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first I had to have the most dramatic

first I had to have the most dramatic entrance with the table I’ve been

entrance with the table I’ve been

entrance with the table I’ve been sitting here all afternoon and have

sitting here all afternoon and have

sitting here all afternoon and have watched a number of you under phones and

watched a number of you under phones and

watched a number of you under phones and taking pictures

taking pictures

taking pictures maybe selfies we all love to take

maybe selfies we all love to take

maybe selfies we all love to take instant pictures with digital cameras

instant pictures with digital cameras

instant pictures with digital cameras these days we can check and make sure

these days we can check and make sure

these days we can check and make sure our hair is right or our eyes are not

our hair is right or our eyes are not

our hair is right or our eyes are not closed or our duck lips are just perfect

closed or our duck lips are just perfect

closed or our duck lips are just perfect but there’s something unique and

but there’s something unique and

but there’s something unique and decidedly retro about an actual

decidedly retro about an actual

decidedly retro about an actual photograph most of you are too young to

photograph most of you are too young to

photograph most of you are too young to remember this but back in the old days

remember this but back in the old days

remember this but back in the old days there was this stuff called film and you

there was this stuff called film and you

there was this stuff called film and you put it in the camera and you took a

put it in the camera and you took a

put it in the camera and you took a photograph and you didn’t have a clue

photograph and you didn’t have a clue

photograph and you didn’t have a clue what the photograph looked like when you

what the photograph looked like when you

what the photograph looked like when you were finished with the roll you rewound

were finished with the roll you rewound

were finished with the roll you rewound it you sent it off somewhere they

it you sent it off somewhere they

it you sent it off somewhere they developed it and you got it back maybe a

developed it and you got it back maybe a

developed it and you got it back maybe a maybe a week later and you could see

maybe a week later and you could see

maybe a week later and you could see that your eyes were closed your hair was

that your eyes were closed your hair was

that your eyes were closed your hair was messed up and your duck lips who are not

messed up and your duck lips who are not

messed up and your duck lips who are not perfect in every photograph until

perfect in every photograph until

perfect in every photograph until Polaroid it created the instant camera

Polaroid it created the instant camera

Polaroid it created the instant camera this is what they looked like when I was

this is what they looked like when I was

this is what they looked like when I was your age I don’t even know if this works

