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Carpe Diem is Not a Selfish Journey | Gervasi Marco | TEDxFuxingPark


I was totally confused yeah one morning

I was totally confused yeah one morning while doing research for my book I came

while doing research for my book I came

while doing research for my book I came across this quote from Forbes it said

across this quote from Forbes it said

across this quote from Forbes it said the best place to succeed is where you

the best place to succeed is where you

the best place to succeed is where you are with what you have this sentence is

are with what you have this sentence is

are with what you have this sentence is pure contradiction it says that what we

pure contradiction it says that what we

pure contradiction it says that what we have now is enough and that we don’t

have now is enough and that we don’t

have now is enough and that we don’t need to worry about the future but is it

need to worry about the future but is it

need to worry about the future but is it true we don’t need anything else

true we don’t need anything else

true we don’t need anything else everybody knows that opportunities lie

everybody knows that opportunities lie

everybody knows that opportunities lie in foreseeing the future in having an

in foreseeing the future in having an

in foreseeing the future in having an edge just like the kind of people that I

edge just like the kind of people that I

edge just like the kind of people that I interviewed for my book my book east

interviewed for my book my book east

interviewed for my book my book east commerce tells the story of how even

commerce tells the story of how even

commerce tells the story of how even China and not only the West has created

China and not only the West has created

China and not only the West has created new technological models that are now

new technological models that are now

new technological models that are now becoming global models developed by

becoming global models developed by

becoming global models developed by people like you and I from India to

people like you and I from India to

people like you and I from India to Indonesia from Nigeria to Brazil more

Indonesia from Nigeria to Brazil more

Indonesia from Nigeria to Brazil more and more companies are calling

and more companies are calling

and more companies are calling themselves the tub all of the GMO or

themselves the tub all of the GMO or

themselves the tub all of the GMO or their own countries rather than the ebay

their own countries rather than the ebay

their own countries rather than the ebay or amazon for the first time it is not

or amazon for the first time it is not

or amazon for the first time it is not China looking at the world it is the

China looking at the world it is the

China looking at the world it is the world looking at China the inspiration

world looking at China the inspiration

world looking at China the inspiration behind my book came quite unexpectedly

behind my book came quite unexpectedly

behind my book came quite unexpectedly I’ve been living in China for over 12

I’ve been living in China for over 12

I’ve been living in China for over 12 years and for the majority of the time

years and for the majority of the time

years and for the majority of the time my work has been to help foreign

my work has been to help foreign

my work has been to help foreign businesses start up their operations

businesses start up their operations

businesses start up their operations here in a very traditional way with

here in a very traditional way with

here in a very traditional way with millions of dollars of investments and

millions of dollars of investments and

millions of dollars of investments and big infrastructures involved and it was

big infrastructures involved and it was

big infrastructures involved and it was business as usual until three years ago

business as usual until three years ago

business as usual until three years ago when I realized that words like

when I realized that words like

when I realized that words like innovation and internet were popping up

innovation and internet were popping up

innovation and internet were popping up all over the place over and over again I

all over the place over and over again I

all over the place over and over again I sense that technology was going to

sense that technology was going to

sense that technology was going to change how things had been

change how things had been

change how things had been in China in the last 30 years and so my

in China in the last 30 years and so my

in China in the last 30 years and so my work and I think it was a good time for

work and I think it was a good time for

work and I think it was a good time for me for this realization because i was

me for this realization because i was

me for this realization because i was totally burned out from my work I needed

totally burned out from my work I needed

totally burned out from my work I needed some time and I wanted to see the world

some time and I wanted to see the world

some time and I wanted to see the world that was my carpe diem I took some time

