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oh sorry so good evening everyone

oh sorry so good evening everyone everything good time so far good so

everything good time so far good so

everything good time so far good so today I would like to you know do a

today I would like to you know do a

today I would like to you know do a casual talk you know prosthesis mainly

casual talk you know prosthesis mainly

casual talk you know prosthesis mainly on my story on how I survived because I

on my story on how I survived because I

on my story on how I survived because I survived from the digital digital

survived from the digital digital

survived from the digital digital indication sorry okay so I’m Stephen

indication sorry okay so I’m Stephen

indication sorry okay so I’m Stephen some I’m from Samara is a small severely

some I’m from Samara is a small severely

some I’m from Samara is a small severely he said in Indonesia and back in the day

he said in Indonesia and back in the day

he said in Indonesia and back in the day in 2003 we do not have any internets

in 2003 we do not have any internets

in 2003 we do not have any internets there I mean we do have dial-up but that

there I mean we do have dial-up but that

there I mean we do have dial-up but that it’s barely an Internet at all because

it’s barely an Internet at all because

it’s barely an Internet at all because it’s only in like 1 or 2 KB per seconds

it’s only in like 1 or 2 KB per seconds

it’s only in like 1 or 2 KB per seconds and that is almost you know nothing but

and that is almost you know nothing but

and that is almost you know nothing but during the era of that time I was I was

during the era of that time I was I was

during the era of that time I was I was keep before bedtime you know I read a

keep before bedtime you know I read a

keep before bedtime you know I read a lot of books mostly comics and then I

lot of books mostly comics and then I

lot of books mostly comics and then I play a lot of fun sauce you know pretend

play a lot of fun sauce you know pretend

play a lot of fun sauce you know pretend oh I play it fortunately then during

oh I play it fortunately then during

oh I play it fortunately then during during that times there is a rising of

during that times there is a rising of

during that times there is a rising of the cable aligned cables you know we

the cable aligned cables you know we

the cable aligned cables you know we call it Mexia and this time of day or

call it Mexia and this time of day or

call it Mexia and this time of day or Nexus in the back in the interstates you

Nexus in the back in the interstates you

Nexus in the back in the interstates you know it give me hook so quickly and I

know it give me hook so quickly and I

know it give me hook so quickly and I you know I almost spend most of my time

you know I almost spend most of my time

you know I almost spend most of my time on my real time in what we call warmoth

on my real time in what we call warmoth

on my real time in what we call warmoth in Indonesia so I guess so but even

in Indonesia so I guess so but even

in Indonesia so I guess so but even though the time at the time in the cost

though the time at the time in the cost

though the time at the time in the cost is so much higher than

is so much higher than

is so much higher than now in Indonesia I still you know

now in Indonesia I still you know

now in Indonesia I still you know willing to pay and willing to play the

willing to pay and willing to play the

willing to pay and willing to play the games so in 2004 I’m fortunate enough to

games so in 2004 I’m fortunate enough to

games so in 2004 I’m fortunate enough to travel to States and boy those internet

travel to States and boy those internet

travel to States and boy those internet stairs is very very fast and then the

stairs is very very fast and then the

stairs is very very fast and then the game online online game very is very

game online online game very is very

game online online game very is very updated you know like you know you say

updated you know like you know you say

updated you know like you know you say well Warcraft you say F requires you say

well Warcraft you say F requires you say

well Warcraft you say F requires you say feels worse everything is there

feels worse everything is there

feels worse everything is there available and darn cheap for the student

available and darn cheap for the student

available and darn cheap for the student and you know because we have a computer

and you know because we have a computer

and you know because we have a computer labs and those interns at very quick

labs and those interns at very quick

labs and those interns at very quick cheap accessible 24 hours so yeah that’s

cheap accessible 24 hours so yeah that’s

cheap accessible 24 hours so yeah that’s good but I think that’s the beginning of

