Dealing with a Heartbreak – From Negative to Positive | Ravinder Singh | TEDxThaparUniversity

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how many of you sitting here have ever

how many of you sitting here have ever experienced

experienced

experienced heartbreak can he do a show of hands

heartbreak can he do a show of hands

heartbreak can he do a show of hands you’re not suppose to look here and

you’re not suppose to look here and

you’re not suppose to look here and there just be honest to yourself and to

there just be honest to yourself and to

there just be honest to yourself and to me right now

me right now

me right now I’ll repeat my question how many of you

I’ll repeat my question how many of you

I’ll repeat my question how many of you sitting here in this room have

sitting here in this room have

sitting here in this room have experienced heart rate in your life I’m

experienced heart rate in your life I’m

experienced heart rate in your life I’m amazed to see the faculty is not raising

amazed to see the faculty is not raising

amazed to see the faculty is not raising their hands likeéyou thoughts

their hands likeéyou thoughts

their hands likeéyou thoughts folks my name is Robin the saying I’m an

folks my name is Robin the saying I’m an

folks my name is Robin the saying I’m an author predominantly have written a few

author predominantly have written a few

author predominantly have written a few books on the subject of love and I’m

books on the subject of love and I’m

books on the subject of love and I’m here today in between you to talk on the

here today in between you to talk on the

here today in between you to talk on the subject of heartbreak heartbreak is lot

subject of heartbreak heartbreak is lot

subject of heartbreak heartbreak is lot more rampant than heart attack and pity

more rampant than heart attack and pity

more rampant than heart attack and pity we don’t have an insurance to cover it

the bigger tragedy is that medical

the bigger tragedy is that medical science has advanced so much and has

science has advanced so much and has

science has advanced so much and has done almost nothing to deal with

done almost nothing to deal with

done almost nothing to deal with heartache there is no procedure no

heartache there is no procedure no

heartache there is no procedure no surgery there is no pillow available out

surgery there is no pillow available out

surgery there is no pillow available out there that can erase a part of memory so