that was my carpe diem I took some time

that was my carpe diem I took some time for myself and I learned about

for myself and I learned about

for myself and I learned about technology by the way I knew nothing

technology by the way I knew nothing

technology by the way I knew nothing about technology and I headed all the

about technology and I headed all the

about technology and I headed all the way to Silicon Valley to a place called

way to Silicon Valley to a place called

way to Silicon Valley to a place called singularity University now to earn an

singularity University now to earn an

singularity University now to earn an executive degree in technology founded

executive degree in technology founded

executive degree in technology founded by Google NASA and some other big

by Google NASA and some other big

by Google NASA and some other big investors singularity university is the

investors singularity university is the

investors singularity university is the place where they teach you what is

place where they teach you what is

place where they teach you what is technology how does it work and how to

technology how does it work and how to

technology how does it work and how to use it to impact billions of people it’s

use it to impact billions of people it’s

use it to impact billions of people it’s a place where people talking about

a place where people talking about

a place where people talking about artificial intelligence self-driving

artificial intelligence self-driving

artificial intelligence self-driving cars spaceships that our money asteroids

cars spaceships that our money asteroids

cars spaceships that our money asteroids it’s a very very fascinating place but

it’s a very very fascinating place but

it’s a very very fascinating place but while I was there I had another

while I was there I had another

while I was there I had another realization is that people in Silicon

realization is that people in Silicon

realization is that people in Silicon Valley were completely miss reading what

Valley were completely miss reading what

Valley were completely miss reading what was happening in China yes it’s true

was happening in China yes it’s true

was happening in China yes it’s true Silicon Valley is the epicenter of

Silicon Valley is the epicenter of

Silicon Valley is the epicenter of innovation but China is the place where

innovation but China is the place where

innovation but China is the place where innovation will have its biggest impact

innovation will have its biggest impact

innovation will have its biggest impact and no one was talking about it so that

and no one was talking about it so that

and no one was talking about it so that was the moment when I sense that the

was the moment when I sense that the

was the moment when I sense that the seeds of my book were planted 10,000

seeds of my book were planted 10,000

seeds of my book were planted 10,000 kilometers away from where my journey

kilometers away from where my journey

kilometers away from where my journey started so having had the little

started so having had the little

started so having had the little knowledge about technology and how it

knowledge about technology and how it

knowledge about technology and how it works now I wanted to understand how

works now I wanted to understand how

works now I wanted to understand how China was innovated so when I came back

China was innovated so when I came back

China was innovated so when I came back to China I did one thing which came out

to China I did one thing which came out

to China I did one thing which came out from my heart which make no sense but I

from my heart which make no sense but I

from my heart which make no sense but I put my business on the side and I went

put my business on the side and I went

put my business on the side and I went on a journey which initially I thought

on a journey which initially I thought

on a journey which initially I thought would take me three months but

would take me three months but

would take me three months but eventually lasted 15 months what I

eventually lasted 15 months what I

eventually lasted 15 months what I wanted to understand is how China was

wanted to understand is how China was

wanted to understand is how China was innovating and I started from e-commerce

innovating and I started from e-commerce

innovating and I started from e-commerce and the Internet of Things because

and the Internet of Things because

and the Internet of Things because everybody was talking about Marwan and

everybody was talking about Marwan and

everybody was talking about Marwan and shrunk Cherie so I said well that’s the

shrunk Cherie so I said well that’s the

shrunk Cherie so I said well that’s the place to start look at right and what I

place to start look at right and what I

place to start look at right and what I realized is that China was doing more

realized is that China was doing more

realized is that China was doing more than just copying existing models or

than just copying existing models or

than just copying existing models or people were saying as people were saying

people were saying as people were saying

