today we are going to talk about rejection but first of all what is
rejection but first of all what is
rejection but first of all what is rejection is it when they don’t accept
rejection is it when they don’t accept
rejection is it when they don’t accept you on the job if your loved one dumps
you on the job if your loved one dumps
you on the job if your loved one dumps you what is really a rejection just
you what is really a rejection just
you what is really a rejection just morning actually I heard and fascinating
morning actually I heard and fascinating
morning actually I heard and fascinating story right and rather tragic the one
story right and rather tragic the one
story right and rather tragic the one that was the 300 people wedding in
that was the 300 people wedding in
that was the 300 people wedding in London a couple days ago and the bride
London a couple days ago and the bride
London a couple days ago and the bride comes out and says well guys school
comes out and says well guys school
comes out and says well guys school decided there will be no wedding so you
decided there will be no wedding so you
decided there will be no wedding so you can all enjoy the food now that’s a
can all enjoy the food now that’s a
can all enjoy the food now that’s a rejection I want you to think about the
rejection I want you to think about the
rejection I want you to think about the rejection that you have experienced on
rejection that you have experienced on
rejection that you have experienced on the other so I became Arya Stark I
the other so I became Arya Stark I
the other so I became Arya Stark I counted their names I went to the gym
counted their names I went to the gym
counted their names I went to the gym became stronger and kick their butts I’m
became stronger and kick their butts I’m
became stronger and kick their butts I’m scared I stayed home I didn’t do
scared I stayed home I didn’t do
scared I stayed home I didn’t do anything I distance myself from
anything I distance myself from
anything I distance myself from everything I dropped out the singing
everything I dropped out the singing
everything I dropped out the singing class I jump out before people wish I
class I jump out before people wish I
class I jump out before people wish I was good at so I stayed home being
was good at so I stayed home being
was good at so I stayed home being scared so I didn’t really help any
scared so I didn’t really help any
scared so I didn’t really help any anyway the situation that I was in but
anyway the situation that I was in but
anyway the situation that I was in but later I remember going to stick it with
later I remember going to stick it with
later I remember going to stick it with all my friends
all my friends
all my friends we’re good skiers so I wanted to become
we’re good skiers so I wanted to become
we’re good skiers so I wanted to become skier two days in and I fell down I
skier two days in and I fell down I
skier two days in and I fell down I twisted my knee caps so the idea of me
twisted my knee caps so the idea of me
twisted my knee caps so the idea of me becoming a skier was shattered I was
becoming a skier was shattered I was
becoming a skier was shattered I was sitting there watching I’m having fun
sitting there watching I’m having fun
sitting there watching I’m having fun skiing while I couldn’t but the next
skiing while I couldn’t but the next
skiing while I couldn’t but the next year I thought to myself what shall I do
year I thought to myself what shall I do
year I thought to myself what shall I do no stay home feel sorry for myself or I
no stay home feel sorry for myself or I
no stay home feel sorry for myself or I should go back
should go back
should go back and prove it that I can do it so I got
and prove it that I can do it so I got
and prove it that I can do it so I got up I went there and five days straight
up I went there and five days straight
up I went there and five days straight I was working very hard while everyone
I was working very hard while everyone
I was working very hard while everyone was having fun walking up and down the
was having fun walking up and down the
was having fun walking up and down the mountain working out my muscles so I
mountain working out my muscles so I
mountain working out my muscles so I could do it and I did it I did it and I
could do it and I did it I did it and I
could do it and I did it I did it and I was actually much much better than many
was actually much much better than many
was actually much much better than many of the people who were skiing for much
of the people who were skiing for much
of the people who were skiing for much longer so I learned a great lesson for
longer so I learned a great lesson for
longer so I learned a great lesson for myself if you face reality if you face
myself if you face reality if you face
myself if you face reality if you face your fear of rejection of not being able
your fear of rejection of not being able
your fear of rejection of not being able to do something you can make it happen
to do something you can make it happen
to do something you can make it happen you just have to work for it that later
you just have to work for it that later
you just have to work for it that later in 2008 when the war happened in Georgia