there that can erase a part of memory so

there that can erase a part of memory so that you don’t have to deal with

that you don’t have to deal with

that you don’t have to deal with heartbreak what wall could have been if

heartbreak what wall could have been if

heartbreak what wall could have been if it was in our hands to get rid of party

it was in our hands to get rid of party

it was in our hands to get rid of party just masks why I chose the

just masks why I chose the

just masks why I chose the subject today for my dog is that I

strongly believe in my mind that

strongly believe in my mind that heartbreak has a lot to teach us a lot

heartbreak has a lot to teach us a lot

heartbreak has a lot to teach us a lot more than love

more than love

more than love now why a system when you are loved you

now why a system when you are loved you

now why a system when you are loved you are dependent to people and at the same

are dependent to people and at the same

are dependent to people and at the same goes a Carrera but once you are dealing

goes a Carrera but once you are dealing

goes a Carrera but once you are dealing with a heartbreak you’re all by yourself

with a heartbreak you’re all by yourself

with a heartbreak you’re all by yourself all alone and once you’re all alone

all alone and once you’re all alone

all alone and once you’re all alone everything that two of you were doing

everything that two of you were doing

everything that two of you were doing together is just one of you has to do it

together is just one of you has to do it

together is just one of you has to do it and because you are thrown in a silo

and because you are thrown in a silo

and because you are thrown in a silo over and there’s nobody else along with

over and there’s nobody else along with

over and there’s nobody else along with it that in that entire support is

it that in that entire support is

it that in that entire support is snatched away you hit the rock bottom

snatched away you hit the rock bottom

snatched away you hit the rock bottom and the only way to move from the rock

and the only way to move from the rock

and the only way to move from the rock bottom is to go up a trake as a

bottom is to go up a trake as a

bottom is to go up a trake as a propensity to make to grow to make you

propensity to make to grow to make you

propensity to make to grow to make you stronger because you are alone dealing

stronger because you are alone dealing

stronger because you are alone dealing with that situation it all depends how

with that situation it all depends how

with that situation it all depends how you deal with that moment of course it’s

you deal with that moment of course it’s

you deal with that moment of course it’s an element of pain how big is heartache

an element of pain how big is heartache

an element of pain how big is heartache is nothing but a human emotion just like

is nothing but a human emotion just like

is nothing but a human emotion just like happiness joy sorrow threat fear it is

happiness joy sorrow threat fear it is

happiness joy sorrow threat fear it is only human emotions and you that you

only human emotions and you that you

only human emotions and you that you were born and you will die one day you

were born and you will die one day you

were born and you will die one day you are supposed to go through many such

are supposed to go through many such

are supposed to go through many such human emotions out there so why fear

human emotions out there so why fear

human emotions out there so why fear something which is very natural

something which is very natural

something which is very natural why heartbreaks come into picture at the

why heartbreaks come into picture at the

why heartbreaks come into picture at the very most place three reasons rejection

very most place three reasons rejection

very most place three reasons rejection I see guys smiling rejection betrayal or

I see guys smiling rejection betrayal or

I see guys smiling rejection betrayal or an accidental loss there is no fourth

an accidental loss there is no fourth

an accidental loss there is no fourth source of a heartbreak you love the girl

source of a heartbreak you love the girl

source of a heartbreak you love the girl you love the guy and you propose and get

you love the guy and you propose and get

you love the guy and you propose and get rejected you come back this Odyssey

rejected you come back this Odyssey

rejected you come back this Odyssey sorry nothing enough it’s perfectly fine

sorry nothing enough it’s perfectly fine

sorry nothing enough it’s perfectly fine I believe not to get into a relationship

I believe not to get into a relationship

I believe not to get into a relationship of course you desire somebody but it’s

of course you desire somebody but it’s

of course you desire somebody but it’s perfectly fine to get rejected because

perfectly fine to get rejected because

perfectly fine to get rejected because they join that relationship do won’t

they join that relationship do won’t

they join that relationship do won’t find that joy in the relationship the

find that joy in the relationship the

find that joy in the relationship the other person has not approved

other person has not approved

other person has not approved you as his or her partner in that moment

you as his or her partner in that moment

you as his or her partner in that moment all we care for is he or she ting me

all we care for is he or she ting me

all we care for is he or she ting me Appaloosa loss but we need to find ways

Appaloosa loss but we need to find ways

Appaloosa loss but we need to find ways to get over it

to get over it

to get over it betrayal you were accepted but later on

betrayal you were accepted but later on

betrayal you were accepted but later on let’s say it would be one of the reason

let’s say it would be one of the reason

let’s say it would be one of the reason is that you were cheated upon but leads

is that you were cheated upon but leads

is that you were cheated upon but leads to heartbreak when a lie comes into

to heartbreak when a lie comes into

to heartbreak when a lie comes into picture it leaves your heartbreak

picture it leaves your heartbreak

picture it leaves your heartbreak accidental loss both of you accepted

accidental loss both of you accepted

accidental loss both of you accepted each other but God has a different role

each other but God has a different role

each other but God has a different role to play something happened Midway

to play something happened Midway

to play something happened Midway medical reason an accident and you are

medical reason an accident and you are

medical reason an accident and you are taken away there’s nothing you can do it

taken away there’s nothing you can do it

taken away there’s nothing you can do it all so these are three reasons that are

all so these are three reasons that are

all so these are three reasons that are the source of heartbreak but now that we

the source of heartbreak but now that we

the source of heartbreak but now that we know why heartbreaks come into play and

know why heartbreaks come into play and

know why heartbreaks come into play and existence I want to tell you for how do

existence I want to tell you for how do

existence I want to tell you for how do you look at this thing called hottie

you look at this thing called hottie

you look at this thing called hottie can there be a positive side to the

can there be a positive side to the

can there be a positive side to the heartbreak as well is my question and if

heartbreak as well is my question and if

heartbreak as well is my question and if not I challenge you why don’t we see the

