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Be Where Your Feet Are | Alan Stein | TEDxBaylorSchool


I’m gonna share with you why having 24

I’m gonna share with you why having 24 hours every single day is more than

hours every single day is more than

hours every single day is more than enough if you learn to live present but

enough if you learn to live present but

enough if you learn to live present but before I teach you how to live present I

before I teach you how to live present I

before I teach you how to live present I have good news and I have bad news the

have good news and I have bad news the

have good news and I have bad news the good news is I’m going to share with you

good news is I’m going to share with you

good news is I’m going to share with you a very basic strategy on how you can

a very basic strategy on how you can

a very basic strategy on how you can maximize your time how you can aim for

maximize your time how you can aim for

maximize your time how you can aim for excellence in every moment and how you

excellence in every moment and how you

excellence in every moment and how you can become happier and more successful

can become happier and more successful

can become happier and more successful the bad news is some of you will choose

the bad news is some of you will choose

the bad news is some of you will choose not to implement this some of you will

not to implement this some of you will

not to implement this some of you will choose not to adopt this strategy and

choose not to adopt this strategy and

choose not to adopt this strategy and the reason I say choose is I need you to

the reason I say choose is I need you to

the reason I say choose is I need you to acknowledge that your habits are in fact

acknowledge that your habits are in fact

acknowledge that your habits are in fact the choice you choose your habits and

the choice you choose your habits and

the choice you choose your habits and your habits are what dictate your

your habits are what dictate your

your habits are what dictate your happiness and your success see happiness

happiness and your success see happiness

happiness and your success see happiness and success are not predicated on what

and success are not predicated on what

and success are not predicated on what we do every once in a while they’re a

we do every once in a while they’re a

we do every once in a while they’re a result of what we do every single day

result of what we do every single day

result of what we do every single day because how you do anything is how you

because how you do anything is how you

because how you do anything is how you do everything

do everything

do everything in 2007 Nike flew me to Los Angeles to

in 2007 Nike flew me to Los Angeles to

in 2007 Nike flew me to Los Angeles to work the first ever Kobe Bryant Skills

work the first ever Kobe Bryant Skills

work the first ever Kobe Bryant Skills Academy Nike brought in the top high

Academy Nike brought in the top high

Academy Nike brought in the top high school and college players from around

school and college players from around

school and college players from around the country for an intensive three-day

the country for an intensive three-day

the country for an intensive three-day mini camp with the best player in the

mini camp with the best player in the

mini camp with the best player in the world now I’ve lived in a basketball

world now I’ve lived in a basketball

world now I’ve lived in a basketball bubble my entire life so I had heard the

bubble my entire life so I had heard the

bubble my entire life so I had heard the urban legend of how insanely intense

urban legend of how insanely intense

urban legend of how insanely intense Kobe’s individual workouts were so since

Kobe’s individual workouts were so since

Kobe’s individual workouts were so since I was on camp staff I asked him if I

I was on camp staff I asked him if I

I was on camp staff I asked him if I could watch one he said sure I’m going

could watch one he said sure I’m going

could watch one he said sure I’m going tomorrow at four and I said but Kobe we

tomorrow at four and I said but Kobe we

tomorrow at four and I said but Kobe we have a camp workout tomorrow at 3:30 he

have a camp workout tomorrow at 3:30 he

have a camp workout tomorrow at 3:30 he said no I’m going at 4:00 a.m. well

said no I’m going at 4:00 a.m. well

said no I’m going at 4:00 a.m. well obviously there’s not a legitimate

