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All Monsters are Human | Karl O’Connor | TEDxGriffithCollege


since 2009 I’ve seen some amazing things

since 2009 I’ve seen some amazing things happen in my workspace I seen grown men

happen in my workspace I seen grown men

happen in my workspace I seen grown men cry laugh push their loved ones in the

cry laugh push their loved ones in the

cry laugh push their loved ones in the way of danger the hope of saving

way of danger the hope of saving

way of danger the hope of saving themselves I’ve seen women fall to their

themselves I’ve seen women fall to their

themselves I’ve seen women fall to their knees and refused to go any further but

knees and refused to go any further but

knees and refused to go any further but a clown tries to control them I’ve seen

a clown tries to control them I’ve seen

a clown tries to control them I’ve seen people wet themselves would fear they

people wet themselves would fear they

people wet themselves would fear they probably hadn’t comprehended what they

probably hadn’t comprehended what they

probably hadn’t comprehended what they had just done why why do we put

had just done why why do we put

had just done why why do we put ourselves in the way of uncontrollable

ourselves in the way of uncontrollable

ourselves in the way of uncontrollable fear and Paige be afraid if this is the

fear and Paige be afraid if this is the

fear and Paige be afraid if this is the kind of reaction we’re going to have I’m

kind of reaction we’re going to have I’m

kind of reaction we’re going to have I’m going to show you some slides of people

going to show you some slides of people

going to show you some slides of people with genuine fear reactions in why want

with genuine fear reactions in why want

with genuine fear reactions in why want this

I can’t tell you what they’re afraid of

I can’t tell you what they’re afraid of or what they reacting to but I can tell

or what they reacting to but I can tell

or what they reacting to but I can tell me that it is a genuine reaction most of

me that it is a genuine reaction most of

me that it is a genuine reaction most of us can remember our first real feelings

us can remember our first real feelings

us can remember our first real feelings of real fear when I was 12 years old my

of real fear when I was 12 years old my

of real fear when I was 12 years old my parents entered me into singing

parents entered me into singing

parents entered me into singing competition it wasn’t really an ambition

competition it wasn’t really an ambition

competition it wasn’t really an ambition of mine but I said hey given a shot and

of mine but I said hey given a shot and

of mine but I said hey given a shot and they practiced for weeks on energy with

they practiced for weeks on energy with

they practiced for weeks on energy with a neighbor who played the piano I

a neighbor who played the piano I

a neighbor who played the piano I thought that I was getting better as and

thought that I was getting better as and

thought that I was getting better as and I was quietly confident on the way to

I was quietly confident on the way to

I was quietly confident on the way to the competition I could feel the

the competition I could feel the

the competition I could feel the pressure of wanting to impress my

pressure of wanting to impress my

pressure of wanting to impress my teacher and my parents we sat in the

teacher and my parents we sat in the

teacher and my parents we sat in the packed Hall full of strangers waiting

packed Hall full of strangers waiting

packed Hall full of strangers waiting for any checks to do their parent the

for any checks to do their parent the

for any checks to do their parent the crowd would roar would applause every

crowd would roar would applause every

crowd would roar would applause every time somebody would finish their act in

time somebody would finish their act in

time somebody would finish their act in my mind the crowd was a monster that in

my mind the crowd was a monster that in

my mind the crowd was a monster that in some way would be follow me because

some way would be follow me because

some way would be follow me because maybe my act wouldn’t be good enough for

maybe my act wouldn’t be good enough for

maybe my act wouldn’t be good enough for their approval and so I began to panic

their approval and so I began to panic

their approval and so I began to panic when it came from my turn to the

when it came from my turn to the

when it came from my turn to the backstage I could barely get out of my

backstage I could barely get out of my

backstage I could barely get out of my seat so paralyzed by fear my dad came

seat so paralyzed by fear my dad came

seat so paralyzed by fear my dad came would be backstage and I told him I no

would be backstage and I told him I no

would be backstage and I told him I no longer wanted to do it my fear had

longer wanted to do it my fear had

longer wanted to do it my fear had conquered me to shame

conquered me to shame

conquered me to shame this crowd monster created by my own

this crowd monster created by my own

this crowd monster created by my own brain had prevented me from doing

brain had prevented me from doing

brain had prevented me from doing something I knew very well I could do

something I knew very well I could do

something I knew very well I could do when we don’t conquer our fears our

when we don’t conquer our fears our

when we don’t conquer our fears our inner fear monster rules it tribes on

inner fear monster rules it tribes on

inner fear monster rules it tribes on our nerves and get stronger each time we

our nerves and get stronger each time we

our nerves and get stronger each time we let it win the back not many experiences

