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Dance for Social Change | Alexis Lee Xin Tian | TEDxNUS


[Applause]

[Applause] hi everyone my name is LinkedIn and I’m

hi everyone my name is LinkedIn and I’m

hi everyone my name is LinkedIn and I’m here to tell you how performance I can

here to tell you how performance I can

here to tell you how performance I can change society

change society

change society my parents signed me up for belly when I

my parents signed me up for belly when I

my parents signed me up for belly when I was four to me that was kind of a ball

was four to me that was kind of a ball

was four to me that was kind of a ball as a tomboy back then I didn’t see the

as a tomboy back then I didn’t see the

as a tomboy back then I didn’t see the need for me to dance so gracefully it

need for me to dance so gracefully it

need for me to dance so gracefully it just didn’t feel like I was in my own

just didn’t feel like I was in my own

just didn’t feel like I was in my own skin in secondary school and junior

skin in secondary school and junior

skin in secondary school and junior college I joined the modern dance clubs

college I joined the modern dance clubs

college I joined the modern dance clubs I picked it up pretty quickly and I

I picked it up pretty quickly and I

I picked it up pretty quickly and I actually enjoyed it because I had a

actually enjoyed it because I had a

actually enjoyed it because I had a foundation for my ballet classes so this

foundation for my ballet classes so this

foundation for my ballet classes so this is actually from my last Sol and in the

is actually from my last Sol and in the

is actually from my last Sol and in the stool dance competition I was a year two

stool dance competition I was a year two

stool dance competition I was a year two in anglo-chinese junior college and this

in anglo-chinese junior college and this

in anglo-chinese junior college and this dance was an ethnic and Japanese fusion

dance was an ethnic and Japanese fusion

dance was an ethnic and Japanese fusion style

style

style I was actually thankful to be able to

I was actually thankful to be able to

I was actually thankful to be able to have given the opportunity to learn this

have given the opportunity to learn this

have given the opportunity to learn this because it was totally out of my comfort

because it was totally out of my comfort

because it was totally out of my comfort zone and I really hate that the fact

zone and I really hate that the fact

zone and I really hate that the fact that I looked really good dancing it but

that I looked really good dancing it but

that I looked really good dancing it but over time I was thankful because it was

over time I was thankful because it was

over time I was thankful because it was a real challenge and it actually

a real challenge and it actually

a real challenge and it actually increased my versatility upon entering

increased my versatility upon entering

increased my versatility upon entering university I joined the hip-hop dance

university I joined the hip-hop dance

university I joined the hip-hop dance clubs and actually liked it so I could

clubs and actually liked it so I could

clubs and actually liked it so I could see that there’s actually beauty in both

see that there’s actually beauty in both

see that there’s actually beauty in both classical and Street styles so I thought

classical and Street styles so I thought

classical and Street styles so I thought that if one could bridge them together

that if one could bridge them together

that if one could bridge them together seamlessly

seamlessly

seamlessly hashtag goals my first contemporary

hashtag goals my first contemporary

hashtag goals my first contemporary instructor was a member of the Sangha

instructor was a member of the Sangha

instructor was a member of the Sangha company of a local dance company the

company of a local dance company the

company of a local dance company the dance company th is short for the human

dance company th is short for the human

dance company th is short for the human expression under her tutelage and

expression under her tutelage and

expression under her tutelage and watching many of their performances I

watching many of their performances I

watching many of their performances I was exposed to dance and imagined dance

was exposed to dance and imagined dance

was exposed to dance and imagined dance was beyond just choreographed steps and

was beyond just choreographed steps and

was beyond just choreographed steps and Cowens it was the art of human

Cowens it was the art of human

Cowens it was the art of human expression I was so drawn to movement as

expression I was so drawn to movement as

expression I was so drawn to movement as a form of storytelling and more

a form of storytelling and more

a form of storytelling and more importantly as a social commentary on

importantly as a social commentary on

importantly as a social commentary on things that we couldn’t really see

things that we couldn’t really see

things that we couldn’t really see outright

outright

outright it might be talked about in the media or

it might be talked about in the media or

it might be talked about in the media or handled by the government but dance

handled by the government but dance

handled by the government but dance performance give the common people a

performance give the common people a

performance give the common people a voice on things that they wouldn’t be

voice on things that they wouldn’t be

voice on things that they wouldn’t be able to speak the world is plagued with

able to speak the world is plagued with

able to speak the world is plagued with social issues and many social

social issues and many social

social issues and many social organizations and spokespeople employ

organizations and spokespeople employ

organizations and spokespeople employ various methods to get the message

various methods to get the message

various methods to get the message across dance as a tool to move the issue

across dance as a tool to move the issue

across dance as a tool to move the issue from statistics to the people themselves

