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Connecting Lives, Building Community, Nurturing Creativity | Julie Lovell | TEDxBendigo


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different accents and bear with it you

different accents and bear with it you know life is a curious thing and

know life is a curious thing and

know life is a curious thing and sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever get the

sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever get the

sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever get the habit I wonder if there are actually

habit I wonder if there are actually

habit I wonder if there are actually anything if there’s actually anything

anything if there’s actually anything

anything if there’s actually anything certain in this world other than the

certain in this world other than the

certain in this world other than the typical death and taxes but after

typical death and taxes but after

typical death and taxes but after thinking about it I would like to

thinking about it I would like to

thinking about it I would like to suggest two things of which I am certain

suggest two things of which I am certain

suggest two things of which I am certain one every perfect person was born or the

one every perfect person was born or the

one every perfect person was born or the person of purpose and a passion let me

person of purpose and a passion let me

person of purpose and a passion let me say that again every person was born

say that again every person was born

say that again every person was born with a purpose and a passion and to

with a purpose and a passion and to

with a purpose and a passion and to every person was born for human

every person was born for human

every person was born for human connection I believe that the world

connection I believe that the world

connection I believe that the world changers the visionaries the influencers

changers the visionaries the influencers

changers the visionaries the influencers they are people that understand this the

they are people that understand this the

they are people that understand this the purpose of life is to live a life of

purpose of life is to live a life of

purpose of life is to live a life of purpose about ten years ago my husband

purpose about ten years ago my husband

purpose about ten years ago my husband asked me a question he said you could do

asked me a question he said you could do

asked me a question he said you could do anything what would you do now that

anything what would you do now that

anything what would you do now that seems like a simple question but it’s

seems like a simple question but it’s

seems like a simple question but it’s actually really complex it’s the

actually really complex it’s the

actually really complex it’s the question that helps us to understand our

question that helps us to understand our

question that helps us to understand our purpose and our passion in life and when

purpose and our passion in life and when

purpose and our passion in life and when you combine your purpose in your passion

you combine your purpose in your passion

you combine your purpose in your passion the sky is the limit because people with

the sky is the limit because people with

the sky is the limit because people with great passion can make the impossible

great passion can make the impossible

great passion can make the impossible possible I only needed a few seconds to

possible I only needed a few seconds to

possible I only needed a few seconds to answer that question I told them I would

answer that question I told them I would

answer that question I told them I would love to direct Broadway musicals and

love to direct Broadway musicals and

love to direct Broadway musicals and after a short conversation and a few

after a short conversation and a few

after a short conversation and a few days about compelled to write down a

days about compelled to write down a

days about compelled to write down a specific plan for this impossible dream

specific plan for this impossible dream

specific plan for this impossible dream a theatre performing arts group for

a theatre performing arts group for

a theatre performing arts group for teenagers now I know some of you are

teenagers now I know some of you are

teenagers now I know some of you are wondering is she crazy and I’m not sure

wondering is she crazy and I’m not sure

wondering is she crazy and I’m not sure if the craziness comes in with creating

if the craziness comes in with creating

if the craziness comes in with creating a theatre performing arts group or the

a theatre performing arts group or the

a theatre performing arts group or the fact that I wanted to work with

fact that I wanted to work with

fact that I wanted to work with teenagers but I remember being

teenagers but I remember being

teenagers but I remember being a teenager I remember that awkward stage

a teenager I remember that awkward stage

a teenager I remember that awkward stage and wise rod is convinced that no one

and wise rod is convinced that no one

and wise rod is convinced that no one would ever understand me or my dreams

would ever understand me or my dreams

would ever understand me or my dreams it’s a stage in life where your desire

it’s a stage in life where your desire

it’s a stage in life where your desire for human connection is at its highest

for human connection is at its highest

for human connection is at its highest and your understanding and purpose in

and your understanding and purpose in

and your understanding and purpose in life is at its lowest and that

life is at its lowest and that

life is at its lowest and that description I believe it’s still true of

description I believe it’s still true of

description I believe it’s still true of teenagers today

teenagers today

teenagers today hence my dream became a reality now the

hence my dream became a reality now the

hence my dream became a reality now the description of what I believed for today

description of what I believed for today

description of what I believed for today a place for people to create connections

