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Creating My Own Form of Excellence | Mika Fabella | TEDxUPDiliman


so anyway I’m sure as you pulled in

so anyway I’m sure as you pulled in through you pee today you saw the rows

through you pee today you saw the rows

through you pee today you saw the rows of growing sunflowers it’s tradition for

of growing sunflowers it’s tradition for

of growing sunflowers it’s tradition for of course the University of the

of course the University of the

of course the University of the Philippines to present these through the

Philippines to present these through the

Philippines to present these through the fresh batch of graduates each year each

fresh batch of graduates each year each

fresh batch of graduates each year each year as a parting gift I’m happy to say

year as a parting gift I’m happy to say

year as a parting gift I’m happy to say that this year one of those sunflowers

that this year one of those sunflowers

that this year one of those sunflowers is for me yay I’m graduating I cannot

is for me yay I’m graduating I cannot

is for me yay I’m graduating I cannot let you think it’s a big deal

let you think it’s a big deal

let you think it’s a big deal I’m sure got that you have like 30 other

I’m sure got that you have like 30 other

I’m sure got that you have like 30 other friends who probably have their grand

friends who probably have their grand

friends who probably have their grand fakes as their profile pictures on

fakes as their profile pictures on

fakes as their profile pictures on Facebook nipa well it’s a really big

Facebook nipa well it’s a really big

Facebook nipa well it’s a really big deal for me

deal for me

deal for me that’s a I didn’t graduate grade school

that’s a I didn’t graduate grade school

that’s a I didn’t graduate grade school and I didn’t go to high school so this

and I didn’t go to high school so this

and I didn’t go to high school so this diploma that I’m gonna get in June is

diploma that I’m gonna get in June is

diploma that I’m gonna get in June is the first diploma ever in my life I’m

the first diploma ever in my life I’m

the first diploma ever in my life I’m sure you’re wondering how that happened

sure you’re wondering how that happened

sure you’re wondering how that happened how is that possible well I’m going to

how is that possible well I’m going to

how is that possible well I’m going to have to start at the very beginning

that’s me I don’t know if you recognize

that’s me I don’t know if you recognize the uniform but I won’t say the school I

the uniform but I won’t say the school I

the uniform but I won’t say the school I was an average student I went to an

was an average student I went to an

was an average student I went to an all-girls Catholic school it was kind of

all-girls Catholic school it was kind of

all-girls Catholic school it was kind of elite I was you know unremarkable

elite I was you know unremarkable

elite I was you know unremarkable I got neither a snore apps or C’s I

I got neither a snore apps or C’s I

I got neither a snore apps or C’s I hated doing my homework

hated doing my homework

hated doing my homework I never reviewed for my quarterly exams

I never reviewed for my quarterly exams

I never reviewed for my quarterly exams it was I wasn’t really just you know

it was I wasn’t really just you know

it was I wasn’t really just you know your average student there was nothing

your average student there was nothing

your average student there was nothing special about me but then life happened

special about me but then life happened

special about me but then life happened and something very interesting happened

what started out as a life of lavish and

what started out as a life of lavish and comfort for me my family my kids

comfort for me my family my kids

comfort for me my family my kids eventually turned out into nightmare of

eventually turned out into nightmare of

eventually turned out into nightmare of nothingness I won’t go into the details

nothingness I won’t go into the details

nothingness I won’t go into the details of the telenovela but bad decisions were

of the telenovela but bad decisions were

of the telenovela but bad decisions were made and so when I say life of

made and so when I say life of

made and so when I say life of nothingness

nothingness

nothingness absolutely nothing we went bankrupt so

absolutely nothing we went bankrupt so

absolutely nothing we went bankrupt so and then my husband had to go so I was

and then my husband had to go so I was

and then my husband had to go so I was left to tend for you know for four kids

left to tend for you know for four kids

left to tend for you know for four kids and I had two other people in the family

and I had two other people in the family

and I had two other people in the family at that time there was no money

at that time there was no money

at that time there was no money absolutely no money no bank accounts no

absolutely no money no bank accounts no

absolutely no money no bank accounts no savings not even for an it sure we

savings not even for an it sure we

savings not even for an it sure we didn’t have any furniture no beds no

didn’t have any furniture no beds no

didn’t have any furniture no beds no Christmas trees nothing so I was left

Christmas trees nothing so I was left

Christmas trees nothing so I was left with a certain you know decision to make

with a certain you know decision to make

with a certain you know decision to make certain priorities as to how am I going

certain priorities as to how am I going

certain priorities as to how am I going to live my life and take care of my kids

to live my life and take care of my kids

to live my life and take care of my kids so I had no money for education I had to

