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being a small-town girl from Brady

being a small-town girl from Brady I never imagined becoming a rally driver

I never imagined becoming a rally driver

I never imagined becoming a rally driver even though as a child I prefer playing

even though as a child I prefer playing

even though as a child I prefer playing with cars rather their doors I was

with cars rather their doors I was

with cars rather their doors I was always passionate about driving ever

always passionate about driving ever

always passionate about driving ever since my dad taught me at a young age of

since my dad taught me at a young age of

since my dad taught me at a young age of 14

14

14 this had created a strong sense of

this had created a strong sense of

this had created a strong sense of independence in me I still remember

independence in me I still remember

independence in me I still remember sometimes just too sure I would drive a

sometimes just too sure I would drive a

sometimes just too sure I would drive a load and pattered view to school and had

load and pattered view to school and had

load and pattered view to school and had become accustomed to the gaping

become accustomed to the gaping

become accustomed to the gaping reactions of the schoolmates as I would

reactions of the schoolmates as I would

reactions of the schoolmates as I would drive in pull the gear down park at the

drive in pull the gear down park at the

drive in pull the gear down park at the driveway and switch off the ignition it

driveway and switch off the ignition it

driveway and switch off the ignition it was end poverty to see released but in

was end poverty to see released but in

was end poverty to see released but in Brady tradition route

Brady tradition route

Brady tradition route my parrot decided to get me married to a

my parrot decided to get me married to a

my parrot decided to get me married to a stranger when I was just 18

stranger when I was just 18

stranger when I was just 18 it was not my choice not in my character

it was not my choice not in my character

it was not my choice not in my character I had been a performer and house captain

