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Catholic School, Football and the Need for Acceptance | Té Burkholder & Molly Sherma | TEDxYouth@HHS


I’m to a Catholic school for and we can

I’m to a Catholic school for and we can do in our daily bible studies learning

do in our daily bible studies learning

do in our daily bible studies learning how to read go to church every single

how to read go to church every single

how to read go to church every single wednesday and of course doing simple

wednesday and of course doing simple

wednesday and of course doing simple math equations we talked about the bad

math equations we talked about the bad

math equations we talked about the bad and scary things in the world like what

and scary things in the world like what

and scary things in the world like what horrible things would happen if you sin

horrible things would happen if you sin

horrible things would happen if you sin and what you definitely shouldn’t break

and what you definitely shouldn’t break

and what you definitely shouldn’t break the Ten Commandments but the teachers

the Ten Commandments but the teachers

the Ten Commandments but the teachers not really made the time to talk about

not really made the time to talk about

not really made the time to talk about what our world really needs to be

what our world really needs to be

what our world really needs to be accepted and at London of people

accepted and at London of people

accepted and at London of people different than us so much so that I

different than us so much so that I

different than us so much so that I never would be that there was anything

never would be that there was anything

never would be that there was anything different than us within three months so

different than us within three months so

different than us within three months so associated to a bigger more diverse

associated to a bigger more diverse

associated to a bigger more diverse school and being exposed and educated

school and being exposed and educated

school and being exposed and educated about more diverse topics such as the

about more diverse topics such as the

about more diverse topics such as the lgbtq+ community I realized that I was

lgbtq+ community I realized that I was

lgbtq+ community I realized that I was consensual and could another year and a

consensual and could another year and a

consensual and could another year and a half educating myself and figuring

half educating myself and figuring

half educating myself and figuring things out I realized that my Decker was

things out I realized that my Decker was

things out I realized that my Decker was covered by her so why am I telling you

covered by her so why am I telling you

covered by her so why am I telling you this story well it’s because being

this story well it’s because being

this story well it’s because being exposed to positive information and

exposed to positive information and

exposed to positive information and positive role models in the lgbtq+

positive role models in the lgbtq+

positive role models in the lgbtq+ community and also had been extremely

community and also had been extremely

community and also had been extremely supportive friends that were also

supportive friends that were also

supportive friends that were also educated and supportive of the lgbtq+

educated and supportive of the lgbtq+

educated and supportive of the lgbtq+ community made discovering and accepting

community made discovering and accepting

community made discovering and accepting so much easier so how can we effectively

so much easier so how can we effectively

so much easier so how can we effectively and positively educate ourselves so that

and positively educate ourselves so that

and positively educate ourselves so that we can be the sort accredited well step

we can be the sort accredited well step

we can be the sort accredited well step one would be to start with yourselves we

one would be to start with yourselves we

one would be to start with yourselves we all have a world of knowledge at our

all have a world of knowledge at our

all have a world of knowledge at our fingertips to spend only using if you

fingertips to spend only using if you

fingertips to spend only using if you work cat videos me to social media so

work cat videos me to social media so

work cat videos me to social media so let’s use it but basic knowledge on the

let’s use it but basic knowledge on the

let’s use it but basic knowledge on the topic that you’re searching before you

topic that you’re searching before you

topic that you’re searching before you search so we’ll give you some other than

search so we’ll give you some other than

search so we’ll give you some other than that we use anyone who isn’t Heather

that we use anyone who isn’t Heather

that we use anyone who isn’t Heather sexual which is what your relationships

sexual which is what your relationships

sexual which is what your relationships also know how to straight or cisgender

also know how to straight or cisgender

also know how to straight or cisgender which is when you’re generating empathy

which is when you’re generating empathy

which is when you’re generating empathy alliances the one that you are a network

alliances the one that you are a network

alliances the one that you are a network so let’s look at the first two one

so let’s look at the first two one

so let’s look at the first two one the out and EEG they stand for like Ian

the out and EEG they stand for like Ian

the out and EEG they stand for like Ian and the gay which are same-sex

and the gay which are same-sex

and the gay which are same-sex attraction for women and men

attraction for women and men

attraction for women and men respectively you’ve definitely altered

respectively you’ve definitely altered

respectively you’ve definitely altered the term Danny’s before whether it be in

the term Danny’s before whether it be in

the term Danny’s before whether it be in the media and the insult just to clarify

