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Be Inspired by Emotional Impact | Don Allen | TEDxKazimierz


hi thank you my name is dawn and I’m

hi thank you my name is dawn and I’m gonna start off with a question asking

gonna start off with a question asking

gonna start off with a question asking you a question

you a question

you a question imagine if somebody asks you what the

imagine if somebody asks you what the

imagine if somebody asks you what the purpose of your life was big question

purpose of your life was big question

purpose of your life was big question right how would you answer how do you

right how would you answer how do you

right how would you answer how do you think you would answer it was a question

think you would answer it was a question

think you would answer it was a question that was asked to me in preparation for

that was asked to me in preparation for

that was asked to me in preparation for this talk so I had to have a think about

this talk so I had to have a think about

this talk so I had to have a think about it but I had a little bit of help

it but I had a little bit of help

it but I had a little bit of help because there’s a famous quote that I’ve

because there’s a famous quote that I’ve

because there’s a famous quote that I’ve always followed and known about for a

always followed and known about for a

always followed and known about for a while and it’s this the meaning of life

while and it’s this the meaning of life

while and it’s this the meaning of life is to find your gift the purpose of life

is to find your gift the purpose of life

is to find your gift the purpose of life is to give it away and that’s by Pablo

is to give it away and that’s by Pablo

is to give it away and that’s by Pablo Picasso the meaning of life is to find

Picasso the meaning of life is to find

Picasso the meaning of life is to find your gift and the purpose of life is to

your gift and the purpose of life is to

your gift and the purpose of life is to give it away let me tell you a little

give it away let me tell you a little

give it away let me tell you a little bit about me very quickly I started off

bit about me very quickly I started off

bit about me very quickly I started off I went to drama school for three years

I went to drama school for three years

I went to drama school for three years and I became an actor I worked

and I became an actor I worked

and I became an actor I worked professionally as an actor a producer

professionally as an actor a producer

professionally as an actor a producer and a director on theatre in TV and film

and a director on theatre in TV and film

and a director on theatre in TV and film in the UK and in the US and then I did

in the UK and in the US and then I did

in the UK and in the US and then I did some other businesses some were

some other businesses some were

some other businesses some were successful some failed that was fine and

successful some failed that was fine and

successful some failed that was fine and two and a half years ago I found myself

two and a half years ago I found myself

two and a half years ago I found myself here in Krakov

here in Krakov

here in Krakov I came for personal reasons as opposed

I came for personal reasons as opposed

I came for personal reasons as opposed to professional reasons so being here in

to professional reasons so being here in

to professional reasons so being here in Krakov I thought what can I do what am I

Krakov I thought what can I do what am I

Krakov I thought what can I do what am I going to do so I looked around and I

going to do so I looked around and I

going to do so I looked around and I wondered how I could fit in and what

wondered how I could fit in and what

wondered how I could fit in and what skills I could use what skills I had I

skills I could use what skills I had I

skills I could use what skills I had I could contribute to life here in Krakow

could contribute to life here in Krakow

could contribute to life here in Krakow and so I looked around and I came up

and so I looked around and I came up

and so I looked around and I came up with two options the first was theater I

with two options the first was theater I

with two options the first was theater I have a great passion for theater and

have a great passion for theater and

have a great passion for theater and I’ll speak about that a little bit later

I’ll speak about that a little bit later

I’ll speak about that a little bit later the second was workshops in fact it was

the second was workshops in fact it was

the second was workshops in fact it was working with young people I loved

working with young people I loved

working with young people I loved working with young people have a passion

working with young people have a passion

working with young people have a passion I had two passions theater and workshops

