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Are We Still Alive Inside? | Michael Rosatto Bennett | TEDxHobokenWomen


I’d like to share with you three simple

I’d like to share with you three simple truths that I’ve sort of uncovered in

truths that I’ve sort of uncovered in

truths that I’ve sort of uncovered in the last eight years trying to awaken

the last eight years trying to awaken

the last eight years trying to awaken elders lost in dementia and young people

elders lost in dementia and young people

elders lost in dementia and young people lost in a world that kind of seems to

lost in a world that kind of seems to

lost in a world that kind of seems to meant it as well three truths that I

meant it as well three truths that I

meant it as well three truths that I hope will have lessened my loneliness

hope will have lessened my loneliness

hope will have lessened my loneliness and I hope I hope will can lessen yours

and I hope I hope will can lessen yours

and I hope I hope will can lessen yours first truth life is short

first truth life is short

first truth life is short that gentleman just told us how short

that gentleman just told us how short

that gentleman just told us how short life can be you know we fight this we

life can be you know we fight this we

life can be you know we fight this we dye our hair we lift our faces we take

dye our hair we lift our faces we take

dye our hair we lift our faces we take our elders and we banish them so we

our elders and we banish them so we

our elders and we banish them so we don’t have to see them you know guys are

don’t have to see them you know guys are

don’t have to see them you know guys are like death no I’m not worried about

like death no I’m not worried about

like death no I’m not worried about death you know it’s just a tech problem

death you know it’s just a tech problem

death you know it’s just a tech problem you know Google’s on it they’re gonna

you know Google’s on it they’re gonna

you know Google’s on it they’re gonna solve it you know um and like if they

solve it you know um and like if they

solve it you know um and like if they don’t you know I’ll just upload my mind

don’t you know I’ll just upload my mind

don’t you know I’ll just upload my mind to the web and I’ll live forever in the

to the web and I’ll live forever in the

to the web and I’ll live forever in the cloud you know okay but last year David

cloud you know okay but last year David

cloud you know okay but last year David Bowie Leonard Cohen Prince left us three

Bowie Leonard Cohen Prince left us three

Bowie Leonard Cohen Prince left us three weeks ago my mom suffered a massive

weeks ago my mom suffered a massive

weeks ago my mom suffered a massive stroke and fell into a coma I was afraid

stroke and fell into a coma I was afraid

stroke and fell into a coma I was afraid she was gonna die each day billions of

she was gonna die each day billions of

she was gonna die each day billions of us pass each other with very little

us pass each other with very little

us pass each other with very little empathy that each and every one of us

empathy that each and every one of us

empathy that each and every one of us will lose absolutely everything we love

will lose absolutely everything we love

will lose absolutely everything we love I started thinking about that you know

I started thinking about that you know

I started thinking about that you know is there a silver lining to this death

is there a silver lining to this death

is there a silver lining to this death thing that we all have to experience and

thing that we all have to experience and

thing that we all have to experience and and I decided yes there is there is

and I decided yes there is there is

and I decided yes there is there is something beautiful about death and I’ll

something beautiful about death and I’ll

something beautiful about death and I’ll tell you what it is it shows us how rich

tell you what it is it shows us how rich

tell you what it is it shows us how rich we are okay so let me illustrate this um

we are okay so let me illustrate this um

we are okay so let me illustrate this um okay this is gonna be the Oprah show now

okay this is gonna be the Oprah show now

okay this is gonna be the Oprah show now I’m Oprah okay and what I’d like all of

I’m Oprah okay and what I’d like all of

I’m Oprah okay and what I’d like all of you to do

you to do

you to do is reach underneath your seats okay come

is reach underneath your seats okay come

is reach underneath your seats okay come on pull out my present for you all it’s

on pull out my present for you all it’s

on pull out my present for you all it’s under there come on drink it pull it out

under there come on drink it pull it out

under there come on drink it pull it out below 1 million dollars cash is this not

