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A Gift and the Present | Shurhea Mitchell | TEDxMaysHighSchool


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[Music] so does anyone remember the very first

so does anyone remember the very first

so does anyone remember the very first gift that you were ever given I don’t

gift that you were ever given I don’t

gift that you were ever given I don’t remember it either but if you’re here

remember it either but if you’re here

remember it either but if you’re here today like I am you still got it

today like I am you still got it

today like I am you still got it the very first gift that you were ever

the very first gift that you were ever

the very first gift that you were ever given as the gift of life right this is

given as the gift of life right this is

given as the gift of life right this is season forgiving and guess what I was

season forgiving and guess what I was

season forgiving and guess what I was born on Christmas Day all right I was

born on Christmas Day all right I was

born on Christmas Day all right I was born on Christmas Day why is that

born on Christmas Day why is that

born on Christmas Day why is that relevant why is that important well

relevant why is that important well

relevant why is that important well because I’m here to talk to you about

because I’m here to talk to you about

because I’m here to talk to you about gifts and about giving and about the

gifts and about giving and about the

gifts and about giving and about the present okay so what better person

present okay so what better person

present okay so what better person didn’t gift herself about that but uh so

didn’t gift herself about that but uh so

didn’t gift herself about that but uh so what is a gift in the literal sense of

what is a gift in the literal sense of

what is a gift in the literal sense of course what is a gift okay a gift is two

course what is a gift okay a gift is two

course what is a gift okay a gift is two things it’s a noun and it’s a verb okay

things it’s a noun and it’s a verb okay

things it’s a noun and it’s a verb okay gift is something that’s given willingly

gift is something that’s given willingly

gift is something that’s given willingly to someone without payment something

to someone without payment something

to someone without payment something free gratis okay it’s also a natural

free gratis okay it’s also a natural

free gratis okay it’s also a natural ability or talent and then as a verb

ability or talent and then as a verb

ability or talent and then as a verb it’s to give something it is the act of

it’s to give something it is the act of

it’s to give something it is the act of giving and let’s talk about the noun

giving and let’s talk about the noun

giving and let’s talk about the noun part okay we all have things that are

part okay we all have things that are

part okay we all have things that are inside of us that we can do and that our

inside of us that we can do and that our

inside of us that we can do and that our natural talents just like the definition

natural talents just like the definition

natural talents just like the definition okay I have some things that I can do

okay I have some things that I can do

okay I have some things that I can do natural talents uh

natural talents uh

natural talents uh you know as the person that was

you know as the person that was

you know as the person that was introducing me said you know I’ve done a

introducing me said you know I’ve done a

introducing me said you know I’ve done a plethora of things over my lifetime

plethora of things over my lifetime

plethora of things over my lifetime these are things that have culminated

these are things that have culminated

these are things that have culminated those from gifts that were given to me

those from gifts that were given to me

those from gifts that were given to me from my ancestors from my parents from

from my ancestors from my parents from

from my ancestors from my parents from my family and from my friends growing up

my family and from my friends growing up

my family and from my friends growing up for instance a gift of music the gift of

