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Does your social circle determine how much you care? | David Hudson | TEDxBrum


in 1950 Albert Einstein wrote a

in 1950 Albert Einstein wrote a remarkable letter that was later printed

remarkable letter that was later printed

remarkable letter that was later printed in the New York Times and in it he

in the New York Times and in it he

in the New York Times and in it he argued that we all live in a kind of

argued that we all live in a kind of

argued that we all live in a kind of prison of restricted emotion and

prison of restricted emotion and

prison of restricted emotion and affection for the few people that are

affection for the few people that are

affection for the few people that are closest to us and the challenge for us

closest to us and the challenge for us

closest to us and the challenge for us he argued is that we need to widen our

he argued is that we need to widen our

he argued is that we need to widen our circle of compassion and this is not a

circle of compassion and this is not a

circle of compassion and this is not a new idea we can find it in many of the

new idea we can find it in many of the

new idea we can find it in many of the world’s religions and also we can go

world’s religions and also we can go

world’s religions and also we can go back to the Stoics and the very idea of

back to the Stoics and the very idea of

back to the Stoics and the very idea of cosmopolitanism came out this idea of

cosmopolitanism came out this idea of

cosmopolitanism came out this idea of concentric circles of the self

concentric circles of the self

concentric circles of the self family friends community the country and

family friends community the country and

family friends community the country and the world and the Stoics argued that we

the world and the Stoics argued that we

the world and the Stoics argued that we needed to bring everyone into our inner

needed to bring everyone into our inner

needed to bring everyone into our inner circle consider this these two girls I

circle consider this these two girls I

circle consider this these two girls I do not know their names but they live in

do not know their names but they live in

do not know their names but they live in Madagascar are they any less a human

Madagascar are they any less a human

Madagascar are they any less a human being than the person next year or the

being than the person next year or the

being than the person next year or the people who live down the street do they

people who live down the street do they

people who live down the street do they live in some kind of different moral

live in some kind of different moral

live in some kind of different moral universe where they are less deserving

universe where they are less deserving

universe where they are less deserving of our compassion or our assistance if

of our compassion or our assistance if

of our compassion or our assistance if they get sick or if they are

they get sick or if they are

they get sick or if they are malnourished or if they can’t afford to

malnourished or if they can’t afford to

malnourished or if they can’t afford to go to school these actually really hard

go to school these actually really hard

go to school these actually really hard questions that moral philosophers have

questions that moral philosophers have

questions that moral philosophers have been grappling with for decades if not

been grappling with for decades if not

been grappling with for decades if not centuries but most of us are not or

centuries but most of us are not or

centuries but most of us are not or would not consider ourselves moral

would not consider ourselves moral

would not consider ourselves moral philosophers and we are less likely to

philosophers and we are less likely to

philosophers and we are less likely to turn to the writings of Immanuel Kant

turn to the writings of Immanuel Kant

turn to the writings of Immanuel Kant than turn to the people next to us our

than turn to the people next to us our

than turn to the people next to us our friends and family and indeed that’s

friends and family and indeed that’s

friends and family and indeed that’s what I want to talk about today how does

what I want to talk about today how does

what I want to talk about today how does our inner circle our friends and family

our inner circle our friends and family

our inner circle our friends and family how do they influence how far our outer

how do they influence how far our outer

how do they influence how far our outer circle of compassion goes in June this

circle of compassion goes in June this

circle of compassion goes in June this year 2017 we as part of the aid

year 2017 we as part of the aid

year 2017 we as part of the aid attitudes tracker ran a survey and

attitudes tracker ran a survey and

attitudes tracker ran a survey and surveyed 8165 members of the British

surveyed 8165 members of the British

surveyed 8165 members of the British public in a nationally representative

public in a nationally representative

public in a nationally representative survey and asked them a series of

survey and asked them a series of

survey and asked them a series of questions about how they feel about

questions about how they feel about

questions about how they feel about global poverty and assisting distant

global poverty and assisting distant

global poverty and assisting distant others versus those who live closer and

others versus those who live closer and

others versus those who live closer and as you can see about 18% of the UK

as you can see about 18% of the UK

as you can see about 18% of the UK public said

public said

public said they were not very or not at all

they were not very or not at all

they were not very or not at all concerned about global poverty but 47%

concerned about global poverty but 47%

concerned about global poverty but 47% of the public are either fairly

of the public are either fairly

of the public are either fairly concerned or very concerned and we also

concerned or very concerned and we also

concerned or very concerned and we also know that this translates not perfectly

know that this translates not perfectly

know that this translates not perfectly but this does help predict how wide

but this does help predict how wide

but this does help predict how wide people feel like their circle of

people feel like their circle of

people feel like their circle of compassion should be whether we should

compassion should be whether we should

compassion should be whether we should exclusively focus on poverty here in the

exclusively focus on poverty here in the

exclusively focus on poverty here in the UK or whether we should try and find a

UK or whether we should try and find a

UK or whether we should try and find a balance of addressing poverty here and

balance of addressing poverty here and

balance of addressing poverty here and poverty overseas and the question is

poverty overseas and the question is

poverty overseas and the question is what difference does our social network

what difference does our social network

what difference does our social network our friends and family their opinions

our friends and family their opinions

our friends and family their opinions make to this relationship if anything so

make to this relationship if anything so

make to this relationship if anything so we ask people to name up to three others

we ask people to name up to three others

we ask people to name up to three others that they discuss the issue with since

that they discuss the issue with since

that they discuss the issue with since 2% of people said no one fair enough but

2% of people said no one fair enough but

2% of people said no one fair enough but 28% of people were able to name at least