in 2008 when the war happened in Georgia
in 2008 when the war happened in Georgia Georgia wasn’t a great place for me to
Georgia wasn’t a great place for me to
Georgia wasn’t a great place for me to live in I wanted to do something else
live in I wanted to do something else
live in I wanted to do something else my dream was to go to the US but how
my dream was to go to the US but how
my dream was to go to the US but how could I go to the u.s. I didn’t even
could I go to the u.s. I didn’t even
could I go to the u.s. I didn’t even speak English well so I decided to work
speak English well so I decided to work
speak English well so I decided to work on SATs per my wish by YouTube videos
on SATs per my wish by YouTube videos
on SATs per my wish by YouTube videos and I was really determined to do it and
and I was really determined to do it and
and I was really determined to do it and by sheer coincidence my friend reached
by sheer coincidence my friend reached
by sheer coincidence my friend reached out to me and said hey I’m for studies
out to me and said hey I’m for studies
out to me and said hey I’m for studies would you like to join maybe I can get
would you like to join maybe I can get
would you like to join maybe I can get started in the top and make to the US
started in the top and make to the US
started in the top and make to the US but it sounded like a dream to Czech
but it sounded like a dream to Czech
but it sounded like a dream to Czech Republic so I collected enough money to
Republic so I collected enough money to
Republic so I collected enough money to go and pay for the University for one
go and pay for the University for one
go and pay for the University for one semester so I did it I went there I went
semester so I did it I went there I went
semester so I did it I went there I went in fact -25° with my backpack and I’m
in fact -25° with my backpack and I’m
in fact -25° with my backpack and I’m thinking what the hell I’m gonna do now
thinking what the hell I’m gonna do now
thinking what the hell I’m gonna do now so I was ready I was desperate I had
so I was ready I was desperate I had
so I was ready I was desperate I had come to earth in my pocket and I bought
come to earth in my pocket and I bought
come to earth in my pocket and I bought food with it so I this I can eat I put
food with it so I this I can eat I put
food with it so I this I can eat I put it in the fridge next day it’s gone so
it in the fridge next day it’s gone so
it in the fridge next day it’s gone so what do I do now
what do I do now
what do I do now to work anywhere we work on the
to work anywhere we work on the
to work anywhere we work on the construction to be a cleaner back
construction to be a cleaner back
construction to be a cleaner back somehow
somehow
somehow my friends acquaintances reached out to
my friends acquaintances reached out to
my friends acquaintances reached out to me and he said oh my boss really wants
me and he said oh my boss really wants
me and he said oh my boss really wants to set up a Facebook page and could you
to set up a Facebook page and could you
to set up a Facebook page and could you help me I said sure it’s easy so I went
help me I said sure it’s easy so I went
help me I said sure it’s easy so I went in I did it for them and his boss really
in I did it for them and his boss really
in I did it for them and his boss really liked my approach so he said would you
liked my approach so he said would you
liked my approach so he said would you like to work here yesterday yeah of
like to work here yesterday yeah of
like to work here yesterday yeah of course today so I started working there
course today so I started working there
course today so I started working there I was happy there but then somehow I got
I was happy there but then somehow I got
I was happy there but then somehow I got an opportunity to move to London so I
an opportunity to move to London so I
an opportunity to move to London so I thought you know I didn’t mention I
thought you know I didn’t mention I
thought you know I didn’t mention I didn’t speak Czech at war so I thought
didn’t speak Czech at war so I thought
didn’t speak Czech at war so I thought maybe I’ll go to London I speak at this
maybe I’ll go to London I speak at this
maybe I’ll go to London I speak at this English store and hit there so I go
English store and hit there so I go
English store and hit there so I go there I leave my job I leave my
there I leave my job I leave my
there I leave my job I leave my apartment give my all stuff away I move
apartment give my all stuff away I move
apartment give my all stuff away I move there and I end up in the office
of papers in the corner and I open this
of papers in the corner and I open this computer I cannot and I wish now to
computer I cannot and I wish now to
computer I cannot and I wish now to accent welcome to be Georgian
accent welcome to be Georgian
accent welcome to be Georgian so he speaks to me on the phone in
so he speaks to me on the phone in
so he speaks to me on the phone in Georgian and says don’t make any mimics
Georgian and says don’t make any mimics
Georgian and says don’t make any mimics now because she can understand it she’s
now because she can understand it she’s
