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Creating an Overlap: understanding the world through communication | Jiwoon Park | TEDxCooperUnion


we’ll be a little unexpected for some of

we’ll be a little unexpected for some of you because it’s an engineer who is

you because it’s an engineer who is

you because it’s an engineer who is known to have nerdy jokes

known to have nerdy jokes

known to have nerdy jokes efficiency optimization love to have

efficiency optimization love to have

efficiency optimization love to have numbers and who doesn’t talk to people a

numbers and who doesn’t talk to people a

numbers and who doesn’t talk to people a lot we’ll be talking to you about

lot we’ll be talking to you about

lot we’ll be talking to you about communication and this is exactly why I

communication and this is exactly why I

communication and this is exactly why I came to engineering school a lot of

came to engineering school a lot of

came to engineering school a lot of people ask me if you are an engineering

people ask me if you are an engineering

people ask me if you are an engineering school you will love science and math

school you will love science and math

school you will love science and math since when you’re five not true my high

since when you’re five not true my high

since when you’re five not true my high school was more about humanity social

school was more about humanity social

school was more about humanity social science political science and languages

science political science and languages

science political science and languages and I was able to learn a lot of

and I was able to learn a lot of

and I was able to learn a lot of different debates poorly like politics

different debates poorly like politics

different debates poorly like politics global issues and I was on the debate

global issues and I was on the debate

global issues and I was on the debate team doing Model United Nations mock

team doing Model United Nations mock

team doing Model United Nations mock trials and a lot of forensics while I

trials and a lot of forensics while I

trials and a lot of forensics while I was doing that I was able to learn that

was doing that I was able to learn that

was doing that I was able to learn that there are so many cool technologies and

there are so many cool technologies and

there are so many cool technologies and innovations but it’s not implemented

innovations but it’s not implemented

innovations but it’s not implemented well enough because we don’t have a

well enough because we don’t have a

well enough because we don’t have a communication skill that the cool

communication skill that the cool

communication skill that the cool technologies are not well translated

technologies are not well translated

technologies are not well translated enough to the public and that’s how I

enough to the public and that’s how I

enough to the public and that’s how I got interested in engineering and

got interested in engineering and

got interested in engineering and although I was learning a lot about math

although I was learning a lot about math

although I was learning a lot about math and science I was also able to learn

and science I was also able to learn

and science I was also able to learn more about communication I was learning

more about communication I was learning

more about communication I was learning how to work with different groups of

how to work with different groups of

how to work with different groups of people I was learning their perspectives

people I was learning their perspectives

people I was learning their perspectives and I also was learning different way of

and I also was learning different way of

and I also was learning different way of solving solutions and having different

solving solutions and having different

solving solutions and having different like systematic way of thinking but

like systematic way of thinking but

like systematic way of thinking but because I’m an engineer I’ll just try to

because I’m an engineer I’ll just try to

because I’m an engineer I’ll just try to translate some of the things that I

translate some of the things that I

translate some of the things that I learned and I’ll start from the problem

learned and I’ll start from the problem

learned and I’ll start from the problem statement let’s go with really broad in

statement let’s go with really broad in

statement let’s go with really broad in general world problems that we’ve been

general world problems that we’ve been

general world problems that we’ve been seeing since when you’re in elementary

seeing since when you’re in elementary

seeing since when you’re in elementary school people are serving in developing

school people are serving in developing

school people are serving in developing countries we are having a lot of

countries we are having a lot of

countries we are having a lot of socio-economical inequalities a lot of

socio-economical inequalities a lot of

socio-economical inequalities a lot of natural resources are depleting

natural resources are depleting

natural resources are depleting disasters and these problems have been

disasters and these problems have been

disasters and these problems have been there since like ten years ago and after

there since like ten years ago and after

there since like ten years ago and after decades after we grow up it’s still

decades after we grow up it’s still

decades after we grow up it’s still there and when we’re discussing those

there and when we’re discussing those

there and when we’re discussing those problems

problems

problems we realized that we use communication a

we realized that we use communication a

we realized that we use communication a lot I myself was using word

lot I myself was using word

lot I myself was using word communication in the modal United

communication in the modal United

communication in the modal United resolution when I was writing it and in

resolution when I was writing it and in

resolution when I was writing it and in the last class is all about increasing

the last class is all about increasing

the last class is all about increasing awareness creating educational

awareness creating educational

awareness creating educational opportunity having communication and the

opportunity having communication and the

opportunity having communication and the words are overused like a cliche that it

words are overused like a cliche that it

words are overused like a cliche that it almost becomes we just use it without

almost becomes we just use it without

almost becomes we just use it without knowing what it really means and so what

knowing what it really means and so what

knowing what it really means and so what is communication and what’s the point of