28% of people were able to name at least

28% of people were able to name at least one other person that they talked about

one other person that they talked about

one other person that they talked about the issue with and just to be clear we

the issue with and just to be clear we

the issue with and just to be clear we said this could be positive or it could

said this could be positive or it could

said this could be positive or it could be negative and then we continue to ask

be negative and then we continue to ask

be negative and then we continue to ask them a whole series of questions about

them a whole series of questions about

them a whole series of questions about these other people that they discuss the

these other people that they discuss the

these other people that they discuss the issue with so what is their gender what

issue with so what is their gender what

issue with so what is their gender what is their age what is their ethnicity

is their age what is their ethnicity

is their age what is their ethnicity what is their level of concern about

what is their level of concern about

what is their level of concern about global poverty where do they sit on the

global poverty where do they sit on the

global poverty where do they sit on the left-right political scale and finally

left-right political scale and finally

left-right political scale and finally which of your connections these other

which of your connections these other

which of your connections these other people are most likely to influence your

people are most likely to influence your

people are most likely to influence your own opinion and on that last question

own opinion and on that last question

own opinion and on that last question this is what we found friends were most

this is what we found friends were most

this is what we found friends were most frequently mentioned as a source of

frequently mentioned as a source of

frequently mentioned as a source of influence over people’s own attitudes

influence over people’s own attitudes

influence over people’s own attitudes and views about global poverty but the

and views about global poverty but the

and views about global poverty but the people that were ranked first most

people that were ranked first most

people that were ranked first most consistently were our spouses or

consistently were our spouses or

consistently were our spouses or partners now this varies according to

partners now this varies according to

partners now this varies according to different groups within the population

different groups within the population

different groups within the population so younger people are much more likely

so younger people are much more likely

so younger people are much more likely to mention their parents older people

to mention their parents older people

to mention their parents older people much more likely to mention their

much more likely to mention their

much more likely to mention their children and men are much more likely

children and men are much more likely

children and men are much more likely than women to mention friends or work

than women to mention friends or work

than women to mention friends or work colleagues and women are much more

colleagues and women are much more

colleagues and women are much more likely to talk about the members of

likely to talk about the members of

likely to talk about the members of their family so this is what we can then

their family so this is what we can then

their family so this is what we can then do with the data that we collected for

do with the data that we collected for

do with the data that we collected for each one of our respondents in the

each one of our respondents in the

each one of our respondents in the survey we can build a mini social

survey we can build a mini social

survey we can build a mini social network around them that shows their

network around them that shows their

network around them that shows their connections and whether they are similar

connections and whether they are similar

connections and whether they are similar to them in terms of their gender their

to them in terms of their gender their

to them in terms of their gender their age maybe their attitudes or whether

age maybe their attitudes or whether

age maybe their attitudes or whether they are they are very different and so

they are they are very different and so

they are they are very different and so for each purse

for each purse

for each purse we can assign a score for each

we can assign a score for each

we can assign a score for each characteristic say how diverse their

characteristic say how diverse their

characteristic say how diverse their network is and we can use that score to

network is and we can use that score to

network is and we can use that score to describe the population or we can use

describe the population or we can use

describe the population or we can use that score to help explain and to

that score to help explain and to

that score to help explain and to estimate the influence that it has on

estimate the influence that it has on

estimate the influence that it has on their circle of compassion and whether

their circle of compassion and whether

their circle of compassion and whether it makes it wider or smaller so purely

it makes it wider or smaller so purely

it makes it wider or smaller so purely descriptively

descriptively

descriptively here’s what we found so first of all

here’s what we found so first of all

here’s what we found so first of all women’s social circles are 17 percent

women’s social circles are 17 percent

women’s social circles are 17 percent larger than men that women are much more

larger than men that women are much more

larger than men that women are much more likely to discuss the issue with other

likely to discuss the issue with other

likely to discuss the issue with other men with the man sorry the men are with

men with the man sorry the men are with

men with the man sorry the men are with women and it turns out that that matters

women and it turns out that that matters

women and it turns out that that matters we also find that in terms of diversity

we also find that in terms of diversity

we also find that in terms of diversity people are most likely to have age

people are most likely to have age

people are most likely to have age diverse networks then gender diverse

diverse networks then gender diverse

diverse networks then gender diverse networks before they are going to likely

networks before they are going to likely

networks before they are going to likely to have diversity in terms of the

to have diversity in terms of the

to have diversity in terms of the opinions of other people that they speak

opinions of other people that they speak

opinions of other people that they speak with we are least likely to see earth

with we are least likely to see earth

with we are least likely to see earth nicly diverse networks within the

nicly diverse networks within the

nicly diverse networks within the British public

British public

British public another thing we found was those within

another thing we found was those within

another thing we found was those within the age group of 40 to 59 are the people

the age group of 40 to 59 are the people

the age group of 40 to 59 are the people who are most likely to only speak to

who are most likely to only speak to

who are most likely to only speak to other people who share the same opinions

other people who share the same opinions

other people who share the same opinions as themselves so if any of you know

as themselves so if any of you know

as themselves so if any of you know someone who’s about to turn 40 then wish

someone who’s about to turn 40 then wish

someone who’s about to turn 40 then wish them luck because they’re about to enter