I had two passions theater and workshops

I had two passions theater and workshops and that’s what I decided to do the

and that’s what I decided to do the

and that’s what I decided to do the workshops

workshops

workshops let me explain very briefly about the

let me explain very briefly about the

let me explain very briefly about the world shops how I started 15 years ago

world shops how I started 15 years ago

world shops how I started 15 years ago in London my production company asked

in London my production company asked

in London my production company asked was we were asked to do a promotional

was we were asked to do a promotional

was we were asked to do a promotional film for a business that went into

film for a business that went into

film for a business that went into schools to 14 to 19 year old students

schools to 14 to 19 year old students

schools to 14 to 19 year old students delivering business and enterprise style

delivering business and enterprise style

delivering business and enterprise style workshops

workshops

workshops and so for my visa research I went into

and so for my visa research I went into

and so for my visa research I went into and I followed them and I was shocked I

and I followed them and I was shocked I

and I followed them and I was shocked I was truly shocked because they were

was truly shocked because they were

was truly shocked because they were awful they were dreadful I had I I saw

awful they were dreadful I had I I saw

awful they were dreadful I had I I saw the students these bright students

the students these bright students

the students these bright students thoroughly disengaged and they were

thoroughly disengaged and they were

thoroughly disengaged and they were being spoken to not with spoken to by a

being spoken to not with spoken to by a

being spoken to not with spoken to by a professional person from the banking or

professional person from the banking or

professional person from the banking or finance industry someone who knows about

finance industry someone who knows about

finance industry someone who knows about their business very well is a great

their business very well is a great

their business very well is a great professional person but they were not

professional person but they were not

professional person but they were not engaging with the students that were not

engaging with the students that were not

engaging with the students that were not bringing them into that real world and I

bringing them into that real world and I

bringing them into that real world and I thought you know what with my

thought you know what with my

thought you know what with my entrepreneur hat on I think I could do

entrepreneur hat on I think I could do

entrepreneur hat on I think I could do this better so that’s what I did and I

this better so that’s what I did and I

this better so that’s what I did and I created a couple of workshops and those

created a couple of workshops and those

created a couple of workshops and those workshops started going into schools now

workshops started going into schools now

workshops started going into schools now our workshops are very emotional driven

our workshops are very emotional driven

our workshops are very emotional driven we really get to the heart of the

we really get to the heart of the

we really get to the heart of the students and we really engage with the

students and we really engage with the

students and we really engage with the students we want to engage with them we

students we want to engage with them we

students we want to engage with them we want to motivate them and we really

want to motivate them and we really

want to motivate them and we really wanted to challenge them our workshops

wanted to challenge them our workshops

wanted to challenge them our workshops are a bit like if any of you know

are a bit like if any of you know

are a bit like if any of you know Dragons Den Meets The Apprentice if

Dragons Den Meets The Apprentice if

Dragons Den Meets The Apprentice if anyone’s aware of those two TV shows we

anyone’s aware of those two TV shows we

anyone’s aware of those two TV shows we kind of blend them together and the way

kind of blend them together and the way

kind of blend them together and the way we work is very simple one of us

we work is very simple one of us

we work is very simple one of us normally there’s five six seven of us we

normally there’s five six seven of us we

normally there’s five six seven of us we go into a school and one of us will work

go into a school and one of us will work

go into a school and one of us will work with a group of thirty students for the

with a group of thirty students for the

with a group of thirty students for the entire day from the beginning to the end

entire day from the beginning to the end

entire day from the beginning to the end giving them tasks and exercises now as

giving them tasks and exercises now as

giving them tasks and exercises now as we’re working through the day with them

we’re working through the day with them

we’re working through the day with them we do not touch on the real skills of

we do not touch on the real skills of

we do not touch on the real skills of business finance or laws or anything

business finance or laws or anything

business finance or laws or anything like that we are more interested in the

like that we are more interested in the

like that we are more interested in the soft skills the skills that get people

soft skills the skills that get people

soft skills the skills that get people noticed and recognized now I’m sure

noticed and recognized now I’m sure

noticed and recognized now I’m sure you’re all aware of what the soft skills

you’re all aware of what the soft skills

you’re all aware of what the soft skills are and some of them that we concentrate