below 1 million dollars cash is this not

below 1 million dollars cash is this not the best Oprah show ever

the best Oprah show ever

the best Oprah show ever okay but hold on shows not over

okay but hold on shows not over

okay but hold on shows not over see now robbers come up behind all of

see now robbers come up behind all of

see now robbers come up behind all of you and they put a gun to your head and

you and they put a gun to your head and

you and they put a gun to your head and they say your money or your life now

they say your money or your life now

they say your money or your life now raise your hand if this is your answer

raise your hand if this is your answer

raise your hand if this is your answer oh all right my final answer um I’m

oh all right my final answer um I’m

oh all right my final answer um I’m gonna stay with the money I’m gonna

gonna stay with the money I’m gonna

gonna stay with the money I’m gonna stick with the money Oh none of you Oh

stick with the money Oh none of you Oh

stick with the money Oh none of you Oh so you see what this means it means each

so you see what this means it means each

so you see what this means it means each and every one of you already has

and every one of you already has

and every one of you already has something worth more than a million

something worth more than a million

something worth more than a million dollars you’re all millionaires you know

dollars you’re all millionaires you know

dollars you’re all millionaires you know he understands what it’s like to be a

he understands what it’s like to be a

he understands what it’s like to be a millionaire you know you might say maybe

millionaire you know you might say maybe

millionaire you know you might say maybe but think about it Leonard Cohen Prince

but think about it Leonard Cohen Prince

but think about it Leonard Cohen Prince Michael Jackson Andrew Carnot Andrew

Michael Jackson Andrew Carnot Andrew

Michael Jackson Andrew Carnot Andrew Carnegie Abraham Lincoln my mother they

Carnegie Abraham Lincoln my mother they

Carnegie Abraham Lincoln my mother they would give everything they had for just

would give everything they had for just

would give everything they had for just one more day of what you have beating

one more day of what you have beating

one more day of what you have beating inside of you the greatest treasure the

inside of you the greatest treasure the

inside of you the greatest treasure the heartbeat of the planet life the

heartbeat of the planet life the

heartbeat of the planet life the capacity to feel this treasure life I

capacity to feel this treasure life I

capacity to feel this treasure life I think is the key to ending loneliness

think is the key to ending loneliness

think is the key to ending loneliness which brings me to my second role again

which brings me to my second role again

which brings me to my second role again one you’ll probably say is obvious but

one you’ll probably say is obvious but

one you’ll probably say is obvious but we are the living the only living in

we are the living the only living in

we are the living the only living in this most critical of times if that’s

this most critical of times if that’s

this most critical of times if that’s true and we you know we all know this

true and we you know we all know this

true and we you know we all know this why do we so many of us live lives half

why do we so many of us live lives half

why do we so many of us live lives half alive

alive

alive you know you know what do we do we say

you know you know what do we do we say

you know you know what do we do we say things like I won’t care anymore

things like I won’t care anymore

things like I won’t care anymore I’ll stay angry you know I’ll win I’ll

I’ll stay angry you know I’ll win I’ll

I’ll stay angry you know I’ll win I’ll succeed oh and then no one can hurt me

succeed oh and then no one can hurt me

succeed oh and then no one can hurt me anymore again

anymore again

anymore again you know so here’s the thing I was

you know so here’s the thing I was

you know so here’s the thing I was incredibly lonely when I was on younger

incredibly lonely when I was on younger

incredibly lonely when I was on younger incredibly lonely but I thought it was

incredibly lonely but I thought it was

incredibly lonely but I thought it was just my story you know my brother when I

just my story you know my brother when I

just my story you know my brother when I was 2 got ratina blastoma eye cancer and

