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A Short Story of a 19-year-old with Burns, Cuts, & Scratches | Carlos Hernandez | TEDxJWUNorthMiami


who has a burn in here a scratch a scar

who has a burn in here a scratch a scar Wow okay

Wow okay

Wow okay scarred teen let’s go so my story is

scarred teen let’s go so my story is

scarred teen let’s go so my story is about in the 19 years that I’ve lived so

about in the 19 years that I’ve lived so

about in the 19 years that I’ve lived so far I’ve gotten so many injuries where I

far I’ve gotten so many injuries where I

far I’ve gotten so many injuries where I stopped keeping track I stopped counting

stopped keeping track I stopped counting

stopped keeping track I stopped counting I just accepted them as it is it hurts a

I just accepted them as it is it hurts a

I just accepted them as it is it hurts a lot it really does you could either put

lot it really does you could either put

lot it really does you could either put Colgate toothpaste run ice-cold water on

Colgate toothpaste run ice-cold water on

Colgate toothpaste run ice-cold water on a put frozen towel or pretend it’s not

a put frozen towel or pretend it’s not

a put frozen towel or pretend it’s not there because that’s the best thing to

there because that’s the best thing to

there because that’s the best thing to do right sometimes you can look and you

do right sometimes you can look and you

do right sometimes you can look and you can see a scar that wasn’t there and now

can see a scar that wasn’t there and now

can see a scar that wasn’t there and now it’s there and you don’t know what to do

it’s there and you don’t know what to do

it’s there and you don’t know what to do when I was 15 I was cooking before I had