people were saying as people were saying California it was creating its own kind

California it was creating its own kind

California it was creating its own kind of technological society that’s the

of technological society that’s the

of technological society that’s the moment when I realized that I wanted to

moment when I realized that I wanted to

moment when I realized that I wanted to write my first book and by the way I had

write my first book and by the way I had

write my first book and by the way I had no idea how to write a book but I just

no idea how to write a book but I just

no idea how to write a book but I just felt it and I ended up interviewing over

felt it and I ended up interviewing over

felt it and I ended up interviewing over 200 among CEOs sea levels and VPS of

200 among CEOs sea levels and VPS of

200 among CEOs sea levels and VPS of Asia’s biggest technological companies

Asia’s biggest technological companies

Asia’s biggest technological companies and out of all the futuristic and

and out of all the futuristic and

and out of all the futuristic and technological things that I was

technological things that I was

technological things that I was expecting an eager to learn the most

expecting an eager to learn the most

expecting an eager to learn the most important teaching was not about the

important teaching was not about the

important teaching was not about the future it was about the present you see

future it was about the present you see

future it was about the present you see the more I research into these people

the more I research into these people

the more I research into these people the more I realized that what really

the more I realized that what really

the more I realized that what really fascinated me was not how they were

fascinated me was not how they were

fascinated me was not how they were thinking about the future but how their

thinking about the future but how their

thinking about the future but how their chosen to leave their present one of the

chosen to leave their present one of the

chosen to leave their present one of the first person who really inspired me for

first person who really inspired me for

first person who really inspired me for what she has done is this girl from

what she has done is this girl from

what she has done is this girl from Hangzhou called fun fun we met in her

Hangzhou called fun fun we met in her

Hangzhou called fun fun we met in her showroom in the outskirt of Hangzhou and

showroom in the outskirt of Hangzhou and

showroom in the outskirt of Hangzhou and when I met her I thought that she looked

when I met her I thought that she looked

when I met her I thought that she looked everything but a technology entrepreneur

everything but a technology entrepreneur

everything but a technology entrepreneur she was cracking joke she looked like

she was cracking joke she looked like

she was cracking joke she looked like she just came out of university and she

she just came out of university and she

she just came out of university and she was totally unaware of what she had

was totally unaware of what she had

was totally unaware of what she had accomplished you see fun fun had left a

accomplished you see fun fun had left a

accomplished you see fun fun had left a modeling career to start up something

modeling career to start up something

modeling career to start up something that would soon become a multi-million

that would soon become a multi-million

that would soon become a multi-million dollar online fashion empire she started

dollar online fashion empire she started

dollar online fashion empire she started by buying to downtown hangzhou and

by buying to downtown hangzhou and

by buying to downtown hangzhou and buying clothes at a textile market and

buying clothes at a textile market and

buying clothes at a textile market and selling them on her top off store and

selling them on her top off store and

selling them on her top off store and she arrived all the way to having her

she arrived all the way to having her

she arrived all the way to having her own line designed by her and produced by

own line designed by her and produced by

own line designed by her and produced by factories in hangzhou and sold through

factories in hangzhou and sold through

factories in hangzhou and sold through her store she went from one hub all

her store she went from one hub all

her store she went from one hub all stores to toot our stores for one team

stores to toot our stores for one team

stores to toot our stores for one team old store 22 team all stores and at the

old store 22 team all stores and at the

old store 22 team all stores and at the end of 2013 she had revenues in

end of 2013 she had revenues in

end of 2013 she had revenues in of 13 million u.s. dollars not bad for a

of 13 million u.s. dollars not bad for a

of 13 million u.s. dollars not bad for a model the second person who really

model the second person who really

model the second person who really impressed me for what he has done former

impressed me for what he has done former

impressed me for what he has done former CEO and co-founder of ye hao tian number

