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[Music] my name is Nadia enigma that’s any GM so

my name is Nadia enigma that’s any GM so

my name is Nadia enigma that’s any GM so I’m from Egypt I didn’t grow up there

I’m from Egypt I didn’t grow up there

I’m from Egypt I didn’t grow up there never lived there I did grow up in

never lived there I did grow up in

never lived there I did grow up in Africa though specifically in the maybea

Africa though specifically in the maybea

Africa though specifically in the maybea and Ethiopia and growing up my friends

and Ethiopia and growing up my friends

and Ethiopia and growing up my friends were from all over the place they were

were from all over the place they were

were from all over the place they were from Senegal Nigeria Cameroon Ethiopia

from Senegal Nigeria Cameroon Ethiopia

from Senegal Nigeria Cameroon Ethiopia and so all my friends were black except

and so all my friends were black except

and so all my friends were black except for my two white friends were shows up

for my two white friends were shows up

for my two white friends were shows up who were from South Africa and so I

who were from South Africa and so I

who were from South Africa and so I growing up I really wanted to be black

growing up I really wanted to be black

growing up I really wanted to be black because that’s what all my friends were

because that’s what all my friends were

because that’s what all my friends were you know and I and you know I feel like

you know and I and you know I feel like

you know and I and you know I feel like that’s what every kid wanted you know

that’s what every kid wanted you know

that’s what every kid wanted you know not to be black notice let me clarify

not to be black notice let me clarify

not to be black notice let me clarify it’s to fit in because you know and so

it’s to fit in because you know and so

it’s to fit in because you know and so obviously I can’t be black because my

obviously I can’t be black because my

obviously I can’t be black because my composure and we found out that we were

composure and we found out that we were

composure and we found out that we were moving from Ethiopia to Switzerland and

moving from Ethiopia to Switzerland and

moving from Ethiopia to Switzerland and my friends were really excited for me

my friends were really excited for me

my friends were really excited for me you know like a you’re going home you’re

you know like a you’re going home you’re

you know like a you’re going home you’re going to look like everybody else ah

going to look like everybody else ah

going to look like everybody else ah send me a Rolex like I’m just gonna okay

send me a Rolex like I’m just gonna okay

send me a Rolex like I’m just gonna okay and they were really excited for me and

and they were really excited for me and

and they were really excited for me and I think my two South African friends

I think my two South African friends

I think my two South African friends were also examine they seemed excited

were also examine they seemed excited

were also examine they seemed excited they’re like oh Europe

they’re like oh Europe

they’re like oh Europe yeah I’m so excited for you hey no I’m

yeah I’m so excited for you hey no I’m

yeah I’m so excited for you hey no I’m not jealous at all nor you know I love

not jealous at all nor you know I love

not jealous at all nor you know I love the people I mean the service I mean the

the people I mean the service I mean the

the people I mean the service I mean the people here you’re a levy freaka so that

