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Dependency comes into the game | Servane Barrault | TEDxISTEC


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hello then I will answer to

some questions about addiction to

game but I will start with you

ask a question that among you is

consider to be someone from

rational to raise the hand very

good thanks

so I’m sorry I’m going to have to

to announce that in fact we are all

irrational we are all and

rational already we are humans on

is not computers and so we

are all and relational in

certain situations and in particular

the situations on which we

have no control therefore in

situations do not have control on

will wait so to think so

irrational that is to say to establish

links where there is none

projected a control where we have

not

who among you never said when

he saw the fire turn green on his

move to super game pass a good

day

who among you did not pay attention to

walk down the street on some type

cobblestones for a reason that you

escapes

but you still do it anyway so as

I said it in any situation where we

does not have control we’re going to have

tendency to try to project the

control that we usually have

where there is none you can imagine

gambling and money is

an ideal setting for that so in these

situations by nature we only have one

partial control or even a

total absence of control over

situation in which we are

engaged so the game situation and

so we are going to project the control

trying to influence the outcome of the game

even though we can not

so that’s what’s called it’s a bit

a month a little barbaric but it is this

what we call cognitive distortions

or false beliefs and so these

false beliefs they are inherent

to any chance situation so in

particular games of chance and

of money at everyone’s players

excessive like the casual player

lambda who participate in

gambling and money activities

so what differentiates a

excessive player of a casual player

in terms of false beliefs not big

thing the difference was not going

lé quantitative not qualitative forgiveness

it and quantitative what I’m trying to

tell you is that the players

excessive it stands out especially by the

having a high number of

false beliefs and we know that these

false beliefs she participates in

maintaining development and

maintaining excessive gambling practices

since I explain to you some

some it gives players the illusion

to control and maybe to be able to

subsequently won so the beliefs

the most common misconception

in players this is called

the illusion of control ie

think we have higher control

that we actually have it in a

situation without people e5 we meet

often in the players is to have

a fetish accessory a t-shirt makes

fail a grigri something we

take with care to play and which one

think he will bring us luck

and of course we will not have a chance

if we do not have it with us that we

explain why we win

why do we lose relatively

irrational so I have not yet

defined my subject I came to you

talk about addiction to games

so I know you all know what

it is that the addiction

in general we talk about addiction

rather with regard to

substances alcohol tobacco etc

so when we talk about substances the

notion of addiction it poses no

problem when we talk about behavior

it may be more complicated

intellectually to understand from

to say that the human being can be addicted

to a behavior not being able to

to pass from a behavior and yet

that’s the case and that’s what I’m

come to explain to you today that

some people will develop

difficulties with certain behaviors

and therefore no longer have big

difficulties to do without

so this is the case of the game that it is the

case also other others

behaviors so-called

behavioral addictions so in the

part of the game so the game is a real

addiction

what is this

addiction by the loss of control

it is essential that is to say that the

person who has an addiction i can

not stop playing despite his

will not play she will be

received in the incapacity of not

dictate whoever has lost the

freedom to abstain

so there is the loss of control there is

the consequences then when we talk

of play we get the first consequence

which comes to us very spontaneously

the spirit is the loss of money

the loss of money the consequences

financial debts etc

except that the game is not just the loss

money is also a whole set of

negative consequences that may

to be a family professional marital

they are very very multiple and

sometimes even the game and not at all

the money is not necessarily at the first

plan it can be something else so

first question why one becomes

Addict to the games

simply because the game makes it go

in the player perform a function

that is to say that for some it’s going

be a regulatory function of

the mood some are going to play will go

play went back to play because they

feel depressed because they are

feel anxious because their daily lives

troubles or anxieties and so the

game is a disconnect space and

Besides, it’s not necessarily a

problem in itself the game is a space of

disconnection that is necessary which

offers a fun function and sometimes

often even social so a function

which we all need then at

some it’ll take a look

excessive and so the game will become the

only way finally to regulate

the mood the problem is that the game

in turn will cause trouble

of mood since when the subject father

he will feel sad and so

potentially return play for

come close this counterbalance this

sadness so first function a

mood regulation function but

also for many and more and more

the game will help to feel

thrills what makes us

sometimes a little bit

wrong in our daily life that is

sometimes a little boring subway job

dodo and so it is sometimes for

some lacking sensations of

stimulation and so the game will allow

to feel the sensations that are

both strong news exciting

it’s the player who tells you I

a kind of big adrenaline when

I watch when I play poker and that

I’m waiting for my card or when when

I make a sports bet and that I

watch the race and let my horse

cross the finish line

so all this allows a high level

stimulation that will be sought

by the player another important question

and I know you’re asking it

how do we go from I like to play to

I have a problem with the game so for

answer this question i’ll get you

tell a little story is

the brand story I modified

the first name therefore marks at 25 years old and it

surrenders so he works he surrenders

after work with colleagues

who offers him a day to go to drink a

glass after work and so in the

bar where they go there reads to offer a

offer of games or races it can not

it is proposed to bet on the races

So tell her colleagues want and

hairdryer to see it’s fun

so actually he tries and then there

hop with his little bet so luminism

very small are therefore 2 euros and

with his little bet and wins a sum

average fifty euros he holds

it’s nice it’s kind of fun game

it’s true that not only is it

fun but in addition it brings a

little bit and so little by little will

put to go from time to time with

colleagues

after a job make a bar a little

a little coffee after work and then

and then play and then will surrender

account that Bayer wins quite often and

then some time later he will do

a fat guy he’s going to win several

thousands of euros

so there you realize of

several thousand euros in our

daily life it changes a little the

daily it opens up a lot of

possibilities it also opens full

of hope and finally that motivates to

go back play we say I won

once why I

why I will not win this but a

little bit of spice in the everyday

also beyond the financial aspect

finally so gradually mark

will start east more often

played in the hope of finding this

feeling because there is not just

the financial attraction there is also what we

feel when we win who is

relatively indescribable says he so

gradually he will go to play

more and more often so at this moment

the mark being a kind of moon of

honey with the game and this phase is

the one that kuster called the phase of

gains you can imagine

unfortunately this phase of gains does not

can not last

and she feels after that

would have called the loss phase

so for marc he’ll always have the

remember this gain is so go

replay

more and more frequently and he gets

realizes that they father and when he

wins and he had developed what

beliefs like I told you everything to

the time of irrational beliefs that

led him to think that eventually he

was good that he had a good feeling

with the horse racing that he was

able to win and and then that the

horse racing it was also a

easy and fun way to win a

little bit of money rounding up the ends

of months or even to become rich

so in a second time I tell you

said he will start to lose a

accumulated losses and to play more

by dismounting more and more important

with the idea of ​​remaking himself evasively

and yesterday I lost maybe 50 euros

lafarge bet a little bit more if I

want to get them back it’s 50 euros so

he will begin to accumulate losses

and at that moment his beliefs it’s

the idea of ​​being good the idea of ​​having a

some control over the game are going to be

a little check is replaced by

this idea that he has to redo

he has to redo himself and so he goes

continue to bet more and more and

in parallel to that the game will take

a place really more and more

important in his life

so he’ll start to get in more

later on arguing with his

companion who will eventually leave him because

that she will have enough not only 2

duty who spends all his time at games

but also that they are spending more and

more money and poking a bit into

household money

the friends he used to

see go also eventually moves away a

little bit since mark completely

obsessed with the game by more than two

races speak only of predictions

of loss-making bets

so it ends up boring a little

little and then it will go too badly

at work since he will be absent enough

regularly sound of his work

to go place bets see

races and so that’s where we go

account that the game is encroaching more and

more about his life and it takes a certain

number of years we know these steps that

I described you until you reached

roughly at the age of 34 35 where he

enters into what’s called the phase of

despair who as his name indicates

not a very funny phase and so there

losses have become very important

there are often a number of

debts that have accumulated or

even an over-indebtedness and the brand gets

found completely isolated since

his girlfriend left him if he could

really close friends since they are

are all those progressively distant

more work so more ways

to have money is yet

always this very strong desire to

play to recover money for

pay off debts at that time there

think full of issue all the issues

to the remark that is not someone

of violent who is absolutely not a

delinquent usually starts to

ask if he can not sting

money in the boss’s cash or

stole flaps from the handbags in

the street to have money to play

that’s where it happened

and at that moment so the mood is

very depressed

there are gold islands very badly he eats

very badly really his whole life

revolves around the game and around this

concern of the losses and the

possibility of finding money

to play and at that moment he can

consider that four solutions the leak

would go elsewhere elsewhere on

suicide

pushed to the end the incarceration

to crimes or the call for help

and that’s when that pushes the

door of a health center and who

request

when he is helped to get out of

this game driving is so before

to get to that point what can we

make

what do we do if we think ourselves

same or one of his relatives can

meet or is at risk of

encounter difficulties with the game

already first thing it seems

obvious do not hesitate to talk about it in

talk if it concerns you in

to talk with a loved one someone who

you trust if it concerns one

your loved ones tell him about it without taboo

without either being in judgment or

in aggression but simply

approach the subject calmly and

possibly propose to meet

a health professional to make a

point to see a little bit where one in

is here so do not forget we

is all irrational what we

separates a player’s casual players

excessive

again it’s not something

of qualitative it is something of

quantitative so we all have the same

operating bases

so we’re all a little bit potentially

vulnerable to that and that’s our role

to all to be vigilant and to do

pay attention to ourselves and to those who

surround us

Thank you for your attention

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