not I challenge you why don’t we see the

not I challenge you why don’t we see the positive side of the heartbreak the

positive side of the heartbreak the

positive side of the heartbreak the whole idea I’m not selling the element

whole idea I’m not selling the element

whole idea I’m not selling the element of heartbreak under no circumstances I’m

of heartbreak under no circumstances I’m

of heartbreak under no circumstances I’m telling you guys heartbreak is cool go

telling you guys heartbreak is cool go

telling you guys heartbreak is cool go and have fun in case you haven’t won no

and have fun in case you haven’t won no

and have fun in case you haven’t won no all I’m saying is in case you are

all I’m saying is in case you are

all I’m saying is in case you are dealing with and akin in your heart it

dealing with and akin in your heart it

dealing with and akin in your heart it has to do with something with a romantic

has to do with something with a romantic

has to do with something with a romantic part of you is it a way to deal with it

as I said the insurance folks are not

as I said the insurance folks are not there the medical science is not there

there the medical science is not there

there the medical science is not there there is no medicine no procedure there

there is no medicine no procedure there

there is no medicine no procedure there for people lined up prescribing a drug

for people lined up prescribing a drug

for people lined up prescribing a drug called alcohol to deal with hardening

called alcohol to deal with hardening

called alcohol to deal with hardening unfortunately so when I had my first

unfortunately so when I had my first

unfortunately so when I had my first moment of heartbreak I wonder what

moment of heartbreak I wonder what

moment of heartbreak I wonder what should I do and somebody said dude you

should I do and somebody said dude you

should I do and somebody said dude you you must join us for our weekend party

you must join us for our weekend party

you must join us for our weekend party in Punjabi the same books of Sanjay

in Punjabi the same books of Sanjay

in Punjabi the same books of Sanjay Quran and I was there the toe step I’ll

Quran and I was there the toe step I’ll

Quran and I was there the toe step I’ll be Sanjay contain toxic and this they

be Sanjay contain toxic and this they

be Sanjay contain toxic and this they showed me the bottom I said I understand

showed me the bottom I said I understand

showed me the bottom I said I understand the idea but when I was done with truth

the idea but when I was done with truth

the idea but when I was done with truth pegs I was wondering this thought struck

pegs I was wondering this thought struck

pegs I was wondering this thought struck my mind and I thought to take Omaha

my mind and I thought to take Omaha

my mind and I thought to take Omaha mechanically a lever to grab bergna and

mechanically a lever to grab bergna and

mechanically a lever to grab bergna and with that part I I realized that perhaps

with that part I I realized that perhaps

with that part I I realized that perhaps alcohol is just an anesthesia for the

alcohol is just an anesthesia for the

alcohol is just an anesthesia for the heartbreak it’s just an innocent easier

heartbreak it’s just an innocent easier

heartbreak it’s just an innocent easier it’s not a cure it’s not a procedure

it’s not a cure it’s not a procedure

it’s not a cure it’s not a procedure soon the effect will fade and you will

soon the effect will fade and you will

soon the effect will fade and you will be back to the board and I want

be back to the board and I want

be back to the board and I want something that’s permanent and not

something that’s permanent and not

something that’s permanent and not temporary is it okay that I can deal

temporary is it okay that I can deal

temporary is it okay that I can deal with my heart becoming different we all

with my heart becoming different we all

with my heart becoming different we all together of course I was going through

together of course I was going through

together of course I was going through my own set of pain I had lost my

my own set of pain I had lost my

my own set of pain I had lost my girlfriend in a car accident and I knew

girlfriend in a car accident and I knew

girlfriend in a car accident and I knew that she’s not gonna come back and what

that she’s not gonna come back and what

that she’s not gonna come back and what what my heartbreak did to me is think of

what my heartbreak did to me is think of

what my heartbreak did to me is think of it that how and I transformed the most

it that how and I transformed the most

it that how and I transformed the most negative aspect of my life into the most

negative aspect of my life into the most

negative aspect of my life into the most positive one it had one impact on me

positive one it had one impact on me

positive one it had one impact on me that somebody like me who had never read

that somebody like me who had never read

that somebody like me who had never read a single book in his entire I thought to

