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Dismantling Mainstream Media’s Image of the Muslim Woman | Nastesho Ulow | TEDxFargo


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[Music] I am a feminist I must like feminists

I am a feminist I must like feminists

I am a feminist I must like feminists now you might think those two things

now you might think those two things

now you might think those two things can’t go together and I’m here to prove

can’t go together and I’m here to prove

can’t go together and I’m here to prove you wrong the misrepresentation of a

you wrong the misrepresentation of a

you wrong the misrepresentation of a Muslim woman is a global phenomenon my

Muslim woman is a global phenomenon my

Muslim woman is a global phenomenon my job tells you I’m a Muslim and with that

job tells you I’m a Muslim and with that

job tells you I’m a Muslim and with that people assume I’m either forced to dress

people assume I’m either forced to dress

people assume I’m either forced to dress the way I do I’m passive or I’m caged by

the way I do I’m passive or I’m caged by

the way I do I’m passive or I’m caged by the men in my family the first thing I’d

the men in my family the first thing I’d

the men in my family the first thing I’d like to say is I choose to wear the

like to say is I choose to wear the

like to say is I choose to wear the hijab it’s a decision I make every

hijab it’s a decision I make every

hijab it’s a decision I make every single day I am NOT oppressed I am NOT

single day I am NOT oppressed I am NOT

single day I am NOT oppressed I am NOT passive and I’m certainly not caged

passive and I’m certainly not caged

passive and I’m certainly not caged unfortunately unfortunately the media

unfortunately unfortunately the media

unfortunately unfortunately the media puts Muslim women in three big

puts Muslim women in three big

puts Muslim women in three big categories veiled oppressed or the worst

categories veiled oppressed or the worst

categories veiled oppressed or the worst one of all homogeneous the media also

one of all homogeneous the media also

one of all homogeneous the media also generalizes and associates the followers

generalizes and associates the followers

generalizes and associates the followers of Islam to other dehumanizing

of Islam to other dehumanizing

of Islam to other dehumanizing stereotypes but let’s focus on the

stereotypes but let’s focus on the

stereotypes but let’s focus on the misconceptions of the Muslim woman

misconceptions of the Muslim woman

misconceptions of the Muslim woman number one oppressed there are a couple

number one oppressed there are a couple

number one oppressed there are a couple of reasons why people think Muslim women

of reasons why people think Muslim women

of reasons why people think Muslim women are oppressed and some of it leads back

are oppressed and some of it leads back

are oppressed and some of it leads back to the translations and interpretations

to the translations and interpretations

to the translations and interpretations of an ayah when Islamic scholars debate

of an ayah when Islamic scholars debate

of an ayah when Islamic scholars debate this topic they often refer back to the

this topic they often refer back to the

this topic they often refer back to the 34th verse in chapter 4 according to one

34th verse in chapter 4 according to one

34th verse in chapter 4 according to one translation it states as to those women

translation it states as to those women

translation it states as to those women who you fear disloyalty and ill conduct

who you fear disloyalty and ill conduct

who you fear disloyalty and ill conduct whose part you fear disloyalty and ill

whose part you fear disloyalty and ill

whose part you fear disloyalty and ill conduct admonish them first second

conduct admonish them first second

conduct admonish them first second refused to share beds with them and

refused to share beds with them and

refused to share beds with them and third beat them however in recent

third beat them however in recent

third beat them however in recent decades a growing number of scholars

decades a growing number of scholars

decades a growing number of scholars have argued that such interpretations go

have argued that such interpretations go

have argued that such interpretations go against major Islamic teachings of

against major Islamic teachings of

against major Islamic teachings of non-violence and gender equality the

non-violence and gender equality the

non-violence and gender equality the Prophet peace be upon him teachings were

Prophet peace be upon him teachings were

Prophet peace be upon him teachings were to treat women kindly and with respect

to treat women kindly and with respect

to treat women kindly and with respect but men who don’t understand the

but men who don’t understand the

but men who don’t understand the complexity of that verse used it to

complexity of that verse used it to

complexity of that verse used it to justify their abuse in Islam killing one

justify their abuse in Islam killing one

justify their abuse in Islam killing one person is like killing all of mankind

person is like killing all of mankind

person is like killing all of mankind but it’s true that violent practices are

but it’s true that violent practices are

but it’s true that violent practices are common to some part of the world as part