was 2 got ratina blastoma eye cancer and

was 2 got ratina blastoma eye cancer and my mother looked in his fate his I

my mother looked in his fate his I

my mother looked in his fate his I rushed we rushed to the hospital

rushed we rushed to the hospital

rushed we rushed to the hospital the doctor said you’ve got one hour to

the doctor said you’ve got one hour to

the doctor said you’ve got one hour to decide do we take out both his eyes and

decide do we take out both his eyes and

decide do we take out both his eyes and he lives or do we take out one eye and

he lives or do we take out one eye and

he lives or do we take out one eye and there’s this new thing which we haven’t

there’s this new thing which we haven’t

there’s this new thing which we haven’t really tried but it’s called radiation

really tried but it’s called radiation

really tried but it’s called radiation and we could shoot radiation into his

and we could shoot radiation into his

and we could shoot radiation into his eye and maybe we could save the eye you

eye and maybe we could save the eye you

eye and maybe we could save the eye you got one hour to make this decision my

got one hour to make this decision my

got one hour to make this decision my dad and mom talked it over they go for

dad and mom talked it over they go for

dad and mom talked it over they go for the radiation miraculously my brother

the radiation miraculously my brother

the radiation miraculously my brother lives but he’s blind basically and so

lives but he’s blind basically and so

lives but he’s blind basically and so what happens to my family you can

what happens to my family you can

what happens to my family you can probably guess you know in these

probably guess you know in these

probably guess you know in these situations is pretty normal they you

situations is pretty normal they you

situations is pretty normal they you know they get divorced you know it’s too

know they get divorced you know it’s too

know they get divorced you know it’s too much for a family to deal with almost

much for a family to deal with almost

much for a family to deal with almost death of a child and I guess that would

death of a child and I guess that would

death of a child and I guess that would have been okay but you know this was

have been okay but you know this was

have been okay but you know this was people were ignorant when I was growing

people were ignorant when I was growing

people were ignorant when I was growing up you know my my parents like tore our

up you know my my parents like tore our

up you know my my parents like tore our hearts apart in their you know their

hearts apart in their you know their

hearts apart in their you know their tug-of-war divorce you know and I and I

tug-of-war divorce you know and I and I

tug-of-war divorce you know and I and I had to live with never having a mother

had to live with never having a mother

had to live with never having a mother you know III don’t know what it’s like

you know III don’t know what it’s like

you know III don’t know what it’s like to have a mother because I went with my

to have a mother because I went with my

to have a mother because I went with my dad and I didn’t have a grandmother I

dad and I didn’t have a grandmother I

dad and I didn’t have a grandmother I didn’t have a village you know people to

didn’t have a village you know people to

didn’t have a village you know people to help raise me and heal my Mike my

help raise me and heal my Mike my

help raise me and heal my Mike my sorrows all I had was a violent and

sorrows all I had was a violent and

sorrows all I had was a violent and abusive stepmother and I that was very

abusive stepmother and I that was very

abusive stepmother and I that was very very hard it broke my heart

very hard it broke my heart

very hard it broke my heart I was crumpled I was crumpled for years

I was crumpled I was crumpled for years

I was crumpled I was crumpled for years it took me years to raise my chest out

it took me years to raise my chest out

it took me years to raise my chest out of its hole you know this way of

of its hole you know this way of

of its hole you know this way of achieving safety of like hiding inside

achieving safety of like hiding inside

achieving safety of like hiding inside of yourself and running away from pain

of yourself and running away from pain

of yourself and running away from pain and from death um you know what David

and from death um you know what David

and from death um you know what David Bowie trade his fortune for that kind of

Bowie trade his fortune for that kind of

Bowie trade his fortune for that kind of life you know how many of you have known

