Everyone in the production said that the pain was painful
Is production painful?
I have a very good friend when we were a roommate
Later, after graduating from his institute, he went to Zhuke as Human Resources Management.
He went to India to travel with two backpackers
He went to Japan to work for a year
The next thing he returned to Taiwan
It is to marry him
Then go to Taoyuan New House to grow organic strawberries
Does everyone sound like this woman is very powerful?
Has determination and perseverance, good physical strength, and personality, perseverance and patience.
And it will plan things
I thought wow such a life kid at that time
It must be no problem
I was wrong
When I went to see him, he was very weak on the bed.
Then the whole person is white because of excessive exertion
It’s very much like a rabbit lying on the other side
I asked him exactly what happened
He told me: “The production is really painful and terrible
If I don’t live, I can only be angry with my husband.”
Why did he suffer such pain?
Finally, the nurse pushed himself out of bed and pressed his stomach to push the child out.
He didn’t have the strength to look at the baby after he’d finished and he burst into tears.
Every time we see that beautiful description
It’s all right to tell you that tears will leave you moving
He said not
At that time, he realized that the tears were not touched
It was you who finally ended all these kind of happy tears.
That day I was pregnant for just three months
I got my first mother’s manual in the same hospital
Soon I had a second friend produced
His production story is even more legendary
He is going to the obstetrics and gynecology department for routine checkups on the way to work.
The result was left by the doctor to stay in the hospital to observe
Lying in bed, tied fetal heart sound monitoring
As a result, this lie lays from eight in the morning to five in the morning
Then in the absence of any pain
The medical staff asked him if you had come or you did it painlessly
His husband also told him that anyway, medical advancement is not so bad.
He hit it, but it’s dawn. What if he hasn’t had any feeling of having a baby yet?
The doctor also advised him to say that we have to give birth.
I help you break the amniotic fluid
Just three hours later at noon
The child finally came out of the end of this completely artificial natural production.
Even the birthday of his child’s birthday can be said to be determined by the doctor.
At that time, I thought wow was really the same thing as TV and movie production.
There are so many things that you can’t help yourself
Are women in Taiwan really less likely to have children?
In fact, the laparotomy rate in Taiwan is among the best in the world.
This is very powerful for us
You can turn to look at each other
One in three people is born via caesarean section
Do you know you were born in a Caesarean section?
Or your own wife is a caesarean child
In Taiwan, this ratio is really high
Very amazing
In addition to this, the rate of giving birth to pain relief is more than 50%.
In the past, when doctors were more self-disciplined, they would tell you that you wouldn’t be able to fight until you reach a certain stage.
We have all heard this and you can’t fight it right now
Then wait until you really want to play
He will tell you again, ah, you have no time to fight.
There was a time limit to playing painlessly before, so not everyone can call
But now, there are private clinics starting to advertise that the anesthetics we help you are playing well.
Before you start your pain, I will help you hit the moment after your production.
I also went to visit such a woman
I asked him if you didn’t feel any pain in your production
He told me that there is a monitor that will fluctuate with uterine contractions.
So when the ups and downs came, the doctor and the nurse would tell him that they are now using force
He tried to take a hard look
Finally, the doctors and nurses will still help and finish the production.
Giving birth is more abuse. We can imagine it.
Everyone around you who has ever produced it should know it.
If you haven’t reached the due date, the doctor will tell you if you want to give birth
Or if the children are too big, they will be very bad. We often hear this right.
If the child is too big, he will never come out.
If you have a due date we will say you should check it out
Or else your placenta will age
Women will not only age the skin, our placenta will also age
Say you have come to give birth, but you have not given birth yet to spawn
Because he’ll tell you that it’s better to master the time
If you already have a doctor who is already in pain, or will tell you
Don’t give birth to it so you may end within two or three hours
More able to grasp time
We Taiwanese really pay attention to speed
So we also need to save time in the delivery room.
But there is a number I think is even more noteworthy
Maternity in Taiwan
The rate of births delivered by a midwife is the lowest in the world
Only 0.06 %
From now on, 19 to 200,000 and sometimes to 210,000 each year.
When the Year of the Dragon arrives at 210,000 newborns
There are only about one hundred children each year. Newborns are midwives deliveries.
I think we shouldn’t be so fortunate enough to have a midwife to give birth.
Are you older? Maybe you have it?
Wait for me to talk to you about this matter
Younger classmates may think about midwifery
Is this something that still exists in Taiwan?
But you can recall that a few years ago, when Britain’s King Kate ordered him to give birth to a child,
Do you remember that photo?
