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Difference at the table | Sharmaine Lovegrove | TEDxShoreditch


when I ask white middle-class people

when I ask white middle-class people what they love about living in London

what they love about living in London

what they love about living in London then they always tell me it’s because of

then they always tell me it’s because of

then they always tell me it’s because of the cultural diversity as a black woman

the cultural diversity as a black woman

the cultural diversity as a black woman with a hundred and twenty cousins and

with a hundred and twenty cousins and

with a hundred and twenty cousins and four generations in the city

four generations in the city

four generations in the city it always perplexes me to what this

it always perplexes me to what this

it always perplexes me to what this actually means it would seem to mean

actually means it would seem to mean

actually means it would seem to mean being near us on the bus or in the shop

being near us on the bus or in the shop

being near us on the bus or in the shop but not actually engaging of us in a

but not actually engaging of us in a

but not actually engaging of us in a meaningful way this is an issue because

meaningful way this is an issue because

meaningful way this is an issue because it means that the idealism of London

it means that the idealism of London

it means that the idealism of London life is a lie we are not a multicultural

life is a lie we are not a multicultural

life is a lie we are not a multicultural melting pot we in fact a city that is

melting pot we in fact a city that is

melting pot we in fact a city that is segregated by class race and economics I

and what Brick City is called the

and what Brick City is called the Metropolitan liberal elite I’m a

Metropolitan liberal elite I’m a

Metropolitan liberal elite I’m a publisher with an imprint I’m married

publisher with an imprint I’m married

publisher with an imprint I’m married I own a zone to property I have a son

I own a zone to property I have a son

I own a zone to property I have a son Ennis in a prep school

Ennis in a prep school

Ennis in a prep school I love European city breaks and eating

I love European city breaks and eating

I love European city breaks and eating in fabulous London restaurants the

in fabulous London restaurants the

in fabulous London restaurants the contradiction as it stands is that I’m a

contradiction as it stands is that I’m a

contradiction as it stands is that I’m a black woman and when I was 16 I left

black woman and when I was 16 I left

black woman and when I was 16 I left home and have never had any financial

home and have never had any financial

home and have never had any financial support from my family

support from my family

support from my family I have had to fight to fry in a country

I have had to fight to fry in a country

I have had to fight to fry in a country and an industry that is hostile to the

and an industry that is hostile to the

and an industry that is hostile to the very essence of my existence there are

very essence of my existence there are

very essence of my existence there are not many black people in my position so

not many black people in my position so

not many black people in my position so I’m here to tell you that we are being

I’m here to tell you that we are being

I’m here to tell you that we are being penalized for being born in the country

penalized for being born in the country

penalized for being born in the country that has been swallowed by CASL ism

that has been swallowed by CASL ism

that has been swallowed by CASL ism we’re being left behind despite our

we’re being left behind despite our

we’re being left behind despite our amazing talent pool I want you to stop

amazing talent pool I want you to stop

amazing talent pool I want you to stop saying that you don’t see color I want

saying that you don’t see color I want

saying that you don’t see color I want you to see our colour I want you to

you to see our colour I want you to

you to see our colour I want you to understand our journey and I want you to

understand our journey and I want you to

understand our journey and I want you to treat us as equal I am urging you to

treat us as equal I am urging you to

treat us as equal I am urging you to think about that active role in which

think about that active role in which

think about that active role in which you play inequality in our society it’s

you play inequality in our society it’s

you play inequality in our society it’s a fact that immigrants worked really

a fact that immigrants worked really

a fact that immigrants worked really hard

hard

hard when my grandparents came from Jamaica

when my grandparents came from Jamaica

when my grandparents came from Jamaica to England it was never their intention

to England it was never their intention

to England it was never their intention to get a council house in the 1960s

to get a council house in the 1960s

to get a council house in the 1960s before most black areas like Camden

before most black areas like Camden

before most black areas like Camden Notting Hill Hackney Peckham Brixton

Notting Hill Hackney Peckham Brixton

Notting Hill Hackney Peckham Brixton became ripe for gentrification and our

became ripe for gentrification and our

became ripe for gentrification and our lifestyles deemed authentic or real or

lifestyles deemed authentic or real or

lifestyles deemed authentic or real or even edgy black people like my

even edgy black people like my

even edgy black people like my grandparents worked hard they had to

grandparents worked hard they had to

grandparents worked hard they had to endure racism and they overcame the odds

endure racism and they overcame the odds

endure racism and they overcame the odds saved for a deposit and bought houses

saved for a deposit and bought houses

saved for a deposit and bought houses all over London with a concentration in

all over London with a concentration in

all over London with a concentration in new hospitals in the South Brixton has

new hospitals in the South Brixton has