for instance a gift of music the gift of

for instance a gift of music the gift of music was given to me

music was given to me

music was given to me I believe from my daddy’s family the

I believe from my daddy’s family the

I believe from my daddy’s family the Mitchells they used to call my daddy’s

Mitchells they used to call my daddy’s

Mitchells they used to call my daddy’s family some musical Mitchell’s and now I

family some musical Mitchell’s and now I

family some musical Mitchell’s and now I am a musical Mitchell I was born old

am a musical Mitchell I was born old

am a musical Mitchell I was born old Christmas Mama’s little gift just like

Christmas Mama’s little gift just like

Christmas Mama’s little gift just like the present I’ve been giving ever since

the present I’ve been giving ever since

the present I’ve been giving ever since it’s been a long a long time coming the

it’s been a long a long time coming the

it’s been a long a long time coming the change myself a little bit but yeah like

change myself a little bit but yeah like

change myself a little bit but yeah like so that’s something that over years and

so that’s something that over years and

so that’s something that over years and years and years of listening to music

years and years of listening to music

years and years of listening to music and being around musical people I had

and being around musical people I had

and being around musical people I had music before I had anything else my mom

music before I had anything else my mom

music before I had anything else my mom used to tell me my daddy they planted

used to tell me my daddy they planted

used to tell me my daddy they planted they had a whole band and they would be

they had a whole band and they would be

they had a whole band and they would be rehearsing in the apartment and I’d be

rehearsing in the apartment and I’d be

rehearsing in the apartment and I’d be sitting there on my daddy’s foot just

sitting there on my daddy’s foot just

sitting there on my daddy’s foot just sitting there bopping up and down but

sitting there bopping up and down but

sitting there bopping up and down but that’s something that was given to me so

that’s something that was given to me so

that’s something that was given to me so it’s something that I have kept around

it’s something that I have kept around

it’s something that I have kept around my whole life the next thing is okay soy

my whole life the next thing is okay soy

my whole life the next thing is okay soy una maestra de español y disfrute o

una maestra de español y disfrute o

una maestra de español y disfrute o compartir mr. gallows commissioned

compartir mr. gallows commissioned

compartir mr. gallows commissioned studentís todo el dia actually Spanish

studentís todo el dia actually Spanish

studentís todo el dia actually Spanish and I teach Spanish and I love it the

and I teach Spanish and I love it the

and I teach Spanish and I love it the reason why is because I get to go into

reason why is because I get to go into

reason why is because I get to go into my classroom every single day and give

my classroom every single day and give

my classroom every single day and give of myself I like to talk a whole lot too

of myself I like to talk a whole lot too

of myself I like to talk a whole lot too I think it now I don’t know what you

I think it now I don’t know what you

I think it now I don’t know what you call that gift a gift of gab I guess but

call that gift a gift of gab I guess but

call that gift a gift of gab I guess but you know at least I get to go in my

you know at least I get to go in my

you know at least I get to go in my classroom and I got somebody to talk to

classroom and I got somebody to talk to

classroom and I got somebody to talk to because when the power of what I have to

because when the power of what I have to

because when the power of what I have to say is transformative then it means

say is transformative then it means

say is transformative then it means something and you know he ever been

something and you know he ever been

something and you know he ever been around somebody they just talking and

around somebody they just talking and

around somebody they just talking and talking they’re talking in the name

talking they’re talking in the name

talking they’re talking in the name right talking loud fan nothing ain’t

right talking loud fan nothing ain’t

right talking loud fan nothing ain’t saying nothing at all but you know but

saying nothing at all but you know but

saying nothing at all but you know but it means something when I can go into my

it means something when I can go into my

it means something when I can go into my classroom because I do like to talk and

classroom because I do like to talk and

classroom because I do like to talk and I do like to share things so when I go

I do like to share things so when I go

I do like to share things so when I go in my classroom every single day I’ve

in my classroom every single day I’ve

in my classroom every single day I’ve got a chance to share something and

got a chance to share something and

got a chance to share something and transform my students through my giving

transform my students through my giving

transform my students through my giving that is why it’s important to share your

that is why it’s important to share your

that is why it’s important to share your gift that is why gifts are important now