people here you’re a levy freaka so that

people here you’re a levy freaka so that was it I was on a plane to Geneva and I

was it I was on a plane to Geneva and I

was it I was on a plane to Geneva and I and I got here and I decided I’m going

and I got here and I decided I’m going

and I got here and I decided I’m going to be white I fit the parts right yeah

to be white I fit the parts right yeah

to be white I fit the parts right yeah this all fell through on the first day

this all fell through on the first day

this all fell through on the first day of school because you see my last name

of school because you see my last name

of school because you see my last name EGM Nigam isn’t that hard to pronounce

EGM Nigam isn’t that hard to pronounce

EGM Nigam isn’t that hard to pronounce in Africa where people speak with you

in Africa where people speak with you

in Africa where people speak with you know it’s okay so I sat down first day

know it’s okay so I sat down first day

know it’s okay so I sat down first day of school Michael keep you white be

of school Michael keep you white be

of school Michael keep you white be white be white

white be white

white be white George Bush yes

and a big guy mr. Jones walks in he’s

and a big guy mr. Jones walks in he’s from Texas right so he’s reading off a

from Texas right so he’s reading off a

from Texas right so he’s reading off a list Erik core Katherine Jevons Sarah

list Erik core Katherine Jevons Sarah

list Erik core Katherine Jevons Sarah Gilpin Nadia nigga

Gilpin Nadia nigga

Gilpin Nadia nigga Nadia NIC is there a nigga I’m in here

Nadia NIC is there a nigga I’m in here

Nadia NIC is there a nigga I’m in here and I don’t want to be like yes I’m the

and I don’t want to be like yes I’m the

and I don’t want to be like yes I’m the nigga I’m like no that’s not me so I

nigga I’m like no that’s not me so I

nigga I’m like no that’s not me so I walk out of the class first thing I hear

walk out of the class first thing I hear

walk out of the class first thing I hear down the hallway yo what up man new gun

down the hallway yo what up man new gun

down the hallway yo what up man new gun and that’s what I was referred to for

and that’s what I was referred to for

and that’s what I was referred to for the next four years and it sucked but at

the next four years and it sucked but at

the next four years and it sucked but at least that felt black yeah so there’s an

least that felt black yeah so there’s an

least that felt black yeah so there’s an upset there’s an upset but I’ve been

upset there’s an upset but I’ve been

upset there’s an upset but I’ve been here for the past five years and I love

here for the past five years and I love

here for the past five years and I love Geneva I love it so all this courts you

Geneva I love it so all this courts you

Geneva I love it so all this courts you know it’s safe there’s no real issues

know it’s safe there’s no real issues

know it’s safe there’s no real issues except for the passive-aggressive war

except for the passive-aggressive war

except for the passive-aggressive war between the people and TPG which I have

between the people and TPG which I have

between the people and TPG which I have noticed yes yes and no it’s an issue for

noticed yes yes and no it’s an issue for

noticed yes yes and no it’s an issue for those of you who don’t know whoever’s

those of you who don’t know whoever’s

those of you who don’t know whoever’s watching from not in Geneva TPJ is our

watching from not in Geneva TPJ is our

watching from not in Geneva TPJ is our local gang no they’re the public

local gang no they’re the public

local gang no they’re the public transfer provided providers in Geneva

transfer provided providers in Geneva

transfer provided providers in Geneva and when I first arrived here I was

and when I first arrived here I was

and when I first arrived here I was religiously buying tickets because

religiously buying tickets because

religiously buying tickets because that’s what they stress on right you’re

that’s what they stress on right you’re

that’s what they stress on right you’re like you have to buy a ticket so I was

like you have to buy a ticket so I was

like you have to buy a ticket so I was buying them every day and then I

buying them every day and then I

buying them every day and then I realized nobody’s checking

realized nobody’s checking

realized nobody’s checking so I got comfortable and this is what

so I got comfortable and this is what

so I got comfortable and this is what TPJ they wait for you to get comfortable

TPJ they wait for you to get comfortable

TPJ they wait for you to get comfortable and after two or three months they just

and after two or three months they just

and after two or three months they just attack you know it’s like a raid they’re

attack you know it’s like a raid they’re

attack you know it’s like a raid they’re everywhere it’s like a creepy predator

everywhere it’s like a creepy predator

everywhere it’s like a creepy predator and like you feel it like you’ll be

and like you feel it like you’ll be

and like you feel it like you’ll be sitting on the bus listening to Justin

sitting on the bus listening to Justin

sitting on the bus listening to Justin Bieber and it’s like and they like block

Bieber and it’s like and they like block

Bieber and it’s like and they like block all the doors to get on baby stop crying

