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At-Risk or At-Hope? How We Label Youth Matters | Amy Donofrio | TEDxJacksonville


today my students and I will start by

today my students and I will start by sharing our class data we invite the

sharing our class data we invite the

sharing our class data we invite the audience to participate as well please

audience to participate as well please

audience to participate as well please raise your hand if you’ve ever been

raise your hand if you’ve ever been

raise your hand if you’ve ever been detained and questioned by police if

detained and questioned by police if

detained and questioned by police if you’ve been detained in questioned by

you’ve been detained in questioned by

you’ve been detained in questioned by police three or more times if you’ve had

police three or more times if you’ve had

police three or more times if you’ve had an immediate family member incarcerated

an immediate family member incarcerated

an immediate family member incarcerated for a significant period of time if

for a significant period of time if

for a significant period of time if you’ve been shot at if you’ve seen

you’ve been shot at if you’ve seen

you’ve been shot at if you’ve seen someone get shot if you’ve had a close

someone get shot if you’ve had a close

someone get shot if you’ve had a close loved one murdered this is my tenth year

loved one murdered this is my tenth year

loved one murdered this is my tenth year of teaching and so called at-risk youth

of teaching and so called at-risk youth

of teaching and so called at-risk youth and I have always gravitated towards

and I have always gravitated towards

and I have always gravitated towards each other but six years of watching

each other but six years of watching

each other but six years of watching countless youth move steadily on a

countless youth move steadily on a

countless youth move steadily on a conveyor belt to destruction led me to a

conveyor belt to destruction led me to a

conveyor belt to destruction led me to a devastating realization that I despite

devastating realization that I despite

devastating realization that I despite my best efforts had made almost zero

my best efforts had made almost zero

my best efforts had made almost zero difference in the lives of students I

difference in the lives of students I

difference in the lives of students I most wanted to reach zero forget turning

most wanted to reach zero forget turning

most wanted to reach zero forget turning off the conveyor belt I couldn’t think

off the conveyor belt I couldn’t think

off the conveyor belt I couldn’t think of a single instance where I had even

of a single instance where I had even

of a single instance where I had even slowed it down and when I started this

slowed it down and when I started this

slowed it down and when I started this survey I realized why I had been

survey I realized why I had been

survey I realized why I had been applying my solutions to their

applying my solutions to their

applying my solutions to their situations without even asking them

situations without even asking them

situations without even asking them their situations this realization came

their situations this realization came

their situations this realization came through my partnership with these young

through my partnership with these young

through my partnership with these young men I met in my leadership class at

men I met in my leadership class at

men I met in my leadership class at robert e lee high school and an effort

robert e lee high school and an effort

robert e lee high school and an effort we call the evac movement in just over

we call the evac movement in just over

we call the evac movement in just over one year and with no formal curriculum

one year and with no formal curriculum

one year and with no formal curriculum training or funding these young men went

training or funding these young men went

training or funding these young men went from being labeled as at-risk to being

from being labeled as at-risk to being

from being labeled as at-risk to being recognized as at Hope youth leaders

recognized as at Hope youth leaders

recognized as at Hope youth leaders whose accomplishments include speaking

whose accomplishments include speaking

whose accomplishments include speaking at the White House meeting President

at the White House meeting President

at the White House meeting President Obama making the front page of the New

Obama making the front page of the New

Obama making the front page of the New York Times and winning first prize and a

York Times and winning first prize and a

York Times and winning first prize and a contest sponsored by Harvard

contest sponsored by Harvard

contest sponsored by Harvard [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] that’s how I feel too despite enormous

