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100 Happy Days | Dmitry Golubnichy | TEDxZurich


when I was a kid I had the nickname

when I was a kid I had the nickname among adults

among adults

among adults pochi mooshka which from russian could

pochi mooshka which from russian could

pochi mooshka which from russian could be translated as a little guy who always

be translated as a little guy who always

be translated as a little guy who always asked a question why based on that you

asked a question why based on that you

asked a question why based on that you can guess I had a hard time

can guess I had a hard time

can guess I had a hard time understanding why the world worked the

understanding why the world worked the

understanding why the world worked the way it did around me but one thing

way it did around me but one thing

way it did around me but one thing became clear very quickly if you do what

became clear very quickly if you do what

became clear very quickly if you do what others perceive as great and no value

others perceive as great and no value

others perceive as great and no value for example getting good grades getting

for example getting good grades getting

for example getting good grades getting into a good university or working in a

into a good university or working in a

into a good university or working in a bank well then the life might not seem

bank well then the life might not seem

bank well then the life might not seem that hard after all I followed this

that hard after all I followed this

that hard after all I followed this logic for about 28 years until I asked

logic for about 28 years until I asked

logic for about 28 years until I asked my favorite question but this time to

my favorite question but this time to

my favorite question but this time to myself why well you see everyone would

myself why well you see everyone would

myself why well you see everyone would like to get a really good job really

like to get a really good job really

like to get a really good job really good car and really good apartment that

good car and really good apartment that

good car and really good apartment that was my consciousness trying to call me

was my consciousness trying to call me

was my consciousness trying to call me down by default but then why didn’t any

down by default but then why didn’t any

down by default but then why didn’t any of these things make me feel any happier

of these things make me feel any happier

of these things make me feel any happier I realized it only when I met my

I realized it only when I met my

I realized it only when I met my childhood friends for a little reunion

childhood friends for a little reunion

childhood friends for a little reunion while they were happy about the same job

while they were happy about the same job

while they were happy about the same job the same hobbies the same street to live