so I had no money for education I had to

so I had no money for education I had to look for a job which took me away most

look for a job which took me away most

look for a job which took me away most of the time from my kids and so Mika had

of the time from my kids and so Mika had

of the time from my kids and so Mika had to tend on her own educational her own

to tend on her own educational her own

to tend on her own educational her own educational system of homeschooling and

educational system of homeschooling and

educational system of homeschooling and she also did it for her siblings it was

she also did it for her siblings it was

she also did it for her siblings it was a it was not a very you know good time

a it was not a very you know good time

a it was not a very you know good time in our lives but looking back and seeing

in our lives but looking back and seeing

in our lives but looking back and seeing where I am right now I’d go through it

where I am right now I’d go through it

where I am right now I’d go through it again after seeing my kids but at that

again after seeing my kids but at that

again after seeing my kids but at that time it was a very very difficult

time it was a very very difficult

time it was a very very difficult journey for all of us as a family

to make things simple we always told

to make things simple we always told people at your home school but we didn’t

people at your home school but we didn’t

people at your home school but we didn’t have an affiliate school we didn’t have

have an affiliate school we didn’t have

have an affiliate school we didn’t have money for a shooter the truth was that

money for a shooter the truth was that

money for a shooter the truth was that we were out of school youth and for the

we were out of school youth and for the

we were out of school youth and for the first two years we were doing nothing

first two years we were doing nothing

first two years we were doing nothing but just bumming around I kept in touch

but just bumming around I kept in touch

but just bumming around I kept in touch with one friend from that’s great school

with one friend from that’s great school

with one friend from that’s great school I think she’s in that picture also I

I think she’s in that picture also I

I think she’s in that picture also I kept in touch with her and sometimes we

kept in touch with her and sometimes we

kept in touch with her and sometimes we would text each other and you know she

would text each other and you know she

would text each other and you know she would ask she’d tell me about her day

would ask she’d tell me about her day

would ask she’d tell me about her day she would say we’re learning polynomials

she would say we’re learning polynomials

she would say we’re learning polynomials today and I would think oh my gosh I

today and I would think oh my gosh I

today and I would think oh my gosh I don’t know what that is

don’t know what that is

don’t know what that is you know what I better go find out what

you know what I better go find out what

you know what I better go find out what that is so I’d go to our library I’d

that is so I’d go to our library I’d

that is so I’d go to our library I’d find an algebra book and I teach myself

find an algebra book and I teach myself

find an algebra book and I teach myself my friend would come back and say oh you

my friend would come back and say oh you

my friend would come back and say oh you know we learned about biology today and

know we learned about biology today and

know we learned about biology today and then I run into the library and I pick

then I run into the library and I pick

then I run into the library and I pick up the biology book this went on and on

up the biology book this went on and on

up the biology book this went on and on until I realized I was finishing the

until I realized I was finishing the

until I realized I was finishing the entire library and I realized that I was

entire library and I realized that I was

entire library and I realized that I was learning on my own I was giving myself

learning on my own I was giving myself

learning on my own I was giving myself an education I encouraged my siblings to

an education I encouraged my siblings to

an education I encouraged my siblings to do the same thing I taught them how to

do the same thing I taught them how to

do the same thing I taught them how to read how to add how to divide subtract

read how to add how to divide subtract

read how to add how to divide subtract multiply this was even more difficult

multiply this was even more difficult

multiply this was even more difficult for my younger two siblings because they

for my younger two siblings because they

for my younger two siblings because they had no formal schooling whatsoever

had no formal schooling whatsoever

had no formal schooling whatsoever my second sister finished grade two and

my second sister finished grade two and

my second sister finished grade two and as my mom mentioned I finished grade

as my mom mentioned I finished grade

as my mom mentioned I finished grade five but other than that we really did

five but other than that we really did

five but other than that we really did not have any formal schooling bit of

not have any formal schooling bit of

not have any formal schooling bit of trivia above myself I’m a huge nerd I

trivia above myself I’m a huge nerd I

trivia above myself I’m a huge nerd I promise this is related

promise this is related

promise this is related I’m a huge nerd I love Star Wars I love

I’m a huge nerd I love Star Wars I love

I’m a huge nerd I love Star Wars I love Lord of the Rings this got me into some

Lord of the Rings this got me into some

Lord of the Rings this got me into some online fan groups I swear this is

online fan groups I swear this is

online fan groups I swear this is related github what happened with these

related github what happened with these

related github what happened with these online fan groups with that I got

online fan groups with that I got

online fan groups with that I got introduced into a whole spectrum of

introduced into a whole spectrum of