good but I think that’s the beginning of

good but I think that’s the beginning of the demise of my time there you know I

the demise of my time there you know I

the demise of my time there you know I pretty much grew up my my first freshman

pretty much grew up my my first freshman

pretty much grew up my my first freshman year my GPA is 2.2 which is you know in

year my GPA is 2.2 which is you know in

year my GPA is 2.2 which is you know in calculation a lot of my friends have

calculation a lot of my friends have

calculation a lot of my friends have like three point one three point five

like three point one three point five

like three point one three point five two point seven because in states

two point seven because in states

two point seven because in states apparently education is much easier in

apparently education is much easier in

apparently education is much easier in the freshman year during platter than in

the freshman year during platter than in

the freshman year during platter than in Indonesia so I pretty much disappoint my

Indonesia so I pretty much disappoint my

Indonesia so I pretty much disappoint my dad and my mom and I am doing the risk

dad and my mom and I am doing the risk

dad and my mom and I am doing the risk of being deported by there so yeah sorry

of being deported by there so yeah sorry

of being deported by there so yeah sorry so but the thing you just cannot get up

so but the thing you just cannot get up

so but the thing you just cannot get up you know okay I stopped playing him so

you know okay I stopped playing him so

you know okay I stopped playing him so you cannot just do that you just can’t

you cannot just do that you just can’t

you cannot just do that you just can’t you know because there’s so much thing

you know because there’s so much thing

you know because there’s so much thing that you have to do you have to level up

that you have to do you have to level up

that you have to do you have to level up you have to gain experience you have to

you have to gain experience you have to

you have to gain experience you have to you know Manning up and you know be

you know Manning up and you know be

you know Manning up and you know be someone in the future overall that’s the

someone in the future overall that’s the

someone in the future overall that’s the pressure that I have every day at the

pressure that I have every day at the

pressure that I have every day at the time and then it’s ruined my life pretty

time and then it’s ruined my life pretty

time and then it’s ruined my life pretty much died out that the way that you know

much died out that the way that you know

much died out that the way that you know I turned I gave a talk and if you see my

I turned I gave a talk and if you see my

I turned I gave a talk and if you see my face here is still flickering

face here is still flickering

face here is still flickering you know it’s mainly because I stare too

you know it’s mainly because I stare too

you know it’s mainly because I stare too much at the light on our monitor at that

much at the light on our monitor at that

much at the light on our monitor at that time so something that I cannot fix up

time so something that I cannot fix up

time so something that I cannot fix up until these days but then during 2004 I

until these days but then during 2004 I

until these days but then during 2004 I am fortunate enough to met a friends of

am fortunate enough to met a friends of

am fortunate enough to met a friends of mine who also you know study in the

mine who also you know study in the

mine who also you know study in the States

States

States they brought me to church praise God for

they brought me to church praise God for

they brought me to church praise God for that and then I get you know more active

that and then I get you know more active

that and then I get you know more active they call it actively which mean that we