life you know how many of you have known

life you know how many of you have known great loneliness in your life just show

great loneliness in your life just show

great loneliness in your life just show of hands

of hands

of hands don’t mind how many of you have wasted

don’t mind how many of you have wasted

don’t mind how many of you have wasted decades of your life in self-hate or or

decades of your life in self-hate or or

decades of your life in self-hate or or or in in anger in places like that yeah

or in in anger in places like that yeah

or in in anger in places like that yeah I see some nodding heads you’ve kind of

I see some nodding heads you’ve kind of

I see some nodding heads you’ve kind of grown out of those spaces you’ve disk at

grown out of those spaces you’ve disk at

grown out of those spaces you’ve disk at you know discarded it I’m a filmmaker

you know discarded it I’m a filmmaker

you know discarded it I’m a filmmaker and I sort of investigated like well how

and I sort of investigated like well how

and I sort of investigated like well how does our culture you know deal with

does our culture you know deal with

does our culture you know deal with loneliness especially in our elders

loneliness especially in our elders

loneliness especially in our elders especially elders with dementia

especially elders with dementia

especially elders with dementia I met a 94 year old man named Henry who

I met a 94 year old man named Henry who

I met a 94 year old man named Henry who had been sitting in a nursing home in a

had been sitting in a nursing home in a

had been sitting in a nursing home in a hallway like this for 10 years 10 years

hallway like this for 10 years 10 years

hallway like this for 10 years 10 years 10 years and the day I met him we

10 years and the day I met him we

10 years and the day I met him we brought him his music music from his

brought him his music music from his

brought him his music music from his childhood music that he hadn’t heard in

childhood music that he hadn’t heard in

childhood music that he hadn’t heard in like 30 years and this this man he like

like 30 years and this this man he like

like 30 years and this this man he like went I feel the band the dreams you know

went I feel the band the dreams you know

went I feel the band the dreams you know I think everyone should come into music

I think everyone should come into music

I think everyone should come into music right now I’m a holy man the Lord gave

right now I’m a holy man the Lord gave

right now I’m a holy man the Lord gave me this music when he when he woke up

me this music when he when he woke up

me this music when he when he woke up like that it changed my life in one

like that it changed my life in one

like that it changed my life in one minute I realized that millions of

minute I realized that millions of

minute I realized that millions of elders living like this man could at

elders living like this man could at

elders living like this man could at least in their life not in utter despair

least in their life not in utter despair

least in their life not in utter despair and loneliness making a live inside I

and loneliness making a live inside I

and loneliness making a live inside I learned like really incredible things I

learned like really incredible things I

learned like really incredible things I learned like 69 percent of our nursing

learned like 69 percent of our nursing

learned like 69 percent of our nursing homes are for-profit institutions that

homes are for-profit institutions that

homes are for-profit institutions that means the more they care the less they

means the more they care the less they

means the more they care the less they make okay I learned antipsychotic drugs

make okay I learned antipsychotic drugs

make okay I learned antipsychotic drugs like Haldol are actually profitable

like Haldol are actually profitable

like Haldol are actually profitable because the more drugs you give somebody

because the more drugs you give somebody

because the more drugs you give somebody the less care you need and it also

the less care you need and it also

the less care you need and it also boosts your bottom line from selling the

boosts your bottom line from selling the

boosts your bottom line from selling the drugs you know the more I watched these

drugs you know the more I watched these

drugs you know the more I watched these sweet elders attempt to adapt to the

sweet elders attempt to adapt to the

sweet elders attempt to adapt to the boxes they were being asked to live in

boxes they were being asked to live in

boxes they were being asked to live in the more I started to see them as

the more I started to see them as

the more I started to see them as Canaries in the coal mine the more I

Canaries in the coal mine the more I

Canaries in the coal mine the more I started to see them as that they were

started to see them as that they were

started to see them as that they were teaching us what it’s like for a living

teaching us what it’s like for a living

teaching us what it’s like for a living being to

being to

being to asked to be a thing how does it feel

asked to be a thing how does it feel

asked to be a thing how does it feel when you get attacked how does it feel

when you get attacked how does it feel

when you get attacked how does it feel when you get attacked when you get

when you get attacked when you get

when you get attacked when you get treated like a thing we fade and die

treated like a thing we fade and die

treated like a thing we fade and die that’s what happens to these elders and

that’s what happens to these elders and

that’s what happens to these elders and nursing homes I’ve seen it over and over

nursing homes I’ve seen it over and over

nursing homes I’ve seen it over and over again they come in and they start to

again they come in and they start to

again they come in and they start to decline and then looking around I

decline and then looking around I

decline and then looking around I started to see our kids and they are in

started to see our kids and they are in

started to see our kids and they are in some sort of box as well and a lot of

some sort of box as well and a lot of

some sort of box as well and a lot of them are starting to fall into

them are starting to fall into

them are starting to fall into loneliness some turn to opioids some

loneliness some turn to opioids some

loneliness some turn to opioids some turn to guns some just plod along how

turn to guns some just plod along how

turn to guns some just plod along how about you guys

about you guys

about you guys any of you guys kind of feel sometimes

any of you guys kind of feel sometimes

any of you guys kind of feel sometimes like you’re just phoning it in like like

like you’re just phoning it in like like

like you’re just phoning it in like like the world isn’t exactly as rich as it

the world isn’t exactly as rich as it

the world isn’t exactly as rich as it should be that’s where truth number

should be that’s where truth number

should be that’s where truth number three comes in life is relationship

three comes in life is relationship

three comes in life is relationship divorce any of us from our relationships

divorce any of us from our relationships

divorce any of us from our relationships and we begin to fade and die we live in

and we begin to fade and die we live in

and we begin to fade and die we live in relationship that is what music has been

relationship that is what music has been

relationship that is what music has been trying to teach us ever since we

trying to teach us ever since we

trying to teach us ever since we invented it it’s been saying you know

invented it it’s been saying you know

invented it it’s been saying you know you are vibratory beings you live in

you are vibratory beings you live in

you are vibratory beings you live in harmony with all that lives and you move

harmony with all that lives and you move

harmony with all that lives and you move through time in relationship we are not

through time in relationship we are not

through time in relationship we are not what we own we are not our fancy jobs

what we own we are not our fancy jobs

what we own we are not our fancy jobs and our fancy cars I’ll tell you what we

and our fancy cars I’ll tell you what we

and our fancy cars I’ll tell you what we are weird is all the energy in your body