them luck because they’re about to enter

them luck because they’re about to enter into the most the biggest echo chamber

into the most the biggest echo chamber

into the most the biggest echo chamber of their of their life so far we also

of their of their life so far we also

of their of their life so far we also know that women are more concerned about

know that women are more concerned about

know that women are more concerned about global poverty than men are and those

global poverty than men are and those

global poverty than men are and those who are younger are more likely to be

who are younger are more likely to be

who are younger are more likely to be concerned that those who are older but

concerned that those who are older but

concerned that those who are older but how does all this matter to go back to

how does all this matter to go back to

how does all this matter to go back to the original question and to think about

the original question and to think about

the original question and to think about how these things influence how wide our

how these things influence how wide our

how these things influence how wide our circle of compassion is so first of all

circle of compassion is so first of all

circle of compassion is so first of all what widens our circle of compassion

what widens our circle of compassion

what widens our circle of compassion firstly your circle of compassion will

firstly your circle of compassion will

firstly your circle of compassion will be wider if you are concerned about

be wider if you are concerned about

be wider if you are concerned about global poverty that stands to reason we

global poverty that stands to reason we

global poverty that stands to reason we knew that already and it stands up and

knew that already and it stands up and

knew that already and it stands up and it holds your circle of compassion will

it holds your circle of compassion will

it holds your circle of compassion will also be wider if you are younger as

also be wider if you are younger as

also be wider if you are younger as opposed to being older but interestingly

opposed to being older but interestingly

opposed to being older but interestingly your circle of compassion will be wider

your circle of compassion will be wider

your circle of compassion will be wider if you are male than if you are female

if you are male than if you are female

if you are male than if you are female for any given level

for any given level

for any given level of concern so how do the social networks

of concern so how do the social networks

of concern so how do the social networks matter well firstly if you discuss the

matter well firstly if you discuss the

matter well firstly if you discuss the issue with a more giant gender diverse

issue with a more giant gender diverse

issue with a more giant gender diverse group so if you identify as female and

group so if you identify as female and

group so if you identify as female and you speak with men or males and or vice

you speak with men or males and or vice

you speak with men or males and or vice versa you are more likely to have a

versa you are more likely to have a

versa you are more likely to have a wider circle of compassion and we might

wider circle of compassion and we might

wider circle of compassion and we might want to think about different

want to think about different

want to think about different sociological explanations of why this

sociological explanations of why this

sociological explanations of why this might be may be its openness to

might be may be its openness to

might be may be its openness to diversity different views of compassion

diversity different views of compassion

diversity different views of compassion etc expands our horizons I have a friend

etc expands our horizons I have a friend

etc expands our horizons I have a friend he’s worked in global poverty for many

he’s worked in global poverty for many

he’s worked in global poverty for many many years very committed and he offered

many years very committed and he offered

many years very committed and he offered another more personal take on this and

another more personal take on this and

another more personal take on this and he said David I can tell you how I got

he said David I can tell you how I got

he said David I can tell you how I got into it there was the two girls I

into it there was the two girls I

into it there was the two girls I fancied the most and they joined Amnesty

fancied the most and they joined Amnesty

fancied the most and they joined Amnesty International so I joined Amnesty

International so I joined Amnesty

International so I joined Amnesty International too so there’s that but