gift that is why gifts are important now

gift that is why gifts are important now the next thing is how do you even know

the next thing is how do you even know

the next thing is how do you even know what your gifts are well it’s not a

what your gifts are well it’s not a

what your gifts are well it’s not a great big complicated thing I mean

great big complicated thing I mean

great big complicated thing I mean you’re basically born with it you’re

you’re basically born with it you’re

you’re basically born with it you’re born with them and sometimes you know

born with them and sometimes you know

born with them and sometimes you know you have to keep living life in order

you have to keep living life in order

you have to keep living life in order for you to even find that out because

for you to even find that out because

for you to even find that out because another thing of track and field I’m a

another thing of track and field I’m a

another thing of track and field I’m a track and field coach but before that I

track and field coach but before that I

track and field coach but before that I was attractive field athlete now I

was attractive field athlete now I

was attractive field athlete now I didn’t know that I was fast until

didn’t know that I was fast until

didn’t know that I was fast until because I was in the seventh grade I

because I was in the seventh grade I

because I was in the seventh grade I think it was and one of my fellow

think it was and one of my fellow

think it was and one of my fellow students had invited me out to track

students had invited me out to track

students had invited me out to track practices over the summer and so we got

practices over the summer and so we got

practices over the summer and so we got in the race and it was the 100-meter

in the race and it was the 100-meter

in the race and it was the 100-meter dash got in that race and I got dusted

dash got in that race and I got dusted

dash got in that race and I got dusted so I didn’t think that I was fast

so I didn’t think that I was fast

so I didn’t think that I was fast not yet then when I was a freshman in

not yet then when I was a freshman in

not yet then when I was a freshman in high school I went out for the track

high school I went out for the track

high school I went out for the track team I wasn’t coordinating us I think I

team I wasn’t coordinating us I think I

team I wasn’t coordinating us I think I have rhythm but I’m like dancing and

have rhythm but I’m like dancing and

have rhythm but I’m like dancing and stuff like that it’s definitely not my

stuff like that it’s definitely not my

stuff like that it’s definitely not my gift so yeah I went tried out for

gift so yeah I went tried out for

gift so yeah I went tried out for cheerleading and stuff like that and I

cheerleading and stuff like that and I

cheerleading and stuff like that and I didn’t get it I didn’t make it so I said

didn’t get it I didn’t make it so I said

didn’t get it I didn’t make it so I said I want to do something because I can’t

I want to do something because I can’t

I want to do something because I can’t sit still so I I went out for the track

sit still so I I went out for the track

sit still so I I went out for the track team and the first year that I started

team and the first year that I started

team and the first year that I started running track I was running hurdles my

running track I was running hurdles my

running track I was running hurdles my coach noticed that one I could listen

coach noticed that one I could listen

coach noticed that one I could listen really good but two that I was fast and

really good but two that I was fast and

really good but two that I was fast and I was like what do you mean okay he said

I was like what do you mean okay he said

I was like what do you mean okay he said no he said let me tell you something

no he said let me tell you something

no he said let me tell you something Sharia he said you’re fast he said and

Sharia he said you’re fast he said and

Sharia he said you’re fast he said and I’ma get you there so this coach put me

I’ma get you there so this coach put me

I’ma get you there so this coach put me with another girl who had been the state

with another girl who had been the state

with another girl who had been the state champion she was her junior year it was

champion she was her junior year it was

champion she was her junior year it was her senior year and she ended up being

her senior year and she ended up being

her senior year and she ended up being the state champion and hurdles that year

the state champion and hurdles that year

the state champion and hurdles that year she taught me how to run the hurdles and