are weird is all the energy in your body

are weird is all the energy in your body come from anybody anybody where’s the

come from anybody anybody where’s the

come from anybody anybody where’s the energy in your body come from the the

energy in your body come from the the

energy in your body come from the the spark that lights your that fires your

spark that lights your that fires your

spark that lights your that fires your mind that beats your heart your brain

mind that beats your heart your brain

mind that beats your heart your brain huh universal life force of Chi nobody

huh universal life force of Chi nobody

huh universal life force of Chi nobody ever said that one my answer my oh

ever said that one my answer my oh

ever said that one my answer my oh you’re probably actually right but my my

you’re probably actually right but my my

you’re probably actually right but my my answer isn’t the fuel for 99% of all

answer isn’t the fuel for 99% of all

answer isn’t the fuel for 99% of all that lives comes from one single source

that lives comes from one single source

that lives comes from one single source and it’s interesting nobody said it it

and it’s interesting nobody said it it

and it’s interesting nobody said it it comes from the Sun comes from the Sun

comes from the Sun comes from the Sun

comes from the Sun comes from the Sun every time you eat um where is she every

every time you eat um where is she every

every time you eat um where is she every time you eat vegetables or greens or or

time you eat vegetables or greens or or

time you eat vegetables or greens or or you know you’re eating processed

you know you’re eating processed

you know you’re eating processed sunshine even meat you’re eating

sunshine even meat you’re eating

sunshine even meat you’re eating processed sunshine and what do we do

processed sunshine and what do we do

processed sunshine and what do we do with that sunshine where do we put it we

with that sunshine where do we put it we

with that sunshine where do we put it we put it in our bodies made primarily of

put it in our bodies made primarily of

put it in our bodies made primarily of what what kind of water salt water salt

what what kind of water salt water salt

what what kind of water salt water salt water the exact same percentage of salt

water the exact same percentage of salt

water the exact same percentage of salt that’s found in the ocean so um you know

that’s found in the ocean so um you know

that’s found in the ocean so um you know basically this is where my friend would

basically this is where my friend would

basically this is where my friend would always say to me same whoa – do you mean

always say to me same whoa – do you mean

always say to me same whoa – do you mean like we’re like walking oceans filled

like we’re like walking oceans filled

like we’re like walking oceans filled with sunshine oh man that’s beautiful

with sunshine oh man that’s beautiful

with sunshine oh man that’s beautiful and I’d be like yes it is you know but

and I’d be like yes it is you know but

and I’d be like yes it is you know but how does it make sense that such a being

how does it make sense that such a being

how does it make sense that such a being would feel alone and disconnected from

would feel alone and disconnected from

would feel alone and disconnected from life especially since we’ve won we’ve

life especially since we’ve won we’ve

life especially since we’ve won we’ve every terror that every human has ever

every terror that every human has ever

every terror that every human has ever felt we basically solved the darkness we

felt we basically solved the darkness we

felt we basically solved the darkness we fixed it with light bulbs slavery we

fixed it with light bulbs slavery we

fixed it with light bulbs slavery we fixed it with robots

fixed it with robots

fixed it with robots oh wait that’s a couple years in the

oh wait that’s a couple years in the

oh wait that’s a couple years in the future germs medicine hunger agriculture

future germs medicine hunger agriculture

future germs medicine hunger agriculture language money my brother’s blindness

language money my brother’s blindness

language money my brother’s blindness when he was 13 years old he had a simple

when he was 13 years old he had a simple

when he was 13 years old he had a simple operation and his sight returned to

operation and his sight returned to

operation and his sight returned to 20/20 the United Nations has recently

20/20 the United Nations has recently

20/20 the United Nations has recently determined that ending poverty and

determined that ending poverty and

determined that ending poverty and hunger is morally right politically

hunger is morally right politically

hunger is morally right politically beneficial and financially possible

beneficial and financially possible

beneficial and financially possible today today I think we could also end

today today I think we could also end

today today I think we could also end oppression violence you know

oppression violence you know

oppression violence you know and lastly loneliness my buddy would say

and lastly loneliness my buddy would say

and lastly loneliness my buddy would say yes finally a hopeful message you know

loneliness is what happens to networked

loneliness is what happens to networked beings which is what we are

beings which is what we are

beings which is what we are we are networked beings you know thank

we are networked beings you know thank

we are networked beings you know thank goodness we have you know laid fiber

goodness we have you know laid fiber

goodness we have you know laid fiber between every single human being on this

between every single human being on this

between every single human being on this planet right now which is pretty amazing