obviously there’s not a legitimate

obviously there’s not a legitimate excuse I can come up with on why I can’t

excuse I can come up with on why I can’t

excuse I can come up with on why I can’t be somewhere at 4:00 a.m. so I’d

be somewhere at 4:00 a.m. so I’d

be somewhere at 4:00 a.m. so I’d basically committed myself to being

basically committed myself to being

basically committed myself to being there and I figured if I was going to be

there and I figured if I was going to be

there and I figured if I was going to be there anyway I might as well try and

there anyway I might as well try and

there anyway I might as well try and impress Kobe I might as well show him

impress Kobe I might as well show him

impress Kobe I might as well show him how serious of a trainer I was so I

how serious of a trainer I was so I

how serious of a trainer I was so I planned to beat him to the gym so I set

planned to beat him to the gym so I set

planned to beat him to the gym so I set my alarm for 3:00 a.m. the alarm goes

my alarm for 3:00 a.m. the alarm goes

my alarm for 3:00 a.m. the alarm goes off I jump up quickly and get myself

off I jump up quickly and get myself

off I jump up quickly and get myself together and I hop in a cab and I get to

together and I hop in a cab and I get to

together and I hop in a cab and I get to the gym probably a little after 3:30 and

the gym probably a little after 3:30 and

the gym probably a little after 3:30 and I step out and it’s pitch black outside

I step out and it’s pitch black outside

I step out and it’s pitch black outside but I can see that the gym lights are

but I can see that the gym lights are

but I can see that the gym lights are already on and I can faintly hear a ball

already on and I can faintly hear a ball

already on and I can faintly hear a ball bouncing and sneakers squeaking I

bouncing and sneakers squeaking I

bouncing and sneakers squeaking I slither in the side door and Kobe is

slither in the side door and Kobe is

slither in the side door and Kobe is already in a full sweat he was going

already in a full sweat he was going

already in a full sweat he was going through an intense warmup before his

through an intense warmup before his

through an intense warmup before his scheduled workout started at 4:00 a.m.

scheduled workout started at 4:00 a.m.

scheduled workout started at 4:00 a.m. now I didn’t say anything to him and I

now I didn’t say anything to him and I

now I didn’t say anything to him and I didn’t say anything to his trainer I

didn’t say anything to his trainer I

didn’t say anything to his trainer I just sat down quietly to watch and for

just sat down quietly to watch and for

just sat down quietly to watch and for the first 45 minutes I was bored out of

the first 45 minutes I was bored out of

the first 45 minutes I was bored out of my mind for the first 45 minutes

my mind for the first 45 minutes

my mind for the first 45 minutes I watched the best player in the game of

I watched the best player in the game of

I watched the best player in the game of basketball do the most basic offensive

basketball do the most basic offensive

basketball do the most basic offensive moves in footwork he was doing stuff

moves in footwork he was doing stuff

moves in footwork he was doing stuff that I had already done with middle

that I had already done with middle

that I had already done with middle school age players now please understand

school age players now please understand

school age players now please understand he was doing it at a super high level of

he was doing it at a super high level of

he was doing it at a super high level of intensity and his precision was razor

intensity and his precision was razor

intensity and his precision was razor sharp but the stuff he was doing was so

sharp but the stuff he was doing was so

sharp but the stuff he was doing was so basic now the entire workout took around

basic now the entire workout took around

basic now the entire workout took around two hours and when it was done I didn’t

two hours and when it was done I didn’t

two hours and when it was done I didn’t say anything to him I didn’t say

say anything to him I didn’t say

say anything to him I didn’t say anything to his trainer I just left but

anything to his trainer I just left but

anything to his trainer I just left but later that day curiosity got the best of

later that day curiosity got the best of

later that day curiosity got the best of me I had to ask him Kobe you’re the best

