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Circología: el origen de mis decir-SI-ones | Paola Avilés | TEDxTlalpan


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Today I come to tell you about the origin of my

decisions

say yes or no

fantastic to say yes say no say yes

or to say is not a is a decision and

so many emotions that where do they come from?

these decisions have my decide to be or

not be good but be that it is so

my question I want that I can that

who I want to be today I do not come to

practice them from the fantastic

wonderful incredible story of my

life but I do want to share a

couple of thoughts I had at

throughout all the history that I have been

accompanied because from a young age I could

decide if you wanted water or milk

then since I’m a little girl

more or less so

and surely you have also

based her life and to built it by

your decisions

for me it is very important to understand that

decide

I take an action or a word very

specific that is the yes and that yes in

really I do not know what I will do

step by step step by step I was going to

direct me where I’m going to go

now I arrived here

Hill tip

I have a lot of fortune to be able

share this because I believe that since

the first moment and that I knew that I

I could decide what I wanted to do circus

I wanted to be a clown who wanted to be

juggler who wanted to be a dancer

obviously they are not the best options

in a professional curriculum true that

that being a clown is going to be as good

but you no longer seriously you’ll

devote to if not what are you going to live

Well, this is what makes me happy

I will be happy for me to share that

happiness and I think that’s very

important because if I do not feel my

happiness

then I will not be able to share this

because it is not where my happiness is

I do not have it, I can not give it

so I think it’s something very

important to start connecting with that

own happiness to be able to share

and there are my decisions

life is a circus there is a circus of my life

and if we as a circus professional league

can say that if life is a

circus and going a little deeper

that is the circus I found something very

nice that is the dance of a teacher

russian are called atole and recently

we were giving a class in a

graduate of the National Center for the

arts and you say you know what is this dance

clear dances dancer pointed no dance is

fly dances popular

and yes he identified every time he danced

yes yes it feels like flying if it’s something

very similar and then thinking that it is

fly

good he fly is also dream

to dream is to dare and to dare is

take the reins of my life my life does not

what others said that should

of having been because it has been incredible

doctor assured I do not think I do not think so I think

that I can help much more from my

trench that is the smile is the good

humor is dancing and sharing is another

kind of energy that I think is a

very serious thing even if it does not make sense

noticed more in life seriously is very

seriously you have understand I believe in order

we are going to have something very important

If the circus is nothing and is life

life is perfect

what do I mean with perfect

perfection is the word the best friend

of the word of perfection because

because if I allow myself to approach the

perfection

I can really remove so many

fears so many anxieties of wanting

do it perfect because normally or

one surely did not come out like me

I should have believed that I should

of having been not because that’s an idea

of what should have been or the

another is that rather not even me

I dare to do things for fear that

the art of the clown is not perfect

has helped me understand this I do not have

to be perfect but I can be

perfect or approaching it and then

can already include the good wave can already

include breathing can already include me

in life as well as sun with my

virtues and with my defects effect

well there is a question that has been

thinking and is the origin of my ideas

three kinds of ideas and it’s as that

defined as idea idea is a seed or

so I imagine

and this one is planted in my head and not

I have one surely you will know

that you do not have is an idea if you do not

they have several and these ideas start to

grow up here I take them as if they were

which will allow me to do something

tiny but extraordinary in my

day by day is to look for a small one and

this one that allows me to feel something

different in my life

for example my first and de hita was

take a class juggle my second and

of avoids was to take a dance class

Now I’m a juggler and I’m a dancer

Professional of a small idea to feel

something so beautiful that I simply wanted

do it all the rest of my life and so

she has decided and that’s how it is

continued

I think something very valuable these and of

and you are going to have the possibility if

I take risks and I take care of them if I

I answer if I really like these

unpublished will be able to become

an idea and that is something that already

flowers I ‘m not imagining in

box office blossomed but a lot very much

and not just a little plant with a

little flower but let’s imagine that it is a

tree with apple and up the apple the

apple is the product of that idea and I

I can literally feed in my day

a professional and emotional day and

personal of these ideas feed me

literally of all of it and I think that

it’s something very nice because it’s my own

food I decide what to eat

I decide my life, they are not

submitted can say what they want

but I want to have my decision

that apple and she me as a coach and

I already know jugglers and clowns well what

happens when that idea if not here

frame I did not dare for something

fear or for whatever it does not matter expires

time and naturally this apple

so horribly said is going to rot

it’s going to wither and it’s not going to work

and it will not be my food will be

great for the little leaves

susanito all that is super good but

it is not for me

So, well, well, I think

that it would be good to stay with my

own ideas and grow

these own ideas to find

then the authenticity and the origin of

what I do want from what I do

I am approaching it and I invite you to

start the entities or each time

more we have another very important thing and

is to feel

there is a very slow sentence that says feel

with the mind and think with the heart

if I can find that balance of no

allow the mind to decide city

in town and that the heart heart

one hundred and 180 if we do not start communicating

start to let them communicate the and

that they take the roles a little bit and they

balance at that time I think that

We are starting to have higher quality

of decision because it is not only

what I thought what he said on the radio what

what internet said what my

granny

if I’m not thinking what I feel and that

it’s something very nice that would be like a

second exercise does not define recognize

where my ideas come from and it ‘s meditates

an idea one side and another

is iii

or if they are balanced this one yes I am

thinking and feeling at the same time and

I have another part will be thing

One is the heart asks me

surely you will know that

it means what my heart asks of me or

the heart asks them if they are

asking the heart for that decision if

he asks for them

do it, there is no failure, there will be no failure

and because we are being asked

heart was going to be so much the projection

more are in the clarity that they are going to

achieve

is going to happen like this the safe roller coaster

but it’s fun too even though

It’s scary how they fall like me

right now if you are not sure that you

the heart asks for the worst thing that

it can happen is that you like it

then if you have to pay the bills

the balls are not cheap, not the

shoes of all the look little hat

cost

if I’m not sure if it generates a challenge

important then it can not be a

third question looks funny

well I see it I say is that that funny

I want even if they do not know if they are going or not

but it looks funny I invite you to

so try it if they try

because someone you want you do not know

what but you want it

try it, nothing happens and if they do

process happens nothing

this is a disappointment for

after then if really

I still do not know if it looks fun or not

then I can make a

it’s no longer a question now it’s a

answer that I do want to give you is

so do not waste your time and do

something that asks the heart there is a

magician

according to me my imagination says that it is

friend to see the least

nor all of them is to say berlin’s

merlin and says everything flows and ebbs everything

everything goes down and the rhythm is its

compensation

then we can juggle we can

dance and feel the flow of life and the

perfection of is with me living my

own life

thank you very much

[Applause]

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