the media and the insult just to clarify

the media and the insult just to clarify it

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it it’s not in to be used as one or as a

it’s not in to be used as one or as a

it’s not in to be used as one or as a fancy word that something uses to

fancy word that something uses to

fancy word that something uses to describe being overly cocky next which

describe being overly cocky next which

describe being overly cocky next which stands for potential which is whether it

stands for potential which is whether it

stands for potential which is whether it is attracted to two genders at once

is attracted to two genders at once

is attracted to two genders at once however this doesn’t have to be just

however this doesn’t have to be just

however this doesn’t have to be just male and female a bisexual person could

male and female a bisexual person could

male and female a bisexual person could to some gender inside or outside of the

to some gender inside or outside of the

to some gender inside or outside of the gender binary outside of male and female

gender binary outside of male and female

gender binary outside of male and female we’ll get to those other interactions in

we’ll get to those other interactions in

we’ll get to those other interactions in a second an important thing to note is

a second an important thing to note is

a second an important thing to note is that if a bisexual person is wished to

that if a bisexual person is wished to

that if a bisexual person is wished to have a specific gender of a different

have a specific gender of a different

have a specific gender of a different gender later on nuts there’s the T which

gender later on nuts there’s the T which

gender later on nuts there’s the T which stands for transgendered a transgender

stands for transgendered a transgender

stands for transgendered a transgender person identifies with the gender that’s

person identifies with the gender that’s

person identifies with the gender that’s different from the one that they were

different from the one that they were

different from the one that they were assigned at birth that could be a male

assigned at birth that could be a male

assigned at birth that could be a male and a female body a female in a male

and a female body a female in a male

and a female body a female in a male body or something completely different

body or something completely different

body or something completely different like gay and lesbian this is a very

like gay and lesbian this is a very

like gay and lesbian this is a very commonly no one but it seems like it’s

commonly no one but it seems like it’s

commonly no one but it seems like it’s also commonly misunderstood lots of

also commonly misunderstood lots of

also commonly misunderstood lots of people try to suggest that non trans

people try to suggest that non trans

people try to suggest that non trans people will pretend to be trans to get

people will pretend to be trans to get

people will pretend to be trans to get attention or to commit horrible acts but

attention or to commit horrible acts but

attention or to commit horrible acts but studies have shown that this just

studies have shown that this just

studies have shown that this just doesn’t happen it doesn’t happen in

doesn’t happen it doesn’t happen in

doesn’t happen it doesn’t happen in bathrooms and it doesn’t happen anywhere

bathrooms and it doesn’t happen anywhere

bathrooms and it doesn’t happen anywhere else

else

else then there’s CEQ it’s just an extension

then there’s CEQ it’s just an extension

then there’s CEQ it’s just an extension different things depending on who you

different things depending on who you

different things depending on who you talk to which is strange considering is

talk to which is strange considering is

talk to which is strange considering is what it’s no less than use letters of

what it’s no less than use letters of

what it’s no less than use letters of the alphabet but generally it

the alphabet but generally it

the alphabet but generally it they’re queer when kids in other words

they’re queer when kids in other words

they’re queer when kids in other words can be cute but Mr Price every sense of

can be cute but Mr Price every sense of

can be cute but Mr Price every sense of community or understanding for someone

community or understanding for someone

community or understanding for someone does not store their gender and/or their

does not store their gender and/or their

does not store their gender and/or their sexuality but a part of the afternoon

sexuality but a part of the afternoon

sexuality but a part of the afternoon that we would do focus on it’s not

that we would do focus on it’s not

that we would do focus on it’s not actually a letter it’s as simple and

actually a letter it’s as simple and

actually a letter it’s as simple and it’s that Plus up there the bus that’s

it’s that Plus up there the bus that’s

it’s that Plus up there the bus that’s what we put at the end of the afternoon

what we put at the end of the afternoon

what we put at the end of the afternoon so that we can avoid having to say the

so that we can avoid having to say the

so that we can avoid having to say the whole alphabet to include everyone

whole alphabet to include everyone

whole alphabet to include everyone believe me there’s a reason that we

believe me there’s a reason that we

believe me there’s a reason that we adopt that cue

adopt that cue

adopt that cue into five categories

into five categories

into five categories so since gender and sexuality 1 X 5

so since gender and sexuality 1 X 5

so since gender and sexuality 1 X 5 spectrums we need to put the plus there

spectrums we need to put the plus there

spectrums we need to put the plus there that we can include everyone

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[Music] the four areas that are concerned with