me I had to ask him Kobe you’re the best

me I had to ask him Kobe you’re the best player in the world why are you doing

player in the world why are you doing

player in the world why are you doing such basic drills and he looked at me

such basic drills and he looked at me

such basic drills and he looked at me and smiled but said very seriously why

and smiled but said very seriously why

and smiled but said very seriously why do you think I’m the best player in the

do you think I’m the best player in the

do you think I’m the best player in the world because I never get bored with the

world because I never get bored with the

world because I never get bored with the basics Kobe taught me a really pivotal

basics Kobe taught me a really pivotal

basics Kobe taught me a really pivotal lesson that morning and that’s just

lesson that morning and that’s just

lesson that morning and that’s just because something is basic it doesn’t

because something is basic it doesn’t

because something is basic it doesn’t mean that it’s easy if it was easy

mean that it’s easy if it was easy

mean that it’s easy if it was easy everyone else would do it

everyone else would do it

everyone else would do it but we live in a world that wants us to

but we live in a world that wants us to

but we live in a world that wants us to skip steps that begs us to circumvent

skip steps that begs us to circumvent

skip steps that begs us to circumvent the process that encourages us to chase

the process that encourages us to chase

the process that encourages us to chase what’s hot and what’s flashy and what’s

what’s hot and what’s flashy and what’s

what’s hot and what’s flashy and what’s sexy and ignore what’s basic the basics

sexy and ignore what’s basic the basics

sexy and ignore what’s basic the basics work they always have and they always

work they always have and they always

work they always have and they always will the most basic concept I know of is

will the most basic concept I know of is

will the most basic concept I know of is time yet despite its simplicity an

time yet despite its simplicity an

time yet despite its simplicity an appreciation and a respect for time is

appreciation and a respect for time is

appreciation and a respect for time is the key to being as happy and as

the key to being as happy and as

the key to being as happy and as successful as possible I’m 41 years old

successful as possible I’m 41 years old

successful as possible I’m 41 years old the average life expectancy for males in

the average life expectancy for males in

the average life expectancy for males in the United States is 79 years old which

the United States is 79 years old which

the United States is 79 years old which means statistically I’m at the half time

means statistically I’m at the half time

means statistically I’m at the half time of my life now if you’re my age you’re

of my life now if you’re my age you’re

of my life now if you’re my age you’re older you can probably agree with me

older you can probably agree with me

older you can probably agree with me that first half went by really quick and

that first half went by really quick and

that first half went by really quick and the speed at which time has flown by

the speed at which time has flown by

the speed at which time has flown by makes me realize that

makes me realize that

makes me realize that is without question our most valuable

is without question our most valuable

is without question our most valuable resource now I want you to take a second

resource now I want you to take a second

resource now I want you to take a second and I want you to imagine that your life

and I want you to imagine that your life

and I want you to imagine that your life is like an hourglass and the moment you

is like an hourglass and the moment you

is like an hourglass and the moment you were born that hourglass got flipped

were born that hourglass got flipped

were born that hourglass got flipped over and the sand started falling and

over and the sand started falling and

over and the sand started falling and I’ve learned three indisputable truths

I’ve learned three indisputable truths

I’ve learned three indisputable truths about time three indisputable truths

about time three indisputable truths

about time three indisputable truths about that hourglass number one none of

about that hourglass number one none of

about that hourglass number one none of us has any idea how much sand is at the

us has any idea how much sand is at the

us has any idea how much sand is at the top time is not promised tomorrow is not

top time is not promised tomorrow is not

top time is not promised tomorrow is not guaranteed every one of us knows someone

guaranteed every one of us knows someone

guaranteed every one of us knows someone whose sand ran out unexpectedly number

whose sand ran out unexpectedly number

whose sand ran out unexpectedly number two we can’t stop the sand from going to

two we can’t stop the sand from going to

two we can’t stop the sand from going to the bottom you can’t stop time you can’t