a place for people to create connections

a place for people to create connections that it was called Nexus Nexus actually

that it was called Nexus Nexus actually

that it was called Nexus Nexus actually means connecting point and from the very

means connecting point and from the very

means connecting point and from the very beginning we were very clear on our

beginning we were very clear on our

beginning we were very clear on our vision creating connections building

vision creating connections building

vision creating connections building community nurturing creativity and

community nurturing creativity and

community nurturing creativity and producing excellence and I want to use

producing excellence and I want to use

producing excellence and I want to use those four things today to encourage you

those four things today to encourage you

those four things today to encourage you and how to build Purpose Driven

and how to build Purpose Driven

and how to build Purpose Driven connections

connections

connections the first idea creating connections has

the first idea creating connections has

the first idea creating connections has to be first people need to know that

to be first people need to know that

to be first people need to know that they belong brynbrown once said

they belong brynbrown once said

they belong brynbrown once said connection is the energy that’s created

connection is the energy that’s created

connection is the energy that’s created between people when they feel seen

between people when they feel seen

between people when they feel seen valued and heard and this is so true so

valued and heard and this is so true so

valued and heard and this is so true so from the very beginning

from the very beginning

from the very beginning Nexus created a mantra for its family

Nexus created a mantra for its family

Nexus created a mantra for its family once an EXO nyan and they would yell out

once an EXO nyan and they would yell out

once an EXO nyan and they would yell out always an EXO Nene we had a young lady

always an EXO Nene we had a young lady

always an EXO Nene we had a young lady that showed up came back to mixes after

that showed up came back to mixes after

that showed up came back to mixes after graduating and she came back to help

graduating and she came back to help

graduating and she came back to help with our latest production and the

with our latest production and the

with our latest production and the Phantom of the Opera and I remember the

Phantom of the Opera and I remember the

Phantom of the Opera and I remember the joy on her face when she walked into the

joy on her face when she walked into the

joy on her face when she walked into the room oh you know what’s in it

room oh you know what’s in it

room oh you know what’s in it and everybody held out always the next

and everybody held out always the next

and everybody held out always the next onion followed by a dog pile of hubs

onion followed by a dog pile of hubs

onion followed by a dog pile of hubs because that’s what happens at Nexus she

because that’s what happens at Nexus she

because that’s what happens at Nexus she hadn’t forgotten the power of belonging

hadn’t forgotten the power of belonging

hadn’t forgotten the power of belonging you know human connections so often

you know human connections so often

you know human connections so often gives us value in life to feel connected

gives us value in life to feel connected

gives us value in life to feel connected is to feel that you belong the second

is to feel that you belong the second

is to feel that you belong the second idea building community merge

idea building community merge

idea building community merge beautifully with creating connections

beautifully with creating connections

beautifully with creating connections you know we need to listen to this

you know we need to listen to this

you know we need to listen to this statement as Australia’s an around world

statement as Australia’s an around world

statement as Australia’s an around world it takes a village to raise a child we

it takes a village to raise a child we

it takes a village to raise a child we live in a world today where we are so

live in a world today where we are so

live in a world today where we are so isolated we drive into our garage we

isolated we drive into our garage we

isolated we drive into our garage we shut the door and we shut out the world

shut the door and we shut out the world

shut the door and we shut out the world and when we do that we lose the value of

and when we do that we lose the value of

and when we do that we lose the value of the people around us and unfortunately

the people around us and unfortunately

the people around us and unfortunately this reality creates a bad reality

this reality creates a bad reality

this reality creates a bad reality because people need to build community

because people need to build community

because people need to build community they need us to model to them that as

they need us to model to them that as

they need us to model to them that as they give back they actually become

they give back they actually become

they give back they actually become better versions of themselves I want to

better versions of themselves I want to

better versions of themselves I want to read you a small excerpt from the letter

read you a small excerpt from the letter

read you a small excerpt from the letter that we received in Nexus from a parent

that we received in Nexus from a parent

that we received in Nexus from a parent about her son and about building

about her son and about building

about her son and about building community my son joined his family a

community my son joined his family a

community my son joined his family a supportive and nurturing group of

supportive and nurturing group of