are and some of them that we concentrate

are and some of them that we concentrate on are just listed here so it’s about

on are just listed here so it’s about

on are just listed here so it’s about team spirit it’s about communication

team spirit it’s about communication

team spirit it’s about communication it’s about empathy now I have no idea

it’s about empathy now I have no idea

it’s about empathy now I have no idea why they call them soft skills because

why they call them soft skills because

why they call them soft skills because they’re really really very hard skills

they’re really really very hard skills

they’re really really very hard skills you try teaching a bully empathy the

you try teaching a bully empathy the

you try teaching a bully empathy the his colleagues that’s a tough sell you

his colleagues that’s a tough sell you

his colleagues that’s a tough sell you try telling a person who’s shy to stand

try telling a person who’s shy to stand

try telling a person who’s shy to stand up and communicate with a group of

up and communicate with a group of

up and communicate with a group of people that’s really tough so if you’ll

people that’s really tough so if you’ll

people that’s really tough so if you’ll go along with me now I think we should

go along with me now I think we should

go along with me now I think we should rename them I think we should rename

rename them I think we should rename

rename them I think we should rename them really difficult and hard skills

them really difficult and hard skills

them really difficult and hard skills and not everybody can get ok we’ll sit

and not everybody can get ok we’ll sit

and not everybody can get ok we’ll sit there soft skills in that’s fine so we

there soft skills in that’s fine so we

there soft skills in that’s fine so we go into the schools and it’s the soft

go into the schools and it’s the soft

go into the schools and it’s the soft skills that we focus on now we also want

skills that we focus on now we also want

skills that we focus on now we also want the students to start thinking

the students to start thinking

the students to start thinking differently so we tell them this is no

differently so we tell them this is no

differently so we tell them this is no longer a classroom that this is their

longer a classroom that this is their

longer a classroom that this is their office space and what we want to do is

office space and what we want to do is

office space and what we want to do is to challenge the students now I’ve been

to challenge the students now I’ve been

to challenge the students now I’ve been doing these workshops as I said for more

doing these workshops as I said for more

doing these workshops as I said for more than 15 years and how our businesses

than 15 years and how our businesses

than 15 years and how our businesses worked with more than 30,000 students in

worked with more than 30,000 students in

worked with more than 30,000 students in the UK and now here in Poland and I can

the UK and now here in Poland and I can

the UK and now here in Poland and I can tell you is an absolute fact there is

tell you is an absolute fact there is

tell you is an absolute fact there is differences between students age 14 to

differences between students age 14 to

differences between students age 14 to 19 in different countries there

19 in different countries there

19 in different countries there absolutely is but I can also tell you

absolutely is but I can also tell you

absolutely is but I can also tell you there’s two things that unite all of

there’s two things that unite all of

there’s two things that unite all of them whether they like it and whether

them whether they like it and whether

them whether they like it and whether they know it or not I know this as a

they know it or not I know this as a

they know it or not I know this as a fact the first thing that unites all of

fact the first thing that unites all of

fact the first thing that unites all of them is hard work students want to work

them is hard work students want to work

them is hard work students want to work hard students want to learn this is a

hard students want to learn this is a

hard students want to learn this is a picture of a group of students at the

picture of a group of students at the

picture of a group of students at the end of a very very long day with us

end of a very very long day with us

end of a very very long day with us they’ve had it tough they’ve had it

they’ve had it tough they’ve had it

they’ve had it tough they’ve had it difficult but they’re smiling my god the

difficult but they’re smiling my god the

difficult but they’re smiling my god the second fact I know as an absolute truth

students want discipline they want to

students want discipline they want to know what the rules are but more

know what the rules are but more

know what the rules are but more importantly imp than that they need to

importantly imp than that they need to

importantly imp than that they need to know what happens if they break their

know what happens if they break their

know what happens if they break their those rules they want to know what the

those rules they want to know what the

those rules they want to know what the consequences are is no good just saying

consequences are is no good just saying

consequences are is no good just saying keep off the grass well why should I

keep off the grass well why should I

keep off the grass well why should I keep off the grass because it won’t grow

keep off the grass because it won’t grow

keep off the grass because it won’t grow and make your shoes muddy whatever they

and make your shoes muddy whatever they

and make your shoes muddy whatever they need to know what the consequences are

