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Dare to Try | Emily Squires | TEDxSouthportElementarySchool


Oh every person has differences but how

Oh every person has differences but how if we really come to it and we really

if we really come to it and we really

if we really come to it and we really think about it we’re all alike because

think about it we’re all alike because

think about it we’re all alike because these differences make us all special

these differences make us all special

these differences make us all special and it’s our job as people to all come

and it’s our job as people to all come

and it’s our job as people to all come together despite these differences and

together despite these differences and

together despite these differences and to work together to overcome them now

to work together to overcome them now

to work together to overcome them now the first thing I want to talk about is

the first thing I want to talk about is

the first thing I want to talk about is DNA now DNA is squad is defined as

DNA now DNA is squad is defined as

DNA now DNA is squad is defined as deoxyribonucleic acid which is an acid

deoxyribonucleic acid which is an acid

deoxyribonucleic acid which is an acid that is in your cells the mitochondria

that is in your cells the mitochondria

that is in your cells the mitochondria of them and the DNA’s job in your body

of them and the DNA’s job in your body

of them and the DNA’s job in your body is to give these instructions to your

is to give these instructions to your

is to give these instructions to your cells on how to function

cells on how to function

cells on how to function now that varies from person to person

now that varies from person to person

now that varies from person to person because segments of DNA are known as

because segments of DNA are known as

because segments of DNA are known as genes and as generation and from

genes and as generation and from

genes and as generation and from generation to generation people inherit

generation to generation people inherit

generation to generation people inherit different genes or different or

different genes or different or

different genes or different or different sequences of DNA that make

different sequences of DNA that make

different sequences of DNA that make them them they affect things like your

them them they affect things like your

them them they affect things like your hair color your eye color skin color

hair color your eye color skin color

hair color your eye color skin color even elements of a personality and

even elements of a personality and

even elements of a personality and that’s every difference that we see

that’s every difference that we see

that’s every difference that we see every difference that we is all because

every difference that we is all because

every difference that we is all because of DNA because of DNA were all different

of DNA because of DNA were all different

of DNA because of DNA were all different now what’s amazing about that is that

now what’s amazing about that is that

now what’s amazing about that is that 99.9 percent of our DNA is the same in

99.9 percent of our DNA is the same in

99.9 percent of our DNA is the same in every single one of us that means that

every single one of us that means that

every single one of us that means that all the differences you see between each

all the differences you see between each

all the differences you see between each other eye color hair color skin color

other eye color hair color skin color

other eye color hair color skin color you name it is just in point one percent

you name it is just in point one percent

you name it is just in point one percent of our DNA only 0.1% that’s how much it

of our DNA only 0.1% that’s how much it

of our DNA only 0.1% that’s how much it takes to make us all so vastly different

takes to make us all so vastly different

takes to make us all so vastly different yet so similar because of these

yet so similar because of these

yet so similar because of these differences

differences

differences now even though DNA makes it so

now even though DNA makes it so

now even though DNA makes it so different there are still things that

different there are still things that

different there are still things that are kind of unconstitu ‘td and even like

are kind of unconstitu ‘td and even like

are kind of unconstitu ‘td and even like not more different but they’re still you