that’s how I feel too despite enormous

that’s how I feel too despite enormous risk factors these young men stand here

risk factors these young men stand here

risk factors these young men stand here today with hope how did they get here

today with hope how did they get here

today with hope how did they get here and how do we empower other youth to get

and how do we empower other youth to get

and how do we empower other youth to get here too we start with their story and

here too we start with their story and

here too we start with their story and here it is our story starts with Plato’s

here it is our story starts with Plato’s

here it is our story starts with Plato’s allegory of the cave a philosophy piece

allegory of the cave a philosophy piece

allegory of the cave a philosophy piece written 2500 years ago about prisoners

written 2500 years ago about prisoners

written 2500 years ago about prisoners who’ve been chained in a cave since

who’ve been chained in a cave since

who’ve been chained in a cave since birth they are unaware of their chains

birth they are unaware of their chains

birth they are unaware of their chains over that there even in a cave until one

over that there even in a cave until one

over that there even in a cave until one day a liberator descends the steps

day a liberator descends the steps

day a liberator descends the steps unbinds their chains and leads them to

unbinds their chains and leads them to

unbinds their chains and leads them to the light in 2013 the best teacher I

the light in 2013 the best teacher I

the light in 2013 the best teacher I know mr. Reginald vineyard introduced me

know mr. Reginald vineyard introduced me

know mr. Reginald vineyard introduced me to the cave and it’s been my first

to the cave and it’s been my first

to the cave and it’s been my first lesson of the year ever since in 2014

lesson of the year ever since in 2014

lesson of the year ever since in 2014 these young men entered their ninth

these young men entered their ninth

these young men entered their ninth grade year sprinkled among my six co-ed

grade year sprinkled among my six co-ed

grade year sprinkled among my six co-ed leadership classes and that year I

leadership classes and that year I

leadership classes and that year I started a new assignment sharing your

started a new assignment sharing your

started a new assignment sharing your story students read the cave then watch

story students read the cave then watch

story students read the cave then watch The Lion King tracing Simba journey of

The Lion King tracing Simba journey of

The Lion King tracing Simba journey of grief as a model to analyze their own

grief as a model to analyze their own

grief as a model to analyze their own difficult experiences these young men

difficult experiences these young men

difficult experiences these young men stood out because they were among the

stood out because they were among the

stood out because they were among the first to do the assignments optional

first to do the assignments optional

first to do the assignments optional portion sharing their stories and

portion sharing their stories and

portion sharing their stories and sharing changed them my close friend and

sharing changed them my close friend and

sharing changed them my close friend and classroom volunteer Jay Harris one day

classroom volunteer Jay Harris one day

classroom volunteer Jay Harris one day looked around and said to me

looked around and said to me

looked around and said to me ami something’s happening here and it

ami something’s happening here and it

ami something’s happening here and it needs a name he wrote something down

needs a name he wrote something down

needs a name he wrote something down handed it to me and said what does cave

handed it to me and said what does cave

handed it to me and said what does cave backward spell evac he said ami sharing

backward spell evac he said ami sharing

backward spell evac he said ami sharing their stories is evacuating them from

their stories is evacuating them from

their stories is evacuating them from hopelessness this is an evac movement so

hopelessness this is an evac movement so

hopelessness this is an evac movement so my principal agreed to my request to

my principal agreed to my request to

my principal agreed to my request to teach a part two leadership course with

teach a part two leadership course with

teach a part two leadership course with some of these same young men and women

some of these same young men and women

some of these same young men and women the next school year but in June there

the next school year but in June there

the next school year but in June there is an abrupt principal change leading me

is an abrupt principal change leading me

is an abrupt principal change leading me to go up to the school to get the new

to go up to the school to get the new

to go up to the school to get the new principal’s approval to teach it which

principal’s approval to teach it which

principal’s approval to teach it which he gave but with a catch due to racial

he gave but with a catch due to racial

he gave but with a catch due to racial disparities in education he wanted the

disparities in education he wanted the

disparities in education he wanted the course to be all african-american young

course to be all african-american young

course to be all african-american young men

men

men I said I fully support that but as a

I said I fully support that but as a

I said I fully support that but as a white female I am not the right person

white female I am not the right person

white female I am not the right person for this and he pushed back saying I was

for this and he pushed back saying I was

for this and he pushed back saying I was the only teacher with room in my

the only teacher with room in my

the only teacher with room in my schedule basically it was me or no class

schedule basically it was me or no class

schedule basically it was me or no class so that fall our journey began their

so that fall our journey began their

so that fall our journey began their sophomore year

sophomore year

sophomore year and it was a disaster students either

and it was a disaster students either

and it was a disaster students either didn’t know each other I didn’t like

didn’t know each other I didn’t like

didn’t know each other I didn’t like each other they fought I cried every

each other they fought I cried every

each other they fought I cried every single lesson I taught fell flat and in

single lesson I taught fell flat and in

single lesson I taught fell flat and in desperation we went back to the one

desperation we went back to the one

desperation we went back to the one thing that yet again changed everything

thing that yet again changed everything

thing that yet again changed everything writing their stories and then c’mon the

writing their stories and then c’mon the

writing their stories and then c’mon the only one who in ninth grade never wrote

only one who in ninth grade never wrote

only one who in ninth grade never wrote or shared his story asked to share and

or shared his story asked to share and

or shared his story asked to share and our class changed forever that day and