planet right now which is pretty amazing

planet right now which is pretty amazing so about two-and-a-half weeks ago my

so about two-and-a-half weeks ago my

so about two-and-a-half weeks ago my mother woke up I was there I was holding

mother woke up I was there I was holding

mother woke up I was there I was holding her hand and I didn’t get to know her

her hand and I didn’t get to know her

her hand and I didn’t get to know her till I was 20 years old and I’m holding

till I was 20 years old and I’m holding

till I was 20 years old and I’m holding her hand and she’s looking at me and in

her hand and she’s looking at me and in

her hand and she’s looking at me and in that moment I discard I realize I have

that moment I discard I realize I have

that moment I discard I realize I have to do it and I discard all of my anger

to do it and I discard all of my anger

to do it and I discard all of my anger at her for leaving me that I’ve held all

at her for leaving me that I’ve held all

at her for leaving me that I’ve held all these years I just discarded it because

these years I just discarded it because

these years I just discarded it because I was sitting there and I realized I

I was sitting there and I realized I

I was sitting there and I realized I couldn’t be with her fully and still

couldn’t be with her fully and still

couldn’t be with her fully and still hold on to that anger so in one moment

hold on to that anger so in one moment

hold on to that anger so in one moment as I did something I we can change us

as I did something I we can change us

as I did something I we can change us humans we can change it’s really

humans we can change it’s really

humans we can change it’s really interesting it’s only a lack of courage

interesting it’s only a lack of courage

interesting it’s only a lack of courage that keeps us stuck in our outmoded ways

that keeps us stuck in our outmoded ways

that keeps us stuck in our outmoded ways of thinking and our outmoded ways of

of thinking and our outmoded ways of

of thinking and our outmoded ways of safety this year coca-cola said that

safety this year coca-cola said that

safety this year coca-cola said that they’re going to increase their

they’re going to increase their

they’re going to increase their production of throw away plastic bottles

production of throw away plastic bottles

production of throw away plastic bottles by a billion bottles in 50 short years

by a billion bottles in 50 short years

by a billion bottles in 50 short years we have inserted micro grains of plastic

we have inserted micro grains of plastic

we have inserted micro grains of plastic in between every grain of sand in every

in between every grain of sand in every

in between every grain of sand in every beach around the globe and into the

beach around the globe and into the

beach around the globe and into the blood streams of animals including some

blood streams of animals including some

blood streams of animals including some of us in this room that’s outmoded

of us in this room that’s outmoded

of us in this room that’s outmoded thinking from the planets perspective

thinking from the planets perspective

thinking from the planets perspective coca-cola Warren Buffett the

coca-cola Warren Buffett the

coca-cola Warren Buffett the shareholders of coke anyone that wears

shareholders of coke anyone that wears

shareholders of coke anyone that wears microfiber yoga pants or fleece jackets

microfiber yoga pants or fleece jackets

microfiber yoga pants or fleece jackets might be some of the worst criminals

might be some of the worst criminals

might be some of the worst criminals besides the meat eaters in the world our

besides the meat eaters in the world our

besides the meat eaters in the world our emotional intelligence and our

emotional intelligence and our

emotional intelligence and our worldviews are stuck in a past that is

worldviews are stuck in a past that is

worldviews are stuck in a past that is no longer real it’s a it’s a past where

no longer real it’s a it’s a past where