a single book in his entire I thought to

a single book in his entire I thought to pen down one love story in the memory of

pen down one love story in the memory of

pen down one love story in the memory of the girl was no motive I had a very

the girl was no motive I had a very

the girl was no motive I had a very selfish purpose to write that book I’m

selfish purpose to write that book I’m

selfish purpose to write that book I’m talking like a love story the book the

talking like a love story the book the

talking like a love story the book the name was just Mountain pepper I’m

name was just Mountain pepper I’m

name was just Mountain pepper I’m pitching that book by very selfish

pitching that book by very selfish

pitching that book by very selfish purpose was that I felt like a pressure

purpose was that I felt like a pressure

purpose was that I felt like a pressure cooker because the steam that was coming

cooker because the steam that was coming

cooker because the steam that was coming inside me it wanted to come out I needed

inside me it wanted to come out I needed

inside me it wanted to come out I needed to provide a bit of rain and I landed up

to provide a bit of rain and I landed up

to provide a bit of rain and I landed up doing so by bringing out the entire pain

doing so by bringing out the entire pain

doing so by bringing out the entire pain on a piece of paper I kept writing I

on a piece of paper I kept writing I

on a piece of paper I kept writing I kept writing and I kept writing if I

kept writing and I kept writing if I

kept writing and I kept writing if I have a very selfish purpose you go back

have a very selfish purpose you go back

have a very selfish purpose you go back to the same theory when you share your

to the same theory when you share your

to the same theory when you share your joy you multi people you multiply when

joy you multi people you multiply when

joy you multi people you multiply when you share your three

you share your three

you share your three you divide part of Italy find an idea

you divide part of Italy find an idea

you divide part of Italy find an idea about that I will encapsulate the pain

about that I will encapsulate the pain

about that I will encapsulate the pain package it in terms of book and place it

package it in terms of book and place it

package it in terms of book and place it on the shelves of this country every

on the shelves of this country every

on the shelves of this country every time somebody would come and buy the

time somebody would come and buy the

time somebody would come and buy the novel and would read it I’ll feel that

novel and would read it I’ll feel that

novel and would read it I’ll feel that little more painting now has come out of

little more painting now has come out of

little more painting now has come out of my system level my way to deal with my

my system level my way to deal with my

my system level my way to deal with my heart way and works for me I realize

heart way and works for me I realize

heart way and works for me I realize that when you’re dealing with such human

that when you’re dealing with such human

that when you’re dealing with such human emotion the change you as a person you

emotion the change you as a person you

emotion the change you as a person you are more honest at least to yourself

are more honest at least to yourself

are more honest at least to yourself than otherwise for some reason heart

than otherwise for some reason heart

than otherwise for some reason heart rates open those humane walls of your

rates open those humane walls of your

rates open those humane walls of your mind and you’re more receptive to that

mind and you’re more receptive to that

mind and you’re more receptive to that minute ever realize people who have

minute ever realize people who have

minute ever realize people who have undergone this breakup dealing with art

undergone this breakup dealing with art

undergone this breakup dealing with art they are dealt with it

they are dealt with it

they are dealt with it all those good nice songs that you were

all those good nice songs that you were

all those good nice songs that you were listening at one point in time of course

listening at one point in time of course

listening at one point in time of course you were singing them reading them

you were singing them reading them

you were singing them reading them humming them you were tapping your feet

humming them you were tapping your feet

humming them you were tapping your feet that music but today while you are

that music but today while you are

that music but today while you are dealing with a heavy heart you tend to

dealing with a heavy heart you tend to

dealing with a heavy heart you tend to understand that lyrics of the song

understand that lyrics of the song

understand that lyrics of the song somewhere you understand the meaning you

somewhere you understand the meaning you

somewhere you understand the meaning you always knew the meaning you always do