our class changed forever that day and

our class changed forever that day and his bravery as he came to the front of

his bravery as he came to the front of

his bravery as he came to the front of the room and shared that the summer

the room and shared that the summer

the room and shared that the summer before ninth grade his brother had been

before ninth grade his brother had been

before ninth grade his brother had been murdered and that until now he never

murdered and that until now he never

murdered and that until now he never talked about it after his classmates

talked about it after his classmates

talked about it after his classmates began sharing that many of them too had

began sharing that many of them too had

began sharing that many of them too had lost brothers and they too didn’t know

lost brothers and they too didn’t know

lost brothers and they too didn’t know how to deal and by the end of class they

how to deal and by the end of class they

how to deal and by the end of class they were fighting again but this time over

were fighting again but this time over

were fighting again but this time over who got to share next in every class for

who got to share next in every class for

who got to share next in every class for the next two months a different student

the next two months a different student

the next two months a different student shared and a brotherhood was formed and

shared and a brotherhood was formed and

shared and a brotherhood was formed and soon one said to me this has been great

soon one said to me this has been great

soon one said to me this has been great but when are we gonna do something about

but when are we gonna do something about

but when are we gonna do something about all this so I had a great idea since

all this so I had a great idea since

all this so I had a great idea since many of their stories involved traumatic

many of their stories involved traumatic

many of their stories involved traumatic police stops I had invited local

police stops I had invited local

police stops I had invited local officers in to teach them their rights

officers in to teach them their rights

officers in to teach them their rights and they’d be here next class wasn’t

and they’d be here next class wasn’t

and they’d be here next class wasn’t that great

that great

that great the classroom erupted asked the police

the classroom erupted asked the police

the classroom erupted asked the police they weren’t censored either uh I’m not

they weren’t censored either uh I’m not

they weren’t censored either uh I’m not coming and then I erupted it and I said

coming and then I erupted it and I said

coming and then I erupted it and I said if that’s your attitude then go ahead

if that’s your attitude then go ahead

if that’s your attitude then go ahead and drop the class because that’s not

and drop the class because that’s not

and drop the class because that’s not leadership but I will never forget when

leadership but I will never forget when

leadership but I will never forget when one of them raised his hand and with

one of them raised his hand and with

one of them raised his hand and with incredible grace said this out of Rio we

incredible grace said this out of Rio we

incredible grace said this out of Rio we understand what you’re saying but you

understand what you’re saying but you

understand what you’re saying but you haven’t been handcuffed face down on

haven’t been handcuffed face down on

haven’t been handcuffed face down on concrete you haven’t had guns pulled on

concrete you haven’t had guns pulled on

concrete you haven’t had guns pulled on you and dog sticked on you for

you and dog sticked on you for

you and dog sticked on you for jaywalking he pointed to a classmate and

jaywalking he pointed to a classmate and

jaywalking he pointed to a classmate and said you haven’t missed your mom’s

said you haven’t missed your mom’s

said you haven’t missed your mom’s funeral

funeral

funeral because you were illegally detained we

because you were illegally detained we

because you were illegally detained we understand what you’re saying but this

understand what you’re saying but this

understand what you’re saying but this runs deep and I was so ashamed

runs deep and I was so ashamed

runs deep and I was so ashamed and just floored by my own ignorance and

and just floored by my own ignorance and

and just floored by my own ignorance and I immediately said I’d cancel but they

I immediately said I’d cancel but they

I immediately said I’d cancel but they told me not to in the next class every

told me not to in the next class every

told me not to in the next class every single young man showed up unfortunately

single young man showed up unfortunately

single young man showed up unfortunately the visit was essentially a lecture on

the visit was essentially a lecture on

the visit was essentially a lecture on respecting Authority but the person who

respecting Authority but the person who

respecting Authority but the person who set it up mr. Frank Talbot asked to come

set it up mr. Frank Talbot asked to come

set it up mr. Frank Talbot asked to come back and address some of their

back and address some of their

back and address some of their unanswered questions and he continued

unanswered questions and he continued

unanswered questions and he continued not only to come back but began bringing

not only to come back but began bringing

not only to come back but began bringing his colleagues it was these young men

his colleagues it was these young men

his colleagues it was these young men sharing their stories and adults with

sharing their stories and adults with

sharing their stories and adults with power were literally taking notes and

power were literally taking notes and

power were literally taking notes and soon we were becoming more than a class

soon we were becoming more than a class

soon we were becoming more than a class and we needed a name and so one said how

and we needed a name and so one said how

and we needed a name and so one said how about cave and we laughed but then Jay

about cave and we laughed but then Jay

about cave and we laughed but then Jay said how about evac and from there the

said how about evac and from there the

said how about evac and from there the opportunities just escalated in April to

opportunities just escalated in April to

opportunities just escalated in April to were chosen to go to the US Department

were chosen to go to the US Department

were chosen to go to the US Department of Justice in DC in August for other

of Justice in DC in August for other

of Justice in DC in August for other students presented at a national youth

students presented at a national youth

students presented at a national youth summit and a few weeks later we were

summit and a few weeks later we were

summit and a few weeks later we were asked to interview for a juvenile

asked to interview for a juvenile

asked to interview for a juvenile justice article to our utter shock that

justice article to our utter shock that

justice article to our utter shock that article ran on the front page of the New

article ran on the front page of the New

article ran on the front page of the New York Times and the next day the juvenile

