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A seed of change, transforming and touching lives | Sonia Kulkarni | TEDxSIULavale


really what I want to share is not just

really what I want to share is not just about my running fitness but really that

about my running fitness but really that

about my running fitness but really that one moment in your life which is going

one moment in your life which is going

one moment in your life which is going to be the turning point and how each one

to be the turning point and how each one

to be the turning point and how each one of you like me can become a seed for

of you like me can become a seed for

of you like me can become a seed for change a seed for change to connect

change a seed for change to connect

change a seed for change to connect lives to turn to transform and to touch

lives to turn to transform and to touch

lives to turn to transform and to touch lives I think that is very critical

lives I think that is very critical

lives I think that is very critical because at our you know point in life we

because at our you know point in life we

because at our you know point in life we very think individually you know we

very think individually you know we

very think individually you know we think we have so many struggles or we

think we have so many struggles or we

think we have so many struggles or we have you know world pressures we have

have you know world pressures we have

have you know world pressures we have studies you know we have dreams but it

studies you know we have dreams but it

studies you know we have dreams but it gets limited to that you know and two

gets limited to that you know and two

gets limited to that you know and two years back when of course she very

years back when of course she very

years back when of course she very graciously you know introduced me about

graciously you know introduced me about

graciously you know introduced me about my running and fitness I wasn’t so you

my running and fitness I wasn’t so you

my running and fitness I wasn’t so you know I started my running and fitness

know I started my running and fitness

know I started my running and fitness journey to about two and a half years

journey to about two and a half years

journey to about two and a half years when my young son of eight-and-a-half

when my young son of eight-and-a-half

when my young son of eight-and-a-half years old me mom I wanted to be

years old me mom I wanted to be

years old me mom I wanted to be physically fit when I asked him what do

physically fit when I asked him what do

physically fit when I asked him what do you want from me and that got me

you want from me and that got me

you want from me and that got me thinking and that became the turning

thinking and that became the turning

thinking and that became the turning point in my life and Here I am today as

point in my life and Here I am today as

point in my life and Here I am today as an ambassador of goodwill to promote

an ambassador of goodwill to promote

an ambassador of goodwill to promote health and fitness amongst women and I

health and fitness amongst women and I

health and fitness amongst women and I loved what Neha was saying and why women

loved what Neha was saying and why women

loved what Neha was saying and why women and why health and fitness because it’s

and why health and fitness because it’s

and why health and fitness because it’s so important for us to take a life

so important for us to take a life

so important for us to take a life seriously and this does not exclude the

seriously and this does not exclude the

seriously and this does not exclude the main because I personally believe it’s

main because I personally believe it’s

main because I personally believe it’s he for she you know every man stand up

he for she you know every man stand up

he for she you know every man stand up for the woman every man should be behind

for the woman every man should be behind

for the woman every man should be behind the success of the health and fitness

the success of the health and fitness

the success of the health and fitness for the women because only then the

for the women because only then the

for the women because only then the circle of life is going to get

circle of life is going to get

circle of life is going to get influenced and the women are going to

influenced and the women are going to

influenced and the women are going to come out and take their lives you see

come out and take their lives you see

come out and take their lives you see not that they’re not taking it but you

not that they’re not taking it but you

not that they’re not taking it but you know we don’t spend time we don’t spend

know we don’t spend time we don’t spend

know we don’t spend time we don’t spend time enough time and energy in focusing

time enough time and energy in focusing

time enough time and energy in focusing on ourselves and it’s so important that

on ourselves and it’s so important that

on ourselves and it’s so important that all you young ones including me I’m

all you young ones including me I’m

all you young ones including me I’m still 2ne1 and you know make that

still 2ne1 and you know make that

still 2ne1 and you know make that difference so yes running is important

difference so yes running is important

difference so yes running is important more than running it’s the passion and

more than running it’s the passion and

more than running it’s the passion and it’s the passion that is going and then

it’s the passion that is going and then

it’s the passion that is going and then I’m going to what really talk about why

I’m going to what really talk about why

I’m going to what really talk about why passion because passion over arches

passion because passion over arches

passion because passion over arches everything that we do it gives you that

everything that we do it gives you that

everything that we do it gives you that high to accept who you are to accept

high to accept who you are to accept

high to accept who you are to accept what you want to be and not just you

what you want to be and not just you

what you want to be and not just you know who you want to be but you know

know who you want to be but you know

know who you want to be but you know keep bettering yourself every moment

keep bettering yourself every moment

keep bettering yourself every moment every moment of your life so I’m here

every moment of your life so I’m here

every moment of your life so I’m here today to really co-create with you I’m

today to really co-create with you I’m

today to really co-create with you I’m not here to you know talk or share my

not here to you know talk or share my

not here to you know talk or share my journey I’m here to learn

journey I’m here to learn

journey I’m here to learn as much as you are here to share from me

as much as you are here to share from me

as much as you are here to share from me I’m here to make a difference as much as