when I was 15 I was cooking before I had

when I was 15 I was cooking before I had my chef’s skills here at school taught

my chef’s skills here at school taught

my chef’s skills here at school taught to me I was risking fish on a hot

to me I was risking fish on a hot

to me I was risking fish on a hot skillet you know what happens with oil

skillet you know what happens with oil

skillet you know what happens with oil and water right I didn’t put the fish

and water right I didn’t put the fish

and water right I didn’t put the fish away from me put towards me and if you

away from me put towards me and if you

away from me put towards me and if you could see me on that day I was like in a

could see me on that day I was like in a

could see me on that day I was like in a mirror right here a whole chest felt

mirror right here a whole chest felt

mirror right here a whole chest felt like the devil himself slapped my chest

like the devil himself slapped my chest

like the devil himself slapped my chest even before that I was six when I was

even before that I was six when I was

even before that I was six when I was scorched with oil

scorched with oil

scorched with oil my sister was cooking chorizo for me my

my sister was cooking chorizo for me my

my sister was cooking chorizo for me my dad laughed my mother helped but in the

dad laughed my mother helped but in the

dad laughed my mother helped but in the end he comforted me in my pain to sleep

end he comforted me in my pain to sleep

end he comforted me in my pain to sleep ever since that I was bound to deal with

ever since that I was bound to deal with

ever since that I was bound to deal with wildfires on the landscape of my son

wildfires on the landscape of my son

wildfires on the landscape of my son tanned skin I don’t know what it is with

tanned skin I don’t know what it is with

tanned skin I don’t know what it is with me and burns but I would never forget

me and burns but I would never forget

me and burns but I would never forget the pains that I’ve dealt with

the pains that I’ve dealt with

the pains that I’ve dealt with throughout the years traumatic or not I

throughout the years traumatic or not I

throughout the years traumatic or not I learned to deal with them

learned to deal with them

learned to deal with them I learned the research behind the skin

I learned the research behind the skin

I learned the research behind the skin and how it heals you without you telling

and how it heals you without you telling

and how it heals you without you telling it no

it no

it no because basically your hospital in is a

because basically your hospital in is a

because basically your hospital in is a hospital the only difference is it

hospital the only difference is it

hospital the only difference is it doesn’t pay anyone it does the job no

doesn’t pay anyone it does the job no

doesn’t pay anyone it does the job no matter what when I was 18 a year ago I

matter what when I was 18 a year ago I

matter what when I was 18 a year ago I was on a roof with my dad working the

was on a roof with my dad working the

was on a roof with my dad working the shingles were three feet long and one

shingles were three feet long and one

shingles were three feet long and one foot wide and as you can imagine march

foot wide and as you can imagine march

foot wide and as you can imagine march through the summer it was a hundred and

through the summer it was a hundred and

through the summer it was a hundred and twenty over we had to wear pants thick

twenty over we had to wear pants thick

twenty over we had to wear pants thick as polar bears and hats wide as palm

as polar bears and hats wide as palm

as polar bears and hats wide as palm trees but that didn’t stop me from

trees but that didn’t stop me from

trees but that didn’t stop me from getting burned the broiling Sun was so

getting burned the broiling Sun was so

getting burned the broiling Sun was so intense it melt the black coating on my

intense it melt the black coating on my

intense it melt the black coating on my gloves I looked at my dad and he looked

gloves I looked at my dad and he looked

gloves I looked at my dad and he looked at me and we both smile as if it’s

at me and we both smile as if it’s

at me and we both smile as if it’s nothing to worry about

nothing to worry about

nothing to worry about it’s nothing but I couldn’t complain I

it’s nothing but I couldn’t complain I

it’s nothing but I couldn’t complain I knew deep down they heard of him as much

knew deep down they heard of him as much

knew deep down they heard of him as much as it hurted me when I was 17 my mom was

as it hurted me when I was 17 my mom was

as it hurted me when I was 17 my mom was cooking tortillas on a flat iron top my

cooking tortillas on a flat iron top my

cooking tortillas on a flat iron top my let’s say oblivious self decided hey it

let’s say oblivious self decided hey it

let’s say oblivious self decided hey it seems cold I placed my hand on it I

seems cold I placed my hand on it I

seems cold I placed my hand on it I didn’t make tortillas for two days a

didn’t make tortillas for two days a

didn’t make tortillas for two days a second degrees scored felt like the

second degrees scored felt like the

second degrees scored felt like the devil himself gave me a high five it was

devil himself gave me a high five it was

devil himself gave me a high five it was the worst pain in my life and she

the worst pain in my life and she

the worst pain in my life and she slapped me for it because she told you

slapped me for it because she told you

slapped me for it because she told you she told me it was hot I didn’t listen

she told me it was hot I didn’t listen

she told me it was hot I didn’t listen to her when I was 13 I experienced my

to her when I was 13 I experienced my

to her when I was 13 I experienced my first heat exhaustion

first heat exhaustion

first heat exhaustion my mother she slapped me that day

my mother she slapped me that day

my mother she slapped me that day because she told me to stay hydrated

because she told me to stay hydrated

because she told me to stay hydrated during the workout I told myself no pain

during the workout I told myself no pain

during the workout I told myself no pain no gain

no gain

no gain she replied as she read my mind you’ll

she replied as she read my mind you’ll

she replied as she read my mind you’ll get the pain you need to gain

get the pain you need to gain

get the pain you need to gain I believed her ever since that and to

I believed her ever since that and to

I believed her ever since that and to this day she is still still telling me

this day she is still still telling me

this day she is still still telling me to stay hydrated no matter what there

to stay hydrated no matter what there

to stay hydrated no matter what there were unforgettable moments where I still

were unforgettable moments where I still

were unforgettable moments where I still remember every detail about a scar a

remember every detail about a scar a

remember every detail about a scar a tissue that broke away because I felt

tissue that broke away because I felt

tissue that broke away because I felt like I could end up in a hospital bed at

like I could end up in a hospital bed at

like I could end up in a hospital bed at any moment I have almost 10 scars on my

any moment I have almost 10 scars on my

any moment I have almost 10 scars on my leg tatted no charge life said I can

leg tatted no charge life said I can

leg tatted no charge life said I can keep track of every single one until a

keep track of every single one until a

keep track of every single one until a story to you I could go on and on and on

story to you I could go on and on and on

story to you I could go on and on and on about how I dealt with it and how I kept

about how I dealt with it and how I kept

about how I dealt with it and how I kept my pain inside because that’s the best

my pain inside because that’s the best

my pain inside because that’s the best thing to do right

pain is a necessity paying is also very

pain is a necessity paying is also very very dramatic my dad has told me

very dramatic my dad has told me

very dramatic my dad has told me countless times that when I was a kid I

countless times that when I was a kid I

countless times that when I was a kid I said go outside without shoes and he

said go outside without shoes and he

said go outside without shoes and he would stop me before I went now unless I

would stop me before I went now unless I

would stop me before I went now unless I had shoes I would could not go out me as

had shoes I would could not go out me as

had shoes I would could not go out me as a kid craving to play sneak out the back