all the doors to get on baby stop crying

all the doors to get on baby stop crying homeless people homeless people stop

homeless people homeless people stop

homeless people homeless people stop talking to themselves you know you just

talking to themselves you know you just

talking to themselves you know you just like you feel it you have your ticket

like you feel it you have your ticket

like you feel it you have your ticket but you know something’s gonna go wrong

but you know something’s gonna go wrong

but you know something’s gonna go wrong like ticket ticket ticket as soon as

like ticket ticket ticket as soon as

like ticket ticket ticket as soon as they catch someone it’s like they bring

they catch someone it’s like they bring

they catch someone it’s like they bring two more people surrett to surround you

two more people surrett to surround you

two more people surrett to surround you as if you’re like some prize they just

as if you’re like some prize they just

as if you’re like some prize they just hunted you know and then they bring you

hunted you know and then they bring you

hunted you know and then they bring you out line you up like you’re going to

out line you up like you’re going to

out line you up like you’re going to want animal Bay ridiculous and and that

want animal Bay ridiculous and and that

want animal Bay ridiculous and and that that I must say is the only real

that I must say is the only real

that I must say is the only real struggle we have in Geneva you know no

struggle we have in Geneva you know no

struggle we have in Geneva you know no no no because I’m but that’s why I’m

no no because I’m but that’s why I’m

no no because I’m but that’s why I’m always confused when I see these kids

always confused when I see these kids

always confused when I see these kids that really try to act gangster you know

that really try to act gangster you know

that really try to act gangster you know what I’m talking about the guy anyone

what I’m talking about the guy anyone

what I’m talking about the guy anyone anyone no okay well you’ve seen them

anyone no okay well you’ve seen them

anyone no okay well you’ve seen them they wear the so they’re so they’re the

they wear the so they’re so they’re the

they wear the so they’re so they’re the ones that wear the air matte air max is

ones that wear the air matte air max is

ones that wear the air matte air max is you know and they walk around wash wash

you know and they walk around wash wash

you know and they walk around wash wash Mac and they’ve got the little little

Mac and they’ve got the little little

Mac and they’ve got the little little Gucci Gucci bag that’s holding a that’s

Gucci Gucci bag that’s holding a that’s

Gucci Gucci bag that’s holding a that’s big enough to hold a condom we know

big enough to hold a condom we know

big enough to hold a condom we know they’re not gonna have the opportunity

they’re not gonna have the opportunity

they’re not gonna have the opportunity to use and they try to act really

to use and they try to act really

to use and they try to act really gangster and I’m like why I mean you’re

gangster and I’m like why I mean you’re

gangster and I’m like why I mean you’re growing up one of the richest cities in

growing up one of the richest cities in

growing up one of the richest cities in the world how what what is your struggle

the world how what what is your struggle

the world how what what is your struggle you know can you imagine a rapper coming