I’m here to make a difference as much as

I’m here to make a difference as much as you value in my life and I’m going to be

you value in my life and I’m going to be

you value in my life and I’m going to be here to you know take away a lot not

here to you know take away a lot not

here to you know take away a lot not just leave behind for you so that’s

just leave behind for you so that’s

just leave behind for you so that’s really where I’m coming from and that

really where I’m coming from and that

really where I’m coming from and that rings me to my very favorite topic of do

rings me to my very favorite topic of do

rings me to my very favorite topic of do you want to be a fox so you want to be a

you want to be a fox so you want to be a

you want to be a fox so you want to be a hedgehog Fox I knew most of us will see

hedgehog Fox I knew most of us will see

hedgehog Fox I knew most of us will see a fox why okay if I want to think a

a fox why okay if I want to think a

a fox why okay if I want to think a hedgehog and that’s brilliant

hedgehog and that’s brilliant

hedgehog and that’s brilliant why a fox and via Hedgehog Fox as we all

why a fox and via Hedgehog Fox as we all

why a fox and via Hedgehog Fox as we all know is very sleek cunning beautiful you

know is very sleek cunning beautiful you

know is very sleek cunning beautiful you know always strategizing and Hedgehog is

know always strategizing and Hedgehog is

know always strategizing and Hedgehog is this poor little soul sitting in the

this poor little soul sitting in the

this poor little soul sitting in the corner small you know and not really

corner small you know and not really

corner small you know and not really very attractive but the Hedgehog is the

very attractive but the Hedgehog is the

very attractive but the Hedgehog is the one who knows what he’s best at and to

one who knows what he’s best at and to

one who knows what he’s best at and to defend himself

defend himself

defend himself he’s the one who’s very focused he has a

he’s the one who’s very focused he has a

he’s the one who’s very focused he has a vision the Fox will do everything

vision the Fox will do everything

vision the Fox will do everything possible you know snatch play dead at

possible you know snatch play dead at

possible you know snatch play dead at the end of it he always gets defeated

the end of it he always gets defeated

the end of it he always gets defeated with a nose full of spines that’s where

with a nose full of spines that’s where

with a nose full of spines that’s where I’m coming from be your Hedgehog you

I’m coming from be your Hedgehog you

I’m coming from be your Hedgehog you know learned the way you can be from

know learned the way you can be from

know learned the way you can be from good to great and to be from good to

good to great and to be from good to

good to great and to be from good to great is that one passion that you

great is that one passion that you

great is that one passion that you require in your life if you look at your

require in your life if you look at your

require in your life if you look at your life and if you divide it in three

life and if you divide it in three

life and if you divide it in three circles understand your passion how that

circles understand your passion how that

circles understand your passion how that passion is going to make a difference

passion is going to make a difference

passion is going to make a difference not in not only in your life in others

not in not only in your life in others

not in not only in your life in others life too what is that you’re passionate

life too what is that you’re passionate

life too what is that you’re passionate about why do we do what we do and it is

about why do we do what we do and it is

about why do we do what we do and it is a very deep soul-searching question you

a very deep soul-searching question you

a very deep soul-searching question you know everything that we do today why are

know everything that we do today why are

know everything that we do today why are we doing it is it because we are

we doing it is it because we are

we doing it is it because we are supposed to do it is it because we are

supposed to do it is it because we are

supposed to do it is it because we are it’s mandatory you know this is the

it’s mandatory you know this is the

it’s mandatory you know this is the process of our life we have to do it but

process of our life we have to do it but

process of our life we have to do it but if you dig deeper into it and understand