need to know what the consequences are

need to know what the consequences are so we go into the schools with our soft

so we go into the schools with our soft

so we go into the schools with our soft skills

skills

skills we do give them discipline and we do

we do give them discipline and we do

we do give them discipline and we do give them the urge to want to learn now

give them the urge to want to learn now

give them the urge to want to learn now we also want to change their behavior

we also want to change their behavior

we also want to change their behavior change their behavior patterns so we

change their behavior patterns so we

change their behavior patterns so we need to challenge them from the moment

need to challenge them from the moment

need to challenge them from the moment we get into the room with the students

we get into the room with the students

we get into the room with the students cuz it’s a really very scary place to be

cuz it’s a really very scary place to be

cuz it’s a really very scary place to be at the beginning of the day

at the beginning of the day

at the beginning of the day and we challenge them very quickly we

and we challenge them very quickly we

and we challenge them very quickly we want them to take responsibility for

want them to take responsibility for

want them to take responsibility for example one student asked to me as a

example one student asked to me as a

example one student asked to me as a what was in the class and they were

what was in the class and they were

what was in the class and they were filling out the questionnaires he put

filling out the questionnaires he put

filling out the questionnaires he put his hand up and he said sir

his hand up and he said sir

his hand up and he said sir do you have a pen I’m very clear with my

do you have a pen I’m very clear with my

do you have a pen I’m very clear with my answers and I said to him yes I knew

answers and I said to him yes I knew

answers and I said to him yes I knew where this was going

where this was going

where this was going so he put his hand up again sir can I

so he put his hand up again sir can I

so he put his hand up again sir can I borrow the pen there’s a pattern

borrow the pen there’s a pattern

borrow the pen there’s a pattern emerging now he’s a student he sees me

emerging now he’s a student he sees me

emerging now he’s a student he sees me as a teacher I’m not a teacher teachers

as a teacher I’m not a teacher teachers

as a teacher I’m not a teacher teachers jump all over that problem they see a

jump all over that problem they see a

jump all over that problem they see a student without a pen they’re gonna help

student without a pen they’re gonna help

student without a pen they’re gonna help that student find a pen do what they

that student find a pen do what they

that student find a pen do what they need to do I’m there to teach him about

need to do I’m there to teach him about

need to do I’m there to teach him about real-world real-life responsibilities so

real-world real-life responsibilities so

real-world real-life responsibilities so I just gave a one-word answer no

I just gave a one-word answer no

I just gave a one-word answer no I have a very nice pet and I don’t lend

I have a very nice pet and I don’t lend

I have a very nice pet and I don’t lend it to students know automatically his

it to students know automatically his

it to students know automatically his thinking was starting to change now and

thinking was starting to change now and

thinking was starting to change now and as I said it’s a very scary place to be

as I said it’s a very scary place to be

as I said it’s a very scary place to be in a classroom of 14 to 19 year olds

in a classroom of 14 to 19 year olds

in a classroom of 14 to 19 year olds whatever age range because they can

whatever age range because they can

whatever age range because they can smell blood I’m sure you can remember at

smell blood I’m sure you can remember at

smell blood I’m sure you can remember at school I certainly can’t remember when

school I certainly can’t remember when

school I certainly can’t remember when your teacher wasn’t there and the supply

your teacher wasn’t there and the supply

your teacher wasn’t there and the supply teacher would walk in and it’s like yeah

teacher would walk in and it’s like yeah

teacher would walk in and it’s like yeah Easy Street they think we’re like a

Easy Street they think we’re like a

Easy Street they think we’re like a supply teacher to start up so we have to

supply teacher to start up so we have to

supply teacher to start up so we have to get their attention and we have to be

get their attention and we have to be

get their attention and we have to be tough with them very very quickly so one

tough with them very very quickly so one

tough with them very very quickly so one thing I want to do is get them out of

thing I want to do is get them out of

thing I want to do is get them out of their comfort zone as you can see

their comfort zone as you can see

their comfort zone as you can see they’re sitting around desks that’s not

they’re sitting around desks that’s not

they’re sitting around desks that’s not how we operate at the beginning they

how we operate at the beginning they

how we operate at the beginning they then know me behind their desk as usual

then know me behind their desk as usual

then know me behind their desk as usual so we give them an instruction stand up

so we give them an instruction stand up

so we give them an instruction stand up stand at the front of the room in a line

stand at the front of the room in a line

stand at the front of the room in a line quickly and quietly very clearly quickly