CEO and co-founder of ye hao tian number

CEO and co-founder of ye hao tian number one store to an igloo we met at a

one store to an igloo we met at a

one store to an igloo we met at a banking conference in hong kong and

banking conference in hong kong and

banking conference in hong kong and after rehearsing questions and answers

after rehearsing questions and answers

after rehearsing questions and answers for a panel where we were all talking he

for a panel where we were all talking he

for a panel where we were all talking he took me on the side and asked me a are

took me on the side and asked me a are

took me on the side and asked me a are my answers okay i mean we are talking of

my answers okay i mean we are talking of

my answers okay i mean we are talking of one of the most powerful tech man in

one of the most powerful tech man in

one of the most powerful tech man in asia he used to be a very big executive

asia he used to be a very big executive

asia he used to be a very big executive hotel and he was asking me if his

hotel and he was asking me if his

hotel and he was asking me if his answers were okay and what really

answers were okay and what really

answers were okay and what really fascinated me about dwindling is that he

fascinated me about dwindling is that he

fascinated me about dwindling is that he had left a very good career in a very

had left a very good career in a very

had left a very good career in a very advanced stage of his career to jump

advanced stage of his career to jump

advanced stage of his career to jump into the unknown why would you live such

into the unknown why would you live such

into the unknown why would you live such a safe and good salary to step into

a safe and good salary to step into

a safe and good salary to step into something that you have no idea how is

something that you have no idea how is

something that you have no idea how is going to turn up such advanced in your

going to turn up such advanced in your

going to turn up such advanced in your age and in your career not that it was

age and in your career not that it was

age and in your career not that it was old but he had nothing to prove anymore

old but he had nothing to prove anymore

old but he had nothing to prove anymore he told me that he used to fly to

he told me that he used to fly to

he told me that he used to fly to singapore every month to visit the

singapore every month to visit the

singapore every month to visit the company headquarters and during those

company headquarters and during those

company headquarters and during those five hours flight the only thing that he

five hours flight the only thing that he

five hours flight the only thing that he could think of was creating his own

could think of was creating his own

could think of was creating his own company he told me that the feeling of

company he told me that the feeling of

company he told me that the feeling of becoming an entrepreneur is unbeatable

becoming an entrepreneur is unbeatable

becoming an entrepreneur is unbeatable and finally i had the honor to meet one

and finally i had the honor to meet one

and finally i had the honor to meet one of the very few foreigners who set up a

of the very few foreigners who set up a

of the very few foreigners who set up a successful online enterprise in china

successful online enterprise in china

successful online enterprise in china mr. tebow villatte CEO and co-founder of

mr. tebow villatte CEO and co-founder of

mr. tebow villatte CEO and co-founder of macom and we met at his office at the

macom and we met at his office at the

macom and we met at his office at the bunt and just like journaling he left a

bunt and just like journaling he left a

bunt and just like journaling he left a very good career a very well-paid job

very good career a very well-paid job

very good career a very well-paid job and l’orĂ©al to start up his own

and l’orĂ©al to start up his own

and l’orĂ©al to start up his own business but unlike journaling he had no

business but unlike journaling he had no

business but unlike journaling he had no tech background whatsoever you know for

tech background whatsoever you know for

tech background whatsoever you know for foreigners to be successful in China

foreigners to be successful in China

foreigners to be successful in China with online businesses is very hard if

with online businesses is very hard if

with online businesses is very hard if you look at companies like Google or

you look at companies like Google or

you look at companies like Google or Facebook you see how they fail me

Facebook you see how they fail me

Facebook you see how they fail me and here I was talking to a guy who not

and here I was talking to a guy who not

and here I was talking to a guy who not only wanted to reform how you buy luxury

only wanted to reform how you buy luxury

only wanted to reform how you buy luxury goods in China but also partnered with

goods in China but also partnered with

goods in China but also partnered with Alibaba for over 100 million u.s.

Alibaba for over 100 million u.s.

Alibaba for over 100 million u.s. dollars so I know amount sir it might

dollars so I know amount sir it might

dollars so I know amount sir it might sound cliche but the more I research

sound cliche but the more I research

sound cliche but the more I research into the story of these people and the

into the story of these people and the

into the story of these people and the more I realized that their resume was

more I realized that their resume was

more I realized that their resume was anything but perfect I always thought

anything but perfect I always thought

anything but perfect I always thought that to launch such a business to be so

that to launch such a business to be so

that to launch such a business to be so successful to create such an incredible

successful to create such an incredible

successful to create such an incredible start up you need to be some kind of

start up you need to be some kind of

start up you need to be some kind of superhero and that it is important for

superhero and that it is important for

superhero and that it is important for to carpe diem to seize the moment but

to carpe diem to seize the moment but

to carpe diem to seize the moment but what really makes the difference between

what really makes the difference between

what really makes the difference between success and failure is to be perfect and

success and failure is to be perfect and

success and failure is to be perfect and here i was talking to these people

here i was talking to these people

here i was talking to these people writing my first book as a total amateur

writing my first book as a total amateur

writing my first book as a total amateur and they were opening up to a stranger a

