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we’re not when I was six I got on a

we’re not when I was six I got on a plane but my bisley admitted I thought

plane but my bisley admitted I thought

plane but my bisley admitted I thought of India and dropped it right in the

of India and dropped it right in the

of India and dropped it right in the middle of sunny

middle of sunny

middle of sunny Alberta by not predictably changed my

Alberta by not predictably changed my

Alberta by not predictably changed my perspective now my narrative isn’t about

perspective now my narrative isn’t about

perspective now my narrative isn’t about getting used to the towering skyscrapers

getting used to the towering skyscrapers

getting used to the towering skyscrapers of the hustle and bustle of the city

of the hustle and bustle of the city

of the hustle and bustle of the city it’s about getting used to this

it’s about getting used to this

it’s about getting used to this confusing hybrid cultural identity

confusing hybrid cultural identity

confusing hybrid cultural identity though all the other kids living here

though all the other kids living here

though all the other kids living here seem to have developed and the classism

seem to have developed and the classism

seem to have developed and the classism an implicit discrimination that

an implicit discrimination that

an implicit discrimination that subsequently revealed themselves to me

subsequently revealed themselves to me

subsequently revealed themselves to me I’ll explain what I mean by hybrid

I’ll explain what I mean by hybrid

I’ll explain what I mean by hybrid identity so at school we have ethnic

identity so at school we have ethnic

identity so at school we have ethnic days or parties we were supposed to wear

days or parties we were supposed to wear

days or parties we were supposed to wear a thick clothing and on those days you

a thick clothing and on those days you

a thick clothing and on those days you could wear the prettiest Lange dozens of

could wear the prettiest Lange dozens of

could wear the prettiest Lange dozens of us the fake jewelry your mom would make

us the fake jewelry your mom would make

us the fake jewelry your mom would make you put on your friends would want to

you put on your friends would want to

you put on your friends would want to take pictures no that just but if you

take pictures no that just but if you

take pictures no that just but if you want additional clothing outside of

want additional clothing outside of

want additional clothing outside of school you are a sore loser we were

school you are a sore loser we were

school you are a sore loser we were celebrating our culture and yet we were

celebrating our culture and yet we were

celebrating our culture and yet we were embarrassed of it none of it made any

embarrassed of it none of it made any

embarrassed of it none of it made any sense to me those first three months I

sense to me those first three months I

sense to me those first three months I did a lot of short range reconnaissance

did a lot of short range reconnaissance

did a lot of short range reconnaissance you know listening to my friend speak

you know listening to my friend speak

you know listening to my friend speak but not really contributing to the

but not really contributing to the

but not really contributing to the conversation and here’s what I

conversation and here’s what I

conversation and here’s what I discovered so I cut like Bollywood

discovered so I cut like Bollywood

discovered so I cut like Bollywood movies but not all of them were cool and

movies but not all of them were cool and

movies but not all of them were cool and I couldn’t listen to indie songs but

I couldn’t listen to indie songs but

I couldn’t listen to indie songs but only the ones I could dance to and media

only the ones I could dance to and media

only the ones I could dance to and media and other binoculars forget about it I

and other binoculars forget about it I

and other binoculars forget about it I have to collect happy new toys every

have to collect happy new toys every

have to collect happy new toys every week for some reason and I could like

week for some reason and I could like

week for some reason and I could like Taylor Swift but not Britney Spears

Taylor Swift but not Britney Spears

Taylor Swift but not Britney Spears makes no sense why it was this bizarre

makes no sense why it was this bizarre

makes no sense why it was this bizarre set of rules and structures that were

set of rules and structures that were

set of rules and structures that were downright confusing and more times than

downright confusing and more times than

downright confusing and more times than not made me feel inferior I remember

not made me feel inferior I remember

not made me feel inferior I remember telling a couple of my finest that my

telling a couple of my finest that my

telling a couple of my finest that my family didn’t own a car at the time and

family didn’t own a car at the time and

family didn’t own a car at the time and their immediate reaction was you don’t

their immediate reaction was you don’t

their immediate reaction was you don’t have a car as a mob somehow made me less

have a car as a mob somehow made me less

have a car as a mob somehow made me less deserving of their attention

deserving of their attention

deserving of their attention friendship and so eventually I adopted

friendship and so eventually I adopted

friendship and so eventually I adopted that identity I begged my parents for a

that identity I begged my parents for a

that identity I begged my parents for a cough I begged them for a gmail account

cough I begged them for a gmail account

cough I begged them for a gmail account just because everyone else had one I

just because everyone else had one I

just because everyone else had one I listened to every top body song that had

listened to every top body song that had

listened to every top body song that had come out in the past year so I know what