introduced into a whole spectrum of people while my batch mates were

people while my batch mates were

people while my batch mates were wondering who they’re going to take to

wondering who they’re going to take to

wondering who they’re going to take to prom wondering how to talk to boys or

prom wondering how to talk to boys or

prom wondering how to talk to boys or something I was talking with businessmen

something I was talking with businessmen

something I was talking with businessmen doctors lawyers

doctors lawyers

doctors lawyers yupi professors artists writers

yupi professors artists writers

yupi professors artists writers performers and these people were

performers and these people were

performers and these people were treating me as a cohort they were

treating me as a cohort they were

treating me as a cohort they were addressing me on a very level they were

addressing me on a very level they were

addressing me on a very level they were my best friends from there

my best friends from there

my best friends from there they gave me my first jobs little

they gave me my first jobs little

they gave me my first jobs little writing assignments here and there or if

writing assignments here and there or if

writing assignments here and there or if they had big events and they needed a

they had big events and they needed a

they had big events and they needed a runner or an assistant they’d let me do

runner or an assistant they’d let me do

runner or an assistant they’d let me do it

it

it of course I was hungry to learn so I

of course I was hungry to learn so I

of course I was hungry to learn so I accepted these jobs and eventually I

accepted these jobs and eventually I

accepted these jobs and eventually I actually got a sales and marketing job

actually got a sales and marketing job

actually got a sales and marketing job at an IT company just because I knew

at an IT company just because I knew

at an IT company just because I knew these people of course

these people of course

these people of course and I met new people throughout my life

and I met new people throughout my life

and I met new people throughout my life there’s always that one question that

there’s always that one question that

there’s always that one question that came back to haunt me because when you

came back to haunt me because when you

came back to haunt me because when you would meet someone new and you start a

would meet someone new and you start a

would meet someone new and you start a conversation they would always ask hey

conversation they would always ask hey

conversation they would always ask hey where’d you go to school

where’d you go to school

where’d you go to school and I say oh I didn’t and if you like

and I say oh I didn’t and if you like

and I say oh I didn’t and if you like aha funny and then I actually got tired

aha funny and then I actually got tired

aha funny and then I actually got tired of explaining myself and I thought you

of explaining myself and I thought you

of explaining myself and I thought you know what maybe I should sing about

know what maybe I should sing about

know what maybe I should sing about going back to school and you know as

going back to school and you know as

going back to school and you know as time went on my batch mates I realized

time went on my batch mates I realized

time went on my batch mates I realized for graduating and they hadn’t heard

for graduating and they hadn’t heard

for graduating and they hadn’t heard nice grad fix and everything and I was

nice grad fix and everything and I was

nice grad fix and everything and I was like you know what maybe I want that too

like you know what maybe I want that too

like you know what maybe I want that too maybe I’m going to make this decision

maybe I’m going to make this decision

maybe I’m going to make this decision I’m going to go back to school so one

I’m going to go back to school so one

I’m going to go back to school so one day literally one day I walk into Devon

day literally one day I walk into Devon

day literally one day I walk into Devon and I said well a pause on high school

and I said well a pause on high school

and I said well a pause on high school diploma how do I go to college and it

diploma how do I go to college and it

diploma how do I go to college and it was so funny because they couldn’t even

was so funny because they couldn’t even

was so funny because they couldn’t even grasp my situation the first thing they

grasp my situation the first thing they

grasp my situation the first thing they said was back at them the lingam of

said was back at them the lingam of

said was back at them the lingam of English look at modern comics Alita it’s

English look at modern comics Alita it’s

English look at modern comics Alita it’s like they couldn’t fathom that I taught

like they couldn’t fathom that I taught

like they couldn’t fathom that I taught myself or they couldn’t fathom that I

myself or they couldn’t fathom that I

myself or they couldn’t fathom that I educated myself or that I learned how to

educated myself or that I learned how to

educated myself or that I learned how to speak or be literate through any other

speak or be literate through any other

speak or be literate through any other means other than my high school other

means other than my high school other

means other than my high school other than a high school experience they

than a high school experience they

than a high school experience they directed me towards the house which is

directed me towards the house which is

directed me towards the house which is the alternative learning system exam

the alternative learning system exam

the alternative learning system exam now the off schedule is a little weird

now the off schedule is a little weird

now the off schedule is a little weird because it happened for the later part

because it happened for the later part

because it happened for the later part of the year when all of the entrance

of the year when all of the entrance

of the year when all of the entrance exams are done already and then they

exams are done already and then they