the four areas that are concerned with

the four areas that are concerned with it being an lgbtq+ are included in the

it being an lgbtq+ are included in the

it being an lgbtq+ are included in the image you can even customize each scale

image you can even customize each scale

image you can even customize each scale to show exactly where you are on each

to show exactly where you are on each

to show exactly where you are on each one

one

one first there is generated that is how you

first there is generated that is how you

first there is generated that is how you proceed your gender whether it be male

proceed your gender whether it be male

proceed your gender whether it be male female or something else on or off the

female or something else on or off the

female or something else on or off the gender binary gender is a spectrum and

gender binary gender is a spectrum and

gender binary gender is a spectrum and you can be anywhere on it the second

you can be anywhere on it the second

you can be anywhere on it the second area consider is gender expression this

area consider is gender expression this

area consider is gender expression this is what you wear

is what you wear

is what you wear whether it be more masculine or feminine

whether it be more masculine or feminine

whether it be more masculine or feminine if I were to wear dress paper nails but

if I were to wear dress paper nails but

if I were to wear dress paper nails but then it has been in your shopping

then it has been in your shopping

then it has been in your shopping equipment at the mall taking selfies all

equipment at the mall taking selfies all

equipment at the mall taking selfies all the while you can say the magenta

the while you can say the magenta

the while you can say the magenta expression could be considered feminine

expression could be considered feminine

expression could be considered feminine by societal standards of course this is

by societal standards of course this is

by societal standards of course this is very very typical of me not everyone has

very very typical of me not everyone has

very very typical of me not everyone has to look staring completely masculine or

to look staring completely masculine or

to look staring completely masculine or feminine and if you keep somewhere in

feminine and if you keep somewhere in

feminine and if you keep somewhere in the middle and that would be called an

the middle and that would be called an

the middle and that would be called an androgynous if you present yourself as

androgynous if you present yourself as

androgynous if you present yourself as both male and female wartime gender

both male and female wartime gender

both male and female wartime gender expression is not necessarily connected

expression is not necessarily connected

expression is not necessarily connected to you generosity for example a man can

to you generosity for example a man can

to you generosity for example a man can look at act like a woman or vice versa

look at act like a woman or vice versa

look at act like a woman or vice versa and this is the only one of these four

and this is the only one of these four

and this is the only one of these four categories that you as an individual can

categories that you as an individual can

categories that you as an individual can control about next various biological

control about next various biological

control about next various biological sex this is what the doctor uses to

sex this is what the doctor uses to

sex this is what the doctor uses to assign you a gender at birth you

assign you a gender at birth you

assign you a gender at birth you couldn’t be born as male female or any

couldn’t be born as male female or any

couldn’t be born as male female or any defects you have definitely all the good

defects you have definitely all the good

defects you have definitely all the good firms male and female before but it

firms male and female before but it

firms male and female before but it defects may be new to you an intersex

defects may be new to you an intersex

defects may be new to you an intersex person is someone that was born with a

person is someone that was born with a