your age I don’t even know if this works

your age I don’t even know if this works but we’re gonna try it

no it doesn’t work which is why I

no it doesn’t work which is why I brought it back up this is a newer

brought it back up this is a newer

brought it back up this is a newer version of a Polaroid and I think this

version of a Polaroid and I think this

version of a Polaroid and I think this one does work

one does work

one does work Sony Leah I’m going to turn the tables

Sony Leah I’m going to turn the tables

Sony Leah I’m going to turn the tables on you and I can’t get this one to work

on you and I can’t get this one to work

on you and I can’t get this one to work either there it goes

either there it goes

either there it goes so it’s taken an instant photograph but

so it’s taken an instant photograph but

so it’s taken an instant photograph but what I want to talk to you about is how

what I want to talk to you about is how

what I want to talk to you about is how life your life and your story is not

life your life and your story is not

life your life and your story is not instant rather life takes a little bit

instant rather life takes a little bit

instant rather life takes a little bit of developing so let me tell you a

of developing so let me tell you a

of developing so let me tell you a little bit about me I grew up on a

little bit about me I grew up on a

little bit about me I grew up on a family farm about 90 miles north of here

family farm about 90 miles north of here

family farm about 90 miles north of here in Dyer County Tennessee my mother and

in Dyer County Tennessee my mother and

in Dyer County Tennessee my mother and my grandmother were both teachers my dad

my grandmother were both teachers my dad

my grandmother were both teachers my dad worked in an industrial plant in

worked in an industrial plant in

worked in an industrial plant in Dyersburg my grandfather was a tractor

Dyersburg my grandfather was a tractor

Dyersburg my grandfather was a tractor mechanic when I was 14 or 15 years old

mechanic when I was 14 or 15 years old

mechanic when I was 14 or 15 years old my mother demanded that I get a job not

my mother demanded that I get a job not

my mother demanded that I get a job not quite sure why she thought I should get

quite sure why she thought I should get

quite sure why she thought I should get a job when I was only 14 or 15 but you

a job when I was only 14 or 15 but you

a job when I was only 14 or 15 but you do what your mother tells you to do she

do what your mother tells you to do she

do what your mother tells you to do she helped me find the job though and the

helped me find the job though and the

helped me find the job though and the job that I got was in a law firm in

job that I got was in a law firm in

job that I got was in a law firm in Dyersburg so I made there coffee I made

Dyersburg so I made there coffee I made

Dyersburg so I made there coffee I made their coffees I sent faxes that was

their coffees I sent faxes that was

their coffees I sent faxes that was before email and I walked papers back

before email and I walked papers back

before email and I walked papers back and forth to the courthouse because I

and forth to the courthouse because I

and forth to the courthouse because I wasn’t old enough to drive yet I had no

wasn’t old enough to drive yet I had no

wasn’t old enough to drive yet I had no lawyers in my family at all I don’t even

lawyers in my family at all I don’t even

lawyers in my family at all I don’t even think I knew a lawyer until I started

think I knew a lawyer until I started

think I knew a lawyer until I started working at this law firm the folks at

working at this law firm the folks at

working at this law firm the folks at the law firm were really my first

the law firm were really my first

the law firm were really my first introduction to to the law my high

introduction to to the law my high

introduction to to the law my high school also had a mock trial team I

school also had a mock trial team I

school also had a mock trial team I don’t know if Arlington has a mock trial

don’t know if Arlington has a mock trial

don’t know if Arlington has a mock trial team or not but my high school had a

team or not but my high school had a

team or not but my high school had a mock trial team and my recollection is

mock trial team and my recollection is

mock trial team and my recollection is that my mother asked me to join that

that my mother asked me to join that

that my mother asked me to join that team

team

team and I did as I was told I went to

and I did as I was told I went to

and I did as I was told I went to Mississippi State College where I

Mississippi State College where I

Mississippi State College where I majored in Ag business I know that

majored in Ag business I know that

majored in Ag business I know that sounds a lot like pre-law or political

sounds a lot like pre-law or political

sounds a lot like pre-law or political science doesn’t it it had nothing to do

science doesn’t it it had nothing to do

science doesn’t it it had nothing to do with law my mother thought I would be a

with law my mother thought I would be a

with law my mother thought I would be a lawyer when I grew up I wasn’t so sure

lawyer when I grew up I wasn’t so sure

lawyer when I grew up I wasn’t so sure so majoring in agriculture was sort of

so majoring in agriculture was sort of

so majoring in agriculture was sort of my rebellion I guess you can say I got

my rebellion I guess you can say I got

my rebellion I guess you can say I got my bachelor’s degree and my master’s

my bachelor’s degree and my master’s

my bachelor’s degree and my master’s degree in Ag business before deciding

degree in Ag business before deciding

degree in Ag business before deciding that mother was right and mothers

that mother was right and mothers

that mother was right and mothers usually are right so after I got my

usually are right so after I got my

usually are right so after I got my master’s degree I went out to Dallas

master’s degree I went out to Dallas

master’s degree I went out to Dallas Texas and went to law school I practiced

