularly identify with

and you know particularly identify with most people of either of those two

most people of either of those two

most people of either of those two countries but if I were to ask someone

countries but if I were to ask someone

countries but if I were to ask someone with their cultures there’s a good

with their cultures there’s a good

with their cultures there’s a good chance to give an answer starting with

chance to give an answer starting with

chance to give an answer starting with something like well I was running this

something like well I was running this

something like well I was running this place from these people etc etc it’s not

place from these people etc etc it’s not

place from these people etc etc it’s not uncommon to get a short summary of

uncommon to get a short summary of

uncommon to get a short summary of someone’s ancestry when asking

someone’s ancestry when asking

someone’s ancestry when asking acquaintances more about themselves oh

acquaintances more about themselves oh

acquaintances more about themselves oh excuse us like I’m trying to get into

excuse us like I’m trying to get into

excuse us like I’m trying to get into art school in shorts

art school in shorts

art school in shorts they’d state their origins which is only

they’d state their origins which is only

they’d state their origins which is only the cultures that they inherited what if

the cultures that they inherited what if

the cultures that they inherited what if there was more to it than that doesn’t

there was more to it than that doesn’t

there was more to it than that doesn’t it all feel a bit contradictory to

it all feel a bit contradictory to

it all feel a bit contradictory to recognize that the general meaning of

recognize that the general meaning of

recognize that the general meaning of culture is so best enriched you lose

culture is so best enriched you lose

culture is so best enriched you lose much of that when speaking of ourselves

much of that when speaking of ourselves

much of that when speaking of ourselves I believe that we’re all worth being

I believe that we’re all worth being

I believe that we’re all worth being spoken about with as much admiration and

spoken about with as much admiration and

spoken about with as much admiration and fascination as when speaking of a place

fascination as when speaking of a place

fascination as when speaking of a place that we hope with respect culture is not

that we hope with respect culture is not

that we hope with respect culture is not tied down to what place to people who

tied down to what place to people who

tied down to what place to people who grew up in the same country cities

grew up in the same country cities

grew up in the same country cities school speaking the same language will

school speaking the same language will

school speaking the same language will never have exactly the same culture

never have exactly the same culture

never have exactly the same culture because culture occurs in two ways there

because culture occurs in two ways there

because culture occurs in two ways there is the personal culture in that of

is the personal culture in that of

is the personal culture in that of community so culture is defined by many

community so culture is defined by many

community so culture is defined by many as a feeling of belonging to two sharing

as a feeling of belonging to two sharing

as a feeling of belonging to two sharing ideas thought processes and values if

ideas thought processes and values if

ideas thought processes and values if the shared rituals such as having

the shared rituals such as having

the shared rituals such as having of to our lunch break and France or

of to our lunch break and France or

of to our lunch break and France or eating corn to see us with ready and the

eating corn to see us with ready and the

eating corn to see us with ready and the drifts but it defined in this way wilt

drifts but it defined in this way wilt

drifts but it defined in this way wilt receive in time be the state with no

receive in time be the state with no

receive in time be the state with no space for overlapping or sharing of

space for overlapping or sharing of

space for overlapping or sharing of ideas cultures are not so impermeable

ideas cultures are not so impermeable

ideas cultures are not so impermeable they can grow together apart or within

they can grow together apart or within

they can grow together apart or within each other’s cultures from one area

each other’s cultures from one area

each other’s cultures from one area expect to another to enrich it just need

expect to another to enrich it just need

expect to another to enrich it just need to contain for that other area in fact

to contain for that other area in fact

to contain for that other area in fact cultures are like the people that they

cultures are like the people that they

cultures are like the people that they occur in they interact on top of all

occur in they interact on top of all

occur in they interact on top of all this being from a country does not imply

this being from a country does not imply

this being from a country does not imply it that you have to feel it strongly to

it that you have to feel it strongly to

it that you have to feel it strongly to it although I am from Madras my visits

it although I am from Madras my visits

it although I am from Madras my visits to my country are a few far between my

to my country are a few far between my

to my country are a few far between my Spanish is quite imperfect and I look

Spanish is quite imperfect and I look

Spanish is quite imperfect and I look completely different life to most people

completely different life to most people

completely different life to most people in the dress however I still love this

in the dress however I still love this

in the dress however I still love this country that I know less well and it

country that I know less well and it

country that I know less well and it will always be a part of my culture now

will always be a part of my culture now

will always be a part of my culture now from this idea of the long game and I’d

from this idea of the long game and I’d

from this idea of the long game and I’d like to talk to you about the concept of

like to talk to you about the concept of