if you dig deeper into it and understand

if you dig deeper into it and understand why you’re doing what you’re doing

why you’re doing what you’re doing

why you’re doing what you’re doing you’ll always take it to the next level

you’ll always take it to the next level

you’ll always take it to the next level and that’s how running has helped me and

and that’s how running has helped me and

and that’s how running has helped me and has helping a lot of us because it

has helping a lot of us because it

has helping a lot of us because it really opens up it opens up a lot of

really opens up it opens up a lot of

really opens up it opens up a lot of possibilities and infinite opportunities

possibilities and infinite opportunities

possibilities and infinite opportunities for you

for you

for you it opened it opened the whole new world

it opened it opened the whole new world

it opened it opened the whole new world for me and today it keeps me motivated I

for me and today it keeps me motivated I

for me and today it keeps me motivated I wake up at 4:30 in the morning I go for

wake up at 4:30 in the morning I go for

wake up at 4:30 in the morning I go for my run I go go to my office I take care

my run I go go to my office I take care

my run I go go to my office I take care of

of

of kids I come here for a TEDx talk and I

kids I come here for a TEDx talk and I

kids I come here for a TEDx talk and I still have the energy of going because

still have the energy of going because

still have the energy of going because I’m very passionate about something that

I’m very passionate about something that

I’m very passionate about something that I love doing and that passion and then

I love doing and that passion and then

I love doing and that passion and then seeps into all the areas of life whether

seeps into all the areas of life whether

seeps into all the areas of life whether it is you know studying whether it is

it is you know studying whether it is

it is you know studying whether it is work and you will fall in love with your

work and you will fall in love with your

work and you will fall in love with your work you know otherwise life becomes

work you know otherwise life becomes

work you know otherwise life becomes very routine boring you know monotonous

very routine boring you know monotonous

very routine boring you know monotonous and you will always you know find

and you will always you know find

and you will always you know find excuses not to work but yes you will

excuses not to work but yes you will

excuses not to work but yes you will always find a reason and you will never

always find a reason and you will never

always find a reason and you will never give it to 100% best and it’s that

give it to 100% best and it’s that

give it to 100% best and it’s that passion which is going to give you that

passion which is going to give you that

passion which is going to give you that high and it’s only not about being good

high and it’s only not about being good

high and it’s only not about being good or best but how can you better yourself

or best but how can you better yourself

or best but how can you better yourself every moment every moment you’re trying

every moment every moment you’re trying

every moment every moment you’re trying to you know create something for

to you know create something for

to you know create something for yourself which is going to have a

yourself which is going to have a

yourself which is going to have a far-reaching impact on the others too

far-reaching impact on the others too

far-reaching impact on the others too as an ambassador as I keep saying that

as an ambassador as I keep saying that

as an ambassador as I keep saying that you know we went across we we spoke to

you know we went across we we spoke to

you know we went across we we spoke to women we understood the backgrounds they

women we understood the backgrounds they

women we understood the backgrounds they came from it is so inspiring you know

came from it is so inspiring you know

came from it is so inspiring you know what I go through what you go through is

what I go through what you go through is

what I go through what you go through is miniscule in the larger scheme of life

miniscule in the larger scheme of life

miniscule in the larger scheme of life and what the best thing that can happen

and what the best thing that can happen

and what the best thing that can happen is you become more receptive you learn

is you become more receptive you learn

is you become more receptive you learn to accept yourself which very rarely we

to accept yourself which very rarely we

to accept yourself which very rarely we do we very rarely you know accept who we

do we very rarely you know accept who we

do we very rarely you know accept who we are and we always find faults with

are and we always find faults with

are and we always find faults with ourselves especially in you know in our

ourselves especially in you know in our

ourselves especially in you know in our society body shaming is the biggest

society body shaming is the biggest

society body shaming is the biggest issue there is so much of you know

issue there is so much of you know

issue there is so much of you know negativity at ashtray there’s so much of

negativity at ashtray there’s so much of

negativity at ashtray there’s so much of low confidence but the minute you take a

low confidence but the minute you take a

low confidence but the minute you take a step back and he said so what it doesn’t

step back and he said so what it doesn’t

step back and he said so what it doesn’t matter you learn to let it go that’s

matter you learn to let it go that’s

matter you learn to let it go that’s where the difference comes in and I

where the difference comes in and I

where the difference comes in and I think that’s very very important again

think that’s very very important again

think that’s very very important again to rush to realize that you know where

to rush to realize that you know where

to rush to realize that you know where do we want to go how about we headed you

do we want to go how about we headed you

do we want to go how about we headed you know how are we creating that you know a