York Times and the next day the juvenile

York Times and the next day the juvenile Law Center reached out to the student

Law Center reached out to the student

Law Center reached out to the student who was featured and asked him to come

who was featured and asked him to come

who was featured and asked him to come share his story on Capitol Hill

share his story on Capitol Hill

share his story on Capitol Hill when I told Jay he said Amy sky is

when I told Jay he said Amy sky is

when I told Jay he said Amy sky is clearly the limit with evac from now on

clearly the limit with evac from now on

clearly the limit with evac from now on you need to start dreaming crazy and I

you need to start dreaming crazy and I

you need to start dreaming crazy and I laughed but my mind started racing and

laughed but my mind started racing and

laughed but my mind started racing and the next class I told them my great idea

the next class I told them my great idea

the next class I told them my great idea I thought our whole class should go to

I thought our whole class should go to

I thought our whole class should go to DC next week with him we need about ten

DC next week with him we need about ten

DC next week with him we need about ten thousand dollars so we made a video we

thousand dollars so we made a video we

thousand dollars so we made a video we posted it to Facebook and the next day

posted it to Facebook and the next day

posted it to Facebook and the next day the Laura and John Arnold Foundation

the Laura and John Arnold Foundation

the Laura and John Arnold Foundation gave us ten thousand dollars for the

gave us ten thousand dollars for the

gave us ten thousand dollars for the trip that’s Sunday we flew out foremost

trip that’s Sunday we flew out foremost

trip that’s Sunday we flew out foremost it was their first flight for many it

it was their first flight for many it

it was their first flight for many it was their first time ever leaving

was their first time ever leaving

was their first time ever leaving Jacksonville when we got there we spoke

Jacksonville when we got there we spoke

Jacksonville when we got there we spoke at Capitol Hill and at the White House

at Capitol Hill and at the White House

at Capitol Hill and at the White House and the trip got us thinking anything is

and the trip got us thinking anything is

and the trip got us thinking anything is possible

possible

possible so our first class back we made our

so our first class back we made our

so our first class back we made our dream crazy list and we wrote down every

dream crazy list and we wrote down every

dream crazy list and we wrote down every crazy goal we could think of and

crazy goal we could think of and

crazy goal we could think of and throughout last year we continuously

throughout last year we continuously

throughout last year we continuously checked items off including meeting

checked items off including meeting

checked items off including meeting President Obama while he was still in

President Obama while he was still in

President Obama while he was still in office and our last class of their

office and our last class of their

office and our last class of their junior year they got the surprise

junior year they got the surprise

junior year they got the surprise announcement that they had won first

announcement that they had won first

announcement that they had won first prize nationwide in Harvard and the kind

prize nationwide in Harvard and the kind

prize nationwide in Harvard and the kind schools kind schools challenge so this

schools kind schools challenge so this

schools kind schools challenge so this fall these young men entered their

fall these young men entered their

fall these young men entered their senior year with countless adults

senior year with countless adults

senior year with countless adults recognizing their value and praising

recognizing their value and praising

recognizing their value and praising their success and also requesting a

their success and also requesting a

their success and also requesting a program formula so that Yvette can be

program formula so that Yvette can be

program formula so that Yvette can be replicated citywide so today I’m sharing

replicated citywide so today I’m sharing

replicated citywide so today I’m sharing the most important step needed to

the most important step needed to