I had been a performer and house captain

I had been a performer and house captain in my school and my only burning

in my school and my only burning

in my school and my only burning ambition then was to finish my studies

ambition then was to finish my studies

ambition then was to finish my studies join the Foreign Services and become an

join the Foreign Services and become an

join the Foreign Services and become an ambassador for my country the last thing

ambassador for my country the last thing

ambassador for my country the last thing I wanted to do was to get married and I

I wanted to do was to get married and I

I wanted to do was to get married and I had completely no say in this decision

had completely no say in this decision

had completely no say in this decision the marriage turned out to be pretty

the marriage turned out to be pretty

the marriage turned out to be pretty dorky and turbulent I had never felt

dorky and turbulent I had never felt

dorky and turbulent I had never felt more betrayed in my life if I had stayed

more betrayed in my life if I had stayed

more betrayed in my life if I had stayed on I would have lost every ounce of my

on I would have lost every ounce of my

on I would have lost every ounce of my self-respect

self-respect

self-respect unfortunately my pillow my only source

unfortunately my pillow my only source

unfortunately my pillow my only source of strength my father was no more I

of strength my father was no more I

of strength my father was no more I didn’t know whom to look up to for help

didn’t know whom to look up to for help

didn’t know whom to look up to for help I felt completely lost in this time of

I felt completely lost in this time of

I felt completely lost in this time of distress some of the places were

distress some of the places were

distress some of the places were hesitant to help while some other

hesitant to help while some other

hesitant to help while some other godsend people would buy me like a dog

godsend people would buy me like a dog

godsend people would buy me like a dog and I’m eternally grateful to them with

and I’m eternally grateful to them with

and I’m eternally grateful to them with no professional degree and no financial

no professional degree and no financial

no professional degree and no financial independence the president of the future

independence the president of the future

independence the president of the future debate an uncertain nightmare at that

debate an uncertain nightmare at that

debate an uncertain nightmare at that moment the idea of walking alone into

moment the idea of walking alone into

moment the idea of walking alone into the unknown with countless challenges

the unknown with countless challenges

the unknown with countless challenges was truly intimidating I had two options

was truly intimidating I had two options

was truly intimidating I had two options one I would have said looting at home

one I would have said looting at home

one I would have said looting at home and said God why me and the other was to

and said God why me and the other was to

and said God why me and the other was to take charge of my life and do it my way

take charge of my life and do it my way

take charge of my life and do it my way I chose the latter I am NOT alive then

I chose the latter I am NOT alive then

I chose the latter I am NOT alive then we

we

we even options and we make her choices

even options and we make her choices

even options and we make her choices venomoth take complete responsibility

venomoth take complete responsibility

venomoth take complete responsibility for the outcome of the choice and be

for the outcome of the choice and be

for the outcome of the choice and be eternally positive about it and

eternally positive about it and

eternally positive about it and eventually hold o regrets

eventually hold o regrets

eventually hold o regrets so when I decided to walk out of the

so when I decided to walk out of the

so when I decided to walk out of the marriage I have no guilt no regrets

marriage I have no guilt no regrets

marriage I have no guilt no regrets because I had taught my own part and I

because I had taught my own part and I

because I had taught my own part and I did it my way

did it my way

did it my way pass over to five years my first rally

pass over to five years my first rally

pass over to five years my first rally happened out of the blue when I saw an

happened out of the blue when I saw an

happened out of the blue when I saw an ad on Facebook about a woman’s car rally

ad on Facebook about a woman’s car rally

ad on Facebook about a woman’s car rally in 2011 so a friend and I decided to

in 2011 so a friend and I decided to

in 2011 so a friend and I decided to participate in it little did I know that

participate in it little did I know that

participate in it little did I know that what started as fun participation would

what started as fun participation would

what started as fun participation would become my colleague and career yet for

become my colleague and career yet for

become my colleague and career yet for all the thrill and excitement of getting

all the thrill and excitement of getting

all the thrill and excitement of getting into Motorsports I had a lot of

into Motorsports I had a lot of

into Motorsports I had a lot of apprehension because it was a completely

apprehension because it was a completely

apprehension because it was a completely unexplored territory for me nobody from

unexplored territory for me nobody from

unexplored territory for me nobody from ice and your friends is remotely

ice and your friends is remotely

ice and your friends is remotely associated with rally road racing in

associated with rally road racing in

associated with rally road racing in most cases people have their paths laid

most cases people have their paths laid