they call it actively which mean that we

they call it actively which mean that we going out to the real world and then so

going out to the real world and then so

going out to the real world and then so it keeps me a little bit of you know a

it keeps me a little bit of you know a

it keeps me a little bit of you know a good time you know about a month or two

good time you know about a month or two

good time you know about a month or two months you know you see you know the

months you know you see you know the

months you know you see you know the newborn Christians Bruce Lee is on fire

newborn Christians Bruce Lee is on fire

newborn Christians Bruce Lee is on fire everyone you know what this this this

everyone you know what this this this

everyone you know what this this this this I want no Peter Peter but again the

this I want no Peter Peter but again the

this I want no Peter Peter but again the the time when everything is all about

the time when everything is all about

the time when everything is all about games at that time you know Internet’s

games at that time you know Internet’s

games at that time you know Internet’s the TVs well that’s why you see the news

the TVs well that’s why you see the news

the TVs well that’s why you see the news it’s always about gaming you know and

it’s always about gaming you know and

it’s always about gaming you know and then the community around you the

then the community around you the

then the community around you the student they talk about games in a class

student they talk about games in a class

student they talk about games in a class they play games nothing okay I believe

they play games nothing okay I believe

they play games nothing okay I believe so and then it kept me hooked up again

so and then it kept me hooked up again

so and then it kept me hooked up again so I just kind of like you know they

so I just kind of like you know they

so I just kind of like you know they asked me to do mr. Frese in the church

asked me to do mr. Frese in the church

asked me to do mr. Frese in the church and I said well because I’m stealing the

and I said well because I’m stealing the

and I said well because I’m stealing the duty in my experience overall so I

duty in my experience overall so I

duty in my experience overall so I cannot do that

cannot do that

cannot do that and then there’s one guy it’s called

and then there’s one guy it’s called

and then there’s one guy it’s called Jason he’s a good friend of mine and I

Jason he’s a good friend of mine and I

Jason he’s a good friend of mine and I said I can contact as the contact him

said I can contact as the contact him

said I can contact as the contact him you know in some periods hear you say

you know in some periods hear you say

you know in some periods hear you say that you know do that’s enough I mean

that you know do that’s enough I mean

that you know do that’s enough I mean you know it’s just cannot do it this way

you know it’s just cannot do it this way

you know it’s just cannot do it this way I mean your life is will be ruined

I mean your life is will be ruined

I mean your life is will be ruined your life will be miserable you know I

your life will be miserable you know I

your life will be miserable you know I think you can after his father’s

think you can after his father’s

think you can after his father’s finished then he called me a little game

finished then he called me a little game

finished then he called me a little game called Catan

called Catan

called Catan I think most of you are getting of the

I think most of you are getting of the

I think most of you are getting of the games and then I say this is interesting

games and then I say this is interesting

games and then I say this is interesting all I know but forgive is you say but

all I know but forgive is you say but

all I know but forgive is you say but you do one of only have those things

you do one of only have those things

you do one of only have those things only that I know from Indonesia

only that I know from Indonesia

only that I know from Indonesia seriously

seriously

seriously so why I play so so big Singapore games

so why I play so so big Singapore games

so why I play so so big Singapore games it gives me like you know and it’s

it gives me like you know and it’s

it gives me like you know and it’s something like I thought it was only can

something like I thought it was only can

something like I thought it was only can be achieving their fish or both you know

be achieving their fish or both you know

be achieving their fish or both you know the sense of competitiveness the sense

the sense of competitiveness the sense

the sense of competitiveness the sense of adventure is the sense of fun it can

of adventure is the sense of fun it can

of adventure is the sense of fun it can be done in four games I say this is

be done in four games I say this is

be done in four games I say this is amazing and then I just say my school

amazing and then I just say my school

amazing and then I just say my school buy some more obviously and then

buy some more obviously and then

buy some more obviously and then this and then they say let’s go to the

this and then they say let’s go to the

this and then they say let’s go to the hobby store and I say there’s a puppy

hobby store and I say there’s a puppy

hobby store and I say there’s a puppy story it was a very primitive yes

story it was a very primitive yes

story it was a very primitive yes there’s a Hopi story and even I came

there’s a Hopi story and even I came

there’s a Hopi story and even I came there I see thousands of games displayed

there I see thousands of games displayed

there I see thousands of games displayed so I say I see one by one and I say wow

so I say I see one by one and I say wow

so I say I see one by one and I say wow there’s a Star Wars pork in there is

there’s a Star Wars pork in there is

there’s a Star Wars pork in there is some work for games and then you can

some work for games and then you can

some work for games and then you can easily meet transition from the future

easily meet transition from the future

easily meet transition from the future world to the real world so that’s pretty

world to the real world so that’s pretty

world to the real world so that’s pretty much how I be you know how I can even in

much how I be you know how I can even in

much how I be you know how I can even in a detox process I start losing my friend