from statistics to the people themselves

from statistics to the people themselves is not uncommon with the advent of

is not uncommon with the advent of

is not uncommon with the advent of social media there has been an increase

social media there has been an increase

social media there has been an increase in the awareness of various social

in the awareness of various social

in the awareness of various social issues and it has proved to be

issues and it has proved to be

issues and it has proved to be successful a student-led organization

successful a student-led organization

successful a student-led organization called and said was started by a senior

called and said was started by a senior

called and said was started by a senior of mine from college the organization

of mine from college the organization

of mine from college the organization was started last year and they aim to

was started last year and they aim to

was started last year and they aim to surface social issues by marrying them

surface social issues by marrying them

surface social issues by marrying them the performance at the main event was a

the performance at the main event was a

the performance at the main event was a play title every Singaporean daughter so

play title every Singaporean daughter so

play title every Singaporean daughter so what you see above that’s the poster

what you see above that’s the poster

what you see above that’s the poster here’s me at the booth promoting the

here’s me at the booth promoting the

here’s me at the booth promoting the cause so what they did was that they

cause so what they did was that they

cause so what they did was that they actually wrote remarks on my body

actually wrote remarks on my body

actually wrote remarks on my body showcasing that those were impressive

showcasing that those were impressive

showcasing that those were impressive remarks women that women received on a

remarks women that women received on a

remarks women that women received on a daily basis can have Pavan permanent

daily basis can have Pavan permanent

daily basis can have Pavan permanent effects on our identity so my senior had

effects on our identity so my senior had

effects on our identity so my senior had this idea to do a dance cover so it was

this idea to do a dance cover so it was

this idea to do a dance cover so it was about relationship issues and he wanted

about relationship issues and he wanted

about relationship issues and he wanted this dance cover to promote the play he

this dance cover to promote the play he

this dance cover to promote the play he approached my friend and I and we got

approached my friend and I and we got

approached my friend and I and we got the talking we try it around in a dance

the talking we try it around in a dance

the talking we try it around in a dance studio and here’s what we came up with

I’m really can you sit a little bit long

I’m really can you sit a little bit long don’t walk away

you don’t even care if I go not mama

you don’t even care if I go not mama don’t my but I keep taking my

don’t my but I keep taking my

don’t my but I keep taking my chances don’t waste my time

chances don’t waste my time

chances don’t waste my time you know father

you know father

you know father every time

oh sorry letter don’t come back

oh sorry letter don’t come back aside my BTA something I don’t come back

aside my BTA something I don’t come back

aside my BTA something I don’t come back for the fat won’t break yet

for the fat won’t break yet

for the fat won’t break yet [Music]

[Applause]

[Applause] so this was mainly a dance cover my

so this was mainly a dance cover my

so this was mainly a dance cover my friend and I choreographed the steps

friend and I choreographed the steps

friend and I choreographed the steps such that it will convey the physical

such that it will convey the physical

such that it will convey the physical and emotional abuse through physical

and emotional abuse through physical

and emotional abuse through physical movements and accompanied with the

movements and accompanied with the

movements and accompanied with the lyrics of the song which hinted merely

lyrics of the song which hinted merely

lyrics of the song which hinted merely at relationship abuse after the video

at relationship abuse after the video

at relationship abuse after the video was posted online several people who saw

was posted online several people who saw

was posted online several people who saw it came up to me they wanted to talk

it came up to me they wanted to talk

it came up to me they wanted to talk about the concept surrounding the

about the concept surrounding the

about the concept surrounding the choreography the conversation gradually

choreography the conversation gradually

choreography the conversation gradually shifted the relationship issues and I

shifted the relationship issues and I

shifted the relationship issues and I realized that many young people actually

realized that many young people actually

realized that many young people actually have experienced some form of emotional

have experienced some form of emotional

have experienced some form of emotional or physical abuse by their partners last

or physical abuse by their partners last

or physical abuse by their partners last year I found out that my friend was

year I found out that my friend was

year I found out that my friend was raped it was difficult to come to the

raped it was difficult to come to the

raped it was difficult to come to the terms with the fact that someone that I

terms with the fact that someone that I

terms with the fact that someone that I knew so well had been living in secrecy

knew so well had been living in secrecy

knew so well had been living in secrecy for so long it may be wonder about how

for so long it may be wonder about how

for so long it may be wonder about how many more of my own friends who are

many more of my own friends who are

many more of my own friends who are going through similar situations but

going through similar situations but

going through similar situations but have yet to seek help or speak up it had

have yet to seek help or speak up it had

have yet to seek help or speak up it had it had been incredibly difficult for her