new hospitals in the South Brixton has overcome riots and racial tensions and

overcome riots and racial tensions and

overcome riots and racial tensions and is now the best place to get church

is now the best place to get church

is now the best place to get church again the shift from bought houses to

again the shift from bought houses to

again the shift from bought houses to social housing happened under Margaret

social housing happened under Margaret

social housing happened under Margaret Thatcher whose policies deterred young

Thatcher whose policies deterred young

Thatcher whose policies deterred young couples from living together for fear

couples from living together for fear

couples from living together for fear that they would lose their benefits

that they would lose their benefits

that they would lose their benefits this created single motherhood and a

this created single motherhood and a

this created single motherhood and a dependency on the state for decades

dependency on the state for decades

dependency on the state for decades councils of mood people of color and

councils of mood people of color and

councils of mood people of color and working classes out of London recently

working classes out of London recently

working classes out of London recently there was a shocking report that in the

there was a shocking report that in the

there was a shocking report that in the hey Gator state 3000 flats were

hey Gator state 3000 flats were

hey Gator state 3000 flats were demolished and none of them went to the

demolished and none of them went to the

demolished and none of them went to the people that had lived there after they’d

people that had lived there after they’d

people that had lived there after they’d been turned into luxury apartments the

been turned into luxury apartments the

been turned into luxury apartments the property developers made 200 million

property developers made 200 million

property developers made 200 million pounds for us it feels as though there’s

pounds for us it feels as though there’s

pounds for us it feels as though there’s active ethnic and class cleansing

active ethnic and class cleansing

active ethnic and class cleansing allowed by our government we have few

allowed by our government we have few

allowed by our government we have few civilian allies no one shouting on our

civilian allies no one shouting on our

civilian allies no one shouting on our behalf and so the developers get away

behalf and so the developers get away

behalf and so the developers get away with their again and again the white

with their again and again the white

with their again and again the white working classes believe that people of

working classes believe that people of

working classes believe that people of color and immigrants of taking what’s

color and immigrants of taking what’s

color and immigrants of taking what’s rightfully theirs and the core issues

rightfully theirs and the core issues

rightfully theirs and the core issues just don’t affect the Liberals to me it

just don’t affect the Liberals to me it

just don’t affect the Liberals to me it feels as though the revolution will be

feels as though the revolution will be

feels as though the revolution will be televised when the people that we need

televised when the people that we need

televised when the people that we need to stand alongside us educated liberal

to stand alongside us educated liberal

to stand alongside us educated liberal so-called Londoners can no longer afford

so-called Londoners can no longer afford

so-called Londoners can no longer afford flat whites and extensions with bi-fold

flat whites and extensions with bi-fold

flat whites and extensions with bi-fold doors join me at the school gates where

doors join me at the school gates where

doors join me at the school gates where I’m often told by parents who have

I’m often told by parents who have

I’m often told by parents who have bought properties in close proximity to

bought properties in close proximity to

bought properties in close proximity to outstanding state schools

outstanding state schools

outstanding state schools they are thrilled that their children

they are thrilled that their children

they are thrilled that their children are going to school with diverse

are going to school with diverse

are going to school with diverse families having been educated in

families having been educated in

families having been educated in outstanding state schools I know that

outstanding state schools I know that

outstanding state schools I know that this cultural diversity at best extends

this cultural diversity at best extends

this cultural diversity at best extends your child not being racist as I rejoice

your child not being racist as I rejoice

your child not being racist as I rejoice at the chapter weddings of my childhood

at the chapter weddings of my childhood

at the chapter weddings of my childhood friends and I’m often the only person of

friends and I’m often the only person of

friends and I’m often the only person of color I find myself thinking how did

color I find myself thinking how did

color I find myself thinking how did this happen

this happen

this happen it’s the same at my son’s first school a

it’s the same at my son’s first school a

it’s the same at my son’s first school a state school very few children of color

state school very few children of color

state school very few children of color and very few from different economic

and very few from different economic

and very few from different economic backgrounds in my experience the parents

backgrounds in my experience the parents

backgrounds in my experience the parents who openly celebrate the idea of

who openly celebrate the idea of

who openly celebrate the idea of diversity are taking a moral high ground

diversity are taking a moral high ground

diversity are taking a moral high ground yet secretly pleased to have saved on

yet secretly pleased to have saved on

yet secretly pleased to have saved on school fees this is transparent and

school fees this is transparent and

school fees this is transparent and insulting the irony is that the prep

insulting the irony is that the prep

insulting the irony is that the prep school is bursting with diversity as

school is bursting with diversity as

school is bursting with diversity as middle-class parents of color we know we

middle-class parents of color we know we

middle-class parents of color we know we have to ensure our children’s future

have to ensure our children’s future

have to ensure our children’s future with better education otherwise they

with better education otherwise they

with better education otherwise they will continue to be left out of the

will continue to be left out of the

will continue to be left out of the workplace at my work there are 150

workplace at my work there are 150

workplace at my work there are 150 people in my division I am the only

people in my division I am the only

people in my division I am the only black person in fact I’m the only black

black person in fact I’m the only black

black person in fact I’m the only black fiction publisher in corporate

fiction publisher in corporate

fiction publisher in corporate publishing how did this happen in an

publishing how did this happen in an

publishing how did this happen in an industry that prides itself on

industry that prides itself on

industry that prides itself on storytelling across cultures the

storytelling across cultures the

storytelling across cultures the industry change from being smaller

industry change from being smaller

industry change from being smaller publishing houses to large corporate

publishing houses to large corporate

publishing houses to large corporate structures with quick growth requiring

structures with quick growth requiring

structures with quick growth requiring quick solutions resulting in nepotism

quick solutions resulting in nepotism

quick solutions resulting in nepotism then it became a case of lazy recruiting

then it became a case of lazy recruiting

then it became a case of lazy recruiting at best unconscious biased and at worst

at best unconscious biased and at worst

at best unconscious biased and at worst structural racism think about it there’s

structural racism think about it there’s

structural racism think about it there’s no way that an educated British person

no way that an educated British person

no way that an educated British person of color is unqualified to do a job that

of color is unqualified to do a job that

of color is unqualified to do a job that a white person can do have you noticed

a white person can do have you noticed

a white person can do have you noticed that people of color are culturally

that people of color are culturally

that people of color are culturally excluded from many social activities in

excluded from many social activities in

excluded from many social activities in London from pubs in Hackney or Peckham

London from pubs in Hackney or Peckham

London from pubs in Hackney or Peckham to restaurants in Soho and even clubs

to restaurants in Soho and even clubs

to restaurants in Soho and even clubs playing urban music a token one or two

playing urban music a token one or two

playing urban music a token one or two of us make liberals feel better

of us make liberals feel better

of us make liberals feel better and more inclusive we are not a trend we

and more inclusive we are not a trend we

and more inclusive we are not a trend we are a crucial part of the fabric of this

are a crucial part of the fabric of this

are a crucial part of the fabric of this society even the women’s March in London

society even the women’s March in London

society even the women’s March in London Ellen

Ellen

Ellen earlier in the year was missing women of

earlier in the year was missing women of

earlier in the year was missing women of color and LGBTQI plus groups whose

color and LGBTQI plus groups whose

color and LGBTQI plus groups whose intersectional arguments were considered

intersectional arguments were considered

intersectional arguments were considered too radical because liberals were more

too radical because liberals were more

too radical because liberals were more miffed than angry the protest ended up

miffed than angry the protest ended up

miffed than angry the protest ended up being a lovely ramble through the

being a lovely ramble through the

being a lovely ramble through the capital this isn’t good enough I want to

capital this isn’t good enough I want to

capital this isn’t good enough I want to live in a society that fries with

live in a society that fries with

live in a society that fries with equality

equality

equality I want the debate of diversity to move

I want the debate of diversity to move

I want the debate of diversity to move away from the boardroom and the pub and

away from the boardroom and the pub and

away from the boardroom and the pub and towards positive action I would like you

towards positive action I would like you

towards positive action I would like you to think about where difference is

to think about where difference is

to think about where difference is missing from your table and your

missing from your table and your

missing from your table and your Facebook and what you can do about it I

Facebook and what you can do about it I

Facebook and what you can do about it I want you to take to the streets I want

want you to take to the streets I want

want you to take to the streets I want you to stand in solidarity and raise

you to stand in solidarity and raise

you to stand in solidarity and raise your voices at the injustice of

your voices at the injustice of

your voices at the injustice of inequality and racism I want you to own

inequality and racism I want you to own

inequality and racism I want you to own your privilege and use it for the force

your privilege and use it for the force

your privilege and use it for the force of good and I want you to remember that

of good and I want you to remember that

of good and I want you to remember that not being racist is not good enough

not being racist is not good enough

not being racist is not good enough thank you

thank you

thank you [Applause]

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