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some circumstances happened that

they are out of my reach but my

dads decide to separate

then my mom had three months of

pregnancy when they separate and said

well I will resist

I’m going to give a nation the debt

American to this girl can

find some advantages but it was not

well because for the health of both of her

like mine and the safety of many

things were not quite right

then my mother decided to come to

mexico when I was six months old

pregnancy

then she comes to live

back to Mexico and I am born happens

under these circumstances

my mom at 26 years old had the

responsibility to work for four

children and I was alone as regards the

nuclear family refers

then my mom worked twelve hours

to the day and at that moment she decides

leave me at my grandparents’ house and I think

that in this home then in these

now I of course saw

every day to be able to have

food and those things that are needed

but but a little different

the kind of environment in which I

I unwrapped because I lived with my uncles

that took me 20 years apart

I lived with my grandparents they took me 50

years of difference

then from here I grew up with a

very mature environment for what the

most of the people we are

accustomed when we unwrap

in family

then my grandmother teaches me that if

had to travel with her had to

get the money to be able to get

for my ticket

so I started selling things for

catalog I started to learn different

things because I had to work hard and I

I wanted to go with her to the city of

mexico to make a secret visit to san

Juan de los Lagos and want any

another place

then from there was born apart my

passion for travel and for making

different things like

I was presenting myself because this kind of

education based on challenges and based on

different goals that you ‘re going

proposing and that you are working

to be able to fulfill them is where it was born

a different discipline and where you

educate so you can get to say or

I stay there on the road and left him

let him go alone just I stay

here in the house or flat said yes

and I work to get that kind of

things

another episode as different than

There was at age 4 they wrote to me

kindergarten I go about 23 months and I did not like

the system then the only person

with which I can negotiate because I

I wanted a lot

It was my grandma then right now

that not my mom that does not flat out me

I was given much less but my

Granny tells me ok she wants to stop

study then you will teach yourself to

do the housework because

only and those two alternatives when

you grow

I said come, you accepted the challenge

because I’m not liking this

perfect then I dedicated myself to

move away for clothes I dedicated myself to

wash the dishes I was dedicated to tend

the bed and help you in part can do

food

then at that time I think I said

Well, you have to resist a few

grandmother months when inscriptions other

time to return to kindergarten and and filled

is counting the time but also

it was partly a moment that marked my

life and that I said I think you have to

say no to the rings to the early

age because this is not what I want

as fast not only because now

that when you decide to do it later

of this activity

then and I arrived here at 27 years old

bachelor this then I another

strong circumstance that I lived and that

it made me how to overcome and be very recent

Resilience is when you surpasses

the to the strong cases to the cases

distressing and you get over it

quickly my grandmother died

when I was 7 years old and I was

all the time with her then for

I was like losing a mother to me

why chin how do I recover from this

how are they still going to school as

I keep smiling as I continue to do

sports as I continue my normal life

then it was another challenge was something

that like I practiced to see

how are you going to replace

quickly of those misfortunes or of

circumstances not so pleasant for you

life then I do my course but

something very important happens I’m leaving

to live at my family’s house

and you know what it means to have

three brothers who do not know those who

they are taking away love attention

time of a mother who was

apart completely for them and how

it was the smallest the girlie

because if they had me educated in the other

house then starts there also a

negotiation point to be able to tie

and be able to fit into a family nucleus with

my brothers

then there was also a point of

negotiation between to see is that if I

I need this then then I have

to give first and there I was educated in the

fact that I have to first give

to be able to receive something and not always

do it in exchange for something because no

always assured

then you have to give in order to be in

peace and in harmony with the people that you

surrounds and with that circumstance of which

it is unfolding then another of

those of the circumstances that we live

was that I was already 11 years old and I

I identified something because one of my

great friends that apart was neighbor and

son of my mom’s employers because

they had some circumstances

different people went on trips to places

different

his house had different furniture his

talks will be different from those of my

friends in elementary school because he

after kindergarten he went to a

private school and I went to a

public and I did not see it like I have

disadvantages or something but I saw that

there were two different worlds and I wanted

understand it to have at least the

the option to be able to say I want this

I want another one because I had more options

succession at that time I speak with my

mom and I tell mom what father that my

brothers have gone

secondary but I want to go up to

school

I know it’s going to cost more because

our economic capacity to the downside

then I tell you but it is not impossible

we have to start investigating here

see what this is about

then we have to do four things

and I said good

posed that assume but the first