the most important step needed to replicate ‘back our story and I asked

replicate ‘back our story and I asked

replicate ‘back our story and I asked them the most important part of our

them the most important part of our

them the most important part of our story to share today and they said tell

story to share today and they said tell

story to share today and they said tell them we shook hands with President Obama

them we shook hands with President Obama

them we shook hands with President Obama and then went right back to the hood

tell them that why I checked from my

tell them that why I checked from my letter from the White House I got

letter from the White House I got

letter from the White House I got stopped and searched by police for

stopped and searched by police for

stopped and searched by police for looking suspicious

looking suspicious

looking suspicious tell them to spend one weekend in our

tell them to spend one weekend in our

tell them to spend one weekend in our neighborhood before making programs that

neighborhood before making programs that

neighborhood before making programs that decide what’s best for us our real story

decide what’s best for us our real story

decide what’s best for us our real story is about youth who are waking up every

is about youth who are waking up every

is about youth who are waking up every day in a horror movie a reality that no

day in a horror movie a reality that no

day in a horror movie a reality that no class no program no accomplishment

class no program no accomplishment

class no program no accomplishment changes which is why evac is not and has

changes which is why evac is not and has

changes which is why evac is not and has never been a program it is simply a war

never been a program it is simply a war

never been a program it is simply a war for hope that we’ve chosen to fight

for hope that we’ve chosen to fight

for hope that we’ve chosen to fight together through sacrificing daily

together through sacrificing daily

together through sacrificing daily loving relentlessly and fighting

loving relentlessly and fighting

loving relentlessly and fighting fearlessly here’s what that’s looked

fearlessly here’s what that’s looked

fearlessly here’s what that’s looked like for us and what it’ll look like for

like for us and what it’ll look like for

like for us and what it’ll look like for others who’d like to do the same our

others who’d like to do the same our

others who’d like to do the same our story is full of countless people who

story is full of countless people who

story is full of countless people who love them and their story until they’re

love them and their story until they’re

love them and their story until they’re asked to deal with the reality of it our

asked to deal with the reality of it our

asked to deal with the reality of it our reality is 2 a.m. phone calls going to

reality is 2 a.m. phone calls going to

reality is 2 a.m. phone calls going to funerals baking birthday cakes at

funerals baking birthday cakes at

funerals baking birthday cakes at midnight and taking personal days to go

midnight and taking personal days to go

midnight and taking personal days to go to court hearings that end up cancelled

to court hearings that end up cancelled

to court hearings that end up cancelled embracing sacrifice destroys all dreams

embracing sacrifice destroys all dreams

embracing sacrifice destroys all dreams of being or feeling like a hero because

of being or feeling like a hero because

of being or feeling like a hero because what you’ll most have to sacrifice is

what you’ll most have to sacrifice is

what you’ll most have to sacrifice is your pride personally you’ve acts been

your pride personally you’ve acts been

your pride personally you’ve acts been the most humbling experience of my life

the most humbling experience of my life

the most humbling experience of my life I on a daily basis feel inadequate

I on a daily basis feel inadequate

I on a daily basis feel inadequate disrespected and just scared I

disrespected and just scared I

disrespected and just scared I frequently call friends sobbing that I

frequently call friends sobbing that I

frequently call friends sobbing that I have to quit that I’m not built for this

have to quit that I’m not built for this

have to quit that I’m not built for this that it costs too much and I’ve gotten a