not more different but they’re still you

not more different but they’re still you know not mishaps but things that don’t

know not mishaps but things that don’t

know not mishaps but things that don’t normally happen and my experience with

normally happen and my experience with

normally happen and my experience with this began when I aged six

this began when I aged six

this began when I aged six laughs I was diagnosed with Turner

laughs I was diagnosed with Turner

laughs I was diagnosed with Turner syndrome now Turner syndrome occurs when

syndrome now Turner syndrome occurs when

syndrome now Turner syndrome occurs when a female is missing one on one of her X

a female is missing one on one of her X

a female is missing one on one of her X chromosomes it can either be missing

chromosomes it can either be missing

chromosomes it can either be missing broken or damaged now some of the things

broken or damaged now some of the things

broken or damaged now some of the things that Turner girls have to deal with our

that Turner girls have to deal with our

that Turner girls have to deal with our kidney problems heart problems and the

kidney problems heart problems and the

kidney problems heart problems and the most prominent

most prominent

most prominent thing that you can see in that is short

thing that you can see in that is short

thing that you can see in that is short stature

stature

stature so having Turner syndrome I always felt

so having Turner syndrome I always felt

so having Turner syndrome I always felt different as a kid I was you know as

different as a kid I was you know as

different as a kid I was you know as shorter always always at the doctors and

shorter always always at the doctors and

shorter always always at the doctors and stuff and when I was first diagnosed I

stuff and when I was first diagnosed I

stuff and when I was first diagnosed I was confused I wanted to understand what

was confused I wanted to understand what

was confused I wanted to understand what was going on with me so much why did I

was going on with me so much why did I

was going on with me so much why did I have to get a blood test every day I’m

have to get a blood test every day I’m

have to get a blood test every day I’m every three months why did I have to you

every three months why did I have to you

every three months why did I have to you know get my growth hormone shots every

know get my growth hormone shots every

know get my growth hormone shots every day why couldn’t I just be like the

day why couldn’t I just be like the

day why couldn’t I just be like the other kids you know I always wanted to

other kids you know I always wanted to

other kids you know I always wanted to feel normal but I so that was what I

feel normal but I so that was what I

feel normal but I so that was what I struggled us a lot and being different

struggled us a lot and being different

struggled us a lot and being different people often get bullied so at a very

people often get bullied so at a very

people often get bullied so at a very young age I was you know I started to

young age I was you know I started to

young age I was you know I started to experience social struggles that are

experience social struggles that are

experience social struggles that are common to Turner syndrome Turner girls

common to Turner syndrome Turner girls

common to Turner syndrome Turner girls oftentimes have learning disabilities

oftentimes have learning disabilities

oftentimes have learning disabilities although not all the time so some of the

although not all the time so some of the

although not all the time so some of the things you may have to deal with our

things you may have to deal with our

things you may have to deal with our social dealing like interpreting social

social dealing like interpreting social

social dealing like interpreting social cues might be hard is often hard for

cues might be hard is often hard for

cues might be hard is often hard for them like body language sarcasm when

them like body language sarcasm when

them like body language sarcasm when people give subtle hints to things that

people give subtle hints to things that

people give subtle hints to things that they don’t want to just randomly say

they don’t want to just randomly say

they don’t want to just randomly say it’s often hard to fraternal girls to

it’s often hard to fraternal girls to

it’s often hard to fraternal girls to interpret these because of a very new

interpret these because of a very new

interpret these because of a very new logical disorder that’s common in Turner

logical disorder that’s common in Turner

logical disorder that’s common in Turner girls called NLD now I know that

girls called NLD now I know that

girls called NLD now I know that bullying is very terrible and hard the

bullying is very terrible and hard the

bullying is very terrible and hard the worst part about bullying to me though

worst part about bullying to me though

worst part about bullying to me though and I’m sure to everyone who’s

and I’m sure to everyone who’s

and I’m sure to everyone who’s experienced it is the feeling you get

experienced it is the feeling you get

experienced it is the feeling you get when you’re when you’re made to feel

when you’re when you’re made to feel

when you’re when you’re made to feel that your differences and the things

that your differences and the things

that your differences and the things about you that make you special and

about you that make you special and

about you that make you special and unique are wrong and bad that’s not true

unique are wrong and bad that’s not true

unique are wrong and bad that’s not true just because somebody you’re different

just because somebody you’re different

just because somebody you’re different from the person