three as you want the first one was

get a scholarship but keep a

certain average be part of the

sports teams that were in the

secondary that was volleyball cheerleader and

these other disciplines

the other was to work four hours

Day – time in a shop

clothes with my brother in law with my sister to

to be able to receive the money and pay a

part of the tuition the other part the

the tuition paid my mother and was

the hardest part because I had a

decalogue there were 10 10 things to fulfill

that anahí you have to do this and

I had to comply because if not

he was going to give me the money from that

monthly payment of what is her

but that he did to keep it in

waist because I was also like

half revealed I felt half

independent and vélez left the lane

then it was also like there’s a

point of negotiation and that helped me

forever because even though today

day live alone and I wear myself

Decalogue I follow him or not then

I recommend that to you too

because who are taking care of you

person

so this happened, I realized that

I could decide between going to a school

or not between practicing a sport or not

do things the way they did

doing my brothers or my whole family

or be able to change course when I was taking

decisions and won allies and there it was

where I realized I was

forming my life was but everything the

personal decisions

it was like doing a self sculpture no and

you are forming, you are taking away

everything that hinders you and goes

outlining what can help you

be a better person who can

help we will be

Hernando then I also started

think what’s different now because there’s

people who come with the president because

sometimes he received certain diplomas

you could shake hands with the president

because I won a certain rating this

year and other times I said what

difference has people who do have

the ability to be with those people

important with which you can never

approach these people or negotiate

absolutely nothing and nothing more to wait for

see what others decide so that their

life can continue its course

then I realized that people

that he could get close to those points

of power and decision

they had these different

characteristics were destructive

they called insane they will be disciplined

they will be flexible they were irreverent

they had a certain vocation not all

they studied in the university but they were

he had a talent and that

they had the passion to dedicate themselves to something

in the painting the sculpture aa the

music to different types of art be

politicians but they are passionate about it and

they were dedicated to be developing

different initiatives in this area

then I realized that I had to

develop different aspects of those

characteristics that make them take

decisions about the lives of others

people

I said I want to become like that

powerful then we went forward and today

in day I to this kind of people

he called reuters impact that means a

router 13 a device that makes it

interconnect a package of different

data are passed to another one to one

interconnected network of groups of

computers in all we have different

groups of computers and the router what

what it does is take this package of

information and send it to a group of

to a computer network they are not going to

another and then it ‘s a sharing and it’s a

communicate and generate impact so that

things happen between the different

connection groups

then imagine that the routers of

pacts with these people that makes

things happen and the different networks of

from the tower of computers are

different social groups

impact reuters make one

things come to benefit others

right away, I’m going to tell you three things

do the routers impact on the way

staff that has appreciated

The first thing we have to do is

have a reason this reason should

answer three questions so that

I’m doing for whoever wants

benefit from you doing some

program or project a company an NGO

a campaign and why it is what is

motivating what is what is what

makes you get up every day is

say I want to continue with this and I’m not going

to throw in the towel and even though

always go things well for lack

of resources for lack of encouragement because

they are all a hindrance or obstacle that is

what makes you move

immediately the course is two

things where I’m going to go and

align all the efforts of the

people that make up that collaboration

then the asia where is our

objective and the vision where we

we are visualizing where

we want to arrive is this

then we will align all the

efforts we will define indicators

let me know when people

is doing things right or when

someone was already late or when

you have to congratulate someone or when there

to get something out in the media then everything

must have indicators so you know

the the amount of progress you’re going

having and of course still of

have rhythm should be set time

to be able to comply with the different

goals and purposes that you put

all this makes us have a tool

for us young people the young

nowadays they are looking to raise their voices

is looking to have representativeness

that people consider them and and have in

tell your views

then today we have the

ability to be citizens of the world

because different organizations and

platforms that allow us to do it

then today more than ever the

Globalization allows us to what

is happening here in aguascalientes

have an impact on South Africa that what

you are doing in aguascalientes or

in jesus maria have impact on

France can be replicated there because

can solve the same time a

problematic

then you have to take advantage of everything

this kind of thing always

what a lazy pack you have to

investigate what kind of organizations

are the platforms that you can use

to get to hit that way in

where you can take an initiative and

you can implement it in all that

perimeter around the world

what is your cause then here you

you have to focus on these

different institutions and platforms

I just mentioned them because