like to talk to you about the concept of home please take a moment and think up

home please take a moment and think up

home please take a moment and think up what home means to you is it the house

what home means to you is it the house

what home means to you is it the house that you grew up in is it where you keep

that you grew up in is it where you keep

that you grew up in is it where you keep your pajamas as I thought for so many

your pajamas as I thought for so many

your pajamas as I thought for so many years or is it where your mother is as a

years or is it where your mother is as a

years or is it where your mother is as a suggested by a tattoo on an old teacher

suggested by a tattoo on an old teacher

suggested by a tattoo on an old teacher of mine true story a few months ago my

of mine true story a few months ago my

of mine true story a few months ago my brother who studies journalism had a

brother who studies journalism had a

brother who studies journalism had a friend send out questionnaires to third

friend send out questionnaires to third

friend send out questionnaires to third culture kids meaning people with parents

culture kids meaning people with parents

culture kids meaning people with parents of two different countries living in a

of two different countries living in a

of two different countries living in a third country at expatriates my brother

third country at expatriates my brother

third country at expatriates my brother and I are both third culture kids and

and I are both third culture kids and

and I are both third culture kids and constantly I think a few of you here

constantly I think a few of you here

constantly I think a few of you here today might be third culture kids or

today might be third culture kids or

today might be third culture kids or adults so anyway this friend of my

adults so anyway this friend of my

adults so anyway this friend of my brother who also studied journalism

brother who also studied journalism

brother who also studied journalism about push America the part that stood

about push America the part that stood

about push America the part that stood out most to me was the one about hope

out most to me was the one about hope

out most to me was the one about hope this was my answer

this was my answer

this was my answer for many years home to me was where my

for many years home to me was where my

for many years home to me was where my pajamas were kept where I would be

pajamas were kept where I would be

pajamas were kept where I would be sleeping that night

sleeping that night

sleeping that night whether that be a hotel’s room a

whether that be a hotel’s room a

whether that be a hotel’s room a relative’s house secondary residence or

relative’s house secondary residence or

relative’s house secondary residence or the house that I lived in for years at a

the house that I lived in for years at a

the house that I lived in for years at a time although this is still a very

time although this is still a very

time although this is still a very strong feeling thinny

strong feeling thinny

strong feeling thinny in recent times I started adopting the

in recent times I started adopting the

in recent times I started adopting the idea that home can also be a person or

idea that home can also be a person or

idea that home can also be a person or group of people sometimes I could be

group of people sometimes I could be

group of people sometimes I could be hanging out at friends house to feel

hanging out at friends house to feel

hanging out at friends house to feel more at home than the home I returned

more at home than the home I returned

more at home than the home I returned through that evening right to be riding

through that evening right to be riding

through that evening right to be riding the bus listening to a favorite song is

the bus listening to a favorite song is

the bus listening to a favorite song is get a very homely feeling home is a

get a very homely feeling home is a

get a very homely feeling home is a complex word to me and I hope to get to

complex word to me and I hope to get to

complex word to me and I hope to get to a point of personal growth where I can

a point of personal growth where I can

a point of personal growth where I can say that home is very much within myself

say that home is very much within myself

say that home is very much within myself I think the home to me is more of a

I think the home to me is more of a

I think the home to me is more of a feeling than the location so home is not

feeling than the location so home is not

feeling than the location so home is not summed up by just where your parents are

summed up by just where your parents are

summed up by just where your parents are from where you live to me it’s ready to

from where you live to me it’s ready to

from where you live to me it’s ready to feel at ease truly this would all be

feel at ease truly this would all be

feel at ease truly this would all be fine and dandy but as it turns out your

fine and dandy but as it turns out your

fine and dandy but as it turns out your personal culture has huge impacts on

personal culture has huge impacts on

personal culture has huge impacts on where you consider your home or homes to

where you consider your home or homes to

where you consider your home or homes to be a few weeks ago I was talking with a

be a few weeks ago I was talking with a

be a few weeks ago I was talking with a friend about family and holidays he said

friend about family and holidays he said

friend about family and holidays he said all of his family was from the US that

all of his family was from the US that

all of his family was from the US that both his parents were from there but

both his parents were from there but

both his parents were from there but that he didn’t consider it to be his

that he didn’t consider it to be his

that he didn’t consider it to be his home because he never lived or had a

home because he never lived or had a

home because he never lived or had a house there I found that quite

house there I found that quite

house there I found that quite understandable but what surprised me the

understandable but what surprised me the

understandable but what surprised me the most is that he said his home was Geneva