let it win the back not many experiences

let it win the back not many experiences in life can trigger our fight-or-flight

in life can trigger our fight-or-flight

in life can trigger our fight-or-flight emotions in a safe environment roller

emotions in a safe environment roller

emotions in a safe environment roller coasters maybe one skydive in order for

coasters maybe one skydive in order for

coasters maybe one skydive in order for some people it might be the dreaded fear

some people it might be the dreaded fear

some people it might be the dreaded fear after a night out for me I wanted to

after a night out for me I wanted to

after a night out for me I wanted to create a haunted house called the

create a haunted house called the

create a haunted house called the nightmare I wanted to create an immense

nightmare I wanted to create an immense

nightmare I wanted to create an immense immersive live-action walk through

immersive live-action walk through

immersive live-action walk through experience and put people inside of

experience and put people inside of

experience and put people inside of their own real-life horror movie you see

their own real-life horror movie you see

their own real-life horror movie you see in my workplace it makes perfect sense

in my workplace it makes perfect sense

in my workplace it makes perfect sense that we would try to recreate Fear few

that we would try to recreate Fear few

that we would try to recreate Fear few of the motions as much as possible the

of the motions as much as possible the

of the motions as much as possible the show is the one that is in complete

show is the one that is in complete

show is the one that is in complete control at all times not the audience

control at all times not the audience

control at all times not the audience and this adds to the feelings of danger

and this adds to the feelings of danger

and this adds to the feelings of danger and vulnerability you can sign the

and vulnerability you can sign the

and vulnerability you can sign the participants mind see me turn screams of

participants mind see me turn screams of

participants mind see me turn screams of terror into screams of joy well still

terror into screams of joy well still

terror into screams of joy well still mostly screams of terror so why do we do

mostly screams of terror so why do we do

mostly screams of terror so why do we do it why do we put ourselves in the way of