supportive and nurturing group of encouraging and accepting individuals

encouraging and accepting individuals

encouraging and accepting individuals whose goals in life were to lift you up

whose goals in life were to lift you up

whose goals in life were to lift you up lead you further and bring out the best

lead you further and bring out the best

lead you further and bring out the best in you over the following five years my

in you over the following five years my

in you over the following five years my son instead seen that he can go far he

son instead seen that he can go far he

son instead seen that he can go far he can share his ideas youth to others and

can share his ideas youth to others and

can share his ideas youth to others and have a whole lot of fun along the way

have a whole lot of fun along the way

have a whole lot of fun along the way here’s a place where the individual is

here’s a place where the individual is

here’s a place where the individual is given the space to shine and give it the

given the space to shine and give it the

given the space to shine and give it the opportunity to develop in a happy and

opportunity to develop in a happy and

opportunity to develop in a happy and nurturing and fire

nurturing and fire

nurturing and fire everyone is made to feel secure and

everyone is made to feel secure and

everyone is made to feel secure and confident in who they are the journey

confident in who they are the journey

confident in who they are the journey that preparing and rehearsing his gives

that preparing and rehearsing his gives

that preparing and rehearsing his gives time for performers to stretch their

time for performers to stretch their

time for performers to stretch their imagination to find ways to express

imagination to find ways to express

imagination to find ways to express themselves they never dreamed it

themselves they never dreamed it

themselves they never dreamed it possible and to start to become the

possible and to start to become the

possible and to start to become the fantastic individuals that they are

fantastic individuals that they are

fantastic individuals that they are I hope those who say that that you feel

I hope those who say that that you feel

I hope those who say that that you feel inspired to find something in which you

inspired to find something in which you

inspired to find something in which you are passionate about and through that

are passionate about and through that

are passionate about and through that create a place where you can create

create a place where you can create

create a place where you can create connections for other people the third

connections for other people the third

connections for other people the third concept near true creativity is it an

concept near true creativity is it an

concept near true creativity is it an amazing way for people to find their

amazing way for people to find their

amazing way for people to find their passions although next to started out as

passions although next to started out as

passions although next to started out as a place for people who loved the arts

a place for people who loved the arts

a place for people who loved the arts the Performing Arts in particular it

the Performing Arts in particular it

the Performing Arts in particular it didn’t stay that way we have an entirely

didn’t stay that way we have an entirely

didn’t stay that way we have an entirely eclectic group of people from all walks

eclectic group of people from all walks

eclectic group of people from all walks of life

of life

of life we have mainstream marginalized disabled

we have mainstream marginalized disabled

we have mainstream marginalized disabled young old talented not so talented but

young old talented not so talented but

young old talented not so talented but that’s okay as we all belong we have

that’s okay as we all belong we have

that’s okay as we all belong we have those that can make a monotone joyful

those that can make a monotone joyful

those that can make a monotone joyful noise we also have those that are

noise we also have those that are

noise we also have those that are blowing away their voices we have

blowing away their voices we have

blowing away their voices we have artists that paint like Monet I am NOT

artists that paint like Monet I am NOT

artists that paint like Monet I am NOT one of them we have people who love to

one of them we have people who love to

one of them we have people who love to express themselves through preparing

express themselves through preparing

express themselves through preparing food and loving giving to others you

food and loving giving to others you

food and loving giving to others you know teenagers that keep your heart

know teenagers that keep your heart

know teenagers that keep your heart incident we know and you’re never too

incident we know and you’re never too

incident we know and you’re never too old we have a Nexus Graham who’s an

old we have a Nexus Graham who’s an

old we have a Nexus Graham who’s an invaluable part of our community and she

invaluable part of our community and she

invaluable part of our community and she offers love and wisdom to kids around

offers love and wisdom to kids around

offers love and wisdom to kids around them that don’t have grandparents in the

them that don’t have grandparents in the

them that don’t have grandparents in the area or just don’t

area or just don’t

area or just don’t grandparents and their relationships

grandparents and their relationships

grandparents and their relationships with them and we have people who express

with them and we have people who express

with them and we have people who express themselves through Disney songs and show

themselves through Disney songs and show

themselves through Disney songs and show tunes we have lots of those and you know