common to some part of the world as part

common to some part of the world as part of their culture but this is where we

of their culture but this is where we

of their culture but this is where we draw the line violence committed under

draw the line violence committed under

draw the line violence committed under the name of culture and tradition is

the name of culture and tradition is

the name of culture and tradition is just as horrific as violence committed

just as horrific as violence committed

just as horrific as violence committed anywhere else we need to stand up for

anywhere else we need to stand up for

anywhere else we need to stand up for women who are under systematic

women who are under systematic

women who are under systematic oppression while religions like Islam

oppression while religions like Islam

oppression while religions like Islam condemn any acts of violence against

condemn any acts of violence against

condemn any acts of violence against women they are men and women yes I said

women they are men and women yes I said

women they are men and women yes I said women who hold up these systemic

women who hold up these systemic

women who hold up these systemic oppressions and make it a norm in their

oppressions and make it a norm in their

oppressions and make it a norm in their societies another reason why people

societies another reason why people

societies another reason why people think Muslim women are oppressed is the

think Muslim women are oppressed is the

think Muslim women are oppressed is the lack of education in Islam not only is

lack of education in Islam not only is

lack of education in Islam not only is supposed to seek education it’s a duty a

supposed to seek education it’s a duty a

supposed to seek education it’s a duty a responsibility placed on mankind male

responsibility placed on mankind male

responsibility placed on mankind male and female the prophets allah jalla wa

and female the prophets allah jalla wa

and female the prophets allah jalla wa sallam said whosoever follows a path to

sallam said whosoever follows a path to

sallam said whosoever follows a path to seek knowledge Allah will make it easy

seek knowledge Allah will make it easy

seek knowledge Allah will make it easy for his or her path to paradise but

for his or her path to paradise but

for his or her path to paradise but Muslim women face restrictions in

Muslim women face restrictions in

Muslim women face restrictions in accessing education that differ greatly

accessing education that differ greatly

accessing education that differ greatly from one region to another

from one region to another

from one region to another for example in Somalia the participation

for example in Somalia the participation

for example in Somalia the participation of education is lower in girls than boys

of education is lower in girls than boys

of education is lower in girls than boys due to social norms safety concerns lack