know how are we creating that you know a

know how are we creating that you know a passion in our lives what is the second

passion in our lives what is the second

passion in our lives what is the second second circle as I say is what are you

second circle as I say is what are you

second circle as I say is what are you best at do we know what really we are

best at do we know what really we are

best at do we know what really we are good at

good at

good at we’re so you know trying to

we’re so you know trying to

we’re so you know trying to procrastinate always and we’re never

procrastinate always and we’re never

procrastinate always and we’re never happy with who we are but it is a very

happy with who we are but it is a very

happy with who we are but it is a very powerful thing there it’s okay not to be

powerful thing there it’s okay not to be

powerful thing there it’s okay not to be best at certain things but it is very

best at certain things but it is very

best at certain things but it is very powerful to be good at certain things

powerful to be good at certain things

powerful to be good at certain things and focus on that you know this

and focus on that you know this

and focus on that you know this particular concept that I’m talking

particular concept that I’m talking

particular concept that I’m talking about the Hedgehog concept was actually

about the Hedgehog concept was actually

about the Hedgehog concept was actually written by Jim Collins in his book good

written by Jim Collins in his book good

written by Jim Collins in his book good to great

to great

to great the reason I’m using the example here is

the reason I’m using the example here is

the reason I’m using the example here is you’re all are going to get in the

you’re all are going to get in the

you’re all are going to get in the corporate world and this book also

corporate world and this book also

corporate world and this book also helped me to tide me over the last

helped me to tide me over the last

helped me to tide me over the last couple of years that have been very

couple of years that have been very

couple of years that have been very challenging and he talked about how

challenging and he talked about how

challenging and he talked about how organizations can be good to great how

organizations can be good to great how

organizations can be good to great how organizations need to focus on the core

organizations need to focus on the core

organizations need to focus on the core areas they are vision and strategize

areas they are vision and strategize

areas they are vision and strategize accordingly and organizations are made

accordingly and organizations are made

accordingly and organizations are made of people and people who make

of people and people who make

of people and people who make organizations and we are those people if

organizations and we are those people if

organizations and we are those people if we apply that concept in our life it’s

we apply that concept in our life it’s

we apply that concept in our life it’s going to make a huge difference it’s

going to make a huge difference it’s

going to make a huge difference it’s going to make a huge difference not only

going to make a huge difference not only

going to make a huge difference not only to those organizations we work for but

to those organizations we work for but

to those organizations we work for but the society at large and then we’re

the society at large and then we’re

the society at large and then we’re gonna have many hedgehogs out there

gonna have many hedgehogs out there

gonna have many hedgehogs out there making a difference I think that’s very

making a difference I think that’s very

making a difference I think that’s very important to understand what are we

important to understand what are we

important to understand what are we driven by who we want to become then how

driven by who we want to become then how

driven by who we want to become then how we can be the better versions of

we can be the better versions of

we can be the better versions of ourselves as I said and that also comes

ourselves as I said and that also comes

ourselves as I said and that also comes from the fact knowing you know your

from the fact knowing you know your

from the fact knowing you know your strengths and weaknesses are we really

strengths and weaknesses are we really

strengths and weaknesses are we really trying to understand I be really trying

trying to understand I be really trying

trying to understand I be really trying to figure out you know what are our

to figure out you know what are our

to figure out you know what are our strengths how are we playing with that

strengths how are we playing with that

strengths how are we playing with that how are we taking it to the next level

how are we taking it to the next level

how are we taking it to the next level like I said you know when we work across

like I said you know when we work across

like I said you know when we work across the women groups across India I come

the women groups across India I come

the women groups across India I come across cancer survivors I can put come

across cancer survivors I can put come

across cancer survivors I can put come across visually impaired girls I come

across visually impaired girls I come

across visually impaired girls I come across baby buying mothers I come across

across baby buying mothers I come across

across baby buying mothers I come across little girls you know have big dreams

little girls you know have big dreams

little girls you know have big dreams and it is very inspiring especially if

and it is very inspiring especially if

and it is very inspiring especially if you see the visually impaired girls

you see the visually impaired girls

you see the visually impaired girls running it’s unbelievable you know and

running it’s unbelievable you know and

running it’s unbelievable you know and they have sighted runners as volunteers

they have sighted runners as volunteers

they have sighted runners as volunteers the sighted runners are actually

the sighted runners are actually

the sighted runners are actually supposed to help them to you know go on

supposed to help them to you know go on

supposed to help them to you know go on the route but they are faster than the

the route but they are faster than the

the route but they are faster than the sighted runners the sighted runners who

sighted runners the sighted runners who

sighted runners the sighted runners who are regular runners you know have a

are regular runners you know have a

are regular runners you know have a better pace but they are enthusiasm they

better pace but they are enthusiasm they

better pace but they are enthusiasm they are zeal they are zeal for life to make

are zeal they are zeal for life to make

are zeal they are zeal for life to make it to the finishing line in a better

it to the finishing line in a better

it to the finishing line in a better time is far supersedes even the sighted

time is far supersedes even the sighted

time is far supersedes even the sighted runners because they are running from

runners because they are running from

runners because they are running from their heart they sing from their heart

their heart they sing from their heart

their heart they sing from their heart they’re running with a passion they’re

they’re running with a passion they’re

they’re running with a passion they’re running to make a difference and they’re

running to make a difference and they’re

running to make a difference and they’re running to show to the world that I can

running to show to the world that I can

running to show to the world that I can do it

do it

do it you know that is again very important

you know that is again very important

you know that is again very important that if you can do it anybody else can

that if you can do it anybody else can

that if you can do it anybody else can do it in April of last year I was in Goa

do it in April of last year I was in Goa

do it in April of last year I was in Goa and I was told that you’re going to run

and I was told that you’re going to run

and I was told that you’re going to run Mumbai to Pune in November by milind

Mumbai to Pune in November by milind

Mumbai to Pune in November by milind soman who of course we all know and we

soman who of course we all know and we

soman who of course we all know and we are all inspired by him and I just

are all inspired by him and I just

are all inspired by him and I just looked at him and I said are you serious

looked at him and I said are you serious

looked at him and I said are you serious I’m sure you’re kidding so you know he’s