Texas and went to law school I practiced

Texas and went to law school I practiced law out there for a little bit and then

law out there for a little bit and then

law out there for a little bit and then I decided to move home to practice law

I decided to move home to practice law

I decided to move home to practice law in Jackson what I want to talk to you

in Jackson what I want to talk to you

in Jackson what I want to talk to you about though is that the Polaroid of my

about though is that the Polaroid of my

about though is that the Polaroid of my life developed as the result of a few

life developed as the result of a few

life developed as the result of a few negatives so you remember me telling you

negatives so you remember me telling you

negatives so you remember me telling you about the role of film in old-timey

about the role of film in old-timey

about the role of film in old-timey cameras well when you would get those

cameras well when you would get those

cameras well when you would get those photographs back you would get the

photographs back you would get the

photographs back you would get the negatives back as well so an instant

negatives back as well so an instant

negatives back as well so an instant photo is a lot like that negative

photo is a lot like that negative

photo is a lot like that negative polaroid photos are created when a

polaroid photos are created when a

polaroid photos are created when a negative is displayed inside the camera

negative is displayed inside the camera

negative is displayed inside the camera it’s pressed between a set of rollers

it’s pressed between a set of rollers

it’s pressed between a set of rollers which is why it comes out either the

which is why it comes out either the

which is why it comes out either the front or the top of the camera depending

front or the top of the camera depending

front or the top of the camera depending on the camera but when it’s pressed and

on the camera but when it’s pressed and

on the camera but when it’s pressed and applied there’s some pressure applied to

applied there’s some pressure applied to

applied there’s some pressure applied to it there’s a chemical agent a chemical

it there’s a chemical agent a chemical

it there’s a chemical agent a chemical reagent a change that takes place that

reagent a change that takes place that

reagent a change that takes place that will transfer that negative to a

will transfer that negative to a

will transfer that negative to a positive receiving sheet and that’s when

positive receiving sheet and that’s when

positive receiving sheet and that’s when you get the photograph

you get the photograph

you get the photograph so the chemical change comes about as a

so the chemical change comes about as a

so the chemical change comes about as a result of the negative meeting the

result of the negative meeting the

result of the negative meeting the positive and as the result of the

positive and as the result of the

positive and as the result of the pressure of the rollers we can draw some

pressure of the rollers we can draw some

pressure of the rollers we can draw some parallels between the creation of an

parallels between the creation of an

parallels between the creation of an instant photograph and the creation of

instant photograph and the creation of

instant photograph and the creation of your own story and I want to share a few

your own story and I want to share a few

your own story and I want to share a few of my negatives in order for you to

of my negatives in order for you to

of my negatives in order for you to understand what I’m talking about when I

understand what I’m talking about when I

understand what I’m talking about when I was on that high school mock trial team

was on that high school mock trial team

was on that high school mock trial team my coach told me that I wasn’t good

my coach told me that I wasn’t good

my coach told me that I wasn’t good enough to be a lawyer what my teenage

enough to be a lawyer what my teenage

enough to be a lawyer what my teenage brain heard was that I couldn’t be a

brain heard was that I couldn’t be a

brain heard was that I couldn’t be a lawyer now that’s not what he said but

lawyer now that’s not what he said but

lawyer now that’s not what he said but that’s what I heard so I was a witness

that’s what I heard so I was a witness

that’s what I heard so I was a witness and when I look back on that I recognize

and when I look back on that I recognize

and when I look back on that I recognize that he knew some of my other students

that he knew some of my other students

that he knew some of my other students some of my teammates were much better at

some of my teammates were much better at

some of my teammates were much better at thinking on their feet than I was and

thinking on their feet than I was and

thinking on their feet than I was and they would do a better job and in

they would do a better job and in

they would do a better job and in reality those people who got assign

reality those people who got assign

reality those people who got assign those roles ultimately went to law

those roles ultimately went to law

those roles ultimately went to law school and are now accomplished

school and are now accomplished

school and are now accomplished attorneys but that you aren’t good

attorneys but that you aren’t good

attorneys but that you aren’t good enough to be a lawyer it’s part of the

enough to be a lawyer it’s part of the

enough to be a lawyer it’s part of the reason I went to college and didn’t

reason I went to college and didn’t

reason I went to college and didn’t major in pre-law and I didn’t major in

major in pre-law and I didn’t major in

major in pre-law and I didn’t major in political science because I took what he

political science because I took what he

political science because I took what he said as truth when in reality it wasn’t

said as truth when in reality it wasn’t

said as truth when in reality it wasn’t the truth but that negative combined

the truth but that negative combined

the truth but that negative combined with a change agent like in that instant