come out in the past year so I know what

come out in the past year so I know what my friends were singing and I wanted to

my friends were singing and I wanted to

my friends were singing and I wanted to say my horizonte is a different way

say my horizonte is a different way

say my horizonte is a different way that i evidently still haven’t gotten

that i evidently still haven’t gotten

that i evidently still haven’t gotten rid of in all of it just begs the

rid of in all of it just begs the

rid of in all of it just begs the question what wanted a group of second

question what wanted a group of second

question what wanted a group of second graders to distance themselves from

graders to distance themselves from

graders to distance themselves from their culture and heritage in such an

their culture and heritage in such an

their culture and heritage in such an absorb manner

absorb manner

absorb manner maybe it had something to do with the

maybe it had something to do with the

maybe it had something to do with the lack of positive representation but I

lack of positive representation but I

lack of positive representation but I can’t give a definite answer to that

can’t give a definite answer to that

can’t give a definite answer to that question one of the years since then I

question one of the years since then I

question one of the years since then I have learned that my culture isn’t

have learned that my culture isn’t

have learned that my culture isn’t inferior to others I sometimes still

inferior to others I sometimes still

inferior to others I sometimes still subconsciously act with that mindset

subconsciously act with that mindset

subconsciously act with that mindset something that’s been prevalent for a

something that’s been prevalent for a

something that’s been prevalent for a long time throughout the world is colors

long time throughout the world is colors

long time throughout the world is colors and the idea that saw the skin tones you