most is that he said his home was Geneva

most is that he said his home was Geneva I guess he was born to be a stitching

I guess he was born to be a stitching

I guess he was born to be a stitching about but he feels he does not

about but he feels he does not

about but he feels he does not assimilate entirely the locals perhaps

assimilate entirely the locals perhaps

assimilate entirely the locals perhaps this is due to his slightly hesitant

this is due to his slightly hesitant

this is due to his slightly hesitant French or the fact that he attends an

French or the fact that he attends an

French or the fact that he attends an international school in English with

international school in English with

international school in English with mostly other expatriates he is a

mostly other expatriates he is a

mostly other expatriates he is a foreigner of sorts in America and a

foreigner of sorts in America and a

foreigner of sorts in America and a foreigner of sorts here perhaps some

foreigner of sorts here perhaps some

foreigner of sorts here perhaps some people like this friend are the perfect

people like this friend are the perfect

people like this friend are the perfect proof that culture is not tied down to

proof that culture is not tied down to

proof that culture is not tied down to where your family comes

where your family comes

where your family comes from a regular live or any place that

from a regular live or any place that

from a regular live or any place that all the different elements of people and

all the different elements of people and

all the different elements of people and places that you keep within yourself so

places that you keep within yourself so

places that you keep within yourself so the culture of community is taken into

the culture of community is taken into

the culture of community is taken into the personal culture in fact the

the personal culture in fact the

the personal culture in fact the personal culture is a sort of cottage of

personal culture is a sort of cottage of

personal culture is a sort of cottage of different unique community cultures it’s

different unique community cultures it’s

different unique community cultures it’s your favorite song dish please book

your favorite song dish please book

your favorite song dish please book phrase outfit which is why it’s

phrase outfit which is why it’s

phrase outfit which is why it’s perfectly unique different elements are

perfectly unique different elements are

perfectly unique different elements are are of different

are of different

are of different importances and origins depending on the

importances and origins depending on the

importances and origins depending on the person and your home or homes are a part

person and your home or homes are a part

person and your home or homes are a part of that all of these different cultural

of that all of these different cultural

of that all of these different cultural elements are what weave together the

elements are what weave together the

elements are what weave together the fabric of youth personal culture it is

fabric of youth personal culture it is

fabric of youth personal culture it is also made of an area of components

also made of an area of components

also made of an area of components whether the external exceptions the

whether the external exceptions the

whether the external exceptions the excellence from your family your

excellence from your family your

excellence from your family your religion your school or work or whether

religion your school or work or whether

religion your school or work or whether they are internal such as your

they are internal such as your

they are internal such as your personality the way you responded

personality the way you responded

personality the way you responded emotionally to things or your personal

emotionally to things or your personal

emotionally to things or your personal experiences in history your culture is

experiences in history your culture is

experiences in history your culture is also made up of your repeated actions

also made up of your repeated actions

also made up of your repeated actions and ceremonials whether they are as

and ceremonials whether they are as

and ceremonials whether they are as light hearted its family inside jokes or

light hearted its family inside jokes or

light hearted its family inside jokes or in significance and profound is praying

in significance and profound is praying

in significance and profound is praying my my daily cups of tea every morning

my my daily cups of tea every morning

my my daily cups of tea every morning and every afternoon are part of my

and every afternoon are part of my

and every afternoon are part of my rituals just as yours may be a call to

rituals just as yours may be a call to

rituals just as yours may be a call to your mother but write a playlist on your

your mother but write a playlist on your

your mother but write a playlist on your daily commute or AUV trip to the sea or

daily commute or AUV trip to the sea or

daily commute or AUV trip to the sea or the mountains so to resume we do not

the mountains so to resume we do not

the mountains so to resume we do not belong to just one culture and our

belong to just one culture and our

belong to just one culture and our culture is not summed up by our

culture is not summed up by our

culture is not summed up by our nationality even if you think you do

nationality even if you think you do

nationality even if you think you do have one culture it’s very much a

have one culture it’s very much a

have one culture it’s very much a multi-faceted the different elements

multi-faceted the different elements

multi-faceted the different elements like the influences from your family

like the influences from your family

like the influences from your family your school your fare your song or piece

your school your fare your song or piece

your school your fare your song or piece of literature all of these elements are

of literature all of these elements are

of literature all of these elements are working together to form you and your

working together to form you and your

working together to form you and your culture now have some pieces there

culture now have some pieces there

culture now have some pieces there already but you can also

already but you can also

already but you can also we decide to include others by

we decide to include others by

we decide to include others by discovering new people places and ways

discovering new people places and ways

discovering new people places and ways of thinking so I invite each and every

of thinking so I invite each and every

of thinking so I invite each and every one of you to ask yourselves and each

one of you to ask yourselves and each

one of you to ask yourselves and each other of these questions what has helped

other of these questions what has helped

other of these questions what has helped to me and just as equally what builds up

to me and just as equally what builds up

to me and just as equally what builds up my culture thank you

my culture thank you

my culture thank you [Applause]

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