from the person

from the person next to them doesn’t mean that they’re

next to them doesn’t mean that they’re

next to them doesn’t mean that they’re any better than you is that they’re any

any better than you is that they’re any

any better than you is that they’re any worse than you you guys are all people

worse than you you guys are all people

worse than you you guys are all people and those differences you see make you

and those differences you see make you

and those differences you see make you people without those differences this

people without those differences this

people without those differences this world wouldn’t go round because we

world wouldn’t go round because we

world wouldn’t go round because we wouldn’t have people who are able to do

wouldn’t have people who are able to do

wouldn’t have people who are able to do the things that everybody has to do to

the things that everybody has to do to

the things that everybody has to do to live so bullying I know it’s hard like

live so bullying I know it’s hard like

live so bullying I know it’s hard like from personal experiences first to fifth

from personal experiences first to fifth

from personal experiences first to fifth grades it was really hard I was

grades it was really hard I was

grades it was really hard I was constantly made fun of I don’t know how

constantly made fun of I don’t know how

constantly made fun of I don’t know how many guys have ever read Diary Wimpy Kid

many guys have ever read Diary Wimpy Kid

many guys have ever read Diary Wimpy Kid but I know you if you have you heard

but I know you if you have you heard

but I know you if you have you heard about the cheese touch and like the

about the cheese touch and like the

about the cheese touch and like the second or third grade I was there was a

second or third grade I was there was a

second or third grade I was there was a similar game played at my school and

similar game played at my school and

similar game played at my school and what happened was that I was kind of

what happened was that I was kind of

what happened was that I was kind of like the cheese I was a saying that

like the cheese I was a saying that

like the cheese I was a saying that people would never want to come near or

people would never want to come near or

people would never want to come near or touch during classes they avoid sitting

touch during classes they avoid sitting

touch during classes they avoid sitting next to me so I was alone I would I was

next to me so I was alone I would I was

next to me so I was alone I would I was always by myself and I always wondered

always by myself and I always wondered

always by myself and I always wondered and wanted to know what about myself I

and wanted to know what about myself I

and wanted to know what about myself I could change so that people would want

could change so that people would want

could change so that people would want to be my friend would want to like me

to be my friend would want to like me

to be my friend would want to like me and I was also made to feel dumb and

and I was also made to feel dumb and

and I was also made to feel dumb and stupid and you know all those normal

stupid and you know all those normal

stupid and you know all those normal stereotypes that people get called a lot

stereotypes that people get called a lot

stereotypes that people get called a lot but that’s wrong just because a person

but that’s wrong just because a person

but that’s wrong just because a person immediately observes something about you

immediately observes something about you

immediately observes something about you a lot of the time it’s on a whim just

a lot of the time it’s on a whim just

a lot of the time it’s on a whim just because they’re feeling a certain way

because they’re feeling a certain way

because they’re feeling a certain way because they feel bad about something

because they feel bad about something

because they feel bad about something about themselves they turn around and

about themselves they turn around and

about themselves they turn around and they make somebody else feel bad about

they make somebody else feel bad about

they make somebody else feel bad about who they are so when somebody you know

who they are so when somebody you know

who they are so when somebody you know calls or stereotypes with labels another

calls or stereotypes with labels another

calls or stereotypes with labels another person is being dumb or stupid it or

person is being dumb or stupid it or

person is being dumb or stupid it or ugly or everyone in the book it’s just

ugly or everyone in the book it’s just

ugly or everyone in the book it’s just wrong

wrong

wrong and an example of that in overcoming

and an example of that in overcoming

and an example of that in overcoming that in my life was in first of fifth

that in my life was in first of fifth

that in my life was in first of fifth grades I was at school stay o typed as

grades I was at school stay o typed as

grades I was at school stay o typed as being not smart one I was called a

being not smart one I was called a

being not smart one I was called a useless and a whole bunch of stuff like

useless and a whole bunch of stuff like

useless and a whole bunch of stuff like that but I overcame that because I told

that but I overcame that because I told

that but I overcame that because I told myself one day I said why am I going to

myself one day I said why am I going to

myself one day I said why am I going to let other people’s negativity negativity

let other people’s negativity negativity

let other people’s negativity negativity dictate what I do in life why am I gonna

dictate what I do in life why am I gonna

dictate what I do in life why am I gonna let a curveball that’s been thrown at me

