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Causalidad vs. casualidad | Jose Carnero | TEDxEPHOS


it makes sense what I’m doing

I’m doing what I really want

do I am being who really

want to be

I’m being the best version of me

that I can become until

exactly six years until

exactly six november is this one

recurring question a call to which

had not decided to attend construction

of intention my life consisted of what

that consisted of many lives that

they start very soon and they go very fast

it was the path of responsibility and the

response to that responsibility

I started working in advertising to the

20 years

at 26 the creative director a great

advertising agency doing ads

of television that everyone

he commented stopping awards at festivals

at 29

I founded my own kitchen agency and so

only four years later there was close

of 50 people working in an agency

successfully and my life consisted

it consisted of that vortex to which

I was displaced from that responsibility

keep going

where yes it is true that from time to time

when that question appeared , what is it

this

it makes sense but well because I did not know

answer it well because I did not have

time because I was with the next

Phone call

I did not do it as commented

this was true until exactly

six November, luckily there was something

in my life I kept a balance and

that gives me a vital balance that was my

wonderful companion of two children

Martin Goodman

Exactly one week ago six years

behind

We are worried because my son

Guzmán was three years and one month old and

this smile with which I invited him to

every day had disappeared

we went into a hospital thinking that

It could be something minor and up to date

next we were diagnosed

acute lymphoblastic leukemia something that

only three out of every 100,000

kids, I can not tell you

the emotion that one can feel when

a tragedy like this overwhelms you

it’s a flood that there’s no company

who can control it

in that same moment we are talking

of the day the same diagnosis just one

call to my mobile phone a

hidden number a call that never

I thought that I would have the agenda to the other

the side of the phone was death

threatened what I most wanted and

taking everything through me

it gave stability

it’s more he told me he was going to visit me

that I will call every day during

several years from that day and that if

some day we knew the hospital was

sold as an unwelcome guest

home you do not know how much that

call

At that moment I became aware that

from that second every second of

life with my son every second of life

with what I most wanted

it was going to be a gift a gift that

I thought wasted and in that connection

with this present

there were two words that resounded in that

precise precise instant within me

head

those words were for something and for something

and for something that detonated an energy in

me that pulled a will one

decision to pull forward a one

desire to build a positive future

that for something and implicit bain with a

with a conviction and that is that from

that moment this experience that

we started to live not only was it going to be a

experience that will enrich the

way of my son’s life but the

path of all those who surround you

so that same night

we keep talking about it the same

day and the same night with that for something

rumbling in my head I sat on

that light and next to my bed

son to find what he wanted to find

stories that would have gone through this

experience stories that would have

finished in positive stories that

they had lived in positive but not

I found nothing and when I found I found

account of what he was looking for and what

I was clear I saw it clear I had to open

a blog a block against our

positive story

a blog e to be counted from that

moment that experience with a halo of

positive energy and what does our

the whole family all of us who were going

to accompany and especially to eliminate

that victimhood and that poor little thing of the

mind of all those who think

in us to build a future in

positive and to project us in positive

towards him

that same night the next day

there would be the one blog between 100,000 and with

that name

one in 100,000 was the name of what

I would represent my son my son not

it was only going to be one in 100 thousand that

I had to live this disease but

that in addition to overcoming the

get amazing things that 99,999

children were not going to be able to live and

with that determination

that blog started to be blogs

our life in positive

from that moment every day consisted

in this sit me at night in front

of the computer open it and create a post

realized what I was serving my

advertising past in all this

history

Become aware of my love for

narration and by the creation of

stories and my life like that of any

now fashionable cook consisted of

build rebuild the experience

more wonderful that day take the

words separate them from thoughts

separate them emotions and if the day you have

been has not been positive

reorder the words put them

change them and realize how that

wonder that it’s just that it ‘s the

language

change the thoughts and how to turn

the thoughts change the energies and

well build an energy engine

positive of our day to day

In that way, what he gave me was the

beauty of discovering that gift that is

the present and the blog consisted of this

in discovering that greatness of the small

the little things that can happen to you

that if you do not pay attention to them they pass

unnoticed such as going up and down

a hospital bed like a

amusement park a roller coaster

or how fun it can be and what

wonderful that it can be to give you a

kiss with your son

despite having a mask or what

wonderful that you can be taking a

flight with seven pages at a time see

Grandma about their grandchildren or spend

by the hairdresser to distribute the hair

as to accompany that the path of

your son and of course how incredible

it becomes when you get to touch the

skin of your child after several months

in isolation that started aa

start something wonderful magic that is

started connecting many people

with us not only family and friends

the blog started to be a source of

inspiration for people who are

going through similar situations but

also for ordinary people who

they lived a halo of light and inspiration