exams are done already and then they release the salt the results months

release the salt the results months

release the salt the results months later so I thought so I’d have to wait

later so I thought so I’d have to wait

later so I thought so I’d have to wait two more years just for this I mean okay

two more years just for this I mean okay

two more years just for this I mean okay maybe this is too much trouble and I

maybe this is too much trouble and I

maybe this is too much trouble and I thought I was inpatient now so maybe

thought I was inpatient now so maybe

thought I was inpatient now so maybe this is too much trouble and I already

this is too much trouble and I already

this is too much trouble and I already have a job

have a job

have a job don’t people go to college to get the

don’t people go to college to get the

don’t people go to college to get the job so why am I doing this and I thought

job so why am I doing this and I thought

job so why am I doing this and I thought you know what I’m going to apply to one

you know what I’m going to apply to one

you know what I’m going to apply to one cool and if I don’t get in maybe I just

cool and if I don’t get in maybe I just

cool and if I don’t get in maybe I just won’t go for it

won’t go for it

won’t go for it but guess what I pass I passed you P and

but guess what I pass I passed you P and

but guess what I pass I passed you P and at the age of 23 I had my second first

at the age of 23 I had my second first

at the age of 23 I had my second first day of school I think that as a parent I

day of school I think that as a parent I

day of school I think that as a parent I don’t know if some of your parents

don’t know if some of your parents

don’t know if some of your parents already but as a parent there is no

already but as a parent there is no

already but as a parent there is no greater honor and you know pride that

greater honor and you know pride that

greater honor and you know pride that you know you feel fun seeing your

you know you feel fun seeing your

you know you feel fun seeing your children your daughter and your son

children your daughter and your son

children your daughter and your son graduate with diploma you know it’s it’s

graduate with diploma you know it’s it’s

graduate with diploma you know it’s it’s like an achievement that you also give

like an achievement that you also give

like an achievement that you also give yourself but for me personally speaking

yourself but for me personally speaking

yourself but for me personally speaking there are no words to describe what I

there are no words to describe what I

there are no words to describe what I feel the pride that I have upon seeing

feel the pride that I have upon seeing

feel the pride that I have upon seeing Mika and even with my three other kids

Mika and even with my three other kids

Mika and even with my three other kids her sister is on her second degree also

her sister is on her second degree also

her sister is on her second degree also here in UB she’s in fine arts

here in UB she’s in fine arts

here in UB she’s in fine arts she finished you pou and she’s taking

she finished you pou and she’s taking

she finished you pou and she’s taking Fine Arts my son the brother just is now

Fine Arts my son the brother just is now

Fine Arts my son the brother just is now in you pou as well and the sister is

in you pou as well and the sister is

in you pou as well and the sister is also applying for you pou after she

also applying for you pou after she

also applying for you pou after she takes her out so this is something that

takes her out so this is something that

takes her out so this is something that they did on their own all I all I could

they did on their own all I all I could

they did on their own all I all I could do at the time when I was trying to make

do at the time when I was trying to make

do at the time when I was trying to make ends meet you know trying to look for

ends meet you know trying to look for

ends meet you know trying to look for money for food every day payment for

money for food every day payment for

money for food every day payment for rent we didn’t have a house we didn’t

rent we didn’t have a house we didn’t

rent we didn’t have a house we didn’t own a house I mean we had the house but

own a house I mean we had the house but

own a house I mean we had the house but we were renting and utilities water

we were renting and utilities water

we were renting and utilities water electricity all that it and I was you

electricity all that it and I was you

electricity all that it and I was you know I had a very menial job so my pay

know I had a very menial job so my pay

know I had a very menial job so my pay wasn’t even enough so that alone seeing

wasn’t even enough so that alone seeing

wasn’t even enough so that alone seeing the four of them strive especially with

the four of them strive especially with

the four of them strive especially with Mika there are no words no words so that

Mika there are no words no words so that

Mika there are no words no words so that alone is already an achievement that you

alone is already an achievement that you

alone is already an achievement that you know I feel like it’s something that

know I feel like it’s something that

know I feel like it’s something that will make her go through life no fears

will make her go through life no fears

will make her go through life no fears no no apprehensions as to what she can

no no apprehensions as to what she can

no no apprehensions as to what she can achieve for herself which I think

achieve for herself which I think

achieve for herself which I think personally if there

personally if there

personally if there is something that I can you know

is something that I can you know

is something that I can you know whatever little advice that I can give

whatever little advice that I can give

whatever little advice that I can give you is that

you is that

you is that never underestimate yourselves never you

never underestimate yourselves never you

never underestimate yourselves never you know your ideas never underestimate your