that it costs too much and I’ve gotten a

that it costs too much and I’ve gotten a lot of lectures on on boundaries and

lot of lectures on on boundaries and

lot of lectures on on boundaries and work-life balance but y’all know those

work-life balance but y’all know those

work-life balance but y’all know those right but what I’ve had to learn is that

right but what I’ve had to learn is that

right but what I’ve had to learn is that those things don’t exist on the front

those things don’t exist on the front

those things don’t exist on the front lines war is ugly and it costs us

lines war is ugly and it costs us

lines war is ugly and it costs us something sometimes everything we win

something sometimes everything we win

something sometimes everything we win simply by being willing to keep showing

simply by being willing to keep showing

simply by being willing to keep showing up by far the most powerful strategy for

up by far the most powerful strategy for

up by far the most powerful strategy for hope is love

hope is love

hope is love their mentors and I had to teach them by

their mentors and I had to teach them by

their mentors and I had to teach them by learning ourselves what real love and

learning ourselves what real love and

learning ourselves what real love and loyalty looks like and it looks like

loyalty looks like and it looks like

loyalty looks like and it looks like people sticking around long term even

people sticking around long term even

people sticking around long term even and especially after being hurt we have

and especially after being hurt we have

and especially after being hurt we have had countless ugly blowouts that should

had countless ugly blowouts that should

had countless ugly blowouts that should have meant that our story was over but

have meant that our story was over but

have meant that our story was over but love is our choice to work through them

love is our choice to work through them

love is our choice to work through them no matter how bad one of us messes up

no matter how bad one of us messes up

no matter how bad one of us messes up including me love looks like choosing to

including me love looks like choosing to

including me love looks like choosing to walk through hell together it’s us

walk through hell together it’s us

walk through hell together it’s us driving to graduation with our classmate

driving to graduation with our classmate

driving to graduation with our classmate when he gets the text that his mother’s

when he gets the text that his mother’s

when he gets the text that his mother’s passed away and it’s us without

passed away and it’s us without

passed away and it’s us without hesitation canceling our lunch with the

hesitation canceling our lunch with the

hesitation canceling our lunch with the mayor to be there with him

mayor to be there with him

mayor to be there with him love is his classmate staying with him

love is his classmate staying with him

love is his classmate staying with him all night so that he wasn’t alone

all night so that he wasn’t alone

all night so that he wasn’t alone love is us driving an hour with roses

love is us driving an hour with roses

love is us driving an hour with roses and Gatorades to stand beside him as the

and Gatorades to stand beside him as the

and Gatorades to stand beside him as the only guests at the funeral in his own

only guests at the funeral in his own

only guests at the funeral in his own words evac is about our love for each

words evac is about our love for each

words evac is about our love for each other a love that leads us to do the

other a love that leads us to do the

other a love that leads us to do the only thing we can in these moments stand

only thing we can in these moments stand

only thing we can in these moments stand quietly alongside each other in the

quietly alongside each other in the

quietly alongside each other in the midst of it lastly what we love we’ll

midst of it lastly what we love we’ll

midst of it lastly what we love we’ll fight for two teachers program directors

fight for two teachers program directors

fight for two teachers program directors and others who take the song buckle up

and others who take the song buckle up

and others who take the song buckle up you are about to become the squeaky

you are about to become the squeaky

you are about to become the squeaky wheel for the voiceless understand that

wheel for the voiceless understand that

wheel for the voiceless understand that people who work with kids are loved

people who work with kids are loved

people who work with kids are loved people who liberate kids are dangerous

people who liberate kids are dangerous

people who liberate kids are dangerous and liberation requires persistently

and liberation requires persistently

and liberation requires persistently following up asking hard questions and

following up asking hard questions and

following up asking hard questions and advocating for exceptions and

advocating for exceptions and

advocating for exceptions and institutions that value uniformity

institutions that value uniformity

institutions that value uniformity expediency and hierarchy above our kids

expediency and hierarchy above our kids

expediency and hierarchy above our kids you are going to annoy your boss your

you are going to annoy your boss your

you are going to annoy your boss your colleagues you are going to be the

colleagues you are going to be the