tunes we have lots of those and you know

tunes we have lots of those and you know Nexus is around when you hear in the

Nexus is around when you hear in the

Nexus is around when you hear in the background to show to millions of them

background to show to millions of them

background to show to millions of them being sung in multiple parts of harmony

being sung in multiple parts of harmony

being sung in multiple parts of harmony mind you if you ever come visit Nexus do

mind you if you ever come visit Nexus do

mind you if you ever come visit Nexus do not ever say the words were all in this

not ever say the words were all in this

not ever say the words were all in this together or someone will sing the entire

together or someone will sing the entire

together or someone will sing the entire high school musical performance to you

high school musical performance to you

high school musical performance to you and it will drive you nuts and what we

and it will drive you nuts and what we

and it will drive you nuts and what we have the performers we have the safety

have the performers we have the safety

have the performers we have the safety people the people who build SATs good

people the people who build SATs good

people the people who build SATs good thank you for that note hammers are not

thank you for that note hammers are not

thank you for that note hammers are not for everyone

for everyone

for everyone we are all connected to each other in a

we are all connected to each other in a

we are all connected to each other in a circle sorry we are all connected to

circle sorry we are all connected to

circle sorry we are all connected to each other and we need to create safe

each other and we need to create safe

each other and we need to create safe places that desire to bring forward the

places that desire to bring forward the

places that desire to bring forward the creativity each individual conferring

creativity each individual conferring

creativity each individual conferring and the result will be this people will

and the result will be this people will

and the result will be this people will discover their passions because they’re

discover their passions because they’re

discover their passions because they’re free to dream and I’ve read this

free to dream and I’ve read this

free to dream and I’ve read this somewhere passion is the genesis of

somewhere passion is the genesis of

somewhere passion is the genesis of Jesus isn’t that beautiful

Jesus isn’t that beautiful

Jesus isn’t that beautiful and that’s where the fourth concept

and that’s where the fourth concept

and that’s where the fourth concept comes in producing excellence when

comes in producing excellence when

comes in producing excellence when everyone is invested everyone gives

everyone is invested everyone gives

everyone is invested everyone gives their best and when you measure success

their best and when you measure success

their best and when you measure success through connections and community and

through connections and community and

through connections and community and not productivity and output the result

not productivity and output the result

not productivity and output the result often looks like this people bring their

often looks like this people bring their

often looks like this people bring their best and excellence is achieved because

best and excellence is achieved because

best and excellence is achieved because your measure of success is placed in the

your measure of success is placed in the

your measure of success is placed in the most important place people my favorite

most important place people my favorite

most important place people my favorite moment that Nexus is at the end of the

moment that Nexus is at the end of the

moment that Nexus is at the end of the production we all gather together and

production we all gather together and

production we all gather together and have this big reflection box and we pass

have this big reflection box and we pass

have this big reflection box and we pass around a bowl get up everyone loves it

around a bowl get up everyone loves it

around a bowl get up everyone loves it was don’t think and each person takes

was don’t think and each person takes

was don’t think and each person takes out a skittle and removes this pill and

out a skittle and removes this pill and

out a skittle and removes this pill and says how the color of that skill

says how the color of that skill

says how the color of that skill represents something they loved about

represents something they loved about

represents something they loved about their

their

their journey in Nexus so one year were going

journey in Nexus so one year were going

journey in Nexus so one year were going around takes forever it’s an emotional

around takes forever it’s an emotional

around takes forever it’s an emotional time it’s awesome but this one really

time it’s awesome but this one really

time it’s awesome but this one really quiet shy boy holds up his skin and he

quiet shy boy holds up his skin and he

quiet shy boy holds up his skin and he says I sucked the color off my skittle

says I sucked the color off my skittle

says I sucked the color off my skittle so it would be what white was the color

so it would be what white was the color

so it would be what white was the color of purity and to me Nexus is pure I love

of purity and to me Nexus is pure I love

of purity and to me Nexus is pure I love it here I’ve often thought about that

it here I’ve often thought about that

it here I’ve often thought about that statement purity was strange word to use

statement purity was strange word to use

statement purity was strange word to use in today’s age but you know what I’ve

in today’s age but you know what I’ve

in today’s age but you know what I’ve thought about it and what I think he

thought about it and what I think he

thought about it and what I think he meant was this it is so different here

meant was this it is so different here

meant was this it is so different here this is a unique place where people

this is a unique place where people

this is a unique place where people don’t look at the best song the best

don’t look at the best song the best

don’t look at the best song the best performance the best actor instead it