is communication and what’s the point of

is communication and what’s the point of it let me give you an example when I was

it let me give you an example when I was

it let me give you an example when I was working with nonprofit organizations in

working with nonprofit organizations in

working with nonprofit organizations in Korea during my high school I was able

Korea during my high school I was able

Korea during my high school I was able to have a workshop about learning how

to have a workshop about learning how

to have a workshop about learning how the global aids can work more

the global aids can work more

the global aids can work more efficiently and there was this one

efficiently and there was this one

efficiently and there was this one lecturer who just inspired me and he was

lecturer who just inspired me and he was

lecturer who just inspired me and he was talking about different donation

talking about different donation

talking about different donation platforms and we as you probably all

platforms and we as you probably all

platforms and we as you probably all know there is donate for your sponsor

know there is donate for your sponsor

know there is donate for your sponsor for your child and you get to choose

for your child and you get to choose

for your child and you get to choose your own child and pay for pay fifty

your own child and pay for pay fifty

your own child and pay for pay fifty seventy hundred dollars per month to

seventy hundred dollars per month to

seventy hundred dollars per month to help them buy food meal plans or books

help them buy food meal plans or books

help them buy food meal plans or books stationaries and all the basic needs and

stationaries and all the basic needs and

stationaries and all the basic needs and you will get their photo their letters

you will get their photo their letters

you will get their photo their letters and their names and their situations and

and their names and their situations and

and their names and their situations and what really happens however is that

what really happens however is that

what really happens however is that because it’s not enough money to make an

because it’s not enough money to make an

because it’s not enough money to make an enough impact you get to collect 30

enough impact you get to collect 30

enough impact you get to collect 30 people’s money and build an

people’s money and build an

people’s money and build an infrastructure and you make 30 kids

infrastructure and you make 30 kids

infrastructure and you make 30 kids collect gather together in the same

collect gather together in the same

collect gather together in the same classroom or public area and just make

classroom or public area and just make

classroom or public area and just make them copy and paste a template I know it

them copy and paste a template I know it

them copy and paste a template I know it isn’t inevitable and this is one way of

isn’t inevitable and this is one way of

isn’t inevitable and this is one way of making the AIDS more efficient however

making the AIDS more efficient however

making the AIDS more efficient however it was just heartbreaking for me because

it was just heartbreaking for me because

it was just heartbreaking for me because I saw this is why I wasn’t committed

I saw this is why I wasn’t committed

I saw this is why I wasn’t committed enough I wasn’t doing anything more than

enough I wasn’t doing anything more than

enough I wasn’t doing anything more than just paying $50 per month because of

just paying $50 per month because of

just paying $50 per month because of this missing part and I thought of

this missing part and I thought of

this missing part and I thought of different example this is actual letter

different example this is actual letter

different example this is actual letter from my sister who is nine years younger

from my sister who is nine years younger

from my sister who is nine years younger than me who’s in Korea and I moved to

than me who’s in Korea and I moved to

than me who’s in Korea and I moved to new

new

new York City four years ago for my college

York City four years ago for my college

York City four years ago for my college and ever since then I’ve been exchanging

and ever since then I’ve been exchanging

and ever since then I’ve been exchanging letter with my friend my sister and of

letter with my friend my sister and of

letter with my friend my sister and of course she’s on Facebook I’m friends

course she’s on Facebook I’m friends

course she’s on Facebook I’m friends with her she’s I can Skype her I can

with her she’s I can Skype her I can

with her she’s I can Skype her I can call a message her all the time but this

call a message her all the time but this

call a message her all the time but this letter is so different for me and this

letter is so different for me and this

letter is so different for me and this letter is also different from the

letter is also different from the

letter is also different from the letters that I got from my child that I

letters that I got from my child that I

letters that I got from my child that I sponsored and although you’re saying the

sponsored and although you’re saying the

sponsored and although you’re saying the same thing that I want to talk to you I

same thing that I want to talk to you I

same thing that I want to talk to you I want to share my experiences I want to

want to share my experiences I want to

want to share my experiences I want to meet you it’s just so different and the

meet you it’s just so different and the

meet you it’s just so different and the missing part was that all the time and

missing part was that all the time and

missing part was that all the time and effort and all the emotions that is

effort and all the emotions that is

effort and all the emotions that is compressed into that limited space that

compressed into that limited space that

compressed into that limited space that was something that just made this letter

was something that just made this letter

was something that just made this letter so different from any other handwritten

so different from any other handwritten

so different from any other handwritten letters and this is how I see

letters and this is how I see

letters and this is how I see communication so what I’m seeing

communication so what I’m seeing

communication so what I’m seeing communication is that through

communication is that through

communication is that through conversation you’re basically creating