with a change agent like in that instant

with a change agent like in that instant photograph and that change agent was my

photograph and that change agent was my

photograph and that change agent was my mother’s pressure created a positive

mother’s pressure created a positive

mother’s pressure created a positive result for me

result for me

result for me after I have been practicing law here in

after I have been practicing law here in

after I have been practicing law here in Tennessee for a few years I was

Tennessee for a few years I was

Tennessee for a few years I was nominated to I was nominated to apply

nominated to I was nominated to apply

nominated to I was nominated to apply for a leadership program that the

for a leadership program that the

for a leadership program that the Tennessee Bar Association puts on the

Tennessee Bar Association puts on the

Tennessee Bar Association puts on the Tennessee Bar Association is the

Tennessee Bar Association is the

Tennessee Bar Association is the statewide group of lawyers so I filled

statewide group of lawyers so I filled

statewide group of lawyers so I filled out my application and I was rejected

out my application and I was rejected

out my application and I was rejected they sent me a very kind letter that

they sent me a very kind letter that

they sent me a very kind letter that said no thank you

said no thank you

said no thank you well after I got over my disappointment

well after I got over my disappointment

well after I got over my disappointment and to be perfectly honest mild anger I

and to be perfectly honest mild anger I

and to be perfectly honest mild anger I looked at my application and I suddenly

looked at my application and I suddenly

looked at my application and I suddenly realized why they had said no the reason

realized why they had said no the reason

realized why they had said no the reason they said no was because all I did was

they said no was because all I did was

they said no was because all I did was work that’s all I did

work that’s all I did

work that’s all I did I didn’t contribute to my community

I didn’t contribute to my community

I didn’t contribute to my community and I wasn’t advocating for our

and I wasn’t advocating for our

and I wasn’t advocating for our profession or trying to make our

profession or trying to make our

profession or trying to make our profession any better I was flat I was

profession any better I was flat I was

profession any better I was flat I was not well rounded I just worked so it was

not well rounded I just worked so it was

not well rounded I just worked so it was a good wake-up call I was able to take

a good wake-up call I was able to take

a good wake-up call I was able to take that rejection realize that I needed to

that rejection realize that I needed to

that rejection realize that I needed to change some things so I found some

change some things so I found some

change some things so I found some causes that cared about

causes that cared about

causes that cared about I found some things that played to my

I found some things that played to my

I found some things that played to my strengths and I got involved in some

strengths and I got involved in some

strengths and I got involved in some things both in my community and in my

things both in my community and in my

things both in my community and in my profession I swore I would never apply

profession I swore I would never apply

profession I swore I would never apply again a few years later a dear friend

again a few years later a dear friend

again a few years later a dear friend called and said please apply please

called and said please apply please

called and said please apply please apply so I did and I got into that

apply so I did and I got into that

apply so I did and I got into that program probably because of the changes

program probably because of the changes

program probably because of the changes I had made that change in that rejection

I had made that change in that rejection

I had made that change in that rejection was one of the best professional events

was one of the best professional events

was one of the best professional events of my life because it completely changed

of my life because it completely changed

of my life because it completely changed my trajectory and what I was able to do

my trajectory and what I was able to do

my trajectory and what I was able to do so the rejection turned into a really

so the rejection turned into a really

so the rejection turned into a really good experience after I had been

good experience after I had been

good experience after I had been practicing law for a number of years one

practicing law for a number of years one

practicing law for a number of years one of those lawyers I worked for when I was

of those lawyers I worked for when I was

of those lawyers I worked for when I was 14 or 15 called me and told me that one

14 or 15 called me and told me that one

14 or 15 called me and told me that one of the judges

of the judges

of the judges on the Tennessee Court of Appeals had

on the Tennessee Court of Appeals had

on the Tennessee Court of Appeals had decided to retire and he thought I

decided to retire and he thought I

decided to retire and he thought I should apply after telling him all the

should apply after telling him all the

should apply after telling him all the reasons I didn’t think I should apply I

reasons I didn’t think I should apply I

reasons I didn’t think I should apply I filled out the application it’s about a

filled out the application it’s about a

filled out the application it’s about a 15 page application you pour your life

15 page application you pour your life

15 page application you pour your life and your soul into these pieces of paper

and your soul into these pieces of paper

and your soul into these pieces of paper that are available on the internet

that are available on the internet

that are available on the internet forever then you appear in front of this

forever then you appear in front of this

forever then you appear in front of this group of 15 people who ask you all kinds

