I’m here to give a talk on relationships about how you can improve
about how you can improve
about how you can improve your relationships
your relationships
your relationships well what about my relationship with
well what about my relationship with
well what about my relationship with y’all I mean and and to end speaker
y’all I mean and and to end speaker
y’all I mean and and to end speaker audience connection how do i improve
audience connection how do i improve
audience connection how do i improve that I think I should start by asking
that I think I should start by asking
that I think I should start by asking your names or would it be much
your names or would it be much
your names or would it be much convenient for me to ask about how your
convenient for me to ask about how your
convenient for me to ask about how your day has been or a joke would do I think
day has been or a joke would do I think
day has been or a joke would do I think a joke would do so I’ll tell you a joke
a joke would do so I’ll tell you a joke
a joke would do so I’ll tell you a joke how do mathematicians scold their
how do mathematicians scold their
how do mathematicians scold their children if I have told you n times but
children if I have told you n times but
children if I have told you n times but no I have told you n plus 1 times n plus
no I have told you n plus 1 times n plus
no I have told you n plus 1 times n plus 2 times and yes I thought this was funny
2 times and yes I thought this was funny
2 times and yes I thought this was funny because I nearly took it after reading a
because I nearly took it after reading a
because I nearly took it after reading a hundred more jokes so if a joke doesn’t
hundred more jokes so if a joke doesn’t
hundred more jokes so if a joke doesn’t improve our relationship then what does
improve our relationship then what does
improve our relationship then what does or is it really that important the topic
or is it really that important the topic
or is it really that important the topic to be discussed here may be the nerdy
to be discussed here may be the nerdy
to be discussed here may be the nerdy guys from the Harvard University tried
guys from the Harvard University tried
guys from the Harvard University tried to know the answer so they started the
to know the answer so they started the
to know the answer so they started the study of adult human development
study of adult human development
study of adult human development following the lives of 268 sophomores
following the lives of 268 sophomores
following the lives of 268 sophomores from Howard classes between 1939 and
1944 amongst those young student was
1944 amongst those young student was John F Kennedy
John F Kennedy
John F Kennedy how about grant study is the
how about grant study is the
how about grant study is the longest-running project about human
longest-running project about human
longest-running project about human happiness it is a project revolutionary
happiness it is a project revolutionary
happiness it is a project revolutionary and ambition impact and even expenditure
moreover it is still an ongoing study
moreover it is still an ongoing study Robert valve injure the grant city
Robert valve injure the grant city
Robert valve injure the grant city director and Howard psychologist while
director and Howard psychologist while
director and Howard psychologist while sharing what this study is revealed with
sharing what this study is revealed with
sharing what this study is revealed with the unflinching solidity of 75 years of
the unflinching solidity of 75 years of
the unflinching solidity of 75 years of data and 20 million US dollars spend
data and 20 million US dollars spend
data and 20 million US dollars spend tells us about the secrets of human
tells us about the secrets of human
tells us about the secrets of human happiness longevity and a meaningful
happiness longevity and a meaningful
happiness longevity and a meaningful life says that
the clearest message that we get from
the clearest message that we get from the 75 year old study is this good
the 75 year old study is this good
the 75 year old study is this good relationships keeps us happier and
relationships keeps us happier and
relationships keeps us happier and healthier Val dinger wants people to
healthier Val dinger wants people to
healthier Val dinger wants people to realize that the commercial projection
realize that the commercial projection
realize that the commercial projection of a good life
of a good life
of a good life wealth Fame career success won’t bring
wealth Fame career success won’t bring
wealth Fame career success won’t bring us health or happiness
us health or happiness
us health or happiness it’s the efforts we’ve put into building
it’s the efforts we’ve put into building
it’s the efforts we’ve put into building our relationships that will so how is it
our relationships that will so how is it
our relationships that will so how is it that we nourish human heart we improve
that we nourish human heart we improve
that we nourish human heart we improve our relationship will be more result we
our relationship will be more result we
our relationship will be more result we live longer for that I’m going to make a
live longer for that I’m going to make a
live longer for that I’m going to make a big bold statement that is the essence
big bold statement that is the essence
big bold statement that is the essence of this step talk and then follow it
of this step talk and then follow it
of this step talk and then follow it with seven include steps to apply so as
with seven include steps to apply so as
with seven include steps to apply so as to improve your relationship but before
to improve your relationship but before
to improve your relationship but before that three things first well it’s not at
that three things first well it’s not at
that three things first well it’s not at all quick fix this idea is going to
all quick fix this idea is going to
all quick fix this idea is going to improve your relationships drastically
improve your relationships drastically