person is someone that was born with a mixture of parts of chromosomes that

mixture of parts of chromosomes that

mixture of parts of chromosomes that couldn’t be classified as 100% male or

couldn’t be classified as 100% male or

couldn’t be classified as 100% male or female so you could be born with male

female so you could be born with male

female so you could be born with male parts but female chromosomes female

parts but female chromosomes female

parts but female chromosomes female parts and Matthew koma zones or a

parts and Matthew koma zones or a

parts and Matthew koma zones or a different combination humpin to

different combination humpin to

different combination humpin to something really important about

something really important about

something really important about biological sex is that a lot of people

biological sex is that a lot of people

biological sex is that a lot of people try to say that their biological sex is

try to say that their biological sex is

try to say that their biological sex is what to produce is gender identity and

what to produce is gender identity and

what to produce is gender identity and the story but that’s just not true even

the story but that’s just not true even

the story but that’s just not true even if they do a lot sex and gender are two

if they do a lot sex and gender are two

if they do a lot sex and gender are two very different things

very different things

very different things sucks is your body while gender is your

sucks is your body while gender is your

sucks is your body while gender is your life finally their infection

life finally their infection

life finally their infection and which can be displayed into sexual

and which can be displayed into sexual

and which can be displayed into sexual attraction and romantic attraction be

attraction and romantic attraction be

attraction and romantic attraction be attracted to men with in some other

attracted to men with in some other

attracted to men with in some other gender some combination of genders or

gender some combination of genders or

gender some combination of genders or even no one at all areas sexual

even no one at all areas sexual

even no one at all areas sexual attraction and romantic attraction don’t

attraction and romantic attraction don’t

attraction and romantic attraction don’t always have to line up for example you

always have to line up for example you

always have to line up for example you could be a sexual being you experienced

could be a sexual being you experienced

could be a sexual being you experienced no sexual attraction but you can be

no sexual attraction but you can be

no sexual attraction but you can be mobile romantic meaning that you would

mobile romantic meaning that you would

mobile romantic meaning that you would be the romantic relationship with

be the romantic relationship with

be the romantic relationship with someone of the same gender because

someone of the same gender because

someone of the same gender because everything that we’ve talked about with

everything that we’ve talked about with

everything that we’ve talked about with a genuine white person is on a broad

a genuine white person is on a broad

a genuine white person is on a broad spectrum people that are not on the

spectrum people that are not on the

spectrum people that are not on the binary male and female ends of the

binary male and female ends of the

binary male and female ends of the spectrum oftentimes aren’t represented

spectrum oftentimes aren’t represented

spectrum oftentimes aren’t represented in classroom spaces or other public

in classroom spaces or other public

in classroom spaces or other public filings this is a huge problem because

filings this is a huge problem because

filings this is a huge problem because those people that aren’t on the binary

those people that aren’t on the binary

those people that aren’t on the binary ends of the spectrum are sometimes feel

ends of the spectrum are sometimes feel

ends of the spectrum are sometimes feel unaccepted on represented or even afraid

unaccepted on represented or even afraid

unaccepted on represented or even afraid in these public spaces so left back to a