the same hobbies the same street to live

the same hobbies the same street to live on I on the other hand couldn’t stop

on I on the other hand couldn’t stop

on I on the other hand couldn’t stop complaining well apparently there was

complaining well apparently there was

complaining well apparently there was way too little snow in Swiss Alps in

way too little snow in Swiss Alps in

way too little snow in Swiss Alps in that season for me to go skiing whenever

that season for me to go skiing whenever

that season for me to go skiing whenever I wanted or I was falling behind my

I wanted or I was falling behind my

I wanted or I was falling behind my master plan on visiting hundred

master plan on visiting hundred

master plan on visiting hundred countries before I turned 30 and the

countries before I turned 30 and the

countries before I turned 30 and the more problems I was sharing the wider

more problems I was sharing the wider

more problems I was sharing the wider the eyes of my friends were opening and

the eyes of my friends were opening and

the eyes of my friends were opening and looking at them I realized how

looking at them I realized how

looking at them I realized how ridiculous my complaint sound and there

ridiculous my complaint sound and there

ridiculous my complaint sound and there in that moment it made me feel very much

in that moment it made me feel very much

in that moment it made me feel very much ashamed in front of my friends and and

ashamed in front of my friends and and

ashamed in front of my friends and and more to that it made me feel very angry

more to that it made me feel very angry

more to that it made me feel very angry very angry at no one but myself because

very angry at no one but myself because

very angry at no one but myself because the mountains were great and all the

the mountains were great and all the

the mountains were great and all the country says I have visited are more

country says I have visited are more

country says I have visited are more than I could wish for it’s just that I

than I could wish for it’s just that I

than I could wish for it’s just that I did not see it this way

did not see it this way

did not see it this way so on the way home I had only one

so on the way home I had only one

so on the way home I had only one question on my mind if I have been so

question on my mind if I have been so

question on my mind if I have been so goal-oriented and so on Bish’s

goal-oriented and so on Bish’s

goal-oriented and so on Bish’s throughout my life so far then why on

throughout my life so far then why on

throughout my life so far then why on earth I have never set myself a goal for

earth I have never set myself a goal for

earth I have never set myself a goal for what truly matters for me in the end my

what truly matters for me in the end my

what truly matters for me in the end my happiness so to stop complaining and to

happiness so to stop complaining and to

happiness so to stop complaining and to find more happiness in my daily life

find more happiness in my daily life

find more happiness in my daily life I’ve decided to throw myself a challenge

I’ve decided to throw myself a challenge

I’ve decided to throw myself a challenge by asking one simple question can I be

by asking one simple question can I be

by asking one simple question can I be happy

happy

happy 400 days in a row no matter how small

400 days in a row no matter how small

400 days in a row no matter how small the moment would be theater a coffee

the moment would be theater a coffee

the moment would be theater a coffee with a friend or a feeling of home after

with a friend or a feeling of home after

with a friend or a feeling of home after a long day work I would need to find at

a long day work I would need to find at

a long day work I would need to find at least one moment captured on a picture

least one moment captured on a picture

least one moment captured on a picture and share it online with the hashtag 100

and share it online with the hashtag 100

and share it online with the hashtag 100 happy days just to make sure I stick

happy days just to make sure I stick

happy days just to make sure I stick through the challenge well rules are

through the challenge well rules are

through the challenge well rules are clear but with the first day came the

clear but with the first day came the

clear but with the first day came the first trouble it’s not difficult to

first trouble it’s not difficult to

first trouble it’s not difficult to imagine that in my daily rush in my

imagine that in my daily rush in my

imagine that in my daily rush in my daily routine I completely forgot that

daily routine I completely forgot that

daily routine I completely forgot that on that day that was the day to start

on that day that was the day to start

on that day that was the day to start focusing on something positive no reason

focusing on something positive no reason

focusing on something positive no reason to give up I said to myself in the

to give up I said to myself in the

to give up I said to myself in the evening what about making our creating a

evening what about making our creating a

evening what about making our creating a happy moment by doing something that I

happy moment by doing something that I

happy moment by doing something that I love and what about making my girlfriend

love and what about making my girlfriend

love and what about making my girlfriend laugh you know what it worked and it

laugh you know what it worked and it

laugh you know what it worked and it works so well that the further I went

works so well that the further I went

works so well that the further I went with the challenge the more moments I

with the challenge the more moments I

with the challenge the more moments I had captured during the day now I had

had captured during the day now I had

had captured during the day now I had the different yet a positive problem

the different yet a positive problem

the different yet a positive problem which of those happy moments that they

which of those happy moments that they

which of those happy moments that they had captured during the day was the

had captured during the day was the

had captured during the day was the happiest one for that day in the

happiest one for that day in the

happiest one for that day in the meanwhile my friends started noticing

meanwhile my friends started noticing

meanwhile my friends started noticing this mysterious hashtag hundred happy

this mysterious hashtag hundred happy

this mysterious hashtag hundred happy days popping up here and there on their

days popping up here and there on their

days popping up here and there on their news feeds every single day so they

news feeds every single day so they

news feeds every single day so they started asking questions about and I

started asking questions about and I

started asking questions about and I told them I’m going to search for

told them I’m going to search for

told them I’m going to search for personal happiness and this is the way I

personal happiness and this is the way I

personal happiness and this is the way I do it so when they asked if they if they