know your ideas never underestimate your

know your ideas never underestimate your ideas no matter how small or how

ideas no matter how small or how

ideas no matter how small or how unimportant it may be you have an idea

unimportant it may be you have an idea

unimportant it may be you have an idea one day if you have to write it down

one day if you have to write it down

one day if you have to write it down write it down and your interests your

write it down and your interests your

write it down and your interests your talents your skills what are you good at

talents your skills what are you good at

talents your skills what are you good at do it

do it

do it make yourselves happy with what you are

make yourselves happy with what you are

make yourselves happy with what you are doing right now even while you’re while

doing right now even while you’re while

doing right now even while you’re while you’re studying so that you know life

you’re studying so that you know life

you’re studying so that you know life doesn’t just become like a routine you

doesn’t just become like a routine you

doesn’t just become like a routine you know you’re striving to go to where if

know you’re striving to go to where if

know you’re striving to go to where if you want yourselves to be after 10 years

you want yourselves to be after 10 years

you want yourselves to be after 10 years but you know persevere and never

but you know persevere and never

but you know persevere and never undermine your abilities as a person at

undermine your abilities as a person at

undermine your abilities as a person at the same time do not also undermine your

the same time do not also undermine your

the same time do not also undermine your weaknesses because once you understand

weaknesses because once you understand

weaknesses because once you understand your witnesses then all the more you

your witnesses then all the more you

your witnesses then all the more you will see your strengths as a person and

will see your strengths as a person and

will see your strengths as a person and you know knowing this knowing these

you know knowing this knowing these

you know knowing this knowing these talents knowing this shortcomings that

talents knowing this shortcomings that

talents knowing this shortcomings that you have in yourselves as persons you

you have in yourselves as persons you

you have in yourselves as persons you can make the right choices for yourself

can make the right choices for yourself

can make the right choices for yourself so for you to be happy so it’s you know

so for you to be happy so it’s you know

so for you to be happy so it’s you know you don’t get to a point where you’re

you don’t get to a point where you’re

you don’t get to a point where you’re tired and you don’t want to go on life

tired and you don’t want to go on life

tired and you don’t want to go on life is not that way life is beautiful

is not that way life is beautiful

is not that way life is beautiful you should make happy choices you should

you should make happy choices you should

you should make happy choices you should be happy you know every day and look

be happy you know every day and look

be happy you know every day and look forward to something every day learn

forward to something every day learn

forward to something every day learn something new you know I’m sure it’s

something new you know I’m sure it’s

something new you know I’m sure it’s something that you read every day but

something that you read every day but

something that you read every day but for somebody who’s gone through what I

for somebody who’s gone through what I

for somebody who’s gone through what I have gone through this is something that

have gone through this is something that

have gone through this is something that is very important if I could go back to

is very important if I could go back to

is very important if I could go back to your ages now you know I I would have

your ages now you know I I would have

your ages now you know I I would have made better choices but I did not so as

made better choices but I did not so as

made better choices but I did not so as a parent I’m very very proud of my kids

a parent I’m very very proud of my kids

a parent I’m very very proud of my kids and standing before you right now I’m

and standing before you right now I’m

and standing before you right now I’m not really used to talking too much

not really used to talking too much

not really used to talking too much tutto to to people all I can say is that

tutto to to people all I can say is that

tutto to to people all I can say is that um if you make the right choices

um if you make the right choices

um if you make the right choices then that will be a pedal to catapult

then that will be a pedal to catapult

then that will be a pedal to catapult you to the road that you want to take

you to the road that you want to take

you to the road that you want to take later on to you know whatever however

later on to you know whatever however

later on to you know whatever however you want to live your lives later on and

you want to live your lives later on and

you want to live your lives later on and always remember that at the end of the

always remember that at the end of the