a kid craving to play sneak out the back

a kid craving to play sneak out the back door and hopefully he didn’t see me or

door and hopefully he didn’t see me or

door and hopefully he didn’t see me or out the window one time when I was 13

out the window one time when I was 13

out the window one time when I was 13 the same year I burned myself a sheet

the same year I burned myself a sheet

the same year I burned myself a sheet pan was laid out in the grass that I

pan was laid out in the grass that I

pan was laid out in the grass that I didn’t see and I almost ripped my

didn’t see and I almost ripped my

didn’t see and I almost ripped my Achilles tendon I had 13 stitches that

Achilles tendon I had 13 stitches that

Achilles tendon I had 13 stitches that day and again my mother slapped me

ever since that I put on shoes every

ever since that I put on shoes every time I went outside my parents they

time I went outside my parents they

time I went outside my parents they couldn’t deal with me sometimes they

couldn’t deal with me sometimes they

couldn’t deal with me sometimes they would say I don’t know how they did it I

would say I don’t know how they did it I

would say I don’t know how they did it I don’t know why they told me all these

don’t know why they told me all these

don’t know why they told me all these things but I knew that their experience

things but I knew that their experience

things but I knew that their experience maybe I’ll get somewhere maybe pain

maybe I’ll get somewhere maybe pain

maybe I’ll get somewhere maybe pain called my name too many times on a list

called my name too many times on a list

called my name too many times on a list and I stood up too many times during its

and I stood up too many times during its

and I stood up too many times during its speech

there were times where I felt like I

there were times where I felt like I could give up at any moment at any time

could give up at any moment at any time

could give up at any moment at any time I didn’t know what to do there are times

I didn’t know what to do there are times

I didn’t know what to do there are times where my parents weren’t home and I

where my parents weren’t home and I

where my parents weren’t home and I would knock myself out I guess I would

would knock myself out I guess I would

would knock myself out I guess I would play too much with my brother or I would

play too much with my brother or I would

play too much with my brother or I would play too much with other things that I

play too much with other things that I

play too much with other things that I was not supposed to play with and

was not supposed to play with and

was not supposed to play with and completely completely give up right

completely completely give up right

completely completely give up right there and then I was sometimes feel like

there and then I was sometimes feel like

there and then I was sometimes feel like I was dying or sometimes feel like I am

I was dying or sometimes feel like I am

I was dying or sometimes feel like I am still dying because those traumatic

still dying because those traumatic

still dying because those traumatic events are stuck with me I tell people

events are stuck with me I tell people

events are stuck with me I tell people when they see my scars yeah I know I

when they see my scars yeah I know I

when they see my scars yeah I know I should have done this I should have done

should have done this I should have done

should have done this I should have done that didn’t you see it they said no how

that didn’t you see it they said no how

that didn’t you see it they said no how a few months ago I got burned by a 400

a few months ago I got burned by a 400

a few months ago I got burned by a 400 degree oven door on my left elbow barely

degree oven door on my left elbow barely

degree oven door on my left elbow barely a month in into my job they asked me for