due to social norms safety concerns lack

due to social norms safety concerns lack of female educators or even the

of female educators or even the

of female educators or even the availability of separate bathrooms for

availability of separate bathrooms for

availability of separate bathrooms for girls number two veils many Muslim women

girls number two veils many Muslim women

girls number two veils many Muslim women choose to wear the hijab it means

choose to wear the hijab it means

choose to wear the hijab it means different thing to each individual to

different thing to each individual to

different thing to each individual to some it’s a reminder to make good

some it’s a reminder to make good

some it’s a reminder to make good choices to others it’s to be modest a

choices to others it’s to be modest a

choices to others it’s to be modest a couple of months ago I went to a Muslim

couple of months ago I went to a Muslim

couple of months ago I went to a Muslim youth group and which consisted of

youth group and which consisted of

youth group and which consisted of mostly middle and high school girls and

mostly middle and high school girls and

mostly middle and high school girls and as we talked we connected over some of

as we talked we connected over some of

as we talked we connected over some of the prejudices we deal with in our

the prejudices we deal with in our

the prejudices we deal with in our communities we all agreed that it was

communities we all agreed that it was

communities we all agreed that it was hard to figure out how to fit in when

hard to figure out how to fit in when

hard to figure out how to fit in when what we wear makes a standout I wear the

what we wear makes a standout I wear the

what we wear makes a standout I wear the hijab as a sign of devotion and I’m

hijab as a sign of devotion and I’m

hijab as a sign of devotion and I’m proud that it this is a symbol of my

proud that it this is a symbol of my

proud that it this is a symbol of my faith as a Muslim woman who wears the

faith as a Muslim woman who wears the

faith as a Muslim woman who wears the hijab your faith is going to be your

hijab your faith is going to be your

hijab your faith is going to be your first impression it’s what you tell

first impression it’s what you tell

first impression it’s what you tell people before you even get to say hello

people before you even get to say hello

people before you even get to say hello as a result Muslim women are more likely

as a result Muslim women are more likely

as a result Muslim women are more likely than men to face anti-muslim attacks in

than men to face anti-muslim attacks in

than men to face anti-muslim attacks in public because there’s a job or their

public because there’s a job or their

public because there’s a job or their physical appearance is the reminder of

physical appearance is the reminder of

physical appearance is the reminder of Islam this is not acceptable or an

Islam this is not acceptable or an

Islam this is not acceptable or an excuse to make assumptions and

excuse to make assumptions and

excuse to make assumptions and categorize Muslim women into a

categorize Muslim women into a

categorize Muslim women into a stereotype I’m empowered by my choice

stereotype I’m empowered by my choice

stereotype I’m empowered by my choice and agency like many Muslim women there

and agency like many Muslim women there

and agency like many Muslim women there are many athletes scholars professors or

are many athletes scholars professors or

are many athletes scholars professors or even fashion icons who wear the hijab

even fashion icons who wear the hijab

even fashion icons who wear the hijab out of choice the hijab worn and taken

out of choice the hijab worn and taken

out of choice the hijab worn and taken by choices empowering because

by choices empowering because

by choices empowering because empowerment is individual so don’t use

empowerment is individual so don’t use

empowerment is individual so don’t use the hijab to categorize marginalized

the hijab to categorize marginalized

the hijab to categorize marginalized silence

silence

silence one woman number three homogenous when

one woman number three homogenous when

one woman number three homogenous when people think Islam or Muslims many

people think Islam or Muslims many

people think Islam or Muslims many people assume Arab or people or Middle

people assume Arab or people or Middle

people assume Arab or people or Middle East or people belong to one race or

East or people belong to one race or

East or people belong to one race or ethnicity my friend and I have actually

ethnicity my friend and I have actually

ethnicity my friend and I have actually been asked where our ethnicity are and

been asked where our ethnicity are and

been asked where our ethnicity are and when I said Somali and my friend said

when I said Somali and my friend said

when I said Somali and my friend said it’s open they were confused because

it’s open they were confused because

it’s open they were confused because they thought we were Muslim yeah we’re

they thought we were Muslim yeah we’re

they thought we were Muslim yeah we’re both it’s a religion it’s a religion not

both it’s a religion it’s a religion not

both it’s a religion it’s a religion not a race or an ethnicity the first real

a race or an ethnicity the first real

a race or an ethnicity the first real wave of Islam started with slavery

wave of Islam started with slavery

wave of Islam started with slavery Muslims made up to 10 to 15 percent of

Muslims made up to 10 to 15 percent of

Muslims made up to 10 to 15 percent of the slaves that were brought into the

the slaves that were brought into the

the slaves that were brought into the u.s. remaining of Muslim was difficult

u.s. remaining of Muslim was difficult

u.s. remaining of Muslim was difficult for many Muslims many were forcibly

for many Muslims many were forcibly

for many Muslims many were forcibly converted to Christianity and if they

converted to Christianity and if they