group of 15 people who ask you all kinds

group of 15 people who ask you all kinds of questions including things like are

of questions including things like are

of questions including things like are you sure you’re old enough to do this

you sure you’re old enough to do this

you sure you’re old enough to do this job and they pick three names of the of

job and they pick three names of the of

job and they pick three names of the of the group that applies they pick three

the group that applies they pick three

the group that applies they pick three names to send to the governor’s office I

names to send to the governor’s office I

names to send to the governor’s office I was one of the three names that was

was one of the three names that was

was one of the three names that was selected along with two judges from

selected along with two judges from

selected along with two judges from Shelby County who were extraordinarily

Shelby County who were extraordinarily

Shelby County who were extraordinarily well-qualified so I get to go to

well-qualified so I get to go to

well-qualified so I get to go to Nashville get a parking spot at the

Nashville get a parking spot at the

Nashville get a parking spot at the Capitol I get to interview with the

Capitol I get to interview with the

Capitol I get to interview with the governor’s lawyers and then spend 30

governor’s lawyers and then spend 30

governor’s lawyers and then spend 30 minutes in the governor’s office just

minutes in the governor’s office just

minutes in the governor’s office just sitting and chatting with him about my

sitting and chatting with him about my

sitting and chatting with him about my work experience in my education I can

work experience in my education I can

work experience in my education I can promise you that my high school Mock

promise you that my high school Mock

promise you that my high school Mock Trial self never saw that coming

Trial self never saw that coming

Trial self never saw that coming it was a wonderful experience but

it was a wonderful experience but

it was a wonderful experience but completely unexpected about six weeks

completely unexpected about six weeks

completely unexpected about six weeks later I got the phone call that the

later I got the phone call that the

later I got the phone call that the governor had decided to appoint one of

governor had decided to appoint one of

governor had decided to appoint one of the other two applicants to the job

the other two applicants to the job

the other two applicants to the job rejection a week or so later that same

rejection a week or so later that same

rejection a week or so later that same lawyer that I had dealt with when I was

lawyer that I had dealt with when I was

lawyer that I had dealt with when I was fifteen

fifteen

fifteen called me and said there’s another judge

called me and said there’s another judge

called me and said there’s another judge who’s decided he also is going to retire