always knew the meaning you always do

always knew the meaning you always do but you understand it lot more you

but you understand it lot more you

but you understand it lot more you connect with those lyrics and you tend

connect with those lyrics and you tend

connect with those lyrics and you tend to find yourself in those lyrics I can

to find yourself in those lyrics I can

to find yourself in those lyrics I can again see the smiles and their kind of

again see the smiles and their kind of

again see the smiles and their kind of confessions and acknowledgement for me

confessions and acknowledgement for me

confessions and acknowledgement for me it happens to all of us we tend to find

it happens to all of us we tend to find

it happens to all of us we tend to find and somehow we believe how did this

and somehow we believe how did this

and somehow we believe how did this person who wrote this song knew me so

person who wrote this song knew me so

person who wrote this song knew me so well because he narrated all that’s

well because he narrated all that’s

well because he narrated all that’s happening to me this is how I Pete

happening to me this is how I Pete

happening to me this is how I Pete whether it were the same before answer

whether it were the same before answer

whether it were the same before answer but now that you are dealing with a

but now that you are dealing with a

but now that you are dealing with a heavy heart you are more receptive to

heavy heart you are more receptive to

heavy heart you are more receptive to these lyrics Hardwick has this was

these lyrics Hardwick has this was

these lyrics Hardwick has this was propensity to to bring that humane

propensity to to bring that humane

propensity to to bring that humane nature you become sensitive you become a

nature you become sensitive you become a

nature you become sensitive you become a creative person because you now

creative person because you now

creative person because you now understand what you are feeling and how

understand what you are feeling and how

understand what you are feeling and how difficult it is to put in words

difficult it is to put in words

difficult it is to put in words and explain somebody else what we’re

and explain somebody else what we’re

and explain somebody else what we’re dealing with your friend would say took

dealing with your friend would say took

dealing with your friend would say took you here that he to Tatiana but in you

you here that he to Tatiana but in you

you here that he to Tatiana but in you know it’s not about that boy or the girl

know it’s not about that boy or the girl

know it’s not about that boy or the girl leaving you

leaving you

leaving you it’s about that void that vacuum that

it’s about that void that vacuum that

it’s about that void that vacuum that that the absence of this particular

that the absence of this particular

that the absence of this particular person has created I go back and the

person has created I go back and the

person has created I go back and the reason I say is that hotcakes at the

reason I say is that hotcakes at the

reason I say is that hotcakes at the Penn Street to make your creative person

Penn Street to make your creative person

Penn Street to make your creative person I could relate so much with a movie

I could relate so much with a movie

I could relate so much with a movie called rock star in which the

called rock star in which the

called rock star in which the protagonist is trying to sing play a

protagonist is trying to sing play a

protagonist is trying to sing play a song and then he tries many a times and

song and then he tries many a times and

song and then he tries many a times and he fears til one day the guy from the

he fears til one day the guy from the

he fears til one day the guy from the canteen comes and tells the the

canteen comes and tells the the

canteen comes and tells the the protagonism it’s a named Hogan and he

protagonism it’s a named Hogan and he

protagonism it’s a named Hogan and he says whining herobrine is it is krill

says whining herobrine is it is krill

says whining herobrine is it is krill tuna pasta during heartbreak has that

tuna pasta during heartbreak has that

tuna pasta during heartbreak has that propensity to make you so sensitive

propensity to make you so sensitive

propensity to make you so sensitive about about emotions and you feel it a

about about emotions and you feel it a

about about emotions and you feel it a lot more you can package your thoughts

lot more you can package your thoughts

lot more you can package your thoughts in a very different way no that’s one

in a very different way no that’s one

in a very different way no that’s one aspect of it but how do you deal with

aspect of it but how do you deal with

aspect of it but how do you deal with the heartbreak why do we feel heartbreak

the heartbreak why do we feel heartbreak

the heartbreak why do we feel heartbreak so much it is one of the things that has