improve your relationships drastically but not in a matter of minutes or hours
but not in a matter of minutes or hours
but not in a matter of minutes or hours or days building a good relationship
or days building a good relationship
or days building a good relationship well it takes time and building a great
well it takes time and building a great
well it takes time and building a great relationship it takes a great lifetime
second although I might speak of
second although I might speak of relationship in general terms like the
relationship in general terms like the
relationship in general terms like the one that appearance benefactors friend
one that appearance benefactors friend
one that appearance benefactors friend foes allies counterparts but this idea
foes allies counterparts but this idea
foes allies counterparts but this idea is so revolutionary that can be applied
is so revolutionary that can be applied
is so revolutionary that can be applied across boundaries amongst nations third
across boundaries amongst nations third
across boundaries amongst nations third the idea is revolutionary but simple its
the idea is revolutionary but simple its
the idea is revolutionary but simple its simplicity might just trick you into
simplicity might just trick you into
simplicity might just trick you into believing that it wouldn’t work if only
believing that it wouldn’t work if only
believing that it wouldn’t work if only you will choose to apply it so now the
you will choose to apply it so now the
you will choose to apply it so now the big bold statement give them a reason to
big bold statement give them a reason to
big bold statement give them a reason to stay until they find their own it’s a
stay until they find their own it’s a
stay until they find their own it’s a very important point give them a reason
very important point give them a reason
very important point give them a reason to stay until they find their own to
to stay until they find their own to
to stay until they find their own to illustrate this I would like to tell you
illustrate this I would like to tell you
illustrate this I would like to tell you a story
a story
a story so as usual one fine morning a young
so as usual one fine morning a young
so as usual one fine morning a young eight year old vial going to school saw
eight year old vial going to school saw
eight year old vial going to school saw some older guys drinking or smoking and
some older guys drinking or smoking and
some older guys drinking or smoking and gambling doing nothing and yet have the
gambling doing nothing and yet have the
gambling doing nothing and yet have the money to enjoy everything now this image
money to enjoy everything now this image
money to enjoy everything now this image contradicted with the image of his
contradicted with the image of his
contradicted with the image of his father who toiled day in and out at the
father who toiled day in and out at the
father who toiled day in and out at the government Medical College knocker to
government Medical College knocker to
government Medical College knocker to satisfy ends meet his curiosity led him
satisfy ends meet his curiosity led him
satisfy ends meet his curiosity led him to dark pots of gambling and robbery and
to dark pots of gambling and robbery and
to dark pots of gambling and robbery and various other socially elective ities as
various other socially elective ities as
various other socially elective ities as days passed by into months and months
days passed by into months and months
days passed by into months and months into years he started working for real
into years he started working for real
into years he started working for real estate gangs and politicians threatening
estate gangs and politicians threatening
estate gangs and politicians threatening people and sometimes even hurting them
people and sometimes even hurting them
people and sometimes even hurting them eventually he became a local Don and was
eventually he became a local Don and was
eventually he became a local Don and was wounded by the police for 45 cases filed
wounded by the police for 45 cases filed
wounded by the police for 45 cases filed against him his name was Akhilesh Paul
against him his name was Akhilesh Paul
against him his name was Akhilesh Paul one day while smoking under a pan Capri
one day while smoking under a pan Capri
one day while smoking under a pan Capri a man named mr. Vijay barsik called a
a man named mr. Vijay barsik called a
a man named mr. Vijay barsik called a coalition his friends and asked them
coalition his friends and asked them
coalition his friends and asked them whether they would like to play with the
whether they would like to play with the
whether they would like to play with the football he was having just to make fun
football he was having just to make fun
football he was having just to make fun of mr. bossy he and his friends they
of mr. bossy he and his friends they
of mr. bossy he and his friends they asked with some kind of like pay in
asked with some kind of like pay in
asked with some kind of like pay in return astonishingly mr. boss agreed to
return astonishingly mr. boss agreed to
return astonishingly mr. boss agreed to pay each one of them rupees five as
pay each one of them rupees five as
pay each one of them rupees five as rupees five was not a bad deal at all
rupees five was not a bad deal at all
rupees five was not a bad deal at all they agreed to play this went on for the
they agreed to play this went on for the
they agreed to play this went on for the next 15 days but all 16 them
next 15 days but all 16 them
next 15 days but all 16 them Abbasi refused to give the money saying
Abbasi refused to give the money saying
Abbasi refused to give the money saying that now he does not have sufficient
that now he does not have sufficient
that now he does not have sufficient money enough to pay them all these boys
money enough to pay them all these boys
money enough to pay them all these boys were addicted to football now were mean
were addicted to football now were mean