do it so when they asked if they if they

do it so when they asked if they if they could join the challenge I of course

could join the challenge I of course

could join the challenge I of course didn’t have any problems with that but a

didn’t have any problems with that but a

didn’t have any problems with that but a week later I start receiving questions

week later I start receiving questions

week later I start receiving questions from friends of friends asking exactly

from friends of friends asking exactly

from friends of friends asking exactly about the same thing and a month later I

about the same thing and a month later I

about the same thing and a month later I had already so many questions from

had already so many questions from

had already so many questions from people from all around the world I was

people from all around the world I was

people from all around the world I was not able to answer them by myself that’s

not able to answer them by myself that’s

not able to answer them by myself that’s when I decided to create a little

when I decided to create a little

when I decided to create a little website where everyone will be able to

website where everyone will be able to

website where everyone will be able to come and ask themselves the same

come and ask themselves the same

come and ask themselves the same question I asked

question I asked

question I asked in the beginning can I be happy for 100

in the beginning can I be happy for 100

in the beginning can I be happy for 100 days in a row since then over 8 million

days in a row since then over 8 million

days in a row since then over 8 million people from 160 countries around the

people from 160 countries around the

people from 160 countries around the world have taken this challenge

world have taken this challenge

world have taken this challenge collecting only on Instagram over 25

collecting only on Instagram over 25

collecting only on Instagram over 25 million happy moments everyone from

million happy moments everyone from

million happy moments everyone from Hollywood to Bollywood stars famous

Hollywood to Bollywood stars famous

Hollywood to Bollywood stars famous singers and sportsmen and people from

singers and sportsmen and people from

singers and sportsmen and people from all walks of life have all united in the

all walks of life have all united in the

all walks of life have all united in the search for happiness and while it might

search for happiness and while it might

search for happiness and while it might look like yet another online fad this

look like yet another online fad this

look like yet another online fad this time it came with real-life results I

time it came with real-life results I

time it came with real-life results I started asking people before during and

started asking people before during and

started asking people before during and after the challenge how happy they feel

after the challenge how happy they feel

after the challenge how happy they feel and they have self-reported about 19

and they have self-reported about 19

and they have self-reported about 19 percent increase in their life

percent increase in their life

percent increase in their life satisfaction in the end of the challenge

satisfaction in the end of the challenge

satisfaction in the end of the challenge now in practice that meant they started

now in practice that meant they started

now in practice that meant they started to see more happiness and they did in

to see more happiness and they did in

to see more happiness and they did in their daily lives they started to be

their daily lives they started to be

their daily lives they started to be more optimistic they started to be in a

more optimistic they started to be in a

more optimistic they started to be in a better mood and they start receiving

better mood and they start receiving

better mood and they start receiving compliments from other people maybe it

compliments from other people maybe it

compliments from other people maybe it will sound cheesy but some people will

will sound cheesy but some people will

will sound cheesy but some people will even fell in love during the challenge

even fell in love during the challenge

even fell in love during the challenge but if that’s not enough let me tell you

but if that’s not enough let me tell you

but if that’s not enough let me tell you about a grateful challenge taker who

about a grateful challenge taker who

about a grateful challenge taker who asked me to remain anonymous this

asked me to remain anonymous this

asked me to remain anonymous this gentleman in his hundred days has gone

gentleman in his hundred days has gone

gentleman in his hundred days has gone from coming out of the closet losing his

from coming out of the closet losing his

from coming out of the closet losing his job and his family Trust to finding a

job and his family Trust to finding a

job and his family Trust to finding a new job finding the love of his life and

new job finding the love of his life and

new job finding the love of his life and regained the family support for such a

regained the family support for such a

regained the family support for such a 360-degree turnaround of his life he has

360-degree turnaround of his life he has

360-degree turnaround of his life he has decided to make a tattoo on his arm

decided to make a tattoo on his arm

decided to make a tattoo on his arm saying plus hundred happy days because I

saying plus hundred happy days because I

saying plus hundred happy days because I see later explained to me it is no

see later explained to me it is no

see later explained to me it is no longer a simple challenge it is his

longer a simple challenge it is his

longer a simple challenge it is his lifestyle so why such a straightforward

lifestyle so why such a straightforward

lifestyle so why such a straightforward challenge so impactful in addition to

challenge so impactful in addition to

challenge so impactful in addition to all scientifically proven benefits of

all scientifically proven benefits of

all scientifically proven benefits of journaling your happy moments and

journaling your happy moments and

journaling your happy moments and developing the habit of seeing the

developing the habit of seeing the

developing the habit of seeing the beauty in one’s life there are several

beauty in one’s life there are several

beauty in one’s life there are several things that enhance this experience even

things that enhance this experience even

things that enhance this experience even further

further

further number one this challenge is long enough

number one this challenge is long enough

number one this challenge is long enough for

for

for you two start noticing the happiness in

you two start noticing the happiness in

you two start noticing the happiness in small things of course unless you’re a

small things of course unless you’re a

small things of course unless you’re a millionaire or billionaire it would be

millionaire or billionaire it would be

millionaire or billionaire it would be quite hard for you to be happy about

quite hard for you to be happy about

quite hard for you to be happy about buying new cars and diamond rings every

buying new cars and diamond rings every

buying new cars and diamond rings every single day number two this challenge

single day number two this challenge

single day number two this challenge gives you an opportunity to actively

gives you an opportunity to actively

gives you an opportunity to actively create your happiness sure sometimes

create your happiness sure sometimes

create your happiness sure sometimes life will go hard and you might not give

life will go hard and you might not give

life will go hard and you might not give you any reason to smile June during the

you any reason to smile June during the

you any reason to smile June during the day but just as I wasn’t you shouldn’t

day but just as I wasn’t you shouldn’t

day but just as I wasn’t you shouldn’t get discouraged take a look back and see

get discouraged take a look back and see

get discouraged take a look back and see what made you happy and then create your

what made you happy and then create your

what made you happy and then create your happy moments by doing more of what made

happy moments by doing more of what made

happy moments by doing more of what made you happy number three number three this