International too so there’s that but

International too so there’s that but finally in terms of our attitudinal

finally in terms of our attitudinal

finally in terms of our attitudinal diversity if you speak with other people

diversity if you speak with other people

diversity if you speak with other people you have a lower level of concern about

you have a lower level of concern about

you have a lower level of concern about global poverty than you do it’s going to

global poverty than you do it’s going to

global poverty than you do it’s going to shrink your circle of compassion they

shrink your circle of compassion they

shrink your circle of compassion they affect your circle and vice versa if you

affect your circle and vice versa if you

affect your circle and vice versa if you have a low level of concern about global

have a low level of concern about global

have a low level of concern about global poverty but you are speaking with other

poverty but you are speaking with other

poverty but you are speaking with other people who have higher levels then your

people who have higher levels then your

people who have higher levels then your circle of compassion will expand and get

circle of compassion will expand and get

circle of compassion will expand and get larger so it matters who we speak to and

larger so it matters who we speak to and

larger so it matters who we speak to and what their attitudes are I spend my days

what their attitudes are I spend my days

what their attitudes are I spend my days researching in to why people get more or

researching in to why people get more or

researching in to why people get more or less engaged with global poverty or

less engaged with global poverty or

less engaged with global poverty or indeed one of the political drivers that

indeed one of the political drivers that

indeed one of the political drivers that help reduce poverty expand people’s

help reduce poverty expand people’s

help reduce poverty expand people’s freedoms and improve people’s life

freedoms and improve people’s life

freedoms and improve people’s life overseas but I totally accept that not

overseas but I totally accept that not

overseas but I totally accept that not everybody shares those priorities and

everybody shares those priorities and

everybody shares those priorities and that is absolutely fine but here’s the

that is absolutely fine but here’s the

that is absolutely fine but here’s the deal

deal

deal the late great Brian Clough was being

the late great Brian Clough was being

the late great Brian Clough was being interviewed by Michael Parkinson and

interviewed by Michael Parkinson and

interviewed by Michael Parkinson and Parkinson asking the question he said

Parkinson asking the question he said

Parkinson asking the question he said what do you do when one of your players

what do you do when one of your players

what do you do when one of your players disagrees with you and says boss I think

disagrees with you and says boss I think

disagrees with you and says boss I think you’re doing it wrong and cliff replied

you’re doing it wrong and cliff replied

you’re doing it wrong and cliff replied well I asked him how he thinks it should

well I asked him how he thinks it should

well I asked him how he thinks it should be done then we get down to it we talk

be done then we get down to it we talk

be done then we get down to it we talk for 20 minutes and then we decide I was

for 20 minutes and then we decide I was

for 20 minutes and then we decide I was right

right

right the good news is we are not all brian

the good news is we are not all brian

the good news is we are not all brian clough that we can and we do change our

clough that we can and we do change our

clough that we can and we do change our opinion about global poverty and how

opinion about global poverty and how

opinion about global poverty and how wide our circle of compassion should be

wide our circle of compassion should be

wide our circle of compassion should be and actually it’s the people our friends

and actually it’s the people our friends

and actually it’s the people our friends and family that we talk to that

and family that we talk to that

and family that we talk to that influence this and similarly in talking

influence this and similarly in talking

influence this and similarly in talking to our friends and family we can also

to our friends and family we can also

to our friends and family we can also influence their attitudes and their

influence their attitudes and their

influence their attitudes and their circle of compassion thank you

circle of compassion thank you

circle of compassion thank you [Applause]

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