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Ces femmes qui m’ont appris qui j’étais vraiment | Delphine BLAST | TEDxIMTAtlantiqueBrest


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June 18, 1985 I have my bac

my parents ask me what I want

as a reward reward rare where

the famous site there I like

photo is the beginning my relationship with the

photographer I bet eight years I

my name is jean ice and I am

photojournalist I will tell you

today a little bit of my story

but especially how a job but

won the parts that I could

meet

that changed nani and that helped me to

evolve in this world but rare

tomorrow’s one I think is threatening

I’m a photojournalist and it was not

not expected I come from a very middle

simple you modest tone in a small

village of brittany

not very far from here have done in the

ribs of armor

my grandparents and the farmer my

father is also working in

agriculture

my mother works and we deserve house of

I’ll see you again

still in Madame Trévidic’s office

at 14 years old guidance counselor

college away no or who asks me what

that I want to do later friendship

what do I want to do with my life

I hesitate too much I do not explain myself I

want to become a photo reporter here is

what I’m going to I still see the head

tomorrow afternoon we explain that I

do not really wear to tell me he

Not many opportunities out

his life and montredon frantically

other classes a and then that’s

usually make another choice

at very cheap I still look

and I tell myself that maybe to meditate

in international relations

could make a good group

after 3 what interested me was

to discover nature and to meet

people

I do so langres is one and

I maintain as first boss a

cultural attaché work at the embassy

de france in the dominican republic

I still see him look at my parents

the bright eyes of my father when

I’m announcing the job darling girl

with a diplomatic passport to

represent French culture to

overseas

wow it was a long time that’s right

that on paper it’s more like dreaming

do not feel the beach but my job I

earn well my life I have the same no

every weekend in new york

this class except that the problem is

that he is already happy despite everything

framework despite all these benefits

despite the diplomatic passport I

was not happy

I was not fulfilled in my work

that’s why when I’m 30

propose to renew my contract was born

a day the charcoal and then especially

I always had a fart the little idea

to become a photo reporter

and remember I told you that I was

bretonnes and bretons him they are

stubborn I am very stubborn so before but

too long frozen decides to go back

at dad’s mom the little one

the age of plovers in brittany back to

The starting point

return to canada in place during the winter

you do not hide that care hives on

the ambassador in the tropics was

good but it does not matter but I

still saw the head of my

parents a little disappointed rather disappointed and

worried the world is coming to them

this epilogue I would gresset for me

on the contrary

I was going to be 30 years old especially

I did not want to have regrets

if it works so much better if it does not work

no it does not matter but at least

I would have tried I would have tried

experience

I’m done and I discover that

paris of a formation it takes two

journalists so I decide to ride

in the capital and to go to paris for

pass the contest

after eight months that’s it I ‘ve got them

I become a photojournalist except that

does not it’s so simple

while I saw him already go through the

world and to cover the last crisis

humanitarian in africa

in fact I find myself in Paris by train

to cover the global automotive

for an American customer or still do

weddings to round off their ends of

month

it was the galley galley the good

galley and the galley that lasts a little

word for three years

I’m waiting desperately and orders

magazines that do not come

I’m trying desperately to sell

reports that do not sell and then

one day I did not have the apartment I

I had to take those big ones

owners

my boyfriend you are the package go

we were too much nothing held me back I

decides to remake my suitcases and

leave again abroad but this

times as a photographer

youth is to go to america

Latin because I’ve always been

attracted by this continent and especially I

knew there were things to do

I had always been interested in a

work find the place of the woman

and I wanted to understand how that

ci and especially the new generation

could evolve in a society that

was deemed as a great match and I

will go to colombia in bogota

because I had a friend raphael reality

there and I told myself the worst but the

web room in his apartment me

so that happened to bogota and a

report had heard of a

tradition called Daikin last

so I do not know if among you in the

room you’ve already heard of

this celebration that is not interested

as his name says it will tell us what

that he was doing the birthday party of

fifteen years in latin america is a

sect is very popular in his part me

had said matinee that including the

very popular is always very

popular in Columbia that I wanted

understand it was the operation of

these holidays greece will adhere is a

young girl a thousand he big dress

flashy with a wreath the feast of the

China cnra and a whole ritual this holiday

symbolizes the transition from adolescence to

the adult woman in latino youth

americano there are sentences that is

organized I told you about Rome

there is also the photographer of the evening

there is also your body there is also the

decoration

it’s a phenomenal budget is what

you realize that some

families especially among the most

the most disadvantaged

spend up to 6 million pesos

ie for a party

birthday

these families there because have been up

three years to borrow only

an evening which is interesting

in the feast of loopholes it’s a miracle

to explain it’s a real rite of

transition from childhood to adolescence it

y at a key moment during the evening

the acquis cnra is what is called the

change of shoes this moment I

that’s when the father changes the

particular girl’s shoe

complaining about his flat heels ride in

Thailand

I really like this symbol

the girl through this evening

becomes a real farm to doubt the

process is engaged I understand

so why these girls and these