you happy number three number three this

you happy number three number three this challenge teaches us to appreciate

challenge teaches us to appreciate

challenge teaches us to appreciate uncertainty imagine this perfect morning

uncertainty imagine this perfect morning

uncertainty imagine this perfect morning you just woke up you open the bedroom

you just woke up you open the bedroom

you just woke up you open the bedroom window you see the rising sun shining

window you see the rising sun shining

window you see the rising sun shining into your eyes and gentle wind is scarce

into your eyes and gentle wind is scarce

into your eyes and gentle wind is scarce in your hair and even birds are singing

in your hair and even birds are singing

in your hair and even birds are singing good morning to you and all these things

good morning to you and all these things

good morning to you and all these things suddenly start coming together in this

suddenly start coming together in this

suddenly start coming together in this magical moment where you feel so happy

magical moment where you feel so happy

magical moment where you feel so happy and so fulfilled that your soul wants to

and so fulfilled that your soul wants to

and so fulfilled that your soul wants to sing now there is no way you can know if

sing now there is no way you can know if

sing now there is no way you can know if there’s going to be anything else during

there’s going to be anything else during

there’s going to be anything else during that day that’s going to make you feel

that day that’s going to make you feel

that day that’s going to make you feel more happy and more fulfilled than you

more happy and more fulfilled than you

more happy and more fulfilled than you feeling right now so what’s the most

feeling right now so what’s the most

feeling right now so what’s the most rational thing to do it is to capture

rational thing to do it is to capture

rational thing to do it is to capture and to enjoy this moment to the fullest

and to enjoy this moment to the fullest

and to enjoy this moment to the fullest right number for this challenge gives

right number for this challenge gives

right number for this challenge gives other people an opportunity to be part

other people an opportunity to be part

other people an opportunity to be part of your happiness as one Wiseman said

of your happiness as one Wiseman said

of your happiness as one Wiseman said happiness is only real when shared so

happiness is only real when shared so

happiness is only real when shared so people who take this challenge they get

people who take this challenge they get

people who take this challenge they get used to this kind of situations after

used to this kind of situations after

used to this kind of situations after any get-together when people ask them if

any get-together when people ask them if

any get-together when people ask them if they would like to take a selfie

they would like to take a selfie

they would like to take a selfie together because it’s kind of a happy

together because it’s kind of a happy

together because it’s kind of a happy moment over here and aren’t you

moment over here and aren’t you

moment over here and aren’t you collecting those happy moments and just

collecting those happy moments and just

collecting those happy moments and just thinking and talking about this put a

thinking and talking about this put a

thinking and talking about this put a smile on my face you know why it is

smile on my face you know why it is

smile on my face you know why it is because I realized that every single

because I realized that every single

because I realized that every single person in this entire world wants to

person in this entire world wants to

person in this entire world wants to make a positive impact on someone else’s

make a positive impact on someone else’s

make a positive impact on someone else’s life so if we give this opportunity to

life so if we give this opportunity to

life so if we give this opportunity to someone to create and be part of our

someone to create and be part of our

someone to create and be part of our happiness both of us going to be feeling

happiness both of us going to be feeling

happiness both of us going to be feeling happier right number five finally

happier right number five finally

happier right number five finally this challenge gives you an opportunity

this challenge gives you an opportunity

this challenge gives you an opportunity to feel how a happy and fulfilling life

to feel how a happy and fulfilling life

to feel how a happy and fulfilling life feels like and once you have this

feels like and once you have this

feels like and once you have this feeling you really don’t want to go back

feeling you really don’t want to go back

feeling you really don’t want to go back so you turn happiness into your

so you turn happiness into your

so you turn happiness into your lifestyle despite all these benefits of

lifestyle despite all these benefits of

lifestyle despite all these benefits of taking 100 happy days challenge about

taking 100 happy days challenge about

taking 100 happy days challenge about 70% of people do not complete it saying

70% of people do not complete it saying

70% of people do not complete it saying they don’t have time well an old me

they don’t have time well an old me

they don’t have time well an old me might have understood that but a new me

might have understood that but a new me

might have understood that but a new me here is that people don’t have a single

here is that people don’t have a single

here is that people don’t have a single moment a day when they would focus only

moment a day when they would focus only

moment a day when they would focus only on what truly matters in the very end

on what truly matters in the very end

on what truly matters in the very end their happiness but forget about them

their happiness but forget about them

their happiness but forget about them what about you now that you have heard

what about you now that you have heard

what about you now that you have heard how this challenge has transformed lives

how this challenge has transformed lives

how this challenge has transformed lives of millions of people all across the

of millions of people all across the

of millions of people all across the world it’s about time you ask yourself

world it’s about time you ask yourself

world it’s about time you ask yourself the same question can I be happy

the same question can I be happy

the same question can I be happy 400 days in a row thank you

400 days in a row thank you

400 days in a row thank you [Applause]

[Applause]

[Applause] [Music]

[Music]

[Music] you

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