a month in into my job they asked me for

a month in into my job they asked me for work compensate compensation I said no

work compensate compensation I said no

work compensate compensation I said no it’s okay I’m a big boy I should have

it’s okay I’m a big boy I should have

it’s okay I’m a big boy I should have taken it

a few weeks after that I took a sheet

a few weeks after that I took a sheet pan out of the same oven with

pan out of the same oven with

pan out of the same oven with cauliflower on it put it in the kitchen

cauliflower on it put it in the kitchen

cauliflower on it put it in the kitchen window things were moving so fast I

window things were moving so fast I

window things were moving so fast I reached for the utensils in the kitchen

reached for the utensils in the kitchen

reached for the utensils in the kitchen in the sink below the kitchen window and

in the sink below the kitchen window and

in the sink below the kitchen window and next thing you know I got Harry Potter

next thing you know I got Harry Potter

next thing you know I got Harry Potter marks on my forehead and for two months

marks on my forehead and for two months

marks on my forehead and for two months they called me Harry Potter Mexican

they called me Harry Potter Mexican

they called me Harry Potter Mexican that’s the kitchen they told me that’s

that’s the kitchen they told me that’s

that’s the kitchen they told me that’s the way it goes

and out through those experiences I

and out through those experiences I realized that no matter what somehow I

realized that no matter what somehow I

realized that no matter what somehow I didn’t give up I didn’t complain I

didn’t give up I didn’t complain I

didn’t give up I didn’t complain I didn’t tell myself you know what you

didn’t tell myself you know what you

didn’t tell myself you know what you should quit you know what you should

should quit you know what you should

should quit you know what you should just leave you know what just going to

just leave you know what just going to

just leave you know what just going to the hospital and they’ll take care of

the hospital and they’ll take care of

the hospital and they’ll take care of you because your mom’s olive oil wasn’t

you because your mom’s olive oil wasn’t

you because your mom’s olive oil wasn’t good enough I told myself countless

good enough I told myself countless

good enough I told myself countless times they’ll be ok he’ll be fine

times they’ll be ok he’ll be fine

times they’ll be ok he’ll be fine and countless times more than ever I was

and countless times more than ever I was

and countless times more than ever I was kind of right other times I was now I

seen others with scars and tissues

seen others with scars and tissues they’re deformed and broken like when

they’re deformed and broken like when

they’re deformed and broken like when they look at others who are perfectly

they look at others who are perfectly

they look at others who are perfectly fine without any blemishes any bruises I

have too many to count

have too many to count too many to show but I can express

too many to show but I can express

too many to show but I can express myself freely because I know I accept

myself freely because I know I accept

myself freely because I know I accept accepted him as the way they are as a

accepted him as the way they are as a

accepted him as the way they are as a way I have been through it because I’ve

way I have been through it because I’ve

way I have been through it because I’ve dealt with them and I didn’t give up in

dealt with them and I didn’t give up in

dealt with them and I didn’t give up in the end I kept going and going no matter

the end I kept going and going no matter

the end I kept going and going no matter what and not just physically but

what and not just physically but

what and not just physically but mentally spiritually they’re still in my

mentally spiritually they’re still in my

mentally spiritually they’re still in my mind revolving and cycling like a cinema

mind revolving and cycling like a cinema

mind revolving and cycling like a cinema over and over and over and over every

over and over and over and over every

over and over and over and over every time I get one all of them come out and

time I get one all of them come out and

time I get one all of them come out and tell me welcome to the club

you don’t like it I don’t like it but I

you don’t like it I don’t like it but I can lead you in the right way to mend

can lead you in the right way to mend

can lead you in the right way to mend others who deal with it every day or can

others who deal with it every day or can

others who deal with it every day or can lead you in the wrong way and pass it

lead you in the wrong way and pass it

lead you in the wrong way and pass it along because you’re oblivious to what

along because you’re oblivious to what

along because you’re oblivious to what others can handle my mom told me one

others can handle my mom told me one

others can handle my mom told me one time if you ever get punched in the face

time if you ever get punched in the face

time if you ever get punched in the face don’t go straight towards it flow with

don’t go straight towards it flow with

don’t go straight towards it flow with it turn the other cheek I asked her what

it turn the other cheek I asked her what

it turn the other cheek I asked her what about your slaps she did this to me

about your slaps she did this to me

about your slaps she did this to me don’t run away

my father is still working in the

my father is still working in the roofing of stockman brand-new houses

roofing of stockman brand-new houses

roofing of stockman brand-new houses with him on top since the markets back

with him on top since the markets back

with him on top since the markets back on its feet he tells me it never is easy

on its feet he tells me it never is easy

on its feet he tells me it never is easy it will never be easy no matter how much

it will never be easy no matter how much

it will never be easy no matter how much do you tell yourself it’s always harder

do you tell yourself it’s always harder

do you tell yourself it’s always harder each day and every day but that’s a fun

each day and every day but that’s a fun

each day and every day but that’s a fun part I still don’t know what he means by

part I still don’t know what he means by

part I still don’t know what he means by that what’s so fun about it

most of the time I laugh I reminisce I

most of the time I laugh I reminisce I ponder about what burn am I gonna get on

ponder about what burn am I gonna get on

ponder about what burn am I gonna get on my body next no matter how alert I am

my body next no matter how alert I am

my body next no matter how alert I am know how much know no matter how much

know how much know no matter how much

know how much know no matter how much keen I have in my eye

keen I have in my eye

keen I have in my eye anything can happen in life

you’re turning 20 you’re about to hit a

you’re turning 20 you’re about to hit a pinnacle while others 20-year old say

pinnacle while others 20-year old say

pinnacle while others 20-year old say think it’s gonna go by like that next

think it’s gonna go by like that next

think it’s gonna go by like that next thing you know you’re 27 you’re 37 with

thing you know you’re 27 you’re 37 with

thing you know you’re 27 you’re 37 with kids and a wife and a house and a

kids and a wife and a house and a

kids and a wife and a house and a mortgage and oh gosh I’m not afraid but

mortgage and oh gosh I’m not afraid but

mortgage and oh gosh I’m not afraid but I am excited I’m still in pain but I

I am excited I’m still in pain but I

I am excited I’m still in pain but I smile because that’s the best thing to

smile because that’s the best thing to

smile because that’s the best thing to do because Colgate toothpaste is your

do because Colgate toothpaste is your

do because Colgate toothpaste is your best friend for at least 17 years

I just want to say don’t give up even

I just want to say don’t give up even when someone brings you scars you

when someone brings you scars you

when someone brings you scars you scratches you it’s not the end it would

scratches you it’s not the end it would

scratches you it’s not the end it would never be it would be that goes on and

never be it would be that goes on and

never be it would be that goes on and will always go on thank you so much

will always go on thank you so much

will always go on thank you so much [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] [Applause]

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