quickly and quietly very clearly quickly

quickly and quietly very clearly quickly and quietly we’re taking them out of

and quietly we’re taking them out of

and quietly we’re taking them out of their comfort zone behind the desks

their comfort zone behind the desks

their comfort zone behind the desks where they used to and we’re putting

where they used to and we’re putting

where they used to and we’re putting toward them to a place where they’re not

toward them to a place where they’re not

toward them to a place where they’re not used to being so one workshop it was a

used to being so one workshop it was a

used to being so one workshop it was a girls school really tough girls school

girls school really tough girls school

girls school really tough girls school in Islington which is North London the

in Islington which is North London the

in Islington which is North London the students stood at the front and one of

students stood at the front and one of

students stood at the front and one of the girls who had seen earlier because

the girls who had seen earlier because

the girls who had seen earlier because you have to look at everyone else

you have to look at everyone else

you have to look at everyone else they’re coming in and doing their stuff

they’re coming in and doing their stuff

they’re coming in and doing their stuff because you have to see what’s going on

because you have to see what’s going on

because you have to see what’s going on she was talkative let’s say she stood at

she was talkative let’s say she stood at

she was talkative let’s say she stood at the end of the line and she went we’ve

the end of the line and she went we’ve

the end of the line and she went we’ve all done that we’ve all side no problem

all done that we’ve all side no problem

all done that we’ve all side no problem so all I did I pointed to the girl and I

so all I did I pointed to the girl and I

so all I did I pointed to the girl and I said please leave the room what you’re

said please leave the room what you’re

said please leave the room what you’re kicking me out of the room because of

kicking me out of the room because of

kicking me out of the room because of the way I’m breathing yes

the way I’m breathing yes

the way I’m breathing yes I don’t like the way you breathe so she

I don’t like the way you breathe so she

I don’t like the way you breathe so she left the room think of what the other

left the room think of what the other

left the room think of what the other the other student that thing what it’s

the other student that thing what it’s

the other student that thing what it’s like we breathe oh my god it was fine

like we breathe oh my god it was fine

like we breathe oh my god it was fine though I knew the way our workshops are

though I knew the way our workshops are

though I knew the way our workshops are geared I spoke to them for a few more

geared I spoke to them for a few more

geared I spoke to them for a few more minutes and I stepped outside so I knew

minutes and I stepped outside so I knew

minutes and I stepped outside so I knew that I could speak to her and that’s

that I could speak to her and that’s

that I could speak to her and that’s very important because that’s where the

very important because that’s where the

very important because that’s where the magic happens I think on one-to-one or

magic happens I think on one-to-one or

magic happens I think on one-to-one or working with a small group of people for

working with a small group of people for

working with a small group of people for me that’s where their magic I get to be

me that’s where their magic I get to be

me that’s where their magic I get to be emotionally engaged with the students so

emotionally engaged with the students so

emotionally engaged with the students so I asked her I needed to get to know her

I asked her I needed to get to know her

I asked her I needed to get to know her quickly I asked her what you want to do

quickly I asked her what you want to do

quickly I asked her what you want to do in life what job do you want to do and

in life what job do you want to do and

in life what job do you want to do and she said she wanted to be a pilot which

she said she wanted to be a pilot which

she said she wanted to be a pilot which was great she could have said anything

was great she could have said anything

was great she could have said anything and I would have used that against her

and I would have used that against her

and I would have used that against her sorry but she said a pilot for me that

sorry but she said a pilot for me that

sorry but she said a pilot for me that was great as well so I said a pilot

was great as well so I said a pilot

was great as well so I said a pilot wouldn’t do that a pilot needs to be

wouldn’t do that a pilot needs to be

wouldn’t do that a pilot needs to be professional at all times they need to

professional at all times they need to

professional at all times they need to be responsible they need to be ready for

be responsible they need to be ready for

be responsible they need to be ready for emergencies you are not acting like a

emergencies you are not acting like a

emergencies you are not acting like a pilot you are gonna go back in that room

pilot you are gonna go back in that room

pilot you are gonna go back in that room Pam for the rest of the day I am gonna

Pam for the rest of the day I am gonna

Pam for the rest of the day I am gonna treat you as if you are a pilot I am

treat you as if you are a pilot I am

treat you as if you are a pilot I am gonna treat you like a professional

gonna treat you like a professional

gonna treat you like a professional person you’re going to be responsible at

person you’re going to be responsible at

person you’re going to be responsible at all times I also don’t like you very

all times I also don’t like you very

all times I also don’t like you very much now because you’ve given me a hard

much now because you’ve given me a hard

much now because you’ve given me a hard time so I’m gonna pick on you even more

time so I’m gonna pick on you even more

time so I’m gonna pick on you even more in that room so I’m going to add stress

in that room so I’m going to add stress

in that room so I’m going to add stress to you as well do you understand that

to you as well do you understand that

to you as well do you understand that yes

so she went back into the room and she

so she went back into the room and she was just absolutely beautiful she took

was just absolutely beautiful she took

was just absolutely beautiful she took control she did everything she took

control she did everything she took

control she did everything she took control of the groups that she was with

control of the groups that she was with

control of the groups that she was with she led it through beautifully now she

she led it through beautifully now she

she led it through beautifully now she was a troublemaker the truck the

was a troublemaker the truck the

was a troublemaker the truck the teachers had labeled her a troublemaker

teachers had labeled her a troublemaker

teachers had labeled her a troublemaker talkative argumentative

talkative argumentative

talkative argumentative she lived up to that it’s her fault as

she lived up to that it’s her fault as

she lived up to that it’s her fault as well she lived up to that she put that

well she lived up to that she put that

well she lived up to that she put that blanket got label around her and she

blanket got label around her and she

blanket got label around her and she said yes that’s who I am all I did is

said yes that’s who I am all I did is

said yes that’s who I am all I did is when I spoke to her outside I gave her a

when I spoke to her outside I gave her a

when I spoke to her outside I gave her a new label I told her she was going to be