and the idea that saw the skin tones you

and the idea that saw the skin tones you know which ones are superior to others

know which ones are superior to others

know which ones are superior to others and while we’re critical at Hollywood in

and while we’re critical at Hollywood in

and while we’re critical at Hollywood in teen magazines for whitewashing and

teen magazines for whitewashing and

teen magazines for whitewashing and photoshopping lighter skin tones on to

photoshopping lighter skin tones on to

photoshopping lighter skin tones on to their models famous creams are still

their models famous creams are still

their models famous creams are still being sold and our parents tell us don’t

being sold and our parents tell us don’t

being sold and our parents tell us don’t spend too much time in the Sun you’ll

spend too much time in the Sun you’ll

spend too much time in the Sun you’ll get darker we can debate police

get darker we can debate police

get darker we can debate police brutality in the US for hours on end but

brutality in the US for hours on end but

brutality in the US for hours on end but we can’t bear to bring up the only

we can’t bear to bring up the only

we can’t bear to bring up the only killings throughout Asia or the Rohingya

killings throughout Asia or the Rohingya

killings throughout Asia or the Rohingya crisis why do we choose to actively

crisis why do we choose to actively

crisis why do we choose to actively ignore the issues that impact us on a

ignore the issues that impact us on a

ignore the issues that impact us on a much deeper and perform level because

much deeper and perform level because

much deeper and perform level because it’s easier it’s easier to talk about it

it’s easier it’s easier to talk about it

it’s easier it’s easier to talk about it when you’re not expected to do anything

when you’re not expected to do anything

when you’re not expected to do anything about it but when are we going to start

about it but when are we going to start

about it but when are we going to start doing something about it and here’s the

doing something about it and here’s the

doing something about it and here’s the thing change dozen half to start big

thing change dozen half to start big

thing change dozen half to start big I’ve gone used to taking the metro or

I’ve gone used to taking the metro or

I’ve gone used to taking the metro or walking around in malls and it’s kind of

walking around in malls and it’s kind of

walking around in malls and it’s kind of surprising that I’ve only very recently

surprising that I’ve only very recently

surprising that I’ve only very recently noticed how much of a cultural melting

noticed how much of a cultural melting

noticed how much of a cultural melting pot

pot

pot because I see women wearing hijabs and

because I see women wearing hijabs and

because I see women wearing hijabs and dreadlocks

dreadlocks

dreadlocks in Dutch weights dressed in jeans or a

in Dutch weights dressed in jeans or a

in Dutch weights dressed in jeans or a bias or solarz reading books in Arabic

bias or solarz reading books in Arabic

bias or solarz reading books in Arabic or English or Russian which is something

or English or Russian which is something

or English or Russian which is something you don’t see everywhere in the world

you don’t see everywhere in the world

you don’t see everywhere in the world all the unrest in conflict afraid has

all the unrest in conflict afraid has

all the unrest in conflict afraid has made me realize that I’ve ended up

made me realize that I’ve ended up

made me realize that I’ve ended up somewhere people can coexist regardless

somewhere people can coexist regardless

somewhere people can coexist regardless of religion caste creed or ethnicity

of religion caste creed or ethnicity

of religion caste creed or ethnicity I’ve had the chance to meet so many

I’ve had the chance to meet so many

I’ve had the chance to meet so many different people who represent a

different people who represent a

different people who represent a multitude of languages and cultures and

multitude of languages and cultures and

multitude of languages and cultures and customs and I am immensely grateful for

customs and I am immensely grateful for

customs and I am immensely grateful for that because it’s taught me to be part

that because it’s taught me to be part

that because it’s taught me to be part of my own it’s taught me to be part of

of my own it’s taught me to be part of

of my own it’s taught me to be part of who I am and where I come from and to be

who I am and where I come from and to be

who I am and where I come from and to be unapologetic for it it’s taught me that

unapologetic for it it’s taught me that

unapologetic for it it’s taught me that it is possible to adapt to different

it is possible to adapt to different

it is possible to adapt to different surroundings without intrinsically

surroundings without intrinsically

surroundings without intrinsically changing myself I mentioned being

changing myself I mentioned being

changing myself I mentioned being grateful and gratitude has become so

grateful and gratitude has become so

grateful and gratitude has become so important to me and here’s why it’s in

important to me and here’s why it’s in

important to me and here’s why it’s in human nature to be greedy into always

human nature to be greedy into always

human nature to be greedy into always one goal and that’s made me bitter and

one goal and that’s made me bitter and

one goal and that’s made me bitter and unhappy more times than I could ever

unhappy more times than I could ever

unhappy more times than I could ever count but God did you can change that

count but God did you can change that

count but God did you can change that and bring you an abundance of new

and bring you an abundance of new

and bring you an abundance of new perspectives and outlooks and worldviews

perspectives and outlooks and worldviews

perspectives and outlooks and worldviews I’m grateful to have received all the

I’m grateful to have received all the

I’m grateful to have received all the opportunities that I have today to be

opportunities that I have today to be

opportunities that I have today to be getting a stellar education from a

getting a stellar education from a

getting a stellar education from a reputed school the hub my boy is wearing

reputed school the hub my boy is wearing

reputed school the hub my boy is wearing out a speaker when so many go unheard

out a speaker when so many go unheard

out a speaker when so many go unheard I’d like to be a medium for those voices

I’d like to be a medium for those voices

I’d like to be a medium for those voices it’s an overbite that entire groups of

it’s an overbite that entire groups of

it’s an overbite that entire groups of people are discriminated against and

people are discriminated against and

people are discriminated against and denied countless opportunities and not

denied countless opportunities and not

denied countless opportunities and not even on the basis of their actions it’s

even on the basis of their actions it’s

even on the basis of their actions it’s simply for who they are

simply for who they are

simply for who they are I’ve come to realize that those things

I’ve come to realize that those things

I’ve come to realize that those things are not chin being grateful for this

are not chin being grateful for this

are not chin being grateful for this very forum have put me in a unique

very forum have put me in a unique

very forum have put me in a unique position of privilege and it’s my

position of privilege and it’s my

position of privilege and it’s my sincere hope that using that privilege I

sincere hope that using that privilege I

sincere hope that using that privilege I can meet some change

can meet some change

can meet some change biggest mall in the world fit better and

biggest mall in the world fit better and

biggest mall in the world fit better and I’m asking you to do this

I’m asking you to do this

I’m asking you to do this not by protesting or picket fencing but

not by protesting or picket fencing but

not by protesting or picket fencing but through small acts of courage like being

through small acts of courage like being

through small acts of courage like being yourself so that you can inspire others

yourself so that you can inspire others

yourself so that you can inspire others to do the same into the we can stand

to do the same into the we can stand

to do the same into the we can stand united in our diversity thank you

united in our diversity thank you

united in our diversity thank you [Applause]

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