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“Autenticidad” | María Angélica Corchuelo | TEDxMedellinMujeres


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at 25 years old I was lying down in

the bed resting relaxed with the

worries that you can have to sada

and suddenly my dad came in my room and

daughter told me

starting today take the reins of the

I did what I did, I felt that

weight of life fell on me but

I understood that at that moment it was my

responsibility because he had been

found a parkinson which did not

he left to continue leading the company

so I got the courage

thinking that 1,300 families in that

then they depended on the decisions that

I will take and in that moment I thought about

fit into an executive style that

everyone expected

then I put on heels that I never

I put on I put on elegant dresses and

I started to make up a lot so that

I could see my age and to see me more

young and feel to see me more with more

years and earn my trust follows the

clients but in that process I gave myself

mind that just as I was losing

my essence

the company was also losing its

essence and is trying to fit into a

stubborn company rilla that nothing had

what to do with my grandfather’s dream had

when I believe

so I decided this can not be like that

we have to go back to essence to the

essence with which he founded that beautiful

company to the essence of that closeness

with people to the essence that for him

the collaborators were not collaborators

but family and in that process of

discover the essence of the company

I found myself discovering my own

science and go back to that moment where

was a girl

then I had no worries where

I did not have limiting beliefs where I did not

had

to any kind of life paradigm and

where it was just me and I realized

that in order to recover that essence that

I had lost I needed to work on my

authenticity but that its authenticity

the dictionary then defines it as something

true and I realized that in that

then I was making true not

is being faithful to my principles at

my comfort what I liked to whom

I was myself so I started to walk

a way to discover that angie

authentic that was inside of me and

after looking back and all the

path that followed I realized that the

three steps that took me to his

authenticity was the coherence the car

knowledge and acceptance of my

defects and my qualities and above all

self-love and in that coherence

The first thing I did is good, I have to

be consistent between what I feel

between what I think between what I say and

in that way the theme did not fit

of how I was dressing for

reflect something that was not before others

so the first thing I did was take myself

the Saxons and I started to walk in baletas

in tennis to feel comfortable and in fact

together with my creative team the

company

we designed a day of tennis nothing more in

where we could all go tennis and

I got my dad that all life

cachaco bogotano so he dresses

impeccable all the time

that day will also use tennis even the

the administrative and financial director

also it was always super

you need that day you also put those

phoenix and I began to discover that this was

I relax engine in shirt and that

It was my essence and it was very beautiful because

from that experience in the company

people also began to transform

in the case of a friend of the company

that is always as much as they are always

heels because he felt really bad

until then she felt that all the

world I saw it very short and the day that

we put the cenis realized that

she also felt comfortable and that people

I accepted it as it was and today I still

she likes Saxons because she is

A very elegant girl putting on heels

but he is already able to put on tennis and

feel comfortable with your body and feel

comfortable with herself

the next step he said the

Self-knowledge was knowing me

internally

I started going there was aa how much therapy

before going to reik and the psychologist do

inner child workshops to return to

know me to discover myself and I realized

that like all are already many

defects but it’s not about looking at

defects but how he potentized

back then studying my

personality I realized that I am a

person that I do not like to confront the

others because for me everything is peace

tranquility and harmony and when

confronted someone I feel I’m

leaving that comfort zone but

to become a leader

unquestionably from time to time there

what to confront things

then I started to learn how to do

that from my personality

from love as it fed back the

others and return it every day plus one

strength

I also discovered good if I did not

discovered and I knew that since

very much I am very lazy

then they and the people who

put a homework and I go super lake

judicious and then they say me ready but

check what I did as laziness

Olvera reading is or not and I also gave

mind that as well as I have effects there

than knowing how to surround yourself with a team that

have qualities that you do not have

Then I was filled and surrounded by people

that has all those things about the war

of which I lack because for that

are the teams and for that is those

people who are around you but

he the most serious all I think I was the

deserving conflict

I felt that I did not deserve things

I did not like to receive and I already danced

but when someone invited me if it was

a soda I said no no, well, like,

well and I invite you and I did not feel

comfortable receiving and one day I got a

message from a friend and she told me you do not

you’ve noticed that you get many

blessings because you spread those

blessings on your people in your fan in your

collaborators that for me are my family

and then there I realized that yes

It was true that everything that comes to me

somehow I take it to the company

and if from that day everything was going

to say yes I have been invited to

a soda ready let’s go let’s go and we

we drink a soda and you invite and

I started receiving because that way

he also delivered towards me guys towards me

people and that led me to acceptance

Accept all defects because they are

plus all the defects that I have already

turn them into a fortress and take them out

profit and in this acceptance I also

found because all those subjects

we also work in the company

he has also found that my boys have

started to be discovered then I have

also another one of my friends from the company

which is very very sensitive a person

supremely sensitive and she thought that

sensitivity was synonymous with

Weakness that was weak

that people were going to see how weak

like he can not the whole thing and

discovering himself he realized that that

sensitivity was his super power that

when you get sensitive I was able to

connect with the other in a way

empathic and help him because of his

profession she psychologist every time she

connect with others can help them

get ahead

then he realized that it will be his greatest

power and that’s what this idea of

accept what we have and is that many

times our biggest flaw in our

greater power and that is what leads us to

self love

I was a person that I think a

many pass us by and invited them to

analyze each time you look at the

feijóo that we say then that I

Look in the mirror and say how the

pp has commented of fat look at this mud

look at such a thing and I realized that not that

we are all perfect just as we are and

that this body succeed as well as I

They gave me to accomplish things

achieved today and that’s why I’m like that

something I have to learn from each decade

part of my body and accept it call it

for the perfection that is and for the

miracle that is because it is that the miracle

to stop breathing from using the

muscles is spectacular

then I understood that the most important

is to love ourselves sometimes

we say is that I love my children I love

my husband I love my friends but like

you can talk about love if you do not start with

the most important person that you are and

I invite you to look for that love

own and is what leads us to

transmit to the world when we are

authentic and we connect with our

true essence we are ready to

transmit to the world a message leaders

powerful as Joan of Arc that does not

it mattered to dress in an armor in a

era where women did not have will be

rejected almost of these charges does not

it mattered to put on an armor led

army lead everything a whole campaign

to be able to liberate france

we have a cold halo that from his

authenticity always showed us that

magic that transmitted to us through the

art

we have a lady di who decided to break

with the stereotype of princess de

all times and decided to be authentic

and began to serve others

to this day I am also in

the company we have built your model

of happiness because I am a convinced

that you can be happy in the

job

today my task is to transmit to the

leaders of all the companies that do

can achieve happiness at work

and that if it has turned out to have a team

happy and that invitation

for all that are authentic and are

yourselves

Thank you

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