and they were opening up to a stranger a

and they were opening up to a stranger a foreigner telling their stories and I

foreigner telling their stories and I

foreigner telling their stories and I never asked them why they did it I was

never asked them why they did it I was

never asked them why they did it I was too shy to ask them but then I realized

too shy to ask them but then I realized

too shy to ask them but then I realized that they’ve learned that you don’t need

that they’ve learned that you don’t need

that they’ve learned that you don’t need to be perfect nor to seek the perfect

to be perfect nor to seek the perfect

to be perfect nor to seek the perfect moment to start up something and be

moment to start up something and be

moment to start up something and be successful when II how the end was

successful when II how the end was

successful when II how the end was launched in 2008 it was right in the

launched in 2008 it was right in the

launched in 2008 it was right in the middle of the financial crisis where

middle of the financial crisis where

middle of the financial crisis where people were losing their homes and banks

people were losing their homes and banks

people were losing their homes and banks were not giving you any money what they

were not giving you any money what they

were not giving you any money what they learned is that to them carpe diem meant

learned is that to them carpe diem meant

learned is that to them carpe diem meant one thing more than anything else to put

one thing more than anything else to put

one thing more than anything else to put your doubts on the side and focus on

your doubts on the side and focus on

your doubts on the side and focus on where you are and what you have so if we

where you are and what you have so if we

where you are and what you have so if we stop here my talk would end something

stop here my talk would end something

stop here my talk would end something like this if you’re not afraid to step

like this if you’re not afraid to step

like this if you’re not afraid to step into the unknown you’re both passionate

into the unknown you’re both passionate

into the unknown you’re both passionate and stubborn of course these people’s

and stubborn of course these people’s

and stubborn of course these people’s stories prove that if you follow your

stories prove that if you follow your

stories prove that if you follow your dreams you’re not afraid of putting up

dreams you’re not afraid of putting up

dreams you’re not afraid of putting up the hard work then anything is possible

so I exhort everybody here today and now

so I exhort everybody here today and now to stand up and march to the rhythm of

to stand up and march to the rhythm of

to stand up and march to the rhythm of carpe diem please stand up

carpe diem please stand up

carpe diem please stand up I’m just kidding because let’s be honest

I’m just kidding because let’s be honest

I’m just kidding because let’s be honest we gotta be honest courage stubborn base

we gotta be honest courage stubborn base

we gotta be honest courage stubborn base and that for every fun fun journaling or