He stood with the newborn Prince William in front of the hospital
Very happy to wave with everyone
At that time everyone was surprised
Think how he can be so neat and beautiful
We went to run a marathon and it looked like he was tired
But he had a child.
At this time, Taiwan’s medical community certainly said
Westerners have different pelvic chambers
Westerners’ vagina is different from orientals
The Western woman’s perineum differs from the Oriental woman
But one thing they forgot to tell us
It’s that Kate’s production method is different from that of Taiwanese women.
Princess Kate’s two consecutive births were delivered by a midwife team at the hospital
In fact, Taiwan had a very brilliant history of midwifery
Before the Japanese dynasty, it was the time when your aunty had children.
Maybe it’s your Azu.
Their production is delivered by a mother-in-law in the village.
The mother-in-law is having production experience and is rather afraid of seeing blood and acting very calmly.
The smarter village will say which aunt to find an aunt to deliver
They are birth mothers
However, during the Japanese occupation
The Japanese government first introduced Western medicine to Taiwan
New style birth maternity training started
After the Nationalist government came to Taiwan, we can also say that he has enjoyed it.
They accepted this group of officially trained women very naturally.
Continue to engage in midwifery
So the status of the midwife at that time was full of noble
He can not only open a midwife, he can send food at home
He can also enter the hospital to cooperate with doctors to produce children
However, as Taiwan slowly received more Western medical influence
The status of the midwife has also gradually changed
Tell us a few numbers
In fact, in 1951 doctors gave birth only 3%
Are there people born in 1951 here?
The rate of doctors attendance in 1957 was 8%
Did you find it still very low?
92% of the delegates are still midwives deliveries
In the following 1962, the feeling was full of modernity, right?
Only 14% of the people were doctors
But since the change in 1964, we should remember that two children are just fine.
At that time, the Taiwan government began to push for family planning.
Encourage women to give birth to a third child
It is necessary to install a uterus device in the body.
However, this is an invasive medical practice.
Government regulations can only be performed by a gynaecologist in a hospital
So women who were originally looking for midwife production
Will be referred to the doctor by the midwife
By obstetrician and obstetrician
This is actually the history of medicine in Taiwan.
I think it is an important turning point
However, few people noticed this matter
Because by 1983
I was born in 1982
By 1983
I’m sorry I’ve skipped an era
1972 is the doctor’s birth rate
First time exceeded midwife
By mid-1983, only 15% of births were delivered by midwives.
Equal to say 85% of children are born in the hospital
One more important thing happened in 1992
Public hospitals they canceled the preparation of the original midwife
So we probably didn’t need to go to the hospital to have children at that time in 1992
When you go to the hospital, you will find that the hospital can not hire midwifery midwives.
They need to hire nursing staff.
In 1995, the National Health Insurance started
At that time, the government made a second and important decision.
Our National Health Insurance
Did not put midwifery into the health insurance system
Of course, afterwards, the midwife gathered and protested on the street
But these two things are enough to hit the industry
So when it was 1997,
Midwife has only 0.13% of deliveries
330,000 newborns that year
Only 500 are delivered by a midwife
Did you know what happened when midwifery disappeared in Taiwan?
It’s very simple, that is, 70% of people are born in hospital.
30% of people are born in the clinic
Whether you are a high-risk or low-risk woman
As long as you are born in these two places you have to put on patient clothes
Then you will be repeatedly returned by the hospital
You have to spawn
You may fight without pain. You have to be pressured. You will cut a knife.
Every woman almost cuts a knife. The cut rate of the perineum in Taiwan is about 99.9%.
After the cut, you will be hospitalized for three days.
Go to the confinement center
Finish production
But I don’t think it’s true that women in Jerusalem are instinct for production.
Women can be pregnant and we can produce
In my imagination, the production I want is
There will be a person who can take good care of me
He will give me a great guide like I am going to climb a mountain
He will take me with him to find out the route and prepare for the equipment
Physical training tells me how I want to give birth to my child
August 2nd, 2013 at 2 a.m.
I just fell red and I started to suffer
I prepared a small production stand at home
I used a tatami old towel to arrange a very comfortable corner
The temperature I set at the most comfortable 27 degrees
I was on the toilet when it was very painful
My dog is my most faithful waiter. It never left me.
Later 11 am midwife came to my house
It was already a long time since my 2 o’clock pain had passed.