most cases people have their paths laid out for them by others but in my case

out for them by others but in my case

out for them by others but in my case there was no clear path or a role model

there was no clear path or a role model

there was no clear path or a role model guiding me but real inspiration growth

guiding me but real inspiration growth

guiding me but real inspiration growth comes from stepping away from what’s

comes from stepping away from what’s

comes from stepping away from what’s comfortable and familiar and stepping

comfortable and familiar and stepping

comfortable and familiar and stepping out into the unknown if only we could

out into the unknown if only we could

out into the unknown if only we could sum up the courage and are willing to

sum up the courage and are willing to

sum up the courage and are willing to take risk Motorsports is not a that self

take risk Motorsports is not a that self

take risk Motorsports is not a that self financing curve and our stand alone

financing curve and our stand alone

financing curve and our stand alone profession in fact it can burn a hole in

profession in fact it can burn a hole in

profession in fact it can burn a hole in your pocket after divorce ow

your pocket after divorce ow

your pocket after divorce ow when I took up a job in a manufacturing

when I took up a job in a manufacturing

when I took up a job in a manufacturing company there Tim Cape is limited or

company there Tim Cape is limited or

company there Tim Cape is limited or which are the vice-president down I had

which are the vice-president down I had

which are the vice-president down I had become financially independent but

become financially independent but

become financially independent but definitely it wasn’t enough to pursue

definitely it wasn’t enough to pursue

definitely it wasn’t enough to pursue such an expensive sport so inevitably

such an expensive sport so inevitably

such an expensive sport so inevitably questions arose as to why I would want

questions arose as to why I would want

questions arose as to why I would want to trade my saved cushioned existence

to trade my saved cushioned existence

to trade my saved cushioned existence for something so unpredictable also how

for something so unpredictable also how

for something so unpredictable also how would I balance my life between my

would I balance my life between my

would I balance my life between my responsibilities there’s a mother a

responsibilities there’s a mother a

responsibilities there’s a mother a full-time job and a newfound passion but

full-time job and a newfound passion but

full-time job and a newfound passion but I was consumed by this passion we all

I was consumed by this passion we all

I was consumed by this passion we all want to live a life we love alive that

want to live a life we love alive that

want to live a life we love alive that feel uniquely our own and feels right to

feel uniquely our own and feels right to

feel uniquely our own and feels right to us sometimes car

us sometimes car

us sometimes car own part in life isn’t easy especially

own part in life isn’t easy especially

own part in life isn’t easy especially the path the balls breaking from the

the path the balls breaking from the

the path the balls breaking from the norm but if you trust yourself and keep

norm but if you trust yourself and keep

norm but if you trust yourself and keep carving your part one step at a time and

carving your part one step at a time and

carving your part one step at a time and keep walking you will get there so I

keep walking you will get there so I

keep walking you will get there so I started to work hard to hold my driving

started to work hard to hold my driving

started to work hard to hold my driving skills invested in professional training

skills invested in professional training

skills invested in professional training followed on extremely strict and

followed on extremely strict and

followed on extremely strict and well-planned fitness regime I could

well-planned fitness regime I could

well-planned fitness regime I could visit garages after work and pick up on

visit garages after work and pick up on

visit garages after work and pick up on the knowledge and fundamentals of cars

the knowledge and fundamentals of cars

the knowledge and fundamentals of cars and rallying from books and other

and rallying from books and other

and rallying from books and other sources I could lay my hands on I also

sources I could lay my hands on I also

sources I could lay my hands on I also started working earnestly to work

started working earnestly to work

started working earnestly to work getting sponsorship which is never easy

getting sponsorship which is never easy

getting sponsorship which is never easy finally my first big break happened when

finally my first big break happened when

finally my first big break happened when highly competitive Mahindra took me on

highly competitive Mahindra took me on

highly competitive Mahindra took me on board as one of the drivers for the time

board as one of the drivers for the time

board as one of the drivers for the time speed distance for my dragons this was

speed distance for my dragons this was

speed distance for my dragons this was the beginning of intensive racing action

the beginning of intensive racing action

the beginning of intensive racing action which were my laurels in many rallies

which were my laurels in many rallies

which were my laurels in many rallies and by 2013 I had made my mark in the

and by 2013 I had made my mark in the

and by 2013 I had made my mark in the rally circuit but I have learned that

rally circuit but I have learned that

rally circuit but I have learned that success lies beyond our comfort zone you

success lies beyond our comfort zone you

success lies beyond our comfort zone you have to be willing to go where many fear