and that for every fun fun journaling or

and that for every fun fun journaling or t-ball there’s thousands of people who

t-ball there’s thousands of people who

t-ball there’s thousands of people who did not make it that’s the truth you

did not make it that’s the truth you

did not make it that’s the truth you know when you embark on such an endeavor

know when you embark on such an endeavor

know when you embark on such an endeavor you go from being big and accomplished

you go from being big and accomplished

you go from being big and accomplished to feeling incredibly small from being

to feeling incredibly small from being

to feeling incredibly small from being strong and a firm to having to prove

strong and a firm to having to prove

strong and a firm to having to prove yourself once again when I embark in

yourself once again when I embark in

yourself once again when I embark in this journey I thought that I would be

this journey I thought that I would be

this journey I thought that I would be done doing research and write in the

done doing research and write in the

done doing research and write in the book in just three months half away

book in just three months half away

book in just three months half away across my book I realized that the

across my book I realized that the

across my book I realized that the general audience will never ever ever

general audience will never ever ever

general audience will never ever ever read a book that looks like a manual I

read a book that looks like a manual I

read a book that looks like a manual I had to throw everything away and start

had to throw everything away and start

had to throw everything away and start from scratch meanwhile i was making zero

from scratch meanwhile i was making zero

from scratch meanwhile i was making zero money and burning all my savings but I

money and burning all my savings but I

money and burning all my savings but I was not alone when fun fun started her

was not alone when fun fun started her

was not alone when fun fun started her business she worked for the first three

business she worked for the first three

business she worked for the first three months 21 hours a day from six a.m. in

months 21 hours a day from six a.m. in

months 21 hours a day from six a.m. in the morning to 3am of the following day

the morning to 3am of the following day

the morning to 3am of the following day she will never leave her room and she

she will never leave her room and she

she will never leave her room and she would send somebody out twice a day to

would send somebody out twice a day to

would send somebody out twice a day to buy our food the kind of sacrifice that

buy our food the kind of sacrifice that

buy our food the kind of sacrifice that I’ve seen her doing it’s something that

I’ve seen her doing it’s something that

I’ve seen her doing it’s something that goes beyond any limit that I’ve ever

goes beyond any limit that I’ve ever

goes beyond any limit that I’ve ever seen when tebow and drilling started

seen when tebow and drilling started

seen when tebow and drilling started their business they put themselves into

their business they put themselves into

their business they put themselves into such a risky position investing their

such a risky position investing their

such a risky position investing their own money over and over again for a

own money over and over again for a

own money over and over again for a business that even themselves they don’t

business that even themselves they don’t

business that even themselves they don’t really know how it would turn up you see

success is never guaranteed success is

success is never guaranteed success is always unsure so what is it that drives

always unsure so what is it that drives

always unsure so what is it that drives people in the moment of carpe diem is it

people in the moment of carpe diem is it

people in the moment of carpe diem is it obsession

obsession

obsession is it greed is it ambition maybe it’s

is it greed is it ambition maybe it’s

is it greed is it ambition maybe it’s all of this but I think there’s

all of this but I think there’s

all of this but I think there’s something more to it if there is one

something more to it if there is one

something more to it if there is one thing that I learned over two hundred

thing that I learned over two hundred

thing that I learned over two hundred interviews is that one of the most

interviews is that one of the most

interviews is that one of the most important things that helped successful

important things that helped successful

important things that helped successful CEOs overcome incredible difficulties is

CEOs overcome incredible difficulties is

CEOs overcome incredible difficulties is the idea of benefiting the others and

the idea of benefiting the others and

the idea of benefiting the others and not only achieving their own goal

not only achieving their own goal

not only achieving their own goal hardship can be overcome if our journey

hardship can be overcome if our journey

hardship can be overcome if our journey is not only about ourselves when you

is not only about ourselves when you

is not only about ourselves when you look at companies like Alibaba and you

look at companies like Alibaba and you

look at companies like Alibaba and you ask yourself how can they become so big

ask yourself how can they become so big

ask yourself how can they become so big how can they become so influent well

how can they become so influent well

how can they become so influent well among the many good things that they’ve

among the many good things that they’ve

among the many good things that they’ve done I think they’ve mastered one wrong

done I think they’ve mastered one wrong

done I think they’ve mastered one wrong whoa comedian Nick avoided by reforming

whoa comedian Nick avoided by reforming

whoa comedian Nick avoided by reforming and allowing the economy to grow they

and allowing the economy to grow they

and allowing the economy to grow they are allowed to grow themselves too

are allowed to grow themselves too

are allowed to grow themselves too because impact is the driving factor

because impact is the driving factor

because impact is the driving factor behind successful companies and

behind successful companies and

behind successful companies and successful people it was certainly the

successful people it was certainly the

successful people it was certainly the case with my book what really helped me

case with my book what really helped me

case with my book what really helped me to go through those very hard moments

to go through those very hard moments

to go through those very hard moments was the hope that what I was doing was

was the hope that what I was doing was

was the hope that what I was doing was not only about myself I really wanted my

not only about myself I really wanted my

not only about myself I really wanted my message to get through I wanted to share

message to get through I wanted to share

message to get through I wanted to share my stories and today being here with you

my stories and today being here with you

my stories and today being here with you looking back I know that that trip that

looking back I know that that trip that

looking back I know that that trip that journey was worth it because the people

journey was worth it because the people

journey was worth it because the people that I met along the way told me that

that I met along the way told me that

that I met along the way told me that just do it matters much more than what

just do it matters much more than what

just do it matters much more than what if so I stand here before you today

if so I stand here before you today

if so I stand here before you today imploring you to consider what would

imploring you to consider what would

imploring you to consider what would happen if just for a moment we would all

happen if just for a moment we would all

happen if just for a moment we would all our knowledge that where we are and what

our knowledge that where we are and what

our knowledge that where we are and what we have is the best place to start

it would certainly be worthy of being

it would certainly be worthy of being called carpe diem thank you

called carpe diem thank you

called carpe diem thank you [Applause]

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