it had been incredibly difficult for her

it had been incredibly difficult for her to deal with it because the effects was

to deal with it because the effects was

to deal with it because the effects was so pronounced on every part of her life

so pronounced on every part of her life

so pronounced on every part of her life it’s easy to label a rapist and a victim

it’s easy to label a rapist and a victim

it’s easy to label a rapist and a victim when you don’t know them when it is

when you don’t know them when it is

when you don’t know them when it is traditionally known that people are

traditionally known that people are

traditionally known that people are often raped only by strangers in only

often raped only by strangers in only

often raped only by strangers in only violent situations but what happens when

violent situations but what happens when

violent situations but what happens when a girl is raped by her boyfriend well

a girl is raped by her boyfriend well

a girl is raped by her boyfriend well they are in a committed serious

they are in a committed serious

they are in a committed serious relationship it’s not so easy now isn’t

relationship it’s not so easy now isn’t

relationship it’s not so easy now isn’t it it was difficult for her to come

it it was difficult for her to come

it it was difficult for her to come forward to confess that all the pain

forward to confess that all the pain

forward to confess that all the pain inflicted upon her was by someone she

inflicted upon her was by someone she

inflicted upon her was by someone she loved so dearly sex is a taboo topic of

loved so dearly sex is a taboo topic of

loved so dearly sex is a taboo topic of which the act is often associated with

which the act is often associated with

which the act is often associated with shame especially in Singapore there is

shame especially in Singapore there is

shame especially in Singapore there is also the case that survivors unaware

also the case that survivors unaware

also the case that survivors unaware that they had been in such situations in

that they had been in such situations in

that they had been in such situations in the first place or knew how to seek help

for almost nine and 10 survivors of

for almost nine and 10 survivors of sexual assault the perpetrator was

sexual assault the perpetrator was

sexual assault the perpetrator was someone they knew in a study done by the

someone they knew in a study done by the

someone they knew in a study done by the weekend campaign it can be hard to

weekend campaign it can be hard to

weekend campaign it can be hard to reconcile the dichotomies surrounding a

reconcile the dichotomies surrounding a

reconcile the dichotomies surrounding a situation whereby the person whom you

situation whereby the person whom you

situation whereby the person whom you thought you could trust the most

thought you could trust the most

thought you could trust the most actually hurt you the most

the reality is that 70 percent of such

the reality is that 70 percent of such cases go unreported

cases go unreported

cases go unreported according to statistics by the same

according to statistics by the same

according to statistics by the same study the survivors are either unwilling

study the survivors are either unwilling

study the survivors are either unwilling to report their cases because they don’t