it why do we put ourselves in the way of

it why do we put ourselves in the way of fear it’s a combination of many

fear it’s a combination of many

fear it’s a combination of many different things it’s the adrenaline

different things it’s the adrenaline

different things it’s the adrenaline rushes the excitement the nervous

rushes the excitement the nervous

rushes the excitement the nervous anticipation the nichrome is a place

anticipation the nichrome is a place

anticipation the nichrome is a place where it’s acceptable to scream in

where it’s acceptable to scream in

where it’s acceptable to scream in company and have an emotional response

company and have an emotional response

company and have an emotional response with others either laughing or crying

with others either laughing or crying

with others either laughing or crying not something we would do in everyday

not something we would do in everyday

not something we would do in everyday life we don’t go screaming down the

life we don’t go screaming down the

life we don’t go screaming down the aisle as we do the weekly shopper even

aisle as we do the weekly shopper even

aisle as we do the weekly shopper even the most emotionally guarded people lose

the most emotionally guarded people lose

the most emotionally guarded people lose their veil of strength and react in a

their veil of strength and react in a

their veil of strength and react in a wide variety of uncharacteristic ways

wide variety of uncharacteristic ways

wide variety of uncharacteristic ways when they’re afraid our body produces

when they’re afraid our body produces

when they’re afraid our body produces chemicals that change the way we think

chemicals that change the way we think

chemicals that change the way we think and act when under stressful

and act when under stressful

and act when under stressful circumstances

circumstances

circumstances and of course fear is different for you

and of course fear is different for you

and of course fear is different for you everyone deals with it in slightly

everyone deals with it in slightly

everyone deals with it in slightly different ways some will laugh office

different ways some will laugh office

different ways some will laugh office care so we’ll cry some will fall to

care so we’ll cry some will fall to

care so we’ll cry some will fall to their knees so we’re wrong so may become

their knees so we’re wrong so may become

their knees so we’re wrong so may become violent it happens it’s a defensive

violent it happens it’s a defensive

violent it happens it’s a defensive mechanism and it’s not always the

mechanism and it’s not always the

mechanism and it’s not always the stereotypical tough guy either that

stereotypical tough guy either that

stereotypical tough guy either that doesn’t use usually the girls cowering

doesn’t use usually the girls cowering

doesn’t use usually the girls cowering in the corner we don’t know how we’re

in the corner we don’t know how we’re

in the corner we don’t know how we’re going to react until we are convinced

going to react until we are convinced

going to react until we are convinced we’re in danger and this is when our

we’re in danger and this is when our

we’re in danger and this is when our fight-or-flight cakes in the microwave

fight-or-flight cakes in the microwave

fight-or-flight cakes in the microwave strips you of your pretense your social

strips you of your pretense your social

strips you of your pretense your social script it invades your personal space we

script it invades your personal space we

script it invades your personal space we want to crawl inside your head play

want to crawl inside your head play

want to crawl inside your head play around a little and then leave you

around a little and then leave you

around a little and then leave you wondering how we did it the haunt itself

wondering how we did it the haunt itself

wondering how we did it the haunt itself is full of strange beings and monsters

is full of strange beings and monsters

is full of strange beings and monsters sort of an extreme version of everyday

sort of an extreme version of everyday

sort of an extreme version of everyday life the questionable sanity unknown

life the questionable sanity unknown

life the questionable sanity unknown motives of these strangers instills fear

motives of these strangers instills fear

motives of these strangers instills fear in anybody who comes to the show of

in anybody who comes to the show of

in anybody who comes to the show of course a clown wielding a chainsaw does

course a clown wielding a chainsaw does

course a clown wielding a chainsaw does the start to let the fear anybody might

the start to let the fear anybody might

the start to let the fear anybody might have in the stranger this is called

have in the stranger this is called

have in the stranger this is called coulrophobia fear of clowns something

coulrophobia fear of clowns something

coulrophobia fear of clowns something that has gotten awful lot of press in

that has gotten awful lot of press in

that has gotten awful lot of press in the last number of years again not

the last number of years again not

the last number of years again not probably not held by our accountants

probably not held by our accountants

probably not held by our accountants mistakenly going into a school yard

mistakenly going into a school yard

mistakenly going into a school yard during lunchtime which we are very sorry

during lunchtime which we are very sorry

during lunchtime which we are very sorry but people stated as their number one

but people stated as their number one

but people stated as their number one fear our people really worried that

fear our people really worried that

fear our people really worried that account is going to jump out from around

account is going to jump out from around

account is going to jump out from around corner any stage is it just a populist

corner any stage is it just a populist

corner any stage is it just a populist trend the current view point i would say

trend the current view point i would say

trend the current view point i would say that people probably have far more

that people probably have far more

that people probably have far more realistic fears that they probably don’t

realistic fears that they probably don’t

realistic fears that they probably don’t even realize when I was younger I had a