now because she can understand it she’s a dangerous woman so I pretended that I
a dangerous woman so I pretended that I
a dangerous woman so I pretended that I didn’t remember the password I left so
didn’t remember the password I left so
didn’t remember the password I left so now I’m starting again from the scratch
now I’m starting again from the scratch
now I’m starting again from the scratch I go to Prague black PDF of the job
I go to Prague black PDF of the job
I go to Prague black PDF of the job again and I was working there so I
again and I was working there so I
again and I was working there so I realize it is very important to remember
realize it is very important to remember
realize it is very important to remember I decided I needed to experience this
I decided I needed to experience this
I decided I needed to experience this why I moved on I became a freelancer and
why I moved on I became a freelancer and
why I moved on I became a freelancer and as you know freelancing job is rejection
as you know freelancing job is rejection
as you know freelancing job is rejection all day every day couple years I decided
all day every day couple years I decided
all day every day couple years I decided to go job so what my birthday is today
to go job so what my birthday is today
to go job so what my birthday is today um I had an opening moment when I said
um I had an opening moment when I said
um I had an opening moment when I said you have to stop so I will talk to an
you have to stop so I will talk to an
you have to stop so I will talk to an acquaintance and I said how about we set
acquaintance and I said how about we set
acquaintance and I said how about we set up French of your social media agents in
up French of your social media agents in
up French of your social media agents in Georgia
Georgia
Georgia because I got some connections with
because I got some connections with
because I got some connections with hedge funds so I convinced him I went
hedge funds so I convinced him I went
hedge funds so I convinced him I went there and I opened the office in first
there and I opened the office in first
there and I opened the office in first two weeks from the office I registered
two weeks from the office I registered
two weeks from the office I registered the company reached out the clients and
the company reached out the clients and
the company reached out the clients and if that’s not hard enough then I have to
if that’s not hard enough then I have to
if that’s not hard enough then I have to find people to work for me because we
find people to work for me because we
find people to work for me because we have to deliver to the clients and that
have to deliver to the clients and that
have to deliver to the clients and that was the hardest part because I had to
was the hardest part because I had to
was the hardest part because I had to train them from scratch because it’s
train them from scratch because it’s
train them from scratch because it’s very difficult to find such
very difficult to find such
very difficult to find such professionals there so one year in and
professionals there so one year in and
professionals there so one year in and the company was the leading social media
the company was the leading social media
the company was the leading social media agency in Georgia we had been working
agency in Georgia we had been working
agency in Georgia we had been working with the banks with all companies with
with the banks with all companies with
with the banks with all companies with FMCG we were doing just great two years
FMCG we were doing just great two years
FMCG we were doing just great two years the company was so successful times were
the company was so successful times were
the company was so successful times were so happy with our services our team was
so happy with our services our team was
so happy with our services our team was amazing so friendly its imperfect it was
amazing so friendly its imperfect it was
amazing so friendly its imperfect it was a dream of mine come true
a dream of mine come true
a dream of mine come true so as the company was growing I decided
so as the company was growing I decided
so as the company was growing I decided that I could work on expansion of become
that I could work on expansion of become
that I could work on expansion of become I’m doing my absence I appoints the girl
I’m doing my absence I appoints the girl
I’m doing my absence I appoints the girl as a director who would handle things
as a director who would handle things
as a director who would handle things when I was not there she was with us
when I was not there she was with us
when I was not there she was with us from the beginning I told her everything
from the beginning I told her everything
from the beginning I told her everything are you I helped her establish on the
are you I helped her establish on the
are you I helped her establish on the market and six months in she became a
market and six months in she became a
market and six months in she became a director and she decided that my
director and she decided that my
director and she decided that my services were no longer required and she
services were no longer required and she
services were no longer required and she pretended she was up to the speed and
