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A daughter and her dad. | Maya Rossio | TEDxColumbus


well the song that we’re going to do is

well the song that we’re going to do is an original that I had written which is

an original that I had written which is

an original that I had written which is very appropriate for today was I haven’t

very appropriate for today was I haven’t

very appropriate for today was I haven’t received this call from this father to

received this call from this father to

received this call from this father to do a birthday party many many years ago

do a birthday party many many years ago

do a birthday party many many years ago for a girl with special needs and he

for a girl with special needs and he

for a girl with special needs and he asked me to do her birthday the

asked me to do her birthday the

asked me to do her birthday the interesting thing was her birthday was

interesting thing was her birthday was

interesting thing was her birthday was in Atlanta and I thought you’re gonna

in Atlanta and I thought you’re gonna

in Atlanta and I thought you’re gonna fly me all the way down to Atlanta to

fly me all the way down to Atlanta to

fly me all the way down to Atlanta to just sing do a birthday song and then he

just sing do a birthday song and then he

just sing do a birthday song and then he told me this girl who has special needs

told me this girl who has special needs

told me this girl who has special needs has no motor skills no verbal skills and

has no motor skills no verbal skills and

has no motor skills no verbal skills and they used my music to motivate her and

they used my music to motivate her and

they used my music to motivate her and help her walk to turn on my music and to

help her walk to turn on my music and to

help her walk to turn on my music and to me that was the most moving thing I mean

me that was the most moving thing I mean

me that was the most moving thing I mean I want people to sing my song but if you

I want people to sing my song but if you

I want people to sing my song but if you have that kind of use for motivation it

have that kind of use for motivation it

have that kind of use for motivation it was just thrilling so on the plane back

was just thrilling so on the plane back

was just thrilling so on the plane back as I’m in tears I wrote this song about

as I’m in tears I wrote this song about

as I’m in tears I wrote this song about what does this little girl see when she

what does this little girl see when she

what does this little girl see when she looks in the mirror her best friend who

looks in the mirror her best friend who

looks in the mirror her best friend who has Down syndrome here in town it was a

has Down syndrome here in town it was a

has Down syndrome here in town it was a wonderful huge influence for me what do

wonderful huge influence for me what do

wonderful huge influence for me what do they see when they look at each other

they see when they look at each other

they see when they look at each other and when you look in a mirror you see

and when you look in a mirror you see

and when you look in a mirror you see the reflection that is dictated by the

the reflection that is dictated by the

the reflection that is dictated by the outside so other people are telling you

outside so other people are telling you

outside so other people are telling you what religion you are what color what if

what religion you are what color what if

what religion you are what color what if you’re at a wheelchair and I think we

you’re at a wheelchair and I think we

you’re at a wheelchair and I think we just lose that innocence of in that

just lose that innocence of in that

just lose that innocence of in that purity of who we are especially in the

purity of who we are especially in the

purity of who we are especially in the time like today that’s so divisive we

time like today that’s so divisive we

time like today that’s so divisive we just lose the innocence so the song is

just lose the innocence so the song is

just lose the innocence so the song is called keeping the innocence

called keeping the innocence

called keeping the innocence [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] I had a dream I kept the innocence we

I had a dream I kept the innocence we

I had a dream I kept the innocence we all know bones that male create shapes

all know bones that male create shapes

all know bones that male create shapes for better day circle surrounds us

[Music]

[Music] by someone else’s what do you see

by someone else’s what do you see

by someone else’s what do you see [Music]

[Music]

[Music] disability

a reflection not caught in society’s

a reflection not caught in society’s woes you’re simply watching a child grow

woes you’re simply watching a child grow

woes you’re simply watching a child grow I had a dream I kept the Edison

I had a dream I kept the Edison

I had a dream I kept the Edison I can really help us get along keeping

I can really help us get along keeping

I can really help us get along keeping our innocence from the needs long

our innocence from the needs long

our innocence from the needs long [Music]

[Music]

[Music] stop me your best friend

[Music]

[Music] what do you see no belief or disability

what do you see no belief or disability

what do you see no belief or disability I’m reflection not caught in society

simply watching a child girl I had a

simply watching a child girl I had a dream I kept me innocence I had a dream

dream I kept me innocence I had a dream

dream I kept me innocence I had a dream I kept it

I kept it

I kept it I had a dream

I had a dream

I had a dream [Music]

awesome job guys thank you both so I

awesome job guys thank you both so I have a couple questions for you and then

have a couple questions for you and then

have a couple questions for you and then we can pass it on back to Ruth so Maya I

we can pass it on back to Ruth so Maya I

we can pass it on back to Ruth so Maya I know you’re a senior you’re gonna be

know you’re a senior you’re gonna be

know you’re a senior you’re gonna be graduating this spring will you share a

graduating this spring will you share a

graduating this spring will you share a little bit about your journey I know

little bit about your journey I know

little bit about your journey I know it’s been a very unique journey and so

it’s been a very unique journey and so

it’s been a very unique journey and so share with us just a little bit well my

share with us just a little bit well my

share with us just a little bit well my high school experience has been a lot

high school experience has been a lot

high school experience has been a lot different than a lot of people at the

different than a lot of people at the

different than a lot of people at the beginning of my junior year I came out

beginning of my junior year I came out

beginning of my junior year I came out as a proud transgender woman thank

and I think it’s definitely a lot

and I think it’s definitely a lot different than a lot of people I mean

different than a lot of people I mean

different than a lot of people I mean not everyone does that Hill he’s been

not everyone does that Hill he’s been

not everyone does that Hill he’s been there in high school so something I

there in high school so something I

there in high school so something I think that is really cool is that even

think that is really cool is that even

think that is really cool is that even though it’s different than what a lot of

though it’s different than what a lot of

though it’s different than what a lot of people have gone through we all have had