even realize when I was younger I had a

even realize when I was younger I had a fear of strangers the scientific

fear of strangers the scientific

fear of strangers the scientific is called anthropo fabia it’s an extreme

is called anthropo fabia it’s an extreme

is called anthropo fabia it’s an extreme form of shyness timidity and social

form of shyness timidity and social

form of shyness timidity and social phobia I’m sure how many people have

phobia I’m sure how many people have

phobia I’m sure how many people have social phobias these days it would

social phobias these days it would

social phobias these days it would manifest itself in uncontrollable

manifest itself in uncontrollable

manifest itself in uncontrollable blushing awkwardness and an uneasiness

blushing awkwardness and an uneasiness

blushing awkwardness and an uneasiness in social situations I’m sure a lot of

in social situations I’m sure a lot of

in social situations I’m sure a lot of people can relate to this and I’m sure a

people can relate to this and I’m sure a

people can relate to this and I’m sure a lot of people can relate to the idea of

lot of people can relate to the idea of

lot of people can relate to the idea of a drop or phobia fear of strangers so

a drop or phobia fear of strangers so

a drop or phobia fear of strangers so the very idea of going into a darkened

the very idea of going into a darkened

the very idea of going into a darkened maze full of strangers who are wielding

maze full of strangers who are wielding

maze full of strangers who are wielding chainsaws and weapons and covered in

chainsaws and weapons and covered in

chainsaws and weapons and covered in blood may not be the greatest idea for

blood may not be the greatest idea for

blood may not be the greatest idea for some people the monsters in our hearts

some people the monsters in our hearts

some people the monsters in our hearts of course are just people dressed up

of course are just people dressed up

of course are just people dressed up I’ll be a shin fairly convincing makeup

I’ll be a shin fairly convincing makeup

I’ll be a shin fairly convincing makeup and costumes but our brain convinces us

and costumes but our brain convinces us

and costumes but our brain convinces us that it’s real and our brain becomes our

that it’s real and our brain becomes our

that it’s real and our brain becomes our worst enemy you start thinking is the

worst enemy you start thinking is the

worst enemy you start thinking is the chainsaw real is this make real will

chainsaw real is this make real will

chainsaw real is this make real will they drag asunder abandon their will

they drag asunder abandon their will

they drag asunder abandon their will they lock us in a closet our brain

they lock us in a closet our brain

they lock us in a closet our brain tricks us and lateral thinking goes out

tricks us and lateral thinking goes out

tricks us and lateral thinking goes out the window sometimes the fear we build

the window sometimes the fear we build

the window sometimes the fear we build up with our own mind can be far worse

up with our own mind can be far worse

up with our own mind can be far worse than the reality of what we are afraid

than the reality of what we are afraid

than the reality of what we are afraid of in the first place when customers

of in the first place when customers

of in the first place when customers make it true the haunt the energy and

make it true the haunt the energy and

make it true the haunt the energy and relief

relief

relief they are conquering their fear and feel

they are conquering their fear and feel

they are conquering their fear and feel an enormous sense of accomplishment it’s

an enormous sense of accomplishment it’s

an enormous sense of accomplishment it’s like a badge of honor and it boosts your

like a badge of honor and it boosts your

like a badge of honor and it boosts your self-esteem we put ourselves in the way

self-esteem we put ourselves in the way

self-esteem we put ourselves in the way of fear because we secretly love feeling

of fear because we secretly love feeling

of fear because we secretly love feeling but only when we know deep down we will

but only when we know deep down we will

but only when we know deep down we will survive the trip it makes us feel alive

survive the trip it makes us feel alive

survive the trip it makes us feel alive and so we embrace it for our own

and so we embrace it for our own

and so we embrace it for our own enjoyment you can choose to feel

enjoyment you can choose to feel

enjoyment you can choose to feel inspired by your fears and use the

inspired by your fears and use the

inspired by your fears and use the emotion as a positive to push yourself

emotion as a positive to push yourself

emotion as a positive to push yourself further beyond your own comfort zone and

further beyond your own comfort zone and

further beyond your own comfort zone and each time you do this grow as an

each time you do this grow as an

each time you do this grow as an individual don’t let your inner fear

individual don’t let your inner fear

individual don’t let your inner fear monster control your if we give it far

monster control your if we give it far

monster control your if we give it far too much thought and attention as it is

too much thought and attention as it is

too much thought and attention as it is much like the twelve-year with me who

much like the twelve-year with me who

much like the twelve-year with me who would sing in front of the crowd

would sing in front of the crowd

would sing in front of the crowd monsters of course are all created by

monsters of course are all created by

monsters of course are all created by our minds so next time you hear a sound

our minds so next time you hear a sound

our minds so next time you hear a sound in the middle of the night you begin to

in the middle of the night you begin to

in the middle of the night you begin to feel afraid just pull up the blankets

feel afraid just pull up the blankets

feel afraid just pull up the blankets close your eyes relax and just remember

close your eyes relax and just remember

close your eyes relax and just remember that all monsters are human and then all

that all monsters are human and then all

that all monsters are human and then all monsters

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