let a curveball that’s been thrown at me

let a curveball that’s been thrown at me stop me from trying

stop me from trying

stop me from trying so I decided to work as hard as I could

so I decided to work as hard as I could

so I decided to work as hard as I could at being the best person I could and at

at being the best person I could and at

at being the best person I could and at that time in math and English and all of

that time in math and English and all of

that time in math and English and all of that stuff because I didn’t have

that stuff because I didn’t have

that stuff because I didn’t have confidence in myself I wasn’t able to

confidence in myself I wasn’t able to

confidence in myself I wasn’t able to succeed when people have confidence in

succeed when people have confidence in

succeed when people have confidence in themselves and accepting uniquenesses

themselves and accepting uniquenesses

themselves and accepting uniquenesses and use them to their advantages they

and use them to their advantages they

and use them to their advantages they are able to succeed but when a person is

are able to succeed but when a person is

are able to succeed but when a person is robbed of this confidence they don’t

robbed of this confidence they don’t

robbed of this confidence they don’t have the strength to succeed if they

have the strength to succeed if they

have the strength to succeed if they want to they feel dejected and battered

want to they feel dejected and battered

want to they feel dejected and battered as a person so they’re unable to fight

as a person so they’re unable to fight

as a person so they’re unable to fight for what they want to do in life they’re

for what they want to do in life they’re

for what they want to do in life they’re unable to fight to see what they want

unable to fight to see what they want

unable to fight to see what they want and all of that stuff so I told myself

and all of that stuff so I told myself

and all of that stuff so I told myself why am i letting other people’s negative

why am i letting other people’s negative

why am i letting other people’s negative negativity do this to me why who’s

negativity do this to me why who’s

negativity do this to me why who’s saying that I can’t be smart with that

saying that I can’t be smart with that

saying that I can’t be smart with that it can’t read or that I can’t do

it can’t read or that I can’t do

it can’t read or that I can’t do whatever I want to do be who I want to

whatever I want to do be who I want to

whatever I want to do be who I want to be you know so I worked really hard I

be you know so I worked really hard I

be you know so I worked really hard I questioned what I could do what I could

questioned what I could do what I could

questioned what I could do what I could not do and I didn’t let anything had

not do and I didn’t let anything had

not do and I didn’t let anything had ever been told by anyone stop me so you

ever been told by anyone stop me so you

ever been told by anyone stop me so you know going to the library reading books

know going to the library reading books

know going to the library reading books printing worksheets drilling flashcards

printing worksheets drilling flashcards

printing worksheets drilling flashcards I did that every free second I could

I did that every free second I could

I did that every free second I could because I wanted to get better I wanted

because I wanted to get better I wanted

because I wanted to get better I wanted to show people and myself that no I can

to show people and myself that no I can

to show people and myself that no I can do this just because you tell me I can’t

do this just because you tell me I can’t

do this just because you tell me I can’t doesn’t mean I can and that takes us to

doesn’t mean I can and that takes us to

doesn’t mean I can and that takes us to curiosity to me like Albert Einstein’s

curiosity to me like Albert Einstein’s

curiosity to me like Albert Einstein’s dead said I have no talents I’m only

dead said I have no talents I’m only

dead said I have no talents I’m only passionately curious now for a person

passionately curious now for a person

passionately curious now for a person being curious is pushing against the

being curious is pushing against the

being curious is pushing against the unknown being curious is the success is

unknown being curious is the success is

unknown being curious is the success is pushing for success even when you don’t

pushing for success even when you don’t

pushing for success even when you don’t know if it’s possible if you don’t dare

know if it’s possible if you don’t dare

know if it’s possible if you don’t dare to question the unknown if you don’t

to question the unknown if you don’t

to question the unknown if you don’t dare to see what you can do you won’t

dare to see what you can do you won’t

dare to see what you can do you won’t ever be able to see what you want to see

ever be able to see what you want to see

ever be able to see what you want to see from yourself in life you won’t ever be

from yourself in life you won’t ever be

from yourself in life you won’t ever be able to see hey what can I can I not do

able to see hey what can I can I not do

able to see hey what can I can I not do so because I did that and I worked

so because I did that and I worked

so because I did that and I worked really hard it paid off so when I went

really hard it paid off so when I went