I’m sure you’re kidding so you know he’s

I’m sure you’re kidding so you know he’s the ultraman who just did five hundred

the ultraman who just did five hundred

the ultraman who just did five hundred seventeen kilometers in florida and he

seventeen kilometers in florida and he

seventeen kilometers in florida and he said no I’m dead I’m dead serious and I

said no I’m dead I’m dead serious and I

said no I’m dead I’m dead serious and I know you’re going to do it

know you’re going to do it

know you’re going to do it I said no ways I mean I just do 2ne1

I said no ways I mean I just do 2ne1

I said no ways I mean I just do 2ne1 kilometers at the most I have done an

kilometers at the most I have done an

kilometers at the most I have done an ultra run which is morning to evening

ultra run which is morning to evening

ultra run which is morning to evening twelve hours and the longest I have done

twelve hours and the longest I have done

twelve hours and the longest I have done is about 63 kilometers and this is 160

is about 63 kilometers and this is 160

is about 63 kilometers and this is 160 kilometers you’re talking about and over

kilometers you’re talking about and over

kilometers you’re talking about and over the cards says yeah so so I said okay

the cards says yeah so so I said okay

the cards says yeah so so I said okay and it got me thinking and I said okay

and it got me thinking and I said okay

and it got me thinking and I said okay I’ll take up this challenge and that’s

I’ll take up this challenge and that’s

I’ll take up this challenge and that’s how my training started and from April

how my training started and from April

how my training started and from April of last year I began running five

of last year I began running five

of last year I began running five kilometers every day it sounds very easy

kilometers every day it sounds very easy

kilometers every day it sounds very easy but it isn’t because you have to do it

but it isn’t because you have to do it

but it isn’t because you have to do it every day and it’s not fun and I love

every day and it’s not fun and I love

every day and it’s not fun and I love running for fun the pleasure you know

running for fun the pleasure you know

running for fun the pleasure you know putting on your music it’s my me time

putting on your music it’s my me time

putting on your music it’s my me time and then slowly I got into the groove

and then slowly I got into the groove

and then slowly I got into the groove and I said this is very powerful you

and I said this is very powerful you

and I said this is very powerful you know if I can do it at my age with my

know if I can do it at my age with my

know if I can do it at my age with my background it’s a strong message across

background it’s a strong message across

background it’s a strong message across to the people out there that anybody can

to the people out there that anybody can

to the people out there that anybody can do it you know we get so daunted by the

do it you know we get so daunted by the

do it you know we get so daunted by the phione inhibitions

phione inhibitions

phione inhibitions you know our own limitations that we

you know our own limitations that we

you know our own limitations that we can’t do it you know all sorts of things

can’t do it you know all sorts of things

can’t do it you know all sorts of things and I said I’m just gonna pass that

and I said I’m just gonna pass that

and I said I’m just gonna pass that aside let me at least do the training

aside let me at least do the training

aside let me at least do the training and that was the beauty of it the four

and that was the beauty of it the four

and that was the beauty of it the four months that we trained very religiously

months that we trained very religiously

months that we trained very religiously was even better than the ultimate

was even better than the ultimate

was even better than the ultimate journey and the destination because

journey and the destination because

journey and the destination because there’s four months opened us to lot of

there’s four months opened us to lot of

there’s four months opened us to lot of things so then I told Mel and I went

things so then I told Mel and I went

things so then I told Mel and I went back and told him I’m not going to run

back and told him I’m not going to run

back and told him I’m not going to run alone I’m going to make it an all-women

alone I’m going to make it an all-women

alone I’m going to make it an all-women team and three women ran through your

team and three women ran through your

team and three women ran through your facet similar you know profiles all

facet similar you know profiles all

facet similar you know profiles all working women you know mothers of two

working women you know mothers of two

working women you know mothers of two children jobs hectic life lots of

children jobs hectic life lots of

children jobs hectic life lots of challenges you know I have had the

challenges you know I have had the

challenges you know I have had the health background but um I had a friend

health background but um I had a friend

health background but um I had a friend she was having a facial paralysis so we

she was having a facial paralysis so we

she was having a facial paralysis so we have actually

have actually

have actually taken of this to look into the face of

taken of this to look into the face of

taken of this to look into the face of fly face of life and say that you know

fly face of life and say that you know

fly face of life and say that you know it’s okay doesn’t matter we will still

it’s okay doesn’t matter we will still

it’s okay doesn’t matter we will still move on and those three days were so

move on and those three days were so

move on and those three days were so exciting just when I was coming here I

exciting just when I was coming here I

exciting just when I was coming here I was thinking about my two and a half

was thinking about my two and a half

was thinking about my two and a half days of journey of doing 160 kilometers

days of journey of doing 160 kilometers

days of journey of doing 160 kilometers with climbing the guards and the one

with climbing the guards and the one

with climbing the guards and the one message that keep kept coming back to me

message that keep kept coming back to me

message that keep kept coming back to me was keep moving

was keep moving

was keep moving don’t stop however tired you are just

don’t stop however tired you are just

don’t stop however tired you are just keep moving don’t stop even if it you

keep moving don’t stop even if it you

keep moving don’t stop even if it you know run at a slow speed you walk a bit