pretended she was up to the speed and
pretended she was up to the speed and what was I doing there so she reached
what was I doing there so she reached
what was I doing there so she reached out to my Czech partner and said we’re
out to my Czech partner and said we’re
out to my Czech partner and said we’re handling everything we don’t need him
handling everything we don’t need him
handling everything we don’t need him why don’t you get rid of them altogether
why don’t you get rid of them altogether
why don’t you get rid of them altogether so they did and you’re probably
so they did and you’re probably
so they did and you’re probably wondering how they could get rid of me
wondering how they could get rid of me
wondering how they could get rid of me for my own company and I’ll tell you yes
for my own company and I’ll tell you yes
for my own company and I’ll tell you yes – between in 2015 when it all started I
– between in 2015 when it all started I
– between in 2015 when it all started I really never thought that’s the problem
really never thought that’s the problem
really never thought that’s the problem of startups that in the beginning it’s
of startups that in the beginning it’s
of startups that in the beginning it’s an emotional idea that you’re passionate
an emotional idea that you’re passionate
an emotional idea that you’re passionate about and you often forget about the
about and you often forget about the
about and you often forget about the legal stuff that you have to put on
legal stuff that you have to put on
legal stuff that you have to put on paper so I forgot it I was so invested
paper so I forgot it I was so invested
paper so I forgot it I was so invested in Subang company’s development I’ve so
in Subang company’s development I’ve so
in Subang company’s development I’ve so much motivated to make it happen that I
much motivated to make it happen that I
much motivated to make it happen that I never insisted on read writing down the
never insisted on read writing down the
never insisted on read writing down the rules of how our partnership will be
rules of how our partnership will be
rules of how our partnership will be handled I was left like this and I
handled I was left like this and I
handled I was left like this and I didn’t know what to do but I realized it
didn’t know what to do but I realized it
didn’t know what to do but I realized it wife taught me everything we really need
wife taught me everything we really need
wife taught me everything we really need to turn this projection into something
to turn this projection into something
to turn this projection into something positive to channel an energy of being
positive to channel an energy of being
positive to channel an energy of being upset into something how you can
upset into something how you can
upset into something how you can recreate yourself so I didn’t give
recreate yourself so I didn’t give
recreate yourself so I didn’t give myself a time for remorse and
myself a time for remorse and
myself a time for remorse and procrastination I never laid down and
procrastination I never laid down and
procrastination I never laid down and soft and feel sorry for myself I created
soft and feel sorry for myself I created
soft and feel sorry for myself I created a routine for myself I said why don’t I
a routine for myself I said why don’t I
a routine for myself I said why don’t I every day we talk to people and I say
every day we talk to people and I say
every day we talk to people and I say hey how can we work together because I
hey how can we work together because I
hey how can we work together because I didn’t have a choice at work so I did
didn’t have a choice at work so I did
didn’t have a choice at work so I did that and two months in when this major
that and two months in when this major
that and two months in when this major setback happened I am my own boss now I
setback happened I am my own boss now I
setback happened I am my own boss now I own a consulting company I work with the
own a consulting company I work with the
own a consulting company I work with the digital agencies and
digital agencies and
digital agencies and our points are reaching four million
our points are reaching four million
our points are reaching four million people in the US than products so if
people in the US than products so if
people in the US than products so if anyone would tell me that after this
anyone would tell me that after this
anyone would tell me that after this major setback happened and my life was
major setback happened and my life was
major setback happened and my life was destroyed I was rejected by the person I
destroyed I was rejected by the person I
destroyed I was rejected by the person I was let go from the company thought that
was let go from the company thought that
was let go from the company thought that I created but I will go by the person
I created but I will go by the person
I created but I will go by the person who – the most so this turned around
who – the most so this turned around
who – the most so this turned around into something very positive and much
into something very positive and much
into something very positive and much happier than before
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