no longer real it’s a it’s a past where we believe in infinite frontiers where

we believe in infinite frontiers where

we believe in infinite frontiers where we believe in the infinite filtration

we believe in the infinite filtration

we believe in the infinite filtration capacity of the sky and the sea those

capacity of the sky and the sea those

capacity of the sky and the sea those things no longer exist and what does

things no longer exist and what does

things no longer exist and what does exist is shrinking

exist is shrinking

exist is shrinking it teaches us that we are competing

it teaches us that we are competing

it teaches us that we are competing beings that we are separate and not

beings that we are separate and not

beings that we are separate and not connected to the biosphere or each other

connected to the biosphere or each other

connected to the biosphere or each other and this was never true at all but it

and this was never true at all but it

and this was never true at all but it was a harmless delusion until about a

was a harmless delusion until about a

was a harmless delusion until about a hundred years ago when our technology

hundred years ago when our technology

hundred years ago when our technology and our numbers started exponentially

and our numbers started exponentially

and our numbers started exponentially rocketing okay so my buddy would say hey

rocketing okay so my buddy would say hey

rocketing okay so my buddy would say hey whatever happened to that hopeful talk

whatever happened to that hopeful talk

whatever happened to that hopeful talk you were giving I’m getting there okay

you were giving I’m getting there okay

you were giving I’m getting there okay because there’s a teacher a new teacher

because there’s a teacher a new teacher

because there’s a teacher a new teacher in the room trying to wake us up and

in the room trying to wake us up and

in the room trying to wake us up and it’s the only teacher any species has

it’s the only teacher any species has

it’s the only teacher any species has ever listened to and it is its own death

ever listened to and it is its own death

ever listened to and it is its own death if everything is connected which is

if everything is connected which is

if everything is connected which is what’s what both physicists and

what’s what both physicists and

what’s what both physicists and biologists are telling us then when you

biologists are telling us then when you

biologists are telling us then when you kill your system you are killing

kill your system you are killing

kill your system you are killing yourself and we are simply killing our

yourself and we are simply killing our

yourself and we are simply killing our system in 1850 humanity weighed 50

system in 1850 humanity weighed 50

system in 1850 humanity weighed 50 million tons today humanity weighs 300

million tons today humanity weighs 300

million tons today humanity weighs 300 million tons and our livestock and our

million tons and our livestock and our

million tons and our livestock and our pets weigh 700 million tons and wild

pets weigh 700 million tons and wild

pets weigh 700 million tons and wild nature weighs only a fraction of what it

nature weighs only a fraction of what it

nature weighs only a fraction of what it weighed in 1850 looked at in this way

weighed in 1850 looked at in this way

weighed in 1850 looked at in this way our cars our 401ks our bank accounts our

our cars our 401ks our bank accounts our

our cars our 401ks our bank accounts our violence and our toys from China are

violence and our toys from China are

violence and our toys from China are just a very very complicated form of

just a very very complicated form of

just a very very complicated form of suicide dude man why would beings made

suicide dude man why would beings made

suicide dude man why would beings made of ocean and and sunlight commit suicide

of ocean and and sunlight commit suicide

of ocean and and sunlight commit suicide well here’s the thing we’re not going to