a detox process I start losing my friend

a detox process I start losing my friend from Fisher world but gaining more

from Fisher world but gaining more

from Fisher world but gaining more friends in the real world I give me more

friends in the real world I give me more

friends in the real world I give me more activity in the church my GPA is you

activity in the church my GPA is you

activity in the church my GPA is you know increasing and increasing as you

know increasing and increasing as you

know increasing and increasing as you progress because I’m getting more

progress because I’m getting more

progress because I’m getting more attention to the school my eyes is not

attention to the school my eyes is not

attention to the school my eyes is not tired when I go to the school because

tired when I go to the school because

tired when I go to the school because you know I play board games and then I

you know I play board games and then I

you know I play board games and then I sleep enough you know when you when you

sleep enough you know when you when you

sleep enough you know when you when you play online games you cannot sleep well

play online games you cannot sleep well

play online games you cannot sleep well because your eyes is been you know

because your eyes is been you know

because your eyes is been you know strain to the level that you just always

strain to the level that you just always

strain to the level that you just always completely so yeah so it happens so it’s

completely so yeah so it happens so it’s

completely so yeah so it happens so it’s giving better for me then I finished

giving better for me then I finished

giving better for me then I finished graduate school it doesn’t say back home

graduate school it doesn’t say back home

graduate school it doesn’t say back home in the nation and then I say let’s go to

in the nation and then I say let’s go to

in the nation and then I say let’s go to hangout places what is happening in

hangout places what is happening in

hangout places what is happening in addition I’ve spins away for seven years

addition I’ve spins away for seven years

addition I’ve spins away for seven years I do not know what happening in the

I do not know what happening in the

I do not know what happening in the business or now it’s I mean I go to

business or now it’s I mean I go to

business or now it’s I mean I go to Starbucks you know coffee beans

sorry shoot and then I was there and

sorry shoot and then I was there and then I see a lot of you know I don’t

then I see a lot of you know I don’t

then I see a lot of you know I don’t think they call it family time they call

think they call it family time they call

think they call it family time they call it hangout they call it a star like Chad

it hangout they call it a star like Chad

it hangout they call it a star like Chad and then when you sit there you end up

and then when you sit there you end up

and then when you sit there you end up having a top and a chat with your own

having a top and a chat with your own

having a top and a chat with your own ketchup at the time is a smartphone

ketchup at the time is a smartphone

ketchup at the time is a smartphone blackberry or next time so I’m really

blackberry or next time so I’m really

blackberry or next time so I’m really happy to see that fancy technology in

happy to see that fancy technology in

happy to see that fancy technology in Indonesia finally but on the other hand

Indonesia finally but on the other hand

Indonesia finally but on the other hand I saw and I only happen in you know it’s

I saw and I only happen in you know it’s

I saw and I only happen in you know it’s a family there’s a death you know

a family there’s a death you know

a family there’s a death you know playing against maybe some works maybe

playing against maybe some works maybe

playing against maybe some works maybe some news that they read the moms

some news that they read the moms

some news that they read the moms playing you know my son or you know just

playing you know my son or you know just

playing you know my son or you know just say cha-cha and I mean laughing for

say cha-cha and I mean laughing for

say cha-cha and I mean laughing for whatever reason they just stop there and

whatever reason they just stop there and

whatever reason they just stop there and then the kids at the today’s an iPad the