were addicted to football now were mean to get the ball even without the money
to get the ball even without the money
to get the ball even without the money these days changed his life after
these days changed his life after
these days changed his life after surrendering to the police and promising
surrendering to the police and promising
surrendering to the police and promising the judge that now he will be a
the judge that now he will be a
the judge that now he will be a completely changed man achilles got bail
completely changed man achilles got bail
completely changed man achilles got bail he worked so hard that eventually he got
he worked so hard that eventually he got
he worked so hard that eventually he got got a chance to play internationally in
got a chance to play internationally in
got a chance to play internationally in the year 2009 he played so well in
the year 2009 he played so well in
the year 2009 he played so well in Brazil that mr. Moyes that then coach if
Brazil that mr. Moyes that then coach if
Brazil that mr. Moyes that then coach if Manchester United asked him to be a
Manchester United asked him to be a
Manchester United asked him to be a coach since that day Akhilesh started
coach since that day Akhilesh started
coach since that day Akhilesh started his own organization known as slum
his own organization known as slum
his own organization known as slum soccer and it teaches kids for free and
soccer and it teaches kids for free and
soccer and it teaches kids for free and the red light areas and slums of Nagpur
the red light areas and slums of Nagpur
the red light areas and slums of Nagpur now I want you to just look at that
now I want you to just look at that
now I want you to just look at that statement give them a reason to stay
statement give them a reason to stay
statement give them a reason to stay until they find their own and that’s
until they find their own and that’s
until they find their own and that’s exactly what mr. Barr said did he gave a
exactly what mr. Barr said did he gave a
exactly what mr. Barr said did he gave a collision his friends a reason buy a
collision his friends a reason buy a
collision his friends a reason buy a mood of payment to love football until
mood of payment to love football until
mood of payment to love football until they themselves came up with their own
they themselves came up with their own
they themselves came up with their own ideas to love that game to change their
ideas to love that game to change their
ideas to love that game to change their life for the better so give them a
life for the better so give them a
life for the better so give them a reason to stay until they find their own
reason to stay until they find their own
reason to stay until they find their own is the hashtag one way to improve your
is the hashtag one way to improve your
is the hashtag one way to improve your relationships and the seven concrete
relationships and the seven concrete
relationships and the seven concrete steps that I’m about to give you are the
steps that I’m about to give you are the
steps that I’m about to give you are the way to the way for our easy to semblance
way to the way for our easy to semblance
way to the way for our easy to semblance we are going to call them reasons are e
we are going to call them reasons are e
we are going to call them reasons are e a s o and s now let’s go on for the
a s o and s now let’s go on for the
a s o and s now let’s go on for the first one we ignite the feelings are the
first one we ignite the feelings are the
first one we ignite the feelings are the feelings they are the epitome of any
feelings they are the epitome of any
feelings they are the epitome of any relationship without them there can be
relationship without them there can be
relationship without them there can be none to start off by reassembling
none to start off by reassembling
none to start off by reassembling rekindling and reigniting those feelings
rekindling and reigniting those feelings
rekindling and reigniting those feelings let me give you an engineering example
let me give you an engineering example
let me give you an engineering example an objective light or density is then
an objective light or density is then
an objective light or density is then put inside a liquid of higher density it
put inside a liquid of higher density it
put inside a liquid of higher density it comes up towards the surface because of
comes up towards the surface because of
comes up towards the surface because of the buoyancy force and the drag force
the buoyancy force and the drag force
the buoyancy force and the drag force opposed
opposed
opposed the mighty force of gravitation so you
the mighty force of gravitation so you
the mighty force of gravitation so you should to try to bring that to surface
should to try to bring that to surface
should to try to bring that to surface all your feelings those have been there
all your feelings those have been there
all your feelings those have been there so to improve your relationship the
so to improve your relationship the
so to improve your relationship the first step is to reignite those feelings
first step is to reignite those feelings
first step is to reignite those feelings establish a connection II it’s one thing
establish a connection II it’s one thing
establish a connection II it’s one thing completely to imagine that yes your
completely to imagine that yes your
completely to imagine that yes your relationships has been improved and it’s
relationships has been improved and it’s
relationships has been improved and it’s completely another to really improve
completely another to really improve
completely another to really improve your relationship without establishing a
your relationship without establishing a
your relationship without establishing a connection it’s like this that we
connection it’s like this that we
connection it’s like this that we require a medium for the mass to be
require a medium for the mass to be
require a medium for the mass to be transferred from one place to another or
transferred from one place to another or
