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Crush War with Joy | Marya Zarif | TEDxMontrealWomen


[Music]

this week we still bombed a

school in syria if you type syria on

google on your phones or anywhere

where you will fall on an image that

I do not advise you to see that

destruction images that images of

dead than ugly horrible pictures

gray

I do not think any of us

would like us to talk about his country and

we talk about someone they love

in this way especially since for

me and for all other Syrians the

Syria was the place of our construction

and not our destruction month the

syria i know her i love her i ‘m here

born i grew up i’m mayor

it’s not a feat to eat nothing does

I was born at the epp precisely you

hear dahleb speak this city

destroyed

and yet lip for me if I

close your eyes I’ll ask you to

close them maybe with me the

first thing that comes to mind

it’s a beautiful smell a smell of

buns with cinnamon then a taste of

cherry and pistachio ice cream

there was under my grandparents’ house

there was a place a baker and

his brother who sold ice cream

it was right in front and then me my

childhood had gone from one street to

the other one a little bit of a breast

a piece of breast a piece of that was

magnificent

and if I close my eyes and I

grow a little bit more

I hear noises I hear the sound

world church bells

with the sound of the calls to prayer of the

Muslims who get tangled up

together and then I see bigeon

flying in the sky doing circles

also got wind from one place to another

they go on the bell tower

they go on the minaret they go on the

steeple they go on the minaret and that’s

like that too the series it was

for me the discovery of sexuality

of love the beauty of this

discovery one of them my body is

also it was the mans wonders and

the pride of belonging that I have

felt the first time I’m

entered a Syrian house a

Syrian traditional house is this

you know the houses

traditional Syrian all that we

tells you about the welcome on the sweetness

is summarized in these houses there one

often happens in homes

traditional Syrian walking

in small streets there is nothing around

of us it’s stone walls and then we

asks us to lower our head

to enter a small door age

you see better and mende market in

a corridor

and then all of a sudden we come across the

heaven on earth and it’s not a

joke it’s a little cocoon of paradise

on earth every house has its own

sky with its own stars each

house at its water basin in the center

with his cats dancing alkos and challans

and stairs that turns because the

rooms are up the living rooms are in

down and the inner courtyard to his

own fruit trees its apricots

will give up its cherries and jasmines that

are everywhere on walls that are like

Earth stars with smells

of perfumes the Syrian poets 10 of

Syrian houses that these are

females of the dice and that’s how it is

that we feel them and that I go in

every country in the world there is no country

which for me is as wonderful as

Syria not because it’s the most

beautiful country of the world but because it is

the country where at least I have experienced but

first wonder

this is the place where I have at least

felt the taste of life while

I was finally there today at 5.5

millions of Syrian children affected by

the war 5.5 million world and

crumbling Syrian houses destroyed

children who have seen things that they

should never have seen wounded

from the dead of the parents destroyed from

inside of the future to break the

trades collapsed entire neighborhoods

in ashes and then people and people

who leave the show with their

kids on their backs with packets

who leave they do not know where they are going

they not know where they go my

shares and these kids there they follow and

often they are a nuisance a little

because you have to give them something to eat

you need the islands

you have to be there for them but nobody

is there for them he followed

not understand and it’s horrible to

leave the children in front of this

misunderstanding I mean me no

the more I do not understand they understand

not only do they live from bereavement

and pain and we will all live

in life but what they understand

no is the question to which we do not

not answer and that no one can

answer that’s why we destroy the

life while she is so beautiful

why we continue to wage war

so she hurts us so badly

I confess that I am speechless

I do not know what to tell them maybe

we must not tell them an attempt to

try to answer the question we

the same while doing life

because the great victim of the war

it’s life itself

it is she who suffers and the war

is not a reason to love

more life on the contrary war is

the reason to love life even more

and that’s people in syria who

have learned that they teach us

people you do not hear about

we hear the sound of the bombs we hear

the noise of chaos we hear the noise the

policy

we hear the horrible din of all

that we hear people leaving the

country the refugee stories but this

we hear because we do not know

it is that in Syria even there are

gardeners and fashion designers and

seamstresses who are quietly

with a thread and a needle it’s

small arms who are they are trying

to close the earth where it hurts

they are repairing syria

where it man what they are doing

then in the besieged areas

there are some who plant gardens that

created gardens and vegetable gardens for

to make vegetables to eat because we

can not find food in the areas

besieged in the destroyed areas

there is one who decides to create

small schools that invites these

neighborhood kids who make them

school at home and who center who

are together helping each other

there are some who create circles of

solidarity there are women one of whom

friend of mine who left everything here who

was returning to Syria to create a

sewing workshop with women

are all happy to create

small items they sell for

survive there is also this dad at alep

in a destroyed neighborhood that decided

to bring around him children from

neighborhood and that they had together

paint in buses of all colors and

the wound the bus of the future is mounted

in

and like that he had crossed the

war came from the other side

happy and there are those who make play the

children

today we have created a

foundation called the foundation I

want to play

we decided to put makers of

life we ​​also distance the foundation

I want to play wants to push the kids

from war to love new life

wants to make them feel the sense of

life because really loving more

in addition we want to create an army

of lovers of life is the best

army against the war so why

the game we are often made we get

often criticized we get told but

ok the game can wait there are others

emergencies frankly the kids have

need but your going to school the

children need to eat from

dress of course but if I you

tell why the game for a child is

as if I told you life can

expect

because the game is the work of the

children

it is the essence of living beings

for a child even animals play

it’s the game the game is the

movement of the natural nature for

to be part of life to take it

to test it I have a little kitten

recent weeks it jumps

everywhere they try everything and thrush everything

he turns everywhere it’s really his

natural way of knowing the world

in which he is to know himself

himself and find his place play

in fact it is and I work in

the game is what I do in life

I create children’s games for that

that I believe in the game play it’s

create a space with certain rules

and in the interior of this space where

you are safe you are completely

free play is also an action

and have a reaction just this

reaction gives you a sense of life

and fulfillment of john the hymn not

really we’re looking for

in addition to play is to play with the

other so sacred connections that you

redo alive smell it takes again the

power inside you on the

life when I play I am deeply

living

we even saw the impact of our

action

a month ago we created our first

play area in northern syria

below turkey in a camp

refugees called hotmail there are

300 children living in this camp

refugees with their parents we have

created a large play area with

ddd soccer field

basket ball with all you need for

really play and be completely

in a bubble of play and childhood in

a week ago there were three thousand children

who came from all around

all the other camps play in with

their parents in life actually this is

a call to life we ​​have seen that

even in the midst of misery

despair calls life she will make

miracles

I dream that one day everywhere in Syria

and all over the world there are

calls to life as calls to the

prayer like church steeples and

we would see all the living come and play

to be happy to be together because

children from my country will not be

that survivors of the war nor that

refugees

the children of my country because they

have experienced war they will

big living and that’s the best

slap that we can give to the war

thank you

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