families prefer to spend as much

money rather than saving for

buy car and barnier in the

future studies or take a trip

because this holiday

this rite of passage this initiatory rite

is fundamental for these families there and

without solid without this holiday becomes 10

admiral the young women would be

always considers always remains

little girls

it’s true that initiatory rites

the rites of initiation are fundamental

they are structuring they help us to

structure me in our journey

staff

how can we evolve in our

world today and even more tomorrow

if we do not know who we are

as the philosopher and writer says

yves stone at the breach

self-knowledge can not be obtained

that by initiation the rites of

passage the initiatory rites exists

for centuries and this in

many companies

i’m talking about latin america but also

in Africa today in our

Western society

we have forsaken their win the symbol

of these initiatory rites and it’s serious

today we live in a society

of uninitiated in a society a little

too many kids with pseudo oh my

desire is really saying damage

so I met these girls this

which turned out I did my report

after several weeks I draw from

from bogota to go in the

law laugh which is a semi region

desert north of columbia at the

border with venezuela and especially

in the loire inra lives a society

who’s called the wise the thugs are

one of the last matriarchal societies

or is it a society

matriarchal a patriarchal society is

a society where women occupy a place

power plant

chili wenzhou the company to organize a

flying is all people are

interconnected with a strong link

maternal children for example

take the name of their mother I surrender

so not without difficulty in the means because

that good thugs actually I feel a

little like me are received and they are there

there are codes to respect

already I do not know if you see where is

located the gr joël hallais once on

I had to accept

and when I met marie viala

village shaman who explained that

to come had to make

conditions I told myself there no

worry I make up ears except that there

could have gone I ‘ll take with

gifts the mechanics it was a

goat and 100 kg of plantains

here is the little Breton had left

his village and that he arrives in this

sum that can lose a very very

lost in colombia with his dear and that’s

really plantain summer long

I accepted I could integrate and passed

several days in this community

I come to the clan in challenge and

hiring ana

I was lucky and at that time there

also had a rite of passage to my

initiative in jerseys from the

day when the girl at her first

rules begins what’s called initiate

the minerals tell me the confinement at

noyon

when the hymn siro starts the young

girl is isolated from the rest of the

community and locking me up a box and

we’re helping him in a hammock case is this

that you can achieve the rite of

passage can last three months

but still not so long ago

could still last three years three years

during which the mother and the

grandmother take charge of the

young girl is well becoming

a woman by instilling values

fundamental ones such as respect

love the job explains to him

also how to do weaving

since one of the first resources

of the community when you and the craft

through the weaving art these young

women can become autonomous and

independent

at the end of this ceremony at the front

musicians rock the intestines end it

there’s a whole ritual and the girl at the

pounding and purifying have the balls the

hair and we wash it and at the moment of its

outing a big party is organized and

you sign in their machetes wayuu

home beautiful chinese lesson yu them

rules are honored in your society

Western rules are apt

I do not know he knows in the audience

in young women who are

present

how much did you talk about their

rules with their mother their grandmother

Me personally

nobody said anything to me I think that

shame

in our western society

everything related to the adult woman

states is hidden we try to

hide

I’m talking about rules I’m also thinking about

women with cellulite

I am also thinking of female forms

forms between who is developing and that’s

dramatic because we need

of these benchmarks to advance in our

transformation go to adulthood

it’s been three months since I

am in colombia it’s time for me

to go back I have my vote I go back in

France transformed I am no longer there

but I feel that it is not yet

finished I feel that I need to do

something I feel I need

Ariane is funny I need to talk

to my father I go back to Brittany

for bars at home we are not

in the family kind we really say

his feelings we say haughty page I

remember it was like it was

yesterday

I resume again found my father

in the garden this summer evening 2015 with

my leaf of a trembling for him

to speak I was 34 years old so long as

that and I had my wife i dreamed ghana

to forget nothing

because I had important things

to tell him I wanted to tell him that 34

years since I was little son

wanted to tell him 84 years old I had become

a woman an adult woman years old I

always stay Safir that I assumed to

no one I had become I wanted

explain to me that I was fully

Conscious that he was disappointed I am

more in diplomacy

but my diplomatic passport and

I became a photographer and I

but that’s how I was

happy

my father was rather understanding and at

the listened was good but even if he

had not been

it does not matter what is important

it’s that I did this act of

magic but in front of my family in front

from my father and I too have acronyms and

so photographer was a job is this

which is quite funny is that some

weeks after talking to him after

having done this act when I proposed

in late May subject to action I

won several competitions at the level

international and I have many

publications

it was the beginning of my career

career took off

if I had not left if I did not

not spoken to my father I am persuaded

none of that would have happened

meetings that I could do with these

women with kim ki-nam graff or with

the thugs have changed my life itself

toif on the om being beautiful and if the

final it was not that too tomorrow if

requests were not being heard

values ​​of these traditional societies

it is besides us as

Western society we gave up

and yet that are fundamental

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