to report their cases because they don’t

to report their cases because they don’t want people to find out that they have

want people to find out that they have

want people to find out that they have had sex or have been violated this is

had sex or have been violated this is

had sex or have been violated this is dangerous

dangerous

dangerous because this gives the perpetrators the

because this gives the perpetrators the

because this gives the perpetrators the green light to continue inflicting

green light to continue inflicting

green light to continue inflicting violence upon their partners

violence upon their partners

violence upon their partners intentionally or even unintentionally

there needs to be more in-depth and

there needs to be more in-depth and transparent discussion about sex and

transparent discussion about sex and

transparent discussion about sex and consent in Singapore because the reality

consent in Singapore because the reality

consent in Singapore because the reality is that sex is actually committed by

is that sex is actually committed by

is that sex is actually committed by many young couples more than we might

many young couples more than we might

many young couples more than we might think an informal survey by The Straits

think an informal survey by The Straits

think an informal survey by The Straits Times of 60 teens and a 2003 Nanyang

Times of 60 teens and a 2003 Nanyang

Times of 60 teens and a 2003 Nanyang Technological University study of 350

Technological University study of 350

Technological University study of 350 students found that one in five had sex

students found that one in five had sex

students found that one in five had sex but youth counselors fear that this

but youth counselors fear that this

but youth counselors fear that this ratio is only going to go on saving

ratio is only going to go on saving

ratio is only going to go on saving themselves for marriage just doesn’t

themselves for marriage just doesn’t

themselves for marriage just doesn’t seem to matter anymore said mr. Jerry

seem to matter anymore said mr. Jerry

seem to matter anymore said mr. Jerry young our focus on the family a pro

young our focus on the family a pro

young our focus on the family a pro abstinence group which has conducted

abstinence group which has conducted

abstinence group which has conducted sexuality workshops for 17,000 students

sexuality workshops for 17,000 students

sexuality workshops for 17,000 students today we need to recognize this people

today we need to recognize this people

today we need to recognize this people do have urges we are biologically

do have urges we are biologically

do have urges we are biologically engineered their way but it doesn’t give

engineered their way but it doesn’t give

engineered their way but it doesn’t give us a free pass to assume that people

us a free pass to assume that people

us a free pass to assume that people want it the same way that we do however

want it the same way that we do however

want it the same way that we do however there is really much talk about consent

there is really much talk about consent

there is really much talk about consent in Singapore talk about sex

in Singapore talk about sex

in Singapore talk about sex in the national narrative exists in

in the national narrative exists in

in the national narrative exists in mainly three categories sorry four

mainly three categories sorry four

mainly three categories sorry four categories when the population control

categories when the population control

categories when the population control is affecting our economy the nature of

is affecting our economy the nature of

is affecting our economy the nature of the media to leverage upon sex to gain

the media to leverage upon sex to gain

the media to leverage upon sex to gain viewership it comes from a very top-down

viewership it comes from a very top-down

viewership it comes from a very top-down perspective from the seat from the media