the bottom you can’t stop time you can’t

the bottom you can’t stop time you can’t pause time time is continuous its ever

pause time time is continuous its ever

pause time time is continuous its ever fleeting that clock is always ticking

fleeting that clock is always ticking

fleeting that clock is always ticking and that calendar is always turning and

and that calendar is always turning and

and that calendar is always turning and three once that sand hits the bottom

three once that sand hits the bottom

three once that sand hits the bottom it’s gone we can’t get time back

it’s gone we can’t get time back

it’s gone we can’t get time back they’ve already printed yesterday’s

they’ve already printed yesterday’s

they’ve already printed yesterday’s newspaper there’s nothing we can do

newspaper there’s nothing we can do

newspaper there’s nothing we can do about it so time is without question our

about it so time is without question our

about it so time is without question our most valuable resource well with that

most valuable resource well with that

most valuable resource well with that being true that means our attention is

being true that means our attention is

being true that means our attention is our number one currency because where

our number one currency because where

our number one currency because where you put your attention that shows what

you put your attention that shows what

you put your attention that shows what you value and when you give someone your

you value and when you give someone your

you value and when you give someone your full attention you show them that you

full attention you show them that you

full attention you show them that you care and caring is what creates

care and caring is what creates

care and caring is what creates connection and connection is the

connection and connection is the

connection and connection is the foundation of happiness and success

foundation of happiness and success

foundation of happiness and success which means we need to give the people

which means we need to give the people

which means we need to give the people that matter in our lives our full

that matter in our lives our full

that matter in our lives our full attention which means we need to put our

attention which means we need to put our

attention which means we need to put our phones down we need to close our laptops

phones down we need to close our laptops

phones down we need to close our laptops we need to turn off our TVs in order to

we need to turn off our TVs in order to

we need to turn off our TVs in order to truly connect we actually need to unplug

truly connect we actually need to unplug

truly connect we actually need to unplug that doesn’t get any more basic than

that doesn’t get any more basic than

that doesn’t get any more basic than that

that

that so how do we do that we live present so

so how do we do that we live present so

so how do we do that we live present so what does it mean to live present it

what does it mean to live present it

what does it mean to live present it means be where your feet are wherever

means be where your feet are wherever

means be where your feet are wherever your feet are that’s where your head and

your feet are that’s where your head and

your feet are that’s where your head and your heart need to be if you’re with

your heart need to be if you’re with

your heart need to be if you’re with your kids be with your kids when you’re

your kids be with your kids when you’re

your kids be with your kids when you’re at work be at work you need to make sure

at work be at work you need to make sure

at work be at work you need to make sure that you pour into everything that

that you pour into everything that

that you pour into everything that you’re doing now I’m a

you’re doing now I’m a

you’re doing now I’m a that sound very basic but trust me it is

that sound very basic but trust me it is

that sound very basic but trust me it is not easy in fact living present is one

not easy in fact living present is one

not easy in fact living present is one of the biggest challenges that all of us

of the biggest challenges that all of us

of the biggest challenges that all of us have and it takes practice it takes a

have and it takes practice it takes a

have and it takes practice it takes a lot of practice a couple of months ago I

lot of practice a couple of months ago I

lot of practice a couple of months ago I was involved in a charity event it was

was involved in a charity event it was

was involved in a charity event it was being put on by serial entrepreneur

being put on by serial entrepreneur

being put on by serial entrepreneur author and endurance Superman Jessie

author and endurance Superman Jessie

author and endurance Superman Jessie it’s learn and the event was basic in

it’s learn and the event was basic in

it’s learn and the event was basic in premise but trust me it was not easy we

premise but trust me it was not easy we

premise but trust me it was not easy we had to run up and down in 80-yard Hill

had to run up and down in 80-yard Hill

had to run up and down in 80-yard Hill that was at a 40 degree slope a hundred

that was at a 40 degree slope a hundred

that was at a 40 degree slope a hundred times yes a hundred times

times yes a hundred times

times yes a hundred times that’s over eight miles so the event was

that’s over eight miles so the event was

that’s over eight miles so the event was appropriately named hell on the hill the