you know can you imagine a rapper coming

you know can you imagine a rapper coming out of Geneva

right like they’d be like straight out

right like they’d be like straight out of shine of crazy car dealer named

of shine of crazy car dealer named

of shine of crazy car dealer named jean-claude like no no and then in an

jean-claude like no no and then in an

jean-claude like no no and then in an interview they’d be like what would you

interview they’d be like what would you

interview they’d be like what would you struggle to be like man you should have

struggle to be like man you should have

struggle to be like man you should have met tip is G don’t get me started on

met tip is G don’t get me started on

met tip is G don’t get me started on cFFO but I love Geneva you know and and

cFFO but I love Geneva you know and and

cFFO but I love Geneva you know and and I get and so that’s why I get upset when

I get and so that’s why I get upset when

I get and so that’s why I get upset when people say there’s no culture here

people say there’s no culture here

people say there’s no culture here there’s no because there is and I’m

there’s no because there is and I’m

there’s no because there is and I’m gonna tell you about something that

gonna tell you about something that

gonna tell you about something that happened to me this well actually in

happened to me this well actually in

happened to me this well actually in November I’ve been living here for about

November I’ve been living here for about

November I’ve been living here for about five years and I would have been

five years and I would have been

five years and I would have been eligible to become Swiss in 2018 and

eligible to become Swiss in 2018 and

eligible to become Swiss in 2018 and because the laws are changing I wanted

because the laws are changing I wanted

because the laws are changing I wanted to know where I stand with this so I

to know where I stand with this so I

to know where I stand with this so I sent an email to the office of

sent an email to the office of

sent an email to the office of integration and I asked them I got a

integration and I asked them I got a

integration and I asked them I got a reply dear Nadia Nick you will be

reply dear Nadia Nick you will be

reply dear Nadia Nick you will be eligible for the Swiss passport in 2021

eligible for the Swiss passport in 2021

eligible for the Swiss passport in 2021 thank you for not laughing because that

thank you for not laughing because that

thank you for not laughing because that wasn’t funny that was not a good day for

wasn’t funny that was not a good day for

wasn’t funny that was not a good day for me and obviously this really upset me

me and obviously this really upset me

me and obviously this really upset me because I really feel like I belong here

because I really feel like I belong here

because I really feel like I belong here I feel like I have a very good space

I feel like I have a very good space

I feel like I have a very good space here I love living here and so I sent

here I love living here and so I sent

here I love living here and so I sent them another emails like look I’m an

them another emails like look I’m an

them another emails like look I’m an athlete I’ve been training here is there

athlete I’ve been training here is there

athlete I’ve been training here is there any exception you can make sorry we do

any exception you can make sorry we do

any exception you can make sorry we do not make exceptions that’s the short

not make exceptions that’s the short

not make exceptions that’s the short version the long version was 25 words

version the long version was 25 words

version the long version was 25 words 121 characters I counted because that

121 characters I counted because that

121 characters I counted because that destroyed my heart and you know when

destroyed my heart and you know when

destroyed my heart and you know when they said no exception something just

they said no exception something just

they said no exception something just didn’t compute in my in my in my brain

didn’t compute in my in my in my brain

didn’t compute in my in my in my brain you know as an African I was like like

you know as an African I was like like

you know as an African I was like like it just didn’t come like it didn’t work

it just didn’t come like it didn’t work

it just didn’t come like it didn’t work in Africa they make exceptions you know

in Africa they make exceptions you know

in Africa they make exceptions you know we make exceptions that’s the way it

we make exceptions that’s the way it

we make exceptions that’s the way it works yeah yeah you’re like yes you want

works yeah yeah you’re like yes you want

works yeah yeah you’re like yes you want to get your license how old are you 16

to get your license how old are you 16

to get your license how old are you 16 hmm I’ve got $100 I close enough er why

hmm I’ve got $100 I close enough er why

hmm I’ve got $100 I close enough er why not but this is the thing about Geneva

not but this is the thing about Geneva

not but this is the thing about Geneva is that that is the culture culture is

is that that is the culture culture is

is that that is the culture culture is what makes society function as

what makes society function as

what makes society function as effectively as possible

effectively as possible

effectively as possible if you conform to the culture of a place

if you conform to the culture of a place

if you conform to the culture of a place your role in society will be more

your role in society will be more

your role in society will be more effective you will feel more effective

effective you will feel more effective

effective you will feel more effective and that’s the thing in Geneva if you

and that’s the thing in Geneva if you

and that’s the thing in Geneva if you conform to working hard being on time

conform to working hard being on time

conform to working hard being on time doing things by the book

doing things by the book

doing things by the book you will get the results that you want

you will get the results that you want

you will get the results that you want you know I mean where I come from our

you know I mean where I come from our

you know I mean where I come from our culture is to beat behind the bush and

culture is to beat behind the bush and

culture is to beat behind the bush and you know not do things very ethnically

you know not do things very ethnically

you know not do things very ethnically but that’s the way my society functions

but that’s the way my society functions

but that’s the way my society functions over there that’s how affect that’s how

over there that’s how affect that’s how

over there that’s how affect that’s how we are effective here it’s different

we are effective here it’s different

we are effective here it’s different here you gotta follow the rules and

here you gotta follow the rules and

here you gotta follow the rules and that’s why when people people are most

that’s why when people people are most

that’s why when people people are most miserable when they don’t conform when

miserable when they don’t conform when

miserable when they don’t conform when they don’t follow the rules and they

they don’t follow the rules and they

they don’t follow the rules and they don’t conform to it because they don’t

don’t conform to it because they don’t

don’t conform to it because they don’t feel like they’re as functional as they

feel like they’re as functional as they

feel like they’re as functional as they can be they’re not as effective and when

can be they’re not as effective and when

can be they’re not as effective and when you do conform and when you really do

you do conform and when you really do

you do conform and when you really do you know do things on time and get and

you know do things on time and get and

you know do things on time and get and be there on time and be ready you get

be there on time and be ready you get

be there on time and be ready you get the results you want

the results you want

the results you want and that’s how I managed to go to the

and that’s how I managed to go to the

and that’s how I managed to go to the Olympic Games in 2016 thank you thank

Olympic Games in 2016 thank you thank

Olympic Games in 2016 thank you thank you thank you yes I made sure thank you

you thank you yes I made sure thank you

you thank you yes I made sure thank you I made sure that I like I was training

I made sure that I like I was training

I made sure that I like I was training in a Swiss way you know I was on there I

in a Swiss way you know I was on there I

in a Swiss way you know I was on there I was there on time I did my trainings and