know run at a slow speed you walk a bit

know run at a slow speed you walk a bit but don’t stop and that’s exactly what

but don’t stop and that’s exactly what

but don’t stop and that’s exactly what kept us going and in that journey you

kept us going and in that journey you

kept us going and in that journey you realize that yes there are people there

realize that yes there are people there

realize that yes there are people there was a crew there are people who want to

was a crew there are people who want to

was a crew there are people who want to support you and they were of course a

support you and they were of course a

support you and they were of course a lot of people were cheering for us but

lot of people were cheering for us but

lot of people were cheering for us but most of the journey you were alone you

most of the journey you were alone you

most of the journey you were alone you know and that’s when things starts

know and that’s when things starts

know and that’s when things starts opening up to you and then you realize

opening up to you and then you realize

opening up to you and then you realize that it is your limitations that really

that it is your limitations that really

that it is your limitations that really stops you if you go beyond that if you

stops you if you go beyond that if you

stops you if you go beyond that if you go beyond your physical and mental

go beyond your physical and mental

go beyond your physical and mental limitations then you know there’s

limitations then you know there’s

limitations then you know there’s absolutely nothing to stop you so just

absolutely nothing to stop you so just

absolutely nothing to stop you so just be unstoppable just be fearless because

be unstoppable just be fearless because

be unstoppable just be fearless because I think that will take you to a

I think that will take you to a

I think that will take you to a different world altogether that will

different world altogether that will

different world altogether that will take you to a different level altogether

take you to a different level altogether

take you to a different level altogether and the third important aspect of this

and the third important aspect of this

and the third important aspect of this Hedgehog concept is which I personally

Hedgehog concept is which I personally

Hedgehog concept is which I personally believe in is what is your value engine

believe in is what is your value engine

believe in is what is your value engine what is that you’re going to drive what

what is that you’re going to drive what

what is that you’re going to drive what is that drives you to stay stay awake

is that drives you to stay stay awake

is that drives you to stay stay awake the longer what is that drives you to

the longer what is that drives you to

the longer what is that drives you to not sleep in the night what is that

not sleep in the night what is that

not sleep in the night what is that drives you to get up early in the

drives you to get up early in the

drives you to get up early in the morning I think you need to figure that

morning I think you need to figure that

morning I think you need to figure that out because it is that value that you

out because it is that value that you

out because it is that value that you want to derive for yourself and that

want to derive for yourself and that

want to derive for yourself and that value that you want to give back it

value that you want to give back it

value that you want to give back it could be financial social emotional

could be financial social emotional

could be financial social emotional psychological it could be anything but

psychological it could be anything but

psychological it could be anything but that is again going to create you know a

that is again going to create you know a

that is again going to create you know a huge impact in your life which will help

huge impact in your life which will help

huge impact in your life which will help you to streamline focus your thoughts

you to streamline focus your thoughts

you to streamline focus your thoughts and you know give it back with a bang

and you know give it back with a bang

and you know give it back with a bang because ultimately if you just keep

because ultimately if you just keep

because ultimately if you just keep doing things without any you know impact

doing things without any you know impact

doing things without any you know impact on it on the people around you on

on it on the people around you on

on it on the people around you on yourself

yourself

yourself you just got to lead a mediocre life

you just got to lead a mediocre life

you just got to lead a mediocre life which is also fine but when you reflect

which is also fine but when you reflect

which is also fine but when you reflect back when you turn around and say is

back when you turn around and say is

back when you turn around and say is that who I was is that what I want to be

that who I was is that what I want to be

that who I was is that what I want to be the answer the immediate answer is going

the answer the immediate answer is going

the answer the immediate answer is going to be

to be

to be a big note and we were all you know

a big note and we were all you know

a big note and we were all you know transitioning from one life to the other

transitioning from one life to the other

transitioning from one life to the other in a period of 60 years and what happens

in a period of 60 years and what happens

in a period of 60 years and what happens one third of our life goes and just

one third of our life goes and just

one third of our life goes and just figuring out who we are and what we want

figuring out who we are and what we want

figuring out who we are and what we want to be and most of us in the audience are

to be and most of us in the audience are

to be and most of us in the audience are at that threshold

at that threshold

at that threshold I have probably spent 2/3 of my life

I have probably spent 2/3 of my life

I have probably spent 2/3 of my life figuring that out but I’m happy that I

figuring that out but I’m happy that I

figuring that out but I’m happy that I still have a 1/3 of my life to you know

still have a 1/3 of my life to you know

still have a 1/3 of my life to you know find my sweet spot as I call it and work

find my sweet spot as I call it and work

find my sweet spot as I call it and work on that sweet spot because that sweet

on that sweet spot because that sweet

on that sweet spot because that sweet spot is going to give you that kind of a

spot is going to give you that kind of a

spot is going to give you that kind of a high that you’ve never faced and it will