I belong to her because they have a

philosophy with which I identify myself

and I say if this has anything to do with

what I profess and this has a

little of objectives aligned to what

I want to do in this life

then you have a gold mine there

many organizations that tie

with the philosophy that you have in your

life you have to identify them approaching

she will join you I will make here a

a dynamic of this of the alphabet

please choose two letters

two favorite time more than 90% of

you chose one of those two letters

is the initial of your name or the initial

of his last name

then why is this becomes

when you see the name of a cause or

the name of some campaign this is

checked by the different

scientists different cases by

example the hurricanes when the name

of the now begins with k

The majority of 30% winners are

people who or of those who have more

money are people whose name matches

with the first letter of the name hurricane

then you when you think about making a

program a company a name of a

product please look for a man that

know that it is not to guess your futures

clients but that your collaborators your

collaborators identify with that

letter or have any impact on this

meaning to win followers here

Many people ask me ana and that is

how do you do to travel or tell us

like those investigations that I

I also want to do it when I

start to practice that you have to fill

formats that will allow you to start

answer me

is that I can not, is that I do not have that

education is that it is difficult is not

that is very complicated no longer does it

for that I better settle for that, not the

I really do not have money, I do not

I know all those answers

I was at some point but

I decided to eliminate them

then if suddenly we are

in this situation so Tucci clips

and it’s like a little uach it starts to

wash all as soon as he had identifies

that you are telling some of the above

I had something is happening something is

I’m going to eliminate it and I’m going to change it

for these words I am efficient in that

that’s for me I do not know it but I’m going to

attend so that it can meet today

bond with that person to I do not have the

money I will not manage the money

is always circulating we are not going to

identify where you are getting to

request what do you have to say I have

the capacity

I’m leaving I do not know but I’m going to

investigate what I’m going to practice

person who is an expert in that subject

then this is what it does have to

appear on your check list and always

have a challenge in front of you is what

that you have to focus on the first step

It does not take you where you want but it takes you out

the place where you are , and have

have to be clear and you can not

to give up because we have another

dynamic

I think please at this time in the

five people with passing

Most of your time either via Skype

by guasave phone calls in the

office with your family your partner in

sports teams you will notice

that those five people

if we put them together the average is your terra

id is similar to them when they make you

a joke with these hands with the same

words when they make criticisms

on a subject you tell yourself more or

less something similar

then from now on you have to

be more selective and you have to be a

little bit more mature at the time of saying

I’m going to have a coffee but

someone who is going to be adding you

value invites someone you know that

know of a subject that at that time

you want to learn more

then you will become the

average but now of those people who

you are selecting and of which

you want to be adding value to your

life what will happen when

designing your reality is going to be

different

in my case there was influenza increasing the

dollar when just when I was going to go

of travel and I was asking for sponsorships

increasing the enthusiast less money

they are going to say that as I am a woman like

to be able to travel alone in the house they are going to say

how she is going to support your friends to

to say is that you can not or you’re stuck with

the school the visa the language the

religion and the cultures that then you

you find in those countries you are going to

there are many obstacles but always

must see the happy face of the

circumstances

makes some it will be three days I

they operated

then I in the hospital and I could

say or it gets more superfluous is

for all the things that was

canceling to oppose me happy and learn from

the circumstance and saying this is me

serving for such thing can not

answer some calls just had

done the whole strategy because I just

be in a meeting with different

mayors of different municipalities of the

country and they were calling me when I

I was in the hospital

then after, or like I said

Well, I’m going to concentrate on this and

I told him my family know that I’m going to

start going down on such dates and I’m going to

start having same agenda that I will

be carrying out

I can say at that moment

I’m convalescing is that please

have mercy on me and I can not do

nothing right now or see the good side and

to say is a time as a father to

rest and immediately he could take this

type of expansion projects that already

I had planned so much

then you have to see the good side

to the circumstances independently

of the situation in which you find yourself

there are 124 million people that ever

attended school

then education is also

makes us

see that we have a difference in how

we are going to be doing so

education and better access to a

better here given the knowledge we

can help these people have

Better opportunities

then here the challenge is going to be the

equity that we are going to be

approaching these people who are going to

allow globalization not to be seen

as something diabolical and that rather

see as something beneficial because more

people access the different

services to the system that we do

we can have scope on the system

educational should know that of course

he was going to tell you an anecdote