perspective from the seat from the media

perspective from the seat from the media to the common person let’s not forget

to the common person let’s not forget

to the common person let’s not forget pornography teaching boys that goes like

pornography teaching boys that goes like

pornography teaching boys that goes like it rough or that they play hard to get

it rough or that they play hard to get

it rough or that they play hard to get propagating the expectation that a

propagating the expectation that a

propagating the expectation that a submissive female has to be naturally

submissive female has to be naturally

submissive female has to be naturally chaste pornography teaches people that

chaste pornography teaches people that

chaste pornography teaches people that it is okay to have meaning meaningless

it is okay to have meaning meaningless

it is okay to have meaning meaningless foreplay and sex bye-bye you don’t need

foreplay and sex bye-bye you don’t need

foreplay and sex bye-bye you don’t need to respect the other partners wishes or

to respect the other partners wishes or

to respect the other partners wishes or even like them as a person

lastly persuading youths to abstain from

lastly persuading youths to abstain from sex to prevent ate via formal sex

sex to prevent ate via formal sex

sex to prevent ate via formal sex education but what do you think are we

education but what do you think are we

education but what do you think are we doing enough to equip the youths on

doing enough to equip the youths on

doing enough to equip the youths on healthy sex practices we haven’t taught

healthy sex practices we haven’t taught

healthy sex practices we haven’t taught on the dangers of sex and how it can

on the dangers of sex and how it can

on the dangers of sex and how it can lead to sexually transmitted diseases so

lead to sexually transmitted diseases so

lead to sexually transmitted diseases so the best way is to use a condom or

the best way is to use a condom or

the best way is to use a condom or completely abstain from it but there are

completely abstain from it but there are

completely abstain from it but there are so many more layers beyond that of

so many more layers beyond that of

so many more layers beyond that of simply protection because unwanted sex

simply protection because unwanted sex

simply protection because unwanted sex physically forced or emotionally

physically forced or emotionally

physically forced or emotionally manipulated upon your partner can be

manipulated upon your partner can be

manipulated upon your partner can be seriously damaging for the survivor and

seriously damaging for the survivor and

seriously damaging for the survivor and no amount of condoms can ever prevent

no amount of condoms can ever prevent

no amount of condoms can ever prevent the feeling that you have been used by

the feeling that you have been used by

the feeling that you have been used by someone whom you trusted there needs to

someone whom you trusted there needs to

someone whom you trusted there needs to be more education on consent definition

be more education on consent definition

be more education on consent definition of abuses and ways to seek help in the

of abuses and ways to seek help in the

of abuses and ways to seek help in the end my friends stop pursuing the matter

end my friends stop pursuing the matter

end my friends stop pursuing the matter after a year in the meantime she managed

after a year in the meantime she managed

after a year in the meantime she managed to heal emotionally by seeking

to heal emotionally by seeking

to heal emotionally by seeking professional help and talking to people

professional help and talking to people

professional help and talking to people that she trusted

by seeking help from various

by seeking help from various organizations and care centers they were

organizations and care centers they were

organizations and care centers they were able to help her negotiate her identity

able to help her negotiate her identity

able to help her negotiate her identity surrounding the effects of her rape I

realized the importance of performance

realized the importance of performance art as a medium to give a voice on how

art as a medium to give a voice on how

art as a medium to give a voice on how pronounced the effects of sexual abuse

pronounced the effects of sexual abuse

pronounced the effects of sexual abuse head on its survivors and the same could

head on its survivors and the same could

head on its survivors and the same could be extended to other pertinent issues

be extended to other pertinent issues

be extended to other pertinent issues there is a strong power in dance

there is a strong power in dance

there is a strong power in dance provoking thought on uncomfortable

provoking thought on uncomfortable

provoking thought on uncomfortable social issues the nature of dance is

social issues the nature of dance is

social issues the nature of dance is that it is visceral you can inform

that it is visceral you can inform

that it is visceral you can inform invoke a mood or emotion which appeals

invoke a mood or emotion which appeals

invoke a mood or emotion which appeals to the audience it is an effective

to the audience it is an effective

to the audience it is an effective medium because with each individual in

medium because with each individual in

medium because with each individual in the audience they perceive the same

the audience they perceive the same

the audience they perceive the same stimuli from the stage but they do it

stimuli from the stage but they do it

stimuli from the stage but they do it differently it means different things to

differently it means different things to

differently it means different things to them therefore this increases memory

them therefore this increases memory

them therefore this increases memory retention as the impression formed is

retention as the impression formed is

retention as the impression formed is owned solely by them this is able to

owned solely by them this is able to

owned solely by them this is able to stick in their minds more easily because

stick in their minds more easily because

stick in their minds more easily because people remember how they felt at that

people remember how they felt at that

people remember how they felt at that time more than what information they are

time more than what information they are

time more than what information they are exposed to attitude changes have more

exposed to attitude changes have more

exposed to attitude changes have more lasting effects than awareness does

lasting effects than awareness does

lasting effects than awareness does therefore I think performance art is an

therefore I think performance art is an

therefore I think performance art is an extremely creative vehicle that engages

extremely creative vehicle that engages

extremely creative vehicle that engages people on an active level instead of

people on an active level instead of

people on an active level instead of just reading about the issue via

just reading about the issue via

just reading about the issue via pamphlet or a brochure because issues

pamphlet or a brochure because issues

pamphlet or a brochure because issues and not just about statistics and facts

and not just about statistics and facts

and not just about statistics and facts they are about people and people react

they are about people and people react

they are about people and people react more effectively to emotions so have an

more effectively to emotions so have an

more effectively to emotions so have an issue you wish more people would pay

issue you wish more people would pay

issue you wish more people would pay attention to you don’t have to dance you

attention to you don’t have to dance you

attention to you don’t have to dance you don’t even have to perform you can do

don’t even have to perform you can do

don’t even have to perform you can do whatever things you have whatever

whatever things you have whatever

whatever things you have whatever talents you already have in order to

talents you already have in order to

talents you already have in order to spread the message in a creative and

spread the message in a creative and

spread the message in a creative and rest

rest

rest or manner sexual violence is definitely

or manner sexual violence is definitely

or manner sexual violence is definitely a topic that we shouldn’t avoid along

a topic that we shouldn’t avoid along

a topic that we shouldn’t avoid along with many other social causes we can

with many other social causes we can

with many other social causes we can never be satisfied because issues will

never be satisfied because issues will

never be satisfied because issues will always be evolving and resurfacing we

always be evolving and resurfacing we

always be evolving and resurfacing we should continue to remain open to these

should continue to remain open to these

should continue to remain open to these disparities even as we grow old we will

disparities even as we grow old we will

disparities even as we grow old we will never have the answers so it is

never have the answers so it is

never have the answers so it is important to find new ways to say

important to find new ways to say

important to find new ways to say someone even if that person could be

someone even if that person could be

someone even if that person could be yourself before I and today I would like

yourself before I and today I would like

yourself before I and today I would like to demonstrate the struggle of a rape

to demonstrate the struggle of a rape

to demonstrate the struggle of a rape survivor through her circumstances I

survivor through her circumstances I

survivor through her circumstances I read I wish to represent all those who

read I wish to represent all those who

read I wish to represent all those who have been sexually assaulted one way or

have been sexually assaulted one way or

have been sexually assaulted one way or the other I hope this will leave you

the other I hope this will leave you

the other I hope this will leave you with an idea of how performance can

with an idea of how performance can

with an idea of how performance can transform the way people view about

transform the way people view about

transform the way people view about various social issues from some from

various social issues from some from

various social issues from some from numbers to something more emotive and

numbers to something more emotive and

numbers to something more emotive and real

god only knows where I love this right

god only knows where I love this right for me

for me

for me [Music]

last

last [Music]

[Music]

[Music] oh my

oh my

oh my [Music]

[Music]

[Music] No

[Music]

[Music] No

No

No [Music]

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