Addiction amongst Teenage | Bhupi Singh | TEDxGGSIPU

I was an addict and my addiction was not

I was an addict and my addiction was not real substance but emotional dependence

real substance but emotional dependence

real substance but emotional dependence when a close family member became

when a close family member became

when a close family member became addicted to substance my favorite

addicted to substance my favorite

addicted to substance my favorite pastime became monitoring they’re also a

pastime became monitoring they’re also a

pastime became monitoring they’re also a part of my emotional dependency when

part of my emotional dependency when

part of my emotional dependency when their substance abuse and addictive

their substance abuse and addictive

their substance abuse and addictive patterns growing by the day

patterns growing by the day

patterns growing by the day my addiction of our thinking also green

my addiction of our thinking also green

my addiction of our thinking also green whether addictions the entire family

whether addictions the entire family

whether addictions the entire family became a dysfunctional I began living on

became a dysfunctional I began living on

became a dysfunctional I began living on an emotional roller coaster with a flood

an emotional roller coaster with a flood

an emotional roller coaster with a flood of embarrassment guilt anger low

of embarrassment guilt anger low

of embarrassment guilt anger low self-esteem and zero self-worth I

self-esteem and zero self-worth I

self-esteem and zero self-worth I protected my made excuses for their

protected my made excuses for their

protected my made excuses for their behavior I protected my dick covered

behavior I protected my dick covered

behavior I protected my dick covered their nests their mistakes my

their nests their mistakes my

their nests their mistakes my preoccupation was similar to the ethics

preoccupation was similar to the ethics

preoccupation was similar to the ethics obsession with substance I forgot who I

obsession with substance I forgot who I

obsession with substance I forgot who I was and what my needs were I failed

was and what my needs were I failed

was and what my needs were I failed miserably in all aspects of my life I’d

miserably in all aspects of my life I’d

miserably in all aspects of my life I’d rather self-destruction patterns engaged

rather self-destruction patterns engaged

rather self-destruction patterns engaged in blame game and took no account of

in blame game and took no account of

in blame game and took no account of editing off my behavior of my actions my

editing off my behavior of my actions my

editing off my behavior of my actions my head was always filled with negative

head was always filled with negative

head was always filled with negative thoughts that kept away the guidance my

thoughts that kept away the guidance my

thoughts that kept away the guidance my inner voice was offered it took a lot of

inner voice was offered it took a lot of

inner voice was offered it took a lot of suffering for me to realize that I

suffering for me to realize that I

suffering for me to realize that I needed help now and a hope of turning my

needed help now and a hope of turning my

needed help now and a hope of turning my life around completely was born

life around completely was born

life around completely was born I learned that addiction is a family

I learned that addiction is a family

I learned that addiction is a family disease and I was no less often

disease and I was no less often

disease and I was no less often addictive than the one living on of

addictive than the one living on of

addictive than the one living on of substance I was feeding on negative

substance I was feeding on negative

substance I was feeding on negative energy as much as as other using the

energy as much as as other using the

energy as much as as other using the substance addiction is not necessarily

substance addiction is not necessarily

substance addiction is not necessarily to a substance but it could come in

to a substance but it could come in

to a substance but it could come in mainly other forms like depression over

mainly other forms like depression over

mainly other forms like depression over thinking over eating society dances

thinking over eating society dances

thinking over eating society dances emotional dependency who never you this

emotional dependency who never you this

emotional dependency who never you this would be your story or some of you know

would be your story or some of you know

would be your story or some of you know maybe you are still in between in

maybe you are still in between in

maybe you are still in between in somewhere or maybe this has never

somewhere or maybe this has never

somewhere or maybe this has never happened to you when I was told this

happened to you when I was told this

happened to you when I was told this story I became more curious to

story I became more curious to

story I became more curious to understand what addiction was and how it

understand what addiction was and how it

understand what addiction was and how it becomes fairly disease as social worker

becomes fairly disease as social worker

becomes fairly disease as social worker and theta mica I learned a lot about

and theta mica I learned a lot about

and theta mica I learned a lot about addiction and addictive patterns while I

addiction and addictive patterns while I

addiction and addictive patterns while I was working with the slum kids and

was working with the slum kids and

was working with the slum kids and theatre professionals these long kids

theatre professionals these long kids

theatre professionals these long kids would buy the solution for a negligible

would buy the solution for a negligible

would buy the solution for a negligible amount and pour it onto their

amount and pour it onto their

amount and pour it onto their handkerchief and sniff it one by month I

handkerchief and sniff it one by month I

handkerchief and sniff it one by month I made successful attempts to create

made successful attempts to create

made successful attempts to create awareness about addiction through

awareness about addiction through

awareness about addiction through theatre and workshop with these kids

theatre and workshop with these kids

theatre and workshop with these kids the three major traits of an addiction

the three major traits of an addiction

the three major traits of an addiction and addictive personality our

and addictive personality our

and addictive personality our justification manipulations and

justification manipulations and

justification manipulations and rationalization seven other traits

rationalization seven other traits

rationalization seven other traits include low boredom threshold

include low boredom threshold

include low boredom threshold low emotional portions higher

low emotional portions higher

low emotional portions higher intelligence

intelligence