she taught me how to run the hurdles and

she taught me how to run the hurdles and by the time I got to be a junior I got

by the time I got to be a junior I got

by the time I got to be a junior I got to be state champion just like she did

to be state champion just like she did

to be state champion just like she did in the hurdles I was fast the hurdles is

in the hurdles I was fast the hurdles is

in the hurdles I was fast the hurdles is what basically allowed me to winning

what basically allowed me to winning

what basically allowed me to winning hurdles basically allowed me to go to

hurdles basically allowed me to go to

hurdles basically allowed me to go to college for free now this is something

college for free now this is something

college for free now this is something that I learned about myself I was fast

that I learned about myself I was fast

that I learned about myself I was fast so now in my life today I’m a coach I’m

so now in my life today I’m a coach I’m

so now in my life today I’m a coach I’m a track coach

a track coach

a track coach when athletes come to me and I’m sharing

when athletes come to me and I’m sharing

when athletes come to me and I’m sharing what I’ve learned the gifts that I was

what I’ve learned the gifts that I was

what I’ve learned the gifts that I was given and that have been cultivated

given and that have been cultivated

given and that have been cultivated cultivated throughout my life now guess

cultivated throughout my life now guess

cultivated throughout my life now guess what my girls track team are state

what my girls track team are state

what my girls track team are state champions so it’s another example of how

champions so it’s another example of how

champions so it’s another example of how sharing my gifts that I was given to my

sharing my gifts that I was given to my

sharing my gifts that I was given to my athletes to my students has basically

athletes to my students has basically

athletes to my students has basically culminated and resulted in something

culminated and resulted in something

culminated and resulted in something great it has transformed the gift that I

great it has transformed the gift that I

great it has transformed the gift that I have given the gifts that were given to

have given the gifts that were given to

have given the gifts that were given to me transform to something great in the

me transform to something great in the

me transform to something great in the present in the present so we’ve done all

present in the present so we’ve done all

present in the present so we’ve done all these things we got talents we got you

these things we got talents we got you

these things we got talents we got you know we’re gifting we’re giving we’re

know we’re gifting we’re giving we’re

know we’re gifting we’re giving we’re just you know embodiment of the oneness

just you know embodiment of the oneness

just you know embodiment of the oneness and the unity of life so does anybody

and the unity of life so does anybody

and the unity of life so does anybody think about why you’re here you think

think about why you’re here you think

think about why you’re here you think about that think about why you’re here

about that think about why you’re here

about that think about why you’re here let me simplify it for you do you know

let me simplify it for you do you know

let me simplify it for you do you know why you’re here today that’s all you

why you’re here today that’s all you

why you’re here today that’s all you should care about because the rest of it

should care about because the rest of it

should care about because the rest of it doesn’t matter the past is done it’s

doesn’t matter the past is done it’s

doesn’t matter the past is done it’s over it’s gone the only thing about the

over it’s gone the only thing about the

over it’s gone the only thing about the past that you should be worried about as

past that you should be worried about as

past that you should be worried about as the good things that you took from it

the good things that you took from it

the good things that you took from it the rest of it is finished future is not

the rest of it is finished future is not

the rest of it is finished future is not here yet and it’s not promised to you so

here yet and it’s not promised to you so

here yet and it’s not promised to you so one thing we know about life is that you

one thing we know about life is that you

one thing we know about life is that you will die and you don’t know the time or

will die and you don’t know the time or

will die and you don’t know the time or the hour that it’s going to happen but

the hour that it’s going to happen but

the hour that it’s going to happen but you know that it will so guess what this

you know that it will so guess what this

you know that it will so guess what this over here it looks great but what about

over here it looks great but what about

over here it looks great but what about all this is going on right here right

all this is going on right here right

all this is going on right here right now what is it it’s the present right

now what is it it’s the present right

now what is it it’s the present right it’s the present and the gift that

it’s the present and the gift that

it’s the present and the gift that you’re given throughout your life you

you’re given throughout your life you

you’re given throughout your life you wake up every day to the present you

wake up every day to the present you

wake up every day to the present you wake up every day to a chance for you to

wake up every day to a chance for you to

wake up every day to a chance for you to be great you wake up every day to a

be great you wake up every day to a

be great you wake up every day to a chance for you to give something that

chance for you to give something that

chance for you to give something that helps move the cycle of life the quantum

helps move the cycle of life the quantum

helps move the cycle of life the quantum leap for lack will better turn the

leap for lack will better turn the

leap for lack will better turn the quantum leap of an

quantum leap of an

quantum leap of an intelligence of imagination of

intelligence of imagination of

intelligence of imagination of innovation you wake up every day with a

innovation you wake up every day with a

innovation you wake up every day with a present you wake up every single day

present you wake up every single day

present you wake up every single day with it so you don’t have to look for

with it so you don’t have to look for

with it so you don’t have to look for your gift you wake up and you got one

your gift you wake up and you got one

your gift you wake up and you got one okay you don’t have to search your soul

okay you don’t have to search your soul

okay you don’t have to search your soul all you got to do is share what you’re

all you got to do is share what you’re

all you got to do is share what you’re good at and what’s good inside of you

good at and what’s good inside of you

good at and what’s good inside of you and you may not know that right now you

and you may not know that right now you

and you may not know that right now you may not because you some of us you know

may not because you some of us you know

may not because you some of us you know it takes living life and experiences and

it takes living life and experiences and

it takes living life and experiences and things like that for us to for the light