high that you’ve never faced and it will

high that you’ve never faced and it will help you to not only be a better person

help you to not only be a better person

help you to not only be a better person or a better human being but you will you

or a better human being but you will you

or a better human being but you will you know go back with a very clear

know go back with a very clear

know go back with a very clear conscience that you have given something

conscience that you have given something

conscience that you have given something back to the society you have made that

back to the society you have made that

back to the society you have made that small difference you have touched one

small difference you have touched one

small difference you have touched one life so today when people write to me

life so today when people write to me

life so today when people write to me and say that you know you post every day

and say that you know you post every day

and say that you know you post every day you run every day we are very inspired

you run every day we are very inspired

you run every day we are very inspired by you that’s my personal best you know

by you that’s my personal best you know

by you that’s my personal best you know in the running parlance as runners

in the running parlance as runners

in the running parlance as runners you’re always trying to show off you

you’re always trying to show off you

you’re always trying to show off you know I’m a runner and we bring in the

know I’m a runner and we bring in the

know I’m a runner and we bring in the running conversation everywhere

running conversation everywhere

running conversation everywhere a personal best is always about timing

a personal best is always about timing

a personal best is always about timing it’s about speed it’s about endurance

it’s about speed it’s about endurance

it’s about speed it’s about endurance but for me that’s not my personal best

but for me that’s not my personal best

but for me that’s not my personal best my personal best is when someone writes

my personal best is when someone writes

my personal best is when someone writes to me and says that you inspired me

to me and says that you inspired me

to me and says that you inspired me i it has made a difference to me in my

i it has made a difference to me in my

i it has made a difference to me in my case it’s mostly health and fitness so

case it’s mostly health and fitness so

case it’s mostly health and fitness so people say I’ve taken up ahead

people say I’ve taken up ahead

people say I’ve taken up ahead I have started running I have done my

I have started running I have done my

I have started running I have done my first 10k I have lost weight I have so I

first 10k I have lost weight I have so I

first 10k I have lost weight I have so I always sell weight loss is just a

always sell weight loss is just a

always sell weight loss is just a byproduct it’s the body fitness

byproduct it’s the body fitness

byproduct it’s the body fitness it’s about being physically and mentally

it’s about being physically and mentally

it’s about being physically and mentally fit it’s about 360 degrees it’s about

fit it’s about 360 degrees it’s about

fit it’s about 360 degrees it’s about you know having a very very positive

you know having a very very positive

you know having a very very positive approach to life then you realize that

approach to life then you realize that

approach to life then you realize that all these small things are very very

all these small things are very very

all these small things are very very insignificant that you are a miniscule

insignificant that you are a miniscule

insignificant that you are a miniscule part in this entire universe and

part in this entire universe and

part in this entire universe and whatever you may be going through is so

whatever you may be going through is so

whatever you may be going through is so insignificant and then you learn to drop

insignificant and then you learn to drop

insignificant and then you learn to drop the word struggle from your life I drop

the word struggle from your life I drop

the word struggle from your life I drop the word struggle I accepted I’m a

the word struggle I accepted I’m a

the word struggle I accepted I’m a single mom I was in denial but this when

single mom I was in denial but this when

single mom I was in denial but this when I started running and people accepted me

I started running and people accepted me

I started running and people accepted me the who we are though you know who I was