in these public spaces so left back to a

in these public spaces so left back to a couple years ago in sixth grade and we

couple years ago in sixth grade and we

couple years ago in sixth grade and we were in our my boy unit absorb us

were in our my boy unit absorb us

were in our my boy unit absorb us everyone discrete very except my left

everyone discrete very except my left

everyone discrete very except my left few other none

few other none

few other none it’s an IQ pop so sincere miss

it’s an IQ pop so sincere miss

it’s an IQ pop so sincere miss enforcement in mandatory I change into

enforcement in mandatory I change into

enforcement in mandatory I change into my gym uniforms boys locker room and

my gym uniforms boys locker room and

my gym uniforms boys locker room and then we drove to look the old man’s are

then we drove to look the old man’s are

then we drove to look the old man’s are playing my teeth start telling people

playing my teeth start telling people

playing my teeth start telling people what to do this person tells the cue

what to do this person tells the cue

what to do this person tells the cue beats to around and attention will be

beats to around and attention will be

beats to around and attention will be ours if we can manage and past the end

ours if we can manage and past the end

ours if we can manage and past the end sound thanks to the right back after the

sound thanks to the right back after the

sound thanks to the right back after the senator – buon natale what are you all

senator – buon natale what are you all

senator – buon natale what are you all talking about

talking about

talking about I don’t speak football despite my my

I don’t speak football despite my my

I don’t speak football despite my my grandfather attempting to subjecting a

grandfather attempting to subjecting a

grandfather attempting to subjecting a football honey haven’t aged so I was

football honey haven’t aged so I was

football honey haven’t aged so I was twenty years they are covering person

twenty years they are covering person

twenty years they are covering person whatever that is it’s just getting lost

whatever that is it’s just getting lost

whatever that is it’s just getting lost in the general community of football and

in the general community of football and

in the general community of football and I took that fall under game cover my

I took that fall under game cover my

I took that fall under game cover my team lost and they like even after you

team lost and they like even after you

team lost and they like even after you know what I didn’t even know what I was

know what I didn’t even know what I was

know what I didn’t even know what I was doing in the first place our news I

doing in the first place our news I

doing in the first place our news I didn’t fit in with these guys but they

didn’t fit in with these guys but they

didn’t fit in with these guys but they fit in a much deeper scale now many

fit in a much deeper scale now many

fit in a much deeper scale now many typical undergraduate class not because

typical undergraduate class not because

typical undergraduate class not because I’m not an unimportant Madden football

I’m not an unimportant Madden football

I’m not an unimportant Madden football doesn t be true but because I’m not

doesn t be true but because I’m not

doesn t be true but because I’m not always a boy and generally doesn’t

always a boy and generally doesn’t

always a boy and generally doesn’t belong

belong

belong – emasculated gym class just feelings of

– emasculated gym class just feelings of

– emasculated gym class just feelings of not fitting into my gender that I was

not fitting into my gender that I was

not fitting into my gender that I was assigned in my society is terrible

assigned in my society is terrible

assigned in my society is terrible but what’s even worse is the feeling of

but what’s even worse is the feeling of

but what’s even worse is the feeling of not fitting into my body the feelings

not fitting into my body the feelings

not fitting into my body the feelings are not going to get into your body that

are not going to get into your body that

are not going to get into your body that takes strike is called gender dysphoria

takes strike is called gender dysphoria

takes strike is called gender dysphoria it’s the awful feeling that parts of

it’s the awful feeling that parts of

it’s the awful feeling that parts of your body just aren’t right it feels

your body just aren’t right it feels

your body just aren’t right it feels like not only the world is against you

like not only the world is against you

like not only the world is against you but your body is against you too trans

but your body is against you too trans

but your body is against you too trans and non-binary kids have to experience

and non-binary kids have to experience

and non-binary kids have to experience this sometimes for every single day gone

this sometimes for every single day gone

this sometimes for every single day gone unnoticed gender dysphoria community

unnoticed gender dysphoria community

unnoticed gender dysphoria community depression anxiety event even suicide

depression anxiety event even suicide

depression anxiety event even suicide HRC dr. work states that four and ten

HRC dr. work states that four and ten

HRC dr. work states that four and ten lgbtq+ kids and teens report that their

lgbtq+ kids and teens report that their

lgbtq+ kids and teens report that their community is not accepting of the lgbtq+

community is not accepting of the lgbtq+

community is not accepting of the lgbtq+ community and 26%

community and 26%

community and 26% of LGBT quest kids and teens live in

of LGBT quest kids and teens live in