have to be willing to go where many fear

have to be willing to go where many fear to tread and you have to do it your way

to tread and you have to do it your way

to tread and you have to do it your way so now my heart was all said to venture

so now my heart was all said to venture

so now my heart was all said to venture out into the more challenging extreme of

out into the more challenging extreme of

out into the more challenging extreme of high speed rally which was the real

high speed rally which was the real

high speed rally which was the real stuff where the cars grit and skills of

stuff where the cars grit and skills of

stuff where the cars grit and skills of the rally driver were truly tested this

the rally driver were truly tested this

the rally driver were truly tested this was the glass ceiling in front of me

was the glass ceiling in front of me

was the glass ceiling in front of me which I had to soon great Motorsports

which I had to soon great Motorsports

which I had to soon great Motorsports has also given me some of my life’s most

has also given me some of my life’s most

has also given me some of my life’s most memorable moments and one of the women

memorable moments and one of the women

memorable moments and one of the women car rallies my first rally by navigator

car rallies my first rally by navigator

car rallies my first rally by navigator and I we got lost at the middle of

and I we got lost at the middle of

and I we got lost at the middle of nowhere it was a time free distance from

nowhere it was a time free distance from

nowhere it was a time free distance from a trolley in every second wasted losing

a trolley in every second wasted losing

a trolley in every second wasted losing away could cost us a final podium

away could cost us a final podium

away could cost us a final podium position so we did the only thing mature

position so we did the only thing mature

position so we did the only thing mature people do when to such dire

people do when to such dire

people do when to such dire circumstances we argued we quartered

circumstances we argued we quartered

circumstances we argued we quartered as I said a few harsh words to her about

as I said a few harsh words to her about

as I said a few harsh words to her about her knowledge of basic navigation and

her knowledge of basic navigation and

her knowledge of basic navigation and she was equally complimentary about my

she was equally complimentary about my

she was equally complimentary about my lack of driving skills we did reach back

lack of driving skills we did reach back

lack of driving skills we did reach back and finish the rally and share a hearty

and finish the rally and share a hearty

and finish the rally and share a hearty laugh over

laugh over

laugh over predicament when we stood second

predicament when we stood second

predicament when we stood second runner-up on the podium today she is one

runner-up on the podium today she is one

runner-up on the podium today she is one of my closest friends on the rally

of my closest friends on the rally

of my closest friends on the rally circuit so sometimes it is necessary to

circuit so sometimes it is necessary to

circuit so sometimes it is necessary to get lost in order to find one’s way back

get lost in order to find one’s way back

get lost in order to find one’s way back motor sports is a male-dominated sport

motor sports is a male-dominated sport

motor sports is a male-dominated sport in one of the Desert Storm gravies

in one of the Desert Storm gravies

in one of the Desert Storm gravies amongst the 150 participants I was the

amongst the 150 participants I was the

amongst the 150 participants I was the only female driver either triple my way

only female driver either triple my way

only female driver either triple my way through the hot sand dunes of Jezebel

through the hot sand dunes of Jezebel

through the hot sand dunes of Jezebel so as women we not only have to prove

so as women we not only have to prove

so as women we not only have to prove ourselves in the racetrack but also have

ourselves in the racetrack but also have

ourselves in the racetrack but also have to fight through numerous stereotypes

to fight through numerous stereotypes

to fight through numerous stereotypes but this has never dissipated me in fact

but this has never dissipated me in fact

but this has never dissipated me in fact it made my resolve even stronger very

it made my resolve even stronger very

it made my resolve even stronger very often when I introduced myself as a

often when I introduced myself as a

often when I introduced myself as a rally driver people want down and their

rally driver people want down and their

rally driver people want down and their reaction is really you look so delicate

reaction is really you look so delicate

reaction is really you look so delicate how come you are into motorsports well I

how come you are into motorsports well I

how come you are into motorsports well I am standing right here in front of you

am standing right here in front of you

am standing right here in front of you the truth is in motorsports mental

the truth is in motorsports mental

the truth is in motorsports mental strength matters more than the physical

strength matters more than the physical

strength matters more than the physical strength once in one of the rounds of

strength once in one of the rounds of

strength once in one of the rounds of the Indian National Rally Championship

the Indian National Rally Championship

the Indian National Rally Championship which is an extreme form at rally on a

which is an extreme form at rally on a

which is an extreme form at rally on a gravel track as I was negotiating a shop

gravel track as I was negotiating a shop

gravel track as I was negotiating a shop slippery corner at high speed my car

slippery corner at high speed my car

slippery corner at high speed my car went off the track and turned turtle

went off the track and turned turtle

went off the track and turned turtle this did not dampen my spirits without

this did not dampen my spirits without

this did not dampen my spirits without wasting much time I navigated and I with

wasting much time I navigated and I with

wasting much time I navigated and I with the help of some passers-by got the car

the help of some passers-by got the car

the help of some passers-by got the car back on the track and finish the rally

back on the track and finish the rally

back on the track and finish the rally and even won in our category so I have

and even won in our category so I have

and even won in our category so I have come far down the road less traveled

come far down the road less traveled

come far down the road less traveled finally some fruits of my journey have

finally some fruits of my journey have

finally some fruits of my journey have been realized I have been an instructor

been realized I have been an instructor

been realized I have been an instructor for Porsche a and one of the

for Porsche a and one of the

for Porsche a and one of the professional drivers for Mercedes for

professional drivers for Mercedes for

professional drivers for Mercedes for the links drive program I had launched

the links drive program I had launched

the links drive program I had launched in all the men’s del Drive expeditions

in all the men’s del Drive expeditions

in all the men’s del Drive expeditions for a travel company where we are all

for a travel company where we are all

for a travel company where we are all women drove to spiti valley which is

women drove to spiti valley which is

women drove to spiti valley which is home to the world’s most treacherous

home to the world’s most treacherous

home to the world’s most treacherous roads currently I’m part of team auto

roads currently I’m part of team auto

roads currently I’m part of team auto car which is into his leading

car which is into his leading

car which is into his leading automatically then Auto Show on times

automatically then Auto Show on times

automatically then Auto Show on times now my recent project took took me to

now my recent project took took me to

now my recent project took took me to cover

cover

cover Reba Malia’s which is the was highest

Reba Malia’s which is the was highest

Reba Malia’s which is the was highest altitude that one of the most

altitude that one of the most

altitude that one of the most granny’s somewhere while driving on

granny’s somewhere while driving on

granny’s somewhere while driving on those back roads and the rocky terrains

those back roads and the rocky terrains

those back roads and the rocky terrains I’ve also taken my personal

I’ve also taken my personal

I’ve also taken my personal transformational journey and I’ve

transformational journey and I’ve

transformational journey and I’ve evolved from being submissive to be more

evolved from being submissive to be more

evolved from being submissive to be more resolute and assertive from certain

resolute and assertive from certain

resolute and assertive from certain dividend to boost confidence and may I

dividend to boost confidence and may I

dividend to boost confidence and may I even say from a victim to a victim

even say from a victim to a victim

even say from a victim to a victim because I did it my way I had continued

because I did it my way I had continued

because I did it my way I had continued on my journey of Motorsports not only

on my journey of Motorsports not only

on my journey of Motorsports not only because I am passionate about cars and

because I am passionate about cars and

because I am passionate about cars and driving but also because I wanted to

driving but also because I wanted to

driving but also because I wanted to test my mettle and to create my own

test my mettle and to create my own

test my mettle and to create my own identity which I’d lost somewhere down

identity which I’d lost somewhere down

identity which I’d lost somewhere down the line finally I found my place under

the line finally I found my place under

the line finally I found my place under the Sun but the journey continues and

the Sun but the journey continues and

the Sun but the journey continues and the dream only gets bigger so keep

the dream only gets bigger so keep

the dream only gets bigger so keep creating a life which is uniquely your

creating a life which is uniquely your

creating a life which is uniquely your own carve your path one step at a time

own carve your path one step at a time

own carve your path one step at a time in pursuit of a dream do it your way and

in pursuit of a dream do it your way and

in pursuit of a dream do it your way and in saying this I am inspired by and

in saying this I am inspired by and

in saying this I am inspired by and would like to share this wonderful

would like to share this wonderful

would like to share this wonderful rendition conducted by Zubin Mehta in

rendition conducted by Zubin Mehta in

rendition conducted by Zubin Mehta in tribute to Frank Sinatra this video

tribute to Frank Sinatra this video

tribute to Frank Sinatra this video resonates my sentiments

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