was there on time I did my trainings and

was there on time I did my trainings and I conformed and therefore I got the

I conformed and therefore I got the

I conformed and therefore I got the results I wanted so let’s talk about the

results I wanted so let’s talk about the

results I wanted so let’s talk about the Olympics a little bit you know I got a I

Olympics a little bit you know I got a I

Olympics a little bit you know I got a I got it the Olympics is insane it was

got it the Olympics is insane it was

got it the Olympics is insane it was incredible it is the most human place a

incredible it is the most human place a

incredible it is the most human place a man imaginable you know I’m trying to

man imaginable you know I’m trying to

man imaginable you know I’m trying to stay on theme it is because you only

stay on theme it is because you only

stay on theme it is because you only think about it’s it’s it’s the human

think about it’s it’s it’s the human

think about it’s it’s it’s the human body just doing the most insane stuff

body just doing the most insane stuff

body just doing the most insane stuff and you know with every team that was at

and you know with every team that was at

and you know with every team that was at the games you felt a different energy

the games you felt a different energy

the games you felt a different energy and I kind of categorized them into

and I kind of categorized them into

and I kind of categorized them into three so there were the enthusiasts the

three so there were the enthusiasts the

three so there were the enthusiasts the Isolators and the fangirls I think you

Isolators and the fangirls I think you

Isolators and the fangirls I think you know where I fit in

know where I fit in

know where I fit in yeah so the enthusiasts Americans really

yeah so the enthusiasts Americans really

yeah so the enthusiasts Americans really really excited to be there like they

really excited to be there like they

really excited to be there like they were I remember sitting in the cafeteria

were I remember sitting in the cafeteria

were I remember sitting in the cafeteria and all of a sudden just you could smell

yeah yeah and you just hear like this

yeah yeah and you just hear like this background noise like him but I should

background noise like him but I should

background noise like him but I should say foreground noise because it’s so

say foreground noise because it’s so

say foreground noise because it’s so loud and you don’t interviews they were

loud and you don’t interviews they were

loud and you don’t interviews they were so excited they were so excited you know

so excited they were so excited you know

so excited they were so excited you know they’re like yeah we’re here we got

they’re like yeah we’re here we got

they’re like yeah we’re here we got Phelps we got biles we got everyone on

Phelps we got biles we got everyone on

Phelps we got biles we got everyone on the team mom hey I’d see you there but

the team mom hey I’d see you there but

the team mom hey I’d see you there but it’s just so excited and they would do

it’s just so excited and they would do

it’s just so excited and they would do so well and then you had the complete

so well and then you had the complete

so well and then you had the complete opposite which were the isolated and so

opposite which were the isolated and so

opposite which were the isolated and so I remember I remember this very clearly

I remember I remember this very clearly

I remember I remember this very clearly I felt when they arrived because I was

I felt when they arrived because I was

I felt when they arrived because I was walking towards the bus stop and it just

walking towards the bus stop and it just

walking towards the bus stop and it just got really cold like the temperate like

got really cold like the temperate like

got really cold like the temperate like physically like the temperature just

physically like the temperature just

physically like the temperature just have dropped or something because the

have dropped or something because the

have dropped or something because the Germans had arrived and you felt it and

Germans had arrived and you felt it and

Germans had arrived and you felt it and I mean like that’s what’s interesting is

I mean like that’s what’s interesting is

I mean like that’s what’s interesting is that they just went they want and no one

that they just went they want and no one

that they just went they want and no one saw them again like they would just hide