intelligence Oshin no self-esteem we become addicts

Oshin no self-esteem we become addicts

Oshin no self-esteem we become addicts because we are not comfortable and happy

because we are not comfortable and happy

because we are not comfortable and happy here

here

here when our present gravity in state of

when our present gravity in state of

when our present gravity in state of mind so we move from here to there the

mind so we move from here to there the

mind so we move from here to there the place of addiction which is more

place of addiction which is more

place of addiction which is more comfortable to deal with but a

comfortable to deal with but a

comfortable to deal with but a delusional state of mind and falses this

delusional state of mind and falses this

delusional state of mind and falses this is where the vicious triangle of the

is where the vicious triangle of the

is where the vicious triangle of the victim dispute and persecutor starts

victim dispute and persecutor starts

victim dispute and persecutor starts with there is a person forever pitting

with there is a person forever pitting

with there is a person forever pitting on himself who feels like he is the

on himself who feels like he is the

on himself who feels like he is the misunderstood one amongst all the first

misunderstood one amongst all the first

misunderstood one amongst all the first step to doing this is to detach from any

step to doing this is to detach from any

step to doing this is to detach from any kind of chaos and negativity it is

kind of chaos and negativity it is

kind of chaos and negativity it is essential to identify the addictive

essential to identify the addictive

essential to identify the addictive patterns in us and to create new and

patterns in us and to create new and

patterns in us and to create new and positive opposite patterns in sounds

positive opposite patterns in sounds

positive opposite patterns in sounds root of the negative and destructive

root of the negative and destructive

root of the negative and destructive ones it is important to build bond and

ones it is important to build bond and

ones it is important to build bond and connections with people you trust and

connections with people you trust and

connections with people you trust and can until your top of any given time it

can until your top of any given time it

can until your top of any given time it is important to talk and to communicate

is important to talk and to communicate

is important to talk and to communicate but most of all it is important to

but most of all it is important to

but most of all it is important to understand and empathize with the

understand and empathize with the

understand and empathize with the addictive personality they have to be

addictive personality they have to be

addictive personality they have to be treated with a lot of love and

treated with a lot of love and

treated with a lot of love and acceptance to be absolutely

acceptance to be absolutely

acceptance to be absolutely non-judgmental with

non-judgmental with

non-judgmental with issues but also to the patient and

issues but also to the patient and

issues but also to the patient and receptive to what such a person is

receptive to what such a person is

receptive to what such a person is sharing with you is the key to being

sharing with you is the key to being

sharing with you is the key to being able to help them but also remember that

able to help them but also remember that

able to help them but also remember that only a person who wants to be held can

only a person who wants to be held can

only a person who wants to be held can be held and they’re also saved you from

be held and they’re also saved you from

be held and they’re also saved you from taking up the rescue error identity by

taking up the rescue error identity by

taking up the rescue error identity by not forcing to save them the company is

not forcing to save them the company is

not forcing to save them the company is a voluntary journey and decision it is

a voluntary journey and decision it is

a voluntary journey and decision it is work in progress and watch it always aim

work in progress and watch it always aim

work in progress and watch it always aim for progress not perfection at the level

for progress not perfection at the level

for progress not perfection at the level of emotional maturity is important to be

of emotional maturity is important to be

of emotional maturity is important to be able to understand what an addict is

able to understand what an addict is

able to understand what an addict is feeling it is also important for you to

feeling it is also important for you to

feeling it is also important for you to be healthy mentally emotionally

be healthy mentally emotionally

be healthy mentally emotionally physically and spiritually to be able to

physically and spiritually to be able to

physically and spiritually to be able to help this person and impart knowledge of

help this person and impart knowledge of

help this person and impart knowledge of what above health means distancing

what above health means distancing

what above health means distancing respecting reprimanding and addicted

respecting reprimanding and addicted

respecting reprimanding and addicted will create more distance I’m all this

will create more distance I’m all this

will create more distance I’m all this balance for him the law of attraction

balance for him the law of attraction

balance for him the law of attraction says that your thought manifest into

says that your thought manifest into

says that your thought manifest into your reality irrespective of them being

your reality irrespective of them being

your reality irrespective of them being a negative or positive the law of

a negative or positive the law of

a negative or positive the law of attraction is the law of the universe

attraction is the law of the universe

attraction is the law of the universe and the universe simply aligns with your

and the universe simply aligns with your

and the universe simply aligns with your thoughts and create what your thoughts

thoughts and create what your thoughts

thoughts and create what your thoughts attract the decision of the fine or a

attract the decision of the fine or a

attract the decision of the fine or a thoughts is ours

thoughts is ours

thoughts is ours addiction is a burning issue and being

addiction is a burning issue and being

addiction is a burning issue and being an educator I would rely to request my

an educator I would rely to request my

an educator I would rely to request my fellow educators in every

fellow educators in every

fellow educators in every to not neglect this issue and to work

to not neglect this issue and to work

to not neglect this issue and to work collectively for the growth of our

collectively for the growth of our

collectively for the growth of our society remember to just be the best

society remember to just be the best

society remember to just be the best version of yourself