transferred from one place to another or you can put it bluntly this way that you
you can put it bluntly this way that you
you can put it bluntly this way that you have a cellphone and there are malware’s
have a cellphone and there are malware’s
have a cellphone and there are malware’s in yourself on different kind of
in yourself on different kind of
in yourself on different kind of malware’s and you have an anti-virus in
malware’s and you have an anti-virus in
malware’s and you have an anti-virus in your personal computer so it would be
your personal computer so it would be
your personal computer so it would be impossible to remove all those matters
impossible to remove all those matters
impossible to remove all those matters without actually establishing a
without actually establishing a
without actually establishing a connection so once you read that all
connection so once you read that all
connection so once you read that all those feelings establish connection are
those feelings establish connection are
those feelings establish connection are they about any misunderstandings if a
they about any misunderstandings if a
they about any misunderstandings if a relationship is our cell phone then
relationship is our cell phone then
relationship is our cell phone then those malware’s are misunderstandings
those malware’s are misunderstandings
those malware’s are misunderstandings remove them real fast real cursory and
remove them real fast real cursory and
remove them real fast real cursory and real quick it’s like this that when
real quick it’s like this that when
real quick it’s like this that when Copernicus proposed that the planetary
Copernicus proposed that the planetary
Copernicus proposed that the planetary orbit of the circle Kepler was there to
orbit of the circle Kepler was there to
orbit of the circle Kepler was there to remove the misunderstanding telling us
remove the misunderstanding telling us
remove the misunderstanding telling us all that yes the planetary orbit is not
all that yes the planetary orbit is not
all that yes the planetary orbit is not a circle but an ellipse so try to
a circle but an ellipse so try to
a circle but an ellipse so try to observe your relationship analyze your
observe your relationship analyze your
observe your relationship analyze your relationship and remove any kind of
relationship and remove any kind of
relationship and remove any kind of misunderstandings those might be there
misunderstandings those might be there
misunderstandings those might be there any relationships now search for the
any relationships now search for the
any relationships now search for the reasons s in the classic study published
reasons s in the classic study published
reasons s in the classic study published in the Harvard magazine on how human
in the Harvard magazine on how human
in the Harvard magazine on how human beings how we respond to languages
beings how we respond to languages
beings how we respond to languages psychologist Chanel would slander and
psychologist Chanel would slander and
psychologist Chanel would slander and Blake found out that when given a reason
Blake found out that when given a reason
Blake found out that when given a reason for our request we increase compliance
for our request we increase compliance
for our request we increase compliance from 60% to 90% so how is it that we
from 60% to 90% so how is it that we
from 60% to 90% so how is it that we search for reasons well it depends
search for reasons well it depends
search for reasons well it depends solely on their relationships have been
solely on their relationships have been
solely on their relationships have been where it is now and where you want to
where it is now and where you want to
where it is now and where you want to take it also it is different for
take it also it is different for
take it also it is different for different people different times and
different people different times and
different people different times and different places
different places
different places but yes I can give you a frame of
but yes I can give you a frame of
but yes I can give you a frame of reference to look from on how you can
reference to look from on how you can
reference to look from on how you can search for reasons so to search for
search for reasons so to search for
search for reasons so to search for reasons relate relate your current
reasons relate relate your current
reasons relate relate your current circumstances of very relationship is
circumstances of very relationship is
circumstances of very relationship is and where it have been then respond
and where it have been then respond
and where it have been then respond respond to the relation that you might
respond to the relation that you might
respond to the relation that you might have gotten after you thought about your
have gotten after you thought about your
have gotten after you thought about your current circumstances and what your
current circumstances and what your
current circumstances and what your relationship had been in the past it’s
relationship had been in the past it’s
relationship had been in the past it’s like this that when a mass M is related
like this that when a mass M is related
like this that when a mass M is related to the force F it responds with an
to the force F it responds with an
to the force F it responds with an acceleration a and respect whatever kind
acceleration a and respect whatever kind
acceleration a and respect whatever kind of reasons you might come up with those
of reasons you might come up with those
of reasons you might come up with those reasons are going to be unique just made
reasons are going to be unique just made
reasons are going to be unique just made for you all now before moving on to the
for you all now before moving on to the
for you all now before moving on to the next letter I want you all to do one
next letter I want you all to do one
next letter I want you all to do one simple exercise this is going to make
simple exercise this is going to make