always remember that at the end of the day you can always ask yourselves did I

day you can always ask yourselves did I

day you can always ask yourselves did I make the right choice today no matter

make the right choice today no matter

make the right choice today no matter how small the choice is and I’m a better

how small the choice is and I’m a better

how small the choice is and I’m a better person today than when I woke up this

person today than when I woke up this

person today than when I woke up this morning just a piece of advice from me

so as a mature student my college life

so as a mature student my college life was a little different of course there

was a little different of course there

was a little different of course there was a time when life caught up it was

was a time when life caught up it was

was a time when life caught up it was hard to balance work and studies but

hard to balance work and studies but

hard to balance work and studies but there are also some very very very good

there are also some very very very good

there are also some very very very good advantages I was older and I was wiser I

advantages I was older and I was wiser I

advantages I was older and I was wiser I knew the value of every single day in

knew the value of every single day in

knew the value of every single day in this university I knew the value of

this university I knew the value of

this university I knew the value of every single lecture Tehama and a half

every single lecture Tehama and a half

every single lecture Tehama and a half on top hello physics 10 the bath

on top hello physics 10 the bath

on top hello physics 10 the bath I knew the value of every single lecture

I knew the value of every single lecture

I knew the value of every single lecture I knew the value of every single peso

I knew the value of every single peso

I knew the value of every single peso that was spent on my tuition because

that was spent on my tuition because

that was spent on my tuition because after all I was paying for part of it I

after all I was paying for part of it I

after all I was paying for part of it I knew that I wanted to study in a course

knew that I wanted to study in a course

knew that I wanted to study in a course that I wanted not a course that I needed

that I wanted not a course that I needed

that I wanted not a course that I needed or not a course that would just give me

or not a course that would just give me

or not a course that would just give me money it’s five years of your life here

money it’s five years of your life here

money it’s five years of your life here in the university why not study

in the university why not study

in the university why not study something that you truly want

something that you truly want

something that you truly want Philippines Society has this sort of

Philippines Society has this sort of

Philippines Society has this sort of notion that you know you have to stay in

notion that you know you have to stay in

notion that you know you have to stay in school so that you can get good grades

school so that you can get good grades

school so that you can get good grades so that you can go to a good college so

so that you can go to a good college so

so that you can go to a good college so that you can get the Diploma so that you

that you can get the Diploma so that you

that you can get the Diploma so that you can have a good job so that you can have

can have a good job so that you can have

can have a good job so that you can have a good life

a good life

a good life but is it really like that is it really

but is it really like that is it really

but is it really like that is it really a cause and effect kind of thing because

a cause and effect kind of thing because

a cause and effect kind of thing because in this linear sort of setup we forget

in this linear sort of setup we forget

in this linear sort of setup we forget the very essence of education and we

the very essence of education and we

the very essence of education and we forget the very essence of learning

forget the very essence of learning

forget the very essence of learning suddenly it’s all about getting a

suddenly it’s all about getting a

suddenly it’s all about getting a diploma to get the job it’s not about

diploma to get the job it’s not about

diploma to get the job it’s not about learning we forget that it’s not that

learning we forget that it’s not that

learning we forget that it’s not that simple it’s a lot more complex than that

simple it’s a lot more complex than that

simple it’s a lot more complex than that after all we do have billionaire

after all we do have billionaire

after all we do have billionaire billionaires who haven’t graduated high

billionaires who haven’t graduated high

billionaires who haven’t graduated high school and we have class

school and we have class

school and we have class torian’s who have mediocre jobs my

torian’s who have mediocre jobs my

torian’s who have mediocre jobs my experience has taught me a few things

experience has taught me a few things

experience has taught me a few things one is that learning can’t be quantified

one is that learning can’t be quantified

one is that learning can’t be quantified when I introduced no idea how to write a