saw them again like they would just hide

saw them again like they would just hide out like they just they just go they

out like they just they just go they

out like they just they just go they take the medal to me leave and I

take the medal to me leave and I

take the medal to me leave and I remember I remember um I remember in

remember I remember um I remember in

remember I remember um I remember in interviews they’d be like yes we’re here

interviews they’d be like yes we’re here

interviews they’d be like yes we’re here and we’re going to apply we’re very

and we’re going to apply we’re very

and we’re going to apply we’re very excited and I’m sorry that’s all the

excited and I’m sorry that’s all the

excited and I’m sorry that’s all the time we ups today and they were just

time we ups today and they were just

time we ups today and they were just like leave bye and then there were

like leave bye and then there were

like leave bye and then there were people like me you know the fangirls who

people like me you know the fangirls who

people like me you know the fangirls who uh didn’t really know what they were

uh didn’t really know what they were

uh didn’t really know what they were doing just kind of chillin and it’s

doing just kind of chillin and it’s

doing just kind of chillin and it’s interesting the Olympics is very

interesting the Olympics is very

interesting the Olympics is very interesting because I’ve never seen a

interesting because I’ve never seen a

interesting because I’ve never seen a place where everyone pretends to not

place where everyone pretends to not

place where everyone pretends to not know each other it’s like being on the

know each other it’s like being on the

know each other it’s like being on the red carpet but for athletes like you

red carpet but for athletes like you

red carpet but for athletes like you just pretend like you’re like oh Michael

just pretend like you’re like oh Michael

just pretend like you’re like oh Michael Michael Phelps you know I did see him

Michael Phelps you know I did see him

Michael Phelps you know I did see him from a far away you know I was like sup

from a far away you know I was like sup

from a far away you know I was like sup Michael Simone biles walked past me

Michael Simone biles walked past me

Michael Simone biles walked past me she’s really small I think she walked

she’s really small I think she walked

she’s really small I think she walked past me it could have been any I’m just

past me it could have been any I’m just

past me it could have been any I’m just really short yeah but the moments where

really short yeah but the moments where

really short yeah but the moments where I think I almost broke whose when I saw

I think I almost broke whose when I saw

I think I almost broke whose when I saw Usain Bolt’s yeah yeah any both fans

Usain Bolt’s yeah yeah any both fans

Usain Bolt’s yeah yeah any both fans everyone’s a Bulls fan why did I ask man

everyone’s a Bulls fan why did I ask man

everyone’s a Bulls fan why did I ask man so we were standing in a lunch line he’s

so we were standing in a lunch line he’s

so we were standing in a lunch line he’s just there he’s like hey I’m you saying

just there he’s like hey I’m you saying

just there he’s like hey I’m you saying and that’s the thing you can’t be a

and that’s the thing you can’t be a

and that’s the thing you can’t be a fangirl at the Olympics when you’re in

fangirl at the Olympics when you’re in

fangirl at the Olympics when you’re in the Olympics so I was like okay gotta

the Olympics so I was like okay gotta

the Olympics so I was like okay gotta act cool got out cool you know cool cool

act cool got out cool you know cool cool

act cool got out cool you know cool cool Usain are you sane ah okay okay yeah oh

Usain are you sane ah okay okay yeah oh

Usain are you sane ah okay okay yeah oh well it’s nice to meet what’s your last

well it’s nice to meet what’s your last

well it’s nice to meet what’s your last name bolts cool cool is like Joe you

name bolts cool cool is like Joe you

name bolts cool cool is like Joe you must be fast

he’s like yeah yeah so I’m like so

he’s like yeah yeah so I’m like so what’s your event sprinting good luck

what’s your event sprinting good luck

what’s your event sprinting good luck and then you know he’s like ah sigh Oh

and then you know he’s like ah sigh Oh

and then you know he’s like ah sigh Oh me I’m a rower oh oh oh my name Nadia my

me I’m a rower oh oh oh my name Nadia my

me I’m a rower oh oh oh my name Nadia my last thing oh you don’t want to know

last thing oh you don’t want to know

last thing oh you don’t want to know thank you that’s my time thank you very

thank you that’s my time thank you very

thank you that’s my time thank you very much

much

much [Applause]

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