appropriately named hell on the hill the

appropriately named hell on the hill the head basketball coach at Marquette was

head basketball coach at Marquette was

head basketball coach at Marquette was also one of the runners and he and I

also one of the runners and he and I

also one of the runners and he and I were on about the same pace and around

were on about the same pace and around

were on about the same pace and around three hours into it right around the

three hours into it right around the

three hours into it right around the seventy rep mark I hit a wall I was

seventy rep mark I hit a wall I was

seventy rep mark I hit a wall I was struggling I was physically mentally and

struggling I was physically mentally and

struggling I was physically mentally and emotionally spent if I can be quite

emotionally spent if I can be quite

emotionally spent if I can be quite honest with you guys I wanted to quit

honest with you guys I wanted to quit

honest with you guys I wanted to quit and since I knew he and I were on about

and since I knew he and I were on about

and since I knew he and I were on about the same pace and I asked him I said how

the same pace and I asked him I said how

the same pace and I asked him I said how many do you have left

many do you have left

many do you have left and he said one rep and I was confused

and he said one rep and I was confused

and he said one rep and I was confused to be honest I was really pissed off

to be honest I was really pissed off

to be honest I was really pissed off because there’s no way he only had one

because there’s no way he only had one

because there’s no way he only had one rep and then he finished his sentence he

rep and then he finished his sentence he

rep and then he finished his sentence he said I have one rep thirty more times

said I have one rep thirty more times

said I have one rep thirty more times and that is the definition of living

and that is the definition of living

and that is the definition of living present you don’t focus on the hundred

present you don’t focus on the hundred

present you don’t focus on the hundred you focus on the next rep and living

you focus on the next rep and living

you focus on the next rep and living present is what allowed me to get

present is what allowed me to get

present is what allowed me to get through that somewhat brutal yet fun

through that somewhat brutal yet fun

through that somewhat brutal yet fun event and living present is what is

event and living present is what is

event and living present is what is allowing me now to be happier and more

allowing me now to be happier and more

allowing me now to be happier and more fulfilled than I’ve ever been in my life

fulfilled than I’ve ever been in my life

fulfilled than I’ve ever been in my life but it’s important you know there is a

but it’s important you know there is a

but it’s important you know there is a big difference between knowing how to

big difference between knowing how to

big difference between knowing how to live present in actually living present

live present in actually living present

live present in actually living present we’ve all heard that knowledge is power

we’ve all heard that knowledge is power

we’ve all heard that knowledge is power guess what it’s not that’s a lie that’s

guess what it’s not that’s a lie that’s

guess what it’s not that’s a lie that’s a myth knowledge is not power it’s the

a myth knowledge is not power it’s the

a myth knowledge is not power it’s the application of knowledge that is

application of knowledge that is

application of knowledge that is powerful knowing is not enough and

powerful knowing is not enough and

powerful knowing is not enough and knowledge unapplied is completely

knowledge unapplied is completely

knowledge unapplied is completely worthless every human being on the

worthless every human being on the

worthless every human being on the planet knows that smoking is bad for

planet knows that smoking is bad for

planet knows that smoking is bad for your health yet smoking is still the

your health yet smoking is still the

your health yet smoking is still the number

number

number preventable cause of death in the United

preventable cause of death in the United

preventable cause of death in the United States that kills half a million people

States that kills half a million people

States that kills half a million people every single year and every one of those

every single year and every one of those

every single year and every one of those 500,000 people knows that smoking is bad

500,000 people knows that smoking is bad

500,000 people knows that smoking is bad form

form

form so clearly knowing is not enough you

so clearly knowing is not enough you

so clearly knowing is not enough you have to make the choice to act you have

have to make the choice to act you have

have to make the choice to act you have to make the choice to commit to the

to make the choice to commit to the

to make the choice to commit to the basics you have to make the choice to

basics you have to make the choice to

basics you have to make the choice to live present because the choices you

live present because the choices you

live present because the choices you make today will determine who you are

make today will determine who you are

make today will determine who you are tomorrow I want to thank you very much

tomorrow I want to thank you very much

tomorrow I want to thank you very much for your presence I want to thank you

for your presence I want to thank you

for your presence I want to thank you for your attention but my sand has run

for your attention but my sand has run

for your attention but my sand has run out thanks

out thanks

out thanks [Applause]

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