the who we are though you know who I was

the who we are though you know who I was without even asking me my background it

without even asking me my background it

without even asking me my background it just dropped my baggage

just dropped my baggage

just dropped my baggage I started opening up I started writing I

I started opening up I started writing I

I started opening up I started writing I started expressing and I said I’m not a

started expressing and I said I’m not a

started expressing and I said I’m not a victim anymore we are not born in this

victim anymore we are not born in this

victim anymore we are not born in this life to be victims of anything nor

life to be victims of anything nor

life to be victims of anything nor circumstances nor people nor victims of

circumstances nor people nor victims of

circumstances nor people nor victims of our own you know thinking and thought

our own you know thinking and thought

our own you know thinking and thought processes we have born here to be

processes we have born here to be

processes we have born here to be fearless and I think this generation all

fearless and I think this generation all

fearless and I think this generation all of you it’s so inspiring that we don’t

of you it’s so inspiring that we don’t

of you it’s so inspiring that we don’t have such opportunities when I was a

have such opportunities when I was a

have such opportunities when I was a student but you know you’re getting this

student but you know you’re getting this

student but you know you’re getting this opportunity to you know learn inspire

opportunity to you know learn inspire

opportunity to you know learn inspire and share and you know have speakers who

and share and you know have speakers who

and share and you know have speakers who are coming and you know explaining to

are coming and you know explaining to

are coming and you know explaining to you and sharing their lives with you and

you and sharing their lives with you and

you and sharing their lives with you and it’s no longer about you know just

it’s no longer about you know just

it’s no longer about you know just academics and marks it’s about having a

academics and marks it’s about having a

academics and marks it’s about having a better quality of life and being a

better quality of life and being a

better quality of life and being a better person

better person

better person you know better version of yourself and

you know better version of yourself and

you know better version of yourself and I think that’s what it is how you going

I think that’s what it is how you going

I think that’s what it is how you going to how will you dare to outdo and that

to how will you dare to outdo and that

to how will you dare to outdo and that out doing is out doing with yourself

out doing is out doing with yourself

out doing is out doing with yourself the outdoing is not out doing with your

the outdoing is not out doing with your

the outdoing is not out doing with your you know friend or batchmate or in the

you know friend or batchmate or in the

you know friend or batchmate or in the corporate world it’s not about your

corporate world it’s not about your

corporate world it’s not about your subordinator it’s not about your boss

subordinator it’s not about your boss

subordinator it’s not about your boss that will happen that will there’s

that will happen that will there’s

that will happen that will there’s nothing stopping you if you’re

nothing stopping you if you’re

nothing stopping you if you’re passionate if you’re in love with your

passionate if you’re in love with your

passionate if you’re in love with your work if you fall in love with your work

work if you fall in love with your work

work if you fall in love with your work every day that will happen it’s about

every day that will happen it’s about

every day that will happen it’s about positive affirmations it’s about how you

positive affirmations it’s about how you

positive affirmations it’s about how you visualize where you want to be it’s

visualize where you want to be it’s

visualize where you want to be it’s about how you are connecting your mind

about how you are connecting your mind

about how you are connecting your mind body and soul how are you in sync in an

body and soul how are you in sync in an

body and soul how are you in sync in an alignment you know with your goals and

alignment you know with your goals and

alignment you know with your goals and your aspirations but if you don’t go

your aspirations but if you don’t go

your aspirations but if you don’t go beyond who you are and if you don’t

beyond who you are and if you don’t

beyond who you are and if you don’t become that seed of change to begin with

become that seed of change to begin with

become that seed of change to begin with in your lives you are actually depriving

in your lives you are actually depriving

in your lives you are actually depriving a whole lot of people out there who you

a whole lot of people out there who you

a whole lot of people out there who you know are waiting to reach out to you and

know are waiting to reach out to you and

know are waiting to reach out to you and you know I always keep saying this that

you know I always keep saying this that

you know I always keep saying this that you know how do you keep yourself

you know how do you keep yourself

you know how do you keep yourself motivated you know what is that fire

motivated you know what is that fire

motivated you know what is that fire with the new that needs to be burning

with the new that needs to be burning

with the new that needs to be burning that is you know taking you to

that is you know taking you to

that is you know taking you to you know again a higher higher level and

you know again a higher higher level and

you know again a higher higher level and that fire comes from the fact that you

that fire comes from the fact that you

that fire comes from the fact that you want to outdo yourself you want to dare

want to outdo yourself you want to dare

want to outdo yourself you want to dare yourself you know as I said I was never

yourself you know as I said I was never

yourself you know as I said I was never a sports person I never thought I would

a sports person I never thought I would

a sports person I never thought I would run and today I did 160 kilometres I’m

run and today I did 160 kilometres I’m

run and today I did 160 kilometres I’m going to do another 42 kilometres on

going to do another 42 kilometres on

going to do another 42 kilometres on Saturday I started doing a lot of things

Saturday I started doing a lot of things

Saturday I started doing a lot of things you know the whole world opened up I got

you know the whole world opened up I got

you know the whole world opened up I got into adventure sports and that’s what it

into adventure sports and that’s what it

into adventure sports and that’s what it does to you your passion

does to you your passion

does to you your passion take you to another level they make you

take you to another level they make you

take you to another level they make you realize it’s like you know a magnet you

realize it’s like you know a magnet you

realize it’s like you know a magnet you know you are passionate about something

know you are passionate about something

know you are passionate about something it could be anything it could be running

it could be anything it could be running

it could be anything it could be running it could be singing it could be music

it could be singing it could be music

it could be singing it could be music and I’m sure a lot of us who are my age

and I’m sure a lot of us who are my age

and I’m sure a lot of us who are my age would realize that you give up and then

would realize that you give up and then

would realize that you give up and then you realize after 20 years have gone ten

you realize after 20 years have gone ten

you realize after 20 years have gone ten years have gone and you know where are

years have gone and you know where are

years have gone and you know where are you and a lot of people actually get

you and a lot of people actually get

you and a lot of people actually get back to the grassroots and a lot of

back to the grassroots and a lot of

back to the grassroots and a lot of people have taken the sabbaticals you

people have taken the sabbaticals you

people have taken the sabbaticals you know want to spend quality of quality

know want to spend quality of quality

know want to spend quality of quality time and quality of life with their

time and quality of life with their

time and quality of life with their families or you know with themselves

families or you know with themselves

families or you know with themselves soul searching but you guys and this is

soul searching but you guys and this is

soul searching but you guys and this is my message to you that you go out in the

my message to you that you go out in the

my message to you that you go out in the world tomorrow don’t give up on that

world tomorrow don’t give up on that

world tomorrow don’t give up on that thank you very much

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