things like that for us to for the light

things like that for us to for the light bulb to turn on and once it’s turned on

bulb to turn on and once it’s turned on

bulb to turn on and once it’s turned on it’s definitely other people around us

it’s definitely other people around us

it’s definitely other people around us that see things in us but you have to

that see things in us but you have to

that see things in us but you have to believe what’s in yourself you have to

believe what’s in yourself you have to

believe what’s in yourself you have to start within B so that you can share

start within B so that you can share

start within B so that you can share without there was a an African proverb

without there was a an African proverb

without there was a an African proverb and I love it because you know it’s

and I love it because you know it’s

and I love it because you know it’s talking about love and yourself and it

talking about love and yourself and it

talking about love and yourself and it says that you know beware of taking a

says that you know beware of taking a

says that you know beware of taking a shirt from a naked man because if this

shirt from a naked man because if this

shirt from a naked man because if this naked man doesn’t have a shirt to give

naked man doesn’t have a shirt to give

naked man doesn’t have a shirt to give you then something might be wrong with

you then something might be wrong with

you then something might be wrong with that so you have to have the love inside

that so you have to have the love inside

that so you have to have the love inside of yourself to be able to share it and

of yourself to be able to share it and

of yourself to be able to share it and to give it to everybody else these gifts

to give it to everybody else these gifts

to give it to everybody else these gifts that are within yourself you have to

that are within yourself you have to

that are within yourself you have to recognize them that’s all they need it’s

recognize them that’s all they need it’s

recognize them that’s all they need it’s not that you have to find them

not that you have to find them

not that you have to find them you just have to acknowledge them and

you just have to acknowledge them and

you just have to acknowledge them and then at some point there are some gifts

then at some point there are some gifts

then at some point there are some gifts that are going to take you to the places

that are going to take you to the places

that are going to take you to the places where you need to go in life but right

where you need to go in life but right

where you need to go in life but right in the moment is the only place that

in the moment is the only place that

in the moment is the only place that matters time is basically evidence that

matters time is basically evidence that

matters time is basically evidence that you were here it is it’s evidence of

you were here it is it’s evidence of

you were here it is it’s evidence of what’s going on at the moment we have to

what’s going on at the moment we have to

what’s going on at the moment we have to figure out how to quantify it right

figure out how to quantify it right

figure out how to quantify it right it’s evidence of what is going on at the

it’s evidence of what is going on at the

it’s evidence of what is going on at the moment so with my students students come

moment so with my students students come

moment so with my students students come into school and sometimes this school

into school and sometimes this school

into school and sometimes this school our education system has its

our education system has its

our education system has its counterproductive I should say when it

counterproductive I should say when it

counterproductive I should say when it comes to people and students children

comes to people and students children

comes to people and students children recognizing their gifts because they

recognizing their gifts because they

recognizing their gifts because they come in

come in

come in and there you know you have this

and there you know you have this

and there you know you have this curriculum that you have to teach in you

curriculum that you have to teach in you

curriculum that you have to teach in you and the kids have these things that they