new label I told her she was going to be

new label I told her she was going to be professional she was going to be

professional she was going to be

professional she was going to be responsible and she lived up to it so

responsible and she lived up to it so

responsible and she lived up to it so easily so that was great having that

easily so that was great having that

easily so that was great having that kind of influence that’s why I love

kind of influence that’s why I love

kind of influence that’s why I love doing our workshops that’s why I love

doing our workshops that’s why I love

doing our workshops that’s why I love getting emotionally involved but it also

getting emotionally involved but it also

getting emotionally involved but it also enables the students to be one way it

enables the students to be one way it

enables the students to be one way it enables the teachers as well to see the

enables the teachers as well to see the

enables the teachers as well to see the students another way again doing the

students another way again doing the

students another way again doing the workshop we split them into groups of

workshop we split them into groups of

workshop we split them into groups of six those six become a company they all

six those six become a company they all

six those six become a company they all have a job label in a school working

have a job label in a school working

have a job label in a school working with the five companies the teacher saw

with the five companies the teacher saw

with the five companies the teacher saw how they were working the teacher knows

how they were working the teacher knows

how they were working the teacher knows the students very well and mid-morning

the students very well and mid-morning

the students very well and mid-morning break they’ve got the five companies

break they’ve got the five companies

break they’ve got the five companies mid-morning break the teacher comes to

mid-morning break the teacher comes to

mid-morning break the teacher comes to me and she said to me I know which group

me and she said to me I know which group

me and she said to me I know which group is going to win Wow I thought great I

is going to win Wow I thought great I

is going to win Wow I thought great I asked her to write it down she wrote it

asked her to write it down she wrote it

asked her to write it down she wrote it down piece of paper I put it in my

down piece of paper I put it in my

down piece of paper I put it in my pocket forgot about it we carried on

pocket forgot about it we carried on

pocket forgot about it we carried on working at the end of the day the

working at the end of the day the

working at the end of the day the teacher came back in saw the students

teacher came back in saw the students

teacher came back in saw the students doing their presentation she was amazed

doing their presentation she was amazed

doing their presentation she was amazed at what they did which was great the

at what they did which was great the

at what they did which was great the students then left and the teacher came

students then left and the teacher came

students then left and the teacher came to me so who won so we’ve got out a

to me so who won so we’ve got out a

to me so who won so we’ve got out a piece of paper and the five companies

piece of paper and the five companies

piece of paper and the five companies that she had listed were in the correct

that she had listed were in the correct

that she had listed were in the correct order of what she had listed but in

order of what she had listed but in

order of what she had listed but in Reverse so the students that she knew

Reverse so the students that she knew

Reverse so the students that she knew were talkative argumentative what

were talkative argumentative what

were talkative argumentative what disruptive whatever those were the ones

disruptive whatever those were the ones

disruptive whatever those were the ones that rose to the top that day and that

that rose to the top that day and that

that rose to the top that day and that were brilliant that’s why I love doing

were brilliant that’s why I love doing

were brilliant that’s why I love doing these workshops because it can change

these workshops because it can change

these workshops because it can change everyone’s thinking those in such an

everyone’s thinking those in such an

everyone’s thinking those in such an emotional value of being involved with

emotional value of being involved with

emotional value of being involved with the students to do this I did a workshop

the students to do this I did a workshop

the students to do this I did a workshop a few weeks ago here in

a few weeks ago here in

a few weeks ago here in Poland here in Krakov even at school

Poland here in Krakov even at school

Poland here in Krakov even at school number two and again they were just

number two and again they were just

number two and again they were just brilliant I received an email after the

brilliant I received an email after the

brilliant I received an email after the workshop from one of the students and it

workshop from one of the students and it

workshop from one of the students and it was from a chap called Camille I loved

was from a chap called Camille I loved

was from a chap called Camille I loved the heading can you see the heading

the heading can you see the heading

the heading can you see the heading there Camille the ambitious guy from the

there Camille the ambitious guy from the

there Camille the ambitious guy from the workshop it’s true he is an ambitious

workshop it’s true he is an ambitious

workshop it’s true he is an ambitious guy he was brilliant but it’s the final

guy he was brilliant but it’s the final

guy he was brilliant but it’s the final line I’d like you to say and that’s

line I’d like you to say and that’s

line I’d like you to say and that’s what’s important to me that might be

what’s important to me that might be