colleagues you are going to be the person that makes the meetings run over

person that makes the meetings run over

person that makes the meetings run over but we can’t keep using statistics to

but we can’t keep using statistics to

but we can’t keep using statistics to label kids as at-risk yet force programs

label kids as at-risk yet force programs

label kids as at-risk yet force programs to compromise on what’s necessary to

to compromise on what’s necessary to

to compromise on what’s necessary to overcome those odds those compromises

overcome those odds those compromises

overcome those odds those compromises turn

turn

turn our programs into shams that help the

our programs into shams that help the

our programs into shams that help the kids who are gonna make it anyway and

kids who are gonna make it anyway and

kids who are gonna make it anyway and they leave the very kids were supposed

they leave the very kids were supposed

they leave the very kids were supposed to help behind to die hope is life and

to help behind to die hope is life and

to help behind to die hope is life and death so that’s our story here’s mine

death so that’s our story here’s mine

death so that’s our story here’s mine walking alongside these young men has

walking alongside these young men has

walking alongside these young men has been my life’s greatest blessing honor

been my life’s greatest blessing honor

been my life’s greatest blessing honor and joy they are warriors and our city’s

and joy they are warriors and our city’s

and joy they are warriors and our city’s heroes but my daily insecurity is still

heroes but my daily insecurity is still

heroes but my daily insecurity is still that I am not the right person for this

that I am not the right person for this

that I am not the right person for this and in so many factual real ways I’m

and in so many factual real ways I’m

and in so many factual real ways I’m truly not but by constantly bypassing

truly not but by constantly bypassing

truly not but by constantly bypassing reasons to label me as at risk they

reasons to label me as at risk they

reasons to label me as at risk they taught me the power of treating others

taught me the power of treating others

taught me the power of treating others with hope and empowers us to fly so

with hope and empowers us to fly so

with hope and empowers us to fly so today I didn’t give you a five-step plan

today I didn’t give you a five-step plan

today I didn’t give you a five-step plan to recreate evac because those steps are

to recreate evac because those steps are

to recreate evac because those steps are worthless without understanding what I

worthless without understanding what I

worthless without understanding what I hope is now clear that you can’t create

hope is now clear that you can’t create

hope is now clear that you can’t create effective programs for at Hope youth

effective programs for at Hope youth

effective programs for at Hope youth without knowing their story and making

without knowing their story and making

without knowing their story and making their story a part of yours because hope

their story a part of yours because hope

their story a part of yours because hope is not a program hope is actually seeing

is not a program hope is actually seeing

is not a program hope is actually seeing our youth who are courageous enough to

our youth who are courageous enough to

our youth who are courageous enough to fight and about being willing to

fight and about being willing to

fight and about being willing to courageously fight beside them even when

courageously fight beside them even when

courageously fight beside them even when it costs us hope is being willing to

it costs us hope is being willing to

it costs us hope is being willing to become a family and do what families do

become a family and do what families do

become a family and do what families do which is stay at the table even when one

which is stay at the table even when one

which is stay at the table even when one of you flips it over hope is about

of you flips it over hope is about

of you flips it over hope is about demanding our institutions start

demanding our institutions start

demanding our institutions start listening to our youth stories and end

listening to our youth stories and end

listening to our youth stories and end restrictions that make it impossible to

restrictions that make it impossible to

restrictions that make it impossible to help them ultimately our only way to

help them ultimately our only way to

help them ultimately our only way to evacuate the cave is together and our

evacuate the cave is together and our

evacuate the cave is together and our only hope to reach the light is in our

only hope to reach the light is in our

only hope to reach the light is in our willingness to love other people’s kids

willingness to love other people’s kids

willingness to love other people’s kids as relentlessly sacrificially and

as relentlessly sacrificially and

as relentlessly sacrificially and fearlessly as we love our own

fearlessly as we love our own

fearlessly as we love our own risks have margins the hope has no

risks have margins the hope has no

risks have margins the hope has no boundaries follow their lead choose hope

boundaries follow their lead choose hope

boundaries follow their lead choose hope thank you

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