who’s decided he also is going to retire

who’s decided he also is going to retire you have a second chance I had to think

you have a second chance I had to think

you have a second chance I had to think about it for a little while because

about it for a little while because

about it for a little while because rejection sometimes stings

rejection sometimes stings

rejection sometimes stings but I decided to apply same process 15

but I decided to apply same process 15

but I decided to apply same process 15 people answering questions I was one of

people answering questions I was one of

people answering questions I was one of the three names selected when again to

the three names selected when again to

the three names selected when again to the governor’s office wondered what they

the governor’s office wondered what they

the governor’s office wondered what they could ask me this time that they didn’t

could ask me this time that they didn’t

could ask me this time that they didn’t ask me the last time I came up with a

ask me the last time I came up with a

ask me the last time I came up with a few questions spend some time with the

few questions spend some time with the

few questions spend some time with the governor’s lawyers spent some time with

governor’s lawyers spent some time with

governor’s lawyers spent some time with the governor again that time the day

the governor again that time the day

the governor again that time the day after Christmas 2013 I got a phone call

after Christmas 2013 I got a phone call

after Christmas 2013 I got a phone call as I was driving down i-40 that the

as I was driving down i-40 that the

as I was driving down i-40 that the governor had decided to appoint me to

governor had decided to appoint me to

governor had decided to appoint me to the Tennessee Court of Appeals that

the Tennessee Court of Appeals that

the Tennessee Court of Appeals that experience over the last two and a half

experience over the last two and a half

experience over the last two and a half years now has been one of the biggest

years now has been one of the biggest

years now has been one of the biggest joys of my life to serve this state in a

joys of my life to serve this state in a

joys of my life to serve this state in a way that I feel I’m uniquely qualified

way that I feel I’m uniquely qualified

way that I feel I’m uniquely qualified to do it I would have missed out on that

to do it I would have missed out on that

to do it I would have missed out on that joy if I had taken that rejection to

joy if I had taken that rejection to

joy if I had taken that rejection to heart and had not reapplied so my story

heart and had not reapplied so my story

heart and had not reapplied so my story is a lot like this Polaroid yours will

is a lot like this Polaroid yours will

is a lot like this Polaroid yours will be as well our stories there are process

be as well our stories there are process

be as well our stories there are process much like there’s a process to the

much like there’s a process to the

much like there’s a process to the creation of a Polaroid picture is there

creation of a Polaroid picture is there

creation of a Polaroid picture is there something you’d like to do having that

something you’d like to do having that

something you’d like to do having that thought it’s the first thing so that’s

thought it’s the first thing so that’s

thought it’s the first thing so that’s the first thing to do is have some

the first thing to do is have some

the first thing to do is have some thought what you want to do the second

thought what you want to do the second

thought what you want to do the second thing you’ve got to do is you’ve got to

thing you’ve got to do is you’ve got to

thing you’ve got to do is you’ve got to actually do something you can’t just sit

actually do something you can’t just sit

actually do something you can’t just sit around and think about it if you sit

around and think about it if you sit

around and think about it if you sit around and think about it you probably

around and think about it you probably

around and think about it you probably are going to think it to death do you

are going to think it to death do you

are going to think it to death do you think anybody who went skydiving spent a

think anybody who went skydiving spent a

think anybody who went skydiving spent a lot of time thinking about whether it

lot of time thinking about whether it

lot of time thinking about whether it was something they wanted to do no they

was something they wanted to do no they

was something they wanted to do no they just got out there and they did it maybe

just got out there and they did it maybe

just got out there and they did it maybe when you do something you’ll be

when you do something you’ll be

when you do something you’ll be successful maybe you want and that’s

successful maybe you want and that’s

successful maybe you want and that’s where the last thing comes into play

where the last thing comes into play

where the last thing comes into play you’ve got to be willing if you’re not

you’ve got to be willing if you’re not

you’ve got to be willing if you’re not successful to change something or you

successful to change something or you

successful to change something or you might just have to wait and you might

might just have to wait and you might

might just have to wait and you might have to be patient a Polaroid doesn’t

have to be patient a Polaroid doesn’t

have to be patient a Polaroid doesn’t develop instantly

develop instantly

develop instantly you have to wait a little while

you have to wait a little while

you have to wait a little while sometimes people think if they shake it

sometimes people think if they shake it

sometimes people think if they shake it it’ll develop faster sometimes you just

it’ll develop faster sometimes you just

it’ll develop faster sometimes you just have to wait for the color of your story

have to wait for the color of your story

have to wait for the color of your story to be displayed do what has to be done

to be displayed do what has to be done

to be displayed do what has to be done but wait when you need to sometimes

but wait when you need to sometimes

but wait when you need to sometimes you’ll get knocked down or you’ll get

you’ll get knocked down or you’ll get

you’ll get knocked down or you’ll get told no I could have decided not to

told no I could have decided not to

told no I could have decided not to apply for the Court of Appeals again I

apply for the Court of Appeals again I

apply for the Court of Appeals again I could have gotten disappointed and quit

could have gotten disappointed and quit

could have gotten disappointed and quit but failure really is an opportunity to

but failure really is an opportunity to

but failure really is an opportunity to create something wonderful it’s an

create something wonderful it’s an

create something wonderful it’s an opportunity to take that negative apply

opportunity to take that negative apply

opportunity to take that negative apply some kind of change agent and let the

some kind of change agent and let the

some kind of change agent and let the negative be passed into a positive as

negative be passed into a positive as

negative be passed into a positive as much as you’ve got to change the way you

much as you’ve got to change the way you

much as you’ve got to change the way you look at the negatives in your life

look at the negatives in your life

look at the negatives in your life you’ve also got to be willing to have

you’ve also got to be willing to have

you’ve also got to be willing to have your eyes open to the change agents that

your eyes open to the change agents that

your eyes open to the change agents that are all around you for a Polaroid it’s a