what’s important to me that might be funny but whenever I meet you

funny but whenever I meet you

funny but whenever I meet you yeah we met only two times haha I go

yeah we met only two times haha I go

yeah we met only two times haha I go back to home with a huge dose of

back to home with a huge dose of

back to home with a huge dose of motivation and that’s what our workshops

motivation and that’s what our workshops

motivation and that’s what our workshops can do we emotionally engage with the

can do we emotionally engage with the

can do we emotionally engage with the students and we can get them to be

students and we can get them to be

students and we can get them to be someone else they could want to be the

someone else they could want to be the

someone else they could want to be the person they really want to be enough so

person they really want to be enough so

person they really want to be enough so much pleasure let me talk very quickly

much pleasure let me talk very quickly

much pleasure let me talk very quickly about the theater company so two and a

about the theater company so two and a

about the theater company so two and a half years ago I arrived about a year

half years ago I arrived about a year

half years ago I arrived about a year and a half I wanted to go and see some

and a half I wanted to go and see some

and a half I wanted to go and see some theater there was no theater for me to

theater there was no theater for me to

theater there was no theater for me to go and see because I only speak English

go and see because I only speak English

go and see because I only speak English so I thought hey let’s start a theater

so I thought hey let’s start a theater

so I thought hey let’s start a theater company because that’s what people do

company because that’s what people do

company because that’s what people do right so I started a theater company

right so I started a theater company

right so I started a theater company called the Krakoff Kings players and we

called the Krakoff Kings players and we

called the Krakoff Kings players and we perform only in English and theatre has

perform only in English and theatre has

perform only in English and theatre has the same connection for me as workshops

the same connection for me as workshops

the same connection for me as workshops do we get to engage with our audience

do we get to engage with our audience

do we get to engage with our audience very much the first play we did for

very much the first play we did for

very much the first play we did for example it’s called a data to remember

example it’s called a data to remember

example it’s called a data to remember it’s very challenging plays a drama and

it’s very challenging plays a drama and

it’s very challenging plays a drama and it deals with issues of loss but more

it deals with issues of loss but more

it deals with issues of loss but more importantly deals with issues of suicide

importantly deals with issues of suicide

importantly deals with issues of suicide and after the play we were in the bar

and after the play we were in the bar

and after the play we were in the bar and some people had seen the play they

and some people had seen the play they

and some people had seen the play they came into the bar a wall mingling and I

came into the bar a wall mingling and I

came into the bar a wall mingling and I was introduced to two guys and one of

was introduced to two guys and one of

was introduced to two guys and one of them said that he had booked the play

them said that he had booked the play

them said that he had booked the play without realizing what the play was

without realizing what the play was

without realizing what the play was about so when it started and very

about so when it started and very

about so when it started and very quickly become became apparent it was

quickly become became apparent it was

quickly become became apparent it was about suicide

because the friend he had bought with

because the friend he had bought with him his brother had committed suicide

him his brother had committed suicide

him his brother had committed suicide two years earlier so it was very

two years earlier so it was very

two years earlier so it was very uncomfortable for him but the friend

uncomfortable for him but the friend

uncomfortable for him but the friend said how wonderful it had been what a

said how wonderful it had been what a

said how wonderful it had been what a great experience because he’d gone

great experience because he’d gone

great experience because he’d gone through this terrible informatics time

through this terrible informatics time

through this terrible informatics time and he’d been able to sit in the dark

and he’d been able to sit in the dark

and he’d been able to sit in the dark and watch these actors portray emotions

and watch these actors portray emotions

and watch these actors portray emotions that he probably felt himself

that he probably felt himself

that he probably felt himself he couldn’t always show himself and

he couldn’t always show himself and

he couldn’t always show himself and people didn’t understand so it really

people didn’t understand so it really

people didn’t understand so it really resonated with him and thankfully it was

resonated with him and thankfully it was

resonated with him and thankfully it was a very positive

a very positive

a very positive maybe cathartic experience for him

maybe cathartic experience for him

maybe cathartic experience for him that’s why I love theater because it can

that’s why I love theater because it can

that’s why I love theater because it can engage on so many levels

engage on so many levels

engage on so many levels we also do a play called tram 2311 we’re

we also do a play called tram 2311 we’re

we also do a play called tram 2311 we’re performing actually this weekend and

performing actually this weekend and

performing actually this weekend and that’s a great play people die they get