performance the best actor instead it

performance the best actor instead it looks like the best an individual can

looks like the best an individual can

looks like the best an individual can dream that’s what mattered human he is

dream that’s what mattered human he is

dream that’s what mattered human he is the one that mattered people an

the one that mattered people an

the one that mattered people an eight-way desire to belong that’s what

eight-way desire to belong that’s what

eight-way desire to belong that’s what they wanted was and when they feel the

they wanted was and when they feel the

they wanted was and when they feel the value of connection and belonging they

value of connection and belonging they

value of connection and belonging they will become who they truly are and

will become who they truly are and

will become who they truly are and really creating environments like that

really creating environments like that

really creating environments like that they will breathe perpetual results they

they will breathe perpetual results they

they will breathe perpetual results they will ask you to do the same thing for

will ask you to do the same thing for

will ask you to do the same thing for someone else we need to create places

someone else we need to create places

someone else we need to create places where people feel free to ask themselves

where people feel free to ask themselves

where people feel free to ask themselves the question mile has

the question mile has

the question mile has asked me 10 years ago if you could do

asked me 10 years ago if you could do

asked me 10 years ago if you could do anything what would you do you see if

anything what would you do you see if

anything what would you do you see if everyone was born with a purpose and a

everyone was born with a purpose and a

everyone was born with a purpose and a passion and for community are we

passion and for community are we

passion and for community are we creating places for people to find and

creating places for people to find and

creating places for people to find and develop that purpose are we telling you

develop that purpose are we telling you

develop that purpose are we telling you people that discovering their passion

people that discovering their passion

people that discovering their passion will help to define them are we modeling

will help to define them are we modeling

will help to define them are we modeling connections that allow the next

connections that allow the next

connections that allow the next generation to discover and cultivate who

generation to discover and cultivate who

generation to discover and cultivate who they are and who they will become

they are and who they will become

they are and who they will become Marianne Williamson said one of my

Marianne Williamson said one of my

Marianne Williamson said one of my favorite quotes ever our greatest fear

favorite quotes ever our greatest fear

favorite quotes ever our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate our

is not that we are inadequate our

is not that we are inadequate our greatest fear is that we are powerful

greatest fear is that we are powerful

greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure she understood the idea

beyond measure she understood the idea

beyond measure she understood the idea that we have it within us to be great we

that we have it within us to be great we

that we have it within us to be great we need to move beyond the mundane and seek

need to move beyond the mundane and seek

need to move beyond the mundane and seek out our purpose and our passion the one

out our purpose and our passion the one

out our purpose and our passion the one that makes us powerful beyond measure

that makes us powerful beyond measure

that makes us powerful beyond measure Nexus is the fulfillment of that joy for

Nexus is the fulfillment of that joy for

Nexus is the fulfillment of that joy for me I do love it it breathes life into me

me I do love it it breathes life into me

me I do love it it breathes life into me I am so passionate I think you can tell

I am so passionate I think you can tell

I am so passionate I think you can tell about it it brings me joy a simple dream

about it it brings me joy a simple dream

about it it brings me joy a simple dream turned from my intrinsic satisfaction to

turned from my intrinsic satisfaction to

turned from my intrinsic satisfaction to something that brings connection and

something that brings connection and

something that brings connection and community to us a safe place for people

community to us a safe place for people

community to us a safe place for people to discover who they are and if you’re

to discover who they are and if you’re

to discover who they are and if you’re someone that’s asking today or thinking

someone that’s asking today or thinking

someone that’s asking today or thinking how do I just

how do I just

how do I just my purpose a lot of gave us idea to you

my purpose a lot of gave us idea to you

my purpose a lot of gave us idea to you from TD jakes if you can’t figure out

from TD jakes if you can’t figure out

from TD jakes if you can’t figure out your purpose figure out your passion or

your purpose figure out your passion or

your purpose figure out your passion or your passion will lead you right into

your passion will lead you right into

your passion will lead you right into your dream find a safe place where you

your dream find a safe place where you

your dream find a safe place where you can begin to explore the things you love

can begin to explore the things you love

can begin to explore the things you love be fearless and courageous in the

be fearless and courageous in the

be fearless and courageous in the pursuit of the things that set your soul

pursuit of the things that set your soul

pursuit of the things that set your soul on fire and help you to dream big and

on fire and help you to dream big and

on fire and help you to dream big and create connections with others now

create connections with others now

create connections with others now that’s an idea or this thank you

that’s an idea or this thank you

that’s an idea or this thank you [Applause]

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