converted to Christianity and if they wanted to keep their traditional

wanted to keep their traditional

wanted to keep their traditional clothings names or faith life they had

clothings names or faith life they had

clothings names or faith life they had to do it in secret so if Muslims were

to do it in secret so if Muslims were

to do it in secret so if Muslims were part of this country since slavery why

part of this country since slavery why

part of this country since slavery why do people only think the Middle East or

do people only think the Middle East or

do people only think the Middle East or terrorism the truth is the media linked

terrorism the truth is the media linked

terrorism the truth is the media linked terrorism to Islam and when most of

terrorism to Islam and when most of

terrorism to Islam and when most of these so-called Muslim terrorists happen

these so-called Muslim terrorists happen

these so-called Muslim terrorists happen to be from the Middle East and that’s

to be from the Middle East and that’s

to be from the Middle East and that’s all you keep hearing about everyone

all you keep hearing about everyone

all you keep hearing about everyone thinks that’s where all Muslims come

thinks that’s where all Muslims come

thinks that’s where all Muslims come from Muslims are diverse in race culture

from Muslims are diverse in race culture

from Muslims are diverse in race culture occupation language or anything else you

occupation language or anything else you

occupation language or anything else you can imagine

can imagine

can imagine during my first two years of high school

during my first two years of high school

during my first two years of high school I was not as vocal as I am today

I was not as vocal as I am today

I was not as vocal as I am today I worked hard to stay invisible but the

I worked hard to stay invisible but the

I worked hard to stay invisible but the transition of becoming bicultural has

transition of becoming bicultural has

transition of becoming bicultural has been a tough one of struggling to hold

been a tough one of struggling to hold

been a tough one of struggling to hold on to one culture while the other one

on to one culture while the other one

on to one culture while the other one inevitably takes over but however the

inevitably takes over but however the

inevitably takes over but however the isolation I felt was not due to language

isolation I felt was not due to language

isolation I felt was not due to language because I was fluent in English but

because I was fluent in English but

because I was fluent in English but rather dismiss informed idea that were

rather dismiss informed idea that were

rather dismiss informed idea that were not as enlightened or we need saving and

not as enlightened or we need saving and

not as enlightened or we need saving and emancipation from our religion but I

emancipation from our religion but I

emancipation from our religion but I learned critical thinking skills I

learned critical thinking skills I

learned critical thinking skills I learned that we need to question biased

learned that we need to question biased

learned that we need to question biased information and realize how it affects

information and realize how it affects

information and realize how it affects our perception last year after the rise

our perception last year after the rise

our perception last year after the rise of tension in our school my friends and

of tension in our school my friends and

of tension in our school my friends and I started a minority inclusion

I started a minority inclusion

I started a minority inclusion Association the school happily accepted

Association the school happily accepted

Association the school happily accepted our idea and helped us implement it it

our idea and helped us implement it it

our idea and helped us implement it it was our way of recognizing there needs

was our way of recognizing there needs

was our way of recognizing there needs to be

to be

to be our cultural understanding especially as

our cultural understanding especially as

our cultural understanding especially as our communities grow to be more diverse

our communities grow to be more diverse

our communities grow to be more diverse understanding cultural differences

understanding cultural differences

understanding cultural differences begins with having an open mind secondly

begins with having an open mind secondly

begins with having an open mind secondly learning is best done through engaging

learning is best done through engaging

learning is best done through engaging so seeking answers to your questions and

so seeking answers to your questions and

so seeking answers to your questions and having an open dialogue is crucial about

having an open dialogue is crucial about

having an open dialogue is crucial about race or even religion open dialog can

race or even religion open dialog can

race or even religion open dialog can mean asking the right questions looking

mean asking the right questions looking

mean asking the right questions looking for answers as long as you’re engaging

for answers as long as you’re engaging

for answers as long as you’re engaging and not assuming lastly did not be

and not assuming lastly did not be

and not assuming lastly did not be afraid to talk about your culture

afraid to talk about your culture

afraid to talk about your culture because you just want to fit in a

because you just want to fit in a

because you just want to fit in a simulation should not have to be a

simulation should not have to be a

simulation should not have to be a tactic to erase our identities I’m proud

tactic to erase our identities I’m proud

tactic to erase our identities I’m proud to say that I am a Muslim feminist we

to say that I am a Muslim feminist we

to say that I am a Muslim feminist we need to have the courage of standing up

need to have the courage of standing up

need to have the courage of standing up and not let anyone limit us

and not let anyone limit us

and not let anyone limit us [Applause]

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