conversation you’re basically creating

conversation you’re basically creating an overlap you’re creating an overlap

an overlap you’re creating an overlap

an overlap you’re creating an overlap between your world and someone else’s

between your world and someone else’s

between your world and someone else’s world that you’re having a conversation

world that you’re having a conversation

world that you’re having a conversation with and that overlap becomes your basic

with and that overlap becomes your basic

with and that overlap becomes your basic common ground for relationship and it

common ground for relationship and it

common ground for relationship and it sounds really straightforward that you

sounds really straightforward that you

sounds really straightforward that you are just finding a ground building a

are just finding a ground building a

are just finding a ground building a building but how do you do it and those

building but how do you do it and those

building but how do you do it and those are some of the elements that I was

are some of the elements that I was

are some of the elements that I was seeing while I was thinking about this

seeing while I was thinking about this

seeing while I was thinking about this question and I believe that

question and I believe that

question and I believe that communication and relationship is

communication and relationship is

communication and relationship is connected with different languages and I

connected with different languages and I

connected with different languages and I want to share some of the examples that

want to share some of the examples that

want to share some of the examples that I saw throughout journey to find this

I saw throughout journey to find this

I saw throughout journey to find this answer to the question so first example

answer to the question so first example

answer to the question so first example that I was fine out was myself moving

that I was fine out was myself moving

that I was fine out was myself moving into New York City leaving home is a

into New York City leaving home is a

into New York City leaving home is a huge change and it’s a lot of challenge

huge change and it’s a lot of challenge

huge change and it’s a lot of challenge but it’s I think it’s more than leaving

but it’s I think it’s more than leaving

but it’s I think it’s more than leaving the place where you call home for 20

the place where you call home for 20

the place where you call home for 20 years I think it’s more than leaving

years I think it’s more than leaving

years I think it’s more than leaving your parents leaving your family leaving

your parents leaving your family leaving

your parents leaving your family leaving your friends circles but I feel like

your friends circles but I feel like

your friends circles but I feel like it’s more about the things too

it’s more about the things too

it’s more about the things too rounding you when you walk down the

rounding you when you walk down the

rounding you when you walk down the street the signs are different when you

street the signs are different when you

street the signs are different when you see buildings they all look really

see buildings they all look really

see buildings they all look really different the clothing store

different the clothing store

different the clothing store stationaries bookstores that you got

stationaries bookstores that you got

stationaries bookstores that you got used to go to they’re not there anymore

used to go to they’re not there anymore

used to go to they’re not there anymore and when you see different street foods

and when you see different street foods

and when you see different street foods or different things that you get around

or different things that you get around

or different things that you get around the city it’s totally different and when

the city it’s totally different and when

the city it’s totally different and when you’re even when you’re craving for

you’re even when you’re craving for

you’re even when you’re craving for something spicy they’re not spicy enough

something spicy they’re not spicy enough

something spicy they’re not spicy enough for you when you’re getting in America

for you when you’re getting in America

for you when you’re getting in America so it’s really funny that everything’s

so it’s really funny that everything’s

so it’s really funny that everything’s so different but at the same time I was

so different but at the same time I was

so different but at the same time I was finding some of equivalents of Korean

finding some of equivalents of Korean

finding some of equivalents of Korean culture in New York City so I was able

culture in New York City so I was able

culture in New York City so I was able to find some food that I would think

to find some food that I would think

to find some food that I would think like it’s really similar to Korean and

like it’s really similar to Korean and

like it’s really similar to Korean and was having it and I found my own street

was having it and I found my own street

was having it and I found my own street food that I would get when I get back

food that I would get when I get back

food that I would get when I get back home so although the language is really

home so although the language is really

home so although the language is really different although there’s a lot of

different although there’s a lot of

different although there’s a lot of cultural difference I was able to find a

cultural difference I was able to find a

cultural difference I was able to find a lot of common ground and I was able to

lot of common ground and I was able to

lot of common ground and I was able to survive in the city I was able to

survive in the city I was able to

survive in the city I was able to sustain myself and this is more of a

sustain myself and this is more of a

sustain myself and this is more of a literal and cultural site but there’s

literal and cultural site but there’s

literal and cultural site but there’s something more in difference in language

something more in difference in language

something more in difference in language and I would say it’s indiscipline

and I would say it’s indiscipline

and I would say it’s indiscipline starting engineering school it’s

starting engineering school it’s

starting engineering school it’s definitely different how you write exams

definitely different how you write exams

definitely different how you write exams how you write reports papers are totally