There was a fish who told him once

you know that you serve for nothing because

You can fly

then I started that I do not know how they see

that honda holds true I can not fly not

it’s good for nothing but then that happens

different circumstances when you’re

in a classroom suddenly you

you’re terrible in math and nothing else

because the mathematical people no longer

It’s good for nothing but they do not know that you

you are very talented in the area of

Spanish and will be a great speaker was going to

be an excellent negotiator

then you have to realize that if the

system now we can not change it

overnight, but we can

make different strategies invest in

our attitudes to solve

problems in auto learning

online learning or different readings

that may be contributing value in

communication personal attitudes

self-management and social attitudes

Knowledge when implemented

to be able to connect

acquisitions and this allows you

just decide how you’re going to spend

the things with whom it will happen

where your pain your happiness or your

break

then it may be different that says

I’m going to rest a few days here in

Villa Hidalgo I’m going to rest a few days

here in Dubai or I’m going to rest

days here in puerto vallarta or better

I’m going to give a presentation egypt

then the difference of the

knowledge and the different places

organizations as they

I just talked because I can

practice from my experience

nowadays if I have that kind of

possibility for me what they do to me

possible was to get to be so many days

at my mom’s house again but it’s

a surgery like that I put my place and

he has already shared weeks with my mother

but without a doubt the fact that he has

knowledge prepares you for this type

of platforms and from one you can

saying this is not for me you are going to

put and you’re going to do a lot

Presume is that Steve Jobs did not study

the university and it’s successful is that mark

zuckenberg did not finish the university of

his millionaire yes but he invested in his

social communication skills

your talents

lee specialized he contacted the

people are what you have to wear

do if you do not want to study university

front but you have a lot in what

Invest in your person so you can

compete in a work environment and in a

economic environment and social development

as we are seeing today the

innovation in reverse means that

see that you live that you do volunteering

what values ​​you can do different

activities but through the

experimentation

when you feel the way in which

people are carrying out their

situations and you can identify the

problems that they have you are going to

realize that there are different

needs and only to see live

visit travel validate and make a

volunteering you will realize that

you can create a program a company or

an NGO that solves that kind of

aspects

then it’s not like there’s a recipe

of which tells you that these ideas are going

to paste

Then people come when we are

giving consulting and he tells me but that

are the millionaires in this

moment is my answer b visit you travel

volunteer identifies the needs

then and in that need that you

it hurt and in which you are going to express yourself

when are you going to aa

When you go they ask you what you

you dedicate titles passionately that

subject is something that you have to dedicate and

then know if it’s going to be a program

a company with an NGO if it scares you

many times you will be afraid and many

Sometimes they will say you can not

do not be afraid because

circumstance at the end of finishing

It will be very satisfying

what will happen when you have one more achievement

you’re just going to have to give now

turn the page and open a new

chapter and make your story every time

more flirtatious and interesting to read and that

if for a year without seeing your friends

when you see them again you can

buy that chapter that just happened

and that achievement more and they say that

interesting

the truth the best revenge that

can give someone who does not believe in you

is that you are listening success after

success after success of you

that’s the best you can do each

customer no longer can be because there

you have the talent to do that only

success is what the

revenge but yourself and nothing else

it’s up to you not going to get someone to

touch the door with resources you need

to motivate you, you are your principal

motivator

what difference there is between these two

images

the second has much value the first

not so much and that ee

what is the difference or what was the

nature that was what the

second is the result of a piece of

coal that was subjected to a

extraordinary pressure is the only

difference and thanks to that pressure

extraordinary that he lived and who endured

it became a diamond and that you are

you

each one of you has lived different

pressures already decided

said this already of plane already decided here

leave and throw in the towel and and this is already

too much for me and what’s wrong with God

because the universe is against me

in those moments you are forming a

part of that diamond and you must

have patience because the more you enter

more tests you have of this type

you are improving the quality of that

diamond and every time you will have more

value

then why do the values of

every time I pull the law up to here and

I’m up to the top and remember that you

you are turning into a diamond and

it is ceasing to be coal

a phrase that I love to finish and that

the

I think it whenever I have a new

challenge is beyond that the world

You need people like you need

correspond to your personal commitment to

transcend beyond fitting well with

people have to look good with you

you have to look good with dreams

of that child that one day I said

I want to be an artist I want to be a singer

wants to be a painter I want to be

speaker I want to be a politician

it has to correspond to you before

corresponds the animal

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