really hard it paid off so when I went back to school I switched schools and I

back to school I switched schools and I

back to school I switched schools and I surprised myself a lot that year when I

surprised myself a lot that year when I

surprised myself a lot that year when I went I was seen as an academic leader

went I was seen as an academic leader

went I was seen as an academic leader and I had made friends and despite this

and I had made friends and despite this

and I had made friends and despite this I didn’t have to change myself I didn’t

I didn’t have to change myself I didn’t

I didn’t have to change myself I didn’t have to I didn’t have to ask myself

have to I didn’t have to ask myself

have to I didn’t have to ask myself every day what about me is so wrong that

every day what about me is so wrong that

every day what about me is so wrong that it can’t have friends I finally realized

it can’t have friends I finally realized

it can’t have friends I finally realized that it wasn’t me who had to change

that it wasn’t me who had to change

that it wasn’t me who had to change myself it was the way that society views

myself it was the way that society views

myself it was the way that society views people that had to change people have to

people that had to change people have to

people that had to change people have to see that everybody that is different

see that everybody that is different

see that everybody that is different from them is honestly the same because

from them is honestly the same because

from them is honestly the same because every single person is different so you

every single person is different so you

every single person is different so you know these so the labels in society

know these so the labels in society

know these so the labels in society that’s why they’re bad because they

that’s why they’re bad because they

that’s why they’re bad because they don’t mean anything they don’t so yeah I

don’t mean anything they don’t so yeah I

don’t mean anything they don’t so yeah I was finally able to have success in life

was finally able to have success in life

was finally able to have success in life which is really really important and all

which is really really important and all

which is really really important and all of you have that power in you by being

of you have that power in you by being

of you have that power in you by being curious and questioning a uniqueness you

curious and questioning a uniqueness you

curious and questioning a uniqueness you guys are able to see that you guys can

guys are able to see that you guys can

guys are able to see that you guys can be successful when you face and overcome

be successful when you face and overcome

be successful when you face and overcome a challenge you get strength and when

a challenge you get strength and when

a challenge you get strength and when you face the unknown with strength you

you face the unknown with strength you

you face the unknown with strength you gain a power in you that can be used to

empower others around you and can be

empower others around you and can be used to influence people around you so

used to influence people around you so

used to influence people around you so that they don’t feel alone they don’t

that they don’t feel alone they don’t

that they don’t feel alone they don’t feel dejected and they don’t feel like

feel dejected and they don’t feel like

feel dejected and they don’t feel like they don’t matter so that nobody so I’m

they don’t matter so that nobody so I’m

they don’t matter so that nobody so I’m sure that all of you have felt that way

sure that all of you have felt that way

sure that all of you have felt that way don’t want anybody else to feel that way

don’t want anybody else to feel that way

don’t want anybody else to feel that way and that can be a reality if we all work

and that can be a reality if we all work

and that can be a reality if we all work together to empower each other and to

together to empower each other and to

together to empower each other and to accept one another’s differences and to

accept one another’s differences and to

accept one another’s differences and to accept that some people have differences

accept that some people have differences

accept that some people have differences you may not see because you don’t know

you may not see because you don’t know

you may not see because you don’t know lots of times you don’t know about them

lots of times you don’t know about them

lots of times you don’t know about them what you see about people

what you see about people

what you see about people stopping something that’s made on a you

stopping something that’s made on a you

stopping something that’s made on a you know a whim what you see is often made

know a whim what you see is often made

know a whim what you see is often made on a whim and there there are places

on a whim and there there are places

on a whim and there there are places that people can go when they need you

that people can go when they need you

that people can go when they need you know to feel accepted and as a young kid

know to feel accepted and as a young kid

know to feel accepted and as a young kid the only place I felt accepted for a

the only place I felt accepted for a

the only place I felt accepted for a long time was when I was able to be with

long time was when I was able to be with

long time was when I was able to be with girls who had what I had so when I go to