people have gone through we all have had

people have gone through we all have had one thing or multiple things that we’ve

one thing or multiple things that we’ve

one thing or multiple things that we’ve had to deal with while we’ve been in

had to deal with while we’ve been in

had to deal with while we’ve been in high school or college or work or

high school or college or work or

high school or college or work or anything whether it be if you’re LGBT or

anything whether it be if you’re LGBT or

anything whether it be if you’re LGBT or if you’re having relationship troubles

if you’re having relationship troubles

if you’re having relationship troubles or family troubles and it’s something

or family troubles and it’s something

or family troubles and it’s something that influences the way that you see

that influences the way that you see

that influences the way that you see people and that you live your life and I

people and that you live your life and I

people and that you live your life and I think that it’s helped make me the

think that it’s helped make me the

think that it’s helped make me the person I am today thank you

and so dad I know you also went through

and so dad I know you also went through a journey during this time is there

a journey during this time is there

a journey during this time is there anything you’d like to share with us

anything you’d like to share with us

anything you’d like to share with us about that yeah I think well the most

about that yeah I think well the most

about that yeah I think well the most amazing thing about this journey is that

amazing thing about this journey is that

amazing thing about this journey is that it’s not done by yourself it takes a

it’s not done by yourself it takes a

it’s not done by yourself it takes a village it takes a village to not only

village it takes a village to not only

village it takes a village to not only just start at home where the acceptance

just start at home where the acceptance

just start at home where the acceptance the understanding the humor about it but

the understanding the humor about it but

the understanding the humor about it but it goes outside that to your family your

it goes outside that to your family your

it goes outside that to your family your circle of friends it goes even further

circle of friends it goes even further

circle of friends it goes even further than that we are fortunate enough to go

than that we are fortunate enough to go

than that we are fortunate enough to go to the greatest High School in Columbus

to the greatest High School in Columbus

to the greatest High School in Columbus Ohio

Ohio

Ohio Johana Lincoln High School and the

Johana Lincoln High School and the

Johana Lincoln High School and the reason be is that they were so open to

reason be is that they were so open to

reason be is that they were so open to it and so accepting of it that it made

it and so accepting of it that it made

it and so accepting of it that it made the transition that much easier where

the transition that much easier where

the transition that much easier where you just look at my and you go that’s

you just look at my and you go that’s

you just look at my and you go that’s just Maya and so it takes a whole

just Maya and so it takes a whole

just Maya and so it takes a whole village and just you applauding today is

village and just you applauding today is

village and just you applauding today is that affirmation that makes it so real

that affirmation that makes it so real

that affirmation that makes it so real for us so I thank you thank you so I

for us so I thank you thank you so I

for us so I thank you thank you so I have one more question for you you’re

have one more question for you you’re

have one more question for you you’re here in a room full of your peers and

here in a room full of your peers and

here in a room full of your peers and more is there any last advice that you

more is there any last advice that you

more is there any last advice that you would like to leave with them well for

would like to leave with them well for

would like to leave with them well for people that aren’t going through

people that aren’t going through

people that aren’t going through something as interesting as the

something as interesting as the

something as interesting as the transition is I mean it’s it’s

transition is I mean it’s it’s

transition is I mean it’s it’s definitely a lot and one thing that I’ve

definitely a lot and one thing that I’ve

definitely a lot and one thing that I’ve learned and that I always try and tell

learned and that I always try and tell

learned and that I always try and tell my friends is don’t be afraid to ask

my friends is don’t be afraid to ask

my friends is don’t be afraid to ask questions and don’t be afraid with any

questions and don’t be afraid with any

questions and don’t be afraid with any situation to speak up because you never

situation to speak up because you never

situation to speak up because you never know what’s gonna happen you never know

know what’s gonna happen you never know

know what’s gonna happen you never know what challenges you’re gonna face then

what challenges you’re gonna face then

what challenges you’re gonna face then I’m the kind of person where if anyone

I’m the kind of person where if anyone

I’m the kind of person where if anyone has any questions about anything well

has any questions about anything well

has any questions about anything well there whether it be any LGBT issue I

there whether it be any LGBT issue I

there whether it be any LGBT issue I always want to answer because if I can

always want to answer because if I can

always want to answer because if I can cure one misconception about anything

cure one misconception about anything

cure one misconception about anything that I can help someone else in the

that I can help someone else in the

that I can help someone else in the future and

so that’s what be my advice to anyone

so that’s what be my advice to anyone but if you’re specifically going through

but if you’re specifically going through

but if you’re specifically going through something that is an LGBT related

something that is an LGBT related

something that is an LGBT related definitely just make sure you surround

definitely just make sure you surround

definitely just make sure you surround yourself with allies and surround

yourself with allies and surround

yourself with allies and surround yourself with people that you love

yourself with people that you love

yourself with people that you love because you’re gonna need them thank you

because you’re gonna need them thank you

because you’re gonna need them thank you both thank you

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