how you write reports papers are totally

how you write reports papers are totally different from back then in high school

different from back then in high school

different from back then in high school when you’re writing your research

when you’re writing your research

when you’re writing your research culture research paper or your

culture research paper or your

culture research paper or your resolutions are preparing for your

resolutions are preparing for your

resolutions are preparing for your debate competitions the way you

debate competitions the way you

debate competitions the way you communicate it sounds nerdy but for

communicate it sounds nerdy but for

communicate it sounds nerdy but for engineers math is their language and

engineers math is their language and

engineers math is their language and their way of communication thought

their way of communication thought

their way of communication thought process is totally different that even

process is totally different that even

process is totally different that even if you are having a same model if your

if you are having a same model if your

if you are having a same model if your conditions are different if you’re

conditions are different if you’re

conditions are different if you’re making different assumptions if you’re

making different assumptions if you’re

making different assumptions if you’re having different time skills the numbers

having different time skills the numbers

having different time skills the numbers will be different there will be two

will be different there will be two

will be different there will be two different independent ideas and even if

different independent ideas and even if

different independent ideas and even if you’re in the same discipline let’s say

you’re in the same discipline let’s say

you’re in the same discipline let’s say you’re in conference that’s about cancer

you’re in conference that’s about cancer

you’re in conference that’s about cancer diseases if you are a scientist he or

diseases if you are a scientist he or

diseases if you are a scientist he or she will be starting their presentation

she will be starting their presentation

she will be starting their presentation about discoveries that they’re making

about discoveries that they’re making

about discoveries that they’re making observations but on the other hand

observations but on the other hand

observations but on the other hand engineer

engineer

engineer we’ll start their presentation with

we’ll start their presentation with

we’ll start their presentation with problem statement how the existing

problem statement how the existing

problem statement how the existing system is problematic how to make it

system is problematic how to make it

system is problematic how to make it more efficient how to make it better

more efficient how to make it better

more efficient how to make it better even with an engineering field if you’re

even with an engineering field if you’re

even with an engineering field if you’re an electrical engineering they’ll have a

an electrical engineering they’ll have a

an electrical engineering they’ll have a different approach if you’re a chemical

different approach if you’re a chemical

different approach if you’re a chemical engineer you will talk about different

engineer you will talk about different

engineer you will talk about different reactor systems and even though you have

reactor systems and even though you have

reactor systems and even though you have so many differences and different

so many differences and different

so many differences and different approaches and different questions at

approaches and different questions at

approaches and different questions at the end of the day you want to cure pure

the end of the day you want to cure pure

the end of the day you want to cure pure people’s diseases and you want to make

people’s diseases and you want to make

people’s diseases and you want to make the world better please you want to

the world better please you want to

the world better please you want to solve problems and knowing that we have

solve problems and knowing that we have

solve problems and knowing that we have one destination we have same destination

one destination we have same destination

one destination we have same destination that we really want to go to I think

that we really want to go to I think

that we really want to go to I think that really makes us to think as

that really makes us to think as

that really makes us to think as ourselves as one even if we have

ourselves as one even if we have

ourselves as one even if we have different questions to answer even if

different questions to answer even if

different questions to answer even if you have different directions and

you have different directions and

you have different directions and different approaches and let’s just

different approaches and let’s just

different approaches and let’s just imagine that if you are make start

imagine that if you are make start

imagine that if you are make start making overlaps with people around you

making overlaps with people around you

making overlaps with people around you like friends family members and

like friends family members and

like friends family members and co-workers or anyone around you and they

co-workers or anyone around you and they

co-workers or anyone around you and they will also start making overlap and then

will also start making overlap and then

will also start making overlap and then multiplies and extends and when that

multiplies and extends and when that

multiplies and extends and when that overlap becomes so large that we have

overlap becomes so large that we have

overlap becomes so large that we have one overlap that everyone can stand on

one overlap that everyone can stand on

one overlap that everyone can stand on together and I believe that positive

together and I believe that positive

together and I believe that positive shift that we are going to get is so

shift that we are going to get is so

shift that we are going to get is so significant and so impactful that I was

significant and so impactful that I was

significant and so impactful that I was really excited to share these

really excited to share these

really excited to share these experiences with you got oh and also I’m

experiences with you got oh and also I’m

experiences with you got oh and also I’m really excited to see this overlap

really excited to see this overlap

really excited to see this overlap happening here at this place like with

happening here at this place like with

happening here at this place like with every single one of you thank you so

every single one of you thank you so

every single one of you thank you so much

much

much you

you

you [Applause]

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