of LGBT quest kids and teens live in fear of being bullied or not accepted by

fear of being bullied or not accepted by

fear of being bullied or not accepted by their friends classmates and family

their friends classmates and family

their friends classmates and family members living in fear of being bullied

members living in fear of being bullied

members living in fear of being bullied or not accepted and even being bullied

or not accepted and even being bullied

or not accepted and even being bullied I’m not accepted it makes gender

I’m not accepted it makes gender

I’m not accepted it makes gender dysphoria even works this is a huge

dysphoria even works this is a huge

dysphoria even works this is a huge problem because first gender dysphoria

problem because first gender dysphoria

problem because first gender dysphoria can lead to worse depression anxiety and

can lead to worse depression anxiety and

can lead to worse depression anxiety and worse risk of suicide and it can also

worse risk of suicide and it can also

worse risk of suicide and it can also make kids and teens not want to come out

make kids and teens not want to come out

make kids and teens not want to come out to people that they should trust the

to people that they should trust the

to people that they should trust the most

most

most coming out coming out is when a person

coming out coming out is when a person

coming out coming out is when a person and tell someone that they are on the

and tell someone that they are on the

and tell someone that they are on the Institute bus these coming out students

Institute bus these coming out students

Institute bus these coming out students at each image on the internet may be

at each image on the internet may be

at each image on the internet may be full of heartbreak tears and surprise

full of heartbreak tears and surprise

full of heartbreak tears and surprise acceptance of the LGBT individual but

acceptance of the LGBT individual but

acceptance of the LGBT individual but not only how the story things because my

not only how the story things because my

not only how the story things because my photo is very different

photo is very different

photo is very different much easier for me that’s notice if it

much easier for me that’s notice if it

much easier for me that’s notice if it wasn’t part but it I definitely had no

wasn’t part but it I definitely had no

wasn’t part but it I definitely had no fear of being judged or not accepted for

fear of being judged or not accepted for

fear of being judged or not accepted for who I am

who I am

who I am my first coming-out story went a little

my first coming-out story went a little

my first coming-out story went a little like this I was walking the turkey trot

like this I was walking the turkey trot

like this I was walking the turkey trot with my good friend and I’m like hey I

with my good friend and I’m like hey I

with my good friend and I’m like hey I have something to tell you

have something to tell you

have something to tell you long story short it took me awhile to

long story short it took me awhile to

long story short it took me awhile to actually tell her that I was protection

actually tell her that I was protection

actually tell her that I was protection but once I did I was so happy it was

but once I did I was so happy it was

but once I did I was so happy it was kind of ridiculous series sharing about

kind of ridiculous series sharing about

kind of ridiculous series sharing about pardon me to be the first time made me

pardon me to be the first time made me

pardon me to be the first time made me feel like I could taste on the world you

feel like I could taste on the world you

feel like I could taste on the world you might not realize it but coming out and

might not realize it but coming out and

might not realize it but coming out and being sure that you’re accepted by your

being sure that you’re accepted by your

being sure that you’re accepted by your friends classmates community or family

friends classmates community or family

friends classmates community or family members it’s a huge part of being

members it’s a huge part of being

members it’s a huge part of being comfortable with yourself and your

comfortable with yourself and your

comfortable with yourself and your identity

another reason for education on topic of

another reason for education on topic of LGBTQ fun is that a person’s lack

LGBTQ fun is that a person’s lack

LGBTQ fun is that a person’s lack awareness of the topic can directly to

awareness of the topic can directly to

awareness of the topic can directly to the person’s lack of acceptance on a

the person’s lack of acceptance on a

the person’s lack of acceptance on a topic in this case accepting and LGBTQ

topic in this case accepting and LGBTQ

topic in this case accepting and LGBTQ plus in a survey that we took together

plus in a survey that we took together

plus in a survey that we took together Cedeno in the Student Center School

Cedeno in the Student Center School

Cedeno in the Student Center School District out of the three in support

District out of the three in support

District out of the three in support LGBTQ fuss explained they did not

LGBTQ fuss explained they did not

LGBTQ fuss explained they did not support it because they didn’t know what

support it because they didn’t know what

support it because they didn’t know what it was so more people would like to

it was so more people would like to

it was so more people would like to support this if we would hesitate it’s

support this if we would hesitate it’s

support this if we would hesitate it’s in snack beverage on top so let’s answer

in snack beverage on top so let’s answer

in snack beverage on top so let’s answer the evening question how can you support