and the kids have these things that they

and the kids have these things that they have to learn so a lot of times they

have to learn so a lot of times they

have to learn so a lot of times they don’t get a chance to focus on their

don’t get a chance to focus on their

don’t get a chance to focus on their gifts they don’t even get a chance to

gifts they don’t even get a chance to

gifts they don’t even get a chance to think about it or know what they are

think about it or know what they are

think about it or know what they are because they’re coming in here but so us

because they’re coming in here but so us

because they’re coming in here but so us teachers a lot of times I look at the

teachers a lot of times I look at the

teachers a lot of times I look at the students in my class and I noticed

students in my class and I noticed

students in my class and I noticed something about them I thought I have a

something about them I thought I have a

something about them I thought I have a kid who every day he comes in he is

kid who every day he comes in he is

kid who every day he comes in he is writing in a binder and he’s writing

writing in a binder and he’s writing

writing in a binder and he’s writing scripts he’s writing and I’m in there to

scripts he’s writing and I’m in there to

scripts he’s writing and I’m in there to teach him Spanish but I’m also there to

teach him Spanish but I’m also there to

teach him Spanish but I’m also there to notice a gift I’m also there to notice

notice a gift I’m also there to notice

notice a gift I’m also there to notice something else in him and to tell him

something else in him and to tell him

something else in him and to tell him hey what is that that you’re doing what

hey what is that that you’re doing what

hey what is that that you’re doing what are you doing right there Wow and then I

are you doing right there Wow and then I

are you doing right there Wow and then I read it and it’s amazing and then you

read it and it’s amazing and then you

read it and it’s amazing and then you know just first he’s a very very quiet

know just first he’s a very very quiet

know just first he’s a very very quiet kid but this is something that he really

kid but this is something that he really

kid but this is something that he really likes to do this is something that he

likes to do this is something that he

likes to do this is something that he wakes up wanting to do I could tell he’s

wakes up wanting to do I could tell he’s

wakes up wanting to do I could tell he’s got books and books that he I mean he’s

got books and books that he I mean he’s

got books and books that he I mean he’s he’s like thing I think on his third

he’s like thing I think on his third

he’s like thing I think on his third book and we’ve been in school since

book and we’ve been in school since

book and we’ve been in school since August he’s on his third little book so

August he’s on his third little book so

August he’s on his third little book so this kid is doing something that he

this kid is doing something that he

this kid is doing something that he loves and we have to encourage our young

loves and we have to encourage our young

loves and we have to encourage our young people to do what they love because one

people to do what they love because one

people to do what they love because one of the most negative factors on physical

of the most negative factors on physical

of the most negative factors on physical and mental health is job dissatisfaction

and mental health is job dissatisfaction

and mental health is job dissatisfaction and why is that is because it’s a job

and why is that is because it’s a job

and why is that is because it’s a job all I want to go to work you know I you

all I want to go to work you know I you

all I want to go to work you know I you know I made a lot of money doing real

know I made a lot of money doing real

know I made a lot of money doing real estate and you know using my gift of gab

estate and you know using my gift of gab

estate and you know using my gift of gab to talk to people and my gift of a great

to talk to people and my gift of a great

to talk to people and my gift of a great circle of influence to make money

circle of influence to make money

circle of influence to make money however that my heart just wasn’t in it

however that my heart just wasn’t in it

however that my heart just wasn’t in it you know when I get up in the morning I

you know when I get up in the morning I

you know when I get up in the morning I walk into the classroom I love it I’m

walk into the classroom I love it I’m

walk into the classroom I love it I’m telling you I can be I’d still you know

telling you I can be I’d still you know

telling you I can be I’d still you know write and do music and I could be in

write and do music and I could be in

write and do music and I could be in that studio until 4:30 in the morning

that studio until 4:30 in the morning

that studio until 4:30 in the morning and then I’m right back at school but

and then I’m right back at school but

and then I’m right back at school but guess what I came from a place that I

guess what I came from a place that I

guess what I came from a place that I love because I’m

love because I’m

love because I’m sharing and using my gift and I’m

sharing and using my gift and I’m

sharing and using my gift and I’m stepping into another place that I love

stepping into another place that I love

stepping into another place that I love and my students understand me and I

and my students understand me and I

and my students understand me and I appreciate it I really do

appreciate it I really do

appreciate it I really do Jamie can you come here for a second am

Jamie can you come here for a second am

Jamie can you come here for a second am I my hope and my wish for standing

I my hope and my wish for standing

I my hope and my wish for standing before you today is that you realize

before you today is that you realize

before you today is that you realize that something very important

that something very important

that something very important this gift let me give this to you I’m

this gift let me give this to you I’m

this gift let me give this to you I’m gonna do some magic just by giving that

gonna do some magic just by giving that

gonna do some magic just by giving that to you I want you to hold up your

to you I want you to hold up your

to you I want you to hold up your present I changed my gift into her

present I changed my gift into her

present I changed my gift into her present see that because the gift comes

present see that because the gift comes

present see that because the gift comes from within but the present is what

from within but the present is what

from within but the present is what keeps giving thank you

keeps giving thank you

keeps giving thank you [Applause]

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