that’s a great play people die they get

that’s a great play people die they get transported on a tram at 2311 you can’t

transported on a tram at 2311 you can’t

transported on a tram at 2311 you can’t get the picture but again it resonates

get the picture but again it resonates

get the picture but again it resonates with the audience because it gives the

with the audience because it gives the

with the audience because it gives the audience the ability to see what happens

audience the ability to see what happens

audience the ability to see what happens when they die and it gives the audience

when they die and it gives the audience

when they die and it gives the audience the ability right now to make those

the ability right now to make those

the ability right now to make those changes to do things like tell their

changes to do things like tell their

changes to do things like tell their partner I loved you to engage with

partner I loved you to engage with

partner I loved you to engage with friends they have an engaged with for a

friends they have an engaged with for a

friends they have an engaged with for a while that’s what happens when they see

while that’s what happens when they see

while that’s what happens when they see this plane is a great play and I love

this plane is a great play and I love

this plane is a great play and I love theater very much for these reasons that

theater very much for these reasons that

theater very much for these reasons that again that can connect on an emotional

again that can connect on an emotional

again that can connect on an emotional level it can have an emotional impact on

level it can have an emotional impact on

level it can have an emotional impact on what’s going on but getting being

what’s going on but getting being

what’s going on but getting being inspired to make an emotional thing

inspired to make an emotional thing

inspired to make an emotional thing impact isn’t easy because you have

impact isn’t easy because you have

impact isn’t easy because you have choices maybe you have hurdles in front

choices maybe you have hurdles in front

choices maybe you have hurdles in front of you and so I’d like to share with you

of you and so I’d like to share with you

of you and so I’d like to share with you a trick that I use to help me overcome

a trick that I use to help me overcome

a trick that I use to help me overcome some choices it’s a very simple trick

some choices it’s a very simple trick

some choices it’s a very simple trick that guy there it’s a deathbed and

that guy there it’s a deathbed and

that guy there it’s a deathbed and that’s me

that’s me

that’s me on my deathbed surrounded by friends

on my deathbed surrounded by friends

on my deathbed surrounded by friends thank you and on my deathbed this is

thank you and on my deathbed this is

thank you and on my deathbed this is what I do I fast forward my life when I

what I do I fast forward my life when I

what I do I fast forward my life when I have a choice to make I fast forward my

have a choice to make I fast forward my

have a choice to make I fast forward my life to my deathbed and when I’m on my

life to my deathbed and when I’m on my

life to my deathbed and when I’m on my deathbed I’m thinking regret would I

deathbed I’m thinking regret would I

deathbed I’m thinking regret would I have regretted doing that or not doing

have regretted doing that or not doing

have regretted doing that or not doing that and that helps me understand

that and that helps me understand

that and that helps me understand whether I should be doing something or

whether I should be doing something or

whether I should be doing something or whether I should not be doing something

whether I should not be doing something

whether I should not be doing something it helps me look back in time if you

it helps me look back in time if you

it helps me look back in time if you want and know do it don’t do it because

want and know do it don’t do it because

want and know do it don’t do it because regret can be terrible

regret can be terrible

regret can be terrible and the final message I want to leave to

and the final message I want to leave to

and the final message I want to leave to you lovely people here at TEDx Kazimierz

you lovely people here at TEDx Kazimierz

you lovely people here at TEDx Kazimierz is this whatever inspires you whatever

is this whatever inspires you whatever

is this whatever inspires you whatever you feel you want to do do it and think

you feel you want to do do it and think

you feel you want to do do it and think about the emotional impact not only on

about the emotional impact not only on

about the emotional impact not only on other people but think about the

other people but think about the

other people but think about the emotional impact on you how

emotional impact on you how

emotional impact on you how it makes you feel because feelings are

it makes you feel because feelings are

it makes you feel because feelings are real feelings are tangible they’re not

real feelings are tangible they’re not

real feelings are tangible they’re not just numb life isn’t about numbers and

just numb life isn’t about numbers and

just numb life isn’t about numbers and assets and material world it’s about

assets and material world it’s about

assets and material world it’s about your feelings right here right now so to

your feelings right here right now so to

your feelings right here right now so to go back to mr. Picasso please when you

go back to mr. Picasso please when you

go back to mr. Picasso please when you find your gift do the best thing you can

find your gift do the best thing you can

find your gift do the best thing you can absolutely do and give that gift away

absolutely do and give that gift away

absolutely do and give that gift away thank you very much

thank you very much

thank you very much [Applause]

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