well here’s the thing we’re not going to

well here’s the thing we’re not going to okay as we don’t believe that we’re

okay as we don’t believe that we’re

okay as we don’t believe that we’re Network being but but we are when an

Network being but but we are when an

Network being but but we are when an alcoholic hits rock bottom

alcoholic hits rock bottom

alcoholic hits rock bottom that is the only time that he can

that is the only time that he can

that is the only time that he can actually gain some wisdom and change you

actually gain some wisdom and change you

actually gain some wisdom and change you know when I was young I needed some

know when I was young I needed some

know when I was young I needed some fucking wisdom I needed somebody to say

fucking wisdom I needed somebody to say

fucking wisdom I needed somebody to say hey stop it stop believing in nonsense

hey stop it stop believing in nonsense

hey stop it stop believing in nonsense anger and separation is not a way to

anger and separation is not a way to

anger and separation is not a way to live life move

live life move

live life move from complexity towards complexity and

from complexity towards complexity and

from complexity towards complexity and relationship and you should too in 30

relationship and you should too in 30

relationship and you should too in 30 years we may have more plastic in the

years we may have more plastic in the

years we may have more plastic in the ocean than fish what we are doing is

ocean than fish what we are doing is

ocean than fish what we are doing is decreasing the biological complexity of

decreasing the biological complexity of

decreasing the biological complexity of the planet Earth it’s not just our

the planet Earth it’s not just our

the planet Earth it’s not just our president we are actually making the

president we are actually making the

president we are actually making the planet stupider now here’s here’s the

planet stupider now here’s here’s the

planet stupider now here’s here’s the interesting thing this change that’s

interesting thing this change that’s

interesting thing this change that’s coming is inevitable for the first time

coming is inevitable for the first time

coming is inevitable for the first time in human history we have to look at our

in human history we have to look at our

in human history we have to look at our communal footprint we have to find

communal footprint we have to find

communal footprint we have to find communal safety ok we can no longer

communal safety ok we can no longer

communal safety ok we can no longer reach for our individual power and the

reach for our individual power and the

reach for our individual power and the interesting thing is we have no choice

interesting thing is we have no choice

interesting thing is we have no choice and this is new and this is good we need

and this is new and this is good we need

and this is new and this is good we need to give our kids permission to hear the

to give our kids permission to hear the

to give our kids permission to hear the call of the planet you know we could

call of the planet you know we could

call of the planet you know we could wait till we hit rock bottom you know

wait till we hit rock bottom you know

wait till we hit rock bottom you know it’s coming

it’s coming

it’s coming we know this everybody knows it in their

we know this everybody knows it in their

we know this everybody knows it in their guts it’s coming or we could end

guts it’s coming or we could end

guts it’s coming or we could end disconnection now in my work with a live

disconnection now in my work with a live

disconnection now in my work with a live inside what are we doing we’re taking

inside what are we doing we’re taking

inside what are we doing we’re taking we’re taking young kids and we’re asking

we’re taking young kids and we’re asking

we’re taking young kids and we’re asking them to sit in front of elders with

them to sit in front of elders with

them to sit in front of elders with dementia and and wake them up to face

dementia and and wake them up to face

dementia and and wake them up to face death with courage to to change

death with courage to to change

death with courage to to change I’ve watched I’ve seen this a hundred

I’ve watched I’ve seen this a hundred

I’ve watched I’ve seen this a hundred times I was in Mexico City yesterday I

times I was in Mexico City yesterday I

times I was in Mexico City yesterday I saw elders there who were so depressed

saw elders there who were so depressed

saw elders there who were so depressed and then these young kids came in and

and then these young kids came in and

and then these young kids came in and gave them their music and sat with them

gave them their music and sat with them

gave them their music and sat with them and they their health began to rise and

and they their health began to rise and

and they their health began to rise and they they they died but instead of dying

they they they died but instead of dying

they they they died but instead of dying in despair they died happy and I was

in despair they died happy and I was

in despair they died happy and I was sitting there in my hotel room last

sitting there in my hotel room last

sitting there in my hotel room last night and I’m like holy shit Wow hey

night and I’m like holy shit Wow hey

night and I’m like holy shit Wow hey that’s something so

that’s something so

that’s something so here’s here’s my little and last insight

here’s here’s my little and last insight

here’s here’s my little and last insight is that loneliness I grew up thinking

is that loneliness I grew up thinking

is that loneliness I grew up thinking loneliness was a condition that all of

loneliness was a condition that all of

loneliness was a condition that all of us had to endure right well I don’t

us had to endure right well I don’t

us had to endure right well I don’t think that anymore

think that anymore

think that anymore I think loneliness is a disease a

I think loneliness is a disease a

I think loneliness is a disease a disease of disconnection that we created

disease of disconnection that we created

disease of disconnection that we created and we can cure how well I say follow

and we can cure how well I say follow

and we can cure how well I say follow empathy and music or anything else that

empathy and music or anything else that

empathy and music or anything else that you can find that goes back to the roots

you can find that goes back to the roots

you can find that goes back to the roots of life you know and I say reject

of life you know and I say reject

of life you know and I say reject separation and control move towards

separation and control move towards

separation and control move towards complexity and relationship and become

complexity and relationship and become

complexity and relationship and become the biosphere the it’s not the anther of

the biosphere the it’s not the anther of

the biosphere the it’s not the anther of caen age it’s the biosphere age that we

caen age it’s the biosphere age that we

caen age it’s the biosphere age that we have to create so if you can end your

have to create so if you can end your

have to create so if you can end your own loneliness and the loneliness of the

own loneliness and the loneliness of the

own loneliness and the loneliness of the planet I think that that is a proper

planet I think that that is a proper

planet I think that that is a proper ambition for you for you walking oceans

ambition for you for you walking oceans

ambition for you for you walking oceans filled with the light of the Sun thank

filled with the light of the Sun thank

filled with the light of the Sun thank you

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