are all around you for a Polaroid it’s a

are all around you for a Polaroid it’s a chemical that’s there that helps

chemical that’s there that helps

chemical that’s there that helps transfer that negative to a positive in

transfer that negative to a positive in

transfer that negative to a positive in my life it’s been a variety of things

my life it’s been a variety of things

my life it’s been a variety of things number one it’s been people my mother

number one it’s been people my mother

number one it’s been people my mother was a huge change agent for me because

was a huge change agent for me because

was a huge change agent for me because she knew when to push me and how to push

she knew when to push me and how to push

she knew when to push me and how to push me she’s the one who continued to push

me she’s the one who continued to push

me she’s the one who continued to push me toward law because she saw in me

me toward law because she saw in me

me toward law because she saw in me something that she knew and her wisdom

something that she knew and her wisdom

something that she knew and her wisdom would fit the people of the law firm

would fit the people of the law firm

would fit the people of the law firm that I worked for when I was fifteen

that I worked for when I was fifteen

that I worked for when I was fifteen years old

years old

years old they were change agents too they

they were change agents too they

they were change agents too they mentored me for years and then when an

mentored me for years and then when an

mentored me for years and then when an opportunity came my way they were there

opportunity came my way they were there

opportunity came my way they were there to help me and support me although it

to help me and support me although it

to help me and support me although it had been 20 years since I had last

had been 20 years since I had last

had been 20 years since I had last worked for them

finally be willing to listen to someone

finally be willing to listen to someone tell you the truth even when it’s

tell you the truth even when it’s

tell you the truth even when it’s something you don’t necessarily want to

something you don’t necessarily want to

something you don’t necessarily want to hear every time I’ve been told I was

hear every time I’ve been told I was

hear every time I’ve been told I was wrong and that’s pretty often I’ve grown

wrong and that’s pretty often I’ve grown

wrong and that’s pretty often I’ve grown in some way you’ve got to be willing to

in some way you’ve got to be willing to

in some way you’ve got to be willing to be uncomfortable in order to grow don’t

be uncomfortable in order to grow don’t

be uncomfortable in order to grow don’t surround yourself with yes men or women

surround yourself with yes men or women

surround yourself with yes men or women who only tell you how great you are and

who only tell you how great you are and

who only tell you how great you are and how wonderful you are make sure that you

how wonderful you are make sure that you

how wonderful you are make sure that you are surrounding yourself with people who

are surrounding yourself with people who

are surrounding yourself with people who support you but also with people who

support you but also with people who

support you but also with people who will challenge you I have the benefit of

will challenge you I have the benefit of

will challenge you I have the benefit of perspective I know what the last 25

perspective I know what the last 25

perspective I know what the last 25 years of my development has resulted in

years of my development has resulted in

years of my development has resulted in you’re probably sitting there still

you’re probably sitting there still

you’re probably sitting there still wondering what is the next 25 years hold

wondering what is the next 25 years hold

wondering what is the next 25 years hold for me you may be wondering what the

for me you may be wondering what the

for me you may be wondering what the next five years hold for you as your

next five years hold for you as your

next five years hold for you as your story begins to develop remember that

story begins to develop remember that

story begins to develop remember that perceived negatives in your life can

perceived negatives in your life can

perceived negatives in your life can combine with a change agent and really

combine with a change agent and really

combine with a change agent and really create something wonderful and when you

create something wonderful and when you

create something wonderful and when you look back on the Polaroid that you

look back on the Polaroid that you

look back on the Polaroid that you created I hope you’ll see that your

created I hope you’ll see that your

created I hope you’ll see that your story is a masterpiece thank you

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