when I introduced no idea how to write a

when I introduced no idea how to write a research paper or a thesis but I did

research paper or a thesis but I did

research paper or a thesis but I did know how to talk I knew that I could

know how to talk I knew that I could

know how to talk I knew that I could talk my way into anything I knew how to

talk my way into anything I knew how to

talk my way into anything I knew how to pitch and these were skills that no high

pitch and these were skills that no high

pitch and these were skills that no high school experience would have ever given

school experience would have ever given

school experience would have ever given me it was more important because I had

me it was more important because I had

me it was more important because I had these skills that I could use in real

these skills that I could use in real

these skills that I could use in real life but maybe that’s what it’s about

life but maybe that’s what it’s about

life but maybe that’s what it’s about it’s about taking the skills that you

it’s about taking the skills that you

it’s about taking the skills that you learn here and using them in your lives

learn here and using them in your lives

learn here and using them in your lives if say for example a sculptor were to

if say for example a sculptor were to

if say for example a sculptor were to take an engineering class and he fails

take an engineering class and he fails

take an engineering class and he fails epically his professor wants to disown

epically his professor wants to disown

epically his professor wants to disown him and tells him to drop out or

him and tells him to drop out or

him and tells him to drop out or something but what if because of that

something but what if because of that

something but what if because of that engineering class he develops an

engineering class he develops an

engineering class he develops an interest in nuts and bolts and screws

interest in nuts and bolts and screws

interest in nuts and bolts and screws and then makes a grand sculpture out of

and then makes a grand sculpture out of

and then makes a grand sculpture out of them would you say that that class is

them would you say that that class is

them would you say that that class is entirely useless

entirely useless

entirely useless maybe not learning it’s constant it’s

maybe not learning it’s constant it’s

maybe not learning it’s constant it’s free-flowing and it doesn’t exactly have

free-flowing and it doesn’t exactly have

free-flowing and it doesn’t exactly have to boil down to a letter like an A or an