and opportunity to enjoy your

I presented

simply to see an experience

like ours and really when

you are at that point you realize that

you’ve spent your whole life we spent

the whole life generating a small

thread of invisible connections that you do not see

but it ‘s what we do is that since

we get up until we go to bed

all our life but in the precise

moment when you become aware of your

present you observe it you do not know why

magically, that thread comes together and

magical connections begin to occur and

wonderful that we can reach you

imagine and this was what happened with

the blog connections arose in

circle again and again

coincidences and the houses were such that

They could not be called flukes

they had to call causality and that is

when you believe so much in that in him to

something you realize that chance

it really does not exist and it ‘s a little

same that has to do with luck the

who believes in causality works

so that they arise and make and create doors

so that they emerge while the

coincidences correspond a few and

just a matter of chance with which your

role is not actor

same as when you work so that

work him because at that time and

with those coincidences arising

what happened was that we had to

we come to a wonderful outcome and it is

that guzmán two years later sure of

solution has already left his medication but

we have a responsibility we had

created a community marveled

and we realized that you could not

to stay there is to enjoy the present and

you have to be aware you had to

serve for another so we had to

build another so that this one so that

It was November 1, November 2012

in which we want the foundation between

100,000 and with a goal we wanted

get what they are looking for

got but for all children

who suffered from childish

we wanted to get invest in

research so that all children

end up curing this disease

unfortunately a child a day in

Spain Spain only in the

diagnosed childhood leukemia and

unfortunately only 80 percent

Today is cured

that 20 percent is still the same

that decades ago why do not you

Investigate enough to get ready

this problem with that vocation of

want to work to do to produce

a change like this started the

foundation with this energy that I do not know

that characterized us again positive

Glycemia is too hard an opponent

for one but not for 100,000 and creating

innovative projects we were looking for a

little the magic that they re-emerged

the causalities and they surround us all

we created a very nice project the year

112 to solidarity that people

download to run on our behalf and to

through a single euro to euro to euro

we get the first year generates a

research grant for 75,000 euros

and the causalities did not stop happening

the people who have gotten the

dorsal that year began to donate

your celebrations weddings communions

they began to take the numbers to the

schools so that the schools run to

favor of the supermen foundation

They decided to swim across the Strait of

mallorca menorca great brands

They decided to do solidary bracelets

solidarity and never supportive people

famous not only the apus or upload their

image but it became one

between 100,000 and would cause robberies after

causality for three years

we generate three research grants

for almost 300,000 euros and in between

why

and between so much causality happened what

he has no choice but to occur

and that is that I am leaving my life of

advertising and in parallel the foundation

Believe in an innovation company

called innovates that in which in which

we work every day to help

the big companies

so that introduce it in its purpose

of company and try to impact the

world in positive

sometimes I think if I look back and

I say that is what has brought me

here where I was six years ago and

where I am now and it is as simple as

this is that connection with the present

who gave me that call from

phone and that I discovered the gift

what I was missing is all that

I brought the blog every day and that is

you really realize that this is the

key to try to find out if

it makes sense what you are doing not

and project the future in positive and it is

that paradoxically to work in the

transcendence of tomorrow in finding your

own so that they come in to know if it has

meaning not what you ‘re doing the

only way is to stop to feel and

connect with what is really

important in life because only from

there and it’s the present because only since

that present magical things happened

because suddenly what you will get is

that the future attract him so

will become present and suddenly that

dotted line that has brought you up

here from your past they give meaning to what

what have you done each and every one of the

days of your life without everything you did

all those days you would not be here

today and only from that point from that point

can accept with love who you are and

only at that point can you get that

I emerge better sometimes and it has happened to me

writing this talk live

my mother go transient madness that

you have everything that is happening is not

more than coincidence but luckily

when that happens, life gives me

small signs wonderful signs

like today is November again and

like we happen to be in the museum

of the railway

the most magical place where every day

every week we came with our son

to enjoy and project that future in

positive and with the symbol of that

what else did we want to get to the

destination station where today

we’re

sometimes I think and the path that has

brought here has given me this

the fragility that surrounds us each and every

one of us the next call that

have any of us by

phone can be from that number

hidden and not the one who speaks that no

we want to attend and we do not want to listen

but you really do not need to be and

simply enough that we give

mind that it could be like that because

from that thought we will be able to

connect with our present and

discovered the gift that is and from that

gift ask us the following questions

it makes sense what I’m doing

it makes sense what I am doing

the best I can do

I’m being the best version of me

what could it be and something I have very clear that

the fact that each and every one of the

that we are here we are here today not

it is simple and mere chance

thank you very much

[Applause]

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