girls who had what I had so when I go to

girls who had what I had so when I go to you know like Turner syndrome

you know like Turner syndrome

you know like Turner syndrome conferences and Turner syndrome camps

conferences and Turner syndrome camps

conferences and Turner syndrome camps for a long time that was the only place

for a long time that was the only place

for a long time that was the only place I felt accepted and the reason for that

I felt accepted and the reason for that

I felt accepted and the reason for that was that there was none of this whole

was that there was none of this whole

was that there was none of this whole clique stuff none of this whole groups

clique stuff none of this whole groups

clique stuff none of this whole groups and stuff everybody was just friends it

and stuff everybody was just friends it

and stuff everybody was just friends it didn’t matter everybody was in this

didn’t matter everybody was in this

didn’t matter everybody was in this together you know we were all for the

together you know we were all for the

together you know we were all for the most part didn’t really have many

most part didn’t really have many

most part didn’t really have many friends I were bullied and so we all

friends I were bullied and so we all

friends I were bullied and so we all said it doesn’t make sense for us all

said it doesn’t make sense for us all

said it doesn’t make sense for us all come together and not empower each other

come together and not empower each other

come together and not empower each other and not help each other to be better

and not help each other to be better

and not help each other to be better people it doesn’t make sense for us to

people it doesn’t make sense for us to

people it doesn’t make sense for us to come and to see these differences that

come and to see these differences that

come and to see these differences that have groups and cliques and all of that

have groups and cliques and all of that

have groups and cliques and all of that stuff in society that’s just silly

stuff in society that’s just silly

stuff in society that’s just silly so going there I was I learned something

so going there I was I learned something

so going there I was I learned something I was finally able to begin to

I was finally able to begin to

I was finally able to begin to comprehend what it meant to have a major

comprehend what it meant to have a major

comprehend what it meant to have a major difference like Turner syndrome I

difference like Turner syndrome I

difference like Turner syndrome I understood that you will never fully

understood that you will never fully

understood that you will never fully ever comprehend what it means having

ever comprehend what it means having

ever comprehend what it means having something like Turner syndrome can

something like Turner syndrome can

something like Turner syndrome can represent a lot of things to me I chose

represent a lot of things to me I chose

represent a lot of things to me I chose it I thought that it could represent two

it I thought that it could represent two

it I thought that it could represent two things it could represent a ball and

things it could represent a ball and

things it could represent a ball and chain that represents a struggle that

chain that represents a struggle that

chain that represents a struggle that you’ll have to have your whole life or

you’ll have to have your whole life or

you’ll have to have your whole life or can represent a book like your journey

can represent a book like your journey

can represent a book like your journey being written down and learning from

being written down and learning from

being written down and learning from everything and so that you can help

everything and so that you can help

everything and so that you can help other people so you can teach them what

other people so you can teach them what

other people so you can teach them what you’ve learned so they can not miss not

you’ve learned so they can not miss not

you’ve learned so they can not miss not make mistakes where you have but they

make mistakes where you have but they

make mistakes where you have but they can repeat your successes as you grow up

can repeat your successes as you grow up

can repeat your successes as you grow up and become the older generation

and become the older generation

and become the older generation it’s our job to become leaders so we can

it’s our job to become leaders so we can

it’s our job to become leaders so we can help people to learn from our mistakes

help people to learn from our mistakes

help people to learn from our mistakes so they don’t repeat them and help them

so they don’t repeat them and help them

so they don’t repeat them and help them to repeat our successes which is why

to repeat our successes which is why

to repeat our successes which is why it’s really important to be curious

it’s really important to be curious

it’s really important to be curious about who you are so you can help people

about who you are so you can help people

about who you are so you can help people to understand who they are thank you

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