the evening question how can you support

the evening question how can you support LGBTQ plus well I’ll meet them before

LGBTQ plus well I’ll meet them before

LGBTQ plus well I’ll meet them before you can educate yourself and other

you can educate yourself and other

you can educate yourself and other people as simple as pulling on your

people as simple as pulling on your

people as simple as pulling on your phone when you get home

phone when you get home

phone when you get home today and taking note of etq busting in

today and taking note of etq busting in

today and taking note of etq busting in the search bar I assure you it is not

the search bar I assure you it is not

the search bar I assure you it is not heard part of spell next you had asked

heard part of spell next you had asked

heard part of spell next you had asked for and respect the name and pronounce

for and respect the name and pronounce

for and respect the name and pronounce that people want you to use for them if

that people want you to use for them if

that people want you to use for them if you’re transgender friend wants to be

you’re transgender friend wants to be

you’re transgender friend wants to be referred to by machine but you referred

referred to by machine but you referred

referred to by machine but you referred to her as a key before just switched to

to her as a key before just switched to

to her as a key before just switched to using a cheaper pronounce Berger stinkos

using a cheaper pronounce Berger stinkos

using a cheaper pronounce Berger stinkos if you’re trans friend wants to be

if you’re trans friend wants to be

if you’re trans friend wants to be called something other than the name

called something other than the name

called something other than the name that was given to her at Birth just

that was given to her at Birth just

that was given to her at Birth just switch to using that name another thing

switch to using that name another thing

switch to using that name another thing is that sometimes non-binary or

is that sometimes non-binary or

is that sometimes non-binary or transgender kids want you to they don’t

transgender kids want you to they don’t

transgender kids want you to they don’t pronounce for them but it may be hard to

pronounce for them but it may be hard to

pronounce for them but it may be hard to get used to using they as a singular

get used to using they as a singular

get used to using they as a singular pronoun so what cactus if you went to

pronoun so what cactus if you went to

pronoun so what cactus if you went to comment on the fact that Molly has big

comment on the fact that Molly has big

comment on the fact that Molly has big hair but on the back you can’t exactly

hair but on the back you can’t exactly

hair but on the back you can’t exactly tell agender Molly is are you doing to

tell agender Molly is are you doing to

tell agender Molly is are you doing to say he or she has pink hair instead we

say he or she has pink hair instead we

say he or she has pink hair instead we would say they have pink hair if you do

would say they have pink hair if you do

would say they have pink hair if you do not know Holly’s preferred name and

not know Holly’s preferred name and

not know Holly’s preferred name and pronoun and that would be good picnic

pronoun and that would be good picnic

pronoun and that would be good picnic dress now there’s only were to ask me

dress now there’s only were to ask me

dress now there’s only were to ask me hey could you use they Mountain protons

hey could you use they Mountain protons

hey could you use they Mountain protons when they’re hurt tonight then you would

when they’re hurt tonight then you would

when they’re hurt tonight then you would yesterday

yesterday

yesterday take care like I did really thirdly

take care like I did really thirdly

take care like I did really thirdly don’t expect people that have a

don’t expect people that have a

don’t expect people that have a significant other of a specific gender

significant other of a specific gender

significant other of a specific gender or to even have one at all if your

or to even have one at all if your

or to even have one at all if your daughter introduce you to a girlfriend

daughter introduce you to a girlfriend

daughter introduce you to a girlfriend welcome her with open and harnessed also

welcome her with open and harnessed also

welcome her with open and harnessed also remember that day for bisexual or

remember that day for bisexual or

remember that day for bisexual or pansexual person it’s best someone on a

pansexual person it’s best someone on a

pansexual person it’s best someone on a specific gender that doesn’t mean that

specific gender that doesn’t mean that

specific gender that doesn’t mean that they can’t be someone of a different

they can’t be someone of a different

they can’t be someone of a different gender and later on lastly and most

gender and later on lastly and most

gender and later on lastly and most importantly just be kind

importantly just be kind

importantly just be kind no one likes someone who’s close-minded

no one likes someone who’s close-minded

no one likes someone who’s close-minded in route so don’t be that person

in route so don’t be that person

in route so don’t be that person believe me everyone especially you will

believe me everyone especially you will

believe me everyone especially you will appreciate your compassion and

appreciate your compassion and

appreciate your compassion and consideration my experience is unique in

consideration my experience is unique in

consideration my experience is unique in many ways my gender and sexuality are

many ways my gender and sexuality are

many ways my gender and sexuality are both minorities of the minority and

both minorities of the minority and

both minorities of the minority and sadly so is my coming-out story the fact

sadly so is my coming-out story the fact

sadly so is my coming-out story the fact that positive moving out stories aren’t

that positive moving out stories aren’t

that positive moving out stories aren’t normal is it okay and neither is the

normal is it okay and neither is the

normal is it okay and neither is the fact that people are willing to support

fact that people are willing to support

fact that people are willing to support the lgbtq+ community because they don’t

the lgbtq+ community because they don’t

the lgbtq+ community because they don’t know about it there’s so much fear what

know about it there’s so much fear what

know about it there’s so much fear what are you doing hunting what are you doing

are you doing hunting what are you doing

are you doing hunting what are you doing to replace hate with love to replace

to replace hate with love to replace

to replace hate with love to replace fear with understanding and to make the

fear with understanding and to make the

fear with understanding and to make the world better for everyone especially

world better for everyone especially

world better for everyone especially those that don’t have it easy in the

those that don’t have it easy in the

those that don’t have it easy in the first place

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[Music] [Applause]

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