so much it is one of the things that has

so much it is one of the things that has happened to so many people millions have

happened to so many people millions have

happened to so many people millions have added billions are undergoing it at this

added billions are undergoing it at this

added billions are undergoing it at this point in time and tomorrow trillions

point in time and tomorrow trillions

point in time and tomorrow trillions will have it but when it happens to us

will have it but when it happens to us

will have it but when it happens to us we feel all Hindus and it’s just me

we feel all Hindus and it’s just me

we feel all Hindus and it’s just me perhaps we need to find solace and

perhaps we need to find solace and

perhaps we need to find solace and empathy in this part that you are not

empathy in this part that you are not

empathy in this part that you are not the only one dealing with it there’s so

the only one dealing with it there’s so

the only one dealing with it there’s so many of them out there it all depends on

many of them out there it all depends on

many of them out there it all depends on how you choose to deal with it there’s

how you choose to deal with it there’s

how you choose to deal with it there’s nothing called

nothing called

nothing called impossible always remember you had a

impossible always remember you had a

impossible always remember you had a beautiful life even before that precious

beautiful life even before that precious

beautiful life even before that precious person walk in your life all you need to

person walk in your life all you need to

person walk in your life all you need to do is go back and find that you who you

do is go back and find that you who you

do is go back and find that you who you were but what happens to us in that

were but what happens to us in that

were but what happens to us in that moment is we feel that this is the end

moment is we feel that this is the end

moment is we feel that this is the end of my happiness we tend to forget that

of my happiness we tend to forget that

of my happiness we tend to forget that life that we had before this Petra

life that we had before this Petra

life that we had before this Petra person has walked into it realize that

person has walked into it realize that

person has walked into it realize that you were independent you had those bunch

you were independent you had those bunch

you were independent you had those bunch of friends whom you had made those

of friends whom you had made those

of friends whom you had made those excuses just to be with this petal

excuses just to be with this petal

excuses just to be with this petal person and now that this a person

person and now that this a person

person and now that this a person is no more there perhaps it’s the same I

is no more there perhaps it’s the same I

is no more there perhaps it’s the same I get to go back and find those good old

get to go back and find those good old

get to go back and find those good old friends or make new trips get into a

friends or make new trips get into a

friends or make new trips get into a social circle go on a solo trip learn

social circle go on a solo trip learn

social circle go on a solo trip learn something from the movie called Queen

something from the movie called Queen

something from the movie called Queen and that’s applicable to all the kings

and that’s applicable to all the kings

and that’s applicable to all the kings as Cohen was solo trip

as Cohen was solo trip

as Cohen was solo trip pick up new hobbies I advise the friend

pick up new hobbies I advise the friend

pick up new hobbies I advise the friend of mine who so-called is a very shy guy

of mine who so-called is a very shy guy

of mine who so-called is a very shy guy in the grove and he was in a long-term

in the grove and he was in a long-term

in the grove and he was in a long-term relationship and they broke up and we

relationship and they broke up and we

relationship and they broke up and we were advising him that pick up a new

were advising him that pick up a new

were advising him that pick up a new hobby and then you’d find a new girl

hobby and then you’d find a new girl

hobby and then you’d find a new girl technology today the gone is the time

technology today the gone is the time

technology today the gone is the time we’re in love used to happen at first

we’re in love used to happen at first

we’re in love used to happen at first sight now love happens at the first like

sight now love happens at the first like

sight now love happens at the first like of the TP use technology how the casual

of the TP use technology how the casual

of the TP use technology how the casual fling just do make yourself come to

fling just do make yourself come to

fling just do make yourself come to terms denial will not let you move on

terms denial will not let you move on

terms denial will not let you move on acceptance will accept the fact that it

acceptance will accept the fact that it

acceptance will accept the fact that it has happened to you and you need to move

has happened to you and you need to move

has happened to you and you need to move on and so does the other person leverage