simple exercise this is going to make your words more convincing it’s going to
your words more convincing it’s going to
your words more convincing it’s going to be very entertaining so what do you all
be very entertaining so what do you all
be very entertaining so what do you all like to do it ok so just say these words
like to do it ok so just say these words
like to do it ok so just say these words with me and say just exactly so open
with me and say just exactly so open
with me and say just exactly so open exercise ok so say you save louder you
exercise ok so say you save louder you
exercise ok so say you save louder you are it will increase your vertical pitch
my mom was told me that yeah it was good
my mom was told me that yeah it was good this thing about it now I give you a
this thing about it now I give you a
this thing about it now I give you a very simple sentence to say I gave you
very simple sentence to say I gave you
very simple sentence to say I gave you reasons to believe them and you did
reasons to believe them and you did
reasons to believe them and you did exactly a very futile exercise that’s
exactly a very futile exercise that’s
exactly a very futile exercise that’s the power reasons hold for our
the power reasons hold for our
the power reasons hold for our relationship ok vomit
relationship ok vomit
relationship ok vomit your ego Oh your ego is the only thing
your ego Oh your ego is the only thing
your ego Oh your ego is the only thing that is going to prevent you from
that is going to prevent you from
that is going to prevent you from searching for reasons or even if you
searching for reasons or even if you
searching for reasons or even if you have searched them to place it before
have searched them to place it before
have searched them to place it before your counterparts so just to remember
your counterparts so just to remember
your counterparts so just to remember one thing
noodles Labatt resi Rosetti Isaac Newton
noodles Labatt resi Rosetti Isaac Newton Sir Isaac Newton was an English polymath
Sir Isaac Newton was an English polymath
Sir Isaac Newton was an English polymath he was a scientist and inventor and
he was a scientist and inventor and
he was a scientist and inventor and astronomers the philosopher and
astronomers the philosopher and
astronomers the philosopher and astrophysicist so if he is having some
astrophysicist so if he is having some
astrophysicist so if he is having some werden something then we must believe
werden something then we must believe
werden something then we must believe him for every action there’s an equal
him for every action there’s an equal
him for every action there’s an equal and opposite reaction if Sir Isaac
and opposite reaction if Sir Isaac
and opposite reaction if Sir Isaac Newton is saying this we must believe so
Newton is saying this we must believe so
Newton is saying this we must believe so when you will search for this reason and
when you will search for this reason and
when you will search for this reason and when you will place these reasons before
when you will place these reasons before
when you will place these reasons before your counterparts and that person will
your counterparts and that person will
your counterparts and that person will respond in kind and good reasons your
respond in kind and good reasons your
respond in kind and good reasons your relationship will be much much improved
relationship will be much much improved
relationship will be much much improved and now the last step the second one
and now the last step the second one
and now the last step the second one that is my favorite I just always want
that is my favorite I just always want
that is my favorite I just always want to do this celebrate as like celebrate
to do this celebrate as like celebrate
to do this celebrate as like celebrate so whenever you improve your
so whenever you improve your
so whenever you improve your relationship do this celebration is the
relationship do this celebration is the
relationship do this celebration is the most important factor if you want to
most important factor if you want to
most important factor if you want to improve your relationship celebrate it
improve your relationship celebrate it
improve your relationship celebrate it celebrate your relationship do whatever
celebrate your relationship do whatever
celebrate your relationship do whatever there is possible for your relationships
there is possible for your relationships
there is possible for your relationships to be improved
to be improved
to be improved now let me summon up it all give them a
now let me summon up it all give them a
now let me summon up it all give them a reason to stay until they find their own
reason to stay until they find their own
reason to stay until they find their own first reignite the feelings establish a
first reignite the feelings establish a
first reignite the feelings establish a connection not about any
connection not about any
connection not about any misunderstandings it’s for a reason so
misunderstandings it’s for a reason so
misunderstandings it’s for a reason so Mateo ego Newton’s law about reciprocity
Mateo ego Newton’s law about reciprocity
Mateo ego Newton’s law about reciprocity and celebrate as like celebrate Oh
and celebrate as like celebrate Oh
and celebrate as like celebrate Oh before going and before leaving the
before going and before leaving the
before going and before leaving the stage I would like to do a very simple
stage I would like to do a very simple
stage I would like to do a very simple prayer I would like to say that me the
prayer I would like to say that me the
prayer I would like to say that me the holy Lord bless your relationships may
holy Lord bless your relationships may
holy Lord bless your relationships may they be more fruitful ones may they last
they be more fruitful ones may they last
they be more fruitful ones may they last the day glory and may they change thank
the day glory and may they change thank
the day glory and may they change thank you very much
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