He helped me massage him and helped me change posture
He told me that I do not need to use force
I only need to use the power of contraction
Everything is going to be very, very slow and your perineum will not tear
So you’re better off doing nothing but slowly
Let the child come out and I will listen to him
Relying on your own strength and pain
Later he asked me if you don’t believe you can do it.
I think I told him I believe
He asked me again: Do you believe your baby can do it?
I told him that I also believe in
Then he said it would be no problem
Later, we went to this again at 3 o’clock in the afternoon.
It has been more than twelve hours at this time
He told me that when you want to have a child
I told him that I think the time is almost a little longer
I’m a bit tired. I want to give birth at 3:30.
Later, I finished production at 3:37
I really gave birth to my child in the expected time
My feeling at that time was
I have a professional caregiver whom I trust very much
He gave me enough support and affirmation
Let me know how I can finish my production
And he not only cares about my uterine cervix expanding a few centimeters.
He can also take care of my heart
My family My partner My dog My good friend They are all with me
This is a very important moment in my life
Of course someone asked me
And I can walk and bathe myself the next day
I can sit and feed
I am not a patient. I just gave birth to a child.
So I don’t need to be sick in bed at all
Every time I see my friends and family, they tell me that you’re going to lay down
You must lie down
Or what will happen to you?
But I asked them that I really think I am very good
I’m in good shape and I can sweep
After a few days I cooked my meal
I think that I don’t have production in the hospital
Let me think that I am not actually a patient
I just created a new member for this family
My friend asked me whether you are afraid
Production is so risky
I told him that, honestly speaking, I was very scared and I was very nervous
But I just knew that there is a risk in production
So before the production I fully talked with my healthcare staff and my midwifery team
Do a very complete communication
I think that’s a very, very important thing
Because if I hold everything that holds everything
There is no problem in handing all production to the hospital
I think that’s the worst idea
I feel like to be a responsible woman
Is to use my own production talent
Find a trusted medical team that I respect
Use the most suitable method together
We respect each other’s trust
Find a production method that suits you best
I think this is a responsible production of responsible mothers
Later I gave birth to a second child
I really want to strengthen my first production experience
I think people’s production can be better than once
This time I was at home very close to the time
August 5, 2017
I get up at the toilet at 6:30 in the morning
I knew it was wrong. I just woke my husband and said I feel strange. I want to have a baby.
He also fell asleep for half an hour and I woke him up again.
I really think I’m going to have children. You may want to prepare
He went to help me buy coffee for breakfast
We started this day very homely
The midwife arrived at us like an inflatable swimming pool in an hour
In warm water, it can greatly reduce the pain of labor pains
My documentary director friends help me to leave a dynamic and video record
The baby you just saw is already four years old.
Before production, we saw a lot of picture books and books about production of film production.
So he knew exactly how he could support me to help me
He knows that there is a major event happening at home today
It was very smooth that we completed production in three hours
My son should be the third person to hold the baby
My friend My family My wife My director
My son, my dog, we ate together for lunch and ate together to eat cake
The day we listened to music that day was my own production party.
I think I really have a great production
None of us will forget this day
But I still feel the difference between four years ago and four years later
I found that gentle production has become a popular
Some people feel that gentle production means that mothers do not feel pain at all.
Some people think that gentle production is for maternal five-star delivery room
There are brand name bath products
But I think gentle production is for me
It has nothing to do with places and birth attendants
Thoughts in my heart
Gentle production should be fully informed by mothers
What are the conditions under which
With professional medical staff midwifery team
Find out which one is best for you
And we respect each other not what I say is what
Because I believe their professional judgment will give me the best choice
I also hope that you will hope that you will not feel this important life event?
I don’t want me to be panic fear and pain
There is joy I hope I can feel completely
This is a wakefulness for me as a woman’s body autonomy.
I don’t think we each have children
Especially in the presence of many men
The presence of women does not necessarily want to have children
But we must all come to this world through production
Production may not be perfect
And we can also say that it will never be perfect
Production experience can not be copied
However, this production (experience) must be able to bring me as a mother.
There are some different experiences in this family
Let our life have different changes
What I feel through production is actually
I rebuilt my personal life values
I often think
My production experience wants to be the same as
Why don’t I want to be the same as some people?
Who do I want to be like?
It was this child who brought me a life issue that I must think about.
I feel autonomous through production
I am very happy I can talk with my partner my family my friends my children
Walking on the road to production independence
I feel very happy and honored to have them
I also want to talk to you again
Production pain
The pain of production really hurts
Pain without pain
But I don’t think it’s going to be that kind of miserable pain
It can be a very happy thing
thank you all
(applause)
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