to boil down to a letter like an A or an

to boil down to a letter like an A or an F or a grade or a number like a goon or

F or a grade or a number like a goon or

F or a grade or a number like a goon or single another is that learning takes

single another is that learning takes

single another is that learning takes time different amounts of time for

time different amounts of time for

time different amounts of time for different people when you’re 17 or 18

different people when you’re 17 or 18

different people when you’re 17 or 18 you don’t exactly know who you are yet

you don’t exactly know who you are yet

you don’t exactly know who you are yet and you don’t exactly know what you want

and you don’t exactly know what you want

and you don’t exactly know what you want and yet it’s at this point when we’re

and yet it’s at this point when we’re

and yet it’s at this point when we’re making a life-changing decision you’re

making a life-changing decision you’re

making a life-changing decision you’re choosing your course in college you’re

choosing your course in college you’re

choosing your course in college you’re choosing how to spend the next 4 5 or

choosing how to spend the next 4 5 or

choosing how to spend the next 4 5 or maybe 6 years of your life it’s not it’s

maybe 6 years of your life it’s not it’s

maybe 6 years of your life it’s not it’s a big big deal what if teenagers were

a big big deal what if teenagers were

a big big deal what if teenagers were allowed to experience life first what if

allowed to experience life first what if

allowed to experience life first what if you were allowed to find out what it is

you were allowed to find out what it is

you were allowed to find out what it is you really want what it was like what if

you really want what it was like what if

you really want what it was like what if you allowed to find out what is you

you allowed to find out what is you

you allowed to find out what is you really want to fight for what your

really want to fight for what your

really want to fight for what your strengths are what your weaknesses are

strengths are what your weaknesses are

strengths are what your weaknesses are for you actually dedicate five years of

for you actually dedicate five years of

for you actually dedicate five years of your life into one field of study don’t

your life into one field of study don’t

your life into one field of study don’t you think that maybe your college

you think that maybe your college

you think that maybe your college experiences would be a little different

experiences would be a little different

experiences would be a little different don’t you think that maybe

don’t you think that maybe

don’t you think that maybe you’d get more out of it if it was that

you’d get more out of it if it was that

you’d get more out of it if it was that way last is that there is no time limit

way last is that there is no time limit

way last is that there is no time limit in learning my story isn’t amazing you

in learning my story isn’t amazing you

in learning my story isn’t amazing you hear you know you go online and you hear

hear you know you go online and you hear

hear you know you go online and you hear stories all the time you hear about

stories all the time you hear about

stories all the time you hear about somebody who maybe took 45 years to

somebody who maybe took 45 years to

somebody who maybe took 45 years to finish law school and then on the other

finish law school and then on the other

finish law school and then on the other end you hear about somebody who

end you hear about somebody who

end you hear about somebody who completed their PhD in two years or

completed their PhD in two years or

completed their PhD in two years or something if you you normally think that

something if you you normally think that

something if you you normally think that the one who completed it in two years is

the one who completed it in two years is

the one who completed it in two years is a genius but whoever said it was a

a genius but whoever said it was a

a genius but whoever said it was a competition it shouldn’t matter how long

competition it shouldn’t matter how long

competition it shouldn’t matter how long it takes you to get to where you want to

it takes you to get to where you want to

it takes you to get to where you want to go whether it takes you 45 years or

go whether it takes you 45 years or

go whether it takes you 45 years or whether it takes you two years suppose

whether it takes you two years suppose

whether it takes you two years suppose you get there and it shouldn’t matter

you get there and it shouldn’t matter

you get there and it shouldn’t matter how long it takes you as long as every

how long it takes you as long as every

how long it takes you as long as every single day that you’re on your journey

single day that you’re on your journey

single day that you’re on your journey you’re making that conscious decision to

you’re making that conscious decision to

you’re making that conscious decision to keep going you’re making that conscious

keep going you’re making that conscious

keep going you’re making that conscious decision to be present and to excel in

decision to be present and to excel in

decision to be present and to excel in every single day anyway I may not have

every single day anyway I may not have

every single day anyway I may not have had a prom or I may not have been like

had a prom or I may not have been like

had a prom or I may not have been like class valedictorian or I may not have

class valedictorian or I may not have

class valedictorian or I may not have been the president of some org in some

been the president of some org in some

been the president of some org in some high school group but I did have

high school group but I did have

high school group but I did have possibly the education that I could have

possibly the education that I could have

possibly the education that I could have ever received and all because I didn’t

ever received and all because I didn’t

ever received and all because I didn’t have one at all I had experiences that

have one at all I had experiences that

have one at all I had experiences that no formal education could have ever

no formal education could have ever

no formal education could have ever taught me and it all started because I

taught me and it all started because I

taught me and it all started because I had that conscious desire to learn I had

had that conscious desire to learn I had

had that conscious desire to learn I had that choice to excel every single day

that choice to excel every single day

that choice to excel every single day that I picked up a book from a library

that I picked up a book from a library

that I picked up a book from a library or every single day that I was here in

or every single day that I was here in

or every single day that I was here in yippee I chose to excel to be excellent

yippee I chose to excel to be excellent

yippee I chose to excel to be excellent every single day to be excellent to

every single day to be excellent to

every single day to be excellent to other people and to get to take that

other people and to get to take that

other people and to get to take that excellent and apply it in the world

excellent and apply it in the world

excellent and apply it in the world around me it’s all about creating

around me it’s all about creating

around me it’s all about creating excellence on your own terms it’s all

excellence on your own terms it’s all

excellence on your own terms it’s all about learning all the time on your own

about learning all the time on your own

about learning all the time on your own terms and while I may

terms and while I may

terms and while I may have had an educational background that

have had an educational background that

have had an educational background that portion is still blank on my resume this

portion is still blank on my resume this

portion is still blank on my resume this is my version of excellence and because

is my version of excellence and because

is my version of excellence and because we are in U P this is my version of

we are in U P this is my version of

we are in U P this is my version of honor and excellence thank you very much

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