then the kids at the today’s an iPad the

then the kids at the today’s an iPad the kids play what you know temple Russ

kids play what you know temple Russ

kids play what you know temple Russ temple run candy crush whatever they

temple run candy crush whatever they

temple run candy crush whatever they played out there just to keep the kids

played out there just to keep the kids

played out there just to keep the kids silent so that’s not reality that I

silent so that’s not reality that I

silent so that’s not reality that I imagined I will live one especially that

imagined I will live one especially that

imagined I will live one especially that by building my family now in Indonesia

by building my family now in Indonesia

by building my family now in Indonesia under something that I don’t think it’s

under something that I don’t think it’s

under something that I don’t think it’s good for my kids whose for my friends

good for my kids whose for my friends

good for my kids whose for my friends and specific good for other people that

and specific good for other people that

and specific good for other people that I care about so then I it reflects me

I care about so then I it reflects me

I care about so then I it reflects me that the experience that I have in the

that the experience that I have in the

that the experience that I have in the States

States

States the way I get hooked up online is

the way I get hooked up online is

the way I get hooked up online is because the shop that I have from no

because the shop that I have from no

because the shop that I have from no internet Stu

internet Stu

internet Stu god speed internet and like two hours of

god speed internet and like two hours of

god speed internet and like two hours of two days of flight so the same thing

two days of flight so the same thing

two days of flight so the same thing happened in Indonesia because back there

happened in Indonesia because back there

happened in Indonesia because back there we don’t have anything suddenly boom 3G

we don’t have anything suddenly boom 3G

we don’t have anything suddenly boom 3G 4G now is occurring in five years so

4G now is occurring in five years so

4G now is occurring in five years so everyone becomes so like now everyone is

everyone becomes so like now everyone is

everyone becomes so like now everyone is so accessible to Internet’s so

so accessible to Internet’s so

so accessible to Internet’s so applications now getting cheaper and

applications now getting cheaper and

applications now getting cheaper and cheaper people are getting apps people

cheaper people are getting apps people

cheaper people are getting apps people are giving you know hook up to the

are giving you know hook up to the

are giving you know hook up to the online world and easier

online world and easier

online world and easier like in every part of the Indonesian

like in every part of the Indonesian

like in every part of the Indonesian right now so I’m saying that I think

right now so I’m saying that I think

right now so I’m saying that I think that should be way to stop it I mean you

that should be way to stop it I mean you

that should be way to stop it I mean you know a way to alleviate the problem and

know a way to alleviate the problem and

know a way to alleviate the problem and then he says why don’t we just for kids

then he says why don’t we just for kids

then he says why don’t we just for kids you know I’ve been cured by four tips

you know I’ve been cured by four tips

you know I’ve been cured by four tips I’ve been safe technically by poor

I’ve been safe technically by poor

I’ve been safe technically by poor claims my time in my school at least and

claims my time in my school at least and

claims my time in my school at least and then I said plus two four games so at

then I said plus two four games so at

then I said plus two four games so at the times I was in I was working in into

the times I was in I was working in into

the times I was in I was working in into five job official and then I said I

five job official and then I said I

five job official and then I said I talked to my parents I am I saying I

talked to my parents I am I saying I

talked to my parents I am I saying I think I want to do business because you

think I want to do business because you

think I want to do business because you know trained from the kids that I have

know trained from the kids that I have

know trained from the kids that I have to be successful in business rather than

to be successful in business rather than

to be successful in business rather than being professional where are all the

being professional where are all the

being professional where are all the pets it pushed me to do business I do

pets it pushed me to do business I do

pets it pushed me to do business I do construction mining there you know I

construction mining there you know I

construction mining there you know I don’t think I can do that because I

don’t think I can do that because I

don’t think I can do that because I would never cheat I like to read of

would never cheat I like to read of

would never cheat I like to read of course selling book is not an option

course selling book is not an option

course selling book is not an option here

here

here so so yes I then I said let’s make a

so so yes I then I said let’s make a

so so yes I then I said let’s make a profit let’s make perfect let’s make a

profit let’s make perfect let’s make a

profit let’s make perfect let’s make a feat nice nice easy you know everyone

feat nice nice easy you know everyone

feat nice nice easy you know everyone makes cafe these days but makes it

makes cafe these days but makes it

makes cafe these days but makes it different let’s make a protein cafe and

different let’s make a protein cafe and

different let’s make a protein cafe and we discuss it and then I say my

we discuss it and then I say my

we discuss it and then I say my experience to him and there is a mess –

experience to him and there is a mess –

experience to him and there is a mess – it has to be I think one does have to be

it has to be I think one does have to be

it has to be I think one does have to be done before and in – it’s very sweet

done before and in – it’s very sweet

done before and in – it’s very sweet we did

what can prevail in that example and it

what can prevail in that example and it surprises me that the reception is well

surprises me that the reception is well

surprises me that the reception is well you know that I was I was because you

you know that I was I was because you

you know that I was I was because you know being a poor game they saw him

know being a poor game they saw him

know being a poor game they saw him gentle or very old school rather than to

gentle or very old school rather than to

gentle or very old school rather than to digital and then when I open that anyone

digital and then when I open that anyone

digital and then when I open that anyone says that wow this is this is something

says that wow this is this is something

says that wow this is this is something I have typed in my family in mouth and I

I have typed in my family in mouth and I

I have typed in my family in mouth and I can drop my kids here has to go to the

can drop my kids here has to go to the

can drop my kids here has to go to the ball that happens here so so that’s

ball that happens here so so that’s

ball that happens here so so that’s that’s impressed me you know like what I

that’s impressed me you know like what I

that’s impressed me you know like what I can do what my experience in my life how

can do what my experience in my life how

can do what my experience in my life how can i my digital publications

can i my digital publications

can i my digital publications I’m really really ruining it you know

I’m really really ruining it you know

I’m really really ruining it you know I’m at the level until I get paid to

I’m at the level until I get paid to

I’m at the level until I get paid to play and attempt series night I’m

play and attempt series night I’m

play and attempt series night I’m grading reasons in a razor shirt my

grading reasons in a razor shirt my

grading reasons in a razor shirt my shirts

shirts

shirts but I lost my life at the time I lost my

but I lost my life at the time I lost my

but I lost my life at the time I lost my reality at the time and then I play

reality at the time and then I play

reality at the time and then I play board games I catch spec mirela P now

board games I catch spec mirela P now

board games I catch spec mirela P now that I’ve been Indonesia really really

that I’ve been Indonesia really really

that I’ve been Indonesia really really dreaming that sometime in the future

dreaming that sometime in the future

dreaming that sometime in the future that we should be able to decide what

that we should be able to decide what

that we should be able to decide what kind of life that we would go for what

kind of life that we would go for what

kind of life that we would go for what kind of family happy for you so digital

kind of family happy for you so digital

kind of family happy for you so digital is something that you cannot avoid and

is something that you cannot avoid and

is something that you cannot avoid and when you know now people cannot live

when you know now people cannot live

when you know now people cannot live without their iPhones or anyways for

without their iPhones or anyways for

without their iPhones or anyways for sure that’s for sure but that’s not

sure that’s for sure but that’s not

sure that’s for sure but that’s not something that you can dip you can

something that you can dip you can

something that you can dip you can choose not to addicted to because up

choose not to addicted to because up

choose not to addicted to because up talking people in Instagram you can stop

talking people in Instagram you can stop

talking people in Instagram you can stop chanting people for no reason so just do

chanting people for no reason so just do

chanting people for no reason so just do something that is necessary in your

something that is necessary in your

something that is necessary in your kitchen and be real with what I thought

kitchen and be real with what I thought

kitchen and be real with what I thought you have if we all right your real

you have if we all right your real

you have if we all right your real friend your real family

friend your real family

friend your real family and then your real community so by doing

and then your real community so by doing

and then your real community so by doing that of course you can expect people

that of course you can expect people

that of course you can expect people from a nerd background suddenly become

from a nerd background suddenly become

from a nerd background suddenly become an athlete do sports so but board games

an athlete do sports so but board games

an athlete do sports so but board games like I said it’s something that you can

like I said it’s something that you can

like I said it’s something that you can an option to and then you can look

an option to and then you can look

an option to and then you can look because if I can find a solution for me

because if I can find a solution for me

because if I can find a solution for me support you maybe you guys have also

support you maybe you guys have also

support you maybe you guys have also have something else in order to cure

have something else in order to cure

have something else in order to cure your digital toxication

your digital toxication

your digital toxication yeah thank you for listening

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