on and so does the other person leverage

on and so does the other person leverage she coming to this butter

she coming to this butter

she coming to this butter chair he said I need to I’m a very shy

chair he said I need to I’m a very shy

chair he said I need to I’m a very shy guy I don’t even know if I would have

guy I don’t even know if I would have

guy I don’t even know if I would have the guts to speak to a different woman

the guts to speak to a different woman

the guts to speak to a different woman woman all together I said pick up one

woman all together I said pick up one

woman all together I said pick up one hobby and he said war and we suggested

hobby and he said war and we suggested

hobby and he said war and we suggested joint salsa class I said

joint salsa class I said

joint salsa class I said salsa I need a partner I said therefore

salsa I need a partner I said therefore

salsa I need a partner I said therefore and then he said I’m a shy guy I said

and then he said I’m a shy guy I said

and then he said I’m a shy guy I said which is why I’m recommending salsa you

which is why I’m recommending salsa you

which is why I’m recommending salsa you know you go to a salsa class there are

know you go to a salsa class there are

know you go to a salsa class there are so many people

so many people

so many people you don’t have to speak to the woman

you don’t have to speak to the woman

you don’t have to speak to the woman must before you speak to the woman you

must before you speak to the woman you

must before you speak to the woman you are holding her hand and looking right

are holding her hand and looking right

are holding her hand and looking right into her eyes and dancing the talks will

into her eyes and dancing the talks will

into her eyes and dancing the talks will start after two classes he wrote me a

start after two classes he wrote me a

start after two classes he wrote me a message and said thank you pick up a new

message and said thank you pick up a new

message and said thank you pick up a new hobby you are in the in charge of your

hobby you are in the in charge of your

hobby you are in the in charge of your happiness don’t let anybody else dictate

happiness don’t let anybody else dictate

happiness don’t let anybody else dictate your share of happiness I’m not talking

your share of happiness I’m not talking

your share of happiness I’m not talking about who is right or who is wrong I’m

about who is right or who is wrong I’m

about who is right or who is wrong I’m talking about you you may be the one who

talking about you you may be the one who

talking about you you may be the one who is on the wrong stand in that

is on the wrong stand in that

is on the wrong stand in that relationship but you are in charge of

relationship but you are in charge of

relationship but you are in charge of your happiness and so is that other

your happiness and so is that other

your happiness and so is that other person out there so I hope that tomorrow

person out there so I hope that tomorrow

person out there so I hope that tomorrow in court puppet I wished that it never

in court puppet I wished that it never

in court puppet I wished that it never thought happens to anybody but then if

thought happens to anybody but then if

thought happens to anybody but then if wishes were horses beggars would ride

wishes were horses beggars would ride

wishes were horses beggars would ride and I know that majority of us tomorrow

and I know that majority of us tomorrow

and I know that majority of us tomorrow would have to deal with this I only feel

would have to deal with this I only feel

would have to deal with this I only feel you are not that flawed but then

you are not that flawed but then

you are not that flawed but then somebody else would but once you are

somebody else would but once you are

somebody else would but once you are dealing with heartbreak understand that

dealing with heartbreak understand that

dealing with heartbreak understand that you are not alone

you are not alone

you are not alone many have dealt with it it is one of the

many have dealt with it it is one of the

many have dealt with it it is one of the human emotion but if you could not avoid

human emotion but if you could not avoid

human emotion but if you could not avoid it try to see